My Swami

Mama Ji

(June11, 1918-May 15, 2003)

SATISH C. BHATNAGAR

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DISTRIBUTION OF CONTENTS

A ‘BIOGRAPHICAL’ PREFACE

I.   INTRODUCTORY WRITE-UPS

1.   DEEKSHANAND AND ELEPHANT

2.   TURNING AROUND FOR A BOOK

3.   A HISTO-PSYCHOLOGY OF AUTOBIOGRAPHIES

4.   WHAT IS SO GREAT ABOUT HIS LIFE?

5.   EXTREMES IN BIOGRAPHICAL CONTENTS

6.   TIME TO CLOSE ON INTRODUCTION

7.   ON THE TITLE OF THE BOOK

8.   DHANYA HO, RISHI!

9.   FINALLY, THE COVER OF THE BOOK!

II.   MY REFLECTIONS & INSPIRATIONS

WHAT IS INSIDE SECTION II?

10.   MY HOMAGE TO SWAMI MAMA JI

11.   MAMA JI’S DILEMMA WITH LIQUOR

12.   MAMA JI’S LOVE FOR SANSKRIT

13.   A PIONEER OF HINDI MADE EASY

14.   MAMA JI AND ENGLISH

15.   HOW I ONCE QUIT EATING MEAT

16.   LAST HOURS WITH MAMA JI (PART I)

17.   LAST HOURS WITH MAMA JI (PART II)

18.   SANSKRIT, MARRIAGE & DEEKSHANAND

19.   A HOME THAT OWNED A SWAMI

20.   BASKING IN REFLECTED GLORY

21.   INTELLECTUAL TRADITIONS IN ARYA SAMAJ

22.   FLOW OF LIFE

23.   ARYA SAMAJ-CHAMPION OF WIDOWS

24.   ARYA SAMAJ VIA NORTH AMERICA

25.   SWAMI JI ON THE ANVIL

26.   TEMPLE VERSUS TEMPLE!

27.   FACTORING PARENTAGE

28.   THE FIRST GURUKUL OF MAMA JI

29.   LOSS OF THE FIFTH VEDA!

30.   ARYA SAMAJANI, USHA SHARMA

31.   THE FLYING DNAS OF DEEKSHANAND

32.   TIME TO EMBRACE THE CONVERTS

33.   BHARAT DARSHAN IN LAS VEGAS

34.   SEEING NONE OR MANY?!

35.   CHIVALERY IN ARYA SAMAJ

36.   THE EVE OF ENERGY IMPLOSION

37.   MOORATI POOJA AND MOORAT POOJA

38.   MEMORIES VIA DEEKSHANAND

39.   PROFESSIONAL PREACHERS OF HINDUISM

40.   THE SON OF A GHASEETI!

41.   EASY COME-EASY GO!

42.   MY SANSKRIT AND HIS ENGLISH & PUNJABI

III.  OTHER EYES

WHAT IS INSIDE SEC TION III?

43.   C. PRABHA BHATNAGAR

44.   SURESH C. BHATNAGAR

45.   DINESH C. BHATNAGAR

46.   PRAMOD K. BHATNAGAR

47.   SHASHI K. BHATNAGAR

48.   ASHWANI K. BHATNAGAR

49.   MADHU ANAL

50.   BABA ANAL

51.   VINOD B. BHATNAGAR

52.   USHA SHARMA

53.   SATISH C. GUPTA

54.   CHITRANJAN SAAVANT

IV.  SPARKLERS

WHAT IS IN SECTION IV? (PART I)

WHAT IS IN SECTION IV? (PART II)

COMMENTATORS & ANALYSTS EXTRAORDINAIRE

SELECTIVE COMMENTS

YOU LOVED HIM A LOT. He was a great soul. Great homage. Well written. Have you thought of writing his biography? Rahul (On # 10)

I would be interested in Part II also. I thoroughly enjoyed Part I. It was very nice of you to point out the possible irrelevance of Gurukul education for SURVIVAL in modern times. You seem to have an enormous sense of proportion. I also developed some of it due to my contacts with the WEST. The Vedas have tremendous data. But one must view them as a literature which had relevance in the past and which may have some relevance today. L. Ron Hubbard claims that he studied Vedas and that Scientology is based on basics in Vedas. But you have to know the specific books and specific places where he states it and proves it. I admire your love for Indian Philosophy though you have stayed so long in the West.

