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THE BANG
RULE
…The Ultimate Seduction Guild For Nigerian
Guys

By Charles Nneji
©2013 – 2017 all rights reserved

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LETTER FROM CHARLES NNEJI

Dear friend;

In this world there are two kinds of guys – the doers and
the ones who don’t have the nerve to do anything.

Buying this book shows me that you fall amongst the first
group of guys – the doers. If you desire to learn how to
effortlessly make girls interested in you then this the right
book for you.

Like you I used to be very terrible with girls, they played

me, rejected me, called me mugu. All through my stay In
the university I never had a girlfriend….not a single one.

But one thing about me is that I am like you, when i don’t

like a part of me I do everything possible to improve or
change that part I don’t like. So I started buying books and
listening to tapes on the subject of making girls take me
more seriously.

I came across a lot of trash, I bought a lot of books that just

didn’t work out – for years I fumbled in the dark trying to
really understand how the mind of women work and how
to manipulate their minds.

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But one thing about those books I bought back then was
that it was written by white people. All the tapes I bought
and listened to were done by white people – and I noticed
that the strategy they taught just didn’t work on African
girls.

Sure enough some of them worked. When I started

practsing the art of approaching girls and getting them to
fall in love with me some of those strategies failed me,
some helped, some I developed by myself and all these trial
and error took years.

Every single thing I have learnt within those years is what I

have packaged in this book so you will not have to make the
same mistakes I made or go through the pain and
embarasement I went through before learning these things
that really work.

See this book as some sort of maunal; the basics. While

writing it I have resisted the urge to write something huge.
Initally this book had been over 200 pages but I slashed it
down and here you have a straight to the point maunal. I
have taken out the bones in the book and have left you just
the meat.

Go through it once and you will be better than most guys

who have not come across this book; but still, go through it
again whenever you have a question on how to approach a
particular girl you like or how to advance to another level
with a particular girl you are seeing – let it me some kind of
guild to taking decisions when it comes to girls.

By buying this book your life is about to change drastically,

trust me. When you master the contents of this book you
will effortlessly make girls fall in love with you in an
instant; no matter how pretty they are or how classy. And
here is the easy part; you will able to do this without even

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spending a dime on them – even if you are not good with

girls this very moment, by just reading you wont be the
same as when you started…I am sure about this because I
have seen a lot of guys this book had improved – guys that
I am very sure you are better than.

However, let this book compliment your life but don’t let it
define you. read it, practise it and find a way to make it part
of your personality. What this book teaches is not a change
of who you are, what it teaches is strategies that you can
add to your existing personality to make yourself more
attractive. So don’t change who you are after reading it.

Congrats once again; your decision to get this book would

be the best decision you ever made in your dating life.

Read on and see what I mean.

Yours Faithfully

Charles Nneji.

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CHAPTER ONE

IT BEGINS

In the past, when humans used to live in caves they were

usually involved in just two basic activities – one was sex
and the other was fighting.

They had nothing else to worry about so back then the guys
that got the sex and the girl were the guys who were able to
fight for it, guys with physical strenght. Lets call these type
of guys – the “fight lords”. Way back then just the fight
lords got the girl. People who understood the martial
rules..

Civilization has come and luckily we don’t need to

physically fight over girls again (though some stupid guys
still do). To get girls in this age you don’t need to know
martial rules or the law of fighting, what you need to know
is a different rule that governs creating immense attraction
for you in girls..

That different kind of law you need to understand is called

THE BANG RULE and that law is what this book is about.

THE BANG RULE

View the bang rule as some kind of key to a woman’s two

most cherished properties – her heart and her pants. The
strategies in this book are the tried and tested secrets to
getting a woman to take interest in you like she was
charmed. The bang rule is similar to martial arts – at first
you get beaten but when you master it you would walk up

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to any girl and have her begging you to take her into your
life

In this book I will be showing you secrets to getting into a

woman’s head, screwing it well and making her trip real
bad for you.

But still, it’s not just enough to read this book and know
these step by step secrets I will be reaveling – you also have
to go out and practise them. That is the only way you are
going to be good at this.

Like I told you earlier these secrets/ law that I will show
you are like martial arts and you don’t learn how to fight
just by reading a book. Although reading a book is a step;
it’s function is only to make things super easy for you when
you start practising. You don’t learn how to play football
just by reading, you have to go out and play even though a
football book can help you know the rules of how to play
better football.

One thing this book will do for you is to show you the
secrets of what works and what doesn’t and that means you
will have an edge over other guys. While they are making

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all the wrong moves with their girlfriends this book will
show you the exact strategy of stealing those girls away
from them right under their nose.

But like I said; you need to practise.

HOW LONG IT TAKES TO MASTER THE BANG

RULE

From past experience advising people on the issue of

becoming players I have noticed a particular partern.
Although I have seen guys who become instant players 20
minutes after reading this book I have also noticed
something.

To become a master at using and applying the BANG RULE

in real life you have to go out and practise it for four days
every week, four hours each day and approach three girls
per hour and talking to each of these girls for twenty
minutes…this will make you master the secrets faster.

Now don’t feel scared about that; by the end of the book
you will see the fear you feel now vanish.

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But still, if you do not want to follow this tight routine and
schedule because you are busy you can still practise the
strategies at your own pace whenever you want.

Alright?

Now lets begin…

THE MINDSET OF GIRLS

I am going to start off this whole stuff by giving you a run

down about my take on how girls think, it doesn’t matter
what you have watched in movies, what your friends have
told you works with girl - heck it doesn’t even matter what
girl themselves tell you works with them. There is always
the exact same triggers that can cause any girl to melt
before a man

True enough every girl can’t be the same but the fact still
remains that even though every woman is not the same
they still respond to the same basic set of rules and
stimulus when it comes to attraction – and the fact is this,
if you know the buttons to press in a woman’s head you will
make her do anything you want.

Before I became good with girls I used to be a total failure

with them, all through my stay in the university I never had
a single girlfriend – girls just didn’t want to date me, the
ones I summoned up courage to approach played me real

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bad, cheated on me or laughed at me (sometimes to my

face)

Most times when guys get this kind of treatment from

girls, just like I did back then, they tend to conclude that
girl are complicated.

But here is the fact; GIRL ARE NOT COMPLICATED,

THEY ARE JUST DIFFERENT.

Look at it this way, lets assume you don’t speak french –

you only speak english and then maybe your own mother
tongue. One day you are walked into an exam hall and
asked to write a letter to a friend in french.

What would be your reaction?

Of course you would label the exam as hard and

complicated. Now lets assume you are asked to write the
same letter in English – what happens? The exam becomes
easy.

Why?

Because you know how the english word works but you
don’t know how french works – but they were the same
exam, both of the exam required you to write a letter to a
friend so one cant have been harder than the other.

The only difference is that THE LANGUAGE WAS

DIFFERENT. Because the language french was different
from the english language you are familiar with you tend to
conclude that the french exam was complicated.

When it comes to girl and guys we are wired differently

upstairs – our brains don’t work the same way.

Ever wondered why most girl don’t watch football

matches?, have you ever wondered why most girl love

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romance novels while guys hate it, have you ever wondered
why most girl love romance movies while most guys don’t?

The difference between guys and girl didn’t just stop in

how our body is structured, it extends to how we think – it
extends to how we fall in love, how we are wired upstairs to
feel attraction.

I had this friend in university who had really long penis, it

was his pride and he loved bragging about it. One day he
went to see one of his female classmates he was interested
in and as arrogant as his “impressive” penis had made him,
he pulled down his shorts in front of the girl so she would
marvel at the sheer size of what he had inside his boxers.

Yeah, you guessed right…she screamed him out of her

room.

Now lets assume that it had happened the other way round.
Imagine you were the guy and the girl had walked into your
room then pull down her bra and her pants and then waves
her boobs at you – would you scream and ask her to leave
your room?

I will leave you to answer that.

Sure, you might get suspicious of her because she is

throwing herself at you, but still, you will have a certain
degree of interest in what you are seeing.

Doesn’t that tell you something?

Also a girl would not sleep with two friends because she
would be scared the guys will find out and label her a
whore. But what happens when a guy bangs two friends.
He will feel like a boss, right?

Now what happens when a girl bangs two brothers – she

feels like a whore, right?

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What if you are banging two sisters? You feel like a boss,
right?

INSIDE OUR HEADS WE ARE DIFFERENT FROM

GIRLS.

SHIFT YOUR THINKING

When I first realised what worked with girls it just struck

me that the reason I had been getting it all wrong was
because I was viewing the whole thing from my angle
rather than from the angle of a girl. In rome act like a
roman. To get girls you have to think like them – that is
just the plain simple straight-forward formular.

HOW A WOMAN THINKS

When you get to understand girls you will find out that
they are about the easiest set of people to master and
control. The fact is this, girls want to be controled. They
want to hand over power to you and allow you take over
them, but when you hand over power to them they hate you
for it.

