Mo2Vate Issue 08 - June
Mo2Vate Issue 08 - June
MO2VATE
Find out
Are you practising daily
valuable
gratitude? 10 ways this
business tips
and tricks
can change your life
through
our HOW TO
articles!
The
MO2VATE
Team:
one year on! Our
Editor in Chief
shares how the
last 12 months
have been a
whirlwind!
Rita Preston
shows us some simple steps
to prioritising self-care
ISSUE 08 |
JUNE 2021
T H E W IN N I N G F OR MU LA 1
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Contents. FROM THE
EDITOR.
HOW TO! BUSINESS We’ve made it!
YES, we have reached one
4. HOW TO: Market your Small 14. A Comedy of Errors ends
Business for Free in Death year of MO2VATE Magazine
and we celebrate our
6. HOW TO: Survive in a remote 18. Failure - A Step in the anniversary in this fabulous
selling environment Process issue. When I started this
8. HOW TO: Benefit your business 22. It’s all about the words business, I had a feeling
through comedy deep in my gut that this
26. From Bronte to Blogging project would be a success,
10. HOW TO: Boss your Podcast
but I never in a million years
28. One Year in
realised just how amazing it
would turn out to be and how
fabulous a team we would
have.
20. HOW TO: Make Money While We have more exciting things
You Sleep planned for you in the next 12
months and we look forward
24. HOW TO: Use Email Marketing
Effectively to going from strength to
strength with you by our side.
38. HOW TO: Rest, Live and Grow HEALH
I’ll take this opportunity to say
30. Then, There and Now
INSPIRATION thank you to the wonderful
32. The effects of traditional MO2VATE Team, Laura
Chinese Medicine Billingham, Nicola Matthews
34. Sharing Discipline
and Danielle Robyn, all of
36. New Levels, New Devils whom have been a pleasure
to come on this journey with.
40. In Pursuit of Happiness
I also want to thank YOU,
42. The Joy of being a Photographer our readers. Without you
we couldn’t exist and I thank
44. The Power of Gratitude you for all your support,
46. Trauma is not the end! enthusiasm and loyalty over
the past 12 months.
48. Inspirational Man!
All opinions
within these
articles are the
writers own.
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HOW TO: Market
your Small Business
for Free
In the aftermath of COVID-19, the UK’s your customers have a clear journey,
economy is rising again like a phoenix from the second they land on it
from the ashes. The lockdowns and strict through to either purchasing a
restrictions have made people realise what product or completing a call to
is important in life, and for many flexibility at action (filling in a form, downloading
work and doing a job they love has become something).
a priority. Consequently there are a lot of
small businesses starting up, but the only way If you install Google Analytics, then
for them to survive is to stand out from the you will be able to see which website
crowd, and marketing is the way to do it. pages aren’t performing well and you
can make changes to see if that helps.
When it comes to starting a business there This isn’t a quick fix and does require a bit
are a lot of things that need to be done and of experimenting, but it is better than doing
sometimes there isn’t room in the budget for nothing.
expensive marketing or a big business launch.
Build your personal brand
Here are some easy marketing activities that
need to be done either before you launch or Becoming an expert in your field takes time
in the very early days. so start early on. Posting on your LinkedIn
profile and building up your network will help
Sign up to Google My Business and you do this.
free business directories
You can post about industry news and give
Google offers a free business listing that advice and tips as this will help your audience
helps you get found on Google search. It get to know you and see your expertise.
is also a great way to get reviews from
customers. Getting reviews on your product Writing articles and blogs on your website
or service will give future customers is another way of showcasing your expertise
confidence as people trust the opinions of and knowledge to your audience. It will also
others. help people find your website on search
engines.
There are a lot of other free directories you
can use such as Yell.com or Bing places. Get Marketing can be expensive for a small
your business listed on these as it will not business owner on a budget, but it doesn’t
only help people find you, but it will also help need to be that way. There are small things
your rankings on search engines. you can do that will help your business when
times are tough. During quiet times, spend
Get your website working for you some time making sure that you are making
the most of free marketing tools.
