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HOW TO TAKE THE

MOST DIFFICULT ACTIONS

DJP
YOU KNOW WILL IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

WITH THE

FRAMEWORK
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By: Dane Maxwell


Founder of StartFromZero.com
We weren’t
designed to be
stuck, we are If you struggle to take
consistent action, it is the
designed to serve result of one thing and one
thing alone:
one another.
That is who we are What you think of
yourself
Let’s begin. That’s it. So fear not. It’s that simple.

No matter what you desire to do... With this insight in mind, we now have a
focus and can stop wasting a lot of time.
Nothing else is more important than taking
consistent action towards that ideal. We only need to work with… what you think
of yourself. That’s it! How relieving.
Consistent action will grant an opening to
your deepest potential. By using the DJP framework, you can see
quickly what you think of yourself, how to
In the next few minutes you will discover a shift that, and how to take consistent action.
simple method to immediately free you into
taking consistent action. In this guide I will show you the process, then
give you an example of how I use it, then turn
If you struggle to take consistent action... you loose to try it out.
that is ok… you are not at fault. Because we
all struggle when we are oblivious to one
major thing.

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INTRODUCING THE 3 STEP DJP FRAMEWORK

In order to begin freeing ourselves we just


follow these three steps: AN EXAMPLE OF DJP

My difficult action? Singing.


Write down the difficult action in
1 clear and simple language. Immediately this will prompt my brain into
all kinds of stories. “No one wants to listen
Remove the judgements using one to you, you suck, you’re ugly, give up, hide in
2 simple sentence. business, that’s where you belong, etc…”

Find the patterns on where else But these voices are all the result of one
3 this shows up. thing. It looks like a bunch of things. But it’s
just one thing. Watch let me show you.

In essence, that’s DJP. Let’s remove the judgement I have from


singing being difficult.

Difficult action So I tell myself the one sentence a best friend


would tell me, “Dane, many people struggle
Remove Judgement with singing, you’re not alone.”

Find the Pattern Taking a few deep breaths around this, I can
feel a natural impulse to start to sing, but
You can do DJP on the fly in your head while then I immediately feel more judgements
driving in the car once you have the skill creep up, my throat gets tight. And I get
down. scared again.

This is truly a blessing because once you see So I remind myself...


there is actually something you can do when
things are difficult, it can bring about a lot of
hope. “Dane, many people
struggle with singing,
Let me show you how this works with my
you’re not alone.”
most difficult task, singing.

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M y body really starts to wake up. My feet I throw in another sentence to comfort
start tingling. I bend over and rub my belly. myself… reminding me, “Dane, many people
I’m starting to feel more and more liberated. struggle to kiss someone with an open heart,
That sentence has become my best friend. you are not alone.”

The best friend sentence: Now I’m starting to feel a natural impulse to
take action. From an inspired place. I want to
kiss my girlfriend, and I want to sing. From
_____________,
INSERT NAME MANY an authentic place. One that doesn’t move
against inertia.
PEOPLE STRUGGLE
And I only used DJP. Now to be fair.. I threw
WITH _______________,
INSERT ACTION
in another best friend sentence after finding
YOU ARE NOT the pattern of it being difficult to kiss my
girlfriend with an open heart.
ALONE!
But now the seed is planted.
Now it’s time to stack the freedom by
looking for patterns elsewhere. This is more than just singing. This is in
kissing my girlfriend. It seems I struggle to
Does this show up as a pattern anywhere share my heart. Wow.
else? Ah yes, in a moment of reflection I get
another answer. And you know what, it is ok because many
people struggle with sharing their heart, so I
Kissing my girlfriend with my heart open. am not alone.
This is actually extremely difficult for me to
do. To think that a difficult action could be
the doorway to great spiritual growth and
Immediately judgements creep up, I hear insight is incredibly exciting.
voices of people murmuring, “Psshhh Dane
can’t kiss his girlfriend?!”
It’s exciting for me when an
Again those voices are the result of just one action becomes difficult,
thing. They don’t have any real weight when because I now have a tool to
looked at directly. That means I can freely
liberate myself.
hear them but they no longer have a hold
over me.

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TAKING DJP TO THE NEXT LEVEL

N ow I’ve told you that if you struggle to This takes me a few deep breaths. It hit
take action it is the result of one thing and me hard. To comfort myself I throw in that
one thing alone. What you think of yourself. sentence, “Dane, many people struggle with
Now let’s take DJP to the next level and the fear of having an ugly heart, you are not
add in identity. alone.”

DJPI I allow the best friend sentence to really


land. I start to see images of people
Our difficult action was singing. criticizing their photos after they are taken,
I reminded myself many people struggle with “oh my smile is awkward,” I start seeing
that. It was very freeing to realize. people saying they look fat, being critical
Next the pattern was kissing my girlfriend of themselves, and I see in mass how many
with an open heart. people struggle with the same thing.