A woman might act all tough to you and still be used like a
rag by another guy. A woman thinks emotionally while a
man thinks logically. Way back in school it was easier to
make my mum buy me stuffs than my dad. I would ask
both of them for money to get clothes for going back to
school at the beginning of a semester and my dad would be
like: “what happened to all your clothes”.

My mother, on the other hand, will still give me money

because she felt I had to look good amongst friends in
school or I will tend to feel bad.

When you understand this fundamental rule then you will

really start seeing results with girl – guys think in logic,
women think in emotions.
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To get a girl to fall in love with you you have to know how
to touch her emotional buttons and that is exactly what you
are going to learn in this book – how to touch any girl’s
emotional button and make her attracted to you like crazy.

HOW GIRLS VIEW SEX

Sex to a lot of girls is an emotional bonding thing while to

us guys it can be just physical. That is, when a woman has
sex with you she bonds with you on an emotional level.
However, although girls love sex as much as we guys do
they don’t give in to sex easily – most times they don’t give
in to sex at all (that is, if you don’t know about the BANG
RULE and how to apply it on them).

Why?

Because to girls sex is more of an investment than it is to

guys. When a woman has sex with you she faces two major
risks.

1. She faces the risk of been seen or called a slut (due to social
conditioning)
2. She faces the risk of getting pregnant (while we guys leave
them at it)

We don’t face either of these problems so we can get

attracted to a lot of girls and still feel good about

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themselves. Girls, on the other hand, can’t trip for every

guy they meet. The enviroment has made them so – they
view sex as both a large investment (because they risk been
called sluts) and they also see sex as a dangerous affair
(due to the issue of pregnancy).

How does this affect you and weather you get girls or not?

Simple - It makes girl more picky when it comes to guys

they allow into their life; if they will allow you in then they
have to see you as a special kind of guy who is different
from other guys. The reason why girls don’t go out
accepting every guy that walks up to them is because of
these two major factors I listed up there.

It is not because their hormones is less strong than ours, it

is because those two factors hold them back – they are
wired to make sure that the guy that comes into their life is
really worth it. They are not complicated; you just need to
learn the Bang rule to crack their codes.

Now, lets first start from the basics before the more
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IMPORTANT BULLET POINTS FROM CHAPTER

ONE

 The only way to master “THE BANG RULE” is to really

practice them, don’t just read and drop this book.

 You can improve beyond your wildest imaginations with

women just by reading this book but you have to strive to
not just be good but to become a Bang rule master.

 Although no two girls are exactly alike they still fall for the
basic tricks of creating attraction. They might be different
in character but when it comes to creating attraction they
fall from the same triggers.

 Girls are not complicated; they just speak a different

emotional language from guys and the bang rule decodes
that language.

 Girls avoid getting too intimate with guys because it

exposes them to two risks – the risk of been seen as a slut
and the risk of getting pregnant. A guy can have sex with
lots of girls but girls are wired to avoid this and even when
they sleep around they are wired to hide it while guys are
wired to brag about it.

 Due to the risks girls associates with getting intimate with a

guy they tend to be selective with a guy they let into their
life, this is why they don’t easily fall for the same thing that
will make a guy fall.

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 The risks associated with getting intimate with a guy has

made girls mount a defense on their emotional wall, to
make the fall you need to learn how to break those defenses
without her knowing.

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CHAPTER TWO

THE BASICS

WHAT DOES GIRLS WANT?

To master the BANG RULE you must first understand

what girls want and to understand what girls want you
have to see them as some form of cats.

HOW GIRL ARE LIKE CATS

Cats love going behind closed doors, when you lock up a

cat in a room with one door it automatically wants to go
into the next room behind the closed door, then when you
let it into the closed door it automatically wants to go back
into the room it has come from.

A woman might want an alpha male but when she gets one
she starts working towards taming and controlling him.
When she finally controls and tames him she is satisfied

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but with time she starts hating the guy because he is now
under her control.

This is the exact same reason while girls say they want a
caring romantic guy but when this type of guy comes along
they do not find him as fascinating as he was in their
imagination and so they reject him.

Now what does this mean? It means that girls do not think
logically, they are governed by emotions and emotions are
never stable. Through some real life experiences the bang
rule was developed to manipulate these unstable emotions
in such a way that it is beneficial to us guys.

But before we go into the rules proper let’s quickly take a

look at what motivates a woman’s behavior and how we can
take advantage of them.

THE MOTIVATIONS

These are usually the factors that can influence a

woman’s selection process when it comes to guys.

- LOOKS AND HEIGHT

Girls are usually attracted to tall handsome guys, as a

matter of fact ask any girl the qualities she wants in a man
and she might probably name these two. But still, If you
are short and ugly it still doesn’t matter – I have seen short
and ugly guys who use the BANG RULE to get massively
gorgeous girls

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- BEING HEALTHY AND IN SHAPE

It is quite possible not to have six packs and rippling

muscles and still make girls trip for you but still, girls are
generally attracted to guys who are in good shape because
they mostly look good and also because they give out some
form of energy that is appealing to girls.

- HYGIENE AND GROOMING.

Every woman loves a neat man. If she is going to kiss you

or make love to you then you just have to be neat. Nobody
would want to be intimate with a bag of manure

- FASHION SENSE

Girls are usually fashion conscious freaks, they notice

when a guy doesn’t have a good fashion sense and these
lowers a guy’s value in a girl’s eyes. If you don’t get
compliments often for your dress sense then you need to
fix your dressing.

- BEING COMFORTABLE.

Forget about looking or acting confident and focus more on

been and acting comfortable. Sure, when you are confident
you appear comfortable but still, when you try to act
confident you tend to become uncomfortable. It is pretty
easier to force yourself to become comfortable than to
become confident. Relax and take up space in a
comfortable way, lean back and enjoy yourself.

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- SMILING AND HAVING A SENSE OF HUMOR.

Don’t always keep your face screwed like you are fighting
with the world. Have a sense of humor. Smile, joke, don’t
take yourself too seriously. Happiness is contagious and
you need to be fun to be around.

- DON’T BE NEEDY AND DON’T BE AFFECTED

Girls hate desperate guys who go after them bumber to

fender. You need to be laid back, don’t go after a woman
like your life depends on it. You want to give a woman the
impression that you are in control, that you can go out and
replace her easily – girl are attracted by this.
Don’t try to impress people, when a woman senses this in
you it will put her off – trying to impress people makes you
look like someone of lesser value.

SOME MORE LITTLE TIPS ABOUT GIRL

To lay the foundation of what you are going to learn in

this book there is need for you to understand the following
basic stuffs.

WHY IT SEEMS GIRL ARE “FISH BRAINS”

Human beings are motivated by emotions, emotions

influence what we choose to do and what we choose not do,
for both guys and girl, but for girls emotions are taken
much more seriously. When a woman wants to explain why
she did something (like cheating on you for instance) she
will often use emotions as the legitimate reason for doing
it.

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NEVER TRY TO CONVINCE A WOMAN…

We guys think logically – girl don’t, they think with their

emotions, therefore, never argue with them or try to
convince them into liking you. what a woman thinks she
likes is not usually what she likes. She might say she wants
a very caring man but shower her with love and care and
she will dump you.

FOCUS ON MANIPULATING HER EMOTIONS

Like I said before – one; girls think with emotions

instead of logic. Two; trying to convince a woman is useless
because she just doesn’t get logic, she will rather base her
actions on emotions. What this means is that once she feels
right about you she will do anything you want.

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But however, girls know how vulnerable they can be in an

emotional state so what they do to avoid this is to become
unresponsive to a guy who they feel is either below them or
who doesn’t match their taste. To get into a woman’s head
you must learn to influence her on an emotional level and
make her drop the silly fantasy she wants in a man.

It is important to give a woman some kind of emotions,

making her feel jealousy or frustration is far better than if
she doesn’t feel anything with you at all.

However; the trick lies in giving her a wide range of

emotions instead of just making her feel good. That is,
instead of just being fun and loving to her – make her feel
curiousity, anger, connection, fear of loosing you,
happiness, sadnesss and so on.

The more she is stimulated with different emotions all

from you the more possible it is for you to bend her to your
will. I will explain more about this in the coming chapters.

NEVER KISS AND TELL

All girls’ lives they have always been afraid of been

labelled as cheap and this affects their behaviour. Like I
told you previously, this is the major reason aside from
getting pregnant why it is difficult for a girl to get into the
bed with a man easily – it is not because they don’t enjoy
sex as much as guys do, it is because of this.

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Therefore, as you practise the bang rule you will become

very successful with girls and take them to bed easily BUT
never brag about your sexcapades, if it gets to the girl you
had contacts with that would be the end and also, if other
girls get to hear you brag about your sexual relations with
other girls it raises her defence and she assumes that
having sex with you or having any form of intimacy with
you will always be exposed by you – when that happens
you are never going to get off her friendzone.

So, for example, when you get a woman’s phone number

never be seen by her or her friends walk up to your friends
and take a high five for collecting her number – it will spoil
things for you real bad.

