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    The Road We Traveled: A Memoir of Two Worlds
    The Road We Traveled: A Memoir of Two Worlds
    The Road We Traveled: A Memoir of Two Worlds
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    The Road We Traveled: A Memoir of Two Worlds

    By Uchendu Precious Onuoha

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    The road to success, prosperity and happiness is not a closed door to anyone neither is it an exclusivity for a privileged few. Whether it is the individual, tribe, nation or race, we are only victims of our birth circumstances if we choose to be. The Road We Traveled is the story of Uchendu, a typical African child narrating the circumstances of birth in his native African village, along with the family heritage, traditions and religion. It delves into the travails to overcome imposing hardships and obstacles caused by a lack of the basic amenities, such as clean water, electricity, shelter, food, clothing, transportation networks, schools, and the healthcare services that developed countries take for granted.

    The difficulties encountered motivated Uchendu to strive to make the world a better place for him and others to live and this personal experience summarizes the struggle of not only his tribe, nation and continent, but also of the entire human race that have had to overcome these hindrances and challenges that have been there from the beginning of time. Uchendu offers a retrospective of his experiences in Africa, with regards to the struggles, pains, failures and successes experienced in living abroad in Europe. In the Road We Traveled, he shares his experience from his African past to his European present and strikes a balance between his past in Africa, and his present life in Europe and future aspirations he knows will happen in time.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisheriUniverse
    Release dateMar 11, 2013
    ISBN9781475978360
    The Road We Traveled: A Memoir of Two Worlds
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    Uchendu Precious Onuoha

    Uchendu Precious Onuoha, is a Nigerian born Spain based author. Formerly a Foreign Correspondent of Daily Independent Newspapers in Spain. Currently the Editor in Chief of TheSay News online magazine and media house. Has a Master’s Degree in Mass Communication from Atlantic International University (AIU) U.S.A. Holds a Diploma in Aviation (Flight despatcher) from Panamedia School of Pilots Mallorca Spain. He is the author of, The Road We Travelled, A Memoir of Two Worlds, a novel approved for college literature in Nigeria. He is the 2008 Editor’s Choice Published Poet Award Winner of the International Library of Poetry with the poem, Bees of Easy Virtue. He is also the 2015 award winner of, Examplary Citizen, by the Nigerian Embassy Spain. He belongs to various professional organizations. He is a member of Association of Nigerian Authors (ANA), Nigerian Union of Journalist Europe (NUJ-E) and Nigerians in Diaspora Organization (NIDO).

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      Book preview

      The Road We Traveled - Uchendu Precious Onuoha

      CONTENTS

      Dedication

      Preface

      Part 1 Family: Retrospective Experiences In Nigeria

      Born Under The Shadow Of Death

      Tribute To My Ogele Land

      A Noteworthy Ancestral Lineage

      The Burden Of Extended Family

      Farming—The Igbo Way Of Life

      The Parents I Know

      The Road We Came

      Customs And Festivals

      The New Yam Festival

      Birth Celebration

      After Birth Care

      The Biafra War Blood Bath

      Part 2 Education

      Education An Awakening Experience

      Children And Independence Day

      College Education

      Welcoming The New Students

      The School Clubs, Sports

      And Games

      Juvenile Deliquency

      My Mentors

      Going Into The Larger World

      Part 3 Striking Memories In My Childhood And Life

      The Death Of My Sisters

      To A Departed Sister

      My Missing Rib

      Part 4 Travels, Experiences Living In Europe. A Balance Between The Past And Present

      Leaving The Homeland

      Memories Of Germany

      Experiencing Culture Shock

      Attachment To Dogs

      Public Romance

      The Strange Diets

      Unfolding Realities

      Seeking Asylum

      The Dilemma Of Living In Spain

      Misconceptions, And The Myth Of The White Race

      Answers To Weighty Questions

      The Vast Plantation

      Conclusion

      References

      DEDICATION

      T his work is dedicated to my precious wife, Anthonia Nkiru and my wonderful daughter Annabel Ucheoma Uchendu in appreciation of their undying love, encouragement, patience and support-especially the times when my work and assignments ran deep into the night, and denied them the warmth and comfort of my presence at home.

      To my dear parents, the late Elder Abraham Onuoha Nwosu and Agnes Onuoha, I thank you for your devotion to the Lord Jesus Christ.

      To her Excellency, Bianca Odinaka Ojukwu, the first Nigeria female to become an ambassador to Spain, you have set the wheels in motion for the other Nigerian females who aspire to follow in your footsteps.

      And to my elder sister Sarah Chi Ajiere, your virtues have been serendipitous in my life and you are a remarkable role model for young women everywhere.

