July 18, 2014

How to Marry the Man of Your Dreams

How many times have you flipped through the pages of a magazine and thought this about a celebrity:
 
“Wow. She looks so glamorous. Her hair and makeup are always flawless, she’s in fantastic shape, and she’s always
wearing the perfect outfit. What’s her secret?”
 
More times than you can count, right?
 
Well I’ve worked with celebrities, and I’m going to let you in on a (not-so-glamorous) secret:
 
Every time you see a star looking “perfect,” there is literally a TEAM of people behind her that made it happen.
 
She’s got:
 
-A hairstylist
-A makeup artist
-A personal trainer
-An on-staff chef
-A wardrobe stylist
 
(And this is just for the “low maintenance” celebrities!)
 
So when you consider all that goes into your favorite star’s appearance, give yourself a pat on the back for looking
good all on your own today.
 
Now what if I told you that you could have a picture-perfect love life…
 
(a passionate, committed relationship with the man of your dreams)
 
…and all you need is a personal relationship coach working with you, one-on-one, to help make it happen?
 
“Whoa, whoa, whoa, Matthew…” you’re already saying.
 
“The perfect relationship part sounds great, but I can’t afford to hire you personally to train me every day.”
 
Well guess what?
 
Yes you can.
 
YOUR PERSONAL TRAINER FOR LOVE
 
“Fast Track to Mr. Right” is my Get the Guy immersion program that is designed to show you not just the
immediate steps to meeting men, but how to attract them on a deep level and get them committing to you for life.
 
This shortcut to lasting love has advice you can start using right away and will save you so much time…
…Time you would have wasted on the wrong guys or messing things up with Mr. Right!
 
My intensive coaching program is comprised of six monthly video training modules that you view, at your
convenience, on your computer, smartphone or tablet.
 
It’s the closest thing to having me right there with you in your home, giving you step by step instruction to handle
every possible situation that comes up, as you go from single (or casually “seeing” someone) to an incredible
relationship.
 
HERE’S WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN “FAST TRACK TO MR. RIGHT”:
 
* How to create a vision for your love life and a roadmap to achieve it.
 
* Where to go to meet the best guys & how to create an abundance of the kind of men you’re interested in.
 
* How to avoid the common mistakes that put you in the dreaded “Friend Zone” with guys, as well as powerful
ways to create chemistry.
 
* The Essential Phone & Texting guidelines: I outline the most common mistakes women make (so you won’t), and
teach you how to know when – and when NOT – to contact him… I even give you a simple text you can use to
rekindle attraction if a guy has gone cold.
 
*  Specific ways to keep the momentum going during the dating phases and when to get intimate.
 
*  The tests to quickly tell if he’s the right guy or the wrong guy.
 
* The simple way to move casual dating into a relationship without scaring him off… In fact, my method will have
HIM asking YOU the relationship.
 
* How to understand the way men are wired when it comes to commitment.
 
* How to stop settling for less than you deserve and how to remain confident, composed, and in control around
the guy you really like. (From now on you’ll only be dating the best!)
 
*  The Attraction Formula: What it is and how you can use it to create attraction in anyone you want.
 
*  How to show interest in a guy without losing your power.
 
*  Surefire ways to get him asking your number and setting up a date…even within the first 5 minutes of talking.
 
*  Dealing with social fear and rejection: I teach you how to change the internal dialogue that makes you nervous,
how to stop caring what other people think, and how to truly enjoy the process of flirting and creating
opportunities.
 
* The deadliest mistakes women make in the bedroom – and how you can avoid them.
 
* How to remove the negative thoughts that hold you back from finding the love you deserve – no more self-
sabotage.
 
*  The “5 Relationship Destroyers” and how YOU can do the opposite.
 
* 3 simple tests you can use to tell if your guy is ready for a commitment.
 
*  The principles that make an amazing sex life – so the next man you meet never looks anywhere else.
 
* How to set yourself up for long-term success in love.
 
* And way more.
 
Each “Fast Track to Mr. Right” training also contains a special Q & A session where I answer your most burning
questions along the way.
 
And in every part you get an exclusive interview with some very unexpected guests where we go uncensored into
the male mind.
 
Each man speaks completely honestly about the innermost secrets of guys and why they do what they do. This is
priceless information you won’t get anywhere else. I cannot wait for you to hear the first one – it's going to blow
you away!
 
So if you’ve always thought personal coaches are only for celebrities or wealthy people, THINK AGAIN.
 
It’s my mission to reach and help as many women as possible get the love life they truly deserve. That’s why I’ve
transformed my live coaching event (which women pay $1000 to attend) into this video program that anyone can
afford.
 
In fact, I’m going to do something a little crazy and let you try it for 14 days for just $4.95…
 
==> Click here for your $4.95 trial of “Fast Track to Mr. Right”
 
During the 14 day trial you get unlimited access to the first of the six training modules for just $4.95.
 
If you love it, which I know you will, you don't have to do anything. You'll be billed for the balance of $65 and stay
subscribed. Each month I'll send you another one of the 6 parts for $69.95, accessible online in your member’s
area. You can cancel anytime, no questions, no hassles. 
 
If you don't love it, just cancel. You'll lose access to the 6 part program, but at least you'll have had the opportunity
to try it out and see the results for just $4.95. And, believe me: you're not going to want to miss out on this stuff
once you see how it transforms your love life.
 
So next time you see a celebrity on the cover ofPeople, bragging about how she lost the baby weight in 6 weeks, go
ahead and laugh. You know her secret.
And after you apply my “Fast Track to Mr. Right” training, you’ll have a secret too…
 
…Women everywhere will look at you and wonder how you so effortlessly attract such quality men.
 
They’ll see your passionate, connected, committed relationship with that perfect guy and wonder, “How’d she find
him?”
 
And one day, in the not too distant future, your friends will watch you walk down the aisle in your breathtaking
wedding gown and think to themselves, “They look so happy. I wish I knew her secret.” 