ANTI-LOOSE-KNOT (ALK)

I can not overemphasize this enough; a girl has this great

fear of been seen as loose. It affects her behaviour, it
controls every single behaviour she makes when it comes to
getting her attracted to you or moving in to kiss her. Not
only that she doesn’t want to be seen as loose, she also
doesn’t want to be feel like she is loose – this is important,
even if a gil likes you and somewhere along the line she
feels she is giving in easily it will make her pull back.

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The contents of this book is aimed at giving you secrets to

use in making her to loosen her ALK (Anti-Loose-knot)

When you practise the bang rule often enough time will
come when you can move from just meeting her to getting
physical with her without triggering her ALK (Anti-Loose-
knot)

LIMITED LIABILITY

When you are trying to get a woman to get physical with

you or fall in love with you she will never make her own
moves, she wants to beileve within herself that she wasn’t
the one who choose her actions. She wants to push the
liability unto you.

What this means is that when you tell a girl….”come

over to my house let’s have sex”, this will trigger her ALK
(Anti loose knot) and she will always say no or bring up
some excuse not to come. But when you say to her, “come
over to my house let me show you my new laptop”….she
sees a reason to show up and “mistakenly” have sex with
you. She wants to beileve she wasn’t the one who made the
decision, she wants to beileve it was fate – that that was

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how it was meant to be and not that it was planned. Once a

girl gets the hint that you are PLANNING to have sex with
her or planing to make her fall in love with you she will
automatically start “shutting down” her system.

LEAD THE WAY EVERY TIME

With girls you have to be leading the way all the time,
you have to be taking the whole interaction to where you
want it to go because she would never lead the way. She
wants limited liability, remember?

So you need to be the one making things to happen. For

instance, when meeting a woman for the first time it is
important that you sound interesting and bring up
interesting topics for you two to talk about. If you don’t
raise interesting topics she will bring up boring ones and
then blame it on you, in her mind, and accuse you of been
uninteresting while she is the uninteresting person.

And if she feels other guys are more interesting than you
then she wouldn’t waste time with you.

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HER LITMUS TESTS

A woman, above all, wants to feel secure and protected.

She wants to have a man who will make her feel safe and
secure, this is why it seems they love men who have money.
But she would never go about asking you directly if you
would make her feel safe and secure – she will just test you
and based on how you pass this test will determine the
future you two have together.

I will show you in later chapters how to remain cool and

pass her tests.

NEVER APPEASE HER

When I pointed out that girl test guys I don’t mean you
should go all out and try to impress her or appease her
when thoese tests come up. See girl as little babies, they
want to know where the boundaries starts – they would
keep pushing at you till they feel some form of resistance
then that is when they will feel secure with you.

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Let her and she will walk over you and when she does walk
over you she will loose attraction she feels for you.

Just because she says she wants you to act the way she
wants doesn’t mean she will like you for it; girl don’t
usually know what they want.

MAKE HER INVEST

Been attractive and knowing how to use the Bang rule is

not enough, the fact is this – if another guy who knows how
to apply these same techniques comes along you might
loose the girl you are working on.

So whats the solution?

Simple - Make her invest in you

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Here is how it works; the girl you are going for might
probally really like you at the onset but if she does not put
in much into the interaction then there is a probability she
will move on to the next flashy thing that shows up.

The trick is to make her invest her time, money and

attention in you. when she does that she is less likely to
walk away with the next interesting guy that shows up
because she would want a return on the investment she has
put into you.

The bang rule formular of investment is – PET ME

P – Physical investments: A girl who you kiss will

become a bit more invested in you when all you did before
was just to hug her, then when you have sex with her the
level of investment increases too. You have to work on
always increasing her level of investment all the time.

(Note; for most girl sex is the greatest investguyst of all)

E – Emotional investment: a girl who has cried for you,

really laughed hard around you has done more investment
than a girl who doesn’t do any of that.
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T – Time: the more time a girl spends with you the more
invested she will be. This is why girls rarely leave a guy they
have dated for more than 2 years and then when that guy
leaves them they become extremely bitter.

M – Money: when a girl puts in money into your life it

also increases her level of investment. This doesn’t mean
you should go about asking her money for things, it will
only make her loose respect for you, but still, at some
points you have to make her spend on you.

The strategies in this book are aimed at giving you secrets

that will make a girl more invested in you.

ON THE ATTITUDES OF SOME GIRL.

Learning the strategies in this book and been able to

practise them till they become part of you will skyrocket
your performace with girls by 80 percent.

You want to be a 100 percent perfect, right?

The problem is that that can never be possible. You have to

face the fact that although you would become so good after
reading and implementing what you read in this book but
still, sometimes you will meet girls who have already
invested in other guys. Remember what I told you earlier –
the more invested a girl has become in a guy the less likely
that she will leave him.

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These kind of girls might turn you down; just move on.

The secret to been a master of the bang rule is the ability to

not focus on results but on the process because, trust me,
starting out you are going to see a lot of sucesses but they
won’t be as half mindblowing as it would be when you
remove your mind from trying to get a particular girl and
focus on approaching the girl so you can work on your
skills.

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BULLET POINTS FROM CHAPTER 2

 Forget trying to act confident around a girl, it will only

make you rigid and been rigid puts a girl off. Focus more
on been relaxed and seeing the whole interaction with her
as fun catching.

 No matter what never show a girl how much you like her,
she is to be kept guessing. Never be desperate for her
attention. She should work to impress you and not the
other way round.

 You cannot convince or talk a girl into liking you or be

interested in you; focus more on manipulating her
emotions with the strategies in this book.

 To manipulate a woman into falling in love with you, you

don’t only have to make her feel good always with you, you
have to give her a wide range of different types of emotions
– sadness and joy; a sense of connection and a fear of
losing you, a sense of mystery and curiosity. The more
confusing you appear to her the more intense her feeling
for you will be and the more likely that you will bend her to
your will.

 Never brag about your escapades with girls in front of other

girls you are interested in, it will make her feel you will
brag about it to others when you finally get her – this can
raise her defense system against you. Also, never say bad
things about other girls in front of her, it will cause the
same effect.
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 Always keep making the decisions always when you are

with a girl you like; girls are attracted to guys who are
always in control and who leads the way.

 Never let a woman control you or allow her see that she has
power over you, she will hate you for it.

 Never argue with a girl and don’t appease her unless it is

on your own term. That is, rather than apologizing when
she is throwing tantrums at you, walk away from her
without speaking and take her on a romantic date the next
day when you feel like (You can add your own variation to
this).

 The more a girl invests in you the less likely that she will
leave you easily therefore make her invest in you from time
to time.

 Investments can take the form of; sex, her money and her
time but the greatest investment a girl can make is sex.

 When you approach a girl, focus more on practicing the

tricks you learnt from this book and remove your mind
from trying to get her – this will improve your chances of
improving and also your chances of getting her. If a girl is
nasty to you never let it get to you or you will never
improve.

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CHAPTER 3

THE BANG RULE

What you are about to learn are the basic skills for
approaching girl and getting them interested in you in split
seconds.

However, like I mentioned earlier, to be good at this you

really need to go out and practice and with time you will
get better at it.

As you practice these strategies I am about to show you it

might take time before they become part of you but still,
with time you will be able to know when to do what and
when not to do what and they will all just flow naturally to
you – to practice these stuffs are super easy, trust me.

View this guild as the same guild that teaches how to play
football, you will know how to get a woman but it is only
when you go out and practice them that you will be able to
become really good at using them. You have to focus on
your journey and not the outcome; what this means is that
as you go out and practice what I am about to teach, don’t
bother or worry about getting a girlfriend rather focus
more on developing your skills.

It’s just like playing football, at first a good striker might

not be really good at scoring the goal but as he practices
more his skill grows and he starts to notice that he now
effortlessly gives goals.

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THE BANG RULE STAGES

As you practice the bang rule you have to be very critical

and watchful of these stages; they will always appear and
the ability to be watchful of these stages and not go against
them or jump one without completing the first is very
important

1. THE SIGHTING STAGE

2. THE BOND BANG STAGE

3. THE EXPLOSION STAGE or THE BREAK UP

These three stages have one end result – to trigger a sexual

attraction in a girl. To make a girl feel comfortable enough
to want to have sex with you and because of that you can
escalate the whole interaction the way you want by making
her your girlfriend or friends with benefit.

That is; using these strategies you can just get a girl to have
sex with you if that is all you want or you may just escalate
it and use it to make her your girlfriend.

Before I show you the individual applications in each stage

I will have to first take you through the meaning of each
stage.

THE SIGHTING STAGE:

This stage focuses on making a girl attracted to you. The

number one rule in the bang rule is never to try to get a girl

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to have sex with you or to try to make her kiss you rather
the focus is to make her want to do those things because
she wants to do them real bad.

What does this means?

