Male Hospitality: The Bible Sets the Example
Andrew B. Spurgeon
excellence of male hospitality.4 Other patriarchs
As an Indian, I grew up understanding
also exercised such male hospitality. For
hospitality to be important. We offered visitors
The New Testament has
example, Lot saw two men (who were angels)
water, coffee, or chai as they entered our home.
several examples of people
coming to his city. Immediately, he got up, met
If they came at lunch hour, we invited them to
them, greeted them with a respectful bow, and
a meal. Hospitality was ingrained in me as a
showing hospitality to Jesus
invited them to come to his house. He washed
South Asian value. But my mother and sisters
and his disciples.
their feet and invited them to spend the
prepared the food, set the table, and washed the
night. When they accepted his invitation, he
dishes. Without so many words, I was told that
prepared them bread without yeast. They ate and rested (Gen 19:1–3).
hospitality was not a male’s task. I was not invited into the kitchen, and
Job, too, was so gracious to his visitors that he could proudly claim, “No
I ate with the guests, unlike my mother and sisters, who served us. This
stranger had to spend the night in the street, for my door was always
pattern changed when I became a Christian and realized hospitality
open to the traveler” (Job 31:32).5 Others include the father of a woman
is as much a male virtue as a female one. When we have unexpected
who hosted her and her Levite husband for four days (Judg 19:1–7), and
guests, I am the one who fixes supper, since I can cook up quick dishes.
Laban who took Jacob, a runaway, into his household (Gen 29:13-14).
When meals are pre-planned, my wife cooks, and I wash dishes.
Hospitality, however, is more than fixing dinners. Among other things,
it is about welcoming people, showing them around a city, making
them feel comfortable in their new environment, visiting prisoners,
caring for migrant workers, taking care of people’s emotional needs,
helping people with language acquisition, appreciating people with
disabilities, helping undocumented migrants, caring for the poor.
The two Greek words that best describe hospitality are philoxenia
and xenodocheō.1 The first is a combination of “love” (philos) and
“stranger” (xenos), and the second is a combination of “stranger”
(xenos) and “receive” (docheō). Hospitality is “a love for the stranger”
which leads us to “receiving them” into our home.2 Often, people
assume hospitality is a friendship extended to someone they know
or are acquainted with. But genuine hospitality is a friendship we
extend to someone we do not know, such as a traveler, migrant,
refugee, or someone who is homeless or socially awkward. It is
giving people a safe space where they can be who they are without
being afraid. Henri Nouwen writes,
The paradox of hospitality is that it wants to create emptiness,
not a fearful emptiness, but a friendly emptiness where
strangers can enter and discover themselves as created free;
free to sing their own songs, speak their own languages, and
dance their own dances; free also to leave and follow their
own vocations. Hospitality is not a subtle invitation to adopt
the lifestyle of the host, but the gift of a chance for the guest
to find his own.3
In the midday heat, Abraham sat at the entrance to his tent, by the
great trees of Mamre, to cool himself. He noticed three men standing
some distance off. Immediately, he rose, ran to them, greeted them,
and welcomed them to his tent. He washed their feet and invited them
to rest while he instructed Sarah to take the finest flour, knead it, and
make bread for the guests. He then ran to the herd, selected a tender
calf, and gave it to a servant to prepare for a feast. As the meal was being
prepared, Abraham returned with curds and milk to offer the guests
and waited on them (Gen 18:1–8). Abraham thus set the example par
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The NT has several examples of people showing hospitality to Jesus
and his disciples. A couple in Cana invited Jesus and the disciples to
their wedding as their special guests and received a special blessing
(John 2:1–11).6 Similarly, the sisters Martha and Mary, of Bethany,
invited Jesus and his friends to their home and fed them meals
(Luke 10:38–42). Upon being healed from a fever that oppressed her,
Peter’s mother-in-law got up and served the guests (Matt 8:14–15).7
A woman washed Jesus’s feet with her tears, wiped them clean with
her hair, and anointed them with pure nard (Luke 7:38).