Your website is your storefront, the first
thing people see when they come across your
business. Spend some time making sure that
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Emma Dunlop-Walters
www.er-marketing.co.uk
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HOW TO: thrive in a remote
selling environment
Virtual selling is not a COVID fad, it is here to stay. Those days of
traipsing up the M6 to discuss business with a customer are long
gone. Customers’ expectations have changed, they are more open to
buying online. Research from McKinsey found as many as 80% of
B2B buyers would rather interact remotely when making purchasing
decisions. Let’s be frank about it, remote sales meetings are easier to
schedule, organise, and cheaper, a cost saving many businesses will
happily pocket at the moment.
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Suzy Hunt
futureyou-coaching.com
L
aughter is a sign of pleasure, and so it Therefore the question becomes, “ how can I
follows that if you and your contacts get noticed”, and for me the answer is Social
are seen laughing, then it is likely that Media Plus Comedy.
they are enjoying the moment. No matter if
we are talking clients, customers, or staff, I train for this with a charity, that puts me on
we all need to be happy to make the process stage with many others, doing stand up
better for all concerned. comedy. Very brave you might think, and yes,
it is a challenge. But people can watch me, I
But we are not all comedians, so how can we can publicise the event, I can post about it at
engender that feeling in our daily lives? I can regular intervals, and I can enjoy the period
only tell you how I do it, so sit back and leading up to the night. Additionally it will
enjoy this short guide to “living a happy raise money for a Charity I care about,
business life“. Cancer Research UK, and they in turn will
support me on this mission.
I am an optimist, but in viewing my world,
what I notice is the differences I see. I try to
make my business different by encouraging
individuality. I always go the “extra mile”
for my customers and clients, but unless they
notice me, or are recommended to me, they
will not see the differences and therefore not
gain the benefits.
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Along with all of these benefits I gain one kind of way. This is why it must be done
more, credibility! People perceive me as well, and why I train for it. The process is
approachable, fun, trustworthy and reliable, hard to master (if it were easy everybody
all attributes that I want to see associated would do it) but the returns are huge.
with my business. Life is not about being in Coupled with a Social Media campaign,
business just for money, it is about the impact designed to show that your ambition is
we can have on the lives of others. Comedy not just to be funny but to raise money
gives me an edge that many others do not for a much respected charity, the result is
have, and hence my comedy is popular, and win-win.
good for business.
My charity is Cancer Research UK, in
But comedy is a two edged sword, it can memory of my dad Lesley Reed and my best
harm you if not handled correctly. It is not friend, Alan Bird, who lost his battle late in
helpful if it makes you look funny in a stupid 2020.
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HOW TO:
Boss Your
Podcast
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Some tips for fledgling podcast hosts
One tip is to muffle extraneous sounds by covering the hard surface of the space around you with
curtains or a blanket. Secondly, if inviting guest speakers, always let them know the format and have a
quick run through. It keeps nerves at bay. I find scripting a basic introduction and having a couple of
icebreaking questions for guests to get conversation flowing sounds more professional.
I am now learning how to monetise my podcast channel, which is on my “to do list” for later this year.
Ellie LaCross
www.littleredtypewriter.com
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MEET OUR SPEAKERS
Anna Goodwin
Anna Goodwin Accountancy
Anna is known for her straightforward, jargon-free delivery. Interaction with the audience, coupled
with Anna’s zest for her topic, engages the audience from her opening sentence.
John Reed
TutisOnline CIC
In the general population loneliness is also a big problem and my experience of overcoming this
feeling by talking, laughing, storytelling, combined with poetry writing and reading is a major benefit.
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A comedy of errors
ends in death
D
o you know that feeling, where you demise. But because I realised the
try to do things right and whatever business was no longer serving me. It
happens, doesn’t seem to go the way had become a drain on my time, my
you planned it? money, and my own health.
