Abu-Lughod, L. Do Muslim Women Need Saving (2013)
Abu-Lughod, L. Do Muslim Women Need Saving (2013)
Abu-Lughod, L. Do Muslim Women Need Saving (2013)
Do Muslim Women
Need Saving?
Lila Abu-Lughod
2013005846
For my mother,
who watched me struggle
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rights, dignity, and the end of the regime that had ruled for thirty
years. Zaynab had a particular reason for her anger that day. I
had arrived that morning to find her household in distress. The
caf that had been made out of the old living room of her house
was shuttered. Inside, her son lay on the couch, despondent. He
was the one who ran the caf; the youngest of her sons, he was
practical and hardworking. He had been a bright and eager kid
when we first met him, watching closely when my husband
helped Zaynab fix her washing machine and delighting us with
the motor-driven toys he made. He had always been the first to
hitch the donkey cart to go off to get fodder for the sheep and
water buffalo that Zaynab had kept for milk and income.
Zaynab had just returned from the police station and she was
agitated. She had gone to find out why they had picked up the
boy who helped her son in the caf. She explained what had happened. The local security officer had come in demanding breakfast. Another customer was served first. It seems that the security
officers and the military police came in regularly, or sent an underling to get them food. Zaynab dramatically described all the
good food her son would prepare for them: fava beans smothered in real clarified butter, eggs, cheese, pickles, and a mountain
of bread. They never offered the full price; sometimes they didnt
pay at all. This time, they had the waiter arrested.
As she drank strong tea for her headache, I tried to cheer up
the family by making a facetious suggestion. How about posting
their menu and prices on a board so that everyone would know
what things cost? And to shame the police and military, have a
second column listing the special discounted prices just for them.
Neither Zaynab nor her son was amused. They were tired of this
harassment.
The problem, Zaynab explained, was that no one dared stand
up to them. With just a word, these men could have her shop or
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caf closed down. She already had to pay off the security police
and the tourist police daily. I had seen Zaynab seethe when the
uniformed men or plainclothes police came by asking for packets of cigarettes and then refused to pay. They saw her as an ignorant peasant, her face dark with years of work in the fields,
her black robes marking her as uneducated. They knew she was
powerless. No wonder she blamed the government for womens
oppression.2
I had been close to Zaynab and her family for almost twenty
years. Her youngest child was the same age as my twins; we had
met when they were infants. I admired the way Zaynab had
raised her children and run the household more or less on her
own. Her husband had left to find work in Cairo, as did so many
from this depressed region, and only returned for short vacations.3 Intelligent and knowledgeable about everything from poetic funeral laments to the economics of farming, she had been
indefatigable in building a good life for her family. In recent
years, when her children were old enough to help, she finally was
able to capitalize on her location, which was near the buses that
brought tourists to her hamlet to visit a well-preserved Pharaonic temple. She set up a small kiosk selling cigarettes, batteries,
and chewing gum, and then expanded to sell bottled water, sodas, and snacks. Endlessly moving things indoors and out, serving customers, arranging for supplies, applying for permits, and
paying bribes and fines, the headaches were regular and the income inconsistent.
Zaynabs individual circumstances are unique, of course. She
lives in a poor region of Egypt. Her marriage had not been ideal.
Active and independent, she had a head for business and managed a complicated farming enterprise more or less on her own
for years. She regretted that she had never gone to schoolmany
girls didnt when she was growing upbut she was sharp and
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and times and the common Western story of the hapless Muslim
woman oppressed by her culture.
Alternative Voices
I am not alone in raising doubts about the images of Muslim
women we are offered in the West. Nor am I the only one to
question the connection between these images and the prevailing
politics of violence. Informed interventions and sensible dissenting voices can be found in the American public sphere. On April
13, 2011, a website called Muslimah Media Watch that monitors representations of Muslim women uploaded a striking
poster from a German human rights campaign.12 At first glance,
one sees plastic trash bags lined up against a mud wall; some are
black, some are blue. A closer look reveals that hunched up
among these bags is a figure shrouded in a blue burqa (Afghanstyle full covering). The German rights campaign slogan reads:
Oppressed women are easily overlooked. Please support us in
the fight for their rights. A writer on another feminist website
picked up the poster and retorted that agency is easily overlooked if you actively erase it.13 The feminists, Muslim and nonMuslim alike, who drew attention to this campaign poster are
among those who ask us why so many, including human rights
campaigners, presume that just because Muslim women dress in
a certain way, they are not agentic individuals or cannot speak
for themselves. These feminists are not ignoring the abuses the
women suffer; to the contrary, they are suggesting that we ought
to talk to them to find out what problems they face rather than
treating them as mute garbage bags.
Martha Nussbaum, a feminist philosopher, also publicized
the problems with presuming that veiling or covering might signal oppression. In a 2010 article in the New York Times blog
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about the proposed bans of burqas in several European countries, she framed her arguments against the ban around the principle of freedom of conscience that is so central to American law
and historical values and on the human rights principle of equal
respect.14 Her erudite demolition of the usual arguments put
forward in support of banning an item of womens clothing was
not just persuasive but amusing.
First, she dismissed arguments that the burqa is a symbol of
male domination and coercion by pointing out that those who
criticize this item of dress neither know the first thing about Islamic symbols nor would they support banning most practices
commonly associated with male domination in our own society.
These include commercial exploitation of women, plastic surgery, and fraternity violence, to name a few familiar examples.
Nussbaum offered some everyday examples to show the inconsistencies in the other two arguments in favor of the ban: (1) security requires people to show their faces when appearing in public
places and (2) the kind of transparency and reciprocity proper
to relations between citizens is impeded by covering part of the
face. She wrote: It gets very cold in Chicagoas, indeed, in
many parts of Europe. Along the streets we walk, hats pulled
down over ears and brows, scarves wound tightly around noses
and mouths. No problem of either transparency or security is
thought to exist, nor are we forbidden to enter public buildings
so insulated. Moreover, many beloved and trusted professionals
cover their faces all year round: surgeons, dentists, (American)
football players, skiers and skaters.
In a later post, Nussbaum responded to readers who objected
that the burqa was different because it portrayed women as nonpersons (think trash bags). Much of our poetry treats eyes as the
windows of the soul, she noted. Then she again described her
own experience. During a construction project in her office at
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Where Is Feminism?
The last two decades have been momentous for the development
of new international instruments of womens rights and for the
consolidation of feminist concern about women worldwide. In
the 1990s, with the Fourth World Conference on Women in
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not. Dina Mahnaz Siddiqis meticulous research into the highprofile legal cases of rape in Bangladesh that were taken up by
international womens rights groups shows neatly how stories
get distorted when they go global. Siddiqi discovered that in
many of the controversial cases where judges ruled that women
should marry their rapists, womens testimonies and lawyers
explanations revealed that what we had instead were consensual
relationships gone awry. The charges of rape or seduction were
being brought forward when a pregnancy had exposed a relationship or when a relationship did not end in a promised marriage. Portraying the women as innocent victims of rape saved
face and social respectability, and brought pressure on men to
marry their girlfriends. International human and womens rights
groups portray such resolutions as hideous violations of girls
rights when the problem is that the social ideals of female respectability, the stigma of sexuality, and the narrowness of the
legal system limit womens options. Such gendered limits should
not be confused with hideous crimes against women. They also
have nothing to do with Islamic law because the legal system in
which the cases are pressed is the secular state court system.23
In recent years, Shariathe term people use loosely to refer
to law that derives from Islamic legal traditionshas become an
international symbol of Muslim identity and, to many in the
West, a dreaded and traditional enemy of womens rights. The
impact and implications of imposing Sharia law are sharply
debated.24 In Southeast Asia, something called Sharia law was
imposed in Aceh after a protracted conflict with the Indonesian
state and in the wake of autonomy and post-tsunami wealth.25
Its violation of local gender norms and its connection to the political conflict reveal it to be anything but traditional. In nearby
Malaysia, however, an innovative group of Muslim feminists calling themselves Sisters in Islam emerged to challenge conservative
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interpretations of Islamic law. In 2009 an international movement for legal reform of Islamic family law grew out of this
organization.26
These examples from different parts of the Muslim world illustrate the variety of situations in which Muslim women find
themselves, the sorts of debates and strategies they engage, and
how frequently their experiences are misunderstood and the
complexities of their situations ignored. These analyses of whats
wrong with the simple story of Muslim womens oppression
hold cautionary tales for us. Abuses and infringements of womens rights must be acknowledged. This is true everywhere they
occur, whether in sex trafficking in Seattle, Tel Aviv, or Dubai;
rape in Belgium, Cambodia, or Bosnia; or domestic violence in
Chicago, Capetown, or Kabul. At the same time, we have to recognize the everyday forms of suffering that women endure
from insecurity to hunger and illnessthat are not always gendered or specific to particular cultures or religious communities.
We have to keep asking hard questions about who or what is to
blame for the problems that particular women face. What responses might be most effective for addressing problems that we
do find, and who is best situated to understand or respond to
these problems? Muslim women activists have been addressing
gender issues in their communities for more than a century in
places like Egypt, Syria, and present-day Bangladesh. As Elora
Shehabuddin notes, these reform movements were initially led by
men, but by the late nineteenth and early twentieth century . . .
Muslim women themselves were making passionate pleas for
change.27
For the past decade, I have been trying to think through both
the politics and the ethics of the international circulation of discourses about oppressed Muslim women. Inspired less by debates in my discipline of anthropology than by what is happening
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in the world, I have been following the very active social life of
Muslim womens rights. If the prominent use of the sad figure
of the oppressed Muslim woman for a war in Afghanistan in
2001 set me on the path to thinking through the issues, I have
nevertheless felt that the best way to approach the problem is to
go deeply into the specifics and what I know. That is why I draw
heavily on my experiences living in some small communities in
Egypt. I do not claim that the women whose lives I analyze are
representative or can stand in for all others. Instead, I use them
to suggest that intimate familiarity with individuals anywhere
makes it hard to be satisfied with sweeping generalizations about
cultures, religions, or regions, or to accept the idea that problems have simple causes or solutions. I am more drawn to the
detail and empathy of the novelist than to the bold strokes of
the polemicist.
Confounding Choices
Even if many are willing to set aside the sensationalized stories
of oppression that capture media attention and contribute to the
widespread sense of certainty about the direness of the situation
of the Muslim woman, most people still harbor a stubborn
conviction that womens rights should be defined by the values
of choice and freedom, and that these are deeply compromised
in Muslim communities. This obsession with constraint is shared
by outsiders and secular progressives within the Muslim world.
It is expressed perfectly in persistent worries about the veil
(hijab/niqab/burqa/head scarf). Women who cover themselves
are assumed to be coerced or capitulating to male pressure, despite the fact that wearing an enveloping cover is mandatory (in
public) in only a few settings and that educated Muslim women
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people do not fully control what happens to them. Even the ancient Greeks saw hubrisexcessive pride or belief that one could
defy the godsas a tragic flaw.
Questions like these are crucial for thinking about Muslim
women and their rights. In considering the strange idea that liberal democracies want to legislate what Muslim women should
wear, Wendy Brown reminds us that secularism has not brought
womens freedom or equality in the West. Our views, Brown
says, are based on the tacit assumption that bared skin and
flaunted sexuality is a token if not a measure of womens freedom and equality.30 The women who are going to the mosques
to learn how to be better Muslims and who are embracing a new
kind of veiling as religious duty would be nonplussed.31 My
friend Zaynab, in her black overdress and head covering, would
be shocked by this assumption. Our convictions about Muslim
womens relative lack of choice, Brown concludes, ignore the
extent to which all choice is conditioned by as well as imbricated
with power, and the extent to which choice itself is an impoverished account of freedom.
How such simplistic ideas about freedom are maintained is a
running theme of this book. I look both at political rhetoric and
popular culture. Ayaan Hirsi Ali, the Somali migr whose voice
has been so crucial in the past decade to defining North American and European views on women and Islam, refers to Muslim women as caged virgins. She presents herself as a Muslim
woman who has freed herself from the cage, rejecting the tribal
sexual morality that she ascribes to Islam and emancipating
herself through atheism.32 She gives step-by-step advice to young
Muslim girls about how to run away from home.33 Massmarket paperbacks about abused Muslim women buttress such
views with metaphors of caged birds, trapped flies, and spiders
in jars.
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She interpreted her song for me, not sure I would understand
the Arabic or the deep meaning. Everyone, she said, thinks she is
happy because she is so warm and fun-loving on the outside.
Vivacious and funny, she is indeed a lively raconteur and someone
who appreciates peoples foibles. When she complained about her
bad knee or her failing eyesight, she would say with a twinkle,
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half years old! She confided to me that she had composed this
song after her daughter (who was about my age and had been
dear to me, too) was killed in a car accident with college friends
in Wisconsin. She didnt leave the house for months. But she
sings the song with new feeling nowshortly after her husband
passed away, she lost her eldest son to cancer.
My aunt has not had the life she deserved. With her talents
and intelligence, and her origins in a good family from Jaffa, she
had what looked initially like a good marriage. She married a
man who was considerably older but well educated by the Jesuits. He had a respectable job working for the British customs office at Lydda (now Ben Gurion) Airport. In the black-and-white
studio photograph of her on their wedding day, which she had
enlarged and hung in her bedroom, she sits demurely on a chair,
her hair in curls, and a white pearl necklace around her neck, her
young body feminine in a long, white lace dress. But their life took
an unexpected turn.
A few years after they were married, fighting broke out in
Jaffa with the settlers in Tel Aviv who wanted Palestine as a Jewish state. During the troubles, her husband took her and their
two young sons on holiday to Egypt. They had two suitcases
with them. She tells the story of what happened when they got
the news that Jaffa had fallen to the Zionists. They were in a hotel in Cairo when they learned that the Zionist settlers had taken
by force what, even under the partition plan imposed by the
United Nations (UN), belonged to the part of Palestine to have
been left to the Palestinians. The state of Israel was declared and
it included Jaffa. Her husband beat his head against the wall.
Never able to return, they spent the next twenty years living a
modest life in a lower-middle-class neighborhood in Cairo.
I got to know them in the late 1950s, when my father took a
job working for the United Nations Educational, Scientific, and
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Commentators noted the political timing of Time magazines cover story about a beautiful young
woman from Afghanistan whose nose had been cut off. The unsettling photograph of Bibi Aysha, whose Taliban husband and
in-laws had punished her this way, appeared on newsstands in
August 2010. Eight months earlier, President Obama had authorized a troop surge, but now there was talk about bringing some
Taliban into reconciliation talks. The juxtaposition between the
photograph and the headlineWhat Happens if We Leave
Afghanistan?implied that women would be the first victims.
Unremarked was the fact that this act of mutilation had been
carried out while U.S. and British troops were still present in
Afghanistan.1
Time had selected this photograph from a large number of
possible images. The talented South African photographer who
took it explained the backstory at the award ceremony when it
was declared World Press Photo of the Year. Jodi Bieber had
been on assignment in Afghanistan taking portraits of women.
She had photographed politicians, documentary filmmakers,
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Bibi Ayshas plight was to remind the public of the atrocities the
Taliban had committed. Esther Hyneman rejected the suggestion
made by Ann Jones in the Nation that the Taliban were being
singled out for demonization when they were not much different
from other misogynous groups in Afghanistan, including those
in the U.S.-backed government. If the Taliban were to come to
power, she warned, the sole bulwarks against the permanent
persecution of women will be gone. These bulwarks were the
international human rights organizations and local organizations like her WAW.4
The controversy over Bibi Aysha indicates how central the
question of Afghan womens rights remains to the politics of the
War on Terror that, almost from its first days in 2001, has been
justified in terms of saving Afghan women.5 As an anthropologist who had studied women and gender politics in another part
of the Muslim world for so many years, I was not convinced at
the time by this public rationale for war, even as I recognized that
women in Afghanistan do have particular struggles and that
some suffer disturbing forms of violence.
Like many colleagues whose work focuses on women in the
Middle East and the Muslim world, I was deluged with invitations to speak at the time of heightened interest in 2001. It was
the beginning of many years of being contacted by news programs, as well as by departments at colleges and universities, especially womens studies programs. I was a scholar who had by then
devoted more than twenty years of my life to this subject, and it
was gratifying to be offered opportunities to share my knowledge.
The urgent desire to understand our sister women of cover (as
President George W. Bush had so marvelously called them) was
laudable. When it came from womens studies programs where
transnational feminism was taken seriously, it had integrity. But I
was uncomfortable.
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call me back. But she did, twice. The first was with an idea for a
segment on the meaning of Ramadan, which was in response to
an American bombing during that time. The second was for a
program on Muslim women in politics, following speeches by
Laura Bush and Cherie Blair, wife of the then British prime
minister.
What is striking about these three ideas for news programs is
that there was a consistent resort to the cultural, as if knowing
something about women and Islam or the meaning of a religious
ritual would help one understand the tragic attack on New
Yorks World Trade Center and the U.S. Pentagon; how Afghanistan had come to be ruled by the Taliban; what interests might
have fueled U.S. and other interventions in the region over the
past quarter of a century; what the history of American support
for conservative Afghan fighters might have been; or why the
caves and bunkers out of which Osama bin Laden was to be
smoked dead or alive, as President Bush announced on television, were paid for and built by the Central Intelligence Agency
(CIA).
To put it another way, why was knowing about the culture of
the regionand particularly its religious beliefs and treatment
of womenmore urgent than exploring the history of the development of repressive regimes in the region and the United States
role in this history? Such cultural framing, it seemed to me, prevented the serious exploration of the roots and nature of human
suffering in that part of the world. Instead of political and historical explanations, experts were being asked to give religious
or cultural ones. Instead of questions that might lead to the examination of internal political struggles among groups in Afghanistan, or of global interconnections between Afghanistan and other
nation-states, we were offered ones that worked to artificially
divide the world into separate spheresre-creating an imaginative
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coats and hats, are wearing wigs. This is because religious belief
and community standards of propriety require the covering of
the hair. They also alter boutique fashions to include high necks
and long sleeves. People wear the appropriate form of dress for
their social communities and their social classes. They are guided
by socially shared standards and signals of social status. Religious beliefs and moral ideals are also important, including as
targets for transgressions to make a point (one thinks of Madonna here). The ability to afford proper and appropriate cover
affects choice. If we think that U.S. women live in a world of
choice regarding clothing, we might also remind ourselves of the
expression, the tyranny of fashion.
What happened in Afghanistan under the Taliban was that
one regional style of covering or veilingassociated with a certain respectable but not elite classwas imposed on everyone as
religiously appropriate, even though previously there had been
many different styles that were popular or traditional with different groups and classes. There had been different ways to mark
womens propriety or, in more recent times, piety. Even before
the Taliban, the majority of women in Afghanistan were rural
and non-elite. They were the only ones who could not emigrate
to escape the hardship and violence that has marked Afghanistans recent history. If liberated from the enforced wearing of
burqas, most of these women would choose some other form of
modest head covering, like those living across the region who
were not under the Talibantheir rural Hindu counterparts in
the North of India (who cover their heads and veil their faces
from in-laws) or their fellow Muslims in Pakistan.
Even the New York Times carried a good article in 2001 about
Afghan women refugees in Pakistan, attempting to educate readers about this local variety of modes of womens veiling.14 The
article described and pictured everything from the now-iconic
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position was to reject any conciliatory approach to Islamic governance. According to one report, though, most women activists,
especially those based in Afghanistan who are aware of the realities on the ground, agreed that Islam had to be the starting point
for reform. Fatima Gailani, a U.S.-based adviser to one of the
delegations, was quoted as saying, If I go to Afghanistan today
and ask women for votes on the promise to bring them secularism, they are going to tell me to go to hell.27 Instead, according
to one report, most of these women looked to what might seem
a surprising place for inspiration on how to fight for equality:
Iran. Here was as a country in which they saw women making
significant gains within an Islamic frameworkin part through
an Islamic feminist movement that was challenging injustices
and reinterpreting the religious tradition.
The constantly changing situation in Iran has itself been the
subject of heated debate within feminist circles, especially among
Iranian feminists living in the United States or Europe.28 It is not
clear whether and in what ways women have made gains and
whether the great increases in literacy, decreases in birthrates,
presence of women in the professions and government, and a
feminist flourishing in cultural fields like writing and filmmaking
are despite or because of the establishment of an Islamic Republic. The concept of an Islamic feminism itself is also controversial. Is it an oxymoron or does it refer to a viable movement
forged by brave women who want a third way? In the decade
since that conference in Bonn, as we see in Chapter 6, Islamic
feminisms have been thriving and developing well beyond Iran.
One of the things we have to be most careful about is not to
fall into polarizations that place feminism, and even secularism,
only on the side of the West. I have written about the dilemmas
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her from something. You are also saving her to something. What
violences are entailed in this transformation? What presumptions are being made about the superiority of that to which you
are saving her? Projects of saving other women depend on and
reinforce a sense of superiority, and are a form of arrogance that
deserves to be challenged. All one needs to do to appreciate the
patronizing quality of the rhetoric of saving women is to imagine
using it today in the United States about disadvantaged groups
such as African American, Latina, or other working-class women.
We now understand them to be suffering from structural violence. We have become politicized about race and class, but not
culture.
We should be wary of taking on the mantles of those late
nineteenth-century Christian missionary women who devoted
their lives to saving their Muslim sisters. One of my favorite documents from the period is a collection called Our Moslem Sisters,
the proceedings of a conference of women missionaries held in
Cairo in 1906.32 The subtitle of the book is A Cry of Need from
the Lands of Darkness Interpreted by Those Who Heard It.
