Was him giving her the same attention he used to give me. That is how I knew it was never me. That is how I realized he gives everyone the same treatment. That is why when people tell me he misses me I don't believe it, bc all he ever did was prove the opposite. Silent treatments and yelling, defensiveness and cursing. It's all too much for me. A woman knows when she should fight for a man and when to let that man figure himself out. Can't treat her that way and expect her to chase you.