Prayer - John Bunyan
Prayer - John Bunyan
Prayer - John Bunyan
Prayer
by John Bunyan
Table of Contents
What Prayer Is
The Conclusion
The great enemy of souls, aided by the perverse state of the human
mind, has exhausted his ingenuity and malice to prevent the exercise
of this holy and delightful duty. His most successful effort has been
to keep the soul in that fatal lethargy, or death unto holiness, and
consequently unto prayer, into which it is plunged by Adam's
transgression. Bunyan has some striking illustrations of Satan's
devices to stifle prayer, in his history of the Holy War. When the
troops of Emmanuel besiege Mansoul, their great effort was to gain
"eargate" as a chief entrance to Mansoul, and at that important gate
there were placed, by order of Diabolous, "the Lord Will-be-will, who
made one old Mr. Prejudice, an angry and ill-conditioned fellow,
captain of that ward, and put under his power sixty men called
Deafmen to keep it," and these were arrayed in the most excellent
armour of Diabolous, "A DUMB AND PRAYERLESS SPIRIT."
But when he arose from the long and dread conflict with sin, and
entered upon his Christian life, he decidedly preferred emancipation
from forms of prayer, and treated them with great severity. He
considered that the most essential qualification for the Christian
ministry is the gift of prayer. Upon this subject learned and pious
men have differed; but the opinions of one so eminently pious, and
so well-taught in the Scriptures, are worthy of our careful
investigation. Great allowances must be made for all that appears
harsh in language, because urbanity was not the fashion of that day
in religious controversy. He had been most cruelly imprisoned, with
threats of transportation, and even an ignominious death, for
refusing conformity to the Book of Common Prayer. Being
conscientiously and prayerfully decided in his judgment, he set all
these threats at defiance, and boldly, at the risk of his life, published
this treatise, while yet a prisoner in Bedford jail; and it is a clear,
concise, and scriptural discourse, setting forth his views upon this
most important subject.
"Let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind." Nor should such
differences lead us to despise each other. Let our first inquiry be,
whether the Saviour intended a fixed form of prayer? And if so, did
he give His church any other than that most beautiful and
comprehensive form called the Lord's Prayer? And did he license any
one, and if so, who, to alter, add to, or diminish from it? On the other
hand, should we conclude that "We know not what we should pray
for as we ought, only as the Spirit helpeth our infirmities," then must
we rely, as Bunyan did, upon the promised aid of that gracious Spirit.
Blessed, indeed, are those whose intercourse with heaven sheds an
influence on their whole conduct, gives them abundance of well-
arranged words in praying with their families and with the sick or
dejected, and–whose lives prove that they have been with Jesus, and
are taught by him, or who, in Scripture language, "pray with the
spirit and with the understanding also."
GEO. OFFOR.
The method that I shall go on in at this time shall be, FIRST. To show
you what true prayer is. SECOND. To show you what it is to pray
with the Spirit. THIRD. What it is to pray with the Spirit and
understanding also. And so, FOURTHLY. To make some short use
and application of what shall be spoken.
What Prayer Is
FIRST, What [true] prayer is. Prayer is a sincere, sensible,
affectionate pouring out of the heart or soul to God, through Christ,
in the strength and assistance of the Holy Spirit, for such things as
God hath promised, or according to the Word, for the good of the
church, with submission, in faith, to the will of God.
First. For the first of these, it is a SINCERE pouring out of the soul to
God. Sincerity is such a grace as runs through all the graces of God in
us, and through all the actings of a Christian, and hath the sway in
them too, or else their actings are not any thing regarded of God, and
so of and in prayer, of which particularly David speaks, when he
mentions prayer. "I cried unto him," the Lord "with my mouth, and
he was extolled with my tongue. If I regard iniquity in my heart, the
Lord will not hear" my prayer (Psa 66:17,18). Part of the exercise of
prayer is sincerity, without which God looks not upon it as prayer in
a good sense (Psa 16:1-4). Then "ye shall seek me and find me, when
ye shall search for me with all your heart" (Jer 29:12-13). The want of
this made the Lord reject their prayers in Hosea 7:14, where he saith,
"They have not cried unto me with their heart," that is, in sincerity,
"when they howled upon their beds." But for a pretence, for a show
in hypocrisy, to be seen of men, and applauded for the same, they
prayed. Sincerity was that which Christ commended in Nathaniel,
when he was under the fig tree. "Behold, an Israelite indeed, in
whom is no guile." Probably this good man was pouring out of his
soul to God in prayer under the fig tree, and that in a sincere and
unfeigned spirit before the Lord. The prayer that hath this in it as
one of the principal ingredients, is the prayer that God looks at.
Thus, "The prayer of the upright is his delight" (Prov 15:8).
A good sense of sin, and the wrath of God, with some encouragement
from God to come unto him, is a better Common-prayer-book than
that which is taken out of the Papistical mass-book,[7] being the
scraps and fragments of the devices of some popes, some friars, and I
wot not what.
