How to get her to masturbate for you
Masturbation can be a tricky subject for some women; while most enjoy it on a regular basis, few would be comfortable openly discussing such things with a significant other. This is often the result of having been raised to think of it as an inappropriate (and unnecessary) indulgence. Fortunately, this mindset is fully reversible. And it’s easier than you think. All she needs is the right encouragement and a man who’s willing to let her set the pace. Try one of the following tips and it won’t be long before she discovers how much of a turn-on masturbating for you can be.

Express a desire to watch

This is, without a doubt, the key factor in getting her to touch herself. If it’s her first time, she’ll be faced with a number of mental obstacles, one of them being performance anxiety. Add to that the fact that most women don’t fantasize about watching men masturbate, and she may have difficulty believing you really want to see her do this. She may also feel like she’s being placed under a microscope, which can lead to worries about how she appears during the performance. Let her know it’s guaranteed to drive you wild and she’ll gain the confidence needed to tease you into oblivion.

Helping hand: Turn her on with the usual foreplay and then ask if she ever gets hot when thinking about you. When she admits to doing so, soften your voice and ask if she touches herself as well. She may be slightly embarrassed by the question, but rest assured that it will have excited her. Once she’s fully aroused, share your fantasies. Tell her how badly you want to watch; tell her how sexy it would be. Convince her, and watch how quickly she warms to the idea.

Help her masturbate

If you know she’s too shy to have an open discussion about masturbation, this is an excellent way to help her ease into it. The idea is to guide her through it, showing how perfectly acceptable -- and fun -- it can be to touch herself for you. By guiding her hand to her clitoris, the masturbation taboo is slightly diminished because she’s not doing it completely on her own. She’s doing it with you, which can make all the difference to a woman having difficulty suppressing her inhibitions. Helping her masturbate will eventually lead to her flying solo for you, after she’s realized how pleasurable the experience it can be.

Helping hand: This works best when she’s already turned on and down to her knickers. Get her into a kneeling position and slide behind her on the bed. Slide her hands over the curve of her waist, her tummy and her breasts -- areas that aren’t going to freak her out. Show her how sexy it can be to touch herself with a man’s assistance. Once she’s begging for something more, ask her to touch herself and slowly guide her fingers downward to her clitoris. Let her set the pace -- you may lead, but go too quickly and it could backfire. Be patient and there’s a good chance she’ll let your fingers do the walking.

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