Smooth Seduction Mastery 12 07 2020 PDF
Smooth Seduction Mastery 12 07 2020 PDF
Smooth Seduction Mastery 12 07 2020 PDF
MASTERY
SMOOTH
Published by the DHV Books Publishing
No. 25 Vinia Residences, EDSA, Quezon City DHV Books
Publishing
Second Book Edition Smooth Seduction Part 2
Step by Step Guide on How to Get a Girlfriend Online
Attract Her
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Copyright DHV Books Publishing, 2010 All rights reserved
Second Published in the Philippines as Smooth Seduction
Mastery by DHV Books Publishing
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This book is a guide on how to attract women. Characters and
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Acknowledgements ii
Foreword v
Introduction vii
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
First and foremost, I’d love to thank God!
Thank you…
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FOREWORD
Marco Mallari (Sir Yuri)
I can confidently say that right now that the pain and the
feeling of hopelessness are all in the past and if I was not
taken under his wing, maybe I’m still in that old paradigm
that I was once.
So, get ready because this book is the day your life will
change.
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AFRI-MAICAN ECSTACY
BY SMOOTH
Bars and clubs here are very loud. That’s not new. You
need to take care of your ears though, which is why I did
what I just did. This is my way of taking care of my ears.
As I went out of the bathroom, I scanned the crowd.
There are a couple of Filipinos and Brazilians. I started
looking for a woman to approach and when someone
caught my eye, I approached them.
The model’s eyes started lighting up. It was like she was
amazed and excited at the same time.
“I like you.” She said back. She then let her hands move
to my arms. Sliding it up and down.
We got inside the cab and I can already tell she is flirting
with me. She started touching my ear, neck and the back
of my head. Man, I hope this is good.
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“This is not my unit. It’s just my secret unit for the drugs.”
I told her convincingly.
It’s been 2 minutes since I told her I was looking for it.
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“Your tablet is really strong. Where did you get it?” she
said for a moment but still continued kissing me after.
CHAPTER 1
EVERYTHING ABOUT HER?
WOMEN
Women look at sex very differently than men and you can
see it in what women prioritize in finding a partner. If you
are treating a woman like they are just a male friend or a
colleague, you are using an ineffective way to
understand them, if you are interested in being their
partner.
HER APPROVAL
HER PERSPECTIVE
There are men who are attracted to women and men who
aren’t.
ATTRACTIVE MEN
Looking for good genes and finding a man that will stay
and take care of kids can sound conflicting.
They find that middle ground and that is one strategy they
can work for. It may not sound like an optimal strategy for
women, but it is workable.
Does this mean that all women cheat? Don’t worry this
does not mean that all would cheat and all women are
cheaters. Women tend to cheat when it becomes
desirable to her.
The best case here is that when the date started, you
didn’t try to be perfect. You made mistakes a few times
then did amazing things and then made another few
mistakes again. Now, she is going to perceive you as a
real and honest person because you are showing a few
flaws.
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Now, I’m not saying you should objectify women but what
I’m advising you is to label women’s numbers and
probably add some descriptions as well.
Now for the label of low value women, on the other hand,
you don’t need to put that label that much. In fact, if she
is of low value, you wouldn’t need to even save her
number. However, low value women are preferable
connections for they could have higher value women that
you can know, therefore expanding your connections and
your chances of getting a high value woman.
1. SADNESS
2. ANXIOUS
3. AWE
4. ANGER
Take note that this is out of context and that it’s weird.
Now, what you have to do is carefully assess the
situation and see to it if she really meant what she said.
LEAVING MY FAMILY
I sit up, removing her top after she removes mine. That’s
when I felt her lick my nipples. DAMN. It felt nice and it
sent butterflies to my stomach. Her kisses went down till
she reached my pants. I heard the unzipping of my jeans
and that’s when she cupped me. It feels really good so I
grab her face and kiss her again.
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I was wrong for judging him, this guy knew his stuff. He
not only understood women, he’s the real deal – a dating
& relationship coach.
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But this one girl that I really like is from Cavite. It’s too far.
It will be easy for me if I have a car but at that time, I didn’t
have one. Too bad, right? But since this girl already
agreed to meet me, I’m thinking that this girl might have
a second guess if I will not push through. So I made up
my mind to do this. I knew that there are the possibilities
that this girl might not show up but I’m willing to take a
risk.
MY MINDSET
Since this is my first time doing this, I won’t take the risk
without plan B. So what I did is I met my old set first (this
is my set where I lay in a fire exit) and I’m planning to go
with her in a motel room but I don’t have enough money
plus I’m going to Cavite also. But I really want to lay her
again so this is what I did, I told her that since we started
in a fire exit, why not we try in a public comfort room and
she agreed. I told her that she will go first and I will just
follow her. Since her buying temperature is already up, I
did not waste time and we did it right away. And the rest
is history.
she doesn’t, that’s fine also. I already have 1 lay. I’m not
that needy. So, now my mindset is I don’t give a fuck.
PLANNING STAGE
It's hard to go to war without a plan. For sure, you will not
learn, and most importantly you will not win. I already
have a plan in my mind. If she shows up, I will create an
attraction right away through my DHV story. I will meet
her in a convenience store and I will do that there. I plan
to bounce her to a restaurant where we can eat and drink
beer. And from there, I will isolate her. I don’t know how
but I’m very confident with my game, I just need to meet
her.
THE MEET UP
I traveled for almost 2 hours. I fell asleep inside the bus.
I’m worried that she might not show up. But if not, at least
I slept already and will go back to Manila right away. So,
I texted her that I’m near already in our meeting place
even though I know that it’s still far. I just want to know if
she will respond. She responded. After 30 minutes, I
texted her that I’m already in our meeting place. I told her
that she needs to go there now.
ISOLATION
Maybe, some of you are asking, why I continue to pull
her even though she is not throwing a lot of IOI. I cannot
even touch her hand. Why?
Here’s why.
THE ESCALATION
Since I’m kissing her already, I’m doing the 5-10-15 so
that I can escalate her. I decided to take a shower. After
that, I saw that she turned off some of the lights. Well,
that shows she wanted to do it when the lights are off. So
what I did is I freeze out, I just watched tv and I’m not
trying to escalate her. I told her that I’ll be sleeping in 15
minutes so she needs to lay in our bed already and she
did comply. This is it. Once she’s in bed already, I’m not
doing anything. I just held her hand and started kissing it.
And when she’s moaning already when I’m licking her
neck, that's the time I turn off the lights. AND THE REST
IS HISTORY.
CHAPTER 2
KNOW THYSELF
REAL OR FAKE
You might be wondering why there are not many IOI and
IOD lessons when in fact it is important. IOIs are crucial,
but for now, it’s time we dwell on another topic.
Note that using the natural style game isn’t always good.
The problem is when you are being yourself, it seems like
you don’t open yourself to growth. You don’t open
yourself up on going to the next level because that level
requires you to monitor yourself, monitor your partner,
monitor your progress, and be a little analytical.
While you were too busy thinking about how bad you
might have done, the woman you just engaged with is not
just staring at a man with a blank face. You seem like
you’re thinking too deeply. That’s bad for your game.