All this is too, too evident by the ignorance, profaneness, and spirit of
envy, that reign in the hearts of those men that are so hot for the
forms, and not the power of praying. Scarce one of forty among them
know what it is to be born again, to have communion with the Father
through the Son; to feel the power of grace sanctifying their hearts:
but for all their prayers, they still live cursed, drunken, whorish, and
abominable lives, full of malice, envy, deceit, persecuting of the dear
children of God. O what a dreadful after-clap is coming upon them!
which all their hypocritical assembling themselves together, with all
their prayers, shall never be able to help them against, or shelter
them from.
Christ is the way through whom the soul hath admittance to God,
and without whom it is impossible that so much as one desire should
come into the ears of the Lord of Sabaoth (John 14:6). "If ye shall ask
anything in my name"; "whatsoever ye shall ask the Father in my
name, I will do it" (John 14:13,14). This was Daniel's way in praying
for the people of God; he did it in the name of Christ. "Now therefore,
O our God, hear the prayer of thy servant, and his supplications, and
cause thy face to shine upon thy sanctuary that is desolate, for the
Lord's sake" (Dan 9:17). And so David, "For thy name's sake," that is,
for thy Christ's sake, "pardon mine iniquity, for it is great" (Psa
25:11). But now, it is not every one that maketh mention of Christ's
name in prayer, that doth indeed, and in truth, effectually pray to
God in the name of Christ, or through him. This coming to God
through Christ is the hardest part that is found in prayer. A man may
more easily be sensible of his works, ay, and sincerely too desire
mercy, and yet not be able to come to God by Christ. That man that
comes to God by Christ, he must first have the knowledge of him;
"for he that cometh to God, must believe that he is" (Heb 11:6). And
so he that comes to God through Christ, must be enabled to know
Christ. Lord, saith Moses, "show me now thy way, that I may know
thee" (Exo 33:13).
This Christ, none but the Father can reveal (Matt 11:27). And to come
through Christ, is for the soul to be enabled of God to shroud itself
under the shadow of the Lord Jesus, as a man shroudeth himself
under a thing for safeguard (Matt 16:16).[8] Hence it is that David so
often terms Christ his shield, buckler, tower, fortress, rock of
defence, &c., (Psa 18:2; 27:1; 28:1). Not only because by him he
overcame his enemies, but because through him he found favour
with God the Father. And so he saith to Abraham, "Fear not, I am thy
shield," &c., (Gen 15:1). The man then that comes to God through
Christ, must have faith, by which he puts on Christ, and in him
appears before God. Now he that hath faith is born of God, born
again, and so becomes one of the sons of God; by virtue of which he
is joined to Christ, and made a member of him (John 3:5,7; 1:12).
And therefore, secondly he, as a member of Christ, comes to God; I
say, as a member of him, so that God looks on that man as a part of
Christ, part of his body, flesh, and bones, united to him by election,
conversion, illumination, the Spirit being conveyed into the heart of
that poor man by God (Eph 5:30). So that now he comes to God in
Christ's merits, in his blood, righteousness, victory, intercession, and
so stands before him, being "accepted in his Beloved" (Eph 1:6). And
because this poor creature is thus a member of the Lord Jesus, and
under this consideration hath admittance to come to God; therefore,
by virtue of this union also, is the Holy Spirit conveyed into him,
whereby he is able to pour out himself, to wit, his soul, before God,
with his audience. And this leads me to the next, or fourth particular.
There is no man nor church in the world that can come to God in
prayer, but by the assistance of the Holy Spirit. "For through Christ
we all have access by one Spirit unto the Father" (Eph 2:18).
Wherefore Paul saith, "For we know not what we should pray for as
we ought; but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with
groanings which cannot be uttered. And he that searcheth the hearts,
knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh
intercession for the saints according to the will of God" (Rom
8:26,27). And because there is in this scripture so full a discovery of
the spirit of prayer, and of man's inability to pray without it;
therefore I shall in a few words comment upon it.
"For we." Consider first the person speaking, even Paul, and, in his
person, all the apostles. We apostles, we extraordinary officers, the
wise master-builders, that have some of us been caught up into
paradise (Rom 15:16; I Cor 3:10; II Cor 12:4). "We know not what we
should pray for." Surely there is no man but will confess, that Paul
and his companions were as able to have done any work for God, as
any pope or proud prelate in the church of Rome, and could as well
have made a Common Prayer Book as those who at first composed
this; as being not a whit behind them either in grace or gifts.[9]
"For we know not what we should pray for." We know not the matter
of the things for which we should pray, neither the object to whom
we pray, nor the medium by or through whom we pray; none of these
things know we, but by the help and assistance of the Spirit. Should
we pray for communion with God through Christ? should we pray for
faith, for justification by grace, and a truly sanctified heart? none of
these things know we. "For what man knoweth the things of a man,
save the spirit of man which is in him? even so the things of God
knoweth no man, but the Spirit of God" (I Cor 2:11). But here, alas!
the apostles speak of inward and spiritual things, which the world
knows not (Isa 29:11).
Again, as they know not the matter, &c., of prayer, without the help
of the Spirit; so neither know they the manner thereof without the
same; and therefore he adds, "We know not what we should pray for
as we ought"; but the Spirit helpeth our infirmities, with sighs and
groans which cannot be uttered. Mark here, they could not so well
and so fully come off in the manner of performing this duty, as these
in our days think they can.
