Ten Commandments of Self Development
Ten Commandments of Self Development
3.Attend seminars/conferences/workshops:
Many executives do so but more often than not the choice of the above
depends on factors like location and comforts than on contents. We should
study various seminar brochures and then decide on those courses which
would be of greatest relevance and value-addition to us. We not only learn
by listening to distinguished speakers but also learn by interacting with each
other.
Further, the relationships so built, go a very long way in our process of self-
development. If the company cannot sponsor us for a course which we think
would be useful, one should not hesitate to invest one’s own resources for
self-enhancement.
4.Confront Competition:
Competition gives us the unique opportunity to prove our own abilities and
skills. It is healthy to accept that there may be many others who are better
qualified or better equipped than us. This gives us the positive impetus to do
better and reach greater glories. It would be cowardly and foolish to avoid
competition or not accepting that it exists. Similarly, if the competitor is
better than us, we should strive for excellence. This also help us to perform
better.
5.Crisis Management:
Any crisis in one’s professional or personal life should be viewed as a
challenge and an opportunity to grow and develop. At the same time, being
proactive will go a long way in defusing problems before they blow up into a
major crisis. The greatest successes that many people have enjoyed are in
tackling the most difficult crisis.
To quote Joan of Arc "all battles are first won or lost in the mind".
8.Introspection/feedback:
Feedback is an excellent tool for motivation and success. It is important to
develop the maturity to accept negative feedback in the right spirit.
Furthermore, we should realise that different people might perceive us in
different ways. The ideal situation would be when our self-image coincides
with how others perceive us. It is here that introspection could help to a
great extent. Whilst praises and compliments prove the right energisers, our
own assessment too is very valuable and important.
To conclude, most successes are achieved by doing things willingly and doing
them without procrastinating. It is all these which add up to make the more
meaningful and successful.