Avoid trying to get too much in your head. This will ruin
your game.
I know it is hard to try and not get into your head too much
but there is actually a way how to.
SOCIAL ACCOUNT
With a stranger, how would you feel? You’d think that this
guy has done nothing for me, I don't know him and the
first thing that he is doing is asking something from me.
When people ask for things from you then that makes
you uncomfortable. It’s kind of the same thing when you
meet a girl.
Saying yes gets easier with time and practice. The more
you let her say it, the more she learns, the wider her
comfort level expands and the more she counts on you.
When you get her to say yes in dating you, then you will
need to maintain this yes ladder.
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SOCIAL CAPITAL
What I want to very briefly talk about now is the word “no”
and how it affects the social capital.
When you hear the word “no” then that is probably the
biggest thing you can have that destroys your social
capital.
When thinking about what the word “no” means, the first
thing that comes to your mind is non-compliance.
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III. Blurt
CONVEY VALUE
Even beyond that, if you can convey a life that she wants
to be a part of, she's going to text you back.
BEHAVIORS
Hey guys! XjA here and I'm a 1-on-1 boot camp student
of Smooth. To be completely honest, it's really great and
exciting to hang out and game with the PUA Academy
instructors and of course with Smooth himself. I learned
a lot about pickup and also in different aspects of life.
MY STORY
Well, I was just enjoying and being playful during our chat
conversation. I joke around, do DHV stories, make her
qualify, and even tell her to reject me because I am a
boring type of person (This is a good line if you know your
girl is somehow attracted to you.) After she gave me
indicators of interests, I immediately went for the number
close so that I can build more attraction and comfort, and
schedule our date.
THE DATE
After eating, I decided this time to lead and go for the pull.
I told her "Let's go watch Beauty and the Beast, you really
have to see how beautiful this movie is, then you can go
home after, only if you promise me that you won't make
noises or touch any of my things."
I did not wait for any reaction from her, I just led hard and
we rode the taxi right away while holding her hand and
continuously talking about things just to keep her mind
preoccupied.
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THE ESCALATION
THE LAY
After giving her a short drama, I freeze out again and this
time she's the one who hugged me back. I rewarded her
by telling jokes and funny stories to spike her emotions. I
went for the make out again, tried to escalate again, no
resistance this time. And the rest is history.
AFTERMATH
It’s a Saturday night and it’s our Super Camp event. Our
attendees were really happy and satisfied. We heard that
HYDRO, a rave, is happening in Angeles, Pampanga. It's
a big event that’s why we always go there.
APPROACH
When we are about to get inside, we find out that there
is NO RE-ENTRY. It means we can’t pull a set in our car.
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“You are now the third wheel. I can’t allow that. Hi, I’m
Philip. You are?”
How to know if you can pull a girl? Here are the logistical
questions that I used.
ESCALATION
I and Smooth went out for 2 months straight already and
I saw him pull a lot of sets in a CR and in a parking lot.
So I’m asking myself, what is he doing that I’m not doing
and other men are not doing.
In a club where the music is so high, it's hard for you and
the girl to understand each other. Plus, it's hard if you are
using your routine to escalate. Based on my observation
with Smooth’s game, he is doing a lot of kino. There are
certain parts of the body that you need to touch for you
to escalate and it will not look like that you are just
‘fuckboy’. That’s what I have been teaching in 1-on-1
bootcamp.
BACK TO APPROACHING
So I have 1 in the books waiting for me but I need more
so that I can maximize the money that I paid. HAHAHA.
I and my colleagues continued to dance and to talk to a
lot of girls. I challenged myself to open the most
gorgeous and beautiful girls that I will see. And I do that,
here’s the opener that I used.
Hey, I didn’t know that all the people here are all wet…
What the fuck is going on?
All the people here are having fun, what’s going on with
you?
Pull
It’s already 2am, I can pull her now. But when I texted
her, she told me that she is not free now. Her friend will
find her. She’s having LMR so what I did is, it’s fine I will
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just bring you back your jacket, let’s meet outside the
venue. I let her wait for 5 minutes (investment of time).
Then I told her
“Ow shit. I missed you. You know what? I’ve met a lot of
girls but you are the only one that I wanted to be with.
What have you done to me? Let’s get your jacket in our
car” Boom while we are walking I’m telling whatever story
that I can tell her to maintain her buying temperature.
We got inside the car and the rest is history.
Take note: We’re still texting each other and we will see
each other again. She will go here to Manila.
CHAPTER 3
ONLINE GAME
“One good thing about online dating,
you’re guaranteed to click with whomever
you meet.
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ART OF DATING
SOCIAL MEDIA
The final point I want to make about getting a girl chasing
and investing in the messaging game is that social media
is a tool.
Why is that?
The thing with texting via cell number is that it seems like
you are saying “Please look at this text”. But when you
pop-up via notifications on social media, she’s just going
to treat that as something she saw by accident.
Any cool stuff she finds out about you that is through
social media is not bragging or not trying hard, no
agenda.
If the girl really likes you, then you may get away with it
but it just kind of feels like there's nothing being offered
back .
BELIEFS VS EMOTIONS
Now, I know this can get very confusing but for you to
understand it clearer, I will be giving you an equation.
Why is that?
Beliefs are known to stick for a long time and mostly you
are basing off your judgment and at times how you react
to things from your beliefs.
Not only will this help you get a woman but this will also
boost your self-esteem that some people think can only
be acquired through emotions.
1. Social Proof
2. Physical Health
THE IMPORTANCE OF
ABUNDANCE
The best way to get any one particular girl out of a date
via text is probably to text a lot of girls at the same time.
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If you have one girl in your phone that you're texting then
you’re going to do these things. Whenever you receive
her text messages, you're going to notice it and you're
going to be on top of it. You’re going to be focused and
you're going to text back right away. You might write texts
that are a bit too long to invest in that kind of stuff
whereas if you have a whole bunch of girls that you are
texting then you may even kind of forget about any one
particular.
PATIENCE
If you don't give the girl time to experience you then she
will be seeing you as someone who is rushing or pushing
her. She's going to wonder why you're so pushy. She will
be questioning if you do not enjoy the interaction with her
or if you do not have anything else going on in your life.
want to cut straight to the chase and ask the girl out on
the first text instead.
Another one is when the girl is all positive in text and men
try to grab the opportunity to transmit that, let's go grab a
drink at 7:00 on Tuesday.
It’s all too much and it’s all too fast. It should be a gradual
build and should be developing in displaying your
personality.
Kind of getting to know the girl and letting her get to know
you through the text is a better way than rushing things.
If you go too fast and hear the word “no” then that's the
thing that is going to slow you down.
The final easy thing that you can do to make a text game
go tremendously smoother is to establish the premise
that you're going to hang out before you even get the
number.
Are you friends, are you romantic? What's this all about?
If she's not sure about that or she's not sure about your
intentions then that's one more topic you need to address
in text.
Do your work while you have the ability to see her and
her reaction because she can see your actions and also
at that moment when she's feeling really good about the
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WHAT IS CALIBRATION
CREATING ATTRACTION
For most guys that I've seen in the field whether the girl
likes them or not, it seems to come down to a bit of
chance.