And you’ll know the phrase “You win some, It reminded me of one of the critical
you learn some!” things that, as a business owner,
you need to have planned from the
Yet do you actually learn? start - your exit strategy. Because in
reality, you only have 7 ways to exit a
After 7 years, I’m cashing up the virtual till, business:
shutting the virtual windows, and locking the
virtual door for the • Your death
last time on one of my • Your expulsion
businesses. It is time to • Your ill health
say goodbye. • You lose your marbles
Not because I am dead, • You liquidate
or any living being • You keep in the family
has been brought to a • You sell
swift and premature
Martin Sharp
sharpfitforlife.com
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When I’ve spoken with business owners, they opened up. The loss is part of your education,
think about the last two, with aspirations of so make it count - after all, it is a foolish man
building something to pass on or sell later in who doesn’t learn from his mistakes.
life to reap the rewards of their hard work. You can free up capital to use elsewhere. Yes,
The thing is, it is not always going to end that if there are assets in the business, you need to
way, and you need to be thinking about the find a buyer. And assets aren’t always physical
other five ways… items like property or machinery, it could
be intellectual property, or a relationship,
You may realise a loss, but this is not always perhaps you could help other businesses by
a bad thing, if you can capitalise it before introducing them to suppliers or customers.
closing the business you can use it as part Did you systemise something that makes
of your tax allowance. As with everything things easier, cheaper, more predictable? Can
to do with your business finances, you need you help other businesses learn from your
to speak with your accountant. Make sure mistakes?
you have a fabulous relationship with them,
if your accountant doesn’t initially feel Then there is always the next adventure.
expensive, you only see them once a year, and Having realised the effect running major
they don’t suggest ways of maximising your transformations for global enterprises from
money - you are with the wrong accountant!
my micro consultancy firm was having on my
own wellbeing, I’m now concentrating my
Reflect on what you have learned, people
you’ve met since you started the business, effort on Physique and Lifestyle coaching for
the experiences that may not have opened business owners. You never know, I may find
up. The experiences that may never have a way to fix the obesity crisis.
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Elevator Pitch
to Passion Pitch
Elaine Mitchell
www.elainemitchell.co.uk
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Are you ready? I am a life coach and there are lots of us around.
The pitches were bland and uninviting.
Ready, to get back into the world of face-to-face After gaining experience in public speaking, I
networking? began to gain confidence and to create pitches
that were fun, informative, gained attention
Have you missed it? and always received positive feedback with
connections made. People would pay attention,
Those awkward moments speaking to a really listen, and make notes about what I was
saying, rather than be thinking about their pitch
How do you make that amazing pitch, that Here are my Top Five Tips to ensure your pitch
first impression that lasts for longer than the has passion and personality.
meeting? How do you ensure your pitch is more
memorable than the bacon butty and hot coffee 1 Create the outline of a few pitches. This
that is on offer? ensures you always keep it fresh, and relevant.
Even if people know you, this avoids being
The answer is easy. repetitive.
2 Respect the audience. Stand up smile and
Forget about your Elevator Pitch. Yes really, we engage, avoid reading from notes. That paper
are British, we don’t get in elevators – we get aint going to buy your services.
in a lift. We certainly don’t start a conversation 3 Slow down. It’s not a race, breathe and speak
in said elevator and we don’t blow our own clearly.
trumpet telling our life story. So why have we 4 Split your pitch into 3 sections. The Hook –
engaged for so long in the networking theory The Body – The Finale CTA
that we need an elevator pitch, when elevators 5 Never start a pitch with your name.
and speaking in them causes a discord in our Controversial I know!
psyche.
It does take time and effort. A well-constructed
Swap that elevator pitch to your passion pitch. and thought out pitch with the format honed
You love your business; you are eager to speak down can be used for 60 seconds or a 20 minute
about how you work and who you work with. spotlight.
What you have to offer and how you can help.
Do it with passion. Return to networking with passion, I dare you.
Name
Business
Who they serve
Who they want to meet.