Speaking of the ignorance, seclusion, polygamy, and veiling that
blight womens lives across the Muslim world, the missionary
women assert their responsibility to make these womens voices
heard: They will never cry for themselves, for they are down
under the yoke of centuries of oppression.33 This book, it begins, with its sad, reiterated story of wrong and oppression is an
indictment and an appeal . . . It is an appeal to Christian womanhood to right these wrongs and enlighten this darkness by
sacrifice and service.34
One hears uncanny echoes of their virtuous goals today, even
though the language is distinctly secular and the appeals are less
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the appeals are even simpler: to modern beauty regimes and the
rights to cut hair. This was the surprising message of a group of
hairdressers who went to Kabul to open a beauty academy for
Afghan women, teaching them hair and make-up. These Australians, Americans, and exiled Afghans were part of an initiative
called Beauty without Borders, supported, not surprisingly, by
the cosmetics industry and Vogue.35
The continuing currency of the missionaries imagery and sentiments can be seen in the way they are deployed for even more
serious humanitarian causes. In February 2002, a few months
after coalition forces entered Afghanistan, I received an invitation to a reception honoring the international medical humanitarian network called Mdecins du Monde/Doctors of the World
(MdM). Under the sponsorship of the French ambassador to the
United States, the head of the delegation of the European Commission to the United Nations, and a member of the European
Parliament, the cocktail reception was to feature an exhibition
of photographs under the clichd title Afghan Women: Behind
the Veil. The invitation was remarkable not just for the colorful
photograph of women in flowing burqas walking across the barren mountains of Afghanistan but also for the text, which read
in part:
For 20 years MdM has been ceaselessly struggling to help those who
are most vulnerable. But increasingly, thick veils cover the victims of
the war. When the Taliban came to power in 1996, Afghan Women
became faceless. To unveil ones face while receiving medical care
was to achieve a sort of intimacy, find a brief space for secret freedom and recover a little of ones dignity. In a country where women
had no access to basic medical care because they did not have the right
to appear in public, where women had no right to practice medicine,
MdMs program stood as a stubborn reminder of human rights . . .
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Although I do not take up here the fantasies of intimacy associated with unveilingfantasies reminiscent of the French
colonial obsessions so brilliantly unmasked by Malek Alloula
in his book, The Colonial Harem, about Algerian colonial
postcardsI can ask, and try to answer in the chapters that follow, why humanitarian projects and human rights discourse in
the twenty-first century need to rely on such stereotyped constructions of Muslim women.
It seems to me that it is better to leave veils and vocations of
saving others behind. Instead, we should be training our sights
on ways to make the world a more just place. The reason that
respect for difference should not be confused with cultural relativism is because it does not preclude asking how we, living in
this privileged and powerful part of the world, might examine
our own responsibilities for the situations in which others in
distant places find themselves. We do not stand outside the world,
overlooking a sea of poor, benighted people living under the
shadowor the veilof oppressive cultures; we are part of that
world. Islamic movements have arisen in a world intimately
shaped by the intense engagements of Western powers in Middle Eastern and South and Southeast Asian lives; so has Islamic
feminism.
A more productive alternative might be to ask ourselves how
we could contribute to making the world a more just placea
world not organized around strategic military and economic
demands; a place where certain kinds of forces and values that
we consider important could have a wide appeal; a place where
there is the peace necessary for discussion, debate, and institutional transformation, such as has always existed, to occur and
continue within communities. We need to ask ourselves what
kinds of world conditions those of us from wealthy nations could
contribute to making, such that popular desires elsewhere will not
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be determined by an overwhelming sense of helplessness (or angry reaction) in the face of forms of global injustice. Where we
seek to be active in the affairs of distant places, we might do so in
the spirit of support for those within those communities whose
goals are to make womens (and mens) lives better.36 And we
might do so with respect for the complexity of ongoing debates,
positions, and institutions within their countries. Many have
suggested that it would be more ethical to use a more egalitarian language of alliances, coalitions, and solidarity, rather than
rescue.
Even members of RAWA, which was so instrumental in bringing to U.S. womens attention the excesses of the Taliban, opposed
the U.S. bombings from the beginning. They did not see Afghan
womens salvation in military violence that only increased hardship and loss. They called for disarmament and for peacekeeping
forces. Spokespersons pointed out the dangers of confusing governments with people, or the Taliban with innocent Afghans who
would be most harmed. They consistently reminded audiences to
take a close look at the ways policies were being organized
around oil interests, the arms industry, and the international
drug trade. They were not obsessed with the veil, even though
they were perhaps the most radical feminists working for a secular democratic Afghanistan. Unfortunately, only their messages
about the excesses of the Taliban were heard, even though their
criticisms of those in power in Afghanistan had included previous regimes.
As U.S. involvement in Afghanistan increasingly came to resemble the quagmire in which the Soviets found themselves in
the 1980s, arguments of groups like RAWA have been proven
prescient. In a comprehensive analysis of the situation in Afghanistan six years after the invasion, Deniz Kandiyoti drew attention to two key factors adversely affecting Afghan women.
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We seem to be living in remarkable times. Ever since womens rights served as a respectable
reason to support military intervention in 2001 in Afghanistan,
the language of human rights has not only been on (almost) every
tongue, but the call for womens rights has gone mainstream. The
abuses women suffer are no longer considered private matters,
swept into dark corners, or dismissed as insignificant in the international public sphere. Fifty years ago, no one could have imagined this development. The feminists who labored so hard on
legislation, health, education, consciousness raising, and international conventions should feel gratified, even if the term feminism carries a taint and is rarely claimed by those today making
universalistic calls for womens rights.
Signs of this seismic shift are everywhere, but nowhere more
apparent than in some very well-received books by writers in
the United States who address a broad, educated public. The
New York Times columnist Nicholas Kristof and the Somali
migr Ayaan Hirsi Ali are excellent examples of writers who
have made strong public cases for global womens rights. What
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that invite us to shop honour. For a donation, you choose between an Honour tote bag and a mens tie.5
From yet another corner of the American public sphere comes
proof that womens freedom and equality have come to be idealized across the political spectrum. Working out of a major American conservative think tank after irregularities in her asylum
application to the Netherlands made her situation there uncomfortable, Ayaan Hirsi Ali, the outspoken and rebellious daughter
of the second wife of a former Somali opposition leader, has
made her name defending womens rights. Listed by Time magazine as one of the most influential people in the world, she has
been recognized by many awards, including Glamours Woman
of the Year. She has established a foundation to defend and protect the rights of women. This celebrity has become so familiar
that her publishers decided a portrait of this striking woman,
looking straight out at readers, should supplant the clichd image that marketed her first book: her shrouded nemesis, the fully
veiled Muslim woman.6
These significant voices from the liberal and conservative public spheres suggest that there has been a leap forward in the
public recognition of the seriousness of gender discrimination
and womens suffering. Their perspectives and positive reception
mark the emergence of a new common sense that gender injustice
is a legitimate concern, not a fringe issue. Building on the work of
historians, social researchers, political theorists, and philosophers,
these writers are promoting a new way of thinking: a global approach that acknowledges womens issues as major social and
moral problems, not just the concerns of feminists. Writing clearly,
simply, and directly, they turn our attention to particular places
around the world that many know little aboutSomalia, Cambodia, India, the Netherlands, Pakistan, the Congo, China, and
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Afghanistan. They amplify, clarify, and bring to life what feminist researchers, local and transnational human and womens
rights organizations, and grassroots feminists have struggled for
so long to analyze and publicize.
The optimism of these interventions into popular public discourse makes them especially effective. They shine a harsh light
on gender oppression and then they call out to us to live up to
our highest moral values and our political ideals. They presume
that people, once they know, will not stand by, silent and apathetic. Narrating stories of progressfrom bondage to freedom,
from despair to hope, from sexual enslavement to small-scale
entrepreneurship through microcredit financingthey ask us to
join a collective moral struggle to improve the lives of women.7
But how do these writers make their case that we ought to
enter what Appiah calls the war on women? One way they do
so is by calling up the ghost of Atlantic slaveryas analogy, as
instructive case study, and as subliminal referent. This comparison is worth pausing over because a look at what historians and
social researchers have taught us about Atlantic slavery and its
aftermath leads to some cautionary questions regarding the new
consensus about womens rights. How do these writers construct
their objects and their arguments? What silences might make us
suspicious?
For Kristof and WuDunn in Half the Sky, abolition stands as
the unambiguous sign of our capacity to move beyond moral
evil. They declare: In the nineteenth century, the central moral
challenge was slavery. In the twentieth century, it was the battle
against totalitarianism. We believe that in this century the paramount moral challenge will be the struggle for gender equality
around the world.8 Abolition is a key case in the study of moral
revolutions in Appiahs The Honor Code. Slavery also makes
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by the one drop [of black blood] rule and was used to contain
blacks in the American South in a kind of apartheid known as
Jim Crow. Almost 150 years after emancipation, African Americans still struggle for equality of opportunity. Banished into
informally segregated and underfunded schools and neighborhoods; largely excluded from good jobs, respectability, and upward mobility; often sexualized and degraded; ghettoized and
criminalized, their suffering is either made invisible or blamed
on them. Mass incarceration, described by Michelle Alexander as
the new Jim Crow, has shaped a cohort of men and women.14
Ending slavery was a milestone in the history of the struggle
against human barbarity, but emancipation has not yet produced
equality.
Given this history, what lessons should we draw from the
analogy between gender oppression and slavery? First, it is not so
obvious how moral revolutions actually happen. They seem to
depend on many voices, multiple social and political factors, and
contingent historical events. Appiah, like the great German sociologist Norbert Elias, shows us that morality, like manners, actually has a history.15 Part of our job is to reflect on what might
account for, and what could stabilize, the new moral currency of
going to war for women.
Second, we must look at where the analogy breaks down. On
the one hand, gender relations are different from relations between the free and enslaved. Women and girls everywhere are
more entangled with men and boysin complex ways, including
through kinship and lovethan slaves were with their masters.
On the other hand, abolition was undertaken by the people and
communities directly responsible for the enslavement of others,
even if they disavowed and sought to undo the history of their
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It Feels Transcendent
For all these writers, the wrongs and suffering of womenwhether
sexual slavery or mental slavery, rape or maternal mortality,
so-called honor killings or confinement to homes and brothels
are to be found in distant lands. Their arguments about gender
discrimination and inequality take a global perspective. The stories they tell are from Africa, Asia, and the Middle East, or immigrant enclaves in Europe. The strange thing that happens along
the way is that womens rights issues become pertinent only
elsewhere.
The only American or European women who appear in the
280 pages of Half the Sky are altruistic high school students who
raise money to build schools in Cambodia, or women who give
up their jobs to devote themselves to working in health clinics in
Africa. Some of the small organizations these American women
started are now multimillion-dollar operations. The only American men who appear are those like Kristof himself, who rescues
prostitutes from brothels, or those, like the late dean of Columbia Universitys School of Public Health, who devote themselves
to fighting maternal mortality.
These are all good people. The cause of women does need to
be higher on the agenda. But how does this focus on global good
works erase the fact that the problems that should concern us
are not only over there? In defending their choice to make
gender issues a priority given all the pressing problems in the
world, Kristof and WuDunn say something revealing: This kind
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of oppression feels transcendent.17 Gender injustice feels transcendent to them, I would suggest, because they do not ground it
in the world they know. An occasional jarring statistic (for example, U.S. maternal mortality rates are much higher than Italys
and are shocking compared to Irelands) sits unelaborated. Half
the Sky tells no stories about overworked lawyers who defend
women in U.S. prisons who have been convicted of killing their
abusive lovers or husbands. No quotes appear from reports like
that of the U.S. Justice Department, whose national survey indicates that one in every six American women has been raped in her
lifetime, usually by an intimate or someone she knows.18 They do
not mention Peggy Sandays research on the white, middle-class
culture of college fraternities, where getting women drunk so the
guys can score, even gang-raping their guests and boasting
about it the next day, is acceptable.19 Nothing is said about the
alarming rates of domestic violence and murder of their spouses
that shadow returning veterans of the wars in Afghanistan and
Iraq. The only kind of problem American women face, according
to Kristof and WuDunn, is unwanted touching from a boss or
underfunded sports teams.20 In order to make their (legitimate)
case for concern about lethal sex discrimination, they trivialize
gender issues in the United States and Europe.
Like Cynthia Enloe, the pioneering feminist political scientist
who did so much to help us see the role of gender in international relations, Kristof and WuDunn recognize and applaud the
existence of feminist activists in other countries.21 So does Appiah, who relies on the work of Pakistani women lawyers and
feminist activists. But the overriding message of Half the Sky,
like the other popular books discussed here, is that Westerners
are the ones who must change the world, even if it has to be, as
they say, not by holding the microphone at the front of the rally
but by writing the checks and carrying the bags at the back.22
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inequalities. We seem to accept shocking inequalities in the distribution of world resources as inevitable.
What is the effect of this insistence that we focus our gaze elsewhere? Such arguments allow those they hail to feel innocent,
moral, and purposeful. In contrast, many radical global activists
now ask us to seriously consider our responsibilities for this situation, as individual consumers and citizens, as part of nations
with enormous military spending, and as beneficiaries (though
increasingly also as victims) of corporate greed.32 Offering $80
and donating some blood to try to save a dying pregnant African
woman, as Kristof did, is better than turning away. Offering a
$25 loan to a microcredit lender so that a woman in a village
can borrow it (at 2030 percent interest, which is better, Kristof
and WuDunn assure us, than the rate of local moneylenders)33
may not be harmful. But these amounts are less than those who
feel good giving them would pay for a meal at an ordinary
restaurant.
Acknowledging that cynics might criticize projects that
send American high school students abroad to build schools for
girls (saying the money they have raised through bake sales and
soliciting rich relatives could be better spent on building more
schools), Half the Sky defends such practices. One purpose is to
expose young Americans to life abroad so that they, too, can
learn and grow and blossom.34 In Half the Sky, we learn that
aid projects have a mixed record in helping people abroad, but
a superb record in inspiring and educating donors.35 The trip to
Cambodia was for the students of one private school an essential field trip and learning opportunity.36 The learning opportunity though, was for privileged private school students who
have had and will have many other opportunities to grow and
blossom.
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IslamLand
If the first clue to the commonsense appeal of this popular battle
for womens rights and equality can be found in the gaze that
doesnt look back at itself, the second clue can be found most
clearly in Ayaan Hirsi Alis writing. She is a complex figure. Although her autobiographical book, Infidel, is fascinating and
rich in detail, in other works she traffics in the ideological certainties of the Right, using the catchphrases they have commandeered. She invokes freedom and reason in her Manichean depiction of world affairs. She adopts Samuel Huntingtons formulation
of world politics as a clash of civilizations and Bernard Lewiss
most famous sound bite about Muslims: What went wrong?37
She disparages the soft liberalism of multiculturalism. Free and
easy with her facts, eclectic in her references, and inconsistent in
her arguments, she enjoys political patronage from the Right as
a moderate Muslim.38 She appears to be the opposite of a liberal scholar like Appiah.
Yet Hirsi Ali shares something with these others who are shaping a new common sense about going to war for women besides
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and does a bit of sewing on the side, he does the plumbing and
electricity, makes his own rope from palm fiber to tie up the harvest, and makes bricks by hand from mud and straw. For ten
years, he and Amal have been working surreptitiously to reclaim
a bit of desert land to grow vegetables for the family and to lay
the foundations for a house for his eldest son. The work for both
of them was especially hard in the days when their children were
too young to help, all in school.
A journalist meeting Amal the day I returned to the village to
find her in pain might have seized on Amals pain, her inadequate
medical attention, or her husbands heartless joke. They disturbed
me too. But I know that her medical and financial problems have
complex causes, not simple gender discrimination and certainly
not any kind of war on women. As we talked, I discovered that
she had been forced to sell one of her own sheep to help pay for
the medical expenses. It is worth pointing out that the sheep are
hers to raise and profit from. And this was not the first occasion
on which I had heard her husband joke about taking another
wife. Sometimes as my husband and I were sitting and drinking
tea with the family after theyd invited us to supper, Amals husband would ask if we could find him one of those rich European
women who support other young men in his tourist region. Did
Amal take this request seriously? She knew as well as we did
that every time he said something like this, his daughters would
pounce on him and pretend to pummel him, teasing him that
theyd beat him up and run his new wife out of town if he dared.
It was empty talk, even though technically his right. What lay
behind his comment was sheer exhaustion and frustration about
how unfair it was that others in this unequal world had it easier.
Like most women in the community, Amal says her prayers
regularly and covers her hair. She does not often go places without her husbands knowledge, though she never has to ask
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writing about the wrongs other women sufferparticularly Muslim women. The genre is graphic, even pornographic.
The two languages, one abstract and disinterested, the other
affective, bleed into each other in the new common sense about
rescuing women. Key to the vocabularies of both are consent,
choice, and freedom. The central drama is the difference between
those who choose and those who do not, between those who are
free and those who live in bondage. The way this drama unfolds
has consequences for the crusade.
We need to consider both of these languages. But the popular
genre of writing on the abused Muslim woman is particularly
fascinating. We can think of it as a form of trafficking: literary
trafficking. The weakness of the analogy between Atlantic slavery and todays gender oppression that I discuss in Chapter 2
is overcome here by some surprising similarities between slave
plantation pornography and this genre. I therefore reflect in this
chapter on the political contexts in which these books are produced and ask how they might be affecting those who consume
them. I also read against the grain of their dark titillations and
strange alchemyin which the exceptional becomes generalto
glimpse even in such formulaic stories another way of thinking
about the victim/heroines who are the objects of such intense
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rights as human rights. They did so through drafting conventions, installing themselves in vast bureaucratic institutions, and
putting in place mechanisms of accountability. If the evils of
gender discrimination now seem so obvious and the language of
womens rights has such authority, we have to thank these conventions and campaigns. Among the heroines of the new common sense about global womens rights are the women activists
involved in grassroots and international institutions dedicated to
promoting rights.2
To get a sense of what the campaigns linking womens and human rights entail, we can take a quick look at some key arguments
put forth by influential feminists.3 One prominent legal scholar
who invokes universal rights in campaigns against pornography
and rape actually begins in a surprising way. She criticizes the
Universal Declaration of Human Rights (UDHR), faulting it and
the institutions that support it, both national and international,
for being patriarchal. Her plaintive question, When will women
be human? is meant to challenge not only the failure to apply
the UDHR universally but also its partial or exclusionary vision
of the human. After melodramatically cataloging in the first person plural all the abuses women in particular suffer in what she
sees as a global war against women (the same sorts of abuses
Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn cover so well in Half the
Sky and to which Anthony Appiahs The Honor Code gestures),
Catherine MacKinnon asserts, Women need full human status
in social reality. For this, the Universal Declaration of Human
Rights must see the ways women distinctively are deprived of
human rights as a deprivation of humanity . . . for human rights
to be universal, both the reality it [the UDHR] challenges and
the standard it sets need to change.4
Charlotte Bunch, who articulated most clearly the connection
between womens and human rights, mobilized some of the same
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arguments. In spearheading the campaign in the 1990s, she argued that womens issues should not be treated as separate issues; they are more properly understood as neglected aspects of
global agendas for human rights and development. Governments
should be committed to womens equality as a basic human right.
Sex discrimination and violence against women, she charged, had
been excluded from the human rights agenda until the 1990s
because people had failed to see the oppression of women as political; instead, they took it as natural.5
Both of these advocates of womens rights called for a universally applied standard of gender equality. They did so by appealing to the universal rights of the human. One of the most intelligently debated statements on the urgency of making gender
equity a universal social prioritya goal promoted by Half the
Skys call to armsis Susan Moller Okins essay, Is Multiculturalism Bad for Women? In this essay, which Ayaan Hirsi Ali
found persuasive but many others have contested, Okin pits
feminism against any and all arguments for group rights or cultural rights. She lines up the liberal ideal of sex equity, defined as
the possibility for women to live as fulfilling and as freely chosen lives as men can6 (which she grants is not yet fully realized
anywhere) against culture. She locates culture only outside the
Westonly outside of liberal states.7 Although Okin does not
appeal explicitly to universal human rights, as do the other two,
her argument rests on the assumption that liberal culture is the
acultural norm and should be the universal standard by which to
measure societies. Those who fall short are the barbarians outside
the gates and even some who have breached the gatesimmigrants.
They are, unfortunately for women, in thrall of their cultures or
religions.8
Okin accuses all cultures of being patriarchaldefined by
mens control over women. Discrimination against women in the
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lighter books in this genre, Ahmad faults the public for regularly
mistaking these literary productions for ethnographies of actual
people and places; readers presume they are finding out something about other cultures when they read such books. Sometimes
these books are even assigned in schools. Although there is some
variety within the genre, even the few works that are sensitively
attuned to the particulars of a place and sympathetic to their heroines, Ahmad argues, get absorbed by readers into a generalized
vision of what, in Chapter 2, I call IslamLand.
There is a long tradition of representing Muslim women in
the West. Scholars give it a name: gendered Orientalism. Pictorial as well as literary, what is constant is that Muslim women
are portrayed as culturally distinct, the mirror opposites of Western women.19 In the nineteenth century, the depictions took two
forms: women of the Orient were either portrayed as downtrodden victims who were imprisoned, secluded, shrouded, and treated
as beasts of burden or they appeared in a sensual world of excessive sexualityas slaves in harems and the subjects of the gaze
of lascivious and violent men, not to mention those looking in.
Christian missionary women appealed for support by decrying
the oppression of their Muslim sisters in the first register. Artists
and writers, and even the colonial postcard photographers of the
early twentieth century, preferred the sensual and sexual.20
The late twentieth- and early twenty-first-century mass-market
paperbacks echo these themes but have their own distinct style
and character. Their protagonists are, as Ahmad notes, plucky
individualists with feminist ideals who do not want to remain
trapped in their strange and sordid worlds. They want freedom,
like the native informant celebrities such as Ayaan Hirsi Ali
and Irshad Manji, whose denunciations of Islam as causing the
oppression of women have been so warmly welcomed and whose
careers have been bolstered by powerful institutions. Their
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comes home drunk, and she confronts him again about her two
missing daughters. He tells her to forget them and locks her in
the room. Miriam recounts:
He was close now, leaning towards me, his beery breath engulfing
me. I sat, terrified, on the sofa. He came closer and held out his hand.
I slapped at it furiously, hoping he would go away. Instead he pulled
me up, his good thumb and middle finger around my throat. I fought
him off, pushing him to the floor. He grabbed at my dressing-gown
in a vain effort to save his fall, pulling the material apart, tearing it
down its length . . . Take your clothes off! All of them! Muthana
growled deeply.