In this article, I will show several examples of men who
showed hospitality, starting with the familiar understanding of
hospitality—entertaining visitors—and moving to the spiritual
elements of hospitality. The goal is to show that hospitality is a
virtue all Christians can practice, regardless of gender or culturally
assigned roles, and it is a great tool to draw people to our hospitable
God. This is needed because, in cultures like mine, even Christians
assume hospitality is a female virtue. Churches are no exception: for
communal meals, for example, all responsibilities fall on women.
Similarly, caring for children in nurseries or teaching Sunday
schools is women’s responsibility. Hospitality, however, should be
every Christian’s responsibility regardless of one’s gender.
Zacchaeus
The story of Zacchaeus magnificently expresses the primary
expression of hospitality. Jesus and his disciples were passing through
Jericho. Zacchaeus, a wealthy tax collector, was anxious to see who
Jesus was—someone he had heard of and someone people praised.
Perhaps Zacchaeus even desired to have an audience with Jesus. But
he could not see Jesus because of the crowd and his stature. “He was
small [micros] in his height” (Luke 19:3). Those obstacles did not
faze his willpower. He ran ahead of the crowd, climbed a sycamore
tree, and waited to see Jesus as he passed. His efforts brought him an
audience with Jesus, an invitation for Jesus to enter his house and
remain (menō) and lodge (kataluō) with him (19:5, 7).8
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We have often heard this story and thought Jesus stopped at
Zacchaeus’s house for supper. However, the words “remain” and
“lodge” imply someone spending at least a day and night with
someone. Jesus camped at a sinner’s house. Zacchaeus, looked down
upon because of his profession and stature, became Jesus’s host.
Zacchaeus’s hospitality, however, did not end with hosting Jesus
and his disciples. He voluntarily offered to give away half of his
possessions to the poor and repay anyone who had incurred damages
because he had misrepresented their case in a law court.9 He said he
would pay them four times their losses, perhaps including their court
and legal fees (19:8).
One act of basic hospitality—showing generosity to someone
he secretly admired, Jesus—led Zacchaeus to further levels of
hospitality such as caring for the poor and righting the wrongs he
had done. That is the beauty of hospitality; once it begins, it causes
ripples like a pebble tossed into a lake.
Matthew the Tax Collector
Beside the Sea of Galilee, where tax collectors sat in booths to
collect taxes, Jesus’s attention fell on Matthew. He invited Matthew
to follow him (Matt 9:9).10 Matthew obeyed and followed Jesus
as they made their way to Matthew’s house. (Talk about inviting
oneself to someone’s house!)11 There, Matthew hosted a meal for
Jesus and invited his friends—fellow tax collectors and sinners.
They all ate together with Jesus and his disciples.
What could have been a happy occasion of celebration turned
ugly and awkward when the Pharisees asked the disciples, “Why
does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?” (9:11).
Before they could answer, Jesus came to their defense and said,
“The healthy do not need physicians but the sickly do” (9:12). His
statement would have puzzled both groups. The tax collectors and
the sinners would have been shocked that their invited guests
were insulting them by calling them sickly. At the same time, the
Pharisees would have agreed that the sinners and tax collectors
were sick but disagreed that they needed a teacher like Jesus.
Genuine hospitality does not camouflage truth but exposes it. Yes,
the tax collectors and the sinners were sickly and needed healing.
That was why Jesus invited himself to their house for dinner and
fellowshipped with them.
would have joined the dinner. Instead, they did not understand
mercy and could not practice hospitality—either to offer it or to
receive it.
When the root is rotten, the fruits become inedible and the tree withers.
Similarly, when we lack mercy for strangers, we fail in hospitality.
Simon the Pharisee
Jesus had friends in both low and high places. Simon was a Pharisee.
He had asked Jesus to eat with him (Luke 7:36).12 Whether in
haste, nervousness, arrogance, or with an air of superiority, Simon
failed to have a servant wash Jesus’s feet with water, give him a
welcome kiss, or anoint his head with the oil of gladness (7:44–46).
Nevertheless, they began eating.