You don’t have to tell. It can just be between you and me ;)

 
Yes, Matt, I’m ready to get all the benefits of having you as my personal relationship coach without paying
anything close to the cost…
 
>>>Start My $4.95 Trial Now
 
Kind regards,
 
Matthew Hussey

July 17, 2014

Should You Really Play Hard to Get?
You’ve been told forever that men are only attracted to “hard to get” women. 
 
But is that really true?
 
===>Click here to find out if you should play hard to get  
 
I’m going to reveal the surprising secret that will allow you to finally choose (and attract) the guy you want instead
of waiting to be chosen. 
 
I’ll also show you “the white handkerchief approach” – the discreet way women have been making the move for
years that the modern day woman has forgotten about. You won’t believe how simple it is to get the hottest guy in
the room to start talking to you – without ever taking a single risk… 
 
Go watch this video to learn how
 
Here’s to understanding men,
 
Matt x
 

July 16, 2014

How to Hold on to Your Man

Let’s say you meet an amazing guy.

 
He’s handsome. Smart. Interesting. Interested in YOU. He calls when he says he’ll call, takes you on fabulous dates,
and your chemistry is off the charts.
 
What could be better than finding a guy like that?
 
KEEPING that guy attracted and committed to you forever, of course.
 
If you’ve ever:
 
* Had a date (or several dates) with a man you really liked but then he suddenly disappeared
 
* Thought things were going great with a new guy but weren’t sure if (or how) you should bring up commitment
 
* Had lots of dates but never get to the relationship stage
 
* Dated someone for a long period of time without a commitment and wondered why the relationship wasn’t
progressing
 
…then today’s coaching email is for YOU.
 
I’m about to share some powerful INSPIRATION stories from women just like you who finally got their love life
handled by applying my methods.
 
They went from single to happily dating… dating to committed relationship…even committed relationship to
engaged to be married.
 
Read on to learn how YOU can do it too.
 
 
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INSPIRATION STORY #1  “He Finally Proposed”
 
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“My boyfriend of many years always said he didn’t believe in marriage. It got to the point where I thought I’d have
to leave the man I love and find someone else.
 
2 months after the program he proposed, and is talking about being ready to start a family. I honestly don’t know
how I could ever thank you.”  – Nisha
 
To learn how you can do it, too: Get instant access to my Keep the Guy program, where I explain how to get him
to propose using the 5 Things That Shape His Decision to Marry You.
 
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INSPIRATION STORY #2  “Within Minutes, He Was Asking to be Exclusive”
 
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“The guy I’m dating always said he didn’t want anything serious, and was extremely anti-relationship.
Last night I used the exclusivity technique with him, and within minutes he was the one asking where I saw things
going and telling me he didn’t want us to see other people. Seriously. WOW.” – Elizabeth
 
To learn how you can do it, too: Discover my fool-proof 'Exclusivity Technique' in my Keep the Guy video
program, where I give you an actual script to use when you want to talk about a commitment with your guy. No
more awkward “what are we?” conversations, or pressuring him and scaring him off. In fact, my technique allows
your man to believe that a commitment is all his own idea.
 
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INSPIRATION STORY #3  “This Time My Guy Won’t Disappear”
 
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“Men always used to disappear after the 2nd or 3rd date. It would make me feel awful, especially if I’d been
intimate with them.
 
In the first two hours of Keep The Guy I realized where I was going wrong. I’ve now been seeing a guy for 2 months
and it feels amazing already (the technique for becoming his rare gemstone seriously works). SO worth it!” –
Jessica
 
To learn how you can do it too: Learn how The Gemstone Effect can turn even the biggest players into devoted
husbands in my Keep the Guy program. This Game-Changer technique will instantly have him seeing you as
different from any other woman he’s been with, and the ONLY woman he wants for the rest of his life.
 
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INSPIRATION STORY #4: “He is So Attentive to My Needs” 
 
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“My guy is calling and texting me all the time now. He’s so attentive to my needs.
 
Yesterday he booked us tickets to Disneyland because 3 weeks ago I joked that I was sad I’d never been. It’s almost
like HE took a program, not me!” – Dani
 
To learn how you can do it, too: Stop spending time with him on his terms and learn how to transform him into a
genuine team player. This technique will make him instantly become more considerate of you and your time, and
want to start spending A LOT more time with you. I reveal this strategy to turning things around in Keep the Guy.
 
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INSPIRATION STORY #5  “Life-Changing” 
 
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"Thank you Matthew. Such great knowledge and information - I can't wait to put it all into practice.

I can't even begin to describe how much your program is changing my life and confidence level.  It`s so wonderful.
 
Thank you for such a wonderful gift.  I’ve watched all 11 ‘Keep the Guy’ modules now and was riveted by the
information you were imparting to us. I had lots of ‘a-ha’ moments as well as realizations of why I had failed in my
previous relationships. Oh my God. I loved every minute - fascinating!" – Diane
 
To learn how you can do it, too: Start your journey to find the love of your life TODAY. Click here to get instant
access to your Keep the Guy video program.
 
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Laverne Millar, you deserve to have a committed relationship with the man of your dreams.
 
I can help you find him…and marry him.
 
Never again will you experience the pain of wondering whether you and your guy are really building a life together.
No more analyzing, no more games, no more pointless hours sitting around listening to your friends’ opinions.
 
You can have it all:
 
* An attentive, responsive man who calls you, texts you, brings you special gifts and takes you away on special
weekends
 
*  That deep connection with a man who truly understands you and loves every part of you
 
* Lazy late mornings having breakfast in bed, rainy nights cuddled up on the sofa watching movies, romantic
evenings where you both get dressed up to see friends together
 
* And then…the moment you’ve always dreamed of, when he gets down on one knee to ask a question you’ve
been waiting for a man like him to ask you your whole life: “Will You Marry Me?”
 
Start your journey today by clicking below. I’ll be with you every step of the way.
 
