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EVOLUTION
A NEW PARADIGM FOR PERSONAL CHANGE
- Introduction -
“When we experience our own desire for transformation,
we are feeling the universe evolving through us.”
- Barbara Marx Hubbard
“Maybe this is it, the answer, the thing that's really going to work.
Maybe this is the solution I've been looking for all these years, the
big one, the thing that finally going to get me there. Maybe, just
maybe, if I read it all the way through, and do all the exercises, and
somehow find the discipline to follow the plans it gives me - maybe if
I do it right this time, then maybe, just maybe it's going to work...”
• get the money / the car / the yacht / the house - the “there” of
stuff.
• write the book / start the business / learn the language - the
“there” of accomplishment.
• can take a year off / travel the world / eat at the best restaurants.
The “there” of lifestyle.
• lose the weight / stop smoking / start going to the gym - the
“there” of self-improvement.
You may have tried none, some or all of the above. You may have made
big changes and improved your life in a variety of ways. Or maybe not. At
times, you may have felt like you're nearly there, like you're very close,
like the pot of gold's just around the corner. And yet...
No matter how close you get, doesn't it always seems like there's a little
more you need to do? A little further to go? Just a little bit more to fix,
change or heal? Or a LOT more?
I know, because I've done it – everything on this list and more. I got
value from many of my efforts, but sooner or later, after a week or a
month or a year, I'd find myself feeling like I was back where I started,
feeling like there was something missing, something wrong, something I
couldn't quite put my finger on...
You see, as strange as it may sound, you've fallen into a trap. And it's a
trap that's so subtle, you've probably never even noticed it. Subtle,
powerful and all-pervasive.
These days, I spend most of the time living “there”, but I didn't get here
in the way you might expect.
Then, at the age of 30 I got married. A month later, her bags were
packed so I decided to stop drinking in order to save my marriage.
That was in 1996, and I haven't had a drink since. Today I live a happy,
fulfilling life that's beyond anything I dreamed was possible for me, but
how I got here is a story of struggle, frustration and heartbreak (much of
which I could have avoided if I'd known what you're going to be
discovering in this book).
Just to give you an idea, in the time-period from 1996 to 2008 I...
• Felt like I was a fraud and worried constantly that I'd be “found out”
• Moved to London
• Attended my first personal development training
• Quit my job and became a consultant
• Began a spiritual journey
• Read hundreds of personal development books
• Live a life you love - A young entrepreneur has made his dreams
of passive income and living his purpose a reality – a reality that's
translated into international travel and spending his days doing
what he wants to do at just 27 years of age. The things you're
going to be learning in this book have enabled him to shake off his
limiting beliefs and create a life he loves.
While the circumstances in these stories are great examples of the power
This deeper story relates to your EXPERIENCE of life. Again and again, my
clients and the other people I know who are learning these principles are
reporting radical changes in their experience of life...
These stories are echoed over and over again by my other clients, and by
the other people I know who are working with the principles you're going
to be discovering. The discoveries you're going to be experiencing for
yourself as you read this book have been used to transform people's lives
in incredibly diverse areas:
The amazing thing is that all of the things you've read about above have
been achieved without the things we're usually told we need...
The reason I'm writing this book is to save you the decade or more of
searching, struggling and unnecessary suffering that I went through.
Because that's the good news – you don't have to go through any of what
I've done. You can cut to the chase, and take a shortcut that gets you to
the same place in a fraction of the time. You don't have to wait. You can
start living the life you desire sooner than you think!
Q: If you're caught in a trap, what's the one thing you have to do before
you can escape?
Until you realise you've been caught in a trap, you're very unlikely to get
out of it. But once you know about the trap, and you can see how it
works, then escape is pretty straightforward. Especially if other people
have escaped from the same trap, and can show you how.
So in the first chapter, I'm going to show you the trap, how it works, and
why you've been caught in it until now. But before I do, I need to share
something very important with you – something you may never have
thought about before...
“Don't take this the wrong way, but you're not a very good
listener...”