As they did, a woman of disrepute found out that Jesus was
eating in the house of the Pharisee Simon and came, bringing an
alabaster jar. Simon welcomed her into his home, which showed
his mercy (unlike the Pharisees who objected to Jesus eating
with Matthew). But when she stood behind Jesus’s feet, wept
over them, wiped them with her hair, and anointed them with
the perfumed oil from her alabaster jar, Simon’s faith in Jesus as
a prophet failed. Would not a prophet know that she was a sinner
and distance himself from her (7:39)? While Simon wondered
about Jesus’s prophetic abilities, Jesus read his mind and asked
him a question. Would someone who was forgiven a larger debt
have greater gratitude than a person who was forgiven a lesser
debt? Simon knew the answer. Jesus said that the women’s
actions were a measure of her sinfulness, the forgiveness she
received, and the gratitude she felt.
Simon was a Pharisee and would have meticulously followed the
etiquette related to ancient hospitality. Yet, this time he failed,
perhaps because he did not care much for his guests. Whatever
the reason, he failed in showing genuine hospitality. In his place
as a host another uninvited guest made up for what he lacked and
thereby received a great commendation from the Lord.
Our failure to recognize the immensity of God’s hospitable
forgiveness of our sins can prevent us from showing genuine
hospitality to someone else. Those who are forgiven the most love
the most by showing the most hospitality.
While the tax collectors and sinners had their faults, so did the
Pharisees. They did not know God desired his people to show mercy
more than offer him sacrifices (9:13). David had said it (Ps 40:6),
and the prophet Hosea had prophesied it (6:6), and the Pharisees
would have known it but did not apply it in their lives. They should
have shown mercy to those tax collectors and sinners. While the
Pharisees failed, Jesus offered the tax collectors and sinners God’s
mercy and called them to have fellowship with God.
Cornelius the Centurion
Hospitality stems from a person’s desire to show mercy (eleos) to
others. The editors of the Septuagint (the Greek version of the
OT) often translated the Hebrew word hesed as eleos, “mercy.”
God’s hesed was his covenantal faithfulness to his people even
when they did not follow him. Similarly, if the Pharisees had
displayed mercy towards the tax collectors and sinners, they
In the meantime, Peter debated with God in visions, not wanting to
eat food he considered unclean. But the visions were not about food.
They were about Peter going as a missionary to non-Jews, especially
Cornelius the Roman centurion. Realizing his defeat, Peter went
with the messengers to Cornelius’s house, shared the gospel with
them and, upon their acceptance, baptized them. As Peter shared
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Cornelius was a Roman centurion in the Italian Regiment. He
and his family were YHWH worshippers who gave generously to
the poor and regularly prayed to God (Acts 10:1–3). Because of
his piety and generosity, an angel appeared and instructed him
to send a messenger to Joppa and bring Peter to their house for
further instructions.
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the gospel with them, the Holy Spirit came upon Cornelius and his
family, surprising the Hebrews that the gift of the Holy Spirit had
been given even to people of other nations (10:44–45).
Cornelius’s hospitality—offering alms to the poor (10:2, 4, 31)—
was richly rewarded with God pouring his generous gift of the
Holy Spirit upon him and his family. Meanwhile, it also taught
Peter not to be prejudiced and call people unclean when God has
called them clean.
The Philippian Jailer
Paul’s hospitality of freeing a possessed slave girl landed him
and Silas in prison in Philippi (Acts 16:16–24). About midnight,
Paul and Silas were praying and singing hymns to God, and
fellow prisoners were listening to them. Suddenly, a miraculous
earthquake shook the prison’s foundations, so the doors flung
open and loosened everyone’s chains. The jailer woke up, saw
the opened doors, assumed every prisoner had escaped and took
a sword to kill himself. Paul shouted, “Don’t harm yourself. We
are all here” (16:28). Realizing that his prisoners had not escaped
while they could have, the jailer brought a light and fell before Paul
and Silas trembling. He asked them what he must do to be saved.
They asked him to believe in the Lord Jesus to be saved. He and his
family did and were baptized that very night.
His escape from certain death and receiving salvation led him to
hospitality. At that hour, the jailor took Paul and Silas, washed
their wounds, and fed them (16:33). His salvation from physical
and spiritual deaths led him to show hospitality even to prisoners
that he was to guard, inflict pain upon, and perhaps kill.