Yes, Matt – Please Give Me the Steps to Keeping the Man of My Dreams
 
Kind regards,
 
Matthew Hussey
 
P.S. When you become my next Inspiration Story, I want to hear all about it. Promise you’ll write me and let me
know!

July 14, 2014

4 Surefire Signs He’s Ready for a Relationship With You
So you've found a guy who you like and you think it may be time to start moving into a relationship, but you're
worried you might scare him off and come across as being too needy or clingy.
 
How do you know if he's ready for a relationship? 
  
Well, there are several indicators guys actually give away to let you know that they are ready for a relationship and
if you know how to spot these indicators then you'll know instantly if you can move forward.
 
Without going into too much detail, here’s one quick indicator to use when you are unsure of what he's thinking... 
  
The sign that a guy is ready for a relationship is this: HE BRINGS YOU INTO HIS WORLD. 
  
That's the key. When a guy wants you for the long-term he makes an effort to give you the keys to his life and lets
you in the door. 
  
But how can you tell when this is happening? There are 4 signs you should look for that will indicate his readiness
for a relationship: 
  
1. Trying to integrate you with his friends and family 
  
If he makes an effort to get you involved with his social circle, you know he's thinking further ahead than a few
dates.
 
Once a guy is ready to be with you seriously, he'll want his friends and family to be aware of it; getting you involved
with them is his way of saying that he has chosen you as something more than just a fling. 
  
If on the other hand he is keen to keep you away at all costs, it might spell out that he doesn't want you getting the
wrong idea. 
  
2. Planning a trip with just the two of you 
  
Any sign of a vacation or going for a "weekend away" somewhere is a sure sign that a guy wants something more. 
  
It's not just about the money; it symbolizes and emotional investment on his part, since he's spent time planning
and thinking about something you can both do together. Guys don't do this kind of thing for girls they’re not
serious about. 
  
3. Going out of his way to plan a special date 
  
The more he goes out of the way to plan special dates, the more you know he wants to impress you with his
creativity (which is of course, a good sign). 
  
But if, on the other hand, he only plans dates which never require him to go out of his way (i.e. he only asks you to
come over to his place, or to the pub 5 minutes away from his house) then it's likely this guy only wants you when
it's convenient for him. 
  
4. Talking about future plans 
  
Notice if he always avoids talking about plans more than a week in advance, or if he shifts nervously when you
mention something the two of you might do in the future. 
  
If he's happy to say little things like  "We should have dinner there next time" or "We'll have more time when work
is less busy next month," this is the kind of talk that makes you know he feels comfortable with seeing you two
together for a while, so look out for the signals. 
  
So there you have it: The one indicator (and four signs) you can use to tell if he's ready to commit to a relationship.
You'll probably notice guys avoiding questions when it comes to taking things to the next step when dating, so
tread carefully and use this one tip first. 
  
Keeping a guy interested long-term and understanding what they want can be tricky at times. I’ll teach you the
exact steps you must take in order to keep a guy and stay on his mind, so that he calls you back and never
disappears (like some men may have done in the past). 
 
Click to watch - how to find a “relationship-ready” guy
  
Kind regards,

Matthew Hussey

July 12, 2014

Men Explain: What Makes Guys Commit
Have you ever asked yourself one (or more) of the following questions: 

– Once I GET a guy, why can’t I seem to KEEP him? 

– Why am I always the woman BEFORE the woman he settles down with? 

– How long do I have to wait for him to realize I’m “The One” and finally propose? 
I see you nodding your head. ;) 

Well then you are DEFINITELY going to want to keep reading. That’s because I’m about to reveal some powerful
information that will change the way men view you, behave around you, and treat you in a relationship…forever. 

Now if you’re the good student I know you are, you’ve been trying out some of my email tips and techniques to
attract and meet a quality man. 

And you should be seeing some exciting results. 

You may have even signed up my “Attract Any Man” video program. If so, then I KNOW you’re seeing exciting
results. 

But as amazing as it may feel to have men falling at your feet, taking your number, calling you, and asking you out
on dates, there’s one confidence-crushing problem that usually comes up… 

…you have no clue how to KEEP him interested long-term. 

It’s not your fault. 

Men are confusing creatures. I am one, and I can admit it. 

Case in point, this baffling scenario: You’re seeing an amazing guy, going on lots of dates, things seem to be
progressing quickly…. But the moment you ask him about the future, he says the dreaded six words: 

“I’m not ready for a relationship.” 

Ouch. 

After hearing enough stories like that, I realized something: 

With Attract Any Man, I had given thousands of women powerful tools to get men ATTRACTED… 

…NOW I had to help them get the COMMITMENT. 

But what, exactly, makes a man commit? 

I know how I feel about this question personally, but to get the most sound answer I went straight to the most
reliable source: MARRIED MEN. 

850 married men to be exact. 

I sat with them for hours and asked: 

“Why did you choose your wife over every other woman?” 

“What did the woman before her NOT have?” 

“What shifted in your brain the EXACT moment you decided you wanted to get married?” 

And I didn’t stop there… 

I interviewed HUNDREDS of men who currently weren’t committing to the person they were seeing. I asked: 
“What’s stopping you from taking your relationship to the next level?”
 
“What, if anything, could your woman do to change this?” 

From these answers, and years of experience in my private coaching practice, I created a simple, step-by-step
strategy for how women could get their man to finally promise themselves to them and settle down for good. 

I call it Keep The Guy. 

In it, I reveal the 3 Secrets to Lasting Commitment that every woman should know. 

==> Learn The 3 Secrets to Lasting Commitment 

 
Put these to use, and you’ll get your man uncontrollably devoted to the point where he can’t even think about
another woman. 

Now these 3 Secrets to Lasting Commitment are vital, but this information is only useful if you know how to apply
it. 

That’s why in my Keep The Guy system, I didn’t just detail these 3 Secrets, I spent a year turning them into an easy-
to-learn set of techniques that ANY woman could follow. 