A girl kissing you because you spent on her or because you

are funny or because you have nice lips is not what the
bang rule does. What it does is it makes a girl want to kiss
you because she feels like kissing you and just can’t explain
why.

To really understand that lets take a look at the “Attraction

switches” in both male and female.

What happens when you see a very pretty girl with full
boobs putting on just pants and bras?

What if that same girl tries to rock you or dance on your

laps?

Now imagine that another girl who is very muscular with

small boobs and almost no buttocks tries to the same thing
to you.

It doesn’t work, right?

What this means is that in our head as guys there is a

certain specific switch that triggers sexual attraction in us
but have you ever stopped to wonder what it is that triggers
that of girl.

I mean, they seem to know that all they have to do is show

up in semi-nudes and they have our attention so what then
happens to get them interested in us on a sexual level.

Once you understand this then you can press the sexual
switches of a girl and when the sexual switches of a girl is
pressed then you can turn her into anything you want – a
girlfriend or a wife.
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Now let’s study what it is that can trigger a girl’s sexual

buttons.

The way we guys are wired upstairs is to respond to what

will make us have sex, we were made that way by nature.
We get interested or get attracted to girls with specific
types of hips, type of face, or maybe size of her breast. Girls
on the other hand are wired to respond to a different thing
and that is – IMPRESSIONS.

What does this mean?

Simple; while we are attracted by how a woman looks a

woman is attracted by what she feels we are. For instance;
you would look more attractive to a woman if she feels that
other girls are attracted to you.

That is, a guy who walks into a room in the company of a

very pretty girl will look more attractive to the girls in the
room than a guy that walks in alone. Having a lipstick stain
on your check can get a girl to take notice. The same way
you feel when you see a girl who has nice lips is the same
way most girls will feel when they see a lipstick stain on
your lip.

Also; a guy who drives a big car will look more attractive
than a guy who drives just a golf car– impression.

Does this means you have to be fake to get girls?

The answer is no. the main trick is to give her the

impression of been valuable and also demonstrating that
other girls are interested in you.

This doesn’t mean you should go around bragging about

the number of girls you have dated or the number of girls
you have slept with. It has to be more subtle than that.

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I will explain this concept later but first let’s check out the
stage two of the Bang rule

THE BONDING STAGE:

Most mistake guys who practice the bang rule make is

that they practice all the tricks of the sighting stage and
when the girl starts showing signs of sexual interest in
them they escalate into getting physical with them without
passing through one stage – The blanket stage.

What is the blanket stage?

This is the stage after making a girl attracted in you when

you have to make her feel comfortable around you. Go past
this stage into getting physical and you might destroy
everything.

Let me give you a pictorial explanation of the bonding stage

before going on to explain more.

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BONDING STAGE DIAGRAM

getting
physical
stage
blanket
stage
Interest
building
stage

To understand the above diagram you have to start from

the outside.

First; you build a girl’s interest in you, then you make her
feel comfortable with you before you escalate it to the last
two. Notice that getting physical (That is - kissing, sex,
making out) lies far inside the circle – what this means is
that it should come last when you want to get a girl and
never let her know you are following a map.

Here is the part that gets trickier…

When you want to get a girl to fall in love with you should
not jump into the blanket stage fast (stage where you two
become like friends). You have to spend as much time in
the interest building stage as possible if not you will
become friend zoned. As a matter of fact, when you handle
the interest building stage well enough she would
personally want to get you into the blanket stage herself by
wanting to get to know you better.

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However the four mistakes a lot of guys also make with the
Bang rule is

1. Trying to go straight into the physical stage first:

This might sound obvious but a lot of guys do it. When

you make a girl sense you are interested in her sexually
from the onset it will automatically raise her Anti-loose
knot and when that happens you never get into the creating
interest stage or the blanket stage. It doesn’t matter if she
liked you when she first saw you; quickly moving into this
stage will raise her defense system so very fast it will
surprise you how fast it was raised.

This doesn’t mean you should directly tell her you are not
interested in her; there is more subtle way to it.

2. Going straight into the blanket stage first:

A lot of guys make this mistake often, when you make a

girl feel too comfortable around you first before she has
become attracted to you then you will be friend zoned and
you will remain friend zoned for a very long time.

Going into this stage before creating attraction or interest

in you results in making a girl feel you are nice but not the
kind of guy she would want to date.

Also, walking up to a girl and trying to build comfort with

her before creating an attraction will not work. Never walk
up to a girl and start by introducing yourself, why would
she want to know your name when she is not even
interested in you. Fact is this; if a woman is not interested
in you then any attempt to make her feel comfortable
around you will either bore her or make her friend-zone
you.
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3. Building interest but not entering the blanket stage:

Building all the attraction is not enough, when you focus

on just building attraction and do not attempt to go into
the blanket stage then you will fail in the game. You need
to make her invest, remember? The blanket stage serves
the purpose of gradually make her invest a little bit.

4. Remaining in just the Interest building stage and the

blanket stage:

You have to keep advancing to the stage of getting

physical with her, remember when I talked about the need
to get a girl invested in you? That is why you have to
advance to the physical stage. If you remain in the first two
too long she would fly away with the next guy who knows
how to play his game right.

THE FOUR MISTAKES AT A GLANCE

• This shuts down • This activates her

the other bang friend-zoning
rule stages mode
automatically

Physical stage Blanket stage

first first

BUILDING Staying in
INTEREST blanket and
MINUS interest
BLANKET building stage
STAGE too long
• This will • will make her
enventaually move on easily
make her loose when opportunity
interest com

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DON’T BE A PLAYER…

I will like to point this out here; this book is not about
how to become a player. What a player does is to make a
woman attracted to him and then manages to escalate that
attraction to the physical stage without growing through
the blanket stage (stage of building comfort). Then after
the sex, he leaves.

To successfully implement the bang rule you must have to

KNOW the tripple laws of seducing pretty girls.

They are…

1. Make a girl believe that you are not interested in her looks
that much but more interested in her as a person
2. You must understand the importance of building comfort
with a girl before moving to the physical stage
3. You must stop yourself and the girl you are engaged in
from going too far too soon.

Let me explain the tripple laws of seducing pretty girls in

details.

Law #1..HER LOOK DOESN’T MATTER

On no condition should you tell a pretty girl that she is

pretty. She should never hear that from you and you should
never make her suspect that you think she is beautiful.
When you fail to abide with this law you will give her the
impression that you are like other guys and she wants a
special kind of guy– to successfully win this race you have
to be different.

However, when a woman starts getting the impression that

you are not interested in her looks she tries to make you
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means she is interested in you and when you start seeing

this signs that is when you have to consider moving from
the building interest stage to the blanket stage.

But still, never return a woman’s interest as soon as she

starts showing interest in you. You have to make her work
for it. If you are too easy she will lose her attraction for you.

The signs that a girl is interested in you is known as THE

GREEN LIGHT and here are some examples of green
lights.

1. She laughs at your jokes even when they are not funny.
2. She holds your hands and shows up around you often.
3. She calls you up frequently or is the first to send you chats
messages

When she starts showing green lights after you have

created an interest in her then you have to make her feel
she is gradually getting you attracted to her because of
some qualities she is developing. Note; the keyword here is
“gradually”. Don’t rush into it.

RULE #2…BUILD COMFORT FIRST BEFORE

GOING PHYSICAL.

To really get this and how long you have to wait before
going physical you have to understand that it takes a period
of three days to build comfort with a girl and as you get
better it will take even shorter periods of time.

But however, it’s only when you go out and practice that
you will you know for sure when it is time to take the whole
game to the next level.

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When you do not go through the blanket stage first before

jumping into the getting physical stage you will turn off her
attraction for you.

RULE #3…STOP YOURSELF FROM GOING TOO

FAR TOO SOON

Now here is a very important point about the blanket

stage, as you are in the comfort stage building stage it is
fine to kiss a girl but here is the rule – ALWAYS BE THE
ONE TO STOP and always stop it before it escalates then
pull back. The reason for this is, by kissing her, you avoid
getting into friend zone and by pulling back you make her
grow more comfortable with you because pulling back is
different from what most guys do.

Sex raises a woman’s ALK and it might spoil things in the

long run. Give her bits by bits and when you finally strike
she will be fine with it.

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BULLET POINTS FROM CHAPTER 3

 Focus more on the process of improving your skills

rather than on an outcome between you and a
particular girl you are using the Bang rule on.

 The focus of the bang rule is to make a girl feel

comfortable with you enough to want to kiss you or
have sex with you; when you achieve this you can
lead the whole interaction to whatever direction you
want – either to make her a girlfriend or just to keep
her as a side chick.

 Guys are attracted by what they see while girls are

attracted to what we are. That is; when it comes to
attraction with girls they don’t care about looks.

 Build interest of a girl in you before you focus on

trying to become her friend or to make her
comfortable around you; never build comfort first.
Don’t approach a girl giving off the impression that
you want to be just a friend.

 To build interest you have to be as mysterious as

possible; this can been done by giving her mixed
signals – show her you are interested in her in a
romantic way and then mix it up with showing a little
amount of disinterest.