The explanation he shared with me has turned out to be one of the most
valuable distinctions I've ever learned, and is of crucial importance if
you want to really get the most from this book.
As I reflected on it, I realised that this is how we've all been taught to
listen. It's how we've been taught to read. It's how we've been “taught”
to learn.
If you're anything like me, you were taught to read, listen and learn for
an intellectual understanding, and that's fine as far as it goes. But if you
want to awaken an unsuspected power to transform your life and the lives
of others, it's time to remember a different way to read, listen and
learn...
Just check - you may be doing this as you're reading this passage, saying
“That makes sense”, “That's nonsense” or somewhere in between.
People often sat staring at the 2D images, “trying hard” to see the 3D
image hidden within it, but nothing happened until they relaxed and
allowed the image to emerge.
Another example is poetry. When a person reads good poetry, they're not
trying to decide whether they agree with it or not – they're reading to be
impacted. When you're reading for insight, you “get a feel” for what
you're reading, seeing beyond the written word to what the author's really
trying to convey. You allow the innate knowledge to come from
deep within your consciousness and step more fully into your
awareness.
As you read this book, stay in touch with your feelings. Read when you
feel inspired to read, and pause when you feel like pausing. The value
you'll get from this book won't come from the information on the pages –
the value will come from deep inside you. So make the space for that to
happen. Any understandings you already have will still be there when you
get to the end of the book, so I invite you to put them to one side and
allow yourself to be even more deeply impacted.
The reality is that every person has wisdom. You have everything you
need to transform your life already within you. No matter what's
happened to you, or what you've been through, you can have a beautiful
life. The power to transform your life is going to come from within your
consciousness. As you continue reading this book for an insight, you may
occasionally find yourself feeling particularly calm and peaceful. Those
When you listen for agreement, the intellectual understanding you get is
like a written instruction manual. It's good as far as it goes, but it takes
effort to put it into practice. That's why people often say “I understand
that intellectually, but...”
• When you have an insight, it's perfectly tailored to you. You don't
have to figure it out or try and adjust it to your needs – it already
fits perfectly.
But those situations where you “just know” what to do, and can't explain
why... That's the polar opposite of the “I understand that intellectually,
but...” phenomenon. When someone says “I just know, but I don't
know why” what they're really saying is “I've had some realisations and
The great news is that insights start making a difference to you whether
they make sense intellectually or not!
A Sudden Insight
In the 1990s I was employed as a project manager. I wanted to leave
my job and become a contractor. My friends told me I could do it
easily, and while I understood that intellectually, I “knew” that I
couldn't do it. Then in 1998 I attended my first NLP training, a 2-day
introductory programme. During the weekend, I had an insight: I
suddenly knew that I could leave my job and become a contractor, with
all the freedom, possibilities and rewards that entailed. I quit my job
two weeks later, started working for myself and created the time and
money to attend lots of NLP training. I can trace the life I have today
back to that one insight, and can still feel the sense of freedom and
possibility it carried with it.
While the example above was massively transformative for me, insightful
understanding is an everyday phenomenon. In fact, as you start to
become more and more aware of it, you'll begin to find yourself relying on
insights and your natural wisdom to guide you on a day-to-day basis.
• The gut feeling that lets you know to take a certain decision.
• The “knowing” that has you ask just the right question.
• The insight that solves a problem that looked like it was impossible.
• The inspiration that gives you fresh energy and inner motivation.
• The wisdom that guides you in situations where your old maps and
ideas no longer apply.
In fact, the essential difference between this and most other books is in
its ability to act as a catalyst for your own insights to transform your life.
Exercise: Stop for a moment and identify two or three of your own
examples of insights, big or small, that have made (or are making) a
difference in your life.
1. _________________________________________________________
2. _________________________________________________________
3. _________________________________________________________
If no insights came to mind right away in this exercise, you can relax.
They'll occur to you later when you're not “trying” or thinking about it!