      Also to the rest of my brothers and sisters and in-laws who have always stood by me through thick and thin, I love you and appreciate the thickness of the blood that flows between us.

      To my friend Anita Thompson for the transparent and true friendship we have shared as well as for your efforts in editing my work.

      To the men and women of God who provided spiritual guidance and counsel, thank you for touching my life.

      My thanks also to Dr.Karl Albertz and family for all the help you gave me during my stay in Germany.

      Also my thanks to the Atlantic International University (AIU) staff who facilitated the acquisition of my Bachelor’s degree. You know who you are! And thanks to a notable alumnus of AIU, her Excellency Joyce Banda, president of Malawi who is a precious woman and who has provided great motivation for me and many others.

      And finally to all the outstanding journalists and media specialists (especially in Nigeria), you are my inspiration, and the light of the world, so keep the light shining!

      PREFACE

      T o put together the ideas and materials for a book is a daunting task. It is conceived as an individual effort but in reality it is hatched for the public. Once the manuscript is handed over to the publisher, it becomes a business of opinion.

      My motivation to write has come from the confidence developed in writing letters for parents to their siblings in the city, and girlfriends on behalf of some of my classmates in college. Also, as a child I was called (Ode akwukwo) meaning—book writer which is a form of humorous teasing for a child learning his first letters of the alphabet. My thanks go to the native women and parents who gave me an early start in writing for others.

      The dream in your heart may be bigger than the environment in which you find yourself in. Joel Osteen, (Pastor Lakewood Church, Texas U.S.A). www.twitter.com. The Road We Traveled is about a typical childhood in an African village and it is a compilation of events which spans 35 years in Nigeria and crescendos to my life abroad away from everything that was familiar.

      I have written about my life experiences—past, present and future—to serve as a missing link to children born in a diaspora who may not have experienced the same birth circumstances as their parents. It will also be an eye-opener to others interested in knowing what childhood was like in Africa and how we all have challenges on our personal pilgrimages through life regardless of our continent or race. It is common to all of humanity.

      Those who are blessed with the soaring swiftness of an eagle and have flown before let them fly, I will journey slowly and I too will arrive. (Author Unknown)

      The world is a veritable playground for us to fulfill the role assigned to us by divine providence. We may not all have the same smooth and level ground or rocky terraces allocated to us to accomplish our life roles within the time and space we occupy, but whatever be our lot we must till our ground to make it yield.

      My purpose is to leave a footprint of honor and integrity for my daughter Annabel, and her siblings, descendants and others who may not have been born under the same circumstances nor had a difficult childhood. And my personal philosophy and mission statement is as Albert Einstein wrote, stay the course, light a star, change the world wherever you are.

      As it has been said, No man is an island and I would be remiss if I failed to acknowledge all the people who have in one way or another given me a helping hand and motivation, and have held the ladder for me to climb. Without your support and goodwill, I may not have come to this length.

      I wish to thank Almighty who is the source of wisdom and knowledge in which I thrust, for giving me life, good health, spiritual, material, and intellectual resources to pursue my goals. To Him I owe all. To the elders and youths of Umuogele, the land of my birth, my hat is off to you!

      PART 1

      Family:

      Retrospective Experiences

      in Nigeria

      BORN UNDER THE SHADOW

      OF DEATH

      N o matter how far a stream flows it never forgets its source, Eyamide Ella Lewis-Coker, African Proverbs, Parables and Wise Sayings (2011, Paperback). I was born about forty five years ago in Umuogele village of Igbo descent in the eastern region of Nigeria during the onset of Nigeria’s emergence as an independent nation in 1960. It was around that time the Nigerian bloodbath started when the country plunged into a devastating genocide and civil war, a war that left no Igbo family without loss.

      The Nigeria-Biafra war was a time when men’s hearts failed them, especially the Igbo, as they were hunted, butchered, maimed, slaughtered like sheep in all parts of Nigeria. Many of their pregnant women were pierced with daggers and machetes while having their fetuses disemboweled. It was a time of genocide never known to any tribe in the history of Africa before. It was under such a gruesome circumstance that I came into the world. My delivery was at the home of Mgborogwu, an old woman who served as a tribal midwife as there were no clinics and hospitals for women in labor needing to deliver a child.

      Because of this, children born at home did not have the luxury of sporting a birth certificate as there was not a birth record to mark the arrival of a child. Parents would mark a child’s birth with the occurrence of a significant event. The difficult way of life while growing up in my native village leaves much to the imagination for one who has grown up with all the amenities of comfort! Imagine growing up without the basic amenities such as clean

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