 Never become sexually intimate with a girl without

building comfort first. You may kiss her during the

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stage of building comfort but never allow the kiss to

become too sexual; that is, don’t grab her “wares” or
smooch her during this stage. Just focus on the kiss
and always end it first

 If she is focusing on your friendship more than she is

trying to know more about you then you are not been
mysterious enough or giving enough mixed
signals…build interest first before making her see you
as a friend.

 Don’t focus too long in building interest and been

mysterious, once you notice her interest in you has
been sparked – advance to making her comfortable
around you. This can be done by hugging her more
often, holding her from time to time and planting
kisses on her forehead and places close to her lips. A
light kiss on the lip is also another strategy for
building comfort.

 Keep advancing – the ultimate is to become intimate

with her, let her feel it was not planned. This can be
achieved by not asking her for sex but by, for
instance, “unwillingly” allowing a kiss turn into
“something more serious”

 Give her the impression that you don’t care much

about her physical looks.

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 Don’t appear too eager, make her work for your

interest.

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CHAPTER 4

APPLICATION OF THE BANG RULE

Just for a quick recap before we dive into this….

The bang rule has three stages: The sighting stage, The
bond bang stage and the explosion or the break up stage.

Sighting stage involves when you first meet a girl you want
to make fall in love with you and getting her ready to bring
into the interest building stage.

Within the Bond Bang Stage are three stages; the building
interest stage, the blanket stage and the getting physical
stage.

The bang rule is like a game of chess, with time it will

come naturally but first study the moves involved; these
moves covers everything from the sighting stage to the last
part of the bond stage.

THE BANG RULE MOVES:

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The exact steps that will occur when you plan on either
taking a girl to bed or making her fall in love or making her
your girlfriend will always start from the first time you say
hi to her, this is because a girl can usually unconsciously
decide how far she is willingly to go with a guy after just ten
minutes of meeting him for the first time.

The following are the process of creating attraction. I will

represent some of them with numbers so you can easily get
it.

Numbers #1 - #3 moves involved in the SIGHTING STAGE

Numbers #4 – BLANKET STAGE

Numbers #5 – GETTING PHYSICAL STAGE.

And now, to what is involved in each of these moves. I will

take each of the categories one by one and for each of the
categories I will explain each of the three moves within it
one step at a time.

Stay with me. Alright?

SIGHTING STAGE – #1 - #3

3.reward
her
2. value
bomb

1. open

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1. THE OPEN MOVE.

There is a rule that governs this move. If you see a girl you
like for the first time you have 3 seconds to walk up to her
and start talking to her (this is called the 3 seconds rule).

On the other hand, if it is a girl you already know and you

two have interacted before, she is not to know for sure that
you like her, rather you are to take her through the Bang
rule stages without formally asking her to be your
girlfriend.

What this means is that you should never show interest by

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or by even directly telling her that you like her. Never allow
her be sure you like her – that is the picture I am trying to
create.

Don’t look at that 3 seconds rule and freak out; there are
two reasons for the 3 seconds rule – one; it doesn’t allow
you time to talk yourself out of approaching the girl. The
law states that a guy will succeed in convincing himself not
to approach a girl 3 seconds after he considers it.

The law leverages on this, to make your move you have to

do it before the resistance creeps in and also, this conveys a
sense of confidence to a girl you want to approach.

Now let’s explain the open move; first of all I will like to
point out that the bang rule works more with very beautiful
girls than it works on average ones. This is because very
pretty girls always get worshipped by guys and due to this,
attraction is only triggered when a guy who is way above
their league comes along.

This is the same reason why very beautiful girls date well
to do guys – it is not because of the money, it is a “league”
thing. These guys are above their league and that is what
they want.

The bang rule shows you how to give a woman the

impression that will make her look at you the same way she
would look at someone who is out of her league.

To do this your opening has to be right; the first time you

walk up to a girl and start talking to her you has to take her
to the BANG RULE HOOK POINT. The bang rule hook
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hook her to the point where she feels it had been awesome
talking to you.

Before we dive deeper into this I will first have to give you a
few basic tips about the open move…

#1. When you first approach a girl forget about trying to

look like an alpha male, tough guy, cool, swagger guy - it is
going to bore her. To be relaxed is far more important than
trying to look confident.

Note; this does not mean you should appear scared – just
relaxed.

#2. When you first approach a girl you have to look really
really happy; that stuff is contagious. This doesn’t mean
you should appear too eager, no – as a matter of fact
appearing too eager to meet a girl will make her see you as
someone who is below her.

The trick lies in projecting enthusiasm because you are

feeling good with yourself and not because she is standing
before you.

Now we are done with that lets continue with explaining

more about the open move.

It would be rare to see a pretty girl on her own, she will

always be surrounded by either guys or friends. The reason
why this is so is because her looks naturally attracts friends
and she also uses those same friends she has attracted to
hold other people back – this called the “BARRING” or
“THE BAR”.

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Now, when a woman puts up a bar she will be nasty to any

guy that approaches her, she will be rude and she will not
be nice to any guy who tries to approach her – she has
gotten it too much attention from guys and it has started to
bore her.

Here is the problem; trying to be persistent would never

work. When a girl has put up a bar trying to push your way
through that bar by continuing to talk to her when she is
been nasty to you will never work.

The strategy of a nice open move is to try to trick her into

lowering her bar the first time you work.

How do you do this?

By making her feel, at first, that you are not hitting on her.
That you are not even interested in her at all. This is the
reason why a pretty girl will be nice with you when you ask
her for a pen in the bank but walk up to that same girl and
try hitting on her and you will see a different person.

Now one thing about the open move strategy is that it takes
the whole stress and anxiety away from you. You are not
walking up to her to hit on her upfront, rather, you are
walking up to her to lower her bar – it’s way easier and
more effective. The trick is to penetrate her defense first
then seduce her later because by allowing you penetrate
her defense she has opened herself up for the “attack” you
will be unleashing on her emotions.

There are three weapons to consider using when making

the opening move.

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THE OPENING MOVE WEAPONS

STOP WATCH
STRATEGY

USE A
LEVEARAGE

JONSE HUMOR
SHOCK

The opening move weapon can either be used together or

separately but note; it is more powerful when used
together.

Now let’s explain these weapons in detail

LEVEARAGE WEAPON.

Like I explained to you earlier, girl are more attracted to

someone they believe is attractive to other people – a type
of leverage use is to approach a girl after she has seen you
hanging around with a girl who is prettier than her or in
some way better than her; this girl can either be just a
friend or a pretty girl you have asked to be your leverage.

The best option is to have pretty girl leverage handy

always.

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You might ask why you should go after another girl while
you already have a pretty girl as a friend. The answer is
this; there is absolute need to have a pretty girl as leverage.
She would be a powerful weapon to use in getting girl lower
their defense for you.

Two; when you are starting out in the practice of the BANG
RULE you will find that making a girl interested in you
would be easy, however, making a girl interested in you is
one thing but leveraging that interest to make her want to
kiss you is another.

As you start out practicing the bang rule take each stage
once at a time, this is where a pretty girl comes in, when
you walk up to her focus more on raising her interest in you
by been mysterious around her and keep her wondering
what you really want from her…however, do not progress
from this stage. She should be kept aside for the main time.

Then when you become good in creating interest, use the

pretty girl as a leverage to get another girl and then
practice creating interest and moving on to the blanket
stage with the next girl.

This is how to practice the Bang Rule stages – practice one

step at a time with one girl then move over to the next girl
and practice the two stages on them, then the next one –
take her through the three stages.

Another form of leverage while approaching a woman in

order to open her up for your seduction tactics is the
INDIRECT APPROACH. This involves walking up to her
with seemingly innocent intentions. The best type of this
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to walk up to a girl and ask her what she thinks about

something.

Now; be careful about this approach; One, you don’t just

walk up to a girl and ask her about her opinion on
something – that something has to be something
interesting. Two; you have to give her a reason why you are
asking her opinion on something and Three; you have to
close indirectly.

Let me explain those in detail with the following example.

Let’s assume you see this girl you want to walk up to and
you want to use the opinion approach on her; you maybe
like:

YOU: “Hey; I need your opinion on something, wouldn’t

take long. It’s something only a girl would have an answer
to and you seem like the smart type so I think I will just
have to ask you the question (1). Ready?”

*pause, she might probably say something – usually it

would be an affirmative for you to go on*

YOU: “A friend of mine just broke up with his girlfriend.

The girl cheated on him with someone who we all thought
was just a friend and my friend is starting to have bad
thoughts about girls – I need to give him advise and I want
to give him advise from a lady’s perspective (2).

*pause, she might give another affirmative or say

something else here*

YOU: “we all thought they were just friends and we used to
think that girls never pick interest in guys they had friend-
zoned, thing is – the guy she cheated with is rich. My guy

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now thinks it was because of the money, I think It wasn’t

because of the money. Maybe he was doing something
wrong. What do you think?”