Imagine this scenario: Boy meets girl then boy loses girl.
Boys get girls a lot of times and then two people are put
in a situation where they have conflicts. If they’re in
conflicting companies or conflicting sports teams, usually
they end up in an accident early on and it creates hatred
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FRAME GAMES
that the only way to get social approval from you is to not
be sexual.
You may or not have any perspective, but if your end goal
is to have sex with the girl and you’re putting her in a
frame where having sex is a negative thing, it’s not going
to happen.
Many guys tried to pick up girls and sleep with them and
they're coming at them with these judgmental frames and
lecturing them. An example of this is a man lecturing a
woman that she shouldn't drink or she should do other
fun things, which is contrary to his end goal.
Challenge her
Texts have been our topic for the previous videos and
still, we’re at it. There’s still a lot to discuss about it so
let’s get straight to it.
Simple as that.
There's basically four texts you can send and it all has to
do with social capital.
Third, if you have a little more social capital, she'll still ask
you questions and she'll have logical conversations with
you. There won’t be a lot of emotional exchange. There
will be a lot of positives, but she’ll still ask questions.
She’ll be curious and will exchange information.
SILENCE
SHIT TEST
What you need to do when you get a shit test is just pass
the shit test.
Don’t try and pass the shit test and then make plans.
Also, don't pass the shit test and then ask questions that
will almost always go wrong because you lose all the
power and impact of having passed the shit test.
The other thing you can do, which is actually the best
thing to do in a text game, is whatever shit test she gave
you, treat it as though it is actually a compliment, reframe
it, rephrase it in such a way.
Think of it like this. The girl is totally into you and could
never say anything negative and then she said
something negative, how would I interpret it in that
context?
I want you to think that when you get a shit test, you
should recognize the shit test as a good thing.
Silence is bad.
Shit test means she hasn't decided to sleep with you yet
but you're in the right category and she's considering it.
can out of it. Don't justify yourself whether you have to.
Don't ask questions and do not try to escalate a shit test.
LOGICAL OR QUESTION
The core idea of logic is to create a system in which
communication is clear, precise, and unambiguous. It is
the goal of any form of communication.
answer, you lose all the tension and you lose all the fun
in the interaction.
The key thing you want to do here is that you answer the
questions and deal with the logical contents, but at the
same time you make sure to keep a flirty fun vibe.
POSITIVE MESSAGING
THIRD MISTAKE:
Guys will then start giving them shit tests and ask her
to comply and qualify with a lot of things.
FOURTH MISTAKE:
Men start sexting like crazy and start trying to get the
girl some naked pictures and stuff.
For example, you're making plans with a girl and she kind
of agreed to the plans. You're setting up the actual date
and time, and then suddenly she goes silent.
For example, you say to a girl that you should hang out
soon and she agrees. You planned everything, from the
date, the time and the place. It’s all good and it’s going
great.
Then the night before you go out with her, you text her
the time you’re supposed to go out but she doesn't
respond.
Most guys in text are way too nice, way too polite, and
way too complimentary.
Well, you need to give her shit test sometimes. You need
to challenge her.
Let's face it. One way or another we've all sent that
terrible, needy, awful text that ruins a good interaction.
It’s such a mind fuck because it's very difficult for one text
message to completely impress her, make her hang out
with you, and sleep with you right away. On the other
hand, it is very easy for one bad text message to
completely turn her off.
You need to be very careful and avoid that bad text since
that will lead to a frame wherein you’re trying too much.
REFRAME TEXT
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I'm with my Davao PUA crew, Azlan, Yoda, Tank and the
others. At first, we are doubtful of Smooth’s game, we're
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She invited me inside her place and I can tell with all
books on her shelves that she’s intelligent. I asked her if
she has a phone charger because my phone’s battery
started to get empty. I sat on her bed, because it’s near
in the electric socket, then she also sat beside me.
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Imagine, the man, the myth, the legend, and the season
veteran in this kind of art talking to me one on one. He
gives me some pointers before we proceed to the venue.
As we entered the club, I told him “Man, I’m having AA”
he said “Hahaha! It’s ok just follow the things I’ll instruct
you to do”
“See that 3 set. Open them. Ask them if they have lighter”
He said. So off I go… I opened the set. Kinda nervous
but I’m kinda wondering why my mouth won’t stop
talking. Smooth went to me and said “C'mon let’s go! The
one you’re talking to is a gay. Hahaha! I just wanna know
if you’ll comply with me”. Such an asshole right? Haha!
you’ll use and I guarantee you that it would give you the
best result you’re looking for.
TEXT GAME
We exchanged messages the next day through
Facebook messenger. Too bad, she is about to go to La
Union. She will be staying there for 4 days. Thanks to
The Cure as I know now how to create an instant
attraction on Facebook and on chat. I just did my usual
routine when I’m chatting with her. Think of a topic that
will interest you and her. In our case, we are both
watching the movie series “Game of Thrones”. That
could be one of my pulling lines.
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1. Take care.
3. Good morning.
DAY 2
Finally, she’s in Manila now. After 4 days of waiting for
her, finally, she’s her (as if I’m really waiting.) Now, I need
to think of a reason for us to see each other. Like I said
earlier, we are both watching Game of Thrones. So it can
be the reason for us to see each other. I told her that we
need to watch the latest GOT episode and she’s okay
with that. This is it.
THE OBSTACLE
I already set day 3 and we agreed. The next day, I
chatted with her. She seenzoned me a couple of times. I
don’t know why but I have a feeling that something came
up. And yes, one of her friends told her that I am a Pick
Up Artist.
DAY 3
It’s the birthday celebration of my Master, Smooth. We
had lots of drinks and food. That’s the first time I saw
Smooth got drunk. At around 1 am, we planned to go out
but we got lazy. So I texted some of my set and yes, I
texted her. I asked her if she’s free. She was also drinking
with her friends at that time. I told her to drop by at our
place and she agreed.
So. she’s thinking that this is not a one night stand. That’s
what she needs to hear because she doesn’t want to look
like a slut. That’s it. She kept asking me if I want to have
sex with her. Boom. I was shocked that she told me that
let’s do it
CHAPTER 4
PHILOSOPHY
“You don’t learn how to walk by following
rules.
You learn by doing and by falling over.”
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SOCIAL PROOF
That's what social proof can do for you. You can build a
circle of friends and you may not get laid the first day. But
when you're going on about making a lot of friends, then
when you plant those seeds and, in a month, or two or
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They will now look at you and see if you are living a cool
life. That's one more way that you can impress them
without trying hard.
I'm going to claim that you can convey social proof even
when someone has never met you and there's nobody
around. That sounds crazy right but how can it be social
in that case? There are no social media and there are no
friends around?
Your level frame can work with some girls but with the
highest caliber girls, it's not going to work. You should be
very conscious about what you are implying. Social proof
is what you are implying to the girl about your life, your
actions, your tone of voice in the words you used.
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OUTCOME DEPENDENT
WORK ON LEADS
Don’t just rank them and keep texting the Top 1 prospect.
Text them all. Because as time passes by, you will find
that some of the women you rank will change rankings,
from Top 1 to Top 4 for example.