Name (again)
Business (again)
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Failure - A Step in
the Process
“I gave virtual assistants a try once - it didn’t Finally, I realised it wasn’t the virtual assistants
work for my business.” who were dropping the ball…it was my process!
I revised it and - nothing. I tried again but things
I’ve heard that more than once, believe me, and still weren’t right. It took a few more failed
I can honestly tell the person speaking that I attempts but once I sat down and thoroughly
know exactly how they feel. When I started documented the steps it took to see the job
my first business, I was sure that hiring virtual through from start to finish, things took a
assistants (VAs) would be my ticket to success. definite turn for the better.
I couldn’t wait to get started. Like many
entrepreneurs, I was flying solo and, frankly, I decided which Key Performance Indicators
was running out of fuel. (KPIs) would work best to track progress and
performance too. The end result was that my
It was really disheartening when things went business began to grow… and it gave me the
from bad to worse initially, because I had to idea for Rocket Station, the 800+ employee
redo everything to fix mistakes. Even so, I knew virtual assistant agency I run today. None
that handing off the everyday tasks to virtual of that would have happened if I’d given up
assistants would leave me free to strategise instead of pushing through.
ways to build the business. I could envision
myself achieving success but couldn’t figure out
why, when I hired VAs with experience in the
field, they continued to fail.
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Even before COVID, virtual assistants had
proven themselves to be a valuable asset in Always look at failure as
the workplace. The pandemic emphasised
that value exponentially. Just remember that a an “okay, that didn’t work,
well-documented process is the overall secret
to success when you bring VAs onboard. It
enables them to step into the position and rock
what now?”
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HOW TO: make
money while you sleep
A very open statement, YES, but it is possible! There are three obvious ways to get online:
It’s easier than ever to start an online business. A You’ll have some tasks to do before you can start
few years ago, I needed to get my business online a business online, and here are the first few to get
as the trend was heading that way, and I believe you going:
it will continue down this path. This means that
most potential customers are shopping online Write down a list of things you are good at and
for something, whether that be physical goods or enjoy doing - your strengths and interests.
digital products or services.
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Think about services or products you could do around these interests. Are these things that a
customer could benefit from? Are they things a customer would want to buy?
Once you’ve decided on one, think about creating a simple business plan (1 or 2 pages max)
You’ll need to think about price points too, so do your due diligence, and research what others are
charging. Do you want to undercut on price and become a budget brand, or do you want to go
middle or high end?
Those are the main points to get you started. Once you’ve nailed the above, you can start thinking
about the intricate details of branding and setting up your website…
Sharon Brown
revivalsanctuary.co.uk
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It’s all about
the words.
W hen you first start out in business you The words you use within your brand are just as
are probably very aware that you need a important as your logo and other visuals, and yet
logo and some idea of colours, fonts, and they often seem to be the last thing a business
imagery. You’ll be told by designers and owner considers. The website designer may create
marketing experts that you need to create a fabulous looking site for you, but not all website
‘your business brand’ (or your personal designers are great at copy - especially the smaller
brand) and you’ll be bombarded by offers set ups that are probably where you will start as
to create your artwork, logo, images, and they are (usually) more affordable for a start-up
website. You’ll be advised to use this brand business. You may be asked to create your own
image in everything you do - from email content; if you aren’t confident in your writing
campaigns to social media, and website, skills, how comfortable will you feel to see your
and physical things like store fronts, words ‘writ large for all to see’?
letterheads, and business cards.
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The problem is, first impressions count,
so if your words don’t match the brand
image you are trying to create, your
business will come across as confused
and inauthentic - as if you don’t know
who you are or what you are doing
(when of course you do…don’t you?).