Insightful understanding comes from your innate ability to have fresh new
thinking at any moment. When you stop and think about it, everything a
person perceives as limiting them is a reflection of their intellectual
understanding (what they already know), while the fresh, new
perceptions that can transform your life can only ever emerge from what
you don't yet know, through insightful understanding.
So I invite you to “read for an insight” as I reveal the trap that's ensnared
millions of people (including yours truly), a trap that I call...
“We don't know who discovered water, but we know it wasn't the fish.”
- Marshall McLuhan
In the 1800s, it was widely accepted that illnesses such as cholera and
the plague were caused by “bad air” (also known as miasmas). At the
time, huge numbers of people were moving to Soho in London, with an
associated increase in sewage. The government of the day decided to
pump the excess waste into the River Thames, unknowingly
contaminating the water supply.
The impact was felt in 1854 when the Broad Street cholera outbreak
claimed the lives of 618 Soho residents in just a few weeks. The
physician John Snow was skeptical of the miasma theory, and managed
to trace the epidemic to a water-pump in Broad Street. His analysis of
the outbreak pattern was compelling enough that the local council
removed the pump handle and the epidemic ended.
John Snow, Ignatz Semmelweis and many others had insights that
allowed them to see beyond the superstitions of the time, leading to the
creation of germ theory and modern medicine. As a result, millions of
people are alive today that wouldn't be if we were still living in the
superstitious miasma-theory paradigm.
A Thought Experiment
Imagine this: it's 1853, you live in Soho, London. It's a crowded city, with
only rudimentary sanitation. The air is full of strong odours, so you're in
the habit of carrying a small bunch of flowers to protect you from illness.
Everyone you know does the same thing, and the posy industry is big
business.
Then one day you meet a professor who's convinced that diseases aren't
caused by bad smells. He tells you that disease is actually transmitted by
tiny invisible creatures, but when you ask for evidence, he explains that
we don't currently have microscopes that can show you the little
creatures (or “germs and bacteria” as he calls them). He tells you
Would you believe it? Maybe, maybe not. Most people would probably say
“Don't be silly – everybody KNOWS that illness is caused by bad smells.
It's obvious...” My guess is that until I had some compelling evidence to
the contrary, I'd keep buying posies, and so would you.
Q - If you were to be presented with the evidence that one of the most
widely-held beliefs of modern society was in fact a superstition, would you
be able to listen with an open mind?
The fact that you're reading this means that the answer is probably “Yes”,
so here goes...
And like pieces of lego, this simple structure can be used to assemble all
kinds of larger structures:
“But wait!” I hear you say. “I've seen studies that show that feelings of
wellbeing and high self-esteem come from accomplishments, or from
doing vocational work, or from meditating”.
That's all an example of the superstition in action. When I use the word
“circumstance”, I'm using it in the widest possible way, to refer to pretty
much anything you can imagine, including:
• etc.
The idea that our core feelings are at least to some degree the result of
our circumstances seems so “obvious” to people that calling it into
question can seem ridiculous at first.
And while many people who have explored the domains of “brain-change”
(through NLP, spirituality, personal development, meditation etc) would
say that they “know” that their core feelings don't come from their
circumstances, they often continue to act as though they don't really
know it (“I know that intellectually but...”)
• I'll feel fulfilled when I know that I'm on-purpose and doing what I
love.
• etc.
Once again: We've been conditioned into the superstitious thinking that
our wellbeing comes from outside of us, that there's somewhere to get to,
and that “there” is better than “here”.
• “My sense of security comes from the fact that I've got money in
the bank.”
• “I feel a sense of love and connection because I've found the right
partner.”
“Are you really trying to tell me that these examples are just a
superstition? That my job doesn't actually stress me out? That my
security doesn't come from money? That I don't feel love because of my
partner? That I don't like going on holiday?”
What I'm saying is that the feelings aren't coming from the circumstances
- they're coming from somewhere else. And as you start to understand
where they're coming from and how the system works, some wonderful
things can start to happen.