But it’s also just the beginning. Once you’ve got that
number in hand, you have to figure out what to actually
text the person, when, and how often.
There are do’s and don’ts in waiting how long to text and
I think this is something very important to remember
when texting or texting back a girl.
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It looks like you’ve been staring at the phone all day long
wondering whether or not you’re going to text her. At 6:55
she’s probably just walked in the door. Maybe she’s
working late. 7:00 tells her you’ve stood there all day
long, neurotic, compulsive, and uncomfortable waiting for
the “right time” to text her.
careful in texting her at the right time and giving off the
right perspective.
CALLING TO CONFIRM
When she tells you that she will just confirm your date via
call, it’s like you stand or kneel in front of her waiting and
begging for her to finally confirm the date. That sucks and
that is terrible for your game.
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SETTING DAY 2
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Student in life,
JT.
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TANK BOOTCAMP
When I first heard that a direct student of Mystery will be
conducting a free seminar in our city, I was really excited!
He held a seminar and I learned a lot of things. When he
offered bootcamp, I didn’t need a second thought and
quickly enrolled.
Good thing I’m just near the area and I was like "Am I
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He sounds sick tho. I thought I was like “Is this the guy
with a lot of girls?” He’s coughing and stuff. But I was like,
it doesn't matter I’m going to learn his ways anyway.
So, there was the montage with Smooth and girls. I’m
hooked. So, I said I wanna learn this. Even my friend who
I invited to come was not really interested. He’s like he
has his own ways to attract girls. So, I was like “okay, I’ll
continue anyway. If you’re not coming to train with me it’s
fine”.
It was time to hit the club, which I’m not used to as well
because I’m a church boy. I don’t go out to chill or even
go to a bar now and this. It’s out of my comfort zone dude.
I got rejected but it did not stop me. I can see small
progress in me and I know it. I’d like to do this for the rest
of my life.
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FIRST TASTE
So, I jump out the bus and enter the mall to find my
friends.
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The mall is jam packed. Hot girls left and right. We start
approaching. We started approaching fashion stores. We
went to places where hot girls love to shop.
I see her big smile but she's quite busy with all the
shopping. Get her logistics. She works as a fitness
instructor from Singapore and flies back here to manage
their family business.
She knows Elon Musk and Steve Jobs. Most of the time,
I ask girls if they know Elon Musk or Steve Jobs so I’d
know how to talk to them. If they know Steve Jobs but not
Elon Musk, I can talk to them about slightly deeper
things. If they know both Jobs and Musk, I can talk to
them about deep and intellectual things. If she doesn’t
know both, then I’ll just talk about shallow things.
After she talks about her life and her family. I build more
connections by talking about my family and how we are
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THE PULL
THE ESCALATION
THE LAY
I'm done. She is sleeping in the bed. It's funny how girls
pretend to be drunk in seduction place. I saw this so
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AFTERMATH
CHAPTER 5
MESSAGING
“The greatest relationships are the ones
you never expected to be in.”
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Too many guys fail when they try to text with girls. This
won’t keep her interested and will end up getting you
ghosted sooner than you think.
It’s really common sense, but a lot of guys don’t do it. The
first text you send a girl should meet the following criteria:
● It should evoke emotion
● It should be original
● It should capture her attention
● It should be short
It does help to keep in mind that when you text a girl for
the first time, you’ll make a mistake. Don’t say something
overtly sexual, or too outlandish—it’ll just make her think
that you’re weird.
REAL INTERACTION
There are very few specific things that you can do that
will make the interaction extremely better.
I’ll show you exactly what those steps are that can get
things started on favorable terms and make everything
else you do so much easier.
QUALIFY
Most of the time when people are searching for who they
want to sleep with or be in a relationship with, they look
for qualifications.
If she feels like you would pick up any girl and treat them
all the same when you're just in it for sex, then she's not
going to feel very comfortable and safe.
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If she feels like she’s special and she’s won you over,
she's going to feel like there's a connection there, she's
going to feel like there's a lot of good possibilities there
and it also kind of makes you seem more high value in a
sense that you have standards and she had to win you
over.
The fact that I care and have standards, says that I'm a
high value guy but then the fact that she answered, says
she's investing in the conversation and she cares as well.
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Girls do like sex. Very much. But the way girls have sex
isn't so much like the “I'm turned on let me have sex”.
They kind of want to have a process and they want to
have an experience leading up to sex and part of that
experience is building a connection, having a genuine
positive interaction with a guy.
So, the more that you convey that there's something
special in the interaction, there’s a genuine-ness or
positivity then the better you're going to be.
Again, qualify the girl and that again means show her the
reasons why you like her. That commitment and
investment actually matters as well.
ROLE REVERSAL
One final way that you can actually convey social proof,
without people around, is what I call “Role Reversal”.
than you chasing the girl. So, if you are able to create a
scenario where she's consistently chasing you, she will
look in that scenario and realize that she's behaving with
you with the way she does around high value people.
If you ever see another person’s game and you see him
disqualify a woman and pushing girls away, it would
seem that he’s a little bit aloof.
SAMPLE SOLID 1
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THE APPROACH
It was Friday and we have a 1-on-1 and Immersion
bootcamp. After our intensive lesson and infield, we had
a chance to game in the club, and while I was talking to
some girls inside the club I saw this adorable girl walking
alone towards the exit. I approached her immediately,
used a direct opener and calibrated my body language
so that I won't show too much interest and she won't freak
out. After doing some disqualifications and getting IOIs
from her, I bounced her outside the club to isolate, know
her logistics and to know if I can pull her or not. After 15
minutes of fun conversation her friends came and
dragged her away, good thing I got her number and just
scheduled for our day 2 instead.
THE DATE
After 2 days of texting and calling, I scheduled for Day 2
to maintain the attraction. We met at a coffee shop near
my place. I used DHV lines, routines from Smooth
Seduction, and gave jokes to make her laugh and to
make the attraction more solid.
THE ESCALATION
AFTERMATH
King
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CHAPTER 6
GAMBITS AND
TECHNIQUES
“Art is an evolution of techniques and
materials
from past to present and we can’t stop
learning.”
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DRAMA
As we all know, drama is a mode of fictional
representation through dialogue and performance. In
simple words, a drama is a composition in verse or prose
presenting a story in pantomime or dialogue. It contains
conflict of characters, particularly the ones who perform
in front of an audience on the stage.
PLOTLINES
I’m going to get a little more practical with the idea of plot
lines and I will give you some specific plot lines that I use
on a regular basis.
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It's a classic negative type of thing. I'll just tease the girl.
I’ll start acting like she will never get in my pants by
talking like that. I’ll act like I won’t be kissing her for the
night.
Over the course of time, she will try and win you over by
impressing you with things. What you’re going to do now
is let her win you over. Act as if she’s slowly winning you
over.
Try and make her feel special as if you are now doing
things with her that you usually weren't doing with other
women before.
Now this is something that is interesting. You’ve got Plot
Line 1 and Plot Line 2.
For Plot Line 3 you are just going to combine these two
and make more drama out of it for better results.
SAMPLE NEGS
You and I aren’t gonna get along.
I hate you.
