Chisenga V Chisega
Chisenga V Chisega
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IN THE HIGH COURT FOR ZAMI3IA-7 . 2016/HP/D352
HOLDEN AT LUSAKA 07
(Divorce Jurisdiction)
07 JUL 2017 iez_
BETWEEN:
DORCAS NGULUBE CHISENGA PETITIONER
AND
EMMANUEL CHISENGA RESPONDENT
JUDGMENT
This is a contested petition for divorce which was filed into Court on
pursuant to Section 9(1) (b) of the Matrimonial Causes Act No. 20 of
2007.
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After the family members failed to resolve the problems, on
13th January, 2016 at 22:10hours the Respondent took the
Petitioner to her elder sister's house and wrote on a piece of
paper that he would petition for divorce.
After delivering the baby, the Respondent told the Petitioner
that she could return to her matrimonial house on
condition that she moved naked and reported any man who
proposed love to her which led to her not returning to her
matrimonial home.
The Respondent had been threatening the Petitioner that if
he ever found her with another man he would kill her.
The Respondent was demanding back his dowry of K7,000
which he paid for marrying the Petitioner and the
Respondent had refused to divorce the Petitioner until the
said dowry was paid back.
The Petitioner on 31st October, 2016 reported the
Respondent to the Police at the Victim support Unit
regarding his threats.
The Respondent in his answer and cross petition asserted that the
Petitioner's Child did not bear the name Chisenga as that was his
name and he was not the father of the said child. He further
asserted that the Petitioner had behaved in such a way that she
could not be reasonably expected to live with him.
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He stated that he admitted to taking responsibility for the
pregnancy because it would be a big embarrassment to the parties
and both families to divorce immediately after the wedding due to
the infidelity of the Petitioner. He also denied ever asking the
Petitioner to move around naked in the house.
The Respondent denied taking gifts for the baby to the Petitioner
after her baby was born because he was hurt by her adulterous
behaviour. He however admitted to having allowed the Petitioner to
return to her matrimonial house while she was still pregnant
despite knowing that he was not the father of the child but denied
giving her conditions for her return.
He stated that the Petitioner was currently living with the father of
her child and denied the allegations that he threatened to kill the
man. He further stated that the Respondent demanded his dowry
back as he never had conjugal rights with the Petitioner as she
always refused cutting that she could have complications giving
birth since that was not his child.
The Respondent additionally prayed for an order that the K7, 000
dowry paid to the Petitioner's family be paid back to him. That there
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be property settlement including the plot which the Respondent
purchased. The Respondent also prays for K20, 000 damages for
the money wasted during the wedding because the Petitioner did
not disclose before the wedding that she was pregnant.
The matter came up for hearing on 19th June, 2017 and both
parties gave evidence before Court.
The petitioner in her evidence told the Court that the two of them
lived as man and wife after their marriage but she did not have any
children with the Respondent during the subsistence of the
marriage. She stated that she, however, had a child during the
subsistence of the marriage, namely, Tasheni Chisenga born on 1st
May, 2016.
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During cross examination the Petitioner disclosed that the father of
her child's name was Derrick Mwanza but she was using Chisenga
because the Respondent accepted responsibility of the child.
According to her while she was going for antenatal, she asked him if
she could use his name and he agreed.
She also revealed that after the marriage she told him that she was
having her menstrual cycle and later confessed that she was
pregnant. She stated that after she disclosed that the child did not
belong to the Respondent, he said he would be doing everything for
the child. She insisted that the Respondent instructed her to be
moving around naked in the house and further added that it was
not always that the Respondent was away from home. She
maintained that the Respondent threatened to kill her and her child
before the child was born. She revealed that she discovered that she
was seven weeks pregnant a week before the wedding and
everything was in place and she was scared that she would cause
damage to both the families if she disclosed. She stated that she did
not intend for the Respondent to waste money but allowed the
wedding to happen because of her love for him.
In re-examination the Petitioner stated that she had stayed in
marriage for five months and stated that they used to have sexual
relations.
