Reflection Paper
Reflection Paper
Reflection Paper
regard- some families go so far as keeping their ethnic identities ‘pure’ by avoiding inter-
ethnic marriages. In my family, however, the ethnic identity is not as important as it is for
some people.
My father is Kashmiri and identifies himself as such because his ancestors were from
Kashmir. My mother is a Rajput and links this identity to the idea that her forefathers
were descendants of Ranjit Singh. I myself am a hybrid of Kashmiri and Rajput. This
hybrid identity does not mean as much to me as, perhaps, it meant to my great
grandparents. Part of the reason for this is that my parents have never emphasized their
respective castes in our household-the only time these groups are mentioned in my
household is if someone is referring to the ‘Kashmiri love of food’. As children, our
primary source of information and guidance is our parents; things that we learn at home
shape our opinions and perspectives. Thus, as my family never emphasized the
significance of our ethnic identities, I’ve been indifferent to them for a large part of my
life. The fact that my parents got married despite their different family identities implies
that even they, and their parents ,didn’t think of these identities as important enough to
consider keeping their ethnicities ‘pure’.
I feel that this link is missing in reference to my ethnic identity; I don’t know of the full
story of how these groups were formed and what their importance was at the time they
were formed. That is probably why my ancestors might have held this identity as
more important, because they knew of the story behind it better than I do. For this reason
I don’t feel the same sentimental link to my family identity as I do to my Pakistani
identity.