Thanks for sending this beauty (Part II). I have just glanced. Subhash (On # 16 and 17)

This is wonderful!! It is great to know great people, but it is even greater to acquire their lessons and love. You are very lucky. Prafulla

It is a well-written brief commentary on the intellectual traditions of Arya Samaj. A number of reform movements started in the 19th century to reform the religion and society of India. Arya Samaj was the most successful of them all in bringing about a renaissance in Hindu society. The strength of this movement compared with others was also that its source of inspiration was indigenous rather than westward looking. The sheer force of reason and argument and intellect was used by Swami Dayanand and his followers to eradicate many ills to which the society had succumbed. At the same time, he made it clear that he was reviving the old traditions and not giving anything new. VP Sharma (On # 21)

This is your best piece ever! Very very well written!!!!-Vicky (On # )

I met him along with Swadeep and Archana when they came to Delhi after their marriage. It was at an Ashram like site behind the All India Institute of Medical Sciences. Afterwards, I attended two-three annual functions at New Delhi where his works were released. Occasionally, I met him at places like New Delhi railway station, etc. I was deeply impressed by his scholarship of Vedic literature and traditions, his simplicity and his lifelong devotion to the cause of Arya Samaj and Vedic literature. He was really a great saint which is rare in these days of materialism. RS Nigam (on # 19)

SWAMI DEEKSHANAND SARASWATI:

My Swami

Mama Ji

DEDICATED

TO

"DHANYA HO, RISHI!"

SATISH C. BHATNAGAR

A ‘BIOGRAPHICAL’ PREFACE

I had never thought that it would take me ten months to write and compile this sixth book. It is not the longest interval, though. The gap between my first and second books was fourteen months, as I had to work hard on each reflection in order to establish my identity as an historian too. This book being biographical, I wanted it to stand apart from a pamphlet or a booklet, both in terms of quantity and quality of the contents. There was no question of padding it.

The first time a fleeting thought of writing this biography sprung up in my mind was when I saw a copy of the 2007 biography on Swami Deekshanand Saraswati by Prem Lata Bhatnagar, my first cousin, who lives in India. She had timed it with his upcoming 5th Nirvana anniversary. At that time, seeing my name on any book seemed to be a far-fetched dream. At age 71, my first book came out in Nov, 2010-having been in production for more than two years.

After publishing five books in five different genres, I turned around to take upon a new writing challenge on a biography. In writing about a legend, one has to be honest-say, when including a specific story associated with the life of that person; its authenticity, full understanding by the biographer, and the interest of the readers have to be ensured. This balancing act is not easy, but I have tried to measure up to it in every piece included in the book.

To the best of my knowledge, Mama Ji never thought of telling a story of his life, though, it is very inspirational especially for those who do not want to follow a cookie cut careers that have been somewhat a rage in India-doctors, engineers and MBAs lately.

The writing of a biography is driven by many factors. Generally, a life examined is either very famous or notorious. In the US, there are professional biographers making their livings by writing on such lives. In the academe, a professor in a discipline of humanities can earn sabbatical leave, merit, tenure. or promotion. In my case, it is a combination of debt to my ancient Indian heritage that Mama Ji symbolized, personal gratitude towards him, and a literary challenge to be a well-rounded non-fiction writer.

There is something more to it. The Hindus, of my generation in particular, were drilled by their elders to play down or even undermine their achievements in the name of misplaced humility. Its one corollary was that they downgraded their leaders too. Inversely, they over lauded the outsiders and their works. This mindset comes from their subjugated Hindu mentality over the centuries. On the contrary, in the US, ‘the land of the free’, one sees floods of unripe biographies on the lives hardly lived long enough or fully blossomed out.

The book has ended up with four sections, though started with only one section in mind. It has truly evolved while working on it. Section I has 9 introductory types of write-ups on biographies. Section II has my 33 typical reflections and articles written during 2003-2013. Section III has oral and verbal reminiscences from 12 persons associated with Mama Ji. Section IV has 90+ pages of letters exchanged between me and Mama Ji during a span of 40 years; 1962-2002.

A common feature of all my books is that each one of them can be read from anywhere, as all reflections are nearly independent in contents and topics in general. It is good as in today’s fast life styles, no one has the time to start a book from its Page Number 1 and then wade it through to the very end. As a consequence, abbreviations are explained again, and certain references repeated as encountered.

Also, I am continuing the practice of dating each reflection so that a reader may have a full perspective of its genesis in terms of time, place and my mindset. As a young reader, I paid no attention to it, but now that I am in my 70s, this is the first thing I look for it. The two dates on a refection means that a revision was done on the second date. Another continuing feature is providing partial and full blank pages for the readers to scribble their comments as they pop out while reading. It comes from my compulsive habit of under-lining and side-lining a significant part of a sentence or paragraph. Such markings become a source of quick reference in future.

This book is delayed by 2-3 months due to various permutations of Section IV material and its technical hiccups. For me, getting the images of the letters in a Word file was such a daunting task that I shuddered at the very thought of it. I spoke about it with UNLV’s Reprographic Department. My graduate students, Emi Ikeda and Scott MacDonald, explained it in 1, 2, 3 step manner. But this small sequence of clicks won’t register in my mind. Aniruddha, my son-in-law, came over and showed me the steps at my home PC and even watched me inserting 2-3 pages successfully. But I forgot them after 2-3 days!

Finally, it was when Anjali, my granddaughter, who came to Las Vegas during her Spring break that it was all done in a couple of hours! Still, I got stuck for two days on a new set of 13 images in a PDF file which could not be inserted or copied in a Word file. But Avnish, my son, changed the PDF into JPEG on his PC and e-mailed it back to me within a minute. Namit helped in graphics. I am thankful to all of them for enhancing my technical knowledge.