Now with only one isolated incident of I allow that to wash over me. It’s hard to
singing being difficult, it’s hard to find an wake up from. I feel like I’m really the only
identity in that alone. But once we see a one who feels this way. So I take some time
pattern with more difficult actions, we and really feel this. And freedom starts to
can start to infer an identity based on the open up right away.
pattern.
“Wow, maybe this
So we ask the following… identity isn’t that big
of a deal if so many
people struggle
How would you describe yourself as someone
who experiences this pattern? That’s the
identity, who you believe yourself to be. with it?”

Here was my answer.


Now I pull the jedi move.

My identity: Someone with fear of having an


I pull out my phone and
ugly heart.
set a timer for 30 seconds 30
seconds
and repeat the timer as
many times as needed.

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First, I put the three things inside a
basket: The trick is that each new
experience that comes up you
• Fear of singing put in the basket and hold.
• Fear of kissing my girlfriend with an
open heart
• Fear of having an ugly heart So if you want to run away, put that in the
basket and hold it while not running.
SINGING
HAVING AN KISSING MY I turn on the timer for 30 seconds again to
UGLY HEART GIRLFRIEND hold everything in a basket as real but not
true.

I start to feel nauseous. Want to run away


again. I offer myself compassion and say
Dane many people would want to run from
this. That really hits me hard and I start
Then I tell myself. “Dane these things are all crying. I turn the timer on for 30 seconds
very real, but they are not true to who you again.
are. Let’s hold them as real but not true in the
basket now until we are free.” I start to realize I’ve been feeling really
worthless for a really long time. I hold that
And then… I literally I hold all of this in a as real but not true and turn the timer on
basket like I would a newborn baby. Full of again for 30 seconds.
compassion, full of love.
And in 2 minutes, I now have more freedom
As real. But not true. than I ever have to take my difficult actions
of singing and kissing my girlfriend with an
I turn on the timer for 30 seconds and begin. open heart.

In just 30 seconds the following happens. I got to heal some of


my deepest wounds
My heart breaks open a little, I start to
and became more
and more free
grieve, then it becomes too much for me, I
want to run away.

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WELCOME TO
THE ACTION TAKERS COLLECTIVE

We believe in taking action not to feel But it’s not easy. You will likely need a lot of
good, but because we feel good. We believe practice training to learn how to hold things
in holding all things as real but not true. We in that basket.
believe that compassion is the next great
secret to higher achievement with a happy Would you like help?
heart.
I have wonderful news!
Remember love is real, success is not your
identity, and you are designed to serve. There is one very sound and logical skill you
can develop to hold this basket like a pro. It
Not to fail. takes time. It isn’t easy. But it is extremely
rewarding.

We have a growing community and a


Your Success Will Come training program called The Action Takers
Down To How Well You Collective.
Can Meet All Things
Unconditionally Inside The We study mindset for the purpose of feeling
Basket Until They Lose Their good while taking action.
Hold On You.
As soon as you can sit with all aspects of your
mind without moving, you will no longer
suffer, you will no longer be stuck, and you
This is warrior level training. It’s not for the will no longer be left wanting.
faint of heart. If you can hold all things in that
basket, you will be free. If you can not, you This group is all centered on developing this
won’t. one major skill.

The other side feels so good. It’s very To learn more about The Action Takers
worth it. Collective, click here.

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THE ONE PAGE SUMMARY

Describe your situation...

1 Difficult action: ___________________________________________


Write it down so you can look at it.

2 Remove judgement: _________, many people struggle with___________,


you are not alone.
Really let this sentence sink in.

3 Find the pattern elsewhere: ______________________________


____________________________________________________________
Where else does this show up?

4 Describe the identity: ____________________________________


How would you describe the person who experiences this pattern?
That’s who you believe yourself to be. But it’s only a belief.

Spend 30 seconds in the basket, holding it all...

• Place all of the things you wrote down into a mental basket.
• Set a timer for 30 seconds and hold them all as real but not true for just 30 seconds at a time.
• Hold all things that come up inside the basket during the 30 seconds.

For example...
If you want to run, hold that in the basket without running.
If it becomes too much, hold that in the basket without running.
If you start to feel more free, hold that in the basket without running.

And always hold things a real but not true.


IN CLOSING
Please make this process your own

Hold anything you want in the basket.


Skip steps if that works for you.
Jump from difficult action straight to identity.

Use the best friend sentence for everything you struggle with.

BE KIND TO YOURSELF.
BE YOUR OWN GURU.
BE YOUR OWN BEST FRIEND.

I love you all,


Dane

DJP
THE

FRAMEWORK

By: Dane Maxwell & Brian Adler


StartFromZero.com

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