Sue Tappenden is a Coach and People Expert who helps her clients improve their relationship with themselves and others. (www.headspaceforchange.com)

I’m furious with him

Q My boyfriend spends all our money when I just want to save. It’s so frustrating and we argue about it all the time. How can I make him see it’s so unfair?

Lucy, Stoke-on-Trent

A It’s important to remember that