Never Good Enough: Escaping the Prison of Perfectionism
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There are two sides to just about everything in life and perfectionism isn't any different. Most perfectionists care so much about the things that are important to them and care about how they do these things. We want our projects, our homes, relationships, and lives to be the best they can be.
If we use our time wisely we can bring into reality—through effort or ingenuity—all of the potential we envision.
Okay, so we tend to be tough on ourselves. We're often filled with stress and anxiety. We can procrastinate, big-time. And far too often we feel we've fallen short of our idealized goals.
This hyper-focus keeps us staring closely at everything we believe is wrong rather than seeing what's right. This is especially true when it comes to our self-perception where we measure our accomplishments, our looks, finances, education, career, or anything else against others. And, for most perfectionists, we find that we need to do better. We should do better. We must do better!
We become over-achievers and over-thinkers and over-controlling and lose all sense of flexibility and happiness. Life soon becomes a strait-jacket we can never free ourselves from.
I want to show you how to recognize when your perfectionism is hurting you and your relationships then rein it in. You want to get your perfectionism to work for you rather than against you, and by getting it to take a backseat at times, you'll find that you're more productive, there's more time in your days, you feel more relaxed, more comfortable, and a whole lot happier.
Kelly Wallace
Kelly Wallace is a best selling multi-published spiritual and self-help author, radio show host, and has been a professional psychic counselor for over twenty years. She can see, hear, sense, and feel information sent from Spirit, the Universe, and a client's Higher Self. Whether your problems or concerns are in the area of love, finances, family, career, health, education, or your path in life, she offers affordable professional intuitive counseling, caring guidance, and solutions that work! More than just a typical psychic reading or counseling session, you will feel you've found a real friend during your time of need--whether you simply want answers and guidance to your current worries or concerns, or you're interested in learning more about your soul mate, spirit guides, past lives, or anything else. Visit her site today and book a reading! DrKellyPsychic.com
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Never Good Enough - Kelly Wallace
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About Kelly Wallace
KELLY IS A BESTSELLING spiritual and self-help author, former radio show host, and has been a professional psychic counselor for over twenty years. She can see, hear, sense, and feel information sent from Spirit, the Universe, and a client's Higher Self.
She offers professional psychic counseling, caring guidance, and solutions that work! More than just a typical psychic reading or counseling session, you will feel you've found a real friend during your time of need—whether you simply want answers and guidance to your current worries or concerns, or you're interested in learning more about your soulmate, spirit guides, angels, past lives, or anything else.
Contact her today for an in-depth and life-altering reading!
Website: DrKellyPsychic.com
Email: Dr.Kelly.Psychic.Counselor@gmail.com
What This Book Covers
INTRODUCTION
What Type of Perfectionist Are You?
Pitfalls of Perfectionism
Three Beliefs Holding You Back
Your Perfectionist Programming
A Cover For Fear and Insecurity
Different Viewpoints
Your Inner Critic
Perfectionism Obstacles
Perfectionist Self-Talk
How To Quiet The Voice of Judgment
Perfectionism and Procrastination
Getting Things Done – At Last!
Making Healthy Changes
Unlearning Perfectionism
Calming Your Inner Perfectionist
Ask If Perfection Is Really Needed
Finding Balance And Being Happy
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Introduction
I'VE BEEN A PERFECTIONIST for as long as I can remember. Even in Kindergarten, I wanted to draw better, write better, and skip rope better than any other kid in my class. They weren't my greatest competitors though...I was. To this day I'm always trying to one-up myself, regardless of what the task or project is. And you know what? It's stressful!
I'm doing a lot better and not nearly as hard on myself as I used to be, and certainly not as anxious or high-strung. Some days I do pretty well then other days I have to fight my automatic tendencies to battle against this negative trait.
There are good sides to my perfectionism though. It helps me run my online psychic business and write several books a year. The downside is that I often face burnout—which is common with perfectionists. I'll spend many hours seven days a week working on a new book, get it done and published, then spend a week or so where I can't focus