Then the conversation starts from there; you can inject

questions here and there then inject a little Jonse-humor-
shock (JHS) here and there during the conversation (will
explain JHS soon).

I want you to notice some certain stuffs in this approach

above. There are two numberings within that conversation.

(1) – This is an indirect compliment; you should never give a

girl you just met a direct compliment. Also; that
compliment does not focus on a physical attribute…this
makes it more effective.

I will like to quickly throw in a thing or two about

complimenting girls – although you should never
compliment a girl always, unless if she deserves it and had
worked for it in your eye (will explain this in detail soon),
but when you have to compliment her it has to be specific –
it works better.

That is; instead of saying “you look good” you should say “I
like your blouse” – specific. Instead of saying “you are
beautiful” you can say “I like your eyes” – specific.

But still, don’t overdo it.

Now back to the conversation above:

(2) This is the reason for asking her the question, you
always have to add a reason to any opinion approach line
you develop and would want to use.

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THE CLOSING: When you two have had a great

conversation and you have opened her up then it is time to
advance to the next stage; remember at the beginning I
told you that you have to be leading the way constantly.
The next thing is the closing, this is where you have to
collect her number.

Never be direct in collecting numbers; when I say direct

this is what I mean.

Instead of saying: “Can I have your number”. Say; “I think I

like the way you think, your insight is kinda nice. Would
have loved to continue the conversation but I need to go
check out something now. Let me have your number, we
will continue this some other time. We still have lots to
discuss on this”

Note; you have to be the first to end the conversation. It

makes you in control and it gives her the feeling that you
are somehow different from other guys who just hang
around too long.

Also; the close will not work if you do not have a great
conversation with her or if you do not apply the JHS
strategy well.

Also; don’t focus on trying to have a great conversation. It’s

not about her; it is about you. Focus on having a nice time.
Like I told you before; with practices your closing will
become more perfect but for now don’t focus on the results
rather focus on working on your skills.

If she refuses to give you her number, say “alright then.

Take care of yourself” then turn and leave. Never beg. What
it means is that your skills have not be developed, find
another target and practice. When you sharpen you JHS
skills a girl can never turn you down for anything.

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JONSE-HUMOR-SHOCK (JHS) WEAPON:

This can be either used to value bomb (will explain that

later) or it can be used as an Opening weapon. However;
this strategy only works more on pretty girls than it works
on average girls but still, that doesn’t mean it doesn’t work
on average girls – it still does.

But first, before you use this strategy you first have to value
bomb a girl. What does this means; if a girl thinks you are
below her levels it wont work on her. What this means is
that a person who is considered by everybody in a street as
a clown or a nobody can not walk up to a girl and use this
strategy and it will work.

Still; everybody can use it. Even you. you don’t have to be
rich or to be seen as a big boy to use it. Just be normal and
it will work fine.

Now here is how the JHS works;

Girls get a lot of approaches from guys and they all

scramble to be the one to impress her more. The more
goodlooking she is the more guys will aproach her and try
to please her. This is what we will exploit; instead of trying
to please her the bang rule states that you have to make fun
of her.

This doesn’t mean you should insult her or say mean things
to her (although doing just that might work sometimes),
but the strategy involves opening her a little bit by
approaching her with a seemingly innocent intention and
starting up a conversation then as the conversation
continues you mock her in a playful way so as to shock her
into wondering why you are not trying to please her like
other guys do.

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When you do this you give her an impression that since you
are not trying to impress her then somehow she is below
your levels and you are exploiting that.

When she gets that impression it will automatically switch

on her switch and she will try to get you to see her like
other guys see her. When that happens then it makes her
vulnerable to falling other your manipulations.

The right way to JHS a girl is to mock her in such a way

that both of you will know that you are joking.

It doesn’t mean you should walk up to a girl, start up a

conversation and then midway through the conversation
you tell her that her weaves smells.

To do it correctly you switch it in only when her defence

has dropped a little bit, a girl who is still uptight with you
will view the JHS as an insult. If you are just meeting her
for the first time and you tell her that her weaves looks
funny it wont work.

But if you walk up to her, start up a conversation with the

indirect opening you can throw in little mockings as you
two keep talking.

The right way to do this is to tease her in a funny way.

For instance, as she is giving her opinion on something you

asked her you could chip in and say; “say the last thing you
said again”

Then when she does you can smile and say: “nice, just
wanted to check if you have nice lips. You can know
someone whose lips are ugly when they say the last word
you just said”

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What this does is to give an impression that you are

assessing her; she is not used to that – guys don’t access
her, they just walk up and say sweet things to her.

Your focus is to upset this way of thinking; you need to

give her the impression that her looks or the fact that she is
a girl would not make you view her like she is way above
you.

Note; you have to do this with humor. However, when you

tease her don’t try too hard to make her see you are joking
– just smiling is enough.

STOP WATCH WEAPON

I have already hinted about this previously but still I

want you to really get it. When you approach a girl you
have to give the impression that you won’t stay long; this
will aid you to execute the opening properly. You also have
to give her the impression that you didn’t really think about
approaching her and when the conversation starts
becoming interesting you have to end it and leave.

This makes the closing more effective and makes her more
likely to give you her number or want to meet you again.

How do you know when it is time to do what? Only practise

will tell you that.

Also, you should be able to make a woman miss you. it’s

very important. When you two start getting to know each
over crowding her would kill the attraction she feels for
you. Instead of always chatting her up every time or calling
her up every two days you have to give her some space and
do all this sparsely – for instance, calling her on Monday
should not be followed with another call the next day – give
her three days inbetween.
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Also; you have to be less available for her – don’t always be

around for her to talk with or chat with you often. Girls
have a way of keeping guys suspended and making them
beg for their attention, the trick lies in turning it around
and doing the same thing to them in order to get the same
results they get when they do it on guys.

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BULLET POINTS FROM CHAPTER 4

 A girl unconsciously decides how far she is willing to go

with a guy even minutes after meeting him; you need to
start using the bang rule on her from the onset.

 Practicing the 3 seconds rule, that is, walking up to a girl

and starting up a conversation 3 seconds after you set eyes
on her will make you overcome your fear of approaching a
girl you like. If the girl has seen you make the decision that
quick and approaching her almost instantly she will
assume you are confident.

 If you must create attraction in a girl you have had earlier

interactions with then you have to make sure she is not
really sure about your feelings for her. You are to take her
through the bang rule stages and be mysterious while at it.

 Penetrate her defense first by starting a neutral

conversation then as the conversation continues then you
can squeeze in a little JHS to make her see you as someone
who she should try to impress.

 Projecting the impression that other girls find you

attractive can make a girl find you more attractive – this
called leverage.

 Girls always put up barriers that will scare guys away from
hitting on them, to break this barrier you have to make her
bring down her defense using an “opinion approach”

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 If you must compliment a girl you just met let that

compliment not be on her physical attributes. That is, it
doesn’t work to tell a girl that she is pretty but it is cool to
tell her that her blouse looks great and then to further the
conversation you could ask her how you can get one like
that for your sister – this is a nice way to start a
conversation, it lowers her defense.

 Always be the first to end interactions at the onset when

you two met for the first time.

 Focus more on enjoying yourself than on trying to make an

interesting conversation.

 Making fun of a girl in a mild and jovial way is a great way

to bring her level down to yours and can also make her find
you more attractive.

 Don’t call her often or always try to be around her all the
time, be scarce a little bit and make her miss you.

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CHAPTER FIVE

MOVES

We have already covered the first stage of the sighting

stage; which is the open. However; within the sighting
stage (That is; moment of approach to when you take her
into the blanket stage) there are two more moves, like I
mentioned before; the value bomb and the reward system.

Let me take you through these concepts.

THE VALUE BOMB

The value bomb is by far one of the most important

concepts you should pick from this book. Before you can
apply the bang rule successfully over and over again you
must learn how to project an impression of higher value –
the art of projecting that impression is called Value
bombing.

What this means is that to successfully execute the bang

rule on a girl and make her fall in love you first have to
make her feel she has to look up to you and not the other
way round. You have to be in control; she has to see you as
above her.

To do this effectively doesn’t mean you should go out

acting annoyingly rude or acting fake, rather, you can
effectively project an impression of been above her by just
following all the instructions in the part of this book below
with the heading as “Final Words”.

Also you could also project the same impression of been in

control and out of her league by using the three weapons
enumerated above. These includes; JHS, Leverage, and the
stop watch.

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REWARD SYSTEM

The mistake I have noticed that most users of the Bang

Rule make is to start acting totally cold to a woman. That is
far from what the rules in this book advocates. Although
you have to show a degree of disinterest there is a best way
to do it – I will explain this best way by using an analogy.

When a dolphin trainer wants to train a baby dolphin to

leap he puts the dolphin in a pool, ties a fish to a rope and
throws it at the dolphin. At this point the dolphin doesn’t
jump, it just waits for the fish to drop before slowly and
sluggishly moving towards it. What the trainer does is to
pull the fish away. The trainer does it over and over again
till the dolphin becomes frustrated and doesn’t wait for the
fish to drop into the water before jumping up to catch it.