SAMPLE FLIRT
What did you come over here just to flirt with me? What
else do you like about me?
You’re trouble.
SAMPLE ROLEPLAY
Now, are you just making shit up as you go along?
Let's play a game. Let's see how long you can hold your
breath.
SAMPLE BANTER
TIPS ON FLIRTING
Show that you don’t really care if she walks away from
you.
Role-play together.
ACTIVE IOIS
She giggles.
COLD READ
Observe her.
Listen closely.
If she has more guy friends in the group that means she
is a tester, which means she will respond a lot to teasing
and she needs to chase you at all times or she'll lose
interest fast.
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You know you're actually quite tense. I bet you're the kind
of person that finds it difficult to really let go and relax.
more attraction and will also help you isolate your target
so make sure that your wingman is also socially
calibrated and savvy.
After that night, I rested. When I woke up, I texted all the
numbers I got from Hydro. A lot of them replied but one
girl caught my attention, and she's the one me and Philip
approached.
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THE CHALLENGE
A lot of guys make distance and their place as an excuse
not to close a girl. It's either the girl is too far or they have
logistics problems, so I challenged myself to make her go
to my place by building attraction and comfort through
text and call.
THE DATE
Well, our date was not different from my past reports. Our
connection and conversation was man to woman. I
always lead and we bounced to different places for me to
build more comfort and so that we could spend more time
together. When I observed that she's already complying
and she's comfortable with me, I went for the pull. Since
she likes korean drama, I used my korean routine to pull
her. Annyeong-haseyo!!?????
Since I booked two dates for the day I am fine with letting
this go. It’s 10PM so I grab her a taxi so I can meet up
with the next girl I chatted with on Facebook. After my
first girl went home. I texted my second girl.
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I told her to hug me. She hugs me. I told her to kiss me
and she did.
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By this time, she was for sure all wet and ready for my
StarLord. I played some music since the internet is slow
while we lay in bed. I figured to try the massage routine
to escalate physically and start then foreplay. You want
to do this baby step so that your girl won’t feel harassed
or it feels too fast but instead it’s a step by step with a
smooth transition from mid kino to heavy kino.
Meanwhile, I do more fantasy role play.
For instance, you can let your leg brush against hers, or
gently tap her thigh while making a point, to see if she
would be comfortable with longer kino on her legs.
CHAPTER 7
COMFORT
“Forever is a long time;
but I wouldn’t mind spending it by your
side.”
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BUILDING COMFORT
Calibration refers to the act of evaluating and adjusting
the precision and accuracy of measurement equipment.
Instrument calibration is intended to eliminate or reduce
bias in an instrument's readings over a range for all
continuous values.
You have value on one side and the other part of the
model is comfort.
The longer you spend time with a girl the more she does
believe that you're willing to spend more time with her.
The more it seems like you're willing to invest and the
more you are willing to stick around and spend more time
once she has a child.
The better the plot line between you and her, the more
plausible it is that you'll stick around.
If you just like her because she's attractive and there are
a lot of attractive girls in the world, she's going to believe
that you would just leave her for the next attractive girl.
You have to think about what every girl really wants deep
down.
She wants a guy who she really doesn't deserve. The guy
who could cheat on her but for whatever reason, she is
sure she can trust that he won't. That's every girl’s ideal.
You need to get the glasses kind of filled to the right level
for that particular girl. However, it doesn't really matter if
you overfill the glasses. If you have too much value that's
not a bad thing too much comfort is not a bad thing per
se.
The end state doesn't matter for you just have to fill the
glasses, but how you fill up these glasses matter.
Here’s why.
Now going back to the middle box, you can definitely still
have a lot of success because you're in the right place
and the gradient. The problem is this. The girl doesn't
know how to categorize you and she'll act very differently
and sleep with under different conditions: the lover
versus the provider. When you're in this middle box,
she's definitely thinking of sleeping with you and she's
definitely interested in sleeping with you, but unless she
can put you in one or the other of the lover or provider
boxes, she is going to have a hard time because she can
be confused on how to react to the proper way.
But I got hooked with this group. They are not just
teaching guys to attract women. They also teach self-
development that helped me to move on from my ex-
girlfriend and to have a long lasting relationship with a
partner.
What is my dream?
What if this will be your last day in the world? What will
you do? Raise your standards! We are born to be Alpha!
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I saw this girl for me, this is HB 8 or 8.5. She was with
her friends, they were three. She is the prettiest among
the group. I opened them indirectly.
It's 2am already and I need to text all the numbers I got.
Looking at how many of them are hooked. Good thing,
my hb 8 set replied to me. I’m so happy.
But I need to move on. it's just 2:30am, there’s still a lot
of girls. Then I saw Smooth, so what I did I wing Smooth.
Good thing, it’s a girl also. So I told her it's okay, let's eat
instead. But at the back of my mind- yes, I can lay this
girl. While we were eating, I created an attraction and
built comfort at the same time. I knew that it needed to
be fast.
After that, I saw the HB 8 girl again. And that time, she
was with someone else. They were so sweet. They were
holding hands. Maybe some of you will ask how I feel at
that time? I invested time, money and effort and I will see
her with someone else, I felt so down at that time. But
after 2 minutes, I let it go. What did I learn from this
scenario?
Since Jex and King knew that I can lay this girl, what they
did is they went out of the room together with the 2 girls.
So my set and I are in an isolated place. YES!
But I also knew that the attraction and comfort are not
enough so that’s what I need to do-my LMR routine. Man,
it’s so hard. I’m about to give up. She doesn't want to. But
now, I need to push myself. While doing my LMR
routines. Finally, she said:
Learnings:
CHAPTER 8
CONVERSATION
“One good conversation can shift the
direction of change forever.”
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Let’s say you made tentative plans with a girl for a couple
days off and she says it sounds great. You don't have to
reply back.
Leave it there.
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Another context is when the girl is really into you but you
won't be able to hang out with her for a few days and you
can't get on the phone for whatever reason.
A lot of times it's good to leave it that she texted last and
you didn't text back.
When you talk to the girl and you don't get a response,
you’ll start questioning yourself if you did something
wrong. Did you mess it up? The more you overthink
about that no response from her, the more you start to
fall in love with her. The longer she doesn't text you back
the stronger your emotions get.
If they text you back and you don't respond they will go
crazy for you.
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HER RESPONSE
Let’s now move away from it for a while and focus first on
what has been the woman’s response ever since.
Make the most out of the information you get when she
responds positively. This will help you make her happy
and get a positive result most of the time.
You can actually use this fact and use this to your
advantage.
For example, when she texts you that she has achieved
something then tell her she deserves a high five for
achieving that.
Or when she texts you that she’s sad, tell her that you
would hug her if you were there. Something like that.
Try and match how she texts. When she uses an emoji,
use one too once in a while. When she uses proper
punctuation then do the same.
NONSENSE TEXTS
The scenario is that you are texting back and forth and
it's really good but then you need to go. But after a while
of more texting, she then said she also needs to go. What
she did afterwards is say good night. At that point texting
good night back or texting a follow up has no purpose
because she's already in bed. You're not meeting up with
her that day, she already ended the conversation and it's
already super positive.
