Critique Paper: The Wedding Dance'
Critique Paper: The Wedding Dance'
Critique Paper: The Wedding Dance'
Jessie A. Aquillo
AB- Philosophy III
‘The Wedding Dance’ by Amador T. Daguio is a story about a couple belonging to the
ethnic tribe in Ifugao, Philippines. First published in 1953 by Stanford University in an annual
publication of works by participants in their literary programs. The story is about a law in the
ethnic tribe, which states “A couple who wish to divorce due to infertility of either one of the
partners is allowed by the law. A husband who divorces a wife without any valid reason will have
to leave all properties to the children and the wife, this is another law.” This analysis is meant to
The story portrays the clash between the personal love and the love of tribe and culture,
and in some cases, culture triumphs. This shows how the culture prevents Awiyao and Lumnay
from their freedom to love each other for lifetime. If we dig deeper to the situation, we can see
that both Awiyao and Lumnay gave up their love not only because of what the culture dictates
but also to save each other from the judgments of the society. If we tend to connect this story to
the real life situation, we can say that people before and today are truly bound with laws that
must be followed for our own welfare but sometimes we can also see these laws which control
our own freedom, happiness and even desires. Sometimes we just wanted to speak out our
thoughts, fight for what we think is right and try to question the law but then, we just feel that
Laws are supposed to be the ones that protect all of our rights and in this case, I
observed that the law is being unjust and being unfair in putting Lumnay and Awiyao in that
kind of situation because a child is not a just a symbol of a masculinity but rather, it is something
beyond it. A child is a gift and it will be given at a right moment of time. A child is a supposed to
be product of a true love not by the culture which dictates itself. If I were in the place of
Lumnay, I would rather stand up and fight for what is right and what is mine because as a matter
of fact, I know that this certain Law which they fear so much can be questioned and can be
deconstructed. As for Awiyao, if I were in his shoes, I would not leave my wife because of a
certain law because leaving your wife behind because she can’t bear a child is something which
is much inhumane act than any other ways to break the laws. We should learn stand up for what
is right and for what we have. It is a good thing that nowadays, people are more aware of their
rights to choose someone whom they truly love, rights to choose to have a child or not, and rights
to speak our own thoughts and all we have to do is to use it in a right way.