Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their toxic behavior but never discuss their disrespect that triggered you.

Being a victim is sometimes convenient. It takes the pressure off us. It's easy to say "well they do this and this is why I'm like this or act like that." A mentality like that allow you to use as many excuses as possible. It's a whole different ball game to say "they did this or that but I have a life to live and I can't let their wrong keep me from doing what is right for me and what is right period." It requires too much maturity and accountability.

But It's still all love. https://www.pinterest.com/pin/310396599316587551/

Everyone knows that hypocrites say one thing and do another. Here are 5 hidden behaviors a hypocrite displays before revealing themselves....

Own your shit, don't blame others for your shit. #thoughts #tweets #quotes #reminder #notestoself #motivation