“I can do it myself.” This has very little to do with pride, its not ego based. It stems from how one built themselves from a very young age. It is the very thing that makes them who they are because of circumstances. We learn by teaching and loving others regardless. When we allow someone to help, give or care for us its the purest form of love. To allow another to see you and still want to care for you, is to love. Best advice i can give from my own learning, is to let go of control and…