Live-In Relationships: Impact On Marriage Institution: Subject - Family Law-I
Live-In Relationships: Impact On Marriage Institution: Subject - Family Law-I
Live-In Relationships: Impact On Marriage Institution: Subject - Family Law-I
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TABLE OF STATUTES
Code of Criminal Procedure, 1973.........................................................................
Civil Solidarity Pact, 1999 (France).........................................................................................
Hindu Adoptions and Maintenance Act, 1956...........................................................................
Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act, 1956...........................................................................
Hindu Marriage Act, 1955.........................................................................................................
Hindu Succession Act, 1956......................................................................................................
Indian Evidence Act, 1872...................................................................................................
Indian Succession Act, 1925......................................................................................................
Muslim Women (Protection of Rights on Divorce) Act, 1986..................................................
Matrimonial Causes Act, 1973 (UK).......................................................................................
Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005........................................
Special Marriage Act, 1954........................................................................................................
TABLE OF ABBREVATIONS
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CHAPTER I
INTRODUCTION
A live-in relationship is an arrangement where a heterosexual couple lives together,
without entering into formal relationship called marriage. It is also commonly known as
“Cohabitation.”1 It need not necessarily involve sexual relations. It is a largely informal
arrangement in most places, although some countries do offer registration of such couples.
People generally choose to enter into such relations either to test compatibility before
marriage, or if they are unable to legally marry or simply because it does not involve the
hassles of formal marriage with lengthy divorces should partners decide to call it quits. It
may also be that they see no benefit or value offered by the institution of marriage or that
their financial situation temporarily precludes it. Whatever be the reason, it is quite clear that
even in a traditional India, where the institution of marriage is “sacred”, an increasing
number of couples choose a live-in relationship, sometimes even as a permanent arrangement
over marriage. In such circumstances, various legal and social issues have arisen and
continue to do so.
Persons may find themselves in live-in relationship either ‘by choice’ or ‘by
circumstances’. Relationships ‘by choice’ are those where the partners live together. It may
exist even where one or both of the partners are already legally married to another person and
yet engage in such a relationship as a matter of preference. Relationships in this category are
wholly voluntary. There are live-in partners whose concerned are consciously choosing to
live as live-in partners. They do not want a status of formal marriage, they are happy to
continue to live in as partners. In metros like Mumbai, Delhi it is highly impossible to get
housing accommodation for bachelors and spinsters who are working in multi-national
corporations, or corporate houses. The property owners prefer to rent/lease their houses to
only married couples because they feel it will be safe for them. In such a situation young
people get in agreement with opposite sex for sake of getting accommodation. Though their
relationship is not real or fake in eyes of law and has no intimate relationship of any kind but
with passage of time they start having feelings for each other.
On the other hand, relationship ‘by circumstances’ occur where one or both partners are
under the mistaken assumption that a valid marriage exits between them or where parties
thought they had validly divorced from persons married or cannot afford to be married again
1. http://www.enotes.com/everyday-law-encyclopedia/cohabitation on (27/01/2012)
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due to economic reasons. They may occur in case where the man or woman was led to
believe that the man was unmarried, divorced or widowed and married him. If the man and
woman followed all rituals of the marriage but already had a wife or husband living at such
time from whom, he or she had not divorced as yet, this marriage will not be recognised in
law. Such a live-in relationship is thus involuntarily entered into. It is important to understand
that the courts and the lawmakers look to make laws to protect socio-economic and legal
interests of the partners, especially women caught in the circumstantial live-ins. But this often
leads to misuse of these laws by partners in relationships of choice.2
1.1 Differentiations
It is important at the outset, to differentiate live-in relationships from other similar
cohabitations.
a) A “mistress” (paramour or lover) refers to a man's long term female sexual partner and
companion, with whom he has intimate relations while married to another woman. The
relationship is semi-permanent and generally secret. The man may pay for some of the
woman's living expenses, or provide her with an allowance. However, they do not live
together, as in the case of a live-in relationship. But the area of differentiation as regards
rights is a gray area, as Courts sometimes grant a mistress similar rights to as if she were a
live-in partner.
b) A “concubine” refers to a woman who cohabits with a man, in addition to his official wife.
The practice of keeping concubines was followed by many Asian, Arab and European rulers.