When it was finished, Keep The Guy had become a complete guide that showed women exactly how to get a guy
from casual to the ultimate commitment for life. 

In it you’ll learn… 

-My specific step-by-step guide for taking your relationship from the casual phases to exclusivity and even
marriage and a family. 

-The make or break moments that take place on the first 5 dates that will either make him run away, or put you in
the marriage category immediately. 

-The Game-Changer technique that instantly has him seeing you as different from any other woman he’s been
with, and the ONLY woman he wants for the rest of his life 

-How to remove his barriers to taking the next step (no other woman he meets will know how to do this, so you’ll
be the only one who truly knows how to get him over his commitment fears). 

Then you’ll learn…

-The exact wording you should use for the ‘What are we?’ conversation that will actually lead to HIM ASKING YOU
to be exclusive. 

-How to make him so addicted to being in a relationship with you that he never has nagging thoughts of wanting to
be single again.   

-The one thing to look for in his language that shows if he is really looking to build a life with you, or if he will break
your heart later down the line. 

-How to turn it around if it looks like he's trying to break things off (or even if already has).
-A simple confidence trick you can use on yourself when you are feeling needy, insecure, or scared of getting hurt,
that will immediately put you back in your most confident, high-value state.   

-You’ll learn how to effortlessly progress to the point of MOVING IN together, so that you can finally enjoy making
your home together, having cozy movie nights, and lazy Sundays in bed. 

AND THEN…get ready, because this is the big one…

You’ll discover: 

-How to get him to propose by learning the 5 things that shape his decision to marry you.

You’ll even find out what to do if he says he doesn't want marriage, by learning a simple technique that puts you
back in the driving seat instantly. 

Keep The Guy is a comprehensive, 11-module video training program that has been designed as an advanced, male
insight-packed, BREAKTHROUGH system. It delivers almost INSTANT results for the women who take action and
secure their copy. 

But you don’t have to take my word for it. Here’s just one of the letters I’ve received from a woman who tried
Keep the Guy: 

“The guy I’m dating always said he didn’t want anything serious, and was extremely anti-relationship. Last night I
used the exclusivity technique with him, and within minutes he was the one asking where I saw things going and
telling me he didn’t want us to see other people. Seriously. WOW.” - Elizabeth 

Don’t waste another second worrying and wondering how to make your relationship last. 

Click here to claim your copy of Keep The Guy and let’s start your journey to forever …TODAY.  

Kind regards, 
Matthew 

P.S. Still a little skeptical? I’m so confident that you’re going to love Keep the Guy that I want you to try the entire
11-hour video program for 60 days. If you don't think it's everything you thought it would be and more, just send
me an email and I’ll refund your program fee – no questions, no hassles. 

There’s no risk to you, so stop thinking and take action. Get instant access to your Keep the Guy program and let’s
get started together. 

P.P.S. If you check out Keep the Guy now, as a thank you, I’ll add in this incredible bonus: Exclusive access to 3
Keep The Guy momentum sessions 

In these recorded sessions I’ll address frequently asked questions, help you work through your unexpected sticking
points that come up, and just generally support you while you’re going through the program. You’ll be able to
access the recordings in your members’ area forever once you have the Keep the Guy program. 

July 10, 2014

He Needs “Space?” Here’s What to Do
What’s going on in a man’s mind when he says he needs “space”?
 
Is that code for “it’s over”?
 
And what about when you DO give him space and he comes right back…only to (you guessed it) need more space
again? Should you really put up with his hot-and-cold act?
 
I’m going to tackle this frustrating behavior in today’s email and tell you exactly how to handle it when your man
asks for “space” (because, let’s face it, at some point almost all men do).
 
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Question From a Reader:
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“Hi Matt,
  
Received your newsletters. Brilliant, thanks. Quick question: I was with a guy for 3 years (2nd relationship for both
of us, late 40s). He was hesitant all along and called it off several times but always came back after a couple of days
when I gave him space.
 
He asked me to marry him earlier this year, but after 3 days he panicked (his word), and broke it off entirely. It's
now been 3 months, and I have not contacted him once, but he contacts me every week and is friendly, his words
and body language show attraction, but he does nothing about it.
  
I'm friendly and warm, and don't talk about my feelings, just basically treat it like a new relationship. He insisted it
was over for him, but he can't seem to walk completely away.
 
What's going on in his head?
 
What is the best thing for me to do?
 
We had a great relationship, got on so well, passionate about each other up till the last minute. The only problem
was his occasional ‘doubts.’ There is nobody else involved.
 
Would so appreciate your advice.
 
Linda”
 
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 My Response:
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Hi Linda!
  
First of all, thank you for taking the time to write in.
  
What went wrong here is that you failed to make clear what was acceptable behavior early on. In fact, by allowing
your guy to stick around for as long as you did, you showed him just how much he could get away with.
  
One thing I always teach in my seminars is this golden rule:
  
MEN WILL ADHERE TO THE PARAMETERS YOU SET THEM.
  
Let me explain that. When men first get involved with a woman, they are constantly testing and finding out how
much they can get away with. That means it's entirely up to you to show them where the boundaries are.
 
It's the same thing with men and their mothers. If a guy's mother showers him with love and affection, and doesn't
ask anything in return, this is the dynamic the mother will set up for the rest of their relationship. Then the mother
wonders why her useless son never helps out around the house or surprises her with gifts. It is because he knows
what he can get away with.
Now apply this to your relationship. 
 
This man was able to completely call the shots in your relationship; you let him choose whether it was on or off,
and always allowed him to come back in when he wanted you back. 
 
So very early on he learned that your boundaries could easily be compromised, without him having to actually go
to the trouble of changing his indecisive ways when it came to commitment. 

Right now, he sees that he can have all the fun of being in a relationship with you (flirting, meeting up with you
etc.) and without actually having to commit. He's learned that he can get away with it.
 
So what should you do now?
 
I recommend putting distance between the two of you. You have to make him feel that if he wants all the fun of
being with you, he'll have to commit fully.
  