. . . Well, if he thought I was going to make this into some fantasy
trip, he was mistaken. I flung my nightie into a heap on the floor,
contemptuously. His eyes travelled over my body, settling on the scar
from the operation to sterilize me. He reached out and touched the
scarred flesh. Instinctively I slapped his hand away. He laughed and
touched it again. I went to slap at his hand again when, suddenly, he
grabbed my hand by the wrist and pulled me sharply to the floor, rolling me over onto my back and jumping on top of me immediately in
a quick movement.
I scrunched my eyes shut and clanged my fists at my side. I lay
rigid on the floor as he indulged himself, crying out in his pleasure as
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grows up. Her father is a disciplinarian; her brothers are abusive. She wants to be like French girls, but they wont let her. Her
parents force her to marry a man from Morocco, a husband she
hates. She has a frightening encounter with a sex maniac imam
hired to exorcise her because she objects. The book is written
(with a journalist, of course) in the aftermath of Leilas suicide
attempts and stays in a psychiatric hospital. Like Zana, Solds
heroine, Leila finally escapes her forced marriage and finds freedom. It is then that she tells us her story.
The reader is treated to some horrific scenes between husband
and wife. Trying desperately to provoke him to divorce her, Leila
goads her husband and insults him mercilessly. She makes him
sleep in the lounge and wont let him touch her. They argue all
the time. She recounts the turning point: One evening, at midnight, I was quietly taking a bath to relax and Id forgotten to lock
the bathroom door. He began to start a fight, me in the bath, him
on the other side of the door, being spiteful.27 They exchange insults until she reveals to him a secret about his own mother. He
calls Morocco to confirm and then is furious, his eyes popping
out of his head. Bloody bitch, bloody tart, open this door!
He charges into the bathroom and shoves her head underwater. She scratches his face. He throws her onto the floor and
punches and kicks her, yelling, Is this what you want? Here, take
that and that. She describes her feelings, lying naked on the floor
and being beaten, with a weirdly out-of-place metaphor meant
to position this bad marriage squarely in the specific context of
Islamic barbarity: It was the total shame, humiliation and horror of a woman being stoned to death.28
In another, more fanciful book, lightened by a likable heroine
who has a weakness for whiskey and extravagant shopping at
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comments in relation to the caged birds. On the question of consent, she says, Our religion forbids the forcing of females into a
union not of their liking, but, like much that is good in our Islamic faith, this is misinterpreted or simply ignored.31
In this short book, we are treated to other stories of forced
sex, the most disturbing being the discovery by Sultana of her
nephews rape of a Pakistani girl in the servants tent set up during a family outing in the desert. Hearing a womans screams in
the quiet night, Sultana and her sister go to investigate. In their
flashlight beam, they surprise two men assaulting a woman while
another stands by. Her description is (porno)graphic, hinting at
pedophilia: One man was covering the poor victims mouth in
an effort to silence her cries . . . the second man who was on top
of the naked woman gradually turned to face us . . . The poor
girl had been stripped of her clothing. She lay naked and defenceless before us. Her face was a frightful mask of terror, and
her delicate frame was racked with sobs. She was so small that
she appeared to be more a child than a woman.32 As Sultana
confides, she knew that some of her nephews had traveled to
Thailand, the Philippines, India, and Pakistan for prostitutes,
but this was the first time I had heard of any of these nephews
actually purchasing a woman to bring her into our kingdom as
a sexual slave.33
Literary Trafcking
The public appetite for such depictions of sordid and brutal treatment of women by Muslim or Arab men is disquieting. Unlike
the many good ethnographies written by anthropologists about
womens everyday lives in these countries, these memoirs of
suffering by oppressed Muslim women enjoy spectacular and
strangely enduring popularity.34 Sold, by the Birmingham girl
who escaped from Yemen with her mothers help after thirteen
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Akhtar. They were amazed that we had come all the way from
France to suggest that we should write a book together, a book
that would help her in her struggle.42
In Britain in the past decadewith troops stationed in Iraq
and Afghanistan, eruptions of public hysteria about Sharia arbitration courts and burqas, fears of homegrown fanaticism instigated by the 7/11 bombings, and feminist agitation leading to
national legislation against honor crimes and forced marriageit
is Pakistanis, not Arabs, who have emerged as the new authors
of these memoirs. Andrew Croftss earlier success with the Yemeni story of Zana led to his involvement in writing another story
of abuse and freedom about a British woman from the Pakistani
community. The title of Croftss 2009 book with Saira Ahmed carries the anachronistic flavor of nineteenth-century melodrama:
Disgraced: Forced to Marry a Stranger, Betrayed by My Own
Family, Sold My Body to Survive, This Is My Story.43 The product
description on Amazon.co.uk shouts all the familiar keywords
of the genre: Brought up in a violent Muslim household, where
family honour is all, Saira is watched 24 hours a day. However,
an innocent friendship with a boy is uncovered and Saira is sent
to Pakistan, punished for dishonouring her family. There, the
nightmare really begins. Forced to marry an older stranger who
rapes her repeatedly and makes her his round-the-clock sex slave,
she eventually plots her escape but, destitute, has to return to the
family home in England . . . Disgraced is the true story of an innocence ruined and a life shattered. But it is also a tale of survival told by a woman who has finally discovered her true voice
(emphasis added).44
These are the terms of other memoirs in the genre, includingShame (2007) and Daughters of Shame (2009) by Jasvinder
Sanghera, and Unbroken Spirit: A True Story of a Girls Struggle
to Escape from Abuse (2008) by Ferzanna Riley. Consider the
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Slave Pornography
The pornographic element of these memoirs must be considered
directly. The dynamics are clearest in one published in Britain in
2009 at the height of the controversy over the Sharia family arbitration courts. This is the memoir that also most directly challenges the authority of Islam. It is damning, even if it is prefaced
(for fear of libel suits?) with the formulaic disclaimer we have
come to expect from crusaders of the new common sense. The
author notes in her preface, It is worth pointing out that there
are many Muslims in Britain and around the world who have
had only good experiences of growing up with their faith, including women who are free to live full, independent and liberated lives and Imams who practice lawfully and have an extremely
positive influence on their communities. This book is in no way a
denigration of Islam generally. It is a personal account of my own
life experiences.46
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Yet the villain is a horrid imam and the heroine his daughter,
alternately described as a caged bird or shackled bride. Typical
of its graphic scenes of the repeated rape and abuse of this little
girl by her father, an apparent pillar of the Muslim community
who locks her in the cellar for his work, is the following: Dad
was like a terrifying predator. I never knew when he would strike.
Once I was in the bathroom, when all of a sudden Dad just
barged in. He locked the door . . . He took down his shalwar
kamiz baggy pants, and plunked himself down on the loo. He
forced me to watch as he started touching himself and breathing
heavily. I tried to look away, in disgust, but he grabbed me by the
hair and forced my face towards himso close that I could smell
that horrible, musty smell that always made me feel so sick.
Then he grabbed my hand and forced it around his flesh.47
Here we can see most clearly how these memoirs are meant to
inspire horror and pity, followed by admiration for the heroine
survivors escapes into freedom. Freedom means escaping not
just the Muslim men who torment them but their own communities and cultures. The memoirists confess their rage, self-loathing,
and suicide attempts; they often describe themselves as having
been rebellious teenagers. This is the feminist difference of the late
twentieth century and into the twenty-first, where brown women
seem to want to be rescued by their white sisters and friends, to
adapt Spivaks famous formulation. If these Muslim girls and
women were not portrayed as wanting what we wantlove,
choice, and sexual freedom (even Christianity or atheism, in the
case of Shah and Hirsi Ali)preferring instead to be dutiful
daughters living in the bosom of their families, virgins at marriage, devoted wives partnering with their husbands, or pious
individuals seeking to live up to the moral ideals of their religion
and living according to its laws, it would be hard for Western
readers to identify.48 It would be hard for publishers to find such
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eager audiences if they offered us women and girls who challenged our assumptions about what they should want and what
is good for them. Western women would no longer be the role
models, nor would they feel needed.
The only pious women who appear in this genre of oppressed
Muslim women stories are the hapless victims, grievously betrayed by their silent God, who appear in the most extreme and
controversial examples. The mobilization of the pornography of
bondage for anti-immigrant European politics is best seen in a
short film that actually breaks with the conventions of fauxcultural and individual specificity of this dystopic genre. The context is the Netherlands in 2004. The writer is the Somali refugee
and right-wing politician Ayaan Hirsi Ali. The work in question is
the eleven-minute film called Submission that catapulted her to
notoriety.49
Hirsi Alis signature intellectual style of asserting direct causal
connections between decontextualized verses from the Quran
and abuses of women she has met in shelters or in her fantasies
shapes the film. There are four characters: a woman repulsed by
the husband chosen for her by her family, for whom marital sex
feels like rape; a woman who must submit to beatings by a jealous but philandering husband because he supports her financially; a modest, veiled woman who is subjected to humiliating
incest by her uncle; and a woman who fell in love but was abandoned by her lover and then lashed for fornication. The film implies that such abuses are sanctioned, if not directly caused, by
Islam, ignoring centuries of interpretationexegetical, judicial,
and everydayof the Quranic verses in question, and silent on
the abhorrence of rape or incest in the Islamic legal tradition,
not to mention all Muslim societies.
Dutch scholars, especially feminists, have had a lot to say about
this film and Hirsi Ali.50 Some have pointed out that Submission
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honor crime that such books produce a horror that indeed underwrites a confident sense of moral distinction and Western feminist superiority.
A common enemypatriarchysupposedly affirms the sisterhood. Yet in every set of acknowledgments, the memoirists thank
the English and French men who have been their editors, publishers, ghostwriters, boyfriends, or husbands. So it becomes clear
that it is actually the menacing and irremediably patriarchal Muslim man acting out his cultural script who stands as the clear evil
against which such a sisterly community can bond. Such men,
weknow, are targeted as the enemies of our police forces and
ourarmies. So then we must ask how such identifications erase
readers roles as perpetrators of violence (insofar as they belong
to a community involved in violence against Muslims abroad
and at home, which these books seem to justify), just as the eighteenth- and nineteenth-century British men who empathized
with slave victims erased their racial and national culpability.
What kinds of emotional complicity do such books encourage
for women? And how do the affects these books induce in their
women readers lead them to support an imperial politics to
which they might not consciously assent if they imagine themselves to be progressive, or at least liberal?
If Wood concluded that the test of the sentimental man in the
eighteenth century was his ability to imaginatively experience the
pain of others, the production of this sublime experience slipping
into the commercial bondage fantasy in relation to slave women,
we might want to consider whether the empathetic responses of
women readers to the narratives of victimized Muslim women
confirm their own morality while shading into a commerce in
Muslims.58 This commerce takes the form of the proliferation
of books in this genre, as well as the shadowy presence on the
web in sex and bondage sites of a revival of nineteenth-century
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Structuring Desires
Popular literary representations define views and structure feelings about Muslim women and their rights. Memoirs and other
forms of pulp nonfiction are not just texts whose themes and
tropes relate to earlier popular travel and missionary literature
on Muslim women. They are commercial products that publishers market and readers receive in a very specific political context.
In this regard, my analysis resembles Dabashis critique of Azar
Nafisis more literate memoir, Reading Lolita in Tehran. Dabashi
focuses on the role of the native who confirms the absence of
rights for Muslim women in Iran by glorifying classics of Western literature, denigrating local culture and traditions. He shows
how the cover photograph was cropped to elide its original context (active, politically engaged women students reading about
the elections in newspapers) and to suggest instead veiled women
secretly reading Western erotic classics.59 Saba Mahmood describes Nafisis memoir as ruthless in its omissions, erasing all
traces of the extensive internal social and political critique that
has marked the period in Iran that Nafisi purports to chronicle
in this life-quenching portrayal.60
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feed this passion. The ideal heroine of this genre, she tells us she
was beaten, oppressed, and forced into marriage. She then escaped to freedom. Granted asylum in the Netherlands, she discovered secular reason and renounced servitude to Islam. She seems
to be the authentic embodiment of that abused victim caught between force and redemption.
Yet I want to use her autobiography, Infidel, to open up the
story. In it, we discover evidence of how complicated womens
lives and social worlds can be. Infidel cant be corralled into the
story line Hirsi Ali champions in her public lectures and extreme statements. She is too intelligent for that. First, we learn
that she was never raped or forced into marriageon the contrary, she secretly ran off with and married briefly an attractive
maternal relative while on her own in Somalia; and she passionately longed for and kissed a friend of her brothers in Kenya,
deluding herself into thinking he was Muslim.
Her confrontation with Islam was ambivalent. As a young
teen, she came under the sway of a fascinating Islamist teacher in
her Kenyan school. She voluntarily threw aside her normal clothes
to take on a voluminous black cloak. She explains, It had a
thrill to it, a sensuous feeling. It made me feel powerful . . . I was
unique: very few people walked about like that in those days in
Nairobi. Weirdly, it made me feel like an individual. It sent out a
message of superiority: I was the one true Muslim . . . I was a
star of God. When I spread out my hands, I felt like I could fly.62
She prayed a lot and attended lectures to try to understand her
religion. No one forced her. In this autobiographical account, she
records in marvelous detail both the enormous differences between the Islamic ideals and practices of her Somali family and
the Saudis they briefly lived among, and the specific tensions that
arose in the 1980s and 1990s between more traditional forms of
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keenly felt rendering of the uncertain and contradictory experiences of a particular girl in a particular Somali family with its
unique circumstances, tensions, tragedies, vulnerabilities, and
precarious struggles to maintain life and dignity in trying times.
The second is a compulsive repetition of a formula that overlays
these poignant struggles. The formula generalizes about what Islam means and does to people. Besides promoting a strangely
decontextualized and ahistorical view of religion that relies on a
simple literalist reading, the formula pits the enlightened and free
West against backward and enslaved Muslim societies.65 That
story turns on simple oppositions between choice and bondage,
force and consent.
It is important not to be seduced by the darkly appealing fictions of pulp nonfiction that underwrite the common sense that
links itself publicly to the language of human rights. These accounts themselves contain hints that things are not so simple.
One of the most poignant examples is found buried in the books
Zana and her mother have produced about their experiences in
Yemen, Sold and Without Mercy. The story of the younger sister,
Nadia, who refused her mothers attempts to spring her from her
enslavement in Yemen, gives us some clues about an alternative way to think about the key values of choice and consent.
Although I take up this issue in more detail in the conclusion, I
want to introduce here the observation that life is complicated
for all of us. It is never easy to cleanly distinguish freedom and
duty, consent and bondage, choice and compulsion. The determined older sister, Zana, leaves Yemen. She abandons her young
son because custody goes to the father, both by religious and
cultural tradition and by national law. She doesnt look back.
But Nadia refuses to take her mothers offer of a ticket to freedom. The girls mother, Miriam, cant seem to understand what
her younger daughter, Nadia, is telling her again and again. She
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assumes that her daughter must be under the thumb of her domineering husband. She must be weighed down by her life and her
stifling black robes.
Her mother cannot see that Nadia is deeply torn. She has five
young children whom she would have to leave behind, the legitimate children of a Yemeni father. One is reminded of the painful
stories that Das, Menon, Butalia, and other Indian scholars have
told about the Indian and Pakistani states decisions to repatriate the women abducted during Partition in 1948.66 These
women may or may not have come to love the husbands they had
been living with for years. But it was clear from their tears and
resistance that they were tortured by the forced separation from
their children in the name of national honor.
In what ways had this life on a barren mountaintop become
Nadias real life? She was only thirteen when she left Birmingham. Her childhood was unhappy and included a brush with
racism and the law. She lives in poverty in Yemen, it is true. But
one has to consider the possibility that the reason she keeps resisting her mothers entreaties and the British consulates intervention is that she would rather raise her children and be a married woman and part of her husbands community than move to
the freedom of an unknown life in England, haunted forever by
the loss of her children and the idea that they would grow up
without the love of their mother. How many stories do we know
of women, in any culture, choosing to stay in bad marriages or in
miserable circumstances for their children because they love them?
What does freedom or choice mean under such conditions?
The fiction that any of us can choose freely is maintained
by conjuring up those in distant lands who live in bondage with
no rights, agency, or ability to refuse or escape sex or violence.
The fact that, in liberal democracies, the most contentious debates
are about how choice should be balanced against the public
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Seductions of
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Moral Puzzles
Rights activists, popular writers, and scholars have all contributed to raising the visibility of the honor crime in the past two
decades. The sudden prominence of the honor crime in the late
1990s unsettled me. As an anthropologist who had lived and
worked in particular communities of Muslim women in the Arab
world, I had spent a long time trying to understand what people
meant by honor and what honor meant to them. The subtitle of
my first book is, after all, Honor and Poetry in a Bedouin Society. I
was shocked when I read documents like Amnesty Internationals
fact sheet on honor crimes. Called Culture of Discrimination, it
states: So-called honor killings are based on the belief, deeply
rooted in some cultures, of women as objects and commodities,
not as human beings endowed with dignity and rights equal to
those of men. Women are considered the property of male relatives and are seen to embody the honor of the men to whom they
belong. 3
Definitions such as this place honor crimes in types of societies where women are not just unequal to men but have no moral
agency. By describing women as property, objects, or body parts
controlled by men (as do some that reduce women to hymens),4
these accounts trivialize moral systems and do not begin to do
justice to the way women see themselves in such communities.
They did not make sense to me. I had lived for years in a community that prided itself on its commitment to honor. I had a
rich sense of womens and girls lives in a community in which
honor and sexual virtue were central to the social imagination.
Honor and modesty were the subject of constant discussion.
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slipping among Kurdish, Middle Eastern, traditional, traditionbound, and non-Western culture. Fadimes father, she insists, had
a mental outlook . . . anchored elsewhere; his roots were deeply
sunk into a culture, or a set of traditions, with core values other
than freedom and equality.11 She says, Many immigrants in European countries remain deeply rooted in rural cultures established several hundred years ago.12 At her most sympathetic, she
says that we must understand fathers like him as victims of inhuman traditionsagainst which valiant and enlightened daughters and organizations should struggle.13 Her anthropological
discourse meshes surprisingly well with popular discourses on the
honor crime and the larger common sense about the problems of
Muslim women.14
To get the full flavor of the unsavory politics of this conception
of honor crimes, we need to turn to these more popular discourses. We have already seen how pulp nonfiction fixates on
choice and freedom to paint its pictures of Muslim womens oppressions. The honor crime category also works through fantasy to
attach people to a set of values they are made to associate strictly
with modernity and the West. We can see this in two highly successful memoirs by honor crime survivors that found enthusiastic, if tearful, audiences in the wake of 9/11, the U.S. invasion
of Afghanistan, and the impending military intervention in Iraq.
The first is Norma Khouris best-selling memoir from 2003 of
the alleged honor killing of her best friend, Dalia, in Jordan.
Called Forbidden Love in the United Kingdom and Honor Lost
in the United States, it is structured as a classic romance novel,
complete with a tall, dark, and handsome love object who is not
a sexist brute. It pulses with chaste but throbbing mutual attraction. But this romance ends differentlywith murder. And there
is an Orientalist difference; the gripping plot is interlaced, as
Harlequin romances and slasher films are not, with pedantic
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compulsive liar) who had grown up in Chicago, had a police record, and was wanted for fraud.18
This piece of fiction masquerading as memoir reveals perfectly
the fantasy and seduction of the honor crime. Self-righteous horror about the barbarism of the other is married to voyeuristic
titillation, along the way facilitating the personalization of such
powerful symbols of liberalism as freedom and choice. The
freedom that honor crime books like this celebrate and that the
scandalizing of honor crimes affirms turns out to be the freedom
to have sex and to leave home. The choice that is cherished boils
down to the right to make personal decisions based on love. So
the books warm and uncritical reception can be accounted for
by the attractive way it affirms certain modern Western cultural
values through an association of sexuality with liberation, and
individual rights with public freedom.
Another memoir, mentioned briefly in Chapter 3, confirms
the erotic charge of the honor crime and its role in shoring up a
sharp distinction between the liberated West and the repressive
Muslim East. Burned Alive: A Survivor of an Honor Killing
Speaks Out, published first in France in 2003, is a different kind
of hoax, based on repressed memories (notorious for their
unreliability) and filled with inconsistencies and errors.19 It is the
story of Souad (who has only a first name and lives somewhere
in Europe). She is a Palestinian woman who was allegedly set
on fire for being pregnant out of wedlock. Writing her memoir
twenty-five years after the events were said to have taken place,
this woman, who has been regularly made to act as a witness at
conferences on honor crimes, testifies not just to the barbarism
of her own society but also to the goodness of the mission of
her European saviors. These include a woman named Jacqueline
and a shadowy Swiss organization, SURGIR, whose Christian
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salvationist language is striking and whose appeal for money appears, as we have now come to expect, at the end of the book.
Souad admits she cannot write or read books, but that Jacqueline had assured her she could just speak the book. We are
given no clues as to how the book was put together, except that
the title page (though not the cover) indicates it was written in
collaboration with Marie-Thrse Cuny. This French writer had
earlier helped Leila, the French Moroccan whose memoir of
forced marriage is analyzed in Chapter 3. As noted there, she
would also soon help Mukhtar Mai (the Pakistani village woman
whom Nicholas Kristof declares his heroine) write her memoir.
Burned Alive consists of Souads disjointed, fragmented, firstperson childhood memories, many of relentless cruelty at the
hands of her father. She gives us vivid fragments of what she
claims she had forgotten for twenty-five yearsincluding a
younger sister (whose name she cannot recall) being strangled by
her brother with a black telephone cord. Souads feelings toward
her brother are wildly ambivalentshe insists again and again
how much she loved him, and yet she depicts him as a murderer.