Laura Billingham
www.landgassociates.co.uk
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HOW TO: Use
Email Marketing
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Email marketing, is it something you engaging, imagine you’re writing to
should be doing in your business? The just one person, rather than hundreds
answer is a definite YES! or thousands. A good subject line is
essential - you want to entice your
Here’s why: reader to open the email, but don’t
• Nearly 90% of adults use email use click bait, this will ultimately
• Your email list is yours and, unlike frustrate your reader and you run the
followers on social media, you control risk of being flagged as spam. And, on
your list. the subject of spam, make sure you
• You can choose exactly who you’re send your emails at a frequency your
marketing to, and tailor different offers audience will be comfortable with.
and messages to different groups.
• You can assess the effectiveness of 4. Ensure you comply with local
your email marketing to an individual data protection regulations.
level – what each person opens and In a nutshell, this means making sure
acts on. people actively opt in to receiving your
emails, ensuring that it is easy for them
How do you go about making it work to unsubscribe if they no longer wish
for you? It’s not as daunting as you to receive them, and keeping their data
might think! safe.
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From the
Brontë’s to
Business
Blogging
An English Graduate’s Tale
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Since graduating last year, I have found out
one of the many things you can do with a
degree in English Literature…you can write, I
don’t mean novels - although I certainly am not
dismissing the possibility in the future - but
content writing.
surprising what
in reading,” I was told. I
didn’t exactly know what my
degree was for. I wanted a
degree purely to show my
young stepdaughter that
education was important
you can end up
and to normalise further
education for her. I already doing if you follow
your instincts not
had a job I loved, and still
do now the pandemic is
backing down a bit, but I
someone else’s!
wanted a degree to be a
good role model for her.
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MO2VATE
ONE YEAR IN!
Centre
Feature
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We finally got to meet up, one year in! March 2020 happened and along with it came the
first lockdown. I already had an online business and
It was an important day for the MO2VATE so I knew this was the right forum to be in looking
Team as we decided to celebrate our year long forward. I thought why not. I wrote out my mind map
anniversary with a lovely lunch, brainstorm and started to formulate my plan to create a profit
and all round nice afternoon just catching up sharing entity that would benefit not only the readers
face to face for the first time. but also the team, whoever that would be! From start to
implementation, it took 6 weeks to publish our very first
12 months ago, MO2VATE Magazine was born. edition, and I can’t tell you the excitement that created
It was a whirlwind of an idea, even though it for not only us, but all the new contributing article
had been fermenting in my mind since our writers who came on board.
MO2VATE Retreat the previous year, when
in September 2019, ten of us trotted off to a Since then, MO2VATE has grown exponentially over
luxury hotel for a fabulous weekend covering the past 12 months. We’ve given opportunities to
business, inspiration, health, relaxation, social over 100 business owners, allowing them to become
and recreational aspects of life, and WOW, Contributing Article Writers and spread their message
did we have a ball. We laughed, we cried, we across the world. Many of them have gone on to be
dined, we danced, we learned, and we revived interviewed on our #mo2vatemix podcast and become
ourselves. Friendships were made. Business a Published Author in our amazing book born out of
relationships were born. It was a huge success, our bonus Inspirational Women 2021 edition in March,
even more so than my initial expectations. which will be published in the next few months.
Since then, I’d been wondering HOW I could The MO2VATE Team is stronger than ever and fully
expand on this idea. How could I bring the committed to pushing this project even more in the
feelings and emotions from that amazing coming months and years. The focus, commitment
weekend back to life and to a wider audience? and input of Laura Billingham, Nicola Matthews, and
At that point I considered a magazine but Danielle Robyn alongside myself, has been outstanding.
shook it off like many ideas I have. I wrote it I consider myself extremely lucky to be working
down in my ‘MAKE IT HAPPEN’ journal, but alongside these wonderful ladies and to have such a
then forgot about it. That journal is brimming committed and supportive team. The support has been
with new and innovative projects still to be simply phenomenal, and I can speak for all of the team
launched, but the timing seemed perfect for in that we appreciate all of our supporters from the
this one. bottom of our hearts.
