Latches - BDSM Checklist

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BDSM CHECKLIST

This checklist can be filled out by a Sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them.
This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common
ground for play. Dominants may wish to work through the checklist, to get a better handle on
their specific interests. Switches should go through the checklist twice; one persons Dom and
Sub interests may be very different.

For each item, you need to provide two answers:

Experience

Have you had real time experience with the activity?

Indicate YES or NO next to each item. Write N/A if it does not apply to your
gender.

Willingness

Are you willing/open to try an activity?

For each item, indicate the degree to which you are willing to try
that particular activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0-5 (see
rating scale below).

If you write "no", it means you will not do that item under any
circumstance (a hard limit). There is nothing wrong with
indicating 'no' on an item. However, if you write 'no' next to
every item, you should probably find another interest to
pursue.... like knitting or basket weaving. *grin*

If you do not understand what an activity is, mark that item with
a "?".

Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to
do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual
play partners

Rating Scale

Utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing


it (in fact, may loath it) and ordinarily would object to
0
doing it, but you would permit the Dominant to do it if
they really wanted it (sometimes called a soft limit)
Don’t want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn’t
1
object it if was asked of you
Willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for
2
you
Usually like doing this activity, at least on an
3
irregular/occasional basis
You like doing this activity and would like to experience
4
it on a regular basis
Is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as
5
possible

Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Dom to
know in the comments section.

There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the
sub is the recipient/target of the activity

Willingness
Experience
Activity Rate according to Comments
Respond YES/NO scale described
above

Abrasion

Age Play

Anal Sex

Anal Plugs (small)

Anal Plugs (large)

Anal Plug (public


under clothes)
Animal Roles

Arm & leg sleeves


(armbinders)

Aromas

Asphyxiation

Auctioned for charity

Ball Stretching

Bathroom use control

Beastiality

Beating (soft)

Beating (hard)

Blindfolding

Being Serviced
(sexual)

Being bitten

Breast/chest bondage

Breath control

Branding

Boot Worship

Bondage (light)

Bondage (heavy)

Bondage (multi-day)

Bondage (public under


clothing)

Breast whipping

Brown showers (scat)

Cages (locked inside)

Caning
Castration fantasy

Catheterization

Cattle prod (electrical


toy)

Cells/Closets (locked
inside of)

Chains

Chamber pot use

Chastity belts

Chauffeuring

Choking

Chores (domestic
service)

Clothespins

Cock rings/straps

Cock worship

Collars (worn in
private)

Collars (worn in
public)

Competitions (with
other subs)

Corsets (wearing
casually)

Corsets (trained waist


reduction)

Cuffs (leather)

Cuffs (metal)

Cutting

Diapers (wearing)
Diapers (wetting)

Diapers (soiling)

Dilation

Dildos

Double Penetration

Electricity

Enemas (for cleansing)

Enemas (
retention/punishment)

Enforced chastity

Erotic Dance (for


audience)

Examinations
(physical)

Exercise
(forced/required)

Exhibitionism (friends)

Exhibitionism
(strangers)

Eye contact
restrictions

Face Slapping

Fantasy Abandonment

Fantasy rape

Fantasy gang rape

Fear (being scared)

Fisting (anal)

Fisting (vaginal)

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