Although Jacqueline describes Souad in the West Bank hospital
where she found her as suffering intermittently from amnesia,
Souads writing becomes fluid and erotic when she describes
her trysts with the handsome neighbor she believed would marry
her, but who impregnated and then abandoned her. The breathless description of the first secret meeting with her would-be fianc says it all: I have never been so happy. It was so wonderful
to be with him, so close, even for a few minutes. I felt it in my
whole body. I couldnt think about it clearly, I was too naveI
was no more educated than a goatbut that wonderful feeling
was about the freedom in my heart, and my body. For the first
time in my life I was someone, because I had decided to do as I
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Erasing Governance
The sober forms of knowledge production we find in human rights
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organizations work differently and do a different kind of political work. Here we come to the third problem with the way the
category of the honor crime is used. Human rights reports on
honor crimes arise from and at the same time hide the ways in
which governments and transnational organizations now penetrate the lives of most people and communities. Unlike the sensationalist romance novel/memoir, such reports have all the neutral features of scientific objectivity. In such reports, one typically
finds a mix of telegraphic case studies and confusing statistics.
For example, Human Rights Watchs 2006 report on violence
against women in Palestine begins its section on Murder of
Women under the Guise of Honor in a predictable waywith
a clinical quote from an autopsy report: An 18-year-old female
died as a result of manual strangulation and smothering, which
were carried out by her family members.23 The lists and numbers
in these reports convince us that there is something out there. The
multiplication of cases lends credibility and objective weight to
the existence and specificity of the phenomenon. The accumulation makes it appear that all the cases are variations on each other.
These incidents are not to be considered as individual aberrations
or pathologies but as patterned forms.
Feminist activists contribute to these reports. Genuinely motivated by concern for the victims and committed to working on
behalf of women, these feminists work in grassroots organizations led by courageous individuals. Some offer good services;
most carry out research as part of advocacy. Yet when even the
most careful scholar-activists attempt to compile statistics, the
results are utterly confusing. These anecdotes and noncomparative or unreliable statistics reveal little about contexts, incidences,
and individual situations. They are unable, in the end, to draw
either distinctions among or commonalities across forms of violence against women.
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Even so, these are not the most important lessons I want to
draw from the genre of the human rights report. Instead, as the
late Turkish sociologist Dicle Kogacioglu alerted us, we need to
pay attention to the infrastructure that enables the manufacture of this statistical and case information. We need to pay
attention to the production and circulation of such reports.
Looking at the way honor crimes became such a hot topic in
Turkey in the wake of Turkeys bid for inclusion in the European Union, she showed how the honor crime was defined and
managed in party programs, legal arguments, and newspaper
articles. The crimes, she concluded, are produced in relationship to these institutions. Her most important argument was
that if we care about womens rights and well-being, we need
to reverse the invisibility that modern institutions, national and
international, manufacture about their own roles in perpetuating such practices.24
This infrastructure and these institutions are not traditional,
tribal, or rural; they are the infrastructure of modern government such as social service organizations that are alerted to
and follow up on complaints about abuses.25 They are often run
by middle-class, educated women committed to justice, versed in
contemporary feminist politics, and connected to wider networks
that are willing to work with state agencies and even international organizations. In Europe and the United States, they serve
immigrant women; in other countries, they focus on the poor
and the rural. In addition, there are the police who go to the
crime scenes, arrest killers, and investigate violent incidents.
Almost every report of an incident by the Jordanian journalist
Rana Husseini mentions that the brother or father either turned
himself in to the police immediately or waited for the police to
come and arrest him. The extensiveness of the Swedish police records actually allowed Wikan to write her book about Fadime.
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regions I know. First, young pious women and men want to live
up to the morality of the religious code and this guides them
away from a celebration of liberal freedom from sexual restrictions. Many women say they want to be close to God, with all
the moral entailments from shyness to sexual propriety and a
sort of formidable untouchability that this sometimes involves.36
Across the Muslim world now, women who mark their piety by
wearing the new Islamic dress, or the hijab, have gained autonomy from family and the domestic sphere. Their self-monitoring
is at least as powerful a form of conformity to moral standards
regarding sexual freedom as that of the kinds of girls I knew
among the Awlad Ali Bedouin in the 1980s, for whom it had been
a matter of family standing. Women and men must figure out
how to negotiate their relations given these terms. They are doing so in all sorts of creative ways. Not insulated from pop music, television, coeducational institutions, and leisure activities
and consumption, they have made use of institutions like temporary or urfi (secret) marriages. They also struggle with themselves
and society.37 Many attribute womens embrace of the hijab as a
public assertion of morality, not just religiosity, for those who
are massively present now in schools, the workforce, and public
space.38
Second, with the Islamization of states and legal systems in
the last quarter of the twentieth century in countries like Pakistan and Iran, radically new modes of regulation and enforcement of moral standards tied to sexuality, new vocabularies and
conceptions, and new forms of authority (and resistance) have
developed. Some incidents have even been described as statesponsored honor crimes. This means that morality is being given
religious grounding and is mediated through channels that
claim the authority of Islam. The voluntary embraces of morality described earlier are taking place alongside more official
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traditional, or barbaricdistracts us from these kinds of historical dynamics that are essential to an analysis of violence and to
responsible efforts to mobilize against it. It is time to stop talking about deep-seated cultural beliefs, ancient codes from the
desert, and efforts to understand how people in certain alien
cultures could want to kill their daughters. Even feminists from
the Muslim world need to be more careful. Although they tend
to be vigilant about racism and wary of the dangers of civilizational discourse, they sometimes let their fears of Islamic fundamentalism distort their understandings. The Women Living under Muslim Laws (WLUML) campaign called Stop Stoning and
Killing Women! that I discuss in Chapter 5 conflates a bewildering range of practices and puts into service the fascination
with horror and sex that attach to the timeless honor crime for
their antifundamentalist agenda.
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Her father had been the largest landowner in this village and
an intriguing figure of whom I had been fond. Since he had passed
away a couple of years earlier, she and her sisters had been fighting for their share of the inheritance. They had worked through
the local village head and had been to court. She paid fine after
fine because her brother reported her for illegally building on
agricultural land, for putting in electricity, and then for getting
piped water. He still refused to give her the few feet she needed
for an easement to this side entrance. It would have had to be
taken from a field he owned.
As we stood on the roof, surveying the lovely fields that abutted the house while she let her chickens out of their coop to get
some sunshine, she told me about the conflict. By Islamic inheritance law, she and her three sisters were entitled to half of the
land. The other half should be split between the two brothers. As
she put it, the four sisters are like two men. She was furious that
her brother didnt want to give them their share. He was making
life difficult for her. He had finally agreed to give her the few feet
she wantedbut only in exchange for an acre of the fields she
had inherited somewhere else.
I was sad to see this family feud. This brother of hers had
been a genial soccer player in his youth, content to let his father
manage the estate, reluctant to take on responsibility. He was the
baby of the family, and she had always been the loving older
sister. Now he wouldnt even talk to her, she said, except to curse
her. Her older brother would greet her politely if he bumped into
her on the road. He would call her daughter of my father,
but he no longer invited her to the family home. Yet Fayruz was
defiant. She accused her brothers of being greedy. Why shouldnt
I get it? In this place, the men always try to keep the land.
She confided that she wanted something of her own. She
pointed to her brother-in-law, whose wife had built a house on
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some land she got from her parents. They had always been competitive. Fayruz explained, This house is for me. For my sons. She
explained that the main house (where she lives with her husband)
is her husbands family home. She doesnt have any rights in it.
Is this an example of the war on women for which popular
writers seek to enlist us? Fayruz actually accused her brother of
making war on her. But a moments reflection leads us to realize
that this is not a simple struggle against Muslim patriarchy. And
what about the problem of Muslim womens rights that so exercises those who are leading the moral crusade against Islam
and Muslim culture? The rights Fayruz is fighting for are hers
through Islamic inheritance law. The community elders and the
state courts both uphold them. Her brother, even though he has
become more religious than in his soccer-playing days, ignores
them. The violations that she is being fined for involve state law,
which forbids building on agricultural land; this law is not gendered. And the reason she is having some success is not just because of her persistence but because other men are supporting
her. Her husband is himself a wealthy merchant. From his complaints about the exorbitant cost of the construction, I got the
impression that he was bankrolling the building project. Fayruz
defends her fight for her inheritance rights on the basis that she
wants something for herself and her sons. But, of course, these
are her husbands sons too. Each has a floor of the house. Now
Fayruzs children will inherit from both sides of the family.
I tell this story about Fayruz to remind us that Muslim womens rights are pursued in particular places through a variety of
institutions and instruments, including state and religious law.
We need to recognize that Muslim womens rightssomething to
fight for, debate, consider historically, see cross-culturally, make
happen, organize around, fund, and examine in actionhave
very active social lives in our contemporary world.
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The new common sense about global womens rights and saving Muslim women in particular is built on a variety of texts
that inform the Western imagination of womens plights in the
Muslim world. These range from United Nations (UN) documents and pulp nonfiction to political speeches about nail
polish in Afghanistan. But as the concept of Muslim womens
rights circulates across continentstraveling in and out of airport bookstores, classrooms, and government policy offices; UN
forums in New York and Geneva, and local womens organizations in Pakistan and Malaysia; television soap operas in Syria
and Egypt; model marriage contracts developed in Morocco and
Algeria; and mosque study groups in North Americawe are
confronted with the question of how to make sense of its travels
and its translations across these forms and forums. Muslim womens rights produce everything from websites and battered women
shelters to inheritance disputes in rural villages.
Given this proliferation of sites and forms, how should we
frame the question of rights? If we do not presume that there are
such things as rights to be found and measured on a scale of 1 to
10 using some kind of universal standard, and ask questions on
that basis about whether Muslim women do or dont have rights,
have enough rights or too few, we may better understand the international and national politics of rights. I would like to set
aside the standard questions of whether Muslim women do or
do not want rights, gain or lose more rights through secular versus Islamic law, or need advocates to deliver them their rights.
Instead, I want to track Muslim womens rights into the multiple
social worlds in which they operate. Who uses the concept and
how? How is this changing?
What can we learn by stepping back from the usual terms of
debate and the common sense that Muslim women are abused
and have no (or precious few) rights and instead follow Muslim
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womens rights as they travel through various worlds and projects? We have seen how this concept circulates through debates
and documents in the United States and Europe, including in legislation against honor crimes and outcries about forced marriage. But we havent yet considered how the concept organizes
womens activism on the ground. We havent looked at how it
mediates the lives of women like Fayruz or Amal or Zaynab in
various places in the Muslim world. Turning to the many institutions organized around rights, we can ask: What work do the
practices organized in the name of Muslim womens rights do in
various places, and for various women?
It might sound odd to describe rights as having a social life.
I use this term to suggest that Muslim womens rights are to
befound only in their social play. By this, I mean not just that
rights circulate in social interactions or get transplanted and
appropriated in various local settings but also that the concept
takes different forms as it moves through social networks and
technical instruments. The kinds of instruments that are crucial
here might be anything from television soap operas to focus
groups to beadwork cooperatives to gender awareness training
sessions.1
I use the term Muslim womens rights not because there is
something that unites all Muslim women or makes their lives
and access to rights unique, but because, as I said from the outset, the notion that there is such a thing and the work and debates
framed in terms of this concept have become commonsensical. I
could have picked any number of locations where organizations
work for womens rights or where women are fighting for their
rights. I focus on Egypt and Palestine here because these are regions in which I have studied feminist activism.2
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Commercializing Rights
In one of the more dramatic shifts since around 2000 and symptomatic of a tilt toward a neoliberal model for civil society, Dr.
Iman Bibars, the feminist cofounder of ADEW, became the coordinator of the Middle East North Africa fellows program of
Ashoka. Ashoka describes itself as the global association of the
worlds leading social entrepreneurs. In a television interview,
Bibars explained, We are the venture capitalists of the social
sector. Ashoka accepts no government funding, but instead
looks for partnerships between corporations and foundations.24
The business language of Ashokas creed is on its website: We
believe that the growth of a global citizen sector begins with
the work of individual social entrepreneurs. These entrepreneurs drive the sector forward, responding to new challenges
and changing needs. They are rooted in local communities but
think and act globally. They are the ultimate role models and
the pillars of Ashokas [trademarked] vision of Everyone a
Changemaker.25
This is the third path that was being taken in the evolving social life of Muslim womens rights in Egypt, at least before the
revolution. Womens rights talk began to operate in a commercial
world. The dramatic change could be seen most clearly in the work
of the Egyptian Center for Womens Rights (ECWR), founded in
1996, only a year after CEWLA. The ECWRs website announces
its liberal ideology: CWRs work is based on the belief that womens rights are an integral part of human rights and are key to any
substantive progress towards building a democratic culture and
development in Egypt and the Middle East region.26 But the
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issue that circulates well beyond the halls of the UN and CEDAW
hearings. The One in Three Women Global Campaign to raise
awareness about violence against women, for example, encourages you to buy their cards, charms, and dog tags;31 Peacekeeper
Cause-metics asks you to support womens causes by purchasing
their lipstick and nail polish.32 Peacekeeper Cause-metics gives a
fraction of its proceeds to fight honor crimes and other forms
of cultural violence against women associated with the Muslim
world. Ayaan Hirsi Alis foundation is only the most recent to
pick up this commercialization of womens rights, inviting us to
get our own high-quality Honour tote bag, for a donation.
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they and the women for whom they advocate live and work.
Despite widespread self-criticism about the depoliticizing effects of
the NGOization of the Palestinian womens movement that has
brought on professionalization, hierarchies based on expertise, diversion of energies to funders desires for gender training and
research reports, and deflection of women from political mobilization to grant writing, Palestinian womens rights advocates have
remained consistent in their national commitments and constant
awareness of the larger political situation.39 Palestinian NGOs
and projects, whether in the Occupied Territories or within the
1948 borders, may be funded by the Scandinavians, the Germans, the Ford Foundation, the Open Society, the World Health
Organization (WHO), and UNIFEM, just like Egyptian NGOs,
but at the core of their efforts are the inescapable realities of occupation and militarization, and in the case of the Palestinian
citizens of Israel, marginalization and discrimination.40
One of the most moving studies from this region is the report
on some action-research on women and loss that was conducted during the second intifada, which began in 2000. The
report illustrates several features of womens rights work in Palestine that make it different, perhaps, from the social life of
rights in Egypt. The study was designed to help produce effective
psychological and social therapies for women while at the same
time giving voice to womens experiences of political conflict. As
Nadera Shalhoub-Kevorkian, the initiator of the study, argues in
her chapter in Women, Armed Conflict and Loss: The Mental
Health of Palestinian Women in the Occupied Territories, the
project was to stand at the crossroads between human rights
violations, mental health and research.41 The study produced
stories of individual womenwrenching accounts of trauma and
coping in response to political violence (like watching your sons
brain spill on the ground as Israeli soldiers trample his body),
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these young men had previously had some gender training by the
Jerusalem Womens Studies Centre. They even recognized her
name from their training course materials. Such crossovers from
gender training to therapeutic and political work characterize
the field of womens rights work in Palestine because of the peculiarities of this national context.
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Upper Egyptian village. When I asked her what she knew about
womens rights, she said, Its something Suzanne Mubarak is
working on. Its about female circumcision. Indeed, one of the
key projects of the National Council for Childhood and Motherhood that addressed violence against girl children was the push
for circumcision-free model villages.
Village women were tied into national discourses of rights.
When I asked another woman and her teenage daughter if they
knew of any local organizations for womens rights, they had no
idea. They agreed that perhaps such organizations existed in
Cairo, but they didnt know of any in their region. But then we
got onto the subject of what happened if a woman was having
troubles with her husband. The mother explained that their families would come together to try to sort things out and make
peace. When I asked about inheritance (the subject that would
several years later be at the heart of Fayruzs struggles), at first she
said that a woman could go to court. But, she added, it was more
likely that people would come to talk to her brother if he was
resisting. They would try to persuade him to give the sister her
fair share.
When I explained to her that the reason I was working on the
topic of womens rights was that some Westerners consider
Egyptian women oppressed, she laughed. No, no. They used to
be, she said. That was in the past. Now theres progress. All
the girls are getting educated now. Her generation had been required to help their mothers in the household, she explained.
Now, they all wanted their kids educated. She and her husband
were working very hard so that their kids could do well in
school. He was encouraging his daughter to study French, in the
hope that it would help her get into college. So though the word
rights did not come up in this womans response, she certainly
shared the developmentalist discourse of girls education as the
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she talked about local conflicts within and among families; and
then, finally, she described the God-given rights granted to
women in the Quran. In another conversation we had a year
later, she defended Islam in general. She insisted that Islam says
women are free to work and free to go to school. She then gave
examples of important women in the Prophet Muhammads time:
Nafisa, who was a teacher, and Aysha who transmitted hadiths,
the sayings of the Prophet. But, she added, some women had
decided that freedom meant wearing short dresses with short
sleeves and walking around the streets naked. There is too much
freedom now, she concluded. Mixing yet again several registers
of rights, she explained that this kind of freedom was not what
Qasim Amin had meant. Here she invoked Amin, that classic
turn-of-the-twentieth-century Egyptian modernist reformer and
author of the tract The Liberation of Women, who supported
womens limited education and unveiling.
In her discussion, Aysha also referenced the multiple institutions that mediate rights in Egypt. These are the forums through
which individual women might seek justice: the courts with their
lawyers, legalities, and papers; local family arbitration with its
pull of emotions, hierarchies, and cross-cutting ties; and the institution of the local religious figure who would intervene in the
name of Islamic rights and morality if a woman was wronged
by her family. She did not mention NGOs, even though in a
nearby region an extremely well-funded transnational humanitarian project was under way, dedicated to uplifting and educating village girls about their natural claims to rights, including
the right to learn, play, and be physically mobile.53 Like the
other women and girls whose conversations about womens
rights I have quoted, Aysha has learned these multiple ways of
framing lives and asserting rights from television, from school,
from religious study, and from the everyday lives of those
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revealed about just how much and exactly how the system had
wronged themas citizens, not as women.
In an ethnographic study of the interaction between a Scandinavian feminist NGO and the village womens organization it
supported on an island off the coast of Tanzania, Christine Walley has argued that a universalizing term like rights accumulates meanings from multiple sources.55 She shows that for the
Muslim women in the community in which she worked, the
Kiswahili term translated as rights (haki) could refer to prerogatives and obligations found in Islamic law, as well as suggest
customary justice. But she also found that in the independence
and socialist periods, haki had accumulated other meanings that
were tied to ideas of citizenship. More recently, the term had come
to be used in the context of international human and womens
rights frameworks that the leaders of this organization encountered when they were sent to conferences by their Scandinavian
funders. As a consequence, when a woman asserted or claimed
her rights, one simply could not know what register she was
using, which meaning(s) of rights she was referencing, or
whether in fact these all inflected each other, producing a dense
sense of rights.
Walleys challenging presentation of the way conceptions of
rights are layered in one grassroots situation is intriguing, and
seems to describe womens mobilizations of rights in Egyptian
villages well, too. Walley did not pursue what I attempt to showcase here: the need to do a more sociological tracking of the
networks, institutions, and technologies that mediate such rights.
In the Egyptian village from which I have been drawing my examples, it is clear that even though there are no womens rights
organizations, comments like Ayshas reveal the ways national
and international enterprises of womens rights have shaped local conceptualizations of rights and made certain institutions,
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I argue here for something more: to trace carefully, across multiple terrains, the way both practices and talk of rights organize
social and political fields, producing organizations, projects, and
forms of governing as much as being produced by them. If we
take this approach, there is no alternative but to go into the details of Muslim womens rights as they move in and out of particular locations and communities. In Cairo, the womens rights
industry creates careers, channels funds, inspires commitments,
gives credibility to new actors, creates and disrupts social networks, and legitimizes intellectual and political frameworks and
ideals. Womens rights provide a conduit for foreign intervention
and government involvement in ordering the daily lives of both
the middle classes and those at the margins. Womens rights are
subjects of corporate sponsorship and adopted as a symbol of
modernity, but they are also, and increasingly so now, the objects
of struggle among religious institutions and organizations, especially Islamic parties and movements, and have been taken up by
new forms of feminism that some call Islamic feminism, as I explore in Chapter 6.
Juxtaposing the Egyptian case to the Palestinian reveals how
dependent the operation of Muslim womens rights is on the
larger political situation. We need to look at the organization
and resources of countries and the configuration of international interest. Palestine may have womens NGOs that are just
as well funded as Egypt, but the nature of the work they do, the
social networks they forge, their links to international and national institutions, and even the class relations and solidarities
among the women and their beneficiaries differ dramatically
from the Egyptian case.57
Anyone seriously interested in Muslim womens rights must
follow them as they move. The village in which Ive been fortunate to work over so many years houses the kinds of marginal
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problems of fit when I think about rights because of the ethnographic research I have done, some thick and some thin.2 The
thick ethnography is of everyday life in the village in rural Egypt.
The thin is some modest research on organizations that promote
womens rights and empowerment in and across the Muslim
world. Muslim womens rights work is taking new creative forms.
Rather than talk about the more secular nongovernmental organizations (NGOs) that have dominated the scene since the 1970s
and that I discuss in Chapter 5, I focus here on the newer initiatives of Islamic feminists.