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Then, There,
and Now
Israel Bailey
1wishfit-ltd.business.site
I left school with few CSEs, and no milestone age, working a job that didn’t
O’levels (showing my age). I had no motivate me, and felt I had no purpose.
idea of what I wanted to do, but always This put me in the wrong mindset to
loved playing sports, despite being a commit fully to my health. In 2015
chronic asthmatic from an early age. things changed for the better, I found a
nutrition plan that was easy, and I could
In 2010 after having an unquenchable commit to wholeheartedly. During the
thirst, I decided to see the doctor who course of the following few months,
diagnosed what I suspected - type 2 I noticed the weight coming off, and
diabetes. Both my parents, and three other people were also commenting.
of my older siblings were also type
2 diabetics. I was prescribed a high I became more energetic, had a better
dosage of medication, but the phrase quality of sleep, was exercising less,
that resonated with me was, “it can be and generally had a better outlook in
controlled with diet and exercise”. life. The most important thing was, I no
longer needed any medication for type
I already exercised six days a week, 2 diabetes or to test blood sugar levels
doing gym classes and football. But (as advised by my doctor). My asthma
what was the best diet to lose weight? is so much better, and I rarely use my
Despite all my concerns about diet I inhalers at all these days.
would buy takeaways 2-3 times a week,
even though there was food in the 3 years later, and feeling so much
house. It was quick, convenient, and in more confident, I took the plunge
all honesty, I simply couldn’t resist. and completed my Personal Training
qualification, I decided this is what I
On reflection, I found myself reaching a wanted to do full time alongside my
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“My
dream is
now my
reality”
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The effects
of traditional
Chinese
Medicine
T
he natural world is a rich source of wisdom. recognising the physical environment (Feng shui,
We are part of Nature, and we need to learn and how our environment impacts on our body).
to bring balance of chi (qi, energy) in our When these pillars are balanced you will live a
bodies. healthy life free from illness and disease. The theory
of TMC health is intricately linked to the natural
Traditional Chinese Medicine (TMC) is an ancient world and the five elements: wood, fire, earth, metal
medical system that has been practiced for thousands and water, and how these elements interplay within
of years. It’s evolved and was influenced by other our bodies.
cultures, but the basics are still rooted in Taoist
philosophy. It’s important to maintain all five pillars of health
at once, because they also influence each other. For
TMC is an integrative, complementary medicine, as example, when you are exercising regularly but
it sees the human body as an interconnected system. neglecting your diet or ignoring emotional stressors,
The TMC focuses on understanding the human this will affect how well you sleep and think
body holistically and focuses on ways of preventing clearly which can lead to habits such as overeating,
disease from occurring. shopping spree, biting nails, and constantly worrying
and feeling fatigued - even if it’s not intentional!
The Five pillars of health
There are five pillars of health according to These Chinese teachings can help you to improve
traditional Chinese medicine: balance in your your health by adjusting the balance in your qi. Qi
body (emotions, mind); movement (exercise, rest, is an intrinsic energy that flows through our body,
meditation); metabolism (fresh seasonal foods that which is believed to affect everything from mental
are used as medicine, recognising the importance well-being to physical pain or weight gain. It’s
of herbs and nutritional balance, vitamins, minerals believed if there is a blockage of qi in one section
that plants/foods provide); forms of physical of the body then this could have adverse effects on
body therapy (cupping, acupuncture, tui-na) and other parts as it travels around.
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How to incorporate TCM into your daily life?
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Sharing
Discipline
As I moved to the back corner seat of the
minibus on a journey in Ghana, I looked over
and greeted the two young schoolboys at the end
of the row. The one sitting furthest away had his
shirt open. I found this strange, and I suspect
that the judgement and disapproval showed on
my face before I was able to hide it. He pulled
his shirt together and his friend nudged him
to which he responded by buttoning the shirt
quickly.
‘Do you have coins?’ he turned to me and asked. I knew how much Ghanaians loved Jamaica and
I added this whenever people asked me about my
‘I do’, I responded. heritage.