• Stress
• Unhappiness
• Addiction
• Mental illness
• Conflict
• Criminal behaviour
• Violence
• War
• Relationship problems
• Depression
• Neediness
• Struggle
• etc
But the great news is that as an individual starts to see through the
misunderstanding, the superstition starts to fall away, and their quality of
experience starts to get better and better.
When you stop and deeply consider the implications of this, it can be
shocking. It means that 100% of your experience of the world “outside”
of you is actually taking place inside your neurophysiology (including the
bits that you see “out there”).
Our experience of reality is, quite literally, created from “the stuff
that dreams are made of”.
Perceptual Adaptation
Stop for a moment. Have a look around you. Listen to any sounds you're
aware of. Run your fingers over some objects in your environment.
The truth of our perception is entirely different and far, far stranger...
You see, your perception of reality is less like looking out at the world
through the lens of a camera, and more like wearing a pair of virtual
reality goggles.
Have another look around you, and allow yourself to notice one or two
objects in your immediate environment. 100% of your experience of
those objects is being generated from within your neurophysiology. I
know it looks as though the objects are “out there” (and for practical
purposes they are “out there”) but your EXPERIENCE of the objects is
being generated from within your consciousness. Your entire experience
of “out there” is taking place inside of you (including the elements you
experience as outside of you).
Reality Check: I'm NOT saying that you create your own reality; I'm
saying that you create your own EXPERIENCE of reality, moment to
moment, from within your consciousness. We live in a material world that
is governed by inviolable laws (e.g. gravity, thermodynamics etc) that are
not materially influenced by your perception. If you're driving down a
road and don't realise that the bridge around the next corner has been
washed away in a flood, you're not going to be able to drive over the non-
existent bridge just because you think it's still there. Gravity doesn't care
what you think!
The neuroanatomist and brain researcher, Dr Jill Bolte Taylor, put it this
way during her TED.com talk:
The energy flows into our senses as raw data, in much the same way data
flows into a computer through a USB port. The mind then creates a model
of “what must be out there for me to be receiving this data”. This model
is then “represented” to us in consciousness.
Once again: Your perception of reality is less like looking out at the world
through the lens of a camera, and more like wearing a pair of virtual
reality goggles.
I'm writing this book using my beloved MacBook Air. As I write, I can see
the words I'm typing appearing on the screen. At any point, I can watch
a YouTube video, flick through my photo library, search for a quote using
Google, post something on facebook or scroll through another document,
but one thing remains constant...
Pixels are the tiny building blocks that are used to create the videos, the
photographs, the letters in the documents, the images on the
webpages... everything! It's ALL pixels.
Exercise:
1) Again, look around you at the environment you're in. As you notice the
different elements in that environment, consider the fact that what you're
seeing is actually a representation being generated by (and within) your
amazing mind. Your experience of everything you can see is made of
THOUGHT, the pixels of perception.
2) Now close your eyes and remember what you could see in your
environment. Your memory of those things is also made of THOUGHT.
When you're asleep and dreaming, those dreams are made of THOUGHT.
Every experience you have in your entire life is generated using the power
of THOUGHT, the pixels of perception.
It's relatively well-established that human beings use the same perceptual
apparatus for dreaming and imagining as they do for experiencing their
waking reality. Oft-quoted studies of sportspeople have shown that vividly
imagining a certain throw, manoeuvre or shot can activate the same
muscle groups as actually doing the activity being imagined.
• Two people watching the same movie can have two completely
different experiences of it, thanks to the power of THOUGHT.
• A person doing a job can feel inspired and energised, while the
person sitting next to them feels stressed and unhappy doing
exactly the same work. Both of them create their experience using
the power of THOUGHT.
I'm not saying that they're doing this deliberately or consciously; I'm
merely pointing to the human capability to use the incredible power of
THOUGHT to create any perception of reality, and then experience it as
real.
The reason this is SO relevant when it comes to escaping from the hidden
hamster wheel is this:
THOUGHT has the power to bring each of the different permutations of this
superstitious formula to life, and have a person experience it as a reality.
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