I prefer the new book, agreeing with the author when she writes that in the diaries there is “something raw and dark, without salvation, a kind of oblation.”

Some went to the extent of pouring milk over the image in an oblation ritual reserved for idol worship in Hindu temples.

Just as oblations to the poor will puff up one’s sense of self, “tipping well” — 20 percent or more — is a measure of one’s personal decency.

I thank God, who has deigned to accept this final oblation from me.

Marriage and funeral ceremonies were refused until the fees demanded were paid in advance, and the Eucharist was withheld from the communicant unless he offered an oblation.