Have you ever been feeling incredible and then someone says something that throws you off? Like, someone technically complimented you but it feels weird like they actually insulted you? They had such a chipper demeanor and even seemed genuine, but something feels sour about it. That’s exactly what a backhanded compliment does to you. And sadly, most of the time, people don’t know they are giving a backhanded compliment.

Passive aggressiveness is like a snake that hides in plain sight. It’s never direct, but it’s always lurking, waiting for the right moment to strike. The sarcasm, the backhanded compliments, the subtle digs are all ways to dodge real conflict while trying to get under your skin. It’s a weak man’s attempt at confrontation, lacking the courage to face you head-on. A strong man confronts issues directly. He’s not afraid to be blunt, clear, and assertive. Cut that energy off before it pois...

You are really pretty in the face. You are the smartest Spanish chick I ever met. I’d think you were sexy when you lost LBs. These, sadly, are things people have said to me in my past. Th…

We’ve all had our fair share of backhanded compliments, envious remarks, or even overt insults in our lives. And it’s hard not to lose your temper and start arguing with the person who was trying to offend you. However, it’s really not worth your time and energy, and there are some things you can say or do instead that can spare your nerves and quickly end an unnecessary conversation.