Taking both conceptual and practical rights as objects of study,
other anthropologists have shown that rights can be performative
they make things happen and they mobilize peopleand that
the rights framework can be transplanted and translated into
other languages, what Sally Merry has called vernaculars.3 They
have traced how rights instruments and language are produced
through a social machinery that operates in many sites, from
United Nations (UN) and government offices to NGOs around
the world.4
Some anthropologists have stood by indigenous people and
other disadvantaged groups to defend their rights; others have
been more wary of engagement.5 Even when they have supported marginal groups, they have been conscious of the double
binds and paradoxes. In Australia, for example, the demands of
liberal multiculturalism have placed aboriginal Australians trying to make land claims in the odd position of having to prove
cultural authenticity and continuity when the very same settlers
who took their land had devastated their culture too.6 Anthropologists working in Africa have shown how human rights work
has ended up promoting new social distinctions, opening career
paths for some, and depoliticizing neoliberal reform and transnational governance.7 Many anthropologists have realized that
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it begins with the more modest and sound observation that family laws are man-made, the result of interpretations shaped by
the social conditions of the periods in which Islams sacred texts
were turned into law by jurists.21 However, it also follows the
standard modernist reformist arguments of the last century that
one must seek an ethical Islam, true to its spirit and guided by
the objectives of Sharia, and thus to make Islam appropriate for
contemporary realities. The targets of Musawahs critiques are
the Muslim jurists and the claims to expertise and authority of
those conservatives who follow them. To support its stance, Musawah reminds people of the importance of diversity of opinion
in the Islamic tradition, points to specific verses of the Quran
that promote equality, exposes the way human interpretation
has corrupted understanding, and highlights concepts within the
tradition that could support human rights.22
The vocabulary of democratic liberalism saturates Musawahs
arguments. Holism is a key concept in Zainah Anwars introduction to their resource book, Wanted: Equality and Justice in the
Muslim Family.23 She points out that womens groups in various
Muslim countries have begun to explore a broader, more holistic
framework that argues for reform from multiple perspectives
religious, international human rights, constitutional and fundamental rights guarantees, and womens lived realities.24 One
aspect of holism for Anwar is therefore to limit the role of religion: she advocates treating religion as only one source for policy and legal reform.25 The first major research project Musawah
undertook was a study of the common ground between the UN
Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination
against Women (CEDAW) and Muslim family laws.26
Some have celebrated Sisters in Islam, Women Living under
Muslim Laws (WLUML), and now Musawah as heralding a new
enlightenment in the Muslim world. This suggests that at least
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drawn from everything from Quranic exegesis to feminist historiography and quantitative social science.34
In a survey sent out to members just before this meeting, the
steering committee had proposed five potential issues to research
and then use as the testing ground for its first fatwa, or statement as they began to call it, to draw away from the negative
cast of fatwa in the West and perhaps not to antagonize official
sources of fatwas in different countries. The statement was to
constitute the focus of the official launch of the Womens Shura
Council in July 2009 in Kuala Lumpur, the same place where Musawah had just had its launch. The membership overwhelmingly
voted for two issues: domestic violence and womens religious
authority. Yet in the give-and-take of the meeting, a consensus
emerged around a slightly different focus for the Shura Councils
first pronouncement. A few strong personalities led them to an
ambitious project: they would deal with domestic violence in
tandem with violent extremism. Over the course of the day and
with thoughtful objections being raised by different participants
to aspects of what was being proposed (How was extremist
violence a gendered issue? Werent there formidable analytical
challenges in linking domestic and military violence? Werent
the religious textual sources that would have to be brought into
conversation quite diverse? Wasnt it dangerous to invoke the
term jihad?), a general enthusiasm developed for Jihad against
Violence as the Shura Councils first campaign.35 Although the
staff communicated their criteria for choosing an issue (its importance to women, its likely support by women, its feasibility in
terms of research, its ability to draw media attention, and the
level of resistance it might provoke from traditional institutions),
the outspoken women at this meetingmostly academics, journalists, and lawyerswent their own way.
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Incommensurate Lives
One of the most important questions an anthropologist like me
with experience in rural areas and among non-elite women feels
compelled to ask, though, is how organizations conceived and
run by educated urban elites who spend a good deal of energy
studying, thinking, drafting position statements, applying for
funds, and presenting Islam to the West (and the East) as
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practice have changed in this village over the past fifty years.
This makes clear the particular cast and the class politics of
some of these projects of Islamic reform that go under the name
Islamic feminism. When we juxtapose village lives and international projects, we are forced to ask how far visions of a modern
enlightened interpretation of the Quran or legal reforms guided
by the objectives of Sharia take into account the variety of meanings of Muslim religious experience for women like the ones I
know. A more urgent question that presents itself is: What authority and channels might such projects find in order to compete with existing authorities and institutions on the ground? In
this particular Egyptian village, these range from teachers in the
Azhar school system or the local Quranic afterschool programs
to popular televangelists; from Sufi brotherhoods to new Islamic
studies institutes for girls.
Islam in village life is variegated and constantly evolving.
There are generational differences related to the political, social,
economic, and cultural transformations in Egypt over the past
decades. Older women think of themselves as good Muslims and
wear modest, loose clothing and cover their hair. The oldest generation also still wears the traditional black wool cloak over
their clothes for formal occasions, but this has been replaced
by the more fashionable abaya, or tailored overcoat, for women
in their forties. Although the national trend to become more
strictly observant had already reached the village when I arrived
in 1993, older womens regular prayers were nothing new.
For the younger generation, the key factors have been the simultaneous spread of the influence of education and television
and the Islamic revival. Young women and men increasingly express their faith in other ways and dress differently. Some young
women wear jeans with various forms of long-sleeved fashion
tops or tunics. Some wear sweaters and long skirts. These are
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urban forms of dress that link them to Luxor, across the river,
and Cairo, the distant capital. No one would think of leaving the
house without a hijab or head scarf; the more fashionable
wear colorful hijabs that change with the current styles. But not
all the young women are like this; those who attend the Azhar
schools, a parallel system that follows the national curriculum
but includes more rigorous Islamic studies, pull their hijabs
more fully over their hair and wear long shapeless dresses (which
can be of pretty fabric, however). These are the girls whose families prefer schooling that is not coeducational, where the fees
are lower and the opportunities to pursue a higher education
more plentiful.
Multiple religious activities engage girls in the village. Most
girls and boys are sent from a young age to the traditional kuttab to learn Quran as an after-school and summer holiday activity. More recently, a modern Islamic institute for girls has opened
in the next village. Young women are eagerly taking up training
in religious studies both for its own sake and because it is meant
to prepare them to teach in the Azhar schools where there is a
shortage of women teachers.
For one young woman I knew, working toward the certificate
was her salvation from boredom. Having finished her vocational
business degree, she found herself stuck at home. It was hard
togo from dressing up and heading off to Luxor every dayto
study, take exams, mix with other girls, and endure the pleasant
annoyance of the boys who hung around the schoolto sitting
at home. An avid soccer fan, she came alive cheering her teams
on TV. But most of her time was taken up with lonely housework
that she did to relieve her mother, who was busy herself with the
cows and sheep that helped supplement her husbands income
from farming and a low-paying but skilled job. Only a marriage
proposal would give her a different life because there is precious
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widely established among this group of young women, as I describe in the conclusion.
This new generation is participating in forms of religious life
that are in tension with the more popular local traditions of
religious experience and practice, some associated with the Sufi
brotherhoods that are still quite strong in Upper Egypt. It is
women and girls like these in one village in Egypt that the cosmopolitan professional women of Musawah and the Shura Council
project as the beneficiaries of their efforts to reinterpret Islam and
introduce reforms in the laws governing family and marriage.
These are the sorts of marginalized women and girls the grant
proposals promise to train in knowing their rights. Yet the distance is vast between the reformers and these girls and women
embedded in the particular socioreligious institutions of one village in Egypt and similar ones elsewhere. What social or political
mechanisms will bridge this?
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What is apparent and significant, though, is that domestic violence in this case is anything but traditional. It is produced at
the nexus of the global field of European tourism in the Third
World and the inequalities between rich foreigners and local villagers that fuel it. The alcohol that is so taken for granted in the
European circles in which men like Khadijas husband travel
also surely plays a part.
Having known Khadija for many years, I understand that she
cannot leave the marriage for other reasons beyond these compulsions of poverty and the fallout of global inequalities. There
is also kinship: Khadija and her husband are distant cousins;
he is thus a precariously well-off relative whose marriage to a
troubled cousin from a broken home may also have been a way
to help out these poor relations. Khadija is attractive, but this
marriage may have been something of a protection and a gift to
her and her desperate family.
In this aspect of her life, there seems to be something of a repetition of Khadijas family history (with a more unfortunate
outcome). Khadijas grandparents, who were cousins, had married
for the same reasonas a way to make sure her grandmother was
cared for. People told me that she had been possessed by spirits at
the age of twelve or thirteen. She was a volatile young woman
who ran off to saints tombs and caused her parents tremendous
worries. Although many young men had wanted to marry this
beautiful girl, their mothers and families would forbid them. She
was not considered normal, always running off to religious sanctuaries and chanting Gods name. So finally it was arranged that
her cousin marry her, taking on the lifelong responsibility to care
for her out of family concern. He got her treated and she was
much better for a while. Her daughter told me that she was stable
for about ten years, but then reverted to her religious practices,
periodically running off and leaving her family, including her
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three children. Khadijas father was her son. He too has had a
troubled history of abusive behavior that was much worse when
he was married to Khadijas mother, hence the divorce. The difference in the two stories is that Khadijas grandfather was kind
to his wife and his daughters. Khadija is not so fortunate in her
husband. Still, her relationship with him cannot be disentangled
from the family bonds of attachment and dependency that help
keep her in the marriage.
This last piece of the story suggests that we must see Khadijas
difficult marriage as something that the language of violations of
womens rights in traditional patriarchal culture cannot begin to
describe because it cannot be isolated from the dynamics of globalization or the intimacies of family ties. Given the layers of
this story, we need to ask ourselves whether the framework of
rightseven if expressed in the new, more indigenous initiatives
to reform Muslim family law or to promote and publicize gender egalitarian interpretations of the Qurancan capture the
complexity of Khadijas life situation. Would any approach that
talks in terms of freeing her from patriarchal culture or saving
her from Muslim men enable us to see the tangled strands of her
suffering?
Women in the village used other frameworks for judging and
analyzing Khadijas unhappy situation. They had a variety of
opinions about and degrees of empathy with Khadija. When I
would ask them why she didnt leave her husband when he was
violent with her, some would explain that she didnt want to end
up like her mother, divorced and raising two kids on her own, or
that she didnt want her children to grow up, as she had, without
the love of a father. Others mentioned that she had wanted to
marry this particular man, knowing full well his situation and
his drinking problem. It was her choice and therefore she had
some responsibility to make the marriage work. Some women
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blamed her for being too touchy and hypersensitive. They contrasted Khadijas flighty mother, who had provoked her exhusbands violence, to Khadijas fathers calm second wife who
had managed just fine for eighteen years to get along with her
husband. And, indeed, he was good to her and his three children
from this new family.
The frameworks they used were drawn from local ways of understanding the many sorts of difficult situations in which women
find themselves. Some frameworks were religious, based on the
ideals of patience (sabr) or accepting ones fate and Gods will.
Others were based on intimate knowledge of what women value
most and a fuller recognition of how messy life can be. They
were quick to point out to me that Khadija had actively sought a
third pregnancy, giving up contraception. Did this suggest to
them a (perfectly understandable) desire, even a will, to stay in
the marriage so that she could have a full family life? This is a
value that remains largely unquestioned in their social world,
even if its realization is so often fraught. I dont think any of us
would scoff at this wish.
Six months after Khadijas crisis and her trip to Cairo, she
safely delivered a lovely baby girl. Khadijas mother confided
happily to me on my next visit that from the moment of the
birth of this child, Khadijas husband had stopped drinking completely. He had become pious, observing Ramadan for the first
time in decades. Others told me that actually he had been very ill
and the doctor had warned him that if he did not quit drinking,
he would have complete liver failure. Either way, there was marital harmony for the moment. Everyone, including Khadija, was
hoping it would last.
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I have set side by side one set of social and moral relations in one
Egyptian village to another set of relations that constitute new
and interesting forms of rights activism by Muslim women
working explicitly within an Islamic framework. Through this, I
have shown why, from my experience, it seems that none of the
kinds of global rights discourses at work in the world now are
adequate for assessing or judging the lives to be redeemed. The
single case of domestic violence I began to unravel was meant to
shake our confidence that frameworks of womens rights or
campaigns for gender equality capture or solve the kinds of vexing problems that women face.
Activists working in the name of rights tend to come from
certain social locations, work within political situations, and use
particular cultural resources. It is not my intention to denigrate
individual efforts on behalf of women or to dismiss any of the
forms of activism organized in the name of improving womens
(human or Islamic) rights. I see these new projects of Islamic
feminism, for example, like the more secular womens rights projects that came before them as having mobilized concerned, hardworking, creative, committed, and, in this case, impressively
learned individuals.
I do not deny that those who speak out for rights and gender
equality may contribute to improving lives by making certain
critiques of social inequality and social injustice possible. Some
have provided legal and moral remedies for intractable problems. The political or strategic uses of dialects of rights have enabled political and moral gains and may offer future benefits for
disenfranchised groups and individuals, including women, who
learn to use this powerful language or who come to translate
their grievances into its terms. In Chapter 5, I describe the ways
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of any charity that could help them build this house for Khadija
and her children? This time, she told me soberly, Khadija has
sworn she will never go back.
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make choice, consent, and contract the instruments for guaranteeing womens rights in marriage. In North Africa, for example,
feminist reformers developed a model marriage contract that
would build in requirements of consent for a husbands decision
to take a second wife. In India and Egypt, there have been campaigns for legal reform of Islamic family law that would establish womens rights to initiate divorce.4
But one of the most striking changes I noted in the late 1980s
in the Bedouin community in Egypts Western Desert where I
had first done fieldwork a decade earlier was the impact of the
Islamic revival on young men and women. In an essay a young
woman wrote for me on the theme of what she believed deserved
to be preserved and what traditions should change in her community, she returned again and again to marriage.5 She was the
first girl in her family to graduate from high school. Her commentary bore the traces of the mixture of modernization and Islamization ideologies that were the stuff of Egyptian state education.6 Of the Bedouin girl in the past, she wrote: She had no
right to an opinion in any matter, however much the matter
might concern her personally. She had no say even in the choice
of a husband . . . what she had to do was carry out her familys
orders even if she didnt want him. It was not right for her to
refuse. She commented to me, And to this day, no matter how
educated shes become, very seldom does she have a say . . . Even
if he was older than she was, for example, or very different from
her, she had to agree to what the family wanted. For example, if
they said I had to marry someone and I didnt want himI
hated himif my kinsmen had agreed to the match and told
me I had to marry him, what I would have to do, despite my
wishes, was marry him. I found this statement surprising. Why
did she depict girls as powerless in decisions about marriage?
She had heard all the same stories I hadvivid accounts, like her
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to me, Thats when it works. You can say no, and I dont like
this one or that one. But when it is meant to be (theres nasib),
you say okay.
Another young woman affirmed that nowadays they always
ask a girl if she accepts. In the old days, they didnt; if her family
agreed to the match, she agreed. But again, on what basis? Girls
now expect to sit and talk with the prospective groom and to get
to know him a little, if they didnt before. But this can hardly tell
either of them much about the person with whom they plan to
spend their lives. Something else has developed to help girls decide. As this young woman who was studying at a new Islamic
studies institute for girls explained, when a girl doesnt know
whether to consent or not, she should perform a certain prayer.
During the prayer, it will become clear whether you should or
should not accept the man. That is when youre so close to God,
she confided, that He reveals it to you. If you feel during this
prayer that hes not right for you, you say no.
Both invoked a higher force, not inner feeling; fate is, after all,
Gods will, and the special prayer to ask God for guidance in
making ones individual choice is even more direct. Given how
hard it is for anyone to decide whether a future intimacy will be
fulfilling or miserable or whether something as long-term as a
marriage might work, this reference to some guiding force to
replace the formerly trusted parents makes sense. This is not the
free choice idealized in CEDAW or Islamic feminist documents,
but it is very much about consent and choice.
In this case, though, the factors that shaped Zaynabs daughters decision about the marriage were more mundane. Her fianc was the son of a friend of her mothers. Like many young
men from this region, he was working in Europe. Lack of opportunity means that when young men can get out to find work,
they do. He was fairly young and not unattractive. I recalled her
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positive words about him. She said she had asked him a lot of
questions and found him easy to talk to.
I was happy for her when I learned she was engaged. She had
always been open with me and I enjoyed her company. She deserved to have a family of her own. A teenager when I first met
her, she had worked hard in high school and done well. She was
smart, sensible, and warm. She had always been a great support
to her mother, who was raising a big family on her own. Keenly
feeling her mothers hardships, she gradually took over all the
household work and even the care of her younger sisters. She
took her responsibilities seriously, but she was less needed now
that they had the business and her brother had the caf. So finally it seemed that she would be getting a life of her own.
Yet eight months later, she suddenly decided to break off the
engagement. She returned the gold jewelry that had made her
feel special. She created bad feeling between her mother and this
friend. When I asked her what had gone wrong, she said hed
had very old-fashioned demands. He told her that he would be
away a year at a time, working in Europe, and that during that
time, she wouldnt be allowed to leave their apartment in his
familys building, which was the next hamlet over. He told her
that she could not go to stay with her own family while he was
away. He said she shouldnt even go downstairs to hang out with
his extended family. When I asked how she had discovered all
this, she explained that theyd been talking a lot on the phone.
When I expressed surprise that he was being so rigid, having
lived in Europe for years, she agreed: I thought he would be
more open-minded after living in Europe. In fact, no one here
would ever impose those kinds of conditions on a woman.
From her mother, I discovered something else. He planned to
stick with his European wife/girlfriend, the one who had obtained the work permit for him. He wanted to keep this new
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marriage to her daughter secret for a while. This was too much.
Perhaps Zaynab said this to save face. But her daughter seemed
to be refusing this insult to her dignity. This was not the kind of
marriage she wanted. These were not conditions she would accept, even though it would have meant finally having a husband
and starting a family. This is what most people want in this community, as in many.10
As she gets older, though, it becomes increasingly less likely
that she will ever marry. She had already refused marriage proposals from men she said were too old or not as educated as she
was, or from men who seemed boorish. Her parents respected
her decisions, though they were sad that this engagement hadnt
worked out. Secretly they worried, as I did, that no more marriage offers would be forthcoming. No one said this. She was
now well over thirty in a community where girls marry as early
as seventeen and most brides are in their early twenties. This was
also a community that had its share of women who never married, passed by and left taking responsibility for the care of aging
parents. As in so many places, there are a lot of women in the
village who remain single. In the Arab Middle East, they are part
of what alarmists call the marriage crisis.11
Two years later, Zaynabs daughter confided her regret that
she had not married. She said she had misjudged life. She felt so
needed, so responsible for helping her mother with the heavy
household load, especially after her mother broke her ankle and
was no longer able to farm or even keep a water buffalo to milk.
She said she couldnt imagine abandoning her mother and the
household that needed her so much. She added that she had been
so attached to her little sisters (including the one with diabetes)
that I felt like I was their mother.
The trouble was that circumstances had changed. Her father
had retired from his job in Cairo and returned home to live with
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situation for all involved, though for people used to living in this
harsh region, the tough conditions of livelihood are normal.
But I noted something more poignant and complicated in my
reflections on the younger sister Nadias ambivalent refusal to
take her mothers ticket to freedom and home. Her mother
does not seem to be able to hear her daughters confusion as she
reconciles her anger at having been tricked into this situation to
which she did not consent, and her sense that she has now built a
meaningful life in Yemen. She is bound by love for her children,
and even perhaps her husband. She cannot choose freedom.
Nadias all-too-human dilemma, like the dilemmas faced by
so many of us at the other end of the life cycle who find their
freedom compromised by caring for elderly parents or ill loved
ones, opens up new ways of thinking about Muslim women and
their rights and wrongs. In a profound essay on sexual consent,
Judith Butler goes beyond the usual critiques of legal consent by
noting how consent might not be simply a core liberal value, but
part of a strong fantasy of autonomy; hence, our intense attachment to the idea. She reminds us that, as Antonio Gramsci put it,
consent is always manufactured, at both the personal and the
political levels. We need to recognize the importance of power in
determining choices. But most originally, Butler asks us to reflect on how, in matters of personal desire or intimacy, consent
might not have much meaning. In the end, we can never know
what we are consenting to when we say yes. How will it go?
What will it mean to consent to a relationship? A deep unknowability characterizes all human desires, acts, and futures.
A century of anthropological thought about humanity has
established that our everyday understandings of the individual
are culturally and historically specific and that the dominant
modern Western understanding of the self contrasts with many
other conceptions of self that have valued autonomy differently
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and have worked with more grounded perceptions of the interrelationship between self and other.12 Anthropologists also agree
with Clifford Geertz that the best way to understand human
nature is to recognize it as thoroughly cultural. To be viable as
humans, we need a drastically long period of socialization within
families and communities.13
Yet, anthropologists have rarely gone the next step to see
how, in certain circumstances, the values of consent and choice
might be fetishized and defended in order to uphold for individuals the fantasy of being autonomous subjects. This is a dynamic
I found at work in pulp nonfiction about forced marriage and
honor crimes. Nor have they articulated so well how foundational for our humanity it is to be related to each other, even if so
many of us who have written about people in other places have
commented on the deep meaning that family ties hold for men
and women. I certainly have done this in my studies of the Arab
Muslim communities in which I have had a chance to live and
do research.14
In the final paragraph of her essay on sexual consent in law
and psychoanalysis, Butler offers a poignant truth about the limits we all face as individuals and as people in our time and place
who assert the value of freely choosing. The most basic fact of
our existence, she reminds us, is that we are born into and depend on families we did not choose. There are form of proximity, of living with, of adjacency and co-habitation that are radically unchosen, she writes. And these constitute a basic form
of sociality that no one enters contractually, that constitute the
social conditions of life to which we never consented, and which
are finally indifferent to our consent. These are conditions we
are nevertheless obligated to protect and defend, even though we
never agreed to them, and they do not emerge from our will.
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I dont have four steps you can take in the next ten minutes,
as offered by other comforting books on global womens suffering. The stories Ive told and the analyses Ive developed here
suggest that there are no quick fixes or easy answers. If pressed
for an alternative formula, I would probably give the following
advice: look and listen carefully, think hard about the big picture, and take responsibility.
What can looking and listening teach us? This book has introduced you to some women in particular places who are trying to
lead good lives. They are making choices that are sometimes
hard, limited by the constraints of the present and the uncertainties of the future. I have known all of them for many years as
people living in families, in communities, and in nation-states that
are part of this world. How do they see the problems they are facing? What do they say they want? How do they invite us to think
differently about that mythical place where Muslim women, undifferentiated by locality or personal circumstance, live lives that
are totally separate and distinct from our own? Looking carefully
at these womens circumstances can teach us much about loaded
values like choice and freedom and how they actually work in the
context of human lives.
To think about the big picture means remembering that no
person is an island. People are involved with otherswith their
families, their friends, their villages or neighborhoods, and their
countrieswhether these are hopeful with political uprisings,
succumbing to drone attacks, or fielding elections in which politicians run on racist anti-immigrant platforms. All of us are shaped
by forces that engage wide groups and that go well beyond us. We
all live in real time, our worlds marked by change, argument,
and social contestation. What occurs in places that (are made to)
appear timeless or backward is always a product of a long history. Ignoring the past or the dynamic contexts of the present
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examples, see Dohra Ahmad, Not Yet beyond the Veil: Muslim Women
in American Popular Literature, Social Text 27, no. 99 (2009): 105;
Rana Kabbani, Europes Myths of Orient (Bloomington: Indiana University Press, 1986); and Meyda Yegenoglu, Colonial Fantasies: Towards a Feminist Reading of Orientalism (Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 1998).
8. Suad Joseph, Elite Strategies for State Building, in Women, Islam, and the State, ed. Deniz Kandiyoti (Philadelphia: Temple University Press, 1991); Nadje Sadig Al-Ali, Iraqi Women: Untold Stories from
1948 to the Present (London: Zed Books, 2007); Nadje Al-Ali and
Nicola Pratt, What Kind of Liberation? Women and the Occupation of
Iraq (Berkeley: University of California Press, 2009).
9. Christina Hoff Sommers, The Subjection of Islamic Women and the
Fecklessness of American Feminism, Weekly Standard, May 21, 2007,
weeklystandard .com/Content/Public/Articles/000/000/013/641szkys
.asp. She cites Phyllis Chesler, notorious for her support of a tawdry
campaign against Islamofascism that targeted womens studies programs, initiated by the right-wing Zionist David Horowitz. Chesler has
coauthored a pamphlet on women and Islamic law that collates Quranic
quotes out of context to argue that Islam is to blame for violence and all
the other wrongs suffered by Muslim women everywhere.
10. Amy Farrell and Patrice McDermott, Claiming Afghan Women:
The Challenge of Human Rights Discourse for Transnational Feminism, in Just Advocacy? Womens Human Rights, Transnational Feminisms, and the Politics of Representation, ed. Wendy S. Hesford and
Wendy Kozol (New Brunswick, N.J.: Rutgers University Press, 2005).
11. Clifford Geertz once quoted a line from William Blake to capture
how it is that anthropologists go about knowing, and why they spend
years in small or obscure places attending to the minutia of daily life in
order to grasp the human condition. Anthropologists, like poets, he suggested, see a world in a grain of sand.
12. Fatemeh Fakhraie, Just . . . Ugh, Muslimah Media Watch,
April 13, 2011, muslimahmediawatch.org/2011/04/just-ugh/.
13. Maya Dusenbery, Agency Is Easily Overlooked if You Actively
Erase It, Feministing, April 14, 2011, feministing.com/2011/04/14/
agency-is-easily-overlooked-if-you-actively-erase-it/. I am grateful to
Laura Ciolkowski for bringing this article to my attention.
14. Nussbaum corrects the term, noting that what is being legislated
against is not the burqa but the niqab, or face veil. Martha Nussbaum,
Veiled Threats?, New York Times: Opinionator, July 11, 2010, opin
ionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/07/11/veiled-threats/. As I describe in
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Chapter 1, there are many forms of covering that Muslim women wear.
The words for these different types, from Arabic or Persian, are used in
English with some fuzziness about the reference. The hijab or head scarf
simply covers the hair. The niqab and some forms called the burqa
cover the face except for the eyes. The chador, in Iran, is enveloping, but
only covers the head and body, not the face. Interestingly, I discovered
that the leather mask used by Qatari Bedouins to cover their hunting
falcons eyes is also called a burqa. Hans Christian Korsholm Nielsen,
The Danish Expedition to Qatar, 1959: Photos by Jette Bang and Klaus
Ferdinand, English-Arabic version (Moesgrd Museum, 2009).
15. Martha Nussbaum, Beyond the Veil: A Response, New York
Times: Opinionator, July 15, 2010, opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2010
/07/15/beyond-the-veil-a-response/.
16. Martha Nussbaum, Veiled Threats?, New York Times: Opinionator, July 11, 2010, opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/07/11/veiled
-threats/; and Martha C. Nussbaum, The New Religious Intolerance:
Overcoming the Politics of Fear in an Anxious Age (Cambridge, Mass.:
Harvard University Press, 2012).
17. For a clear summary of this position, see Martha Nussbaums
latest iteration for a general audience: Martha C. Nussbaum, Creating
Capabilities: The Human Development Approach (Cambridge, Mass.:
Harvard University Press, 2011).
18. For the best analysis of the workings of the UN Convention on the
Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women (CEDAW),
see Sally Engle Merry, Human Rights and Gender Violence: Translating
International Law into Local Justice (Chicago: University of Chicago
Press, 2006).The timing of CEDAW was important for what was about
to happen to the relationship between Islamic and human rights law,
and the centrality of the Muslim woman to this relationship. Ziba
Mir-Hosseini, a feminist legal anthropologist originally from Iran, has
pointed out that the Iranian Revolution took place in the same year that
CEDAW was passed at the UN. It was a shock to find that people chose
an Islamic government. It was ironic that after years of secularization in
Iran, Islamic law became valued. Women became the flash point. Forced
to cover themselves in public, women also gave birth to a new kind of
feminism. Islamic feminism has taken many forms since 1979, but the
women involved must be taken seriously as examples of what happens
when you see feminism transnationally. Ziba Mir-Hosseni, Beyond Islam vs. Feminism, IDS Bulletin 42, no. 1 (2011): 6777.
19. These debates are taken up later, focusing on such key figures as
Nussbaum, Susan Moller Okin, and Catherine MacKinnon, and using
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socialdifference.columbia.edu/files/socialdiff/publications/SocDifOnline
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26. I discuss Musawahs work in Chapter 6.
27. Elora Shehabuddin, Gender and the Figure of the Moderate
Muslim: Feminism in the Twenty-First Century, in The Question of
Gender: Joan W. Scotts Critical Feminism, ed. Judith Butler and Elizabeth Weed (Bloomington: Indiana University Press, 2011), 107.
28. Leila Ahmed, A Quiet Revolution: The Veils Resurgence, from the
Middle East to America (New Haven, Conn.: Yale University Press, 2011).
29. Virginia Woolf, A Room of Ones Own (London: Hogarth Press,
1929).
30. Wendy Brown, Civilizational Delusions: Secularism, Tolerance,
Equality, Theory and Event 15, no. 2 (2012). For a good critique of
French secularism and its treatment of the veil, see Joan W. Scott, The
Politics of the Veil (Princeton, N.J.: Princeton University Press, 2007).
31. Saba Mahmood, Politics of Piety (Princeton, N.J.: Princeton University Press, 2006).
32. Ayaan Hirsi Ali has resisted the closing of the Muslim mind by
reading Voltaire. Ayaan Hirsi Ali, The Caged Virgin: An Emancipation
Proclamation for Women and Islam (New York: Free Press, 2006):
129140.
33. Ayaan Hirsi Ali, Ten Tips for Muslim Women Who Want to
Leave, in ibid., 111122.
34. Maya Angelou, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings (New York:
Bantam Books, 1993). The full poem can be found in Maya Angelou,
The Complete Collected Poems of Maya Angelou (New York: Random
House, 1994), 194195.
35. For a powerful analysis of the postCold War triumph of a new
ethical human rights discourse that justifies intervention of any sort
by the world community to rescue others from atrocities committed
by their neighbors, see Robert Meister, After Evil: A Politics of Human Rights (New York: Columbia University Press, 2011). The summary of the principles of this discourse on p.6 shows just how much
the concern for Muslim womens rights fits within the new humanitarian human rights. In a more sarcastic vein, Laura A. Agostn refers to
the Rescue Industry in which journalist heroes like Nicholas Kristof
(see Chapter 2) get a free pass to act out fun imperialist interventions
masked as humanitarianism. Agostn, The Soft Side of Imperialism,
Counterpunch, January 25, 2012, counterpunch.org/2012/01/25/the
-soft-side-of-imperialism/.
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Grossberg (Urbana: University of Illinois Press, 1988), 271313. Antoinette Burton, The White Womans Burden, in Western Women and
Imperialism, ed. Nupur Chaudhuri and Margaret Strobel (Bloomington:
Indiana University Press, 1992), 145; Lata Mani, Contentious Traditions: The Debate on Sati in Colonial India, Cultural Critique 7, The
Nature and Context of Minority Discourse II (1987): 119156.
9. Leila Ahmed, Women and Gender in Islam: Historical Roots of a
Modern Debate (New Haven, CT: Yale University Press, 1992). Elora
Shehabuddin has laid out the problems of colonial and missionary feminism in fine detail in Gender and the Figure of the Moderate Muslim, in The Question of Gender: Joan W. Scotts Critical Feminism, ed.
Judith Butler and Elizabeth Weed (Bloomington: Indiana University
Press, 2011), 102142.
10. Marnia Lazreg, The Eloquence of Silence: Algerian Women in
Question (New York: Routledge, 1994), 135.
11. Ibid., 6869.
12. Saba Mahmood, Feminism, Democracy, and Empire: Islam and
the War of Terror, in Womens Studies on the Edge, ed. Joan Wallach
Scott (Durham, N.C.: Duke University Press, 2008), 8182. This normative secularism has implications for the kinds of Muslim women
who get celebrated in the West now. Hirsi Ali declares herself an atheist.
For an excellent discussion of missionary views and the role of Christianity even today, see Shehabuddin, Gender and the Figure of the Moderate Muslim.
13. Hannah Papanek, Purdah in Pakistan: Seclusion and Modern
Occupations for Women, in Separate Worlds: Studies of Purdah in
South Asia, ed. Hannah Papanek and Gail Minault (Delhi: Chanakya
Publications, 1982), 190216.
14. Ruth Fremson, Allure Must Be Covered: Individuality Peeks
Through, New York Times, November 4, 2001, 12.
15. Ibid.
16. Suzanne Goldenberg, The Woman Who Stood up to the Taliban, Guardian, January 23, 2002, guardian.co.uk/world/2002/jan/24/
gender.uk1.
17. I am grateful to Tonunn Wimpelmann for this update on the
shifting meaning and use of the burqa in Afghanistan.
18. Lila Abu-Lughod, Veiled Sentiments: Honor and Poetry in a Bedouin Society (Berkeley: University of California Press, 1986).
19. For examples, see Lila Abu-Lughod, ed., Remaking Women: Feminism and Modernity in the Middle East, Princeton Studies in Culture/
Power/History (Princeton, N.J.: Princeton University Press, 1998); Lila
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41. Aryn Baker, Afghan Women and the Return of the Taliban, Time,
August 9, 2010, www.time.com/time/world/article/0,8599,2007238-4,00
.html.
42. Cynthia Enloe has examined these closely, including for Afghanistan; see Enloe, The Curious Feminist (Berkeley: University of California Press, 2004) and Globalization and Militarism (New York: Rowman and Littlefield, 2007).
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Other Modernities: Gendered Yearnings in China after Socialism (Berkeley: University of California Press, 1999); Hershatter, Gender of Memory; Emily Honig and Gail Hershatter, Personal Voices: Chinese Women
in the 1980s (Stanford, Calif.: Stanford University Press, 1988); Delia
Davin, Women in the Countryside of China, in Wolf and Witke, Women
in Chinese Society.
28. Ko, Cinderellas Sisters.
29. Ko, Footbinding and Anti-Footbinding in China, 235.
30. Kristof and WuDunn, Half the Sky, xxii.
31. It has often been noted that Americans do not accept that human
rights law should apply to the United States. It is also often said but
forgotten that the United States is one of the few countries that has not
ratified the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination against Women (CEDAW). There are many reasons for this
guarding national sovereignty and political and economic concerns might
be among them; Republicans dont help.
32. Catherine Lutz, Homefront: A Military City and the American
Twentieth Century (Boston: Beacon Press, 2001).
33. Kristof and WuDunn, Half the Sky, 211. Studies of microcredit
have actually shown that interest rates are far higher and that there are
serious problems with microcredit schemes for women. Lamia Karim,
Microfinance and Its Discontents: Women in Debt in Bangladesh (Minneapolis: University of Minnesota Press, 2011); Ananya Roy, Poverty
Capital (New York: Routledge, 2010).
34. Kristof and WuDunn, Half the Sky, 24.
35. Ibid., 23.
36. Ibid., 20.
37. She subtitles one of her books A Womans Cry for Reason and
another A Personal Journey through the Clash of Civilizations. For
more on Hirsi Ali from her days in the Netherlands, see Erik Snel and
Femke Stock, Debating Cultural Differences: Ayaan Hirsi Ali on Islam
and Women, in Immigrant Families in Multicultural Europe: Debating
Cultural Difference, ed. Ralph Grillo (Amsterdam: Amsterdam University Press, 2008); Halleh Ghorashi, Ayaan Hirsi Ali: Daring or Dogmatic? Debates on Multiculturalism and Emancipation in the Netherlands, in Multiple Identifications and the Self, ed. Henk Driessen and
Toon van Meijl (Utrecht, Netherlands: Stichting Focaal, 2003).
38. The extent of this political patronage for Ayaan Hirsi Ali, like Irshad Manji and Azar Nafisi is well documented in Saba Mahmood, Feminism, Democracy, and Empire: Islam and the War of Terror, in Womens Studies on the Edge, ed. Joan Wallach Scott (Durham, N.C.: Duke
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University Press, 2008). For an analysis of the key role of women in the
construction of the moderate Muslim who denounces Islam, see Elora
Shehabuddins Gender and the Figure of the Moderate Muslim, in The
Question of Gender: Joan W. Scotts Critical Feminism, ed. Judith Butler
and Elizabeth Weed (Bloomington: Indiana University Press, 2011).
39. Hirsi Ali invents the country of Islamistan as the setting of her
film script for Submission, directed by Theo Van Gogh (2004).
40. Hirsi Ali, Caged Virgin, 2.
41. Kristof and WuDunn, Half the Sky, 175.
42. Appiah, Honor Code, 153.
43. Kristof and WuDunn, Half the Sky, xii.
44. He used the same techniques in his earlier cause, the Save Darfur
campaign. See Rosemary R. Hicks and Jodi Eichler-Levine, As Americans against Genocide: The Crisis in Darfur and Interreligious Political
Activism, American Quarterly 59, no. 3 (2007): 711735.
45. Kristof and WuDunn, Half the Sky, 171.
46. Elaine H. Pagels, The Gnostic Gospels (New York: Random
House, 1979).
47. Kathryn Joyce, Quiverfull: Inside the Christian Patriarchy Movement (Boston: Beacon Press, 2009); QuiverFull, n.d., quiverfull.com/.
48. Appiah quotes from Leviticus and Deuteronomy.
49. Nadia Abu El-Haj, The Genealogical Science (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 2012).
50. See Letty Cottin Pogrebin, Gloria Steinem, in Jewish Women:
A Comprehensive Historical EncyclopediaJewish Womens Archive,
March 20, 2009, jwa.org/encyclopedia/article/steinem-gloria.
51. Hirsi Ali, Nomad, 247. She writes this without a footnote to the
Crusades, whose castles attract busloads of tourists across the Middle
East, not to mention a hundred years of nineteenth- and twentieth-century
colonial missionary work in the Arab world that produced some good
schools but only managed to convert some Eastern Orthodox Christians
to Protestantism.
52. miriam cooke, The Muslimwoman, Contemporary Islam 1,
no. 2 (2007): 139154.
53. Hirsi Ali, Nomad, 129.
54. As is standard practice, I use pseudonyms to protect the anonymity of people about whom I write.
55. One of the best analyses of the link between social visiting and
family honor is in Anne Meneley, Tournaments of Value: Sociability and
Hierarchy in a Yemeni Town (Toronto: University of Toronto Press,
1996).
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1. Ratna Kapur, The Tragedy of Victimization Rhetoric: Resurrecting the Native Subject in International/Postcolonial Feminist Legal Politics, Harvard Human Rights Law Journal 15 (2002): 1.
2. Kristof and WuDunn humbly announce that they feel honored to
have sat at the feet of some amazing women. Nicholas D. Kristof and
Sheryl WuDunn, Half the Sky: How to Change the World (London: Virago, 2010), acknowledgments, 287.
3. Catharine A. MacKinnon, Are Women Human? And Other International Dialogues (Cambridge, Mass.: Harvard University Press, 2006),
4143; Charlotte Bunch, Womens Rights as Human Rights: Toward a
Re-Vision of Human Rights, Human Rights Quarterly 12, no. 4 (1990):
486498; Susan Moller Okin, Is Multiculturalism Bad for Women?, ed.
Joshua Cohen, Matthew Howard, and Martha Craven Nussbaum (Princeton, N.J.: Princeton University Press, 1999); Martha Craven Nussbaum,
Women and Human Development: The Capabilities Approach, John
Robert Seeley Lectures (Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 2000).
4. MacKinnon, Are Women Human?, 43.
5. Bunch, Womens Rights as Human Rights, 491.
6. Okin, Is Multiculturalism Bad for Women?, 10.
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7. Wendy Brown, Regulating Aversion: Tolerance in the Age of Identity and Empire (Princeton, N.J.: Princeton University Press, 2006), 190.
8. Both the rights and the capabilities approaches use cultural arguments to explain sex-subordinating practices in other places, and religion usually comes in for special opprobrium. In blaming culture or religion, as Leti Volpp has noted, liberals obscure the degree to which
many womens problems around the world are rooted in forces beyond
their individual cultures or communitiesfor example, in international
structures of inequality, novel forms of patriarchy related to politicized
religious movements, and flows of transnational capital. They direct attention away from issues affecting women that are separate from what
are considered sexist cultural or religious practicesproblems that they
might share with others, including men. Meanwhile, as I argue in Chapter 4, they divert our gaze from the sexism indigenous to the contemporary United States or Europe, or to the middle classes. Leti Volpp,
Feminism versus Multiculturalism, Columbia Law Review 101, no. 5
(2001): 1204.
9. Okin, Is Multiculturalism Bad for Women?, 23; As one of her critics objects, why assume the public sphere is neutral? Brown asks, What
if male superordination is inscribed in liberalisms core values of liberty
rooted in autonomy and centered on self-interestand equalitydefined
as sameness and confined to the public sphere? Brown, Regulating Aversion, 194.
10. Okin, Is Multiculturalism Bad for Women?, 16. See Dipesh
Chakrabarty, Provincializing Europe: Postcolonial Thought and Historical Difference, Princeton Studies in Culture/Power/History (Princeton, N.J.: Princeton University Press, 2000), 27.
11. Martha Nussbaum, Non-Relative Virtues: An Aristotelian Approach, in The Quality of Life, ed. Martha Nussbaum and Amartya
Sen, Studies in Development Economics (Oxford: Oxford University
Press, 1993), 265.
12. Nussbaum, Women and Human Development, 97.
13. Nussbaum may be correct that the capabilities approach has not
been tainted by its association with the West in the same way that human
rights has, despite multiple attempts to also locate such rights within particular and non-Western traditions (as evidenced in the International
Islamic Declaration of Human Rights, the Cairo Declaration of Human
Rights in Islam, and the Islamic Human Rights Commission in Iran).
For a discussion of these, see, for example, Ridwan al-Sayyid, The
Question of Human Rights in Contemporary Islamic Thought, in
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films argument is expressed, Submission lends itself easily to appropriation by the Islamophobic discourse. Iveta Jusov, Hirsi Ali and van
Goghs Submission: Reinforcing the Islam vs. Women Binary, Womens
Studies International Forum 31, no. 2 (2008): 154.
51. De Leeuw and van Wichelen, Please, Go Wake Up!, 329.
52. Moors, Submission, 8.
53. Hirsi Ali, Caged Virgin, 141150.
54. Marcus Wood, Slavery, Empathy, and Pornography (Oxford:
Oxford University Press, 2002), 87.
55. Ibid., 96.
56. See also Carolyn J. Dean, Empathy, Pornography, and Suffering, Differences: A Journal of Feminist Cultural Studies 14, no. 1
(2003): 88124.
57. Jay M. Bernstein, Bare Life, Bearing Witness: Auschwitz and the
Pornography of Horror, Parallax 10, no. 1 (2004): 12.
58. Wood, Slavery, Empathy, and Pornography, 102103.
59. For other discussions, see Ahmad, Not Yet beyond the Veil;
Laila Lalami, The Missionary Position, Nation, June 19, 2006, thenation.com/article/missionary-position; and Roksana Bahramitash, The
War on Terror, Feminist Orientalism and Orientalist Feminism: Case
Studies of Two North American Bestsellers, Critique: Critical Middle
Eastern Studies 14, no. 2 (2005): 221235.
60. Saba Mahmood, Feminism, Democracy, and Empire: Islam and
the War of Terror, in Womens Studies on the Edge, ed. Joan Wallach
Scott (Durham, N.C.: Duke University Press, 2008), 9293. She notes
that like Ayaan Hirsi Ali, this native who takes us inside a country in
the axis of evil has been celebrated by Western feminists as well as the
neoconservative men and women who people the American Enterprise
Institute.
61. Sherene H. Razack, Stealing the Pain of Others: Reflections on
Canadian Humanitarian Responses, Review of Education, Pedagogy,
and Cultural Studies 29, no. 4 (2007): 375394.
62. Ayaan Hirsi Ali, Infidel (New York: Free Press), 85.
63. Ibid., 207208.
64. Ibid., 209.
65. See Abu-Lughod, Against Universals.
66. Veena Das, National Honor and Practical Kinship: Unwanted
Women and Children, in Conceiving the New World Order: The
Global Politics of Reproduction, ed. Faye D. Ginsburg and Rayna R.
Rapp (Berkeley: University of California Press, 1995); Ritu Menon and
Kamla Bhasin, Borders & Boundaries: Women in Indias Partition (New
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1. For details, see a longer and earlier version of this chapter published as Lila Abu-Lughod, Seductions of the Honor Crime, Differences: A Journal of Feminist Cultural Studies 22, no. 1 (2011):1763.
2. I take this term from James Fergusons now classic study of the work
of the development industry in the Third World. James Ferguson, The
Anti-Politics Machine: Development, Depoliticization, and Bureaucratic
Power in Lesotho (Minneapolis: University of Minnesota Press, 1994).
3. Amnesty International, Culture of Discrimination: A Fact Sheet
on Honor Killings (New York: Amnesty International, July 20, 2005).
4. As Kristof informs us, the hymenfragile, rarely seen, and pretty
pointlessremains an object of worship among many religions and societies around the world. Nicholas D. Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn,
Half the Sky: How to Change the World (London: Virago, 2010), 90.
5. Lila Abu-Lughod, Writing Womens Worlds: Bedouin Stories
(Berkeley: University of California Press, 1993), 192, 184.
6. For a particularly compelling story in which love poems were even
credited for causing a death, see Lila Abu-Lughod, Shifting Politics in
Bedouin Love Poetry, in Language and the Politics of Emotion, ed.
Catherine Lutz and Lila Abu-Lughod (New York: Cambridge University Press, 1990), 2445. For a beautiful Romeo and Juliet type traditional romance, in which the fronds of trees growing from the graves of
a pair of tragic lovers cross high in the sky, see Lila Abu-Lughod, Veiled
Sentiments: Honor and Poetry in a Bedouin Society (Berkeley: University of California Press, 1986), 249250.
7. Anthony Appiah, The Honor Code: How Moral Revolutions Happen (New York: W. W. Norton, 2010), 172.
8. Unni Wikan, In Honor of Fadime: Murder and Shame (Chicago:
University of Chicago Press, 2008), 62.
9. Ibid., 117.
10. Ibid., 110.
11. Ibid., 236.
12. Ibid., 167.
13. Ibid., 275.
14. Riemerss analysis of the Swedish media coverage of the event has
revealed the patterns. As she notes, The newspapers represented Fadime
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Iranian and Arab youth. It has since expanded to cover minority rights
and many other issues, garnering international awards for cyberactivism. Al-Azraq had to give up his volunteer work with the No Honor
site because he got busy organizing dialogues between Jordanians and
Danes, trying to convince the U.S. Embassy to sponsor a similar
Jordanian-American youth dialogue project, and helping teach a virtual
course for American college students interested in international relations and the Middle East. The website, accessed November 3, 2010, is
no longer live.
23. Human Rights Watch, A Question of Security: Violence against
Palestinian Women and Girls, November 11, 2006, unhcr.org/refworld
/docid/4565dd724.html. I discuss this report in Chapter 5.
24. Dicle Kogacioglu, The Tradition Effect: Framing Honor Crimes
in Turkey, Differences: A Journal of Feminist Cultural Studies 15, no. 2
(2004): 119, 141.
25. For a critique of the association of tradition with honor, see Ayse
Parla, The Honor of the State, Feminist Studies 27, no. 1 (2001):
6588.
26. Khaled Fahmy, Women, Medicine, and Power in Nineteenth
Century Egypt, in Remaking Women: Feminism and Modernity in the
Middle East, ed. Lila Abu-Lughod, Princeton Studies in Culture/Power/
History (Princeton, N.J.: Princeton University Press, 1998); Liat Kozma,
Negotiating Virginity: Narratives of Defloration from Late NineteenthCentury Egypt, Comparative Studies of South Asia, Africa and the Middle East 24, no. 1 (2004): 5769; Mario M. Ruiz, Virginity Violated:
Sexual Assault and Respectability in Mid- to Late-Nineteenth-Century
Egypt, Comparative Studies of South Asia, Africa and the Middle East
25, no. 1 (2005): 214226.
27. Nadera Shalhoub-Kevorkian and Suhad Daher-Nashif, The
Politics of Killing Women in Colonized Contexts, Jadaliyya, December
17, 2012, jadaliyya.com/pages/contributors/110635.
28. Human Rights Watch, A Question of Security, 49.
29. Katherine Pratt Ewing, Stolen Honor: Stigmatizing Muslim Men
in Berlin (Stanford, Calif.: Stanford University Press, 2008), chap. 5.
30. Ibid., 153.
31. Ibid., 154.
32. As Miriam Ticktin argues in her analysis of the hyperconcern in
France about rapes in the slums and sexual soliciting on the street, Put
in the larger context of debates in France about immigration, national
security, and a growing Europe-wide form of Islamophobia, the focus
on sexualityand sexual violence, more specificallycan be explained
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by the fact that it has become the discourse of border control and the way
borders are policed. Miriam Ticktin, Sexual Violence as the Language
of Border Control: Where French Feminist and Anti-immigrant Rhetoric Meet, Signs 33, no. 4 (2008): 864.
33. Nacira Gunif-Souilamas, The Other French Exception: Virtuous Racism and the War of the Sexes in Postcolonial France, French
Politics, Culture & Society 24, no. 3 (2006): 27.
34. Jacqueline Rose, A Piece of White Silk, London Review of
Books 31, no. 21 (2009): 58.
35. Anna C. Korteweg and Gke Yurdakul, Religion, Culture and
the Politicization of Honour-Related Violence, Paper No. 12, Gender
and Development Programme, UN Research Institute for Social Development, October 2010.
36. Fadwa El Guindi, Veil: Modesty, Privacy, and Resistance, Dress,
Body, Culture (Oxford: Berg, 1999); Saba Mahmood, Politics of Piety:
The Islamic Revival and the Feminist Subject (Princeton, N.J.: Princeton
University Press, 2005).
37. Lara Deeb and Mona Harb, Leisurely Islam (Princeton, N.J.:
Princeton University Press, 2013); Lara Deeb and Mona Harb, Sanctioned Pleasures: Youth, Piety and Leisure in Beirut, Middle East Report 245 (2007): 1219; Frances Susan Hasso, Consuming Desires:
Family Crisis and the State in the Middle East (Stanford, Calif.: Stanford University Press, 2011).
38. Homa Hoodfar, Between Marriage and the Market: Intimate
Politics and Survival in Cairo (Berkeley: University of California Press,
1997); Arlene Elowe Macleod, Accommodating Protest: Working
Women, the New Veiling, and Change in Cairo (New York: Columbia
University Press, 1991); Mahmood, Politics of Piety.
39. Lama Abu-Odeh, Crimes of Honour and the Construction of
Gender in Arab Societies, in Feminism and Islam: Legal and Literary
Perspectives, ed. Mai Yamani and Andrew Allen (New York: New York
University Press, 1996).
40. As Saba Mahmood writes, No discursive object occupies a
simple relation to the reality it purportedly denotes. Rather, representations of facts, objects, and events are profoundly mediated by the fields
of power in which they circulate and through which they acquire their
precise shape and form. Saba Mahmood, Feminism, Democracy, and
Empire: Islam and the War of Terror, in Womens Studies on the Edge,
ed. Joan W. Scott (Durham, N.C.: Duke University Press, 2008), 97.
41. Janet Halley, Prabha Kotiswaran, Hila Shamir, and Chantal
Thomas, From the International to the Local in Feminist Legal
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National Council for Human Rights in 2003, the state has refined its
discourse on the role of civil society and human rights organisations by
promoting an image of itself as the true patron of civil society organisations and the official agent of a more nationalistically defined human
rights movement. Abdelrahman, Nationalisation of the Human Rights
Debate in Egypt, 287.
16. Janet Halley et al., From the International to the Local in Feminist Legal Responses to Rape, Prostitution/Sex Work, and Sex Trafficking: Four Studies in Contemporary Governance Feminism, Harvard
Journal of Law & Gender 29 (2006): 335509. Similar trends of governmental control over substantial funds for womens empowerment
and rights have been observed in Jordan and Syria. See Mayssoun Sukarieh, The First Lady Phenomenon: Womens Empowerment and the
Colonial Present in the Contemporary Arab World, paper presented at
the Boas Seminar, Columbia University, March 27, 2013.
17. Association for the Development and Enhancement of Women,
History of ADEW, 2008, adew.org/en/?action=10000&sub=1.
18. Funders include one Egyptian (Sawiris Foundation for Development) and one Arab (Arab Gulf Program for United Nations Development Organization, or AG Fund), and the rest is a whos who of foreign
or UN foundations or agencies: the Delegation of the European Commission to Egypt, Swiss Development Fund, Ford Foundation, Embassy
of Japan, Royal Netherlands Embassy, Dutch Organization for International Development Cooperation (NOVIB), German Technical Cooperation (GTZ), Italian Debt Swap Program, United Nations Development
Program (UNDP), Australian Embassy, and Embassy of Finland.
19. Naela Rifaat, personal communication, Cairo, March 2008.
20. The Center for Egyptian Womens Legal Assistance (CEWLA) is
sought after as a partner by many, including the School of Oriental and
African Studies at the University of London when it was conducting a
multiyear project on honor crimes. See Lynn Welchman and Sara Hossein, Honour: Crimes, Paradigms and Violence against Women (London:
Zed Press, 2005). CEWLA also commissioned its own study.
21. Both Coptic and Muslim NGOs have long provided services to
women in Egypt, though Iman Bibars, an Egyptian scholar and activist,
has criticized them for their rigid expectations about gender roles and,
in the case of Muslim welfare groups, their bias toward women who are
heavily veiled and who present themselves as lonely, sick and poor.
Iman Bibars, Victims and Heroines: Women, Welfare and the Egyptian
State (London: Zed, 2001); and Abdelrahman, Civil Society Exposed,
116.
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22. Seham Ali interview, 2008. The director of CEWLA, Azza Sleiman, is also part of a transnational network of Muslim feminists who
launched an organization called Musawah in Kuala Lumpur in February 2009, dedicated to seeking justice and equality within Islamic family law. For more on this organization, see Chapter 6.
23. United Nations Egypt, United Nations Development Assistance
Framework 20072011 Egypt; for more on the alliance of the state and
Al-Azhar in Egypt, see Malika Zeghal, Religion and Politics in Egypt:
The Ulema of Al-Azhar, Radical Islam, and the State (195294), International Journal of Middle East Studies 31, no. 3 (1999): 371399; and
Tamir Moustafa, Conflict and Cooperation between the State and Religious Institutions in Contemporary Egypt, International Journal of
Middle East Studies 32, no. 1 (2000): 322.
24. Bibars was interviewed on Al-Jazeera by Riz Khan. Ashoka,
Iman Bibars and Sakeena Yacoobi on Al Jazeera, Ashoka: Innovators
for the Public, September 22, 2008, ashoka.org/video/5007.
25. Ashoka, Support Social Entrepreneurs, Ashoka: Innovators for
the Public, n.d., ashoka.org/support. The Ashoka Middle East and North
Africa fellows program, like ADEW (perhaps because both are directed
by Bibars), has also taken advantage of the opportunity to partner with
Columbia Universitys School of International and Public Affairs. Students in the development program in 20082009 were commissioned to
evaluate a girls sports program in Upper Egypt sponsored by Nike and
run by an Ashoka fellow. For a critical analysis of the role of sports in
imagining the liberation of village girls in Egypt, see Rania Kassab Sweis,
Saving Egypts Village Girls: Humanity, Rights, and Gendered Vulnerability in a Global Youth Initiative, Journal of Middle East Womens
Studies 8, no. 2 (2012): 2650.
26. A report on the Egyptian Center for Womens Rightss campaigns
against sexual harassment, which have taken new forms to respond to
the harassment of women protesters that have been orchestrated since
the events in Tahrir Square in 2011, can be found on their website. See
ecwronline .org/blog/2012/12/16/publications-of-sexual-harassment
-campaign/.
27. The Egyptian Center for Womens Rights (ECWR) appropriated
the slogan The Street Is Ours from a more radical coalition formed in
the summer of 2005 after the scandalous attack on women protesters
by thugs with police approval/instigation at a peaceful prodemocracy
demonstration by the political movement Kefaya (Enough) (Rabab El
Mahdi, personal communication, 2008). See El Mahdi, Does Political
Islam Impede Gender-Based Mobilization? The Case of Egypt. Such
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attacks were seen again across our television screens in the initial days
of the revolt in Tahrir Square on January 28, 2011, but this time without succeeding in stopping the demonstrators. The ECWRs campaign
against anonymous sexual harassment delinks the problems from the
ugly politics of government repression and violence by the security
forces and their successors.
28. For the results of this initiative, see harassmap.org.
29. Mona Abaza, Changing Consumer Cultures of Modern Egypt:
Cairos Urban Reshaping, Social, Economic, and Political Studies of the
Middle East and Asia (Leiden, Netherlands: Brill, 2006); Diane Singerman and Paul Ammar, eds., Cairo Cosmopolitan: Politics, Culture, and
Urban Space in the Globalized Middle East (Cairo, Egypt: American
University in Cairo Press, 2006); Anouk De Koning, Global Dreams:
Class, Gender, and Public Space in Cosmopolitan Cairo (Cairo, Egypt:
American University in Cairo Press, 2009). For a major study of contemporary Cairo that focuses instead on informal development across
the social classes, see David Sims, Understanding Cairo: The Logic of
a City Out of Control (Cairo, Egypt: American University in Cairo,
2011).
30. Sally Engle Merry has shown that since the 1990s, violence has
been the main issue on the agenda of the transnational feminist community, a focus not without its suspicious critics. Merry, Human Rights
and Gender Violence.
31. One in Three Women: A Global Campaign to Raise Awareness
about Violence against Women, Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, Human Trafficking, n.d., oneinthreewomen.com/. The website indicates an
interesting mix of commerce and good works: It states, One in Three
Women is a program of Moxie Company, Seattle, WA, founded by
Cheyla McCornack and Evelyn Brom. Moxie Company is a social enterprise supporting programs and organizations working to end violence
against women; oneinthreewomen.com/index.cfm?action=about.
32. PeaceKeeper Cause-metics, Womens Health Advocacy and Urgent Human Rights, 2013, iamapeacekeeper.com/peacekeeperadvoca
cyissuesnew.htm?
33. Women Living under Muslim Laws (WLUML), Violence Is Not
Our Culture: The Global Campaign to Stop Violence against Women in
the Name of Culture, 2009, stop-stoning.org/.
34. See Valentine M. Moghadam, Globalizing Women: Transnational
Feminist Networks, Themes in Global Social Change (Baltimore, Md.:
Johns Hopkins University Press, 2005), 142172, for an excellent description of WLUMLs positions and history.
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bridge: Cambridge University Press, 2009); Nahla Abdo, Women in Israel: Race, Gender and Citizenship (London: Zed Books, 2011).
41. Nadera Shalhoub-Kevorkian, Conceptualizing Voices of the
Oppressed in Conflict Areas, in Women, Armed Conflict and Loss: The
Mental Health of Palestinian Women in the Occupied Territories, ed.
Khawla Abu Baker (Jerusalem: Womens Studies Centre, 2004), published with Swedish funding: Kvinna Till Kvinna (Woman to Woman)
and Sida (Swedish International Development Cooperation Agency).
42. Ibid., 1731.
43. For a subtle analysis of the impact of human rights on Palestinian politics, representations, and subjectivity, see Lori Allen, Martyr
Bodies in the Media: Human Rights, Aesthetics, and the Politics of Immediation in the Palestinian Intifada, American Ethnologist 36, no. 1
(2009): 161. Didier Fassin also comments on the depoliticizing focus
on trauma during the second intifada; see his Humanitarian Reason
(Berkeley: University of California Press, 2012). Islah Jad, based at
Birzeit University in Palestine, chose to coauthor the UNDPs Arab Human Development Report 2005: Towards the Rise of Women in the
Arab World. Scholar-activists, including Nadera Shalhoub-Kevorkian,
assisted Human Rights Watch (HRW) in preparing A Question of Security, its 2006 report on violence against Palestinian women and girls.
44. Johnson, Violence All Around Us, 125.
45. These kinds of critiques are different from ones that focus on the
way the Human Rights Report played in the American media. The reception of the report returns us to the dense terrain surrounding the
focus of the campaign to stop killing and stoning womenthe transnational terrain Muslim womens rights traverses. According to some
analysts, the U.S. reportage on violence in Palestine is skewed: of eighty
reports documenting human rights abuses in the Palestinian-Israeli conflict since 2000, only two of the seventy-six that were primarily critical
of Israel were featured in the New York Times, while two of the four
that were primarily critical of Palestinians received coverage, including
the 2006 Human Rights Watch report on Domestic Security. Moreover,
HRW 2006 was represented selectively to reinforce the impression that
Muslim women need saving because they are passive victims of patriarchy and family violence. Also, as these commentators note, by failing to
quote a single Palestinian womens rights activist of the twenty-one
mentioned in the report, the New York Times coverage also made it
seem as if only foreigners could identify womens problems and help
resolve them. This was not HRWs position. Patrick OConnor and Rachel Roberts, The New York Times Marginalizes Palestinian Women
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has called it hukm hasani meaning for them a fair and quick justice that
compensates the victims and prevents vendettas. Rachida Chih, The
Khalwatiyya Brotherhood in Rural Upper Egypt and in Cairo, in Upper Egypt: Identity and Change, ed. Nicholas Hopkins and Reem Saad
(Cairo, Egypt: American University in Cairo Press, 2004), 162.
53. Rania Kassab Sweis, Saving Egypts Village Girls. As Sweis argues, in this project of saving village girls, crafting the adolescent girl
body as mobile, healthy, and rights bearing in these ways is viewed as
imperative to the overall construction of a healthy national population
in line with developmentalist models, 37.
54. For more on the response of the villagers to the uprisings, see
Lila Abu-Lughod, In Every Village a Tahrir: Rural Youth in Moral
Revolution.
55. Christine Walley, What We Women Want: An Ethnography of
Transnational Feminism (Unpublished book manuscript).
56. Mark Goodale, Introduction to Anthropology and Human Rights
in a New Key, American Anthropologist 108, no. 1 (2006): 3; Richard
Ashby Wilson, Afterword to Anthropology and Human Rights in a
New Key: The Social Life of Human Rights, American Anthropologist
108, no. 1 (2006): 81.
57. Smadar Lavie, Mizrahi Feminism and the Question of Palestine, Journal of Middle East Womens Studies 7, no. 2 (2011): 56.
6.
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between what elite nationals, transnational feminists, and donor organizations want, and the womens priorities in their communities. See
Dorothy L. Hodgson, These Are Not Our Priorities: Maasai Women,
Human Rights and the Problem of Culture, in Gender and Culture at
the Limit of Rights, ed. Dorothy Hodgson (Philadelphia: University of
Pennsylvania Press, 2011); Christine J. Walley, What We Women Want:
An Ethnography of Transnational Feminism, unpublished manuscript.
5. Taking both conceptual and practical rights as their objects,
anthropologists have considered everything from rights as cultural
and performative to the ways that rights talk is mobilized (Dorothy L.
Hodgson, Womens Rights as Human Rights: Women in Law and Development in Africa [WiLDAF], Africa Today 49, no. 2 [2002]: 326;
Dorothy L. Hodgson, Introduction: Comparative Perspectives on the
Indigenous Rights Movement in Africa and the Americas, American
Anthropologist 104, no. 4 [2002]: 10371049; and Hodgson, These
Are Not Our Priorities. ) They have studied the dynamics of transplantation and vernacularization of rights frames and the social machinery of the production and reproduction of rights: see especially
Merry, Human Rights and Gender Violence; Peggy Levitt and Sally Engle Merry, Making Womens Human Rights in the Vernacular: Navigating the Culture/Rights Divide, in Gender and Culture at the Limit
of Rights, ed. Dorothy Hodgson (Philadelphia: University of Pennsylvania Press, 2011). Others have invoked human rights to find ways to assist indigenous communities: Elsa Stamatopoulou and Bruce Robbins,
Reflections on Culture and Cultural Rights, South Atlantic Quarterly
103, nos. 23 (2004): 419434. In an important contribution aptly
titled Rights Inside Out, Riles has shown the peculiar way womens
groups in Fiji adopted womens rights as human rights as a framework, despite their own doubts, convinced of the efficacy of a discourse
that they imagined others out there found persuasive. See Annelise
Riles, Rights Inside Out: The Case of the Womens Human Rights
Campaign, Leiden Journal of International Law 15, no. 2 (2002):
285305.
6. Elizabeth Povinelli, The Cunning of Recognition: Indigenous Alterities and the Making of Australian Multiculturalism (Durham, N.C.:
Duke University Press, 2002).
7. See Harri Englund, Prisoners of Freedom: Human Rights and the
African Poor (Berkeley: University of California Press, 2006), writing
on Malawi; and Michael Jackson, Existential Anthropology: Events,
Exigencies and Effects (New York: Berghahn Books, 2005), writing on
Sierra Leone. See also James Ferguson and Akhil Gupta, Spatializing
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States: Toward an Ethnography of Neoliberal Governmentality, American Ethnologist 29, no. 4 (2002): 98110.
8. Lori Allen, Martyr Bodies in the Media: Human Rights, Aesthetics, and the Politics of Immediation in the Palestinian Intifada, American Ethnologist 36, no. 1 (2009): 161. See also Didier Fassin, Humanitarian Reason: A Moral History of the Present (Berkeley: University of
California Press, 2011); Peter Redfield, Doctors, Borders, and Life in
Crisis, Cultural Anthropology 20, no. 3 (2005): 328361; Miriam Ticktin, Casualties of Care (Berkeley: University of California Press, 2011);
Ticktin, Where Ethics and Politics Meet: The Violence of Humanitarianism in France, American Ethnologist 33, no. 1 (2006): 3349.
9. Wendy Brown, The Most We Can Hope For . . .: Human Rights
and the Politics of Fatalism, South Atlantic Quarterly 103, nos. 23
(2004): 451463. Robert Meister, After Evil: A Politics of Human
Rights (New York: Columbia University Press, 2011).
10. Ratna Kapur, The Tragedy of Victimization Rhetoric: Resurrecting the Native Subject in International/Post-Colonial Feminist Legal Politics, Harvard Human Rights Journal 15 (2002): 138; Inderpal
Grewal, Womens Rights as Human Rights: The Transnational Production of Global Feminist Subjects, in Transnational America: Feminisms, Diasporas, Neoliberalisms, ed. Inderpal Grewal, Next Wave
(Durham, N.C.: Duke University Press, 2005), 125.
11. As Norani Othman, one of the founders of Sisters in Islam explains, The experience of many womens groups operating in Muslim
countries these past two decades demonstrates that in their daily battles
a great deal more progress is achieved by working with their religious
and cultural paradigm. Norani Othman, Grounding Human Rights
Arguments in Non-Western Culture: Sharia and the Citizenship Rights
of Women in a Modern Islamic State, in The East Asian Challenge for
Human Rights, ed. Joanne R. Bauer and Daniel A. Bell (Cambridge:
Cambridge University Press, 1999).
12. The focus will be on one of the key violations of womens human rights that has mobilized the transnational community in recent
years: domestic violence. See Grewal, Womens Rights as Human
Rights ; for a questioning of the capacity of legal language to capture
the experience of violence, see Kirsten Hastrup, Violence, Suffering and
Human Rights: Anthropological Reflections, Anthropological Theory
3, no. 3 (2003): 309323.
13. Those concerned with womens rights realized that for the
grassrootstheir objects of concern and intended beneficiariesthe
moral appeal of fidelity to Islam had never wavered and in fact has been
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enhanced in the past few decades with the spread of education, media,
and the growing funding of Islamic education and proselytizing.
14. Irshad Manji is a good example, discussed by Saba Mahmood,
Feminism, Democracy, and Empire: Islam and the War of Terror, in
Womens Studies on the Edge, ed. Joan Wallach Scott (Durham, N.C.:
Duke University Press, 2008). Ayaan Hirsi Ali is another.
15. An interesting new mix is represented by Nazreen Nawaz, media
spokesperson for Hizb ut-Tahrirs 2012 launch of an international campaign called The Khilafah: A Shining Model for Womens Rights and
Political Role, which fuses womens rights language with a radical vision of a ruling system based purely upon Islamic laws and principles,
hizb-ut-tahrir.info/info/english.php/contents_en/entry_16414.
16. According to some accounts, Sisters in Islam (SIS) catalyzed when
theologian Dr. Amina Wadud, having since become famous through her
books like Inside the Gender Jihad (Oxford: Oneworld, 2008) and
through leading a mixed congregation prayer, came to teach in Malaysia; Madhavi Sunder, Reading the Quran in Kuala Lumpur, University
of Chicago Law School Faculty Blog, February 16, 2009, uchicagolaw
.typepad.com/faculty/2009/02/reading-the-quran-in-kuala-lumpur.html.
For other important arguments about achieving womens rights through
feminist interpretations of the Quran, see Zainah Anwar, Sisters in Islam and the Struggle for Womens Rights, in On Shifting Ground: Muslim Women in the Global Era, ed. Fereshteh Nouraie-Simone (New York:
Feminist Press at the City University of New York, 2005); Asma Barlas,
Globalizing Equality: Muslim Women, Theology, and Feminism, in
On Shifting Ground: Muslim Women in the Global Era, ed. Fereshteh
Nouraie-Simone (New York: Feminist Press at the City University of
New York, 2005); Azizah al-Hibri, Deconstructing Patriarchal Jurisprudence in Islamic Law: A Faithful Approach, in Global Critical Race
Feminism: An International Reader, ed. Adrien Katherine Wing (New
York: New York University Press, 2000); and Azizah al-Hibri, Muslim
Womens Rights in the Global Village: Challenges and Opportunities,
Journal of Law and Religion 15, nos. 12 (2000): 3766. For an overview of issues, see Margot Badran, Feminism in Islam: Secular and Religious Convergences (Oxford: Oneworld, 2009).
17. But Basarudin, writing her dissertation about SIS, describes the
organization more neutrally as those working from within their religious and cultural frameworks. Azza Basarudin, Musawah Movement:
Seeking Equality and Justice in Muslim Family Law, CSW Update
Newsletter, UCLA, March 1, 2009, repositories.cdlib.org/csw/newsletter
/Mar09_Basarudin.
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30. Ibid., 75.
31. Their sophisticated new website is Womens Islamic Initiative in
Spirituality and Equality (WISE), WISE Muslim Women, wisemuslimwomen.org/.
32. See The Cordoba Initiative, cordobainitiative.org/; see also
Rosemary R. Hicks, Translating Culture, Transcending Difference?
Cosmopolitan Consciousness and Sufi Sensibilities in New York City
after 2001, Journal of Islamic Law and Culture 10, no. 3 (2008): 281
306. For more on the cosmopolitan ideology of Sufis in New York and
the work of Imam Feisal, see Rosemary R. Hicks, Creating an Abrahamic America and Moderating Islam: Cold War Political Economy and
Cosmopolitan Sufis in New York After 2001 (Ph.D. diss., New York:
Columbia University, 2010).
33. Wendy Brown, Regulating Aversion: Tolerance in the Age of
Identity and Empire (Princeton, N.J.: Princeton University Press, 2006)
shows that contemporary liberal tolerance discourse masks some unsavory politics. Despite Abdel Raoufs insistent liberalism, his bid to set
up a cultural center near Ground Zero in New York set off vitriolic
protests by Islamophobes.
34. Even the visions of femininity were multiple. Some capitalized on
the fact that the acronym WISE had a meaning: some of the women
present spoke about womens wisdom as a source of authority. Others
were uncomfortable with the essentialization of femininity sometimes
invoked.
35. See poster on website: Womens Islamic Initiative in Spirituality
and Equality (WISE), Jihad against Violence: Muslim Womens Struggle
for Peace, July 2009, wisemuslimwomen.org/pdfs/jihad-report.pdf.
36. The ideological positioning of one of the most forceful women in
the group placed her squarely in the camp that Mahmood calls reformist. Her biographical sketch notes that she has spent the past decade
assisting moderate Muslim communities around the world to resist the
ideological onslaught of Islamic extremism. She advises both government and civic leaders on the threat posed by the extremists, as well as
on policies to transform stifled Muslim societies into progressive participants of a free society.
37. What follows in the compact is a series of declarations about
exactly what, in these six domains, WISE women are dedicated to: in
the sphere of protecting religion, for example, the compact states, We
are dedicated to advancing Muslim womens positions as religious and
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longer version of Chapter 5, published as Lila Abu-Lughod, The Active Social Life of Muslim Womens Rights: A Plea for Ethnography,
Not Polemic, with Cases from Egypt and Palestine, Journal of Middle
East Womens Studies 6, no. 1 (2010): 145.
49. As Merry notes of successful social work projects against domestic violence in Hawaii, anger management for men and police training
are among the practices that have been transplanted to that locale that
may help women develop rights consciousness. Merry, Human Rights
and Gender Violence.
50. For more examples of such projects in Egypt and Palestine, see
Abu-Lughod, The Active Social Life of Muslim Womens Rights.
51. I am not arguing with the Egyptian feminist, scholar, and wouldbe parliamentarian Iman Bibars, who anticipates criticisms of her focus
on battering in her study of the urban poor by saying, I could be accused of applying my Westernized middle-class biases in assessing, interpreting, and analyzing the stories of the women interviewed in this
study, but the issues came from them. Wife-battering is a violent and
humiliating experience, as stated by the women themselves in their
own words. Then she quotes one informant, who said, I felt like dying. I hate him and hated my life. Iman Bibars, Victims and Heroines:
Women, Welfare and the Egyptian State (London: Zed, 2001). The
question I ask, instead, is how the things these women say about their
husbands or brothers or fathers are translated into the language of
womens rights through the medium of reports and projects by rights
advocates, and how the re-embedding transforms their own readings. I
am aware that my own rendering of Khadijas situation as an ethnographic case study may make her stories part of the rights discourse
too. For a critique of this problem, see Marnia Lazreg, Development:
Feminist Theorys Cul-de-Sac, in Feminist Post-Development Thought:
Rethinking Modernity, Post-Colonialism and Representation, ed. Kriemild Saunders, Zed Books on Women and Development (London: Zed,
2002).
52. Enloe has drawn our attention to the shifting gender dynamics
produced from mass tourism by European and North American women.
Cynthia H. Enloe, Bananas, Beaches, and Bases (Berkeley: University of
California Press, 2000).
53. Timothy Mitchell, Rule of Experts: Egypt, Technopolitics, Modernity (Berkeley: University of California Press, 2002); Timothy Mitchell, Worlds Apart: An Egyptian Village and the International Tourism
Industry, Middle East Report 196 (SeptemberOctober 1995): 823;
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cultural traditions share the same values, but to ask what historical processes and what institutional arrangements from nation-states to the
flourishing forms of transnational governance, advocacy, and humanitarianism have installed this dialect of universality in so many places.
And to follow Talal Asad, to ask who has the political power to redeem
humanity (including women) from traditional cultures or to reclaim
for them their inalienable rights, which he says, comes down in the end
to the same thing. Asad, Redeeming the Human through Human
Rights, 154.
17. I am referring here to the famous photography exhibit that traveled the world, first shown at the Museum of Modern Art (MOMA) in
1952. The curator had been, as OBrian notes, a member of a UNESCO
[United Nations Educational, Scientific, and Cultural Organization]
committee established to study the problem of how the Visual Arts can
contribute to the dissemination of information on the Universal Declaration of Human Rights. Meant to stress the universal elements and
aspects of human relations and experiences common to all mankind,
the exhibit censored photographs of lynching and the effects of the
atom bomb in Japan and was used as part of American propaganda in
the Cold War setting. See John OBrian, The Nuclear Family of Man,
Asia-Pacific Journal: Japan Focus (July 11, 2008). japanfocus.org/_John
_O_Brian-The_Nuclear_Family_of_Man. I am arguing that family must
be understood differently.
18. For an example of the range of this rethinking, see Sarah Franklin and Susan McKinnon, eds., Relative Values: Reconfiguring Kinship
Study (Durham, N.C.: Duke University Press, 2001).
19. After I had written this section, I was pleased to find that Marshall Sahlins noted on p. 44 of his pamphlet The Western Illusion of
Human Nature (Chicago: Prickly Paradigms Press, 2008) that the
Western tradition has long harbored an alternative conception of order
and being, of the kind anthropologists have often studied: kinship community. True that in the West this is the unmarked human condition, despite that (or perhaps because) family and kindred relations are sources
of our deepest sentiments and attachments. He does not, however, consider the family as a complex mixture of power and attachment.
20. Roland Barthes, The Great Family of Man, in Mythologies, trans.
Annette Lavers (New York: Hill and Wang, 1972 [1957]), 100102.
21. For example, see Alice Ann Munro, Runaway (Toronto: McClelland & Stewart Limited, 2004). For an elaboration of the argument
about the importance of ethnography of the particular, see the introduction to Abu-Lughod, Writing Womens Worlds.
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How can one ever acknowledge all those who have contributed to ones
thinking about a complex world? This book bears the traces of all those
with whom I have thought and talked about womens rights during the
past decade, including those I only know through their writings. I am
grateful to them in ways I can never properly credit.
My debts to the women and men I have known in Egypt whose stories fill the pages of this book are immense. I would not have been so
certain that we had to be so critical of the common discourses on
womens rights and Muslim women if I had not been so warmly brought
into their lives. They helped me to see the world through their eyes. I
hope their experiences and perspectives and my analysis of their complex situations will shift the terms of the debates. I am sorry that I cannot name them here, but they will recognize what I have learned from
them.
Colleagues and friends across the world, including at Columbia,
which has been my intellectual home since 2000, commented on drafts,
sent me clippings and citations, shared unpublished work, encouraged,
and even inspired me. I want thank them all. Wendy Brown, Catherine
Lutz, and Anupama Rao have been close interlocutors over many years;
I cannot imagine my formation, or this book, without them. I owe them
more than I can say, not just for their brilliance, political commitments,
enthusiasm, and humor, but for giving me confidence. For their unique
individual contributions, I also want to thank Nahla Abdo, Lori Allen,
Soraya Altorki, Partha Chatterjee, Jane Cowan, Susan Crane, Lara
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research; to carve out time to read, think, and write in the midst of
teaching and administration; and to meet with colleagues to share ideas
and learn from each other. I am grateful for fellowships from the American Council for Learned Societies and the Carnegie Foundation from
2007 to 2009. Columbia too was generous with research leaves. I will
remain grateful to Nicholas Dirks for his support always.
Support from many quarters at Columbia for collaborative intellectual work was crucial for the development of my ideas. The Institute
for Research on Women, Gender, and Sexuality was my perfect base,
and out of it the Center for the Study of Social Difference. I have the
best colleagues I could wish for there and have depended on them as
well as the talented staff who make up our team, especially Laura
Ciolkowski and Vina Tran. Enthusiastic support from the Institute for
Social and Economic Research and Policy; from the Luce Foundation
funded initiative on religion and international affairs through the
Center for Democracy, Toleration, and Religion; from the Institute for
Religion, Culture, and Public Life; and most significantly from the
Center for the Study of Social Difference, an advanced study center
that nurtures intellectual work at Columbia, made it possible to set up
faculty working groups and international workshops that advanced
my thinking and connected me to wonderful scholars. I want to thank
Toby Volkman at the Luce Foundation for her firm support and for being there both in Amman and in Paris for some of those workshops.
None of these institutions or individuals is responsible for the views
presented here.
Putting a book into production takes the good efforts of many. I am
grateful to Elora Shehabuddin for making the connection with Sharmila
Sen, my dynamic dream editor who understood in a flash what I was
trying to do and gave me wise counsel (as well as pressuring me to finish). Heather Hughes shepherded the project in the most professional
way. I am grateful to Brian Ostrander for meticulously overseeing the
production and Fran Lyon for deftly clarifying my prose. Everyone I
worked with at Harvard University Press contributed to making the
process of bringing out this book so positive.
The labor of an embarrassing number of talented research assistants
went into making this book a reality. I want to thank Ali Atif, Amina
Ayad, Elisabeth Jacquette, Menna Khalil, Ana Maria Lebada, Sara Layton, Sarah Polefka, Leah Riviere, Mona Soleiman, Nikolas Sparks, and
John Warner. My debt to Ana Maria Lebada for the index cannot be underestimated; it makes such a difference to have an intelligent and
knowledgeable person constructing an index.
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INDEX
Bieber, Jodi, 27
Bier, Laura, 256n4
Bin Laden, Osama, 31
Birmingham, 91, 111, 216
Birzeit University, 160
Blair, Cherie, 31
Bookseller of Kabul, The, 87
Booth, Marilyn, 255n3
Bonn peace conference, 4344
Brenner, Suzanne April, 236n19
Broinowski, Anna, 252n18
Brown, Christopher Leslie,
5960
Brown, Wendy, 19, 231n19,
233n30, 244nn7,9, 247n36,
266n9, 270n33
Bunch, Charlotte, 83
Burned Alive, 97, 123124
Burqa, 9, 10, 3536, 38, 230n14.
See also Clothing; Veiling
Burton, Antoinette, 235n8
Bush, George W., 29, 31
Bush, Laura, 3032, 34, 46, 53
Butalia, Urvashi, 111
Butler, Judith, 217218
Caged Virgin, The, 87, 109
Cairo, 22, 4547, 156, 164, 171,
189, 193, 195, 198, 260n29
Cambodia, 16, 57, 62, 67, 70
Canada, 109, 135
Canadian International Development Agency, 153
Capabilities, human, 8586,
244nn8,13, 245n14, 277n16
Capitalism, 48, 65, 126, 150,
155156, 223, 244n8
Carapico, Sheila, 257n13, 261n39
CEDAW (UN Convention for
the Elimination of All Forms
of Discrimination against
311
312
cooke, miriam, 73
Cordoba Initiative, 181
Crofts, Andrew, 9697, 99
Cromer, Lord, 3334
Crowe, Derrick, 234n1
Crusades, 7273, 78, 82; moral,
85, 112. See also Salvation
Culture, 12, 25, 3132, 43, 49,
8990, 128, 140, 226, 244n8;
and oppression, 14; and
politics, 6. See also Tradition
Cuny, Marie-Thrse, 9798, 124
Dabashi, Hamid, 106, 269n27
Daher-Nashif, Suhad, 131
Daniel, E. Valentine, 276n12
Darfur, 242n44, 270n32, 278n24
Das, Veena, 111, 250n66
Daughters of Shame, 96, 99
Davin, Delia, 241n27
Dean, Carolyn J., 104
Deeb, Lara, 39, 247n34
De Koning, Anouk, 260n29
De Leeuw, Marc, 249n49
Democracy, 34, 86, 111, 125,
134, 154155, 179, 184. See
also Freedom
Dependency, 125, 218219
Desert Royal, 9395, 9697
Development, 83, 87, 148, 152,
155, 164165, 223, 259n25,
264n53
Divorce, 93, 109
Doctors of the World (Mdecins
du Monde), 48. See also
Humanitarianism
Durkheim, Emile, 276n12
Dusenbery, Maya, 230n13
Dutch Foreign Ministrys MG3
Fund, 184
Dutch Oxfam, 153
INDEX
INDEX
313
314
Germany, 134136
Grme, Jean-Lon, 106
Ghorashi, Halleh, 241n37,
249n50
Gill, Aysha, 238n5
Gilligan, Carol, 125
Ginsburg, Faye D., 250n66
Girls, 118, 264n53; and pedophilia, 100101
Global Fund for Women, 153
Global Muslim Womens Shura
Council, 181183, 185,
190191
Goodale, Mark, 264n56
Gordon, Richard, 240n26
Governance: feminist, 79, 152,
161; transnational, 136, 142,
152, 174, 176
Government, 51, 85, 115, 130,
150, 166; as oppressor, 1, 3
Gramsci, Antonio, 217
Great Britain, 6061, 99100,
134, 135, 136, 223
Grewal, Inderpal, 175, 232n19
Gunif-Souilamas, Nacira, 134,
248n39
Gupta, Akhil, 265n7
Hafez, Sherine, 273n48
Half the Sky, 7072, 79, 8384,
122
Halley, Janet, 152, 161, 243n58
Halttunen, Karen, 80
Harassment, 156, 259n27
Harb, Mona, 245n37
Hassidic women, 36
Hasso, Frances Susan, 254n37,
276n11
Hastrup, Kirsten, 266n12
Hatem, Mervat F., 256n4
Hlie-Lucas, Marieme, 157
INDEX
INDEX
315
316
INDEX
Labor, 3, 60, 75
Latour, Bruno, 255n1
Lavie, Smadar, 264n56
Lazreg, Marnia, 3334, 263n49,
274n51
Lebanon, 39, 71, 73, 137, 139,
177
Lee, Dorothy, 276n12
Levitt, Peggy, 265n5
Lewal, Amina, 232n24
Lewis, Bernard, 68
Liberalism: and attachments,
104; and democracy, 34, 47,
84, 86, 111, 125, 179; and
multiculturalism, 68, 174; and
organizations, 155, 178, 208;
and religion, 180181, 187,
244n8; and sexual freedom,
112, 119, 127, 138, 141; as
symbol of autonomy and
freedom, 123, 125, 127, 202,
217, 244n9; and toleration,
128, 181, 270n33; and the
West, 85, 125, 128, 269n28.
See also Autonomy; Choice;
Freedom
Literature, 55, 68, 82, 8789,
91
Liu, Lydia H., 240n26
Louboutin, Christian, 73
Love, 126, 215, 217, 226
Lutz, Catherine, 241n32
Luxor, 189
Lydda Airport (now Ben Gurion),
22
MacKinnon, Catherine, 83,
231n19
Macleod, Arlene Elowe, 236n19,
254n38
Mahdavi, Pardis, 236n28
INDEX
317
318
INDEX
319
INDEX
320
Revolution (continued)
155, 160, 168, 224; Iranian,
231n18; moral, 56, 58, 61, 70,
78, 120. See also Arab Spring;
Tahrir Square
Riemers, Eva, 252n14
Riesman, Paul, 229n5
Rifaat, Naela, 258n19
Right, the, 68, 97
Rights, 164, 166, 172, 174175,
197, 197, 200203, 231n18,
244n8, 265n5, 274n51, 277n16;
circulation of, 146147,
162163; and commercialization, 155157; frameworks of,
176, 198199, 221, 226;
human, 10, 54, 5859, 7985,
110, 113, 128130, 142, 152,
159160, 219; and identity,
178; and Islamic feminists,
178181, 184186; registers
of, 166, 169; sexual, 123, 126;
social life of, 145, 147, 150,
153, 161162, 164, 167,
170171, 176, 193, 200. See
also Muslim women; Women
Riles, Annelise, 265n5
Riley, Ferzanna, 99
Robbins, Bruce, 265n5
Robinet, Philippe, 98
Rodrigues, Deborah, 237n35
Rofel, Lisa, 240n27
Rosaldo, Michelle Zimbalist,
276n12
Rose, Jacqueline, 135
Roy, Ananya, 241n33
Ruiz, Mario M., 252n26
Sadat, Anwar, 148
Sahindal, Fadime, 120, 125, 130,
132, 251n14
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322
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INDEX
323
324
Women (continued)
Afghanistan, 29, 41, 51; and
rights in Egypt, 148157,
163167, 169, 171; and rights
as hybrid, 163167, 169; and
rights in Palestine, 158162;
and sex(uality), 7, 70, 88, 91,
9396, 103, 116117, 123124,
126, 137139, 142, 239n19;
and social status, 117, 187,
221,223, 227; and suffering,
16, 2225, 32, 5253, 55, 62,
66, 7475, 77, 80, 82, 101,
105, 141142, 160, 176, 196,
221, 223226; and war, 14, 61,
68, 78, 81, 83, 219, 221, 223.
See also Gender; Marriage;
Muslim women
INDEX
Women in Black, 41
Womens Center for Legal Aid
and Counseling (Palestine), 132
Wood, Marcus, 103, 105
Woolf, Virginia, 18
World Bank, 152
World Trade Center, 31
WuDunn, Sheryl, 58, 63, 6667,
6970, 83
Yegenoglu, Meyda, 230n7
Yemen, 8991, 95, 97, 110111,
217
Yurdakul, Gke, 135
Yusra, 163
Zionism, 22, 24, 97
Zwemer, Samuel, 237nn32,34