Whenever, I am complimented on my English, I really thank Francis A. Andrew, a Scottish professor of English working in the Sultanate of Oman. We met five years ago in Nizwa, Oman. He has tremendously helped me by providing feedback on each and every reflection-both on the syntax and semantics of the text. Francis is also an established science fiction writer of a dozen books-available on Amazon.

Finally, any errors and omissions are mine. Any feedback and comments would be gratefully acknowledged.

Satish C. Bhatnagar

March 25, 2014

SECTION I

INTRODUCTORY WRITE-UPS

DEEKSHANAND AND ELEPHANT

That is how I start off on my sixth book, a biography of Swami Deekshanand Saraswati. Each of the previous five books is the first volume in five different genres. God willing, at least two volumes will be published eventually in each category. However, the sixth book is going to be a one-volume biography. It provides me a break from a ‘volume’ series. There are a number of reasons for undertaking a biography of a legend in the world of Arya Samaj.

Swami Deekshanand Saraswati (1918-2003) was a giant of man in terms of physique, intellect and spirit in his times. When pigmies or blinds get closer to an elephant in order to figure it out, then each one of them describes the elephant according to the parts of the elephant that are in front of them. Frankly, I am also one of them when it comes to knowing Deekshanand. Nevertheless, I am fully convinced that there are persons who may have different and deeper assessment of him. At the end of the day, I may be able to put them all together for a composite picture of his persona.

Swami Deekshanand was a family oriented man-though he never married or legally adopted any one. Before taking on to a sanyasi order in 1975, he frequented his families with firm beliefs of impacting the young ones there. His one niece, Kusum Lata Arya (stopped writing Bhatnagar/1947-97) was his mental offspring (maaas putri) in a sense that he chiseled and nurtured her from a little girl of eight to a Vedic scholar of repute.

There were many other family members who were pulled into his magnetic field and were magnetized in proportion to the iron element in them. I have been urging all kith and kin to recall stories of their association-critical and yet objective assessment of Swami Deekshanand. Send it to me in English or Hindi, as soon as possible for verbatim inclusion in a distinct section of the book.

As a leading preacher and Vedic scholar, he gave discourses and performed grand yagya/yajana in Hindi speaking regions. Also, I recall his regular visits to Hyderabad in Andhra Pradesh, Mumbai and Sholapur in Maharashtra. In the East, he did go to Patna regularly, but I don’t think he ever went all the way to Manipur and Nagaland. On overseas assignments, he went to South Africa and Kenya and returned to India after resounding success.

Amongst thousands of persons in his audiences, there must be a few dozen whose life must have been touched or transformed by him. I also exhort them to take time to recall and write before the memories are erased by the mighty Time. In an ultimate analysis, a story of his life will be sum total of tiny slices of our lives too.

This book has to be different both in contents and layouts. Five years ago, my cousin, Premlata Bhatnagar wrote the first book on Swami Deekshanand in commemoration of his 5th anniversary. In contrast to her book, my book shall have no pictures. If you have seen a picture once, then that is enough, except of course, if it is a Mona Lisa caliber! By the way, in all my previous five books there is not even single picture except on the covers.

In conclusion, incredible memory of Deekshanand does connect him literally with an elephant-that is known to forget nothing. Perhaps, for that reason, the two are never seen in hurry in their physical movements. I witnessed this memorable memory sight on Dec 28, 2002-less than five months before he Checked Out from Planet Earth. He was the chief guest at a 3-day annual celebration of a gurukul in Jaura, a village 50 KM from Nanded (MS). Due to train delays, he arrived one day late-stopped right at the pandal (makeshift conference hall) in a rented car driven for 8 hours on unpaved rural paths.

The crowd erupted with happiness as he took his seat on a stage without freshening up. Within minutes, he took hold of the mike in his hand-like a baton of a music symphony conductor. For nearly an hour, he enthralled the audience with his sermons studded with Vedic mantras flowing out of his mind in the most effortless manner. His face was glowing and leaving the audience aghast!

It was a feat of memory for me, as I have not memorized anything. Mathematics has trained me to deduce everything. Let us see how we test out in our individual memories about him.

May 20, 2013/July 13, 2013

PS

This Reflection was sent out to the Navrang Times for soliciting write-ups from its enlightened readers now spread all over the world.

TURNING AROUND FOR A BOOK

Writing any book was not on my intellectual horizon even as few as ten years ago, when I was already deep into my Reflective writings. So much so, that I had become reconciled that I would die before seeing my name on a book. As far as mathematics textbook writing was concerned, it is a service to the profession and very laborious. But, I see no creativity at all in permuting the orders of exercises, tinkering with examples and rephrasing the text here and there.

It took me more than two years from the submission of the manuscript of the first book to actual proof-reading, and to seeing it published in Nov, 2010. It turned out to be a transformational moment in my life. I was then almost 71 years old. More than a year went by before the second book came out. Since then, I have sped up the production line, as I am cognizant of the law of averages. In not too distant