Don’t worry when I argue with you. Worry when I stop cause that just means there’s nothing left worth fighting for.

In relationships conflicts are opportunities to further understand and connect with one another. And our skills when it comes to arguing are mostly fostered through the observation of those who had an influence on us growing up…ie. parents, coaches, mentors, siblings, friends. Most of these people learned from others who have never actually navigated an argument where on the other side of it was deeper intimacy and love. Do you realize how rare that ability actually is? Most conflicting…