Latches - BDSM Checklist
Latches - BDSM Checklist
Latches - BDSM Checklist
This checklist can be filled out by a Sub and provided to their Dom/Top before playing with them.
This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common
ground for play. Dominants may wish to work through the checklist, to get a better handle on
their specific interests. Switches should go through the checklist twice; one persons Dom and
Sub interests may be very different.
Experience
Indicate YES or NO next to each item. Write N/A if it does not apply to your
gender.
Willingness
For each item, indicate the degree to which you are willing to try
that particular activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0-5 (see
rating scale below).
If you write "no", it means you will not do that item under any
circumstance (a hard limit). There is nothing wrong with
indicating 'no' on an item. However, if you write 'no' next to
every item, you should probably find another interest to
pursue.... like knitting or basket weaving. *grin*
If you do not understand what an activity is, mark that item with
a "?".
Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to
do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual
play partners
Rating Scale
Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Dom to
know in the comments section.
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the
sub is the recipient/target of the activity
Willingness
Experience
Activity Rate according to Comments
Respond YES/NO scale described
above
Abrasion
Age Play
Anal Sex
Aromas
Asphyxiation
Ball Stretching
Beastiality
Beating (soft)
Beating (hard)
Blindfolding
Being Serviced
(sexual)
Being bitten
Breast/chest bondage
Breath control
Branding
Boot Worship
Bondage (light)
Bondage (heavy)
Bondage (multi-day)
Breast whipping
Caning
Castration fantasy
Catheterization
Cells/Closets (locked
inside of)
Chains
Chastity belts
Chauffeuring
Choking
Chores (domestic
service)
Clothespins
Cock rings/straps
Cock worship
Collars (worn in
private)
Collars (worn in
public)
Competitions (with
other subs)
Corsets (wearing
casually)
Cuffs (leather)
Cuffs (metal)
Cutting
Diapers (wearing)
Diapers (wetting)
Diapers (soiling)
Dilation
Dildos
Double Penetration
Electricity
Enemas (
retention/punishment)
Enforced chastity
Examinations
(physical)
Exercise
(forced/required)
Exhibitionism (friends)
Exhibitionism
(strangers)
Eye contact
restrictions
Face Slapping
Fantasy Abandonment
Fantasy rape
Fisting (anal)
Fisting (vaginal)