God's Grace for Couples
()
About this ebook
Actually, it already has. And is. And does.
And here’s what it sounds like.
It sounds like hope for days when life feels absolutely overwhelming. It sounds like promise that speaks into every relationship, no matter how desperately in need or how dear to your heart. It sounds like sufficiency in all those places where none of us is ever good enough. It sounds like confidence that would make no sense at all except the full weight of God is steadfastly behind it.
If God’s grace could talk, it would sound exactly like what this book says in every Scripture on every page. And it wouldn’t sound nearly as old as it actually is, because it’s new every morning and within instant reach at every moment.
It would sound like God, talking directly to you. Because He is. And does.
And always does it with grace.
Read more from B&H Editorial Staff
90 Days with the God Who Speaks Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Book of Proverbs: Biblical Wisdom Arranged by Topic Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Be Still: 120 Devotions for a Peaceful Heart Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsArt: Biblical Truths for Creatives Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsStress: Biblical Truths that Bring Peace Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsJoy: Biblical Truths that Lift You Up Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings52 Bible Verses You Should Have in Your Heart Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Singles Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsChange: Biblical Truths that Bring Security Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsClassic Hymns Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Single Moms Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsCancer: Biblical Truths that Bring Comfort Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Teens Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Athletes Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFaith: Biblical Truths that Give You Wings Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDivorce: Biblical Truths that Bring Harmony Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Moms Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Dads: John 1:14 Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBusy: Biblical Truths When You Need a Break Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Graduates Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsSports: Biblical Truths for Competitors Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsHappiness: 100 Devotions to Brighten Your Day Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFriendship: Biblical Truths that Bring Us Together Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Pastors Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Expectant Moms Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Leaders Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGrief: Biblical Truths that Bring Healing Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for New Believers: John 1:14 Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Related to God's Grace for Couples
Related ebooks
God's Grace for Singles Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Graduates Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Athletes Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Expectant Moms Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Single Moms Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for New Believers: John 1:14 Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Leaders Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Moms Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Teens Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Pastors Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Grandparents Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFamily: Biblical Truths Around the Table Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBusy: Biblical Truths When You Need a Break Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsChange: Biblical Truths that Bring Security Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Dads: John 1:14 Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBible Verses: Inspiration and Hope for People in Times of Trials and Problems Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsDivorce: Biblical Truths that Bring Harmony Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsThe Bible Promise Book Discipleship Edition Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsA Friend Called the Holy Spirit Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsFriendship: Biblical Truths that Bring Us Together Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Grace for Teachers Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsBible Promises for Graduates Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Plan of Salvation Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGod's Words of Life for Women: Devotions and Bible Verses for Every Season Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsAddiction: Biblical Truths that Set You Free Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsEarly in the Morning Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsUplifting Quotes: To Get You Through Everyday Life Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsGrief: Biblical Truths that Bring Healing Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsJoy: Biblical Truths that Lift You Up Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratingsTime With God For Mothers Rating: 0 out of 5 stars0 ratings
Christianity For You
Boundaries Updated and Expanded Edition: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Four Loves Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Book of Enoch Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: Follow Them and People Will Follow You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Law of Connection: Lesson 10 from The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Girl, Wash Your Face: Stop Believing the Lies About Who You Are so You Can Become Who You Were Meant to Be Rating: 3 out of 5 stars3/5Anxious for Nothing: Finding Calm in a Chaotic World Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Decluttering at the Speed of Life: Winning Your Never-Ending Battle with Stuff Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Purpose Driven Life: What on Earth Am I Here For? Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Unoffendable: How Just One Change Can Make All of Life Better (updated with two new chapters) Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Screwtape Letters Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Less Fret, More Faith: An 11-Week Action Plan to Overcome Anxiety Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Mere Christianity Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Wild at Heart Expanded Edition: Discovering the Secret of a Man's Soul Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5It's Not Supposed to Be This Way: Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave You Shattered Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Bible Recap: A One-Year Guide to Reading and Understanding the Entire Bible Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Doing Life with Your Adult Children: Keep Your Mouth Shut and the Welcome Mat Out Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5How to Lead When You're Not in Charge: Leveraging Influence When You Lack Authority Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Changes That Heal: Four Practical Steps to a Happier, Healthier You Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Uninvited: Living Loved When You Feel Less Than, Left Out, and Lonely Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5A Grief Observed Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Boundaries with Kids: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Children Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Pursuit of God with Study Guide: The Human Thirst for the Divine Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5The Story: The Bible as One Continuing Story of God and His People Rating: 4 out of 5 stars4/5
Reviews for God's Grace for Couples
0 ratings0 reviews
Book preview
God's Grace for Couples - B&H Editorial Staff
Copyright © 2018 by B&H Publishing Group
All Rights Reserved
Printed in the United States of America
978-1-5359-1722-3
Published by B&H Publishing Group
Nashville, Tennessee
Dewey Decimal Classification: 234.1
Subject Heading: GRACE (THEOLOGY) / HOPE / SELF-CONFIDENCE
All Scripture quotations are taken from the Christian Standard Bible®, copyright © 2017 by Holman Bible Publishers. Used by permission. Christian Standard Bible® and CSB® are federally registered trademarks of Holman Bible Publishers.
