Life has taught me that you can't control someone's loyalty. No matter how good you are to them, doesn't mean they'll treat you the same. No matter how much they mean to you, doesn't mean they'll value you the same. Sometimes the people you love most, turn out to be the people you can trust the least.

You can't trust anyone anymore. Even your spouse can throw you under the bus without warning.

I sit back...

Some people are liars. Yes, people will lie to you. People will lie on you. Lying is a maladaptive fear based response to perceived consequences. Children lie to avoid punishment or disappointing someone. Adults lie for the same reasons...and to manipulate situations so they can control them. Orloff said, "The great power of relationships is when you can tell the truth to one another, and trust each other, and be authentic — and with pathological liars you can't trust them.

Snakes don't hiss anymore.. they call you babe, bro or friend