Family scapegoat.

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In a narcissistic family system, the unwritten rule is often “what happens at home, stays at home.” This fosters a culture of secrecy and keeps the family’s dysfunction hidden from the outside world. It becomes a collective effort to shield these issues from outsiders, which only perpetuates the dysfunction. Within this environment, the scapegoat is often unfairly burdened with blame, criticism, and the negative projections of the family’s dysfunctions. The decision to sever ties with one’s…

Have you ever felt like the black sheep in your family? In narratives where narcissism rules, one child often assumes the scapegoat role. This pin unpacks how families assign blame, highlighting the emotional struggles scapegoat children face and the impact it can have over time. Learn about the subtleties that keep these patterns going and ways to support healing. Understanding these patterns can be a first step in breaking free from unhealthy dynamics

It is convenient for a family to have a scapegoat, as the other members don’t have to take as much personal responsibility. You might find that when you challenge other members of the family, they tell you their behaviour is totally acceptable (when it is not) and that your behaviour is not okay. This is likely to happen when you try to put a boundary in place. They don’t like it, so they push back, commenting again on your ‘over sensitivity’.

The Scapegoat