You don't get snippy about this. All you do is coolly back off from him and make sure that you are very sparing with
how much time you give him. But (and here's the important bit), you make the short times you spend together
incredible, and have as much fun as possible.
  
That way he sees that if he wants to have that amazing time with you and be a significant part of your life he will
have to commit more. By not giving him much time, you show that you're not willing to emotionally invest in
someone who is only messing you around.
  
So as you can see, you can actually control what your man thinks by the way you react to his behavior. The
boundaries you set for him early on will define how he thinks about your relationship.
 
I hope this helps; let me know how it works out!
  
Matt
 
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So, as you can see, understanding what men think and getting inside their mind can be simple when you have a
guide to help decode their behavior.
 
And once you apply these principles to your relationship you will be astounded by the results.
 
I go into this as much as possible in my emails, but in order to achieve the “holy grail” of relationships – that is,
long-term love – you are going to need a “deeper dive.”
 
If you’re like Linda and COMMITMENT is your ultimate goal, you need my Keep the Guy training program.
 
This 11-module video program contains the same content that I deliver in my live seminars and will give you all the
tools you need to create a passionate, lasting relationship with the man of your dreams.
 
Learn How to Keep The One Forever

Kind regards,

Matthew Hussey
 
P.S. What makes a man decide that you’re “The One?” I asked 850 married men to explain why they chose their
wives (and why their past girlfriends didn’t make the cut). I’ll tell you all about the shocking findings in my next
email.

July 8, 2014
3 Things That Make Him Commit – Do You Know Them?
One of the most common questions I get from the women I coach is:
 
Why don’t men want to commit to a relationship?
 
It’s actually simple. There are two major reasons most men don’t want to commit:
 
1) They are scared. To them, commitment means that their freedom will be taken away.
 
2) They haven't had a good enough "reason" to take things further with you.
 
I’m sure you find both of these reasons frustrating, especially if the guy is a catch and you like him a lot.
 
So today I'm going to show you how to solve this problem with the exact steps that take your current relationship
or any new relationship to the next level.
 
Let's get started...
 
"3 Surefire Ways To Get Him To Commit" 

Principle 1 - Let him see the value of the product for himself 

All of us represent our own brand. 

Think about Apple as a brand for a second. What happens when guys see a new Apple iPhone in the store window?
Their curiosity is inflamed. They want to get closer to it, they want to touch it, they have to have one for
themselves. 

That's exactly how you want to brand yourself. 

You need to keep time for yourself and make it clear that no matter where he stands, you have hobbies, friends
and aspirations in your own life that take precedence over him. 

This is built through lifestyle. You need to be an in-demand woman. A woman who has an active, packed lifestyle
filled with friends, hobbies, work, family and interests. 
Guys love it when they are needed now and again, but they don't want to get the impression that you're incapable
of having a good time without them. 

It's what you devote your time to that creates the overall package of your product. When a guy is shopping for a
relationship he looks at all of these things and decides whether the product (your lifestyle) is one he wants to
"buy" into.
 
Having a brand means you show, don’t tell. In other words, there is no point trying to logically convince a man with
all the reasons why he should want to be in a relationship with you. 

He might even be kind of interested in seeing you as a girlfriend, but the more you keep bringing up the subject the
more he will get cold feet. 

The first thing a guy worries about when it comes to calling you his serious girlfriend, no matter how much he likes
you, is how difficult it's going to be to leave if he decides he's not into it. 

The more he feels you trying to sell a relationship to him, the more he'll be associate it with feeling trapped.

Principle 2 - Make your time together incredible! 

Your dates and the time you spend together indicate to a guy what it might be like to be in a relationship with you. 

So while you don't want to give him all your time, you want to make sure that the time you do spend together is
the most fun he could possibly have! 

Plan fun and unique dates, be playful, and give him plenty of variety in the activities you do together. 

Principle 3 - Make him want to earn the benefits of a relationship 

Don't give him all of the benefits of being in a relationship with you until he's committed. 

Otherwise, you end up being a couple who do everything that people in relationships do, without actually being in
one! 

Don't start giving up your own time at the drop of a hat to come and see him. Show him that if he wants you to
make a serious investment of your time and energy, he will have to be exclusive with you. 

You always need the guy to realize that every time he commits to you a little bit more, things get more fun, more
exciting, more romantic, and more sexy. 

If you give him everything right away (including sexually), you're giving him all of the relationship stuff before he's
in a relationship! 

If, after using these steps you don't see a dramatic change in your relationship, then you may need a more in-depth
approach. Commitment is actually a very sensitive subject in my live events and something that I go into great
detail with, so that women know the ins and outs of what to do in their current situation. 

If you're serious about creating a long-term relationship, I strongly recommend you check outKeep the Guy.
 
My in-depth video training program gives you step-by-step instruction on how to transform your dating and create
a lifelong partnership with a man you are wildly in love with. 

Learn exactly how to get that commitment you’ve always wanted  

 
Kind regards, 

Matthew Hussey
 
P.S. Has a guy ever told you he ‘needs some space’? If you’re like nearly every other woman on Earth you’ve heard
this confusing statement from a guy at least once. In my next email I’ll explain to you exactly what this means.
Keep an eye out for it!

July 3, 2014
These Women Found True Love – How You Can Too
I hope you've been enjoying – and getting lots of valuable tips from - all the "Get the Guy" coaching emails I’ve
been giving you. 

And I'm definitely going to keep 'em coming. 

It’s been about a week now, so I wanted to take a moment to share some INSPIRATION with you from real women
who have transformed their dating lives and relationships...and their real explanations of how they're doing it. 

These are women who, at first, were: 

* feeling insecure about themselves 

* shy and having trouble meeting quality men

* sabotaging their relationships with negative beliefs and behaviors

And now, practically overnight, they're feeling confident, attractive, desirable and loved.
 
Read on to learn how these real women did it - And how YOU can too!
 