‘American?’ he asked smiling. Thanking the young man for his offer of coins the
conversation continued. I discovered his name
‘No. I’m from the UK. My parents are from was Kobina and that he worked for Airtel Tigo;
Jamaica’. knowing he could potentially fit into one of the
projects I was working on I took his number.
Kobina also told me he had spent 6 weeks with
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his cousins in London, my home town. you do. Maybe your fast will be a little longer
tomorrow’. I smiled and he smiled in return and
The school boy in the corner had watched and sat back.
listened to the conversation so I asked him his
name. Soon I arrived at my stop and disembarked
saying my bye byes to Kobina, Abdul, and his
‘Abdul?’, he said. friend. Sometimes, people are admonished when
all they need is encouragement and guidance. I
‘Are you Muslim?’ I asked. Not wishing to make am grateful that I was on that minibus, on that
any assumptions. day and time. I am glad that I was in a place
where I could speak to Abdul, who due to his
‘I am’ he smiled. curiosity about my accent, was already observing
my energy and words. Abdul was open and
I knew it was Ramadan, so I asked if he was willing to hear what I had to say. I do not take
fasting, and he told me he was. this for granted. I celebrate that he and his friend
had an encounter with a foreign stranger that
His friend nudged him, ‘But he’s broken his fast may serve them in many areas off their life.
today’.
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New Levels,
I find myself in that place
right now and it is really
foreign territory for me.
I have never felt it before.
I can see it for others and
New Devils
understand it as a concept
but never felt it as an
experience.
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In times when you hear
these questions, this noise,
this nonsense, and mind
chatter, you must know that
it is not there to encourage
you to be more you, it is
there to encourage you to be
less! And so 100 times out of
100 you must ignore it and
keep living. Keep moving,
keep leaping and taking
chances that make you feel
like you’re about to pass out
with excitement (oh, and
know that excitement can
also feel like fear and anxiety
when that saboteur voice is
talking - so ignore!)
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HOW TO:
Rest, Live and Grow
We all know we should practice self-care, but how often do we actually commit
to doing so?
Work, our families, friends, and the million and one other things in our lives, often
end up pushing us and our needs to the bottom of our list of priorities.
So, here’s some simple ideas to help you put YOU at the top of your to do list…
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Sit. Yourself down. Your being. Your mind.
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In the
pursuit of
happiness
When you focus on things that shine a
What makes you smile?
light on your life, you can experience What fills you up?
depth, inspiration, and meaning in
your world. That elusive ‘happiness’ What lights you up?
escapes so many people. Make your life
a happier one by focusing on the feeling
of happiness as the ultimate goal, and
wake up every day full of excitement A happy life does not need to be a
about the day ahead, instead of every thing we are always seeking and never
day feeling mundane - who wouldn’t finding. You can choose to be happy,
want that? by understanding what makes you
happy. When you understand there
Focus on the good in your world, no are fundamental things you can do
matter how small, to see the positives, to support this goal, you can choose
seeking out small things that make activities and make decisions to lead
you smile - without fail. Keep them in to that. Dream about how it feels to
your mind always, so you can picture wake up feeling good. Start with this
a life where you begin by feeling good: daydream. Let it all fall out of your mind
waking up with a smile on your face, and take shape in a way that moves
excited about the day ahead. If what you. You want to feel good in this life.
you want is to be happier - what makes You don’t want a life that has you
you feel happy? The alternative? Going wondering what the point was.
somewhere without knowing where
you’re headed. You need a route map,
pointing to your destination, to figure
out the steps to get there.
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To change your Life becomes
life, you need to bigger, fuller,
believe in it. If you
struggle to believe “To change your brighter and you
find yourself
in your world, no
deserve to be Happiness has
happy. If more landed!
people focused
on believing
they deserved matter how small”
happiness,
they would find
themselves achieving it much easier. There
are no hard and fast rules about who gets
to have, do, or be, anything in this world,
we all get to choose. By knowing you have
the freedom to choose, you are open to the
possibility of change.