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If you texted back after she has said good night, it’s not
going to achieve anything. All it can achieve is make you
look needy and it might possibly ruin something (or
maybe not), it is not achieving anything, and it is not
making the situation better.
The more text you send and the more you just get
convoluted, the more opportunity you have to make
mistakes.
this and then when she responds to that then I’ll leave in
silence”.
CLOSING
Closing sequence, closing credits, or end credits are lists
of the cast and crew of a particular motion picture,
television program, or video game.
A full set of credits can include the cast and crew, but
also production sponsors, distribution companies, works
of music licensed or written for the work, various legal
disclaimers, such as copyright and more.
What I mean is not what that one text you sent her to ask
her out on a date. Instead, think what are the progression
of texts that you sent her to ask her out on a date.
The thing is, once you go to a bar and you get your game
face on, you wouldn’t just try and get one number for the
night, you would actually get tons and tons of numbers.
Once you get their numbers, it is a must that you save
their name with their number right away.
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One day you might think that you are talking to the hottest
girl ever but then you realize, you are wasting your time
on someone you’re not that interested with.
IT'S A MATCH!
“No they’re not! The left one is bigger! I have big eyes so
you can trust me”
DAY 1
She giggled and gave her a high five. I locked in and did
body rock (leaning back when u talk to a girl. Imagine
putting your weight on your back foot).
I took her hand and led her to the resto to build a kino. I
ordered the spiciest Tantanmen ramen on the menu and
she got the saltiest original flavor.
I told her “I like a girl that cooks. Can I borrow your hand?
*sniffs hand* Smells like Joy!”
We both laughed and I let her taste the spicy broth of the
Tantanmen ramen.
DAY 2
"This is what you want isn't it" she says while she takes
off her too. Damn 36C trapped in a pink Victoria's Secret
bra.
"I like the shape of your dong” she said as she put it in
her mouth. I let out a soft moan to let her know I enjoyed
it.
I asked her if it's salty just like ramen. She said yes and
that she liked it! I put on my condom and she gets on top
of me, cowgirl style.
The way she says it in her soft and slow voice turns me
on more. We did doggy style for round three. I wanted to
go round four but I was gassed out (no thanks to my high
carb ramen diet). I ran the destiny routine and told her
she's the best I've ever had.
Yes, I did tell her all of that and she agreed. I know that
she likes me too and I think something is going to
happen. But I waited for the right moment. We were in
my place already and I told her to take a bath because
she was sweaty and I’m going to buy something outside.
I do this because I want her to smell good. I told her to
buy some stuff but I’m buying a condom. Always use
condom guys. Then when I went back to my place, I saw
that she was already laying in my bed.
CHAPTER 9
ESCALATION
“Those who make conversations
impossible,
make escalation inevitable.”
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That’s what hard planning is, it’s almost as if you used all
the techniques forbidden in game. You shouldn’t be
expecting great results when you do that. You didn’t have
enough social capital, you haven’t established anything
with her yet but you still asked her out on a date. You
also dropped tons of bricks at her by asking the question
right off the bat.
The thing is that some men get away with hard planning.
It’s because they are of high value or technically they
exude confidence that some women find it interesting.
Now that you are presented with the idea that it is highly
advisable, more favorable, and better to call than to text
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Should I just wait for days after getting her phone number
and then call her?
Take note that this situation is very different from the first
one. Some people would say that you should wait for the
moment to text or call because it helps in hiding
desperation but 90% of the time it goes wrong.
Now, here are some minor points I would like to call out.
PRE-ARRANGED TIME
Why is that?
HER SCHEDULE
During this time, you will only be knowing the fact that
she’s free when you are constantly texting with her and
she’s been telling you whatever it is she is doing.
DRAFTS (ANDROID)
For example, if you enter text that you plan to send the
girl and then just leave it and hit the back button, the text
in there will be saved as DRAFT.
Imagine you are drunk and you just got home and wanted
to hook up with somebody. Now you open your texts and
saw that you have been messaging Melissa. Now, you
tried to text her something like wanting to have sex with
her but then, since you were so drunk, you accidentally
pressed back and dozed off.
BOOTCAMP EXPERIENCE by
VINCE (2015)
- Indirect opener:
She: *laughing*
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COMPLIANCE TEST:
Me: Hey, I’m sky let me guess how old you are.
Me: (unreactive)
ISOLATION:
COMFORT/SEDUCTION STAGE:
Me: Hey, let's sit here for a while. My feet are tired
(I seat first).
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THE BALCONY
That's the first time I had sex on the balcony. It felt like a
porn movie and that was so freaking awesome. Thank
God I met about Smooth.
After the lay, I had to stay at her hotel for a while to give
some value and romance to keep her. I really like her.
Before I did pick up, I was the type of guy who is super
hard-headed and short-tempered. I always get mad at
my girls if they are lying or talking shit to me. After a few
years of doing pick-up, I just realized that girls do cheat,
but they don’t want to get accounted for. Plus, they don’t
want to feel that they just ignored or cancelled one of the
guys they are dating. They don’t want to talk about that.
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THE DATE
I saw this girl on Facebook 2 months ago. We had a long
and fun conversation, we were planning to meet at that
time. Everything is in place. The place where we are
going, the clothes that I’m going to wear and the things
that we will talk about. But it didn’t push through.
Even though it’s hard to say, I told the set that it's fine. I
wanted to tell her that I want to get mad at her and say
bad things. But I’m not the old Philip, I am Jack Philip
now.
2 MONTHS OF WAITING
Yes, I’m waiting for the right time. After 2 weeks, 3 and 4
then 1 month. I wanted to give up with this chick now. I
told myself that I keep gaming and wait for the right time
if there will be.
THE MESSAGE
It's already 2am and I just woke up and I can’t sleep
again. So we had a conversation. My mindset at that time
was she will not chat with me this time if she doesn’t want
something from me. So, I check her logistics like what
she was doing, what are the things she will do tomorrow
and if she still goes out at this time. YES! All of it is
positive. I knew that I would see her now but I will not pull
the trigger right away. I made a lot of push and pull so
that it will be her that wants to see me now and not the
other way around.
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THE CALL
After I built what I wanted in chat, I made sure that she
would call me. Calling will help you build solid comfort. I
did that to build it. To make the long story short, she
agreed to go to my place. Thanks to The Cure, I know
now how to do it. YES! But there is a challenge, I just laid
earlier so I’m sure I will not be able to lay her unless she’ll
do something crazy. But it’s fine, going to my place is a
major investment for her.
THE SEDUCTION
So she did go to my place. I didn’t imagine she would be
sexy, plus her clothes are too revealing which means she
wants to get laid. I just need a proper routine. Of course,
I lay her.
There’s a catch here, she did not just lay me but she also
massaged my whole body. I really like this set.
Learnings:
1. This is boring, right? But I must say that patience really
works.
2. Know how the girls think and you will understand them.
3. Follow the feedback that your coach or your master is
giving to you.
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CHAPTER 10
TEXTING
RELATIONSHIP TEXTING
Relationship texting happens when you have slept with a
woman four or more times.
Well, even if you just slept with her once but you already
established that you are now in some agreement then
that is a relationship texting.