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 • 22 21 20 19 18
Introduction
Life tends to maneuver us into categories, into penciled-in bubbles on the random identification form. Some of them we like; some we don’t. Some we actively seek out and continue to pursue; some were sitting there waiting for us and won’t turn us loose.
But one thing we all know: deep inside these simple boxes and check marks reside entire worlds crawling with complication, challenge, and difficulty. Even if easy to get into, they are rarely so easy to faithfully, successfully, and steadily keep going through.
As a couple you may find it difficult to find the time to spend in God’s Word together. Your relationship may not look like the next couple, but that does not mean that one is better than the other. God has created us each individually, and that means that each relationship is also unique.
The reason this book exists is because God’s grace never met a check box it couldn’t fill with hope, peace, direction, and perspective—with motivation, counsel, freedom, and opportunity. This book is here, and is now yours, because the Bible not only speaks timelessly to everyone but specifically to you . . . with grace. God’s grace. Sufficient to every place. Even to the places you’re living this very moment.
Acceptance
When we are faced with family conflicts, job stresses, or uncertainty about the future, we can rest in knowing that God’s love for us is constant.
But the Lord said to Samuel, Do not look at his appearance or his stature because I have rejected him. Humans do not see what the Lord sees, for humans see what is visible, but the Lord sees the heart.
1 Samuel 16:7
Everyone the Father gives me will come to me, and the one who comes to me I will never cast out.
John 6:37
But God proves his own love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:8
If God is for us, who is against us?
Romans 8:31
Peter began to speak: Now I truly understand that God doesn’t show favoritism, but in every nation the person who fears him and does what is right is acceptable to him.
Acts 10:34–35
Heavenly Father, thank You that no matter what trials and stressors we might face, You uphold us and guide us according to Your purposes.
Anger
Anger is an emotion that can reveal to us our values. The key, however, is not to act out in anger but to speak to one another in love.
Refrain from anger and give up your rage;
do not be agitated—it can only bring harm.
Psalm 37:8
A patient person shows great understanding,
but a quick-tempered one promotes foolishness.
Proverbs 14:29
A gentle answer turns away anger,
but a harsh word stirs up wrath.
Proverbs 15:1
But I tell you, everyone who is angry with his brother or sister will be subject to judgment. Whoever insults his brother or sister, will be subject to the court. Whoever says, ‘You fool!’ will be subject to hellfire.
Matthew 5:22
Be angry and do not sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your anger, and don’t give the devil an opportunity.
Ephesians 4:26–27
Lord, may Your Holy Spirit guide our words and actions when we are feeling angry so we can show grace to one another.
Anxiety
Beneath our anxieties is a need to feel in control—but our peace is found in knowing that the Creator of the universe holds us safely in the palm of His hand.
"Therefore I tell you: Don’t worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Isn’t life more than food and the body more than clothing? Consider the birds of the sky: They don’t sow or reap or gather into barns,