Philip the Evangelist
Eunuchs were people with severed, mutilated, or partial genitals
(Matt 19:12). In ancient days, kings appointed them as guards of
their harems (2 Kgs 20:18; Esth 1:10). Because of their imperfection,
people ill-treated them, but God cared for them. Through Isaiah,
he promised them a place within his temple and the walls of the
holy city, provided they kept the Sabbath, pleased God, and held
fast to his covenant (Isa 56:4–5a). He would give them a name that
was better than what sons and daughters had, an everlasting name
that would endure forever (56:5).
Centuries later, an Ethiopian eunuch, a court official of the Candace,
the queen of the Ethiopians, was reading a scroll of Isaiah (Acts
8:26–40).13 He was reading a passage three chapters earlier than
where God promised eunuchs a place in his temple and holy city
and an everlasting name. He was reading Isa 53:7–8 (Acts 8:32–33).
Just then, Philip met him, and asked if he understood what he was
reading (8:30). The eunuch invited Philip to climb the chariot and
explain the passage to him. Philip, without hesitating to sit with
a eunuch, climbed into the chariot, explained the passage to him,
showed Jesus to him, and baptized him.
Both the eunuch and Philip showed hospitality to one another.
The eunuch invited him to join him in his chariot, and Philip
accepted it without hesitation. Because of hospitality, salvation
came to that eunuch.
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Onesiphorus of Ephesus
One person we rarely hear about yet who refreshed Paul’s heart
was Onesiphorus (2 Tim 1:16; 4:19). In both references, Paul did
not greet him but his family, implying that he may have died for his
faith. Nevertheless, he refreshed (anapsuchō) Paul many a time and
was not ashamed of his imprisonments (1:16). The verb anapsuchō
occurs only in this passage in the NT, but it occurs seven times in
the Septuagint, including in the context of Sabbath: “You work six
days and cease from all your work on the seventh so that your ox
and your donkey rest, and the children of your servants and resident
aliens are refreshed” (Exod 23:12). Whatever Onesiphorus did for
Paul was like fresh cool air that revives a person on a hot day.
The Rich Man in the Parable of Lazarus
The NT also has parables in which men exercise hospitality. Not all
men were equally hospitable, leading Jesus to narrate a rich man’s
life (Luke 16:19–31). He dressed himself in purple cloth—perhaps
dyed by the expensive ink of a mussel—and in fine linen and
enjoyed a luxurious life.14 But, he ignored the poor person camped
by his gate, a man covered with sores from malnutrition and poor
hygiene, whose only companions were dogs that came and licked
his wounds. He longed to eat, at least, the crumbs that fell from
the rich man’s table, like dogs that scavenge under masters’ tables.
Because of his lax hospitality, the rich man found the tables turned
in Hades. From there, he saw the poor man, Lazarus, leaning on
the bosom of Abraham, an imagery of luxury, while he was thirsty
and miserable. So, in agonizing heat, he begged Father Abraham
to have pity on him and send Lazarus to dip the tip of one of his
fingers in water and cool his tongue. Abraham refused.
Parable or real, this story illustrates the consequence of
inhospitality. Times can change when the wealthy become poor
and need the help of the poor that they once ignored. Were the
rich man hospitable to the poor man, perhaps Lazarus would have
welcomed him into eternity (Luke 16:9).
The Good Samaritan
Although only a story, the story of a kindhearted Samaritan traveler
shows a hospitality that transcends racial hostility. Knowing his
time had come for him to be tried and killed, Jesus left Galilee
and traveled towards Judea (Luke 9:51). The Samaritans would
not let him pass through their village, angering John and James,
but not Jesus (9:52–56). Within this context, a scribe wanting to
justify himself as a righteous person asked, “Who is my neighbor?”
(10:29). The Lord replied with a story.
A traveler between Jerusalem and Jericho fell victim to the attack
of the robbers, who stripped him of his clothes, beat him, and left
him to die—events that would soon happen in Jesus’s life. First, a
priest came by and saw the wounded man. Instead of helping him,
he walked to the other side of the road and continued his journey.
Soon, a Levite did the same. Thirdly, a Samaritan came by. He saw the
wounded man, took pity on him, bandaged his wounds after pouring
oil and wine on them, placed him on his donkey, took him to an
inn, gave the innkeeper money for the man’s rest and medicine, and
continued his journey after promising to repay whatever expenses the
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innkeeper occurred from caring for the wounded person (10:30–35).