POINTLESS TEXTING
When you are alone and don't have anything to do, you
can have a pointless conversation with the person you
want to go out with. Those pointless conversations in the
future will help you then remember those memories and
the fun you had.
SEXTING
TIMING IS EVERYTHING
TAKE IT SLOW
IN THE DETAIL
DAY 1 – LR
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LR BY JRM (2018)
"I don't want to go to your place. We just
met 2 hours ago!”
INTRODUCTION
Not bad, but still not that solid. I ejected after because
King is texting and calling me so we can start with our
infield shooting.
Okay, I saw King and now we're walking. I saw a cute girl
wearing classy attire. She's wearing headphones, but
who cares I still want to approach her, I got her number
credits to Philip for his opener.
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THE APPROACH
THE BOUNCE
THE PULL
I said "Okay, you can stay here but there's a lot of bad
guys in this place, I don't want you to get hurt, so come
with me and just stay at the ground floor or at the rooftop.
You're not allowed to go inside my place because I'm not
sure about you yet."
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THE ESCALATION
First rule when you pull a girl, make her comfortable with
your place first and don't show her immediately that you
want to have s*x with her.
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I sat on the other side of my bed and told her "I'll sit this
far to you so your plans won't work on me and you can't
make any move." She laughed.
I said it's okay. Since I gamed her solid, I'm not worried if
she’ll lose the Buying Temperature because I know she's
already comfortable with me and it's still early,
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I still have the rest of the night if ever she gives me Last
Minute Resistance.
THE LAY
AFTERMATH
CHAPTER 11
MEET UP
“Meeting you is my favorite accident.”
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LEAD HER
Imagine this, she goes out and she sees you waiting in a
limousine. You came in front of her door in a limo. You’re
not someone who is that rich but you actually had the
decency to rent a limo just to impress her. As you get up
to her, you can clearly see her wide eyes and her broad
smile lights up her face. It seems like she cannot contain
her thrill and excitement. While you, by contrast, displays
only the slightest smirk of satisfaction in her delight with
what you just did.
When men are talking it is very different from the way that
women would address that conversation.
If you just tell a woman a laundry list of facts, then it’s not
going to do much for her.
The term “Red Flag” could mean either a literal flag used
for signaling, as a metaphor, or a sign of some particular
problem requiring attention.
There will be things that will kind of throw her out of the
emotional state. You should start considering the logical
consequences and you want to be very careful about
that.
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EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT
It’s completely fair for a woman to ask you if you see long-
term potential in the relationship, your view on
commitment and marriage, and other “big picture”
questions. Plot lines are very effective when maintaining
a relationship but there is a limit to it.
APOLOGY
MYSTERIOUS
Not involving her would make her feel left out and she will
be the one doing the escalations on you but remember,
it also has a limit. Being private can be a good thing in
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little amounts but when too much, you can lose your
progress with your partner.
These are just very few of the red flags that women
consider. To be honest there are a lot of red flags women
notice and this is just the tip of the iceberg.
Why is that?
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When you fight over text you can’t really see the person
or even hear their voice. When fighting over text, you
assume the worst and your imagination goes out of
control.
TIME BOUNDARIES
Here are the following ways you can make your first
interaction better for a favorable text response from her
after.
When you meet her in a dinner, where you both may feel
pressured to think up interesting conversations the whole
time, invite her over and cook dinner together (through
text if you even established that when you first met her).
TAKE CHARGE
If you want the girl you met, to make her relax, enjoy
herself, and make yourself memorable (in order for her
to remember she had a great time with you when you text
first), then it is important for you to take charge.
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BE REAL
When you say something along the lines of “you can trust
me, we're going to go over here” or your actual intention
is to give the girl a great experience to make her have fun
and not do anything bad by her, then you're going to
come off as congruent and trustworthy.
But, that’s not what we’re going to talk about. We’re going
to look at when men are entitled and when they’re not.
The more time you date and spend time with a girl, the
more reasonable your entitlements would do.
It is weird to be entitled on the first day. It’s like you’re
asking her to drop all of her priorities with a man she just
met. That won’t get you good results.
HONESTY
Honesty is not just about telling the truth. It's about being
real with yourself and others about who you are, what
you want and what you need to live your most authentic
life. Honesty promotes openness, empowers us, and
enables us to develop consistency in how we present the
facts.
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If you are lying to them and you know it, there may be a
little change in your facial expression, your timing, your
rhythm and those kinds of things.
You need that base level of trust for the girl to do anything
with you. If 9 out of 10 interactions you’re honest and your
one little white lie helps you. But then one time you got
caught. That would be 100 times worse for getting caught
than the 9 honest things you did.
Lying just isn't worth the risk and even if you are pretty
good at it, you don't get caught that often, the little
chances you get caught, the little micro expressions that
set the girls off, they always take note and remember of
the downside risk which is so much bigger than the
upside reward.
Honestly, it's not that hard if the girl likes you, wants to
sleep with you, wants you to solve the objective, and if
she's helping you solve the objective. Especially if you've
done the little inception thing and got her chasing and got
her escalating on you, then she wants it to happen.
It has been made clear that women tend to say things but
mean another thing, which is why I have been very
indicative of observing the woman you want to attract.
She literally told him “Kiss me on the neck more” and it’s
like she’s saying to get her more turned on and then she's
going to go home with him afterwards.
REPUTATION
The risk is just not worth the reward. It's better to act with
integrity and create win/win solutions where people want
to help you, allow you to grow, and build or introduce you
to people.
It's going to be much more rewarding in the long term.
A STRIPPER GAME
BY JRM (2017)
But first I'll define what Hired Gun is, well basically it's an
HB (Hot Babe) who was hired to work at a venue
because of her beauty, often in restaurants, bars, and
other direct service-oriented locations. Hired Guns can
range from waitresses, to strippers, to sales girls at the
mall stores, who are hired specifically for their beauty.
And there you go, I'm already talking to her, I locked in, I
see a lot of Indicators of Interest(IOIs). Man, she's really
hot! Her body is 9, her face is 8.5 (plus .5 because she
smells good and she's wearing glasses that time and
that's one of my fetishes.) But still I must remain assertive
and must not show too much interest or some kind of a
f*ckboy vibe because Hired Guns can easily detect your
intent and they really know how to game guys.
(TIP: When gaming Hired Guns, never ever ask for their
work or bring up anything about their career because
they will feel judged.)
They will leave the club around 7am. I persisted but still
she said "she can't" so we got back inside, I said I'm
already sleepy and if she doesn't wanna come with me
I'll go home instead. She said some other time because
she'll stay, so I decided to go home because I'm really
sleepy. Before I leave, I kiss closed her for 5 seconds,
she kissed back then we said goodbye.
THE RE-OPEN
THE PULL
text to one of her friends and she said "This guy has no
money, I'm pissed off!" hahaha.
I told her I'm still waiting for my friend's text, we can chill
at my place first then leave after 30 minutes. I even told
her that I downloaded a lot of new movies so it's better to
watch at my place than in the mall. Then I quickly told her
“But make sure you're harmless first okay?”