When it gets by jumping it is delighted at this and

consequently it jumps and catches the next fish that is
thrown at it – that is how it learns how to jump.

The next step is to dangle the fish on a lever and because

the dolphin has learnt to jump it keeps jumping and getting
the fish all the time.

But here is the problem; the dolphin becomes accustomed

to jumping to that height and therefore to make it jump to
a higher height than the one it is accustomed to the trainer
takes the fish higher..

And higher…

And higher…and that way the dolphin learns to jump

pretty high.

Now let’s apply this to girls. The right way to use the bang
rule is to reward her when she does something you like.
She should see that you behave in a certain favorable way

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only when she does certain things you like. She should be
made to want to impress you.

And for every of her mess up you are to punish her. This
does not mean you should beat her up, never do that.
Rather, let her see you show some negative behavior for
every of her misdeed. Note; this works more effectively in
the blanket stage. The more invested she becomes the less
you punish her; this is how people finally get married after
been at constant loggerheads with themselves. As she gets
more invested punish her less often.

BLANKET STAGE MOVES

When you have effectively applied JHS, Value Bomb and

Stop watch strategy on a girl she opens up and becomes
interested in you because you are different and also
because those strategies had made you look like somebody
she must have.

This causes her to take a serious interest in you and she

starts showing it. At this point there is serious sexual

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tension between you two as she becomes attracted to you;

this is the point where you take her into the blanket stage.

The following are the rule that governs the blanket stage…

1. Don’t take her to a restaurant for a date; rather take her

out to do something fun with you; for an errand, to your
friends place. heck, it’s even better to take her out on a
picnic (even though it seems yankee-ish).

The reason for this is that taking a girl out on a proper date
in a restaurant can raise her defense because she senses
you want a romantic relationship from her and then she
starts playing hard to get. But when you do things different
from other guys it takes her unaware when you finally
make a move to kiss her, for instance.

Also; when you take a woman to do something together

with you it is more possible to bond with her than when
you take her to a restaurant and she is waiting for when
you will ask her to be your girlfriend.

2. At this stage you are to start making boyfriend

compliments or else she might consider you as just a
friend. This is the point to start boyfriend-teasing her.

How is this done?

To avoid making her friend-zone you or thinking you are

not interested in her in a romantic way you are to start
giving her mixed green light and teasing her in a possessive
way.

For instance you could look at her tummy and say “that
tummy is too flat, what did you do to my baby”. Or you say;

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“the way you are looking at my lips don’t try kissing it o or I

will just have to fight you”

This way you are both value bombing her by telling her she
is the one who is thinking about kissing you and at the
same time making her see you as a potential romantic
partner.

3. The first day you will kiss her be the first to withdraw. To
do this effectively you have to have an anchor. An anchor is
the reason why you are withdrawing.
For instance you could kiss her for a moment, stop, smile
then tell her you guys need to continue watching the movie
you guys were watching (assuming you guys had been
watching a movie together)

This confuses her because it goes against what she always

thought guys behave like; and confusion is good when it
comes to girl. Confuse her strong enough and you will drive
her wild.

4. Make her believe you have high standard for choosing who
you kiss or have sex with; she should believe that you are
very selective. Girls enjoy sex as much as guys do but when
you give her the feeling that she is the one who should have
to choose you then you might never get chosen.

She should have the impression that you are the chooser
and not her. To convey this effectively you might jokingly
tell her that with the way she applies lipsticks that you will
never kiss her the day she comes for your lips. Or you
might tell her you are not attracted to her and that you are
thinking of friend-zoning her. This brings out the hunter in
her and makes her want to change the way you see her

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because it hurts her pride that you don’t see her the way
other guys do.

5. Never agree to her request; if she asks for something

outrightly say no or say later and then do that stuff (if you
want to) at your own time. She should be made to sense
that you only do things because you want to do it and not
because she wants it. Sometimes it is wise to abandon this
rule but only practice will show you when. There are
certain things you cannot put into writing.

PHYSICAL STAGE MOVES

Never ask a girl for sex; it never works. But still,

Remember, you are to be leading the way all the time.
However, directly asking a girl for sex will only raise her
Anti- loose-knot and make her play hard to get.

The best way to escalate to sex is through kissing and even

at this point she will resist. For instance you might kiss her
and she will draw back when you reach for her bras – at
that point pull back, kiss her some more then try again. If it
doesn’t work that day stick to never asking her directly for
sex and one day she will yield to this strategy. That is how
to be persistant with girls, never complain. Make them feel
like thier resistances do not affect you in any way.

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BULLET POINTS FROM CHAPTER 5

 The tricks in this book work more when you give a girl an
impression of higher value; she should feel lucky for having
you in her life – this can be achieved using JHS, Leverage
of a pretty girl who is your friend or stop watch strategy.

 Don’t act totally cold to a girl you like, rather, reward her
with a warm feeling whenever she does what you like and
also reprimand her when she does what you don’t like –
however, don’t overdo the reprimanding part or she will get
used to it and it will become ineffective. Only reprimand
her over things that are worth reprimanding; like if she
doesn’t show up on a date and doesn’t call to apologize

 The best dates are ones in which you two go out to do

something together. The restaurant thing should come
later on when you two become closer.

 Make boyfriend compliments and comments if you don’t

want to stay in the friend-zone; for instance, even though
you two are not dating, you could tell her that you would
break up with her if she doesn’t stop eyeing you. I know, it
sounds silly but it still works – that is the most important
thing.

 Make her believe you are selective of the girls you date; the
best way to do this is to make her feel special for been in
your life. Do this indirectly, if you say it directly the effect

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will be lost. You are the chooser and not the choosen, she
should be made to understand that.

 Do things for her at your own time.

 Directly asking a girl for sex never works, let it flow.

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FINAL WORDS

GIRL ARE MORE INTERESTED IN HOW YOU

MAKE THEM FEEL RATHER THAN MONEY OR
ANYTHING ELSE

This is the reason some girls refuse to marry a rich guy

who they don’t like and this is also a reason why those ones
who marry a rich guy because of his money ends up
cheating on him. If you do not know how to press her
emotional button she is not going to stay long. You have to
press every single button imaginable – the good, the
painful, the ugly – every single button.

For we guys when a girl doesn’t have the physical attributes

we desire in a girl there would be almost no possibility that
we will be interested in them but for girls it is different.

Although your looks might not be what she wants in her

dream guy but once you can penetrate her defense and
press the buttons with the BANG RULE she will want you
and no other person.

BE SELECTIVE AND LET HER KNOW

Girl don’t love an easy catch. Due to the fact that a lot of
guys are interested in sex, girls are able to get any guy she
wants interested in her just by showing her a little green
light.

However, when you project an image of been very

selective of the kind of girls you go out with you will ignite

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the hunter in her. You have to give her the impression that
she is not choosing you, that you are actually the one
“considering” her.

You shouldn’t approach a girl to be chosen rather you

should approach her with the mindset that she appears
interesting and you want to check out if she is interesting
as she looks but if she is not then you are kicking her out –
that is the kind of impression you should project.

This doesn’t mean you should be rude. The JHS method

can be used to project this well without coming off as been
rude; you could tell her “see, if you don’t make me laugh
hundrend times a day then I am never going to date you” –
it is a joke but it still projects the impression that you are
the one choosing her.

Knowing how to JHS you can tell a pretty fair girl, for
instance, that you are not attracted to her because she is
too fair and you like dark girls, that someone like her can’t
be your girlfriend but to stand a chance she should allow
you bath her with black ink.

However, it is not what you say that matters. It is how you

say it. Two guys can say those exact same lines above to the
same girl and get totally different results.

The trick lies in saying them in a funny way; like you are
joking but in such a way that will make her feel like you are
a little bit serious. The strategy lies in taking the strategies
and the hard to get games girls use on guys and using it on
them…stuffs like not chatting with them immediately when
you come online and they say hi. Not returning her missed
calls two days in a row, telling her you are busy to go out
with her but that you will try and make out time.

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You get the gist, right?

All their games – unleash it on her and she will pursue you.
That is how to give the impression of being selective.

DON’T TAKE HER NONSENSE.

Girls, while growing up, have come to notice that guys try
really hard not to offend them. As a result of this they can
throw a lot of trash at you because they feel you will take
them. Sometimes they even do this unconsciously without
knowing they are doing it.

Your task is to notice when she is trying to play games and

make her know you are not like other guys she messes
with. For instance; if you fix a date with her and she doesn’t
call you up before time to cancel, you have to scold her for
it. She should know that you guard your time closely and
you don’t waste it sitting around waiting for someone who
doesn’t keep appointmens.