The Samaritan’s hospitality overcame his prejudice against Jews,
unlike the people of a Samaritan village who would not let Jesus
pass through and unlike the disciples who wanted to bring fire from
heaven and destroy their enemies, the Samaritans.
Genuine hospitality goes beyond racial and caste prejudices to help
those in need. A wounded person is an injured person regardless
of his/her ethnicity, color, race, caste, creed, or gender. Everyone is
obligated to help them and show them hospitality.
The Hospitable Father
Seeing Jesus gladly welcoming tax collectors and sinners and
eating with them, the Pharisees and scribes murmured: “This man
welcomes sinners and eats with them” (Luke 15:1–2). So, the Lord
told a parable about a father and two sons (15:11–32). Whereas
the older son stayed home, obeyed his father’s laws, and did not
fellowship with sinners, the younger took a portion (meros) of his
father’s livelihood/business (ousia), went away to a foreign land,
and spent his wealth with sinners.15
Soon, the younger brother found himself in a predicament: He
was out of wealth and friends and had to eat food meant for pigs,
an animal abominable to the Jews. So, he decided to return to his
father, fearing what his father might say and willing to offer himself
to be a servant on his father’s estate. Upon seeing him, however,
the father was filled with compassion, ran to him, threw his arms
around him, hugged him, and kissed him (15:20). He commanded
his servants to bring the best robe to put on his younger son. He
gave him a ring for his finger and sandals for his feet (15:22). He
instructed the servants to kill the fattest calf and throw a feast to
celebrate his son’s return—one who was dead and now was alive,
who was lost and now was found (15:23–24).
The father’s hospitality angered the older brother, who did not waste
his father’s wealth. How could the father show such generosity to a
wasteful son? Yet, the Father’s heart was for the dead but now alive
son. Amos Yong has rightly said, “Christian hospitality is grounded in
the hospitable God who through the Incarnation has received creation
to himself and through Pentecost has given himself to creation.”16
Jesus ate with sinners and tax collectors to reflect his Father’s heart.
Others
In days when people enslaved people, Philemon, we can infer,
modeled hospitality by accepting a runaway slave as a Christian
brother. In addition, he hosted a church in his house (Phlm 1:1–2).
He had a spare bedroom for the apostle Paul (Phlm 1:22). Aquilla
and Priscilla hosted apostles and churches in their homes in
Corinth, Ephesus, and Rome (Acts 18:1–3; 2 Tim 4:19; Rom 16:3).
Other men who hosted churches in their houses include Narcissus
(Rom 16:11), Asyncritus (16:14), and Philologus (Rom 16:15).
The entire epistle of 3 John emphasizes the importance of
hospitality. The elder, most likely John the son of Zebedee, wrote
to Gaius, perhaps the leader of a local church. Gaius had been a
faithful minister and a hospitable guest to Christians and strangers
(zenos, v. 5). As such, those visitors told others of his love (v.
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6a). The elder exhorted Gaius to continue to practice such love
in hospitality (v. 6b) for it would benefit ministers who traveled
around without seeking help from unbelievers (v. 7). In short, all
Christians must show such hospitality towards anyone who does
God’s work (v. 8). Like Gaius, Demetrius practiced hospitality
to the point that everyone spoke well of him (v. 12). In contrast,
Diotrephes refused to show hospitality to itinerant visitors such
as the elder because he loved himself foremost (v. 9). His love for
himself and lack of hospitality led him to speak ill of others, even
of an apostle (v. 10a). He inhospitably refused to welcome other
Christians (v. 10b). Worse still, he prevented others from showing
hospitality (v. 10c). Believers must not imitate such evil (v. 11).
The same elder’s other two letters, 1 John and 2 John, explain that
one should mix discernment with hospitality to avoid mishaps
such as hosting false teachers and encouraging their teaching.
The elder wrote to “the chosen lady”: “Many deceivers, who do
not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone
out into the world. . . . If anyone comes to you and does not bring
this teaching [of Jesus’s incarnation], do not take them into your
house or welcome them. Anyone who welcomes them shares in
their wicked work” (2 John 1:7, 10). The churches and Christians
should be quick to show hospitality, but with discernment.