THE ESCALATION
We arrived at my place, I remained unreactive and
unneedy to make her feel more comfortable with the
place. I opened my computer and played the Magic Mike
movie, since I know she's a hired gun. She can relate
with that movie and she'll definitely like it. While watching,
I pause the movie to run my routines, then unpause after
delivering it haha so I can still practice my storytelling and
my delivery. Simultaneously, I escalated physically by
massaging her hand first and asked her to massage my
hand after. She complied.
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I massaged her back again then this time I undo her bra.
I kissed her neck again, touched her two watermelons
and whispered to her ear. "Ma'am, our massage therapy
is done, do you want an extra service?
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THE LAY
AFTERMATH
The movie ended right after we're done f*cking. It's
around 1am, she told me she has to leave because her
friends are waiting for her. I told her it's okay. I'll give her
a copy of all my movies next time.
CHAPTER 12
STRUCTURE OF THE GAME
“Learn the rules like a pro,
so you can break them like an artist.”
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ATTRACTION PHASE
LANGUAGING
Women are experts at reading your body’s unconscious
signals. It is the closest thing to telepathic communication
there is, and yet most of us guys are oblivious to it.
NON- VERBAL
COMMUNICATION
When approaching women, always approach over the
shoulder. Don’t approach face to face, don’t give too
much value because you might creep her out.
Lean back. Let her lean in. If you’re in a loud club where
you can’t hear each other, you may feel like you need to
speak directly into her ear for her to hear you. This is fine,
but get her to lean forward and place her ear next to your
mouth. (As an added bonus, this position facilitates a lot
of casual kino – you can put your hand on her hip or the
small of her back easily. Do so!)
Whatever you do, don’t “peck” – lean into her ear as you
say something. Let her come to you! Leaning back is a
part of the general guideline of not showing more interest
in her than she is to you.
VERBAL COMMUNICATION
DIRECT APPROACH
They also work well if you are already the social center
of the room – if by gaming other people you’ve made
yourself a positive center of attention. Don’t use direct
opener in approaching girls with guys. You might get in
trouble.
INDIRECT APPROACH
SITUATIONAL OPENERS
OPINION OPENER
DELIVERY
What is Delivery?
BODY LANGUAGE
Body language is the non-verbal communication of a
person’s body and how it conveys to others. It is the
physical manifestation of the artist’s internal state.
FACIAL EXPRESSION
VOCAL TONALITY
fun, they don’t want you to leave anymore, you also don’t
have to because it’s a false time constraint.
The second benefit is, you are showing that your time is
scarce, you can be gone every second so they feel a
small pressure to invest in the conversation that it keeps
holding you.
It’s also possible to trigger the same effect only with your
body language itself, it’s called: Body Rocking.
“I’m just waiting for my friend, and just wanna ask if…
(say your line)
They want to see if you can handle them. For if you can’t
handle their shit, how are you going to protect them from
the world of shit that exists?
A test can also take the form of a shit test/neg, such as,
“This is boring. That guy over there is cute.” Alpha male
do not tolerate bad behavior, and ignorance will not work
on this particular shit test.
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Passing one congruence test may not get you all the way
to sex, as women throw these out throughout the
seduction timeline. The most effective way to pass
congruence test is, in reality, to become truly congruent.
DEMONSTRATION OF HIGH
VALUE
2. Leader of men
5. Risk Taker
• Social Intelligence
• Fun and positive emotions
• Handling social pressure
• Sense of style
• Willingness to walk away
• Having strong personal values and
conviction beyond anything else
COMPLIMENTING
Attraction is a two-way street. You DHV first. When she
gives you interest, get her to DHV to you. That way
there’s mutual attraction based on substance. She’s
earned your interest. It’s not because she’s interested in
you. Now, it’s time to compliment her. But you just don’t
give compliments right away.
Use these lines, I’ve been using these lines for a decade.
Trust me, a lot better than complimenting their looks.
QUALIFY
COMFORT
COMFORT BUILDING
LOCATION
A location that you and her can focus on each other and
continue to get to know each other.
How to Isolate?
But you still need to follow a few rules to keep her super
team of friends from worrying, so here’s how it goes:
You have to get at least 3-4 IOIs from the girl and you
know you’ve achieved attraction to you. You need to
know how to handle the group. Always remember, if you
win her friends, you already win her.
talk for a minute over there before I go.” Then put your
arm out suggestively so that she takes it.
Walk with the girl over to your isolation spot – you’re now
in isolation.
You need to earn her trust, show her that you aren’t
crazy, and that you’re interested in more than just her
body. This is the key to her really wanting to give you her
number and her answering when you call it a few days
later.
That’s the why and here’s the how. Neil Strauss, one of
the famous PUA created an awesome gambit called The
Cube, a great routine to use in comfort building because
it’s a good way to get to know someone on a deeper
level.
You: Have you ever done the cube?… Ok… I’ll ask you
a bunch of questions, and when I’m done I’ll know
everything about you. Are you ready? Do you have a
good imagination? …Good.”
You: When she has visualized the entire image, then you
can tell her the meanings.
Visual Imagery:
CONTINGENCIES
In case the routine doesn’t work or your cold reads are
not correct, the artist has a few contingencies:
know what women want. If her horse isn’t ideal, then tell
her it is an image of what she has attracted to her in the
past, and what she really wants is actually the opposite.
Burst the tension now and then with a little cocky and
playful comment. By making a joke or teasing her, you
will keep it fun and keep her interested. Just be careful
because she may be in a very vulnerable state to be
sharing with you, so don’t overdo it.
Use all of the little parts to get a bigger picture of her. Try
to get a broad sense of who she is as a person, and then
you can use that understanding to lead your
interpretation.
Share your own Cube. Tell her about your cube and how
it relates to hers.
SEDUCTION
SEDUCTION LOCATION
As much as I want to teach everything about seducing
women, I’d rather keep this topic wholesome. This is the
most sensitive topic when it comes to art of dating. I
already got viral because of what I said about seduction
phase. So, this time I’ll be very careful. Besides, I don’t
want you or others get in trouble.
Some might not get this theory and technique. This is it.
And this is a CRUCIAL step.
I know a lot of guys there are thinking that they can pull
it off by just reading and watching a bunch of videos. My
advice is go out there, get yourself a legit mentor and join
the bootcamp, preferably one on one from Smooth
coaching. You'd be doing yourselves a big favour and
save a lot of time.
Ken
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I’ll tell you how I met the guys at PUA Academy. No, they
didn’t try to get my number nor tried to get me on a date
(except for King). I was the one who actually gave my
phone number to them.
“Hey. Why are you guys outside when all the fun is
inside? You’re missing out.” I said.
“We’re trying to get in but we’re not sure how.” The guy
with a top man bun and braces replied.
Articles, posts, and the news was filled with these guys’
names. All of the names that surfaced on the internet
were under my guestlist. Yikes.
But anyway, I knew that these guys aren’t doing what the
media was saying they were.
These guys help the little guys who are stuck in the
friendzone, the shy guys, the guys who are so scorned
by women in their past. They’re not teaching how to
manipulate women. They’re teaching you how to be a
better version of YOU to get the woman you want.
They’re teaching about social dynamics. They’re
teaching about psychology. They’re teaching about body
language.
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