To be able to be immune against a girl’s nonsense you have

to have multiple options. It is harder keeping to the BANG
RULE if you focus all your attention on one girl. Starting
out in learning the bang rule and practicing it, you have to
accept the fact that no girl is special – and consequently
you should be working on at least two girls and at most
three girls at the same time.

I don’t mean you should be sleeping with three of them at

once; rather, keeping more than one option will make you
not fall into the trap of getting lost and letting a girl make
you unable to keep your head straight with her. By having
options you will be able to call a girl who is messing up to
order without fear of losing her because you know that
even though you loose her you still have option B.

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When you are afraid to lose a girl it will show and when it
shows it reduces the value a girl places on you. But when
you are not afraid to lose her she will wonder why and it
will make her want to make you fear losing her so she will
try to get you to fall in love with her by investing in you.

However, the mistake guys make is to apply this principle

of calling her to order before the interest building stage.
When you first approach a girl, who you have never met in
all your life she has zero interest in you, but still, you have
to call her to order when she messes up.

But the best way to call her to order at this stage is not to
scold her; rather, you turn and walk away. A girl who is
rude is not worth your time so what you do is while she is
still talking; you turn around and walk away…not like
someone scared, you walk away like she is someone who
doesn’t fit to come into your life.

It will get her notice.

DON’T TRY TO BUY HER AFFECTION

Money does not buy love; the moment you understand

that the better for you. Interest is one thing and sure
enough, money makes some girls take notice but turning
that interest into something stronger is something else and
that’s what this book is all about.

When a girl notices that all you have in your arsenal is

how well you spend on her she will only turn you into her
personal ATM and would definitely not take you seriously.
You have to know how to press all her emotional buttons at
once and you can do that by applying the strategies in this
book.

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IMPROVE ON YOUR LOOK

Girls are human beings and like all human beings we

want to associate with people who will make us look good.
You can’t make a woman look good if your dressing sense
is zero. You have to learn how to combine clothes, you have
to invest in clothes – no matter how cheap, just be able to
combine them well to look good. There are a lot of websites
on the internet that will show you how to do just that.

PRACTISE AND WHEN YOU PRACTISE DON’T

JUDGE YOURSELF

I will keep hitting on the need to go out and practice

what you have learnt in this book and I will also keep
hitting on the need to focus more on improving rather than
on getting a particular girl.

When you start out practicing the strategies in this book

you have to view any girl you approach as a tool to help you
get better. At first you might fail here and there but never
allow those failures get to you. once you do you will lose
form.

You are to keep been positive at all time. Most times when
a girl turns a guy down it is usually not because the guy is
not good enough – she might be having a bad day, she
might be a lesbian, she might be engaged, she might be
scared of something – it is not you.

A girl has no right to make you feel bad about yourself. You
are the boss, not she. You have to really understand that.

ROLL WITH THE BEST.

To fasten up the process of been good with girls you have

to become friends with guys who are already good with
girls. When you stay around such guys you will notice that
they follow almost all the rules in this book.
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What associating with this kind of guys does to you is

that it changes the way you think and upgrades it. This is
called the law of association; when you interact with people
who are good with something the way they think rubs off
on you and you start thinking like them. When you start
thinking like them you automatically start getting the same
results they get.

FOCUS ON MAKING A GIRL WANT YOU RATHER

THAN ON CHASING HER

The mistake a lot of guys make is to think that in order to

get a girl you have to chase her. We humans are like
chickens; when you chase us we tend to run away.

Take yourself for instance; how many of the girls that

have shown you that they are madly in love with you have
you felt the same way for?

Before you start professing love for a girl you have to

make her so interested in you that she asks you how you
feel about her. To work on a girl’s mind and make her
attracted to you first is much more profitable and easier
than telling her you love her before she starts loving you. if
possible she should be the first to reveal that she loves you
before you show any signs of having any feelings for her.

BE ALOOF AND UNPREDICTABLE

When a woman feels, from the onset, that you need her
badly you are never going to get her. Although you should
show a girl that you are interested in her, you are never to
let her know how much you are interested in her until you
are sure she feels two times what you feel.

And even at that, you should still keep her wondering. To

keep a girl wondering the best way to do that is to push and
pull. What this means is that you should alternate between

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making her feel like she has you interested like crazy and
then the next moment make her feel like she is losing you.

HERE IS THE FORMULAR: Give one sign of interest, take

one step back. Give two signs of interests and take two
steps back. Keep her wondering.

Also, although I told you about calling a girl to order but

that doesn’t mean you should cling to her. Calling her to
order should be done only once in a while, when you do it
all the time you will make her get used to it and when she
does it will stop working on her and you will start to lose
her.

So what happens when you are not calling her to order –

show disinterest. If she takes a picture with another guy
and puts it on Facebook; go ahead and like the picture. If
you call her and she says she is in a guy’s house, tell her to
make sure she doesn’t say no if the guy tries to kiss her. If
she says she is breaking up because of another guy; tell her
that you hope the guy is cute.

You get the picture?

Showing disinterest will make her wonder why you are so

different from other guys, make her see you as more
confident and make her chase you and want to invest in
you because she thinks that will make you more interested.

Nice trick, isn’t it?

AVOID TO SHOW YOU WANT A RELATIONSHIP

Personally I never ask a girl to be my girlfriend; I go out

with them, make out with them, have sex with them till
they just pop the question and ask me when I am going to
ask them to be my girlfriend.

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When you want a relationship from a girl it will show in

your actions and when it shows she will likely not get
physical (kiss, sex) with you because she will believe it
would be better keeping that part sealed till when you two
start officially dating.

But however; raising a girl’s interest in you she would get

physical even without you asking her to be your girlfriend.
But when you ask her first or show her you want a
relationship from the onset there is a huge possibility that
it will shut down the physical side of the whole thing.

USE MYSTERY TO YOUR ADVANTAGE

It would be a huge mistake if a girl knows everything

about you within the first few months of knowing you. if a
girl knows a lot of things about you from the onset then it
means you have been talking too much. You are to lay back
and make sure that if anybody is talking about their life
history then it has to be her.

Instead of telling her things about yourself - show her, let

her find out about them herself. This will raise the value
she places on you.

Also; been mysterious causes girls to feel the need to know

more about you and so they start digging and trying to get
to know you more. This is a powerful way to use in
lowering girls’ defences.

Let her look back after spending a day with you and be
like: “I don’t really know much about this dude”

To achieve this you have to talk less of yourself and focus

more on her.

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NEVER TRY TO READ HER; JUST ADVANCE

The only indicator when it comes to girls is just to see if

she is friendly. If she is friendly when you meet her for the
first time, advance – collect her number. If she is receptive
and friendly when you JHS her – advance.

That’s the only indicator you need – a sign of friendliness.

You don’t have to waste time trying to read her or see if she
means anything deep by what she says.

DON’T BE NICE BUT BE A GENTLEMAN

No matter what, girls still love romantic gestures. But the

best way to approach been a gentleman is to do it on your
own terms and to give her mixed signals while at it.

Open doors for her and then joke about it; tell her you see
how happy she is because she is now turning you into a
door man. Cook for her then while she is eating the food
tell her that you are not been this nice for nothing, that
cooking for her was the only way to slip in love portion into
her food.

You get the picture?

A “nice guy” doesn’t succed in actually impressing girls

because he does all the nice things with the sole aim to
impress them and this puts girls off. While a gentleman, on
the other hand, will do things for them not because they
asked for it but because he wants.

If she asks you to take her out tell her you can’t then the
next day, surprise her. She asks you to buy something for
her – say no then have someone deliver it to them when
you feel like.

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ACT UNINTERESTED

The gravest sin in seduction is to act too interested in a

girl, no matter how special you think she is. Most guys
make this mistake, they meet a girl who is attractive and
they act excited and too interested when they talk to such
girls.

Attractive girls get that all the time but when you give
her the impression that she is to impress you and not the
other way round it turns the table around and she starts
trying to attract you.

SO NOW; WHAT IS NEXT?

First you need to start practicing what you have learnt in

this book.

You can start practicing it on social media or via chat

networks before you go out into the real world and start
meeting girls.

When you practice the bang rule on your BBM female

friends or Facebook female friends you will be amazed at
the result you will achieve and it would motivate you to go
out and start using the strategies on girls you meet
outdoors.

However; a lot of people who read this book start

practicing it on social media and sometimes it lands them a
pretty girlfriend and they stop practicing.

I think this is wrong, even as the strategies in this book

brings you success as you practice it on social media –
don’t stop practicing there. Keep improving, keep learning.

I will also want to add one more thing; this book you just
read is the beginning – we still have a long way to go.
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Although the strategies you learnt in this book will do

magic in your dating life I will still show you some
advanced stuffs, keep your eyes on my website
www.straffcode.com for info on when my advanced secrets
on how to get women attracted to you by almost not doing
anything will be out.

Now, go out there and rule your world.

Goodluck, pal.

For questions, comments or you want to share the exploits

you have achieved using the strategies in this book, feel
free to send me a message at
charlesnnejiofficial@gmail.com

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