Positivityy ✨
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Bending over backwards for people is not selfless behaviour, especially when the motivation is to avoid confrontation or exclusion at the cost of your mental health and well-being. While “good” is a broad term, it’s definitely not about being a doormat or seeing how much you can endure. True goodness comes from a place of authenticity, where kindness and self-respect walk hand in hand. People often distinguish between being nice and being kind. The argument is that niceness can be superfic...
Imagine walking down the street, and someone approaches you asking if you want to buy a cool gadget that you’ve never seen before. They show you a live demonstration, and you instantly feel like you need it. You ask them how much it’ll cost you, and they proceed to tell you, “This normally retails at $100, so you name your price.” Like most people, you might use the figure they gave you (the only information you have) and then propose an offer. Going higher would have you at a loss, and go...