The apostles, when they were at the best, yea, when the Holy Ghost
assisted them, yet then they were fain to come off with sighs and
groans, falling short of expressing their mind, but with sighs and
groans which cannot be uttered.
But here now, the wise men of our days are so well skilled as that
they have both the manner and matter of their prayers at their
finger-ends; setting such a prayer for such a day, and that twenty
years before it comes. One for Christmas, another for Easter, and six
days after that. They have also bounded how many syllables must be
said in every one of them at their public exercises. For each saint's
day, also, they have them ready for the generations yet unborn to say.
They can tell you, also, when you shall kneel, when you shall stand,
when you should abide in your seats, when you should go up into the
chancel, and what you should do when you come there. All which the
apostles came short of, as not being able to compose so profound a
manner; and that for this reason included in this scripture, because
the fear of God tied them to pray as they ought.
"For we know not what we should pray for as we ought." Mark this,
"as we ought." For the not thinking of this word, or at least the not
understanding it in the spirit and truth of it, hath occasioned these
men to devise, as Jeroboam did, another way of worship, both for
matter and manner, than is revealed in the Word of God (I Kings
12:26-33). But, saith Paul, we must pray as we ought; and this WE
cannot do by all the art, skill, and cunning device of men or angels. "
For we know not what we should pray for as we ought, but the
Spirit"; nay, further, it must be "the Spirit ITSELF" that helpeth our
infirmities; not the Spirit and man's lusts; what man of his own brain
may imagine and devise, is one thing, and what they are
commanded, and ought to do, is another. Many ask and have not,
because they ask amiss; and so are never the nearer the enjoying of
those things they petition for (James 4:3). It is not to pray at random
that will put off God, or cause him to answer. While prayer is
making, God is searching the heart, to see from what root and spirit
it doth arise (I John 5:14). "And he that searcheth the heart
knoweth," that is, approveth only, the meaning "of the Spirit,
because he maketh intercession for the saints according to the will of
God." For in that which is according to his will only, he heareth us,
and in nothing else. And it is the Spirit only that can teach us so to
ask; it only being able to search out all things, even the deep things of
God. Without which Spirit, though we had a thousand Common
Prayer Books, yet we know not what we should pray for as we ought,
being accompanied with those infirmities that make us absolutely
incapable of such a work. Which infirmities, although it is a hard
thing to name them all, yet some of them are these that follow.
First. Without the Spirit man is so infirm that he cannot, with all
other means whatsoever, be enabled to think one right saving
thought of God, of Christ, or of his blessed things; and therefore he
saith of the wicked, "God is not in all his thoughts," (Psa 10:4);
unless it be that they imagine him altogether such a one as
themselves (Psa 50:21). For "every imagination of the thoughts of his
heart was only evil," and that "continually" (Gen 6:5; 8:21). They
then not being able to conceive aright of God to whom they pray, of
Christ through whom they pray, nor of the things for which they
pray, as is before showed, how shall they be able to address
themselves to God, without the Spirit help this infirmity?
Peradventure you will say, By the help of the Common Prayer Book;
but that cannot do it, unless it can open the eyes, and reveal to the
soul all these things before touched. Which that it cannot, it is
evident; because that is the work of the Spirit only. The Spirit itself is
the revealer of these things to poor souls, and that which doth give us
to understand them; wherefore Christ tells his disciples, when he
promised to send the Spirit, the Comforter, "He shall take of mine
and show unto you"; as if he had said, I know you are naturally dark
and ignorant as to the understanding any of my things; though ye try
this course and the other, yet your ignorance will still remain, the veil
is spread over your heart, and there is none can take away the same,
nor give you spiritual understanding but the Spirit. The Common
Prayer Book will not do it, neither can any man expect that it should
be instrumental that way, it being none of God's ordinances; but a
thing since the Scriptures were written, patched together one piece at
one time, and another at another; a mere human invention and
institution, which God is so far from owning of, that he expressly
forbids it, with any other such like, and that by manifold sayings in
his most holy and blessed Word. (See Mark 7:7,8, and Col 2:16-23;
Deut 12:30- 32; Prov 30:6; Deut 4:2; Rev 22:18). For right prayer
must, as well in the outward part of it, in the outward expression, as
in the inward intention, come from what the soul doth apprehend in
the light of the Spirit; otherwise it is condemned as vain and an
abomination, because the heart and tongue do not go along jointly in
the same, neither indeed can they, unless the Spirit help our
infirmities (Mark 7; Prov 28:9; Isa 29:13). And this David knew full
well, which did make him cry, "Lord, open thou my lips, and my
mouth shall show forth thy praise" (Psa 51:15). I suppose there is
none can imagine but that David could speak and express himself as
well as others, nay, as any in our generation, as is clearly manifested
by his word and his works. Nevertheless when this good man, this
prophet, comes into God's worship, then the Lord must help, or he
can do nothing. "Lord, open thou my lips, and" then "my mouth shall
show forth thy praise." He could not speak one right word, