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Tuesday, October 2, 2012

The Herald

Father should take first step to break silence with daughter


Dear Annie: I am an One of my children flew 88-year-old father with three in with his wife and two grown daughters. I have a kids, and the others drove a substantial amount listed in long distance to attend. The my will, which originally wedding was quite elegant, was to be equally divided. and we had a nice time. We A year ago, my youngest each sent lovely gifts that daughter and I had a fall- we spent a great deal of time ing out. I said something selecting. that irritated her, and she After two months, we said I am not allowed to each received a generic prebring up that subject again. printed thank-you note that I replied, Dont didnt mention the tell me what I can gifts specifically or talk about. If you say anything about dont like what I using them. The say, dont call, notes werent even and I hung up. She signed. took that literally, What do you and even though think of this new I made numerous way of writing attempts to reinthank-you notes? I state myself into am so disappointher life, I was ed in my cousin. rebuffed. I hope the bridal I recently had couple sees this. major surgery. My Annies Mailbox Disheartened daughter neither Michigander called nor visited. But her Dear Michigander: We husband sent several emails hope the preprinted note blaming me for the estrange- was not the actual thank-you ment, saying I should have note, but just a placeholder apologized and what he real- letting you know the gift ly thought of me. Frankly, arrived and they will thank if my daughter had simply you properly later. acted like nothing happened, Dear Annie: After readit would have been over. ing numerous stories of marConsidering how Ive always ried couples saying the pashelped her financially, youd sion has left their marriages, think she would have cut me I had to put in my two cents some slack. worth. When my daughter made My husband and I have no attempt to end this hostil- been married for 28 years. ity after six months, I had I, too, felt that we were in a my attorney remove her as rut. A couple of months ago, an heir to my estate. I have I texted a topless photo of since learned that my son- myself to my husband while in-law is quite upset about he was at work. That night, this. I think hes been very we had the most fun weve instrumental in influencing had in years. Now I keep the my daughters behavior. I pictures coming on a random also believe the only reason basis, gradually increasing he was ever pleasant to me the raciness. This one little was to ensure my daughters step has been a lifesaver for inheritance. our marriage. Somewhere Wills can always be in Virginia changed, and if my daughter Dear Virginia: As long as behaves better, Im happy no one else uses that phone to reinstate her. But right and those photos dont go now, Im still angry and hurt viral, were all in favor of by her intolerable treatment. using whatever spice helps. Even if this gets resolved, I doubt I will ever feel the same toward either of them, and time is running out. S.W. in California Dear S.W.: Somehow, this altercation has developed into an argument about money. We agree that your daughter and her husband are behaving terribly. However, your age doesnt absolve you of everything. A good first step toward reconciliation is to apologize for hanging up on her instead of thinking she should treat it as if nothing happened. We hope she will accept this and allow the relationship to mend. We suggest asking one of her sisters to act as an intermediary. If she refuses to budge, however, there is nothing more you can do. Dear Annie: My entire family attended my cousins wedding in another state.

Tomorrows Horoscope
WEDNESDAY, OCTOBER 3, 2012 It looks like youre about to make some critical changes in your life that will spill over and have a positive effect on your financial affairs. In doing so, theres a chance youll be able to fulfill a longstanding desire. LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 23) -- Do your very best not to disrupt anything that is presently running smoothly, because you could be all thumbs and make matters worse. Let your motto be: If it isnt broke, dont fix it. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) -Youre asking for all kinds of trouble if you deliberately play up to someone in order to make another person whom you dont like jealous. Dont play games. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 23-Dec. 21) -- Only if you are tenacious and consistent will success be within your reach. However, the odds are against you if you try to gamble your way to greener pastures. CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19) -- Friends and associates arent likely to have any respect for your ideas or opinions if they sense that you have little regard for theirs. Be sure to keep an open mind and avoid premature judgment. AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 19) -Dont allow anybody whos notorious for being unable to manage his or her resources to handle your own. This error in judgment could turn out to be very expensive. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) -Things you envision can be brought into being, if you work at it. However, this does not mean you could succeed teaming up with another. Go it alone. ARIES (March 21-April 19) -- You wont mind going out of your way to assist a friend. However, it will really irk you if the recipient has a total lack of acknowledgement and appreciation. TAURUS (April 20-May 20) -- If your old standbys arent available to do something fun with you, it might be best to go it alone. Involvements with substitutes arent likely to work out too well. GEMINI (May 21-June 20) -Once you successfully have achieved something, let it go and move on to something new. If you keep trying to improve it, you could unravel your own accomplishment. CANCER (June 21-July 22) -- Your keen imagination can be a very big plus, provided you remain positive and channel it constructively. Once you start to think negatively, it will be a different story. LEO (July 23-Aug. 22) -- Avoid any speculative involvements, especially those that require you have to dip into your savings in order to participate. Chances are what starts out wrong will end up wrong. VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22) -This might not be one of your better days for decision-making, but what could make it even worse is that the persons to whom you go for counsel could be even more inept than you.
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