Their status is lower than that of the official wife and they hence enjoy limited rights. It was
an involuntary and servile practice and is regarded as a form of ‘sexual slavery.’ In Hindu
Law, these women were known as ‘Avarudha Stris.’ 3 These are clearly different from women
in live-in relationships, who generally enter into the relationship voluntarily. Live-in
relationships also need not solely be for the purpose of sexual relations as with concubines.
c) “Cohabitants” is synonymous to live-in partners3
2 .http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2008-07-09/man-woman/27949685_1_live-in-relationship-
recommendations-live-in-partners( 16/4/2012)
3. http://www.enotes.com/everyday-law-encyclopedia/cohabitation(27/01/2012)
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Through this project the researcher aims to provide the reader with a detailed socio-
legal study of live-in relationships and its impact on marriage institutions and also analysed
the law relating to matrimonial and proprietary rights of live-in partners besides the duties
and obligation of live in partners. The researcher has also compared the status of live-in
relationship with the status of married couples and status of children born out of live in
relationship as well in this project.
b) Scope and Limitations
Within the scope of this project the researcher will discuss the topic in detail with all
social and legal issues and implication, the impact of live-ins on marriage institution has been
highlighted. Due to paucity of space and relevant research material, not all case laws have
been cited, but only the important ones.
c) Chapterization
The researcher has divided the project into six main chapters. The first discuss live –
in relationship in India. The second chapter discusses the rules of other countries on live-in.
The third chapter talks about right of women in live-in relationship. The next chapter deals
with the effect of live-in in the society. The last chapter is a conclusion.
1.3 Research Methodology
The researcher has adopted the doctrinal form of research in completing this project.
As the project is primarily a socio-legal study on Live-in Relationships and it’s on marriage
institutions, the doctrinal form of research was most appropriate. Primary as well as
secondary sources of information have been used from the NALSAR Law library. The above
category of material consists of law reporters such as AIR and ILR and commentaries on the
Hindu Law and Mohammedan Law written by eminent authors and articles of some eminent
personalities with distinction. Also, secondary soft copy sources of information have been
perused from online databases such as Manupatra among others. No part of this project is
plagiarized and it is the original work of the researcher.
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CHAPTER II
LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIPS IN INDIA
The custom of men and women living together without marriage has been in practice for
millenniums. Since ancient times, the nawabs, princes and wealthy men in India not only had
several wives, but also several live-in women in their zenanas.1 It was not at all considered
‘immoral’ for men to have live-in relationships with women outside their marriage.2
Concubines (avarudh stris) were kept for the man’s entertainment and relaxation. Following
independence, as society matured, bigamy was outlawed and women became more aware of
their rights. This practice thus died out.
The last few decades has however seen the advent of a new form of “live-ins”, where
men and women cohabit together without entering into marriage. The traditional Indian
society however disapproved of such ‘living in’ arrangements, for several reasons. Firstly,
society revered the institution of marriage. An Indian woman was expected to remain a virgin
till she married, but a live-in relationship contradicted this tradition.3 Secondly, as women
tended to be financially dependent on men, the instability of such live-ins created a
subservient status for the woman. There was much social criticism and stigma attached to
such relationships, forcing them to remain largely secretive. Neither statutes nor Courts
supported such relationships. In 1988, the SC in the case of Yamunabai v. Anant Rao4 held
1. The part reserved for the women of the household. [See http://www.thefreedictionary.com/zenanas]
2.Vimla Patil, “Do Live In Relationships Really Benefit Women”, THE TRIBUNE, Chandigarh, Sunday,
September 23rd, 2003, http://www.tribuneindia.com/2003/20030921/herworld.htm#1, (febuary 26th, 2012)
3. Ibid.
4. AIR 1988 SC 644.
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that where a man married the second time, his second ‘wife’ had no claim to maintenance
under Section 125 Cr.P.C 5, even though she was unaware of his earlier marriage.6 The SC
refused to recognize that they had lived together even if their marriage was void. The man
was allowed to take advantage of this, although he had defrauded the woman by concealing
his earlier marriage. The SC would not grant any rights to the woman in such a live-in
relationship ‘of circumstance’. Even as late as 2000, in Malti v. State of Uttar Pradesh7, the
Allahabad HC held that a woman living with a man could not be equated as his wife. In this
case, the woman was a cook in the man’s house and she stayed with him and shared an
intimate relationship. The Court however refused to extend the meaning of the word “wife”
in Section125 Cr.P.C to include a live-in partner’s maintenance claims.
