shoes: 6 sweaters/sweatshirts: XL or XXL dont bother with: pants, dresses, skirts, etc tshirts: L or XL LOVE: stuffed animals (teddies, elephants, etc) painting/drawing supplies band merch gift cards honestly, i just like hugs. this list is more just for me to kinda document what i like- i'm not suggesting that anyone should buy me any of this.