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INSPIRATION STORY #1 “Improved My Love Life In Less Than One Week”
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“Hi Matt,
 
In less than a week I can already see a tremendous improvement in how men react to me.
 
I am going out with a few guys off and on, and there is one in particular that stands out.  We met and talked about
getting together the next day. The conversation was absolutely fantastic.
 
Later that afternoon, I was surprised when he called me and said "I can't wait until tomorrow - what are you doing
tonight?"  I was very pleasantly shocked. Guys NEVER call me and say those sorts of things.
 
We met for a terrific dinner and catch-up last night, and have plans for tonight. He really is one of these "good
guys" you know? In the past I ALWAYS screw up the good things, but not this time. It never would have happened
without you. Thank you, thank you, thank you times a million.  :-)
 
Carolyn”
 
To learn how you can do it, too: Click here for instant access to the Attract Any Man videoprogram and once
signed up be sure to pay special attention to Video 2 where I give you concrete examples of conversation
techniques you can use to create instant attraction and anticipation.
 
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INSPIRATION STORY #2 “I’m Loving Life”
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“Matthew,
 
I'm on month one of your Attract Any Man program, and this weekend was hands down the best weekend I've had
in two years. I threw a happy hour, went to a comedy show, hiking and biking, and an art fair. I already have three
dates lined up for next week.
 
But, it's not just the dates that are exciting... I'm loving my life. I'm an introvert at heart, but right now I can't get
enough interactions. For the first time in a long time it feels really amazing to be me.
 
Sarah”
 
To learn how you can do it, too: Make a commitment to improving more than just your relationships, but your
outlook on life too. In Part 3 ofAttract Any Man, I talk about the limiting beliefs that are holding you back from
living your best life and the mindset that will help you both attract guys and meet all kinds of new people.
 
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INSPIRATION STORY #3 “I Finally Understand My Boyfriend”
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“Hi Matt,
 
Understanding men has always been an issue.  You opened a new door for me. You enable me to understand why
my boyfriend acts a certain way and what he means when he says something. I followed almost everything you say
and it works wonders!
 
Sheila”
 
To learn how you can do it, too: I devote an entire segment of Attract Any Man to “Understanding Men.” To
decode your guy’s behavior, be sure to watch Part 4 and take notes. I address jealousy, game-playing, and how to
change your guy’s associations, which will have a huge impact on the way he treats you.
 
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INSPIRATION STORY #4 “So Powerful it Made Him Text Me Day and Night”
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 “Hello Matthew,
 
After watching your program, it helped me weed out a guy who turned out to be a player type.  It gave me such a
different way of looking at things, as I realized I would have been strung along, jumping to his tune.
 
 
There was a light bulb moment for me: I didn't need to please this man, I needed to raise the bar of what I want.
 
All I can say is WOW! I did the ‘bait text’ and OMG it worked. And then the ‘I really like it when…’ move, (ok I did
that one a few times) and hehehe, it is so powerful I can't believe it. It made a guy text me all day and night while
he was out at a rugby match/drinks after, with his friends, and after our first date he text me within minutes of
dropping me home.
 
Your tips on what not to do on a first date really worked as he said it was the best first date he has ever had :). We
have now been on date two within less than a week. This is such a turnaround for me - I can't believe this. I’m in
shock.
 
Nicola”
 
To Learn How You Can Do it, Too: For a total turnaround in your love life, watch all 4 parts of Attract Any Man. In
Part 1 – Foundations, you’ll learn, like Nicola, how to set your standards higher. In Part 2, I teach you the do’s and
don’ts of first dates. In Part 3, I reveal that foolproof texting trick Nicola refers to. And, no matter what – don’t miss
Part 4, where I reveal the magic phrase that can get your man to do almost anything you want.
 
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INSPIRATION STORY #5 “The Same Day I Watched Your Video, Two Guys Talked to Me”
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“Hey Matthew.
 
I haven't gone through all the videos yet but I've watched a few. I was so pumped up about what you were talking
about that I went out that exact same day and managed to get two guys to talk to me without having to do
anything.
 
Your videos are teaching me a lot more than just how to attract men - it's teaching me about confidence and life. In
fact, I even called up this guy I had been messing around with on and off for the last three years and I told him we
were done. He respected me for that and, can you believe it, I think he even likes me a bit more now because of it.
You're awesome and I can't wait to watch the rest of your videos.
 
Cheers,
 
Shiba”
 
To learn how you can do it, too: In Part 2 of Attract Any Man program , I’ll teach you the three ways to give a guy
license to approach you, the easiest way to initiate conversation with a guy, body language and eye contact 101,
plus how to master “the look” that intrigues men. Click Here for Your Instant Access
 
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INSPIRATION STORY #6 “The Best Investment I Have Ever Made in My Life.”
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“Hi Matthew Hussey :) 

 
I ordered your Attract Any Man program, and so far it has been the best investment I have ever made in my life. I
have been telling all my friends to order it as well, because I know that they would benefit from it too. 
 
It has truly made me excited about life again. I am so happy! I want to really enjoy every moment of life and seize
each day, and you really helped spark that in my life, and I couldn't thank you enough:) 
 
Vanessa”
 
To learn how you can do it, too: Seize the day. In Part 3 of Attract Any Man, I talk about how to reframe your
mindset to have the happiness you deserve…in love and in your whole life.
 
So, Laverne Millar, are you feeling INSPIRED?
 
Good.
 
Whether you’re
 
* not sure where to begin when it comes to meeting men
 
* insecure about your conversation skills
 
* frustrated by men’s mixed signals and confusing behavior
 
or
 
* experiencing problems with your current relationship…
 
You CAN have the love life you’ve always dreamed of, and I’ll help you get it…
 
Yes, Matt – Hand Me the Steps to Get the Man of My Dreams
 
Kind regards,
 
Matthew Hussey
 
P.S. When you become my next Inspiration Story, I want to hear all about it! Write me and let me know.

