Remember, it's important to prioritize your own boundaries and well-being. You don't have to sacrifice them just to make someone else comfortable. Setting healthy boundaries is essential for maintaining emotional balance and self-respect. Stand firm in advocating for yourself while being considerate of others' feelings too.

Hypothetically (cuz im very taken) It's perfectly fine for someone to not date me for any reason whatsoever. Even if its shallow and looks based. Why would I want someone to date me then try to control me?

When someone oversteps your boundaries, they're letting you know what you wanted didn't matter and what someone else wanted did. The edge of disrespect happens when someone elses feelings are chosen over yours.