There are some incidents where Courts had recognized such relations though. A
Dinohamy v. WL Blahamy8 the PC held that "Where a man and a woman are proved to have
lived together as a man and wife, the law will presume, that they were living together in
consequence of a valid marriage, unless the contrary can be proven.” Again in Gokal Chand
v. Pravin Kumari9 the SC reiterated the same principle, though it cautioned that the couple
would not get legitimacy, if the evidence of them living together was rebuttable.10 However,
these judgements only served to recognize marriages which were doubted, on the basis that a
long term live-in relationship existed. They did not recognize live-in relationships as
independent of the institution of marriage.
The increasing incidents of live-in relationships, especially those which occur ‘by
circumstance’ however ensured that the need for reforms was felt. In 2003, the Malimath
Commitee report on Reforms in the Criminal Justice System, suggested amendment of the
word ‘wife’ in Section 125, Cr.P.C to include a woman who is living in with a man for a
“reasonable period.” Last year, the Maharashtra Government approved such an amendment to
the Cr.P.C, but this now awaits approval by the Central Government. The National
Commission for Women has recently made a similar recommendation, to protect the rights of
5. Cr.P.C
6 . Kusum, “Cases and Materials on Family Law”, 1st. ed. 2007, p. 161
7 .2000 Cri LJ 4170 (All).
8. (1928) 1 MLJ 388
9. AIR 1952 SC 231
10.Shoma Chaterjee, “Living in: Shades of Gray”,INDIA TOGETHER, http://www.indiatogether.org/2008/aug/
soc-livein.htm, (febuary 25,2012)
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such women. Significantly, the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005
became the first statute to give live-in partners the same recognition as married couples. The
position of Live-in Relationships is not very clear in the Indian context but the recent
landmark judgments given by the Hon’ble Supreme Court provides some assistance when we
skim through the topic of Live-In and analyze the radius of the topic in Indian legal ambit.11
The couples tied with the knots of live-in relationships are not governed by specific laws and
therefore find traces of assistance in other civil laws. The law is neither clear nor is adamant
on a particular stand, the status is dwindling. In the words of Dhingra J., “There are no legal
strings attached to this relationship nor does this relationship create any legal-bond between
the partners. People who choose to have live-in relationship cannot complain of infidelity or
immorality as live-in relationships are also known to have been between a married man and
unmarried woman or vice-versa”
Furthermore the Hon’ble Allahabad High Court stated that a live-in relationship is not illegal.
Katju J. and Mishra J. stated that, “In our opinion, a man and a woman, even without getting
married, can live together if they wish to. This may be regarded as immoral by society, but is
not illegal. There is a difference between law and morality.”
The Hon’ble Supreme Court accepted the principle that a long term of cohabitation in
a live-in relationship makes it equivalent to a valid marital relationship. The Supreme Court
also held that live-in relationships cannot be considered as an offence as there is no law
stating the same. In the well talked about case of S.Khushboo v Kanniammal,12 the Supreme
Court gave its landmark judgment and held that there was no law which prohibits Live-in
relationship or pre-marital sex. The Supreme court further stated that Live-in relationship is
permissible only in unmarried major persons of heterogeneous sex.
In another case the Supreme Court stated that if man and woman are living under the
same roof and cohabiting for a number of years, there will be a presumption under section
114 of the Evidence Act, that they live as husband and wife and the children born to them
will not be illegitimate.
Hence the High Courts and the Hon’ble Supreme Court in a number of decisions
delivered until recently have showed the positive signs of recognizing the legitimacy of the
11. http://www.lawyersclubindia.com/articles/The-Socio-Legal-Dimensions-of-Live-In-Relationships-3966.asp
(27 febuary 2012)
12. 2010 AIR SCW 2770
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live-in relationships and have also shown the inclination for a legislation to be enacted with
the objective of protecting the rights of couples in a live-in relationship.
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CHAPTER III
POSITION OF LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIPS ABROAD
With the Supreme Court declaring that the right to live together is a part of the right to
life, it is necessary to look at the legal rights and obligations for live-in couples around the
world. While heterosexual couples who are in a live-in relationship are called “co-habitant”,
same sex couples are legally defined as “civil partners”. But the law on cohabitation rights is
largely evolving and many participants are still unaware of their rights and duties to each
other.