July 2, 2014
Do This One Thing and He’ll Call You – Guaranteed
Did you know that there are two simple reasons why a man won’t commit to a relationship… and three even
simpler things you can do to change his mind?

Tomorrow I’m going to send you an email all about it, so don’t miss it.

Now before commitment is even an option there’s something that needs to happen first…

He has to actually CALL you.

That’s what we’re talking about today.

So let’s say you've met a great guy and had an amazing conversation, you gave him your number and expected a
call, but he hasn't called... AT ALL.

Days go by and it looks like he's not getting in touch. Why do some guys do this?

Well there are a number of reasons, but what I want to teach you today is how to prevent it from happening in the
first place.
In fact, there is one simple yet surefire method to guarantee he will call you every time.

Are you ready for it?

Here is it is...

"Do This One Thing and He’ll Call - Guaranteed"

Give him something to look forward to

When you give a guy your number, ideally you want him to be checking every last digit because he can't wait to call
that amazing girl he met last night. So how do you make him look forward to calling?

The most important part of getting a guy to call you is to make your conversation beforehand as intriguing and fun
as possible. I actually walk you step-by-step through scenarios of each point in this presentation:

==>Must Watch: How to Get Him to Call You Every Time

1. Offer him an intriguing date

In a nutshell, you want to avoid the boring clichés of number exchanges. Don't offer him your number saying
something like "we should go for drinks sometime." It's obvious and it does nothing to build his intrigue in you as a
person.

What you ideally want to do is make sure you talk about something you're passionate about doing early in the
conversation. Or if you haven't been to the zoo in ages and really love it, mention that as well. Then when it comes
to exchanging numbers it's as easy as saying: "Ok, give me a call and we'll do that zoo trip."

2. Make him want to earn your time

Next time you're out and want to exchange numbers with a guy, try out this line: "Look, my friends are going to kill
me. We're supposed to be on a girls’ night tonight, I shouldn't even be talking to you right now.”

Any time you use a line like "We shouldn't be doing this," it builds the level of perceived challenge and makes him
want to be involved even more. He'll want to call you to earn more of your time.

3. Here's a great game you can play

Set silly rules for when he calls you.

Just before you give him your number, you can playfully say: "Ok, you should know though that I have a couple of
simple rules for giving out my number to new guys. You can't call me at midnight drunk telling me you can't wait to
see me, or text me asking for pictures. If that's cool with you then I'm happy to give it out, but I'm warning you."

Say this with a silly grin on your face and he'll see that you're teasing him. You might think this line comes off as
arrogant, but it doesn't if you say it with the right tone and facial expression. Guys like that you don't take the
number exchange really seriously and he'll look forward to calling you more.

4. Create a running joke

If you create a running joke it gives a guy an easy way to initiate conversation on the phone.
One great way of doing this is role-playing: For example, you might say early in conversation to a guy, "Me and my
friends were talking earlier about what superpower we would have. Mine's invisibility obviously; what would you
go for?"

Once he tells you, you can joke with him about how both of you would use your powers.

That way, when you swap numbers you can say: "Ok superman, call me up when you need some help fighting
crime".

Since a lot of guys worry about what to say on the phone, this gives him an easy, low-pressure way of calling you
up to initiate conversation.

Getting a guy to call you is just the first step. The most important step is building that connection and moving into a
relationship with your ideal guy. I show you just how to do that here:

How to Go From Calling to a Deep Connection

Kind regards,

Matthew Hussey

P.S. You are not going to want to miss tomorrow’s email coaching session… In it, I share six amazing inspiration
stories from women just like you who used my methods to find and keep the man of their dreams. And, what’s
more - I’ll tell you exactly how you can do it too…not in years or months, but days!

July 1, 2014

Learn the Secret to Becoming a Man Magnet

Imagine this: You’re sitting in a bar with your girlfriends, trying to muster up the courage to talk to a group of
attractive men.
Suddenly, the door swings open, and in walks a woman.

To be honest, she’s average looking…certainly not supermodel material. She’s dressed casually, in jeans and a
sweater. She’s not showing too much skin.

She sits down at the bar, smiles, and makes a joke as she orders a drink from the bartender.

Wait, what’s this?!?

One of the attractive men from the group you’ve been eyeing moves in to buy this mystery woman her drink. She
smiles broadly, and although you can’t hear what she says, they both laugh and she touches his arm playfully.

Before you know it, this woman is surrounded by the group of guys who now all seem to be vying for her attention.
It’s like she’s holding court.

What’s so special about this woman?

How does she seem to magnetically attract men to her so effortlessly?

No doubt you’ve seen something like this happen before, asked yourself these questions, and chalked it up to one
of love’s baffling mysteries.
Well I’m about to let you in on the secret...

I know why men are drawn to some women and not others.

Now let me ask you this: If you could get a guy to notice you within the first few seconds of meeting him just by
following one simple rule, would you do it?

Of course you would.

So here it is: CREATE IMMEDIATE IMPACT.

That's the golden rule. Women who make IMPACT in their first meeting with a guy have no problem getting men
dying to call them the next day.

So how do you create impact? Let's look at some basic ways you can do it when you're out with your friends.
  
Get Him to Notice You And Create Attraction Instantly:
  
1. The Look
  
One friend of mine who is the best girl I know at getting men to take notice of her has the following technique:
  
"Look at the guy from across the room. As his eyes make their way to yours, look away playfully and gradually
smile to yourself so he notices it, as if you've just been caught out. Guys love that little hint of shy vulnerability or
cheekiness."
  
And it's completely true; we melt when we catch someone looking over with that playfulness.
 
2. Try a bold move
  
I recommend this simple game that's really easy to help you get guys involved in your conversation.
When you and your friends spot a group of guys you want to meet, you all try and guess what their jobs are. Once
you've agreed, go over and tell them the jobs you guessed and ask if you were right.
 
This is a creative, fun way to get sociable and show a guy that you don't take yourself too seriously.
 
