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    Brave Enough
    Brave Enough
    Brave Enough
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    Brave Enough

    By Zoe McKey

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    Do you often feel discouraged to act upon your values because you fear rejection and judgment? You're hesitant to try new things out of fear of failure?



    Did I hit the nail on the head? Don't worry. This book will guide you through all the levels of fear, discouragement, and lack of confidence and helps you gain control over them.
     

    Stand tall in every situation life throws in your way. 



    Time to learn how to overcome the feeling of inferiority and achieve success. Brave Enough takes you step by step through the process of understanding the nature of your fears, overcome limiting beliefs and gain confidence with the help of studies, personal stories, and actionable exercises at the end of each chapter. 
     

    Say goodbye to fear of rejection and inferiority complex once and for all. 



    The only barrier between you and success can be this one thing: the courage to take those chances today what others plan on doing tomorrow. 

    •How to thrive in failure?
    •How to ditch your fear of missing out? 
    •The importance of doing something every day that scares you.
    •How to stop judging people and let go of judgment? 
    •How to have the courage to learn something new are let go of old, outdated knowledge?
     

    Courage is more than a trait, is a life-changing power. 


    •How to make the first step when you debate starting something new?
    •How to be more confident? 
    •How to make the best decision when you meet crossroads in life?
    •How to keep your ego in check? 
    •How to handle fear of loss?

    Escape your fears and stop self-sabotaging. Know that living a full life doesn't mean the absence of fear, but the will to take the risk and do it anyway. Turn your insecurities into action and see how your life is going to change into a daring adventure.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherZoe McKey
    Release dateJun 9, 2020
    ISBN9781393161264
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      Brave Enough - Zoe McKey

      Introduction

      IMAGINE THE FOLLOWING two scenarios.

      Scenario one. The meeting ended later than expected. It is cold and dark outside. A storm is gathering in the distance and you can already see winds and lightning. You shiver, tighten your jacket’s collar, and start walking home. It is silence and your footsteps are echoing as you walk. Your mind starts spinning wildly about why are so few people on the street. You know that this area is not particularly safe. Your father used to say that if someone is out on the street on a night like this, they are probably up to no good. You quicken your pace when a shadow suddenly moves into your peripheral view. Despite your best instincts, you freeze and you can feel sweat drip down your face.

      Scenario two. Your husband just found some incriminating pictures on your computer of another man. Right now he is questioning you about it. You know what you did was wrong, and there is no right answer to fix this situation. The questions are so paralyzing mentally that you can’t even follow what you say. You just talk. You lie. The pictures belong to your friend. You just saved them. You know that it sounds incredibly stupid but you were so unprepared to have this conversation that your brain just ran away, leaving you in this mess. Your husband becomes angrier and you’re even more lost. Your stomach is squeezed to the size of a peanut, and your heart beats so violently you fear it will stop any moment. You feel dizzy and nauseous.

      These two scenarios are fairly different but they have something in common. Fear. It is a safe bet that you have felt both of these kinds of fears at least once in your life. The difference between them is that the first scenario is mostly self-triggered fear based on imagined danger, while the second is legitimate fear based on real events. We experience both kinds of fear on a daily basis; not stepping in front of a speeding car is driven by legitimate fear, while fearing that someone deliberately will drive on the pedestrian walk just to kill you is imagined fear.

      We encounter so many fears in our lives: fear of heights, wide spaces, narrow spaces, spiders, snakes, water, fire, flying, and going underground. These types of fear are hardcoded in our genes. For millions of years, these fears were legitimate, and our very survival depended on our hyperactive sense of fear. They knew if they fell off a high cliff, they die. If they get bitten by a spider or snake, they die. These factors directly threatened human survival.

      Humans developed other type of fears, too: fear of loss, being alone, dying, conflict, and rejection. These fears, while they don’t seem to pose an imminent danger to survival, could indirectly lead to it. If someone lost family members, was alone, got into a conflict, was rejected or expelled from a community, their survival chances dropped significantly from being alone.

      Today, fear is depicted as something bad in most self-help literature. It’s seen as something one should get rid of, defeat, or try to escape from. However, fear is not less natural or necessary as other emotions like love. Fear is an essential response to physical and emotional danger.

      Without fear we couldn't protect ourselves from real threats. But times have changed. On one hand, most of the threats that were legitimate before are no longer. On the other hand, there are instances where imagined fears cause us to miss opportunities that are right in front of us.

      There are some fears that we learn during in our lifetime. These are usually connected to a trauma or bad experiences. Whenever we experience anything resembling our past traumas, our brain can trigger a fear response within us that is hard to tranquilize.

      How does fear work biologically? Fear is created by our brain. It is a chain reaction which begins with a stressor and concludes with the release of chemicals. These chemicals are responsible for a racing heart, energized muscles, and faster breathing. We call this the fight-or-flight response.

      The stressor can be anything from a stick that looks like a snake, hearing a gunshot, imagining your audience before a speech, or the shadows of tree branches blowing in the wind.

      The brain is composed of more than 100 billion nerve cells. These create a complex network of communications that is the ground zero of everything we think, feel, and do. There are communications that lead to conscious thoughts, and there are communications that create autonomic responses. Fear as a response is almost always autonomic. It is not our conscious decision to become fearful, and by the time we acknowledge consciously what’s going on, fear has invaded us. Our brain cells are working without stopping; sending and receiving information, there are many parts of the brain that are involved in generating fear as a response. The main parts of the brain involved in this process are:

      The thalamus: this determines where to send incoming sensory data (from the ears, eyes, nose, mouth, and skin).

      The sensory cortex: this is where we interpret sensory data.

      The hippocampus: this stores and recovers conscious memories. It processes the incoming stimuli to diagnose context.

      The amygdala: this decodes emotions, determines if we are in danger or not and stores fear memories.

      The hypothalamus: this activates the fight or flight response.[i]

      These all happen within milliseconds.

      Fear is a natural emotion that can’t and shouldn’t be erased. Without having sensible trepidations, we’d end up in the hospital more frequently than we plan. There are, however, some things that trigger a fearful response even though they shouldn’t. We learn to be afraid of certain things in our life that are not life threatening or scary at all. More so, they are causing us to live an unfulfilled life. This book aims to help you overcome the irrational and harmful beliefs that make you fearful, and allow you to experience life from a perspective of courage and fearlessness.

      You’ll read about the following:

      ·  How to make the first step when you debate starting something new.

      ·  How to be more confident.

      ·  How to make the best decision when you meet a crossroad in life.

      ·    How to keep your ego in check.

      ·   How to handle the fear of loss.

      ·  How to thrive in failure.

      ·  How to let go of your fear of missing out.

      ·  The importance of doing something every day that scares you.

      ·  How to stop judging people and let go of judgment.

      ·    How to have the courage to learn something new and let go of the old.

      And much more.

      Chapter 1: On Courage and Bravery

      BEHOLD THE TURTLE. He makes progress only when he sticks his neck out.

      —James Bryant Conant

      ILLUSTRATIONS BY MIXED Media Artist, Karen Dawn

      For free classes on how to take your learning to a deeper level using creative sketch noting and art journal techniques please www.thevisualjournal.com

      The turtle, like most animals, is an instinctual being. It peeks out of its shell to go somewhere because it is hungry or to look for a calmer and better environment. Its actions are not conscious. If the turtle could think and analyze its station in the food chain hierarchy, it would probably never come out of its shell. And it would die of hunger.

      Just like turtles, a person risks his own well-being, reputation, or safety when he sticks his neck out. He risks being misunderstood, ridiculed, contradicted, attacked, shamed, threatened, or ignored... A person who sticks his neck out

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