SCOTLAND
Family Law (Scotland) Act, 2006, for the first time identified, and in the process by
default, legalised live-in relationships of over 150000 cohabiting couples in the country.
Section 25(2) of the Act states that a court of law can consider a person as a co-habitant of
another by checking on three factors; the length of the period during which they lived
together, the nature of the relationship during that period and the nature and extent of any
financial arrangements.1
FRANCE
Live-in relationships in France are governed by the Civil Solidarity Pact of ‘pacte
civil de solidarite’ or PaCS, passed by the French National Assembly in October 1999.
Cohabitation is defined as a "de facto stable and continuous relationship" between two
persons of different sexes or of the same sex living together as couple. The pact defines the
relationship as a contract, and the couples involved as “contractants". The contract binds "two
adults of different sexes or of the same sex, in order to organise their common life." For a
valid contract to exist, the contractants "may not be bound" by another pact, "by marriage,
sibling or lineage."2
UNITED KINGDOM
Live-in relationships in the United Kingdom are largely covered by the Civil
Partnership Act, 2004. Though a man and woman living together in a stable sexual
relationship are often referred to as "common law spouses", the expression is not wholly
correct in law in England and Wales. The Government feels that live-in partners owe each
other more than that to be worthy of the term. As per a 2010 note from the Home Affairs
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Section to the House of Commons, unmarried couples have no guaranteed rights to
ownership of each other's property on breakdown of relationship. If a cohabiting couple
separates, the Courts have no power to override the strict legal ownership of property and
divide it as they may do on divorce. Unmarried partners have no automatic inheritance over
their partner's assets on death. Cohabiting couples are treated as unconnected individuals for
taxation purposes.
CANADA
Living together in Canada is legally recognised as "common law marriage". In many
cases common law couples have the same rights as married couples under the federal law of
the country. A common law relationship gets legal sanctity if the couple has been living in a
conjugal relationship for at least 12 continuous months, or the couple are parents of a child by
birth or adoption, or one of the persons has custody and control of the child and the child is
wholly dependent on that person for support.
IRELAND
Though living together is legally recognised in Ireland, news reports says the public is
up in arms against a new legislation to introduce legal rights for "separated" live-in couples to
demand maintenance or share their property with their dependent partners. The scheme will
apply to both opposite sex and same sex unmarried couples who have been living together for
three years, or two years in the case of a cohabiting couple with children. The Government,
with this legislation, intends to provide legal and financial protection for the vulnerable and
financially dependent cohabitants in the event of death or the breakup of a relationship.
AUSTRALIA
The Family Law Act of Australia states that a "de facto relationship”3 can exist
between two people of different or of the same sex and that a person can be in a de-facto
relationship even if legally married to another person or in a de-facto relationship with
someone else.
UNITED STATES
Cohabitation was illegal in the United States prior in 1970, but went on to gain status
as a common law, subject to certain requirements. The American legal history was then a
witness to several consensual sex legislations, which paved the way for living together
contracts and their cousins, the "prenuptial agreements". The country later institutionalized
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cohabitation by giving cohabiters essentially the same rights and obligations as married
couples, a situation similar to Sweden and Denmark. Those living together are not recognized
as legal parents
CHAPTER IV
PROS AND CONS OF LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIPS
The Supreme Court’s controversial observation Okaying live-in relationships and pre-
marital sex has generated fierce debate across the country. The historic observation has made
to upset many orthodox groups fearing that it would destroy the sanctity of marriage. A
fragment of the society including noted social activists and prominent dignitaries have
stepped ahead and shared their precious views on this.
Social scientists have already identified grave social problems like young age
pregnancy of adolescent girls, drug abuse, violence and juvenile delinquencies and in the
wake of the controversial ruling, the erstwhile objectionable social behaviour gets legalized,
many felt. This way, the new generation will be more spoilt. They will prefer live-in
relationships to marriages arranged by their parents. There is no guarantee that the male in
such relationship will turn out to be a loyal partner in the long run or would not leave the
woman with their issues and run away without prior notice.
BJP spokesperson Shaina, expressed that, according to the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955,
there is no provision for a second wife among Hindus.4 Hence, enabling the mistress to get
the status of a legally married wife in all matters, including share in property, inheritance, and
maintenance is contrary to the Act as well as Hindu customs.”