Jacqueline Kent
www.jacquelinekent.co.uk
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W
hen I sit down and think
about what it means to be
a woman with her own
The Joy
business in 2021, I see faces. Business
people, families, my family and even
strangers.
Growing up in Johannesburg my
grandfather would come to visit and
would venture, camera in hand, to
the local game reserves in order to
see the ‘big five’. I was eight years
old, and using his pictures with
storytelling, he would share his
adventures. I can honestly say that
my love of photography started there.
His shots were so expressive and
emotive, as was the joy on his face.
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I did briefly pack away my professional ways of making the virtual network
photography after the birth of Lucie my personable. I seem to bring out the
second daughter. I wanted to concentrate strength and confidence that could only
on being a mother again. You can usually come across in person. My business
document their lives, but sometimes you has grown through recommendation,
need to step away from the lens to enjoy technology has even provided me with
what’s around you. the ability to take the perfect headshot
virtually!
Of course I couldn’t stay away for too
long. As a regular visitor to playgroups As I think of all the faces from my life
and nurseries word had spread about and career, I am drawn to one lady in
my little portrait shoots. My reputation particular. During her recent business
was preceding me, and I grew my career shoot I suggested, just for fun, that she
as a professional photographer. I’ve met leap in the air. She embraced the idea and
people from all walks of life, publishers, threw herself literally into it.
advertisers, and business leaders have told
me their stories, opening their hearts as And do you know what I see when I look
well as their boardrooms. at her picture?
4. Helps relationships
Gratitude can increase your sense of belonging in the world,
which in turn makes you feel less lonely and more connected to
everyone else.
Adam Claxton
claxtoncoaching.com
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5. Helps us sleep better
Write down or say out loud the things you are grateful for before you go to sleep. This will help to relax
the mind away from worries and stresses allowing you to focus on the good things.
6. Improves self-esteem
Being grateful can help us feel better about what we have in our lives and put a stop to unhealthy
comparisons. When you practice gratitude, you practice self-love, which is truly vital for a happy life.
7. Makes us kinder
People with a daily practice of gratitude become naturally kinder. A focus on gratitude in our own
lives opens our hearts to those in need, and gives us that positive boost and ability to extend our love
outwards.
Gratitude is a
practice, and
like all practices,
consistency and
determination are
key. Feel the power
of gratitude and
enjoy this life-
changing practice!
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Trauma -
Not the end,
but the beginning
I am on a mission to empower you, to was still abusing me, by standing by
take control of your life, and for you to him, as he hacked my laptop, he had
know that healing is possible…I can say been watching and seeing every move
this with truth, as I healed from my own I made. I had no energy left to fight and
personal trauma. took the hardest decision of my life…I
walked away, I needed peace of mind
I experienced multiple traumas, to feel safe once more and to work out
starting when my birth mother left me who I was.
in hospital. By the time I was three, I
had had one hundred different foster This lead me to study counselling, and
homes, which meant I grew up with to gain a degree in spiritual psychology
Child Attachment Disorder. Adopted where I studied ‘the shadow self’. I
by parents who were emotionally looked at how early trauma affects our
unavailable for a child who quite lives as adults, affecting our mindset,
obviously needed extra care and our physical health, and what we
attention, by my early teenage years I believe is possible. Most recently I
was suffering with suicidal tendencies. looked at my own health, and weight
I spent the next twenty years in and out issues and realised I had been storing
of mental health units, often being held extra weight to protect myself from
because I was at risk to myself. pain.
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“experience a life
where you get time
to see the beauty
all around you with
fresh eyes”
Sevda Hussein
www.facebook.com/sevda.hussein
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The 2021
Inspirational
Man Edition
Back in March this year we ran a special edition
of MO2VATE magazine to celebrate International
Women’s Day. We asked our readers, and people on
social media platforms to nominate the Inspirational
Women in their lives, and then approached those
nominees to see if they would like to contribute an
article.
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What are we looking for?
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