3. Win the group and you'll win the guy
  
Women who make IMPACT can hold court amongst groups of people.
  
If you spot a guy you like in a small group, be sure to introduce yourself to all of his friends as well.
When guys see that you are comfortable socially and can even joke with his friends, it's a massive bonus.
 
4. Be the social hub
  
If you want to really get into a mindset where you effortlessly make impact, you need to make it a habit to get
chatty with everyone, not just the guys you're attracted to.
  
This way you can be the person who introduces people to each other, which makes you seem more like the social
center of the room.
 
5. Connect, don't interview
  
Remember, what you are after is rapport, not an information exchange.
 
The boring old usual facts of exchanging personal details about where you're from, work, and age aren't going to
create impact.
 
So when you're chatting to the bartender, for example, think more creatively about how you can make him enjoy
your company more.
 
The easiest way to do this? - Give him a challenge. Order a cocktail and cheekily say: "Most bartenders are terrible
at making this drink properly. Think you're up for a challenge?"
 
When you do this, you go into a sociable frame of mind in which it's easy to make an impact on whoever you next
talk to. 
 
That's it. Just by sticking to this one rule – creating immediate impact -- guys will begin to notice you instantly and
feel a much deeper level of attraction for you.
 
I'm amazed at how quickly this works, and how simple it is... but I guess the simplest things just work, so give it a
try and see how empowered you feel.
 
Now you may be saying, “Ok Matt. I’ll try your tips to get noticed. But how do I get men to actually take my
number and ask me out?”
 
Good question.
 
In my video program, Attract Any Man, I reveal the subtle way you can influence a man’s thoughts to make him so
crazy about you he will have no choice but to pursue you.
 
In fact I cover everything – from finding an amazing man and creating uncontrollable attraction to sustaining an
amazing long term relationship.
 
Once you learn my secrets, you’ll realize that you, too, can be a man magnet – no matter what you look like, no
matter what your age is, and no matter what your dress size is.
 
Go ahead and click the link below to check out the video now as I'm not sure how much longer it's going to be
available.
 
Learn How to Become a Man Magnet Overnight

Kind regards,
 
Matthew Hussey
 
P.S. Sick of waiting by the phone for that guy to call? Did you know that there’s only ONE thing you need to do to
make sure he calls you every time? I reveal the secret in my next coaching email to you, so keep an eye out for it.

June 29, 2014

Does He Like Me or Not? 6 Fool-proof Clues
Have you ever been in a situation where you really like a guy but don't know if he feels the same about you or not?

Maybe you’re just friends or work colleagues, but you have great conversations every time you meet and feel as
though he would be perfect for you. You want to take things further, but just wish he would make the first move.

Well you're not alone. Here's how to find out if he does like you and what you can do to make him yours...

"Does He Like Me or Not?"

1. Do you catch him looking over?

Let me tell you the biggest secret about men: GUYS AREN'T THAT SUBTLE.

So many women I know have guys who like them all the time, but they dismiss it as "Oh, he's just being friendly."
Or "I'm not sure why he's looking over at me."

Trust me: guys who make frequent eye contact are attracted. If he's looking over a lot at your group then he's
dying for conversation.

2. Does he position himself near you?

Proximity is a key sign of initial attraction.

If a guy spots you across a crowded room and feels attracted to you, rest assured he'll make steps to position
himself near you. This is also an open invitation for conversation. He is trying to make it easier to talk to you, or
muster up the courage to say something.

Equally in bars and bookshops, guys will find ways to drift closer to girls they're attracted to, even if they don't
have the courage to strike up conversation.

3. Does he lean in during conversation?

When in conversation, notice how the guy moves his body. The best sign to look for is what body language experts
call “pecking.” Put simply, pecking is when a guy leans in closer to listen every time you speak.

Men tend to be more attentive to people we're attracted to; because we're interested in them we make a greater
effort to catch every part of what they are saying.

So try and be aware of how he leans his body towards you or moves in closer as you speak.

4. Does he offer information that you didn't ask for?

When you're in conversation with a guy, listen closely to see the information he offers.

If he starts dropping in any kind of boasts or achievements without you asking then it's a fair bet he is trying to
impress you. Guys do this to girls they are attracted to because it’s a form of showing off what they perceive to be
their best assets.

5. Does he try and re-initiate conversation?

Once you've built enough rapport with a guy, allow the conversation to lull and see if he re-initiates.mIf he tries to
start a new topic or move the conversation forward it's because he doesn't want you to leave. If he's not attracted
to you he'll probably excuse himself as soon as conversation runs dry.
6. Does he find excuses to touch you?

Guys will attempt to be more physical with women they're attracted to.
Notice if he tries to touch you playfully on the arm, if he grabs you cheekily from the waist, or even if he plays little
games like a thumb-war with you.

Men will always make excuses to have physical contact with the women they like, no matter how small it seems.

All this takes is an awareness of the signs. You won't believe how many women who completely fail to notice how
many men are attracted to them simply because they weren't aware of the signs.

So there you have it: Simple clues to decipher his behavior, right?

If you follow his cues and seize the opportunity to take things further, then you will get the guy you want. I've
spoken to women about this so many times and it always gets more complicated the longer you leave it, so get
moving.

If you're absolutely serious about this guy and for some reason just can't take things to the next level, then you
really need to check out my video program Attract Any Man. You would be amazed at the response it's been
getting from women in the same position as you.

I've had feedback from women who have been into a guy for well over a year if not longer and could never
understand why the he didn't approach them or if they were even attracted to them.

After seeing the video, it's a totally different story, they finally understand why guys act the way they do. So it
really will get you started.

Click here to find out how to take your relationship to the next level.

Kind regards,

Matthew Hussey

P.S. Ever wonder why men are magnetically attracted to some women and not others?
Have you noticed that these “man magnets” usually aren’t supermodel-beautiful or thin? So what do THEY have
that YOU don’t
I’ll reveal exactly what it is… and how YOU can get it… coming up soon. You can’t afford to miss it.