When the Maharashtra Government approved a proposal suggesting that a woman
involved in a live-in relationship for a ‘reasonable period’, should get the status of a wife,
Shaina said that the Government on one hand has banned dance bars because they are
spoiling the social atmosphere, while on the other it is promoting illicit relationships through
such amendments. Senior BJP leader Jaywantiben Mehta also opposed the amendment. "It
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will have adverse effect on our values. The amendment will prove to be a loss for the women
instead of gain," she said.
On the other hand, the section advocating freedom of choosing live-in relationship has
hailed it as a pragmatic move. The recent observations, as they see, should be welcomed
because it lays down emphasis on individual freedom. It opens frontiers to understand the
personality traits of their partner well. Since there are no legal complications in a live-in
relationship, walking out of such a relationship would be much easier than walking out of a
marriage. Metro life that throws floodgates of challenges also supports this kind of an
arrangement. The individuals should be free to live as they think best, subject only to the
limitation that their actions and choices should not cause harm to others. It is a very radical
attitude. Some people are of the view that women should be given the liberty to choose their
life partners and should not be forced into marriages if they are not ready.
As expected, women from various walks of life have welcomed progressive moves on
live-in relationships. Jaishree Mishra, a New Delhi based author says, “India has changed. If
people think youngsters are losing their values, then I would say they are becoming more
pragmatic. In today’s times, it is better for them to know what they are getting into”.5
This is not the first time live-in relationship is in the ambit of debates and discussions. There
has been a long-standing controversy whether a relationship between a man and a woman
living together without marriage can be recognized by law. With changing social hypothesis
entering the society, in most places, it is legal for unmarried people to live together. Now
even in a country like India bounded by innumerable cultural ethics and rites, the law finds
legally nothing wrong in live-in relationships.
This, however, cannot be construed that law promotes such relationships. Law
traditionally has been biased in favour of marriage. It reserves many rights and privileges to
married persons to preserve and encourage the institution of marriage. Such stands, in
particular cases of live-in relationship, it appears that, by and large, is based on the
assumption that they are not between equals and therefore women must be protected by the
courts from the patriarchal power that defines marriage, which covers these relationships too.
5. Ibid.
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CHAPTER V
RIGHTS OF WOMEN IN A LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIP IN INDIA
The Rights of Women in such relationships do not have much condolence except
some traces of assistance offered by the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act
which covers in its ambit “relationship similar to marriage” or live-in relationships. The
definition of “domestic relationship” means a relationship between two persons who live or
have, at any point of time, lived together in a shared household, when they are related by
consanguinity, marriage, or through a relationship in the nature of marriage, adoption or are
family members living together as a joint family. Hence the words in the nature of marriage
are self explanatory and buy within its meaning the social concept of live-in.
Furthermore in the recent years the recommendations by various committees and
NGO’s have awaken the spirits of justice in the interest of women specially aggrieved by
such relationships. Apart from this the Hon’ble Supreme Court has also given landmark
judgments make its stand clear on the issue. For instance in the landmark case of D.
Veluswami v D. Patchaimmal1 it was held a woman in a live-in relationship is not entitled to
maintenance unless she fulfills certain parameters, the Supreme court had observed that
merely spending weekends together or a one night would not make it a domestic relationship.
5.1 In order to get maintenance, the essential four conditions are:2
a) The couple must hold themselves out to society as being akin to spouses.
b) They must be of legal age to marry.
c) They must be otherwise qualified to enter into a legal marriage.
d) They must be voluntarily cohabited and held themselves out to the world as being akin to
spouses for a significant period of time.
The Supreme Court observed that not all Live-in relationships will amount to a
relationship in the nature of marriage to get the benefit of the Protection of Women from
Domestic Violence Act, 2005. If a man has a ‘keep’ whom he maintains financially and uses
mainly for sexual purpose and/or as a servant it would not be a relationship in the nature of
marriage.
The National Centre for Women made recommendations to the Ministry of Women and Child
Development to include female live-in partners within the ambit of section 125 of Cr.PC in
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order to establish their rights and make them entitled to right to maintenance. The Hon’ble
Court also in the case of Abhijit Auti v. State of Maharashtra3 and others supported the
above principle and furthermore the Maharashtra Government showed a positive sign by
accepting the Malimath Committee Report and also the Law Commission Report and held
that if a live-in relationship continues for a very long time she is entitled to enjoy the rights of
a wife but it was recently ruled out that a wife under section 125 of Cr.PC is a divorced wife
and the right to maintenance should only be enjoyed by a divorced wife and not by a female
partner who merely cohabited with her male partner. Since in case of a live-in relationship
there exists no marriage and hence no concept of divorce. Therefore a female partner under
live-in relationship should not be construed as a wife under section 125 of the Cr.PC. The
decision of the Hon’ble Court is in the righteous spirit as empowering any women who
cohabited with a man would result in misuse of the legal provisions under section 125 and
would therefore be unfair on the part of the male partner as well. Definition of the word
"wife" in section 125 of the Code be amended to include a woman who was living with the
man like his wife for a reasonably long period.