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informed that she was a virgin. According to him, as a requirement
at the church where they wed, the woman had to undergo a
pregnancy test. He stated that the Petitioner submitted a child's
urine as a specimen and the results showed that she was not
pregnant.
He explained that when she was taken to his house on the wedding
night, she was said to have been on her menstrual cycle and as
such could not sleep with the Respondent. He further explained
that when they went to their matrimonial house, the Petitioner used
to sleep on in the living room to avoid contact with the Respondent.
He said she continued like this for 10days. According to the
Respondent, the Petitioner started insulting him when he insisted
she goes to the hospital. On the 10th day he found that the
Petitioner had left home with her luggage. He started searching for
her until midnight when she told him she was with her husband
who impregnated her.
He stated that after pleading with her to come and discuss the
matter and the Petitioner went to meet with him the following day.
She explained that two weeks prior to the wedding she had gone to
a bachelor's party where she met a man. She was so drunk that she
could not recall the man who impregnated her.
He stated that because he had not even finished paying for their
wedding, he decided that the two should stay together to avoid
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embarrassment. She then revealed that in fact she spent the night
at the same man's house. She told him that they could not meet
sexually due to a myth that if she slept with another man while
carrying someone else's child, she would could die during child
birth.
It was his testimony that they failed to resolve the matter and the
Petitioner subsequently ran away.
The Petitioner is said to have told her father that she did not love
the Respondent but merely wanted a wedding. She was later taken
to Emmasdale Police where she was instructed to go with the
Respondent.
The Respondent stated that during the night the Petitioner came
with two knives trying to kill him. She then left home and never
came back until January 2016 when she followed him at his new
residence. The Petitioner requested that the Respondent takes her
back where he took her from. He then booked a taxi and she was
taken to her parents. According to him the marriage had broken
down irretrievably. He asked the Court for a refund of the dowry of
K7, 000 and to be compensated for the money he spent at the
wedding.
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cycle and later found that she was pregnant. He also denied forcing
himself on her.
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the marriage. He strongly contended that the Petitioner refused to
sleep with him on account of, firstly, being on her menstrual cycle
after the wedding and subsequently due to the fear that she could
die during child birth if she had sexual intercourse with another
man while pregnant for another. This fact if proven is a ground for
nullity of this marriage because it is being asserted that the
marriage was a voidable marriage by virtue of failing to
consummate the marriage.
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the marriage has not been consummated due to the
willful refusal of the respondent to consummate it;
In the present case, the Respondent claims he did not have sexual
relation with the Petitioner while the Petitioner claims that they
used to have sex. The evidence of this issue by either party has not
been supported by any evidence other than each party's own word
and it would be difficult to assume that sexual intercourse actually
happened or it did not happen. On that account only, a decree for
nullity would fail.
Having said this, the same section 29 gives other grounds that may
lead to a marriage being voidable apart from non-consummation. It
states that:
29. A marriage which is celebrated after the
commencement of this Act, not being a marriage that is
void, shall be voidable on the grounds that-
Section 30 of the same Act gives instances where the Court will not
grant a decree for nullity. Subsections 2 and 3 of that section in
particular provide as follows:
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the grounds specified in paragraph (e) or (f) of that section
unless it is satisfied that the petitioner was at the time of
the marriage ignorant of the facts alleged.
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Having therefore considered the totality of the evidence before me, I
am satisfied that the Respondent was not aware of the Petitioner's
pregnancy when they got married.
With regard to the Respondents claim for the refund of the dowry in
the sum of K7, 000 and compensation for money spent on the
wedding in the sum of K20, 000, I must state from the onset that
the Court has no jurisdiction to grant the relief sought in relation to
the dowry refund as that is a matter under customary law which
can ably be dealt with by the local Courts.
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damages can only be awarded where there has been established
adultery and the said damages are to be paid by the person who
committed adultery with the party to the marriage. In the current
circumstances, there has been no evidence led by the Respondent
as to the adultery committed by the Petitioner nor has any person
been cited for such adultery. In view of this the relief sought cannot
be granted.
Mwila Chitabo, SC
Judge
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