However, fear of false teachers should not prevent one from
showing hospitality.
Genuine hospitality goes beyond racial
and caste prejudices to help those in need.
Everyone is obligated to help them and
show them hospitality.
Benefits of Male Hospitality
In cultures that prohibit female interaction with non-family
members, like Abraham’s culture, men play a key role in hospitality.
Zacchaeus might have had a wife and family, but Jesus was an
unknown member and a leader in the community. As such,
Zacchaeus took the lead in hosting him. Similarly, Matthew, the tax
collector, would have been a prominent rich man in his city, and
he invited Jesus and his friends to his house for a fellowship meal.
Simon was a Pharisee, an elite in his culture. He alone could have
invited Jesus, another rabbi, to his house for a meal. Similarly, even
now, in some cultures, fathers and husbands alone can create an
atmosphere of hospitality.
Ancient cultures and some modern Asian cultures forbid physical
touch between opposite sexes. Bowing low (as in Korea and Japan)
or cupping one’s hands together in a gesture of respect (as in
Thailand and India) are the extent of one’s expression of respect
for the person of the other sex. In such contexts, once again, it is
men who can show gestures of kindness to other men, such as the
embrace and the kiss the father in the parable offered his son.
Even now, in many cultures, when the male head of a household
converts to Christianity, others in the family spontaneously became
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Christians. This should motivate evangelists to focus their ministries
on men as fathers and husbands. Their hospitable reception of the
Christian faith will open the way for others in the family to follow.
Male hospitality allows access to risky situations, as in the case
of the Samaritan who stopped on a dangerous route to attend to a
man recently attacked by bandits. This was perhaps why many of
the apostles and earliest missionaries were men traveling together
in dangerous situations to spread the gospel, the good news of
God’s welcoming, hospitable arms.
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Conclusion
I have shown ample examples of real or parabolic men who led the
way to help, host, treat, heal, and protect someone. As mentioned
earlier, in patriarchal cultures such as in India, hospitality is seen
as a female virtue. When a party is planned, the women always
take the lead in organizing, cooking, and cleaning. It should not
be so.17 Hospitality is everyone’s responsibility. This was why Paul,
Peter, and the author of Hebrews instructed Christians, male and
female, to show hospitality.
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Pursue hospitality (philoxenia, Rom 12:13).
Forget not hospitality (philoxenia, Heb 13:2).
Overseers and elders must be hospitable (philoxenos, 1
Tim 3:2; Titus 1:8).
All believers must be hospitable (philoxenos) to one
another without murmuring (1 Pet 4:9).
The author of Hebrews even gave an incentive to practice
hospitality: “By showing hospitality, some people accidentally
hosted angels” (13:2). I am sure he had in mind Abraham, Gideon,
and Cornelius, who hosted angels without knowing it. The same
was true of the disciples on the way to Emmaus. Because of
their hospitality, they saw the resurrected Jesus before his twelve
disciples did. Hospitality has its rewards. Let us be quick to show
hospitality to bystanders, wanderers, immigrants, refugees, the
homeless and, yes, even fellow Christians and family members.
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Notes
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5.
Philoxenia occurs in Rom 12:13 and Heb 13:2; xenodocheō
occurs in 1 Tim 5:10. The cognate philoxenos (“hospitable”)
occurs in 1 Tim 3:2, Titus 1:8, and 1 Pet 4:9.
Mounce writes, “In a day when inns were scarce and not always
desirable, it was critical for believers to extend hospitality to
Christians (and others) who were traveling.” Robert H. Mounce,
Romans, NAC 27, ed. E. Ray Clendenen and David S. Dockery
(Broadman & Holman, 1995) 263.
Henri J. M. Nouwen, Reaching Out: The Three Movements of the
Spiritual Life (Image, 1986) 68–69.
This story can be seen also from the guests’ perspective, showing
another element of hospitality: Ross writes, “Abraham’s
visitors meant to convey intimate fellowship. To eat together
was important for fellowship, peace offerings, and treaties.
When the Lord was ready to specify the fulfillment of the
covenantal promise, He came in person and ate in Abraham’s
tent. Nothing could more significantly communicate their
close relationship.” Allen P. Ross, Genesis, 2 vols., The Bible
Knowledge Commentary, ed. John F. Walvoord and Roy B.
Zuck (Victor, 1985) 1:59.
All translations are by the author.
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Johnson Thomaskutty writes, “The word eklēthē (invited)
reveals that Jesus and his disciples were attending the wedding
as invited guests. Asian readers can relate to this story as
marriage functions are part of social relations, and people
get together during such occasions.” John: A Pastoral and
Contextual Commentary, Asia Bible Commentary, ed. Andrew
B. Spurgeon (Langham Global Library, forthcoming in 2024).
Uytanlet and Kwa suggest a possible supernatural attack in this
scene: “[Matthew] says that Jesus rebuked the fever (Luke 4:39),
and two verses later, he rebuked the demons (4:41). This may be
a hint that the fever of Peter’s mother-in-law was a symptom
of demonic activities; although this is difficult to ascertain.”
Samson L. Uytanlet and Kiem-Kiok Kwa, Matthew: A Pastoral
and Contextual Commentary, Asia Bible Commentary, ed.
Federico G. Villanueva (Langham Global Library, 2017) 61.
Bock writes, “[Jesus] stops and tells him to come down from the
tree, because he ‘must’ (dei) stay at his house today. Jesus’ stay
with the tax collector is a necessity because it pictures what his
ministry is all about—to lead to God those whom others have
given up on, to call those who, like the tax collector Levi, need to
repent (5:31–32).” Darrell L. Bock, Luke, The NIV Application
Commentary (Zondervan Academic, 1998) 479.
The Greek verb sukophanteō meant “to falsely accuse someone”
or “slander” (LSJ).
Jesus inviting ordinary people into his father’s rule signifies
hospitality. Ordinary people, no less a tax collector like
Matthew, would have never envisioned having a role in God’s
rule, but that was exactly what Jesus was offering. That itself is
a divine hospitality—accepting the undeserving in his kingdom
and offering them a privileged place!
Keener writes, in the context of Zacchaeus, “No matter how
high their status, people did not normally invite themselves to
someone else’s home.” Craig S. Keener, The IVP Bible Background
Commentary: New Testament (InterVarsity, 1993) 241.
Whereas Jesus lodged (menō and kataluō) with Zacchaeus
and reclined for a meal (anakeimai) with Matthew, Simon had
asked him to eat with him (phagō), and Jesus sat (kataklinō).
Perhaps these verbs show levels of intimacy and hospitality.
For more on this queen, see Heather Preston, “The Kandake: A
Missing History,” Priscilla Papers 37/4 (Fall 2023) 16–19.
George writes, “The purple dye used to color his outer garment
was from the mollusk (an invertebrate, like a slug), from which
a single drop of dye could be extracted. This dye was unlike the
cheaper purple dye extracted from the beetroot. Therefore, it
would have taken thousands of such mollusks to dye a single outer
garment, implying the expense the rich man incurred in dyeing
this garment.” Benjamin George, “Principles from the Parables in
Serving God in the Mission Field,” Leitourgia—Christian Service,
Collected Essays: A Festschrift for Joykutty M. George, ed. Andrew
B. Spurgeon (Bangalore: Primalogue, 2015) 218.
Sadly, often teachers and preachers connect the “portion of his
livelihood” (meros ousia), perhaps an allowance a rich father
gave his son, with his inheritance (kleronomia), although the
text does not make this connection.
Amos Yong, “The Spirit of Hospitality: Pentecostal Perspectives
toward a Performative Theology of Interreligious Encounter,”
Missiology 35/1 (Jan 2007) 62.
In one of the most outstanding examples of female hospitality,
Jesus encouraged Martha to slow down and focus on learning
rather than spending all her time preparing food for others and
being frustrated with her sister for not helping (Luke 10:38–42).
Andrew B. Spurgeon is a professor of NT at Singapore
Bible College. He is the Publications Secretary for the Asia
Theological Association and the General Editor of the Asia
Bible Commentary Series. His commentaries include 1
Corinthians, Romans, and James. He and his wife, Lori,
reside in Singapore.
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