The need of the present hour is not to try bringing live-in relationships under the
ambit of any existing law but to enact a new different law which would look into the matter
of live-in’s separately and would grant rights and obligations on the part of the couples
thereby reducing the cases of misuse of existing laws and also to reduce cases of atrocities
faced by the female partners under such relationships.
5.2 Rights of Child born through a Live-In Relationship
The Child born through a Live-In Relationships enjoys the same rights of succession
and inheritance as are enjoyed by a child through a married couple under the Hindu Marriage
Act. Notwithstanding that marriage is null and void under section 11, any child of such
marriage who would have been legitimate if the marriage had been valid, shall be legitimate,
whether such child is born before or after the commencement of the Marriage Laws
(Amendment) Act, 1976 (68 of 1976)*, and whether or not a decree of nullity is granted in
respect of that marriage under this Act and whether or not the marriage is held to be void
otherwise than on a petition under this Act. Thus in order to keep up the spirits of law in the
righteous direction and to subside the social evils wherein illegitimate child was denied his
rights the Hindu Marriage Act has granted legitimacy to children born through marriages
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which are not valid. Hence such definition brings within itself the ambit of live-in
relationships and children born through such relations.
While still the other laws have not guaranteed such legality to children born through
such relationships and therefore the status is dwindling for legal status of children which
results in extensive misuse of the provisions and still escape liability. Hence the legality of a
child is doubtful in other laws and has to be proved beyond reasonable doubt. Furthermore if
the live-in partners decide to separate the question of the future of the child is tossed.
Therefore the laws regarding the guardianship should be amended to include within its ambit
the guardianship of children born through such relationships.
5.3 Inheritance Rights
The Supreme Court held that a child born out of a live-in relationship is not entitled to
claim inheritance in Hindu ancestral coparcenary property (in the case of an undivided joint
Hindu family) and can only claim a share in the parents’ self-acquired property. The Bench
set aside a Madras High Court judgment, which held that children born out of live-in
relationships were entitled to a share in ancestral property as there was a presumption of
marriage in view of the long relationship.
Reiterating an earlier ruling, a Vacation Bench of Justices B.S. Chauhan and
Swatanter Kumar said,
“In view of the legal fiction contained in Section 16 of the Hindu
Marriage Act, 1955 (legitimacy of children of void and voidable
marriages), the illegitimate children, for all practical purposes,
including succession to the properties of their parents, have to be
treated as legitimate. They cannot, however, succeed to the
properties of any other relation on the basis of this rule, which in
its operation, is limited to the properties of the parents.”4
A child can only make a claim on the person's self acquired property, in case the child
is illegitimate. It can also be interpreted in a way in which a child could lay a claim on the
share of a parents’ ancestral property as they can ask for that parents’ share in such property,
as Section 16 permits a share in the parents’ property. Hence, it could be argued that the
person is not only entitled to self acquired property but also a share in the ancestral property.
4. http://barandbench.com/brief/2/762/supreme-court-says-live-in-relationships-are-fine-but-dont-expect-
ancestral-property(16/4/2012)
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The Apex Court also stated that while the marriage exists, a spouse cannot claim the
live-in relationship with some other person and seek inheritance for the children from the
property of that other person. The relationship with some other person, while the husband is
living is not ‘live-in relationship’ but ‘adultery’. It is further clarified that ‘live in
relationship’ is permissible in unmarried heterosexuals (in case, one of the said persons is
married, the man may be guilty of adultery and it would amount to an offence under Section
497 of the Indian Penal Code).
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CHAPTER VI
EFFECT IN THE SOCIETY
This fashion of live-in relation has effected all the youth of the society for various
reasons. Nothing escapes without without leaving drawbacks. No doubt such relation gives
two partners the maximum opportunity to right to liberty, right to privacy, right to life. But
the negative point has to be realised as well. Below I have list few point resulting to such
relationship.
6.1 Breaking down of marriage institution
Marriage is a social union or legal contract between people that creates kinship. It is
an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are
acknowledged in a variety of ways, depending on the culture or subculture in which it is
found. Such a union, often formalized via a wedding ceremony, may also be called
matrimony. Therefore, it would be easily mentioned that live-in relationship is but degrading
the valued of marriage which is recognised as social union unlike live-in relationship where
there is only well of two person. Marriage leads to a bonding between a man and woman and
this ensures security for children. Let us also caution the protagonists of live-in relationships
that parting of ways, for one reason or the other, will leave behind deep scars of being used
and rejected. Progenies of such relationships will also end up as misfits in society
6.2 In and out relationship
Other easy way of defining the term “live-in,” is “walk-in and walk-out” relationship
which entails no obligation on the parties. “It (live-in relationship) is a contract of living
together which is renewed every day by the parties and can be terminated by either without
the consent of the other. Thus people who choose to have a live-in relationship cannot
complain of infidelity or immorality. Therefore, we can say it nothing more than personnel
enjoyment.
6.3 Anti-Hindu and live-in relationship
The Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) has agitation over legalising live-in relationship as
anti-Hindu1. The party state that according to the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, there is no
provision for a second wife among Hindus. Hence, enabling the mistress to get the status of a
legally married wife in all matters, including share in property, inheritance, and maintenance
is contrary to the Act as well as Hindu customs
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6.4 Negative identity
Everyone has the moral liability to adhere to life-enriching norms to enable the future
generations to be proud of their birth, cultural traditions and national identity. Why should
children be made to bear the cross of the skewed behaviour of their parents? Responsible
parents will leave a valuable legacy and not vicarious liabilities to the progeny.
Even when parents normatively raise their children, many precautionary measures are
required to insulate them from the ill-effects of the unsanctioned societal deviations and the
vicious projections of modernity. India cannot afford to throw its proven and time-tested
merits of its custom to the winds.
6.5 Weakens social relationship
As such relationships are choice of two individual wish to make their own family
without the will of their parents there is always expectation of weak relation between the
parents of the spouse family. Therefore it is no doubt that there is always change of conflict
of ideas and opinion in the family as a result it will laterally lead to weaken the relation
between other member of the family. So over all it is no it has a better negative effect in the
society.
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CHAPTER VII
CONCLUSION
The decisions by the Indian Court is discerning as in some cases the Courts have
opined that the live-in relationship should have no bondage between the couples because the
sole criteria for entering into such agreements is based on the fact that there lies no obligation
to be followed by the couples whereas in some instances the Court has shown opposite views
holding that if a relationship cum cohabitation continues for a sufficiently and reasonably
long time, the couple should be construed as a married couple infusing all the rights and
liabilities as guaranteed under a marital relationship.
It also appears strange if the concept of live-in is brought within the ambit of section
125 of the Cr.PC where the husband is bound to pay maintenance and succession as the
ground of getting into live-in relationship is to escape all liabilities arising out of marital
relations. If the rights of a wife and a live-in partner become equivalent it would promote
bigamy and there would arise a conflict between the interests of the wife and the live-in
partner. Apart from lacking legal sanction the social existence of such relationships is only
confined to the metros, however, when we look at the masses that define India, there exists
no co-relation between live-in relationships and its acceptance by the Indian society. It
receives no legal assistance and at the same time the society also evicts such relationships.
The Parliament should try and enact a separate branch rather than trying to bring live-in
within the ambit of the existing laws as such futile approach would further adversely
complicate the judicial mechanism.
Suggestions
The Indian Legal system should devise new strategies in order to counter the present
existing problems of live-in.
• The live-in relationships should be presumed as permanent after a specific period of
time. Furthermore, the children born through such relationships irrespective of the
parents religion should be guaranteed the rights of inheritance, succession etc.
• The female partner’s role to prove the burden of such relationship should be relaxed.
• Persons who enter into a live-in relationship with a living spouse should be convicted
for bigamy.
• A separate legislation should only be competent enough to grant assistance to the
female partners aggrieved by such relationships.
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• At last, the sooner our society accepts live-in relationships, the better chances the
Indian Judiciary has for passing judgments which are in the righteous spirit of law and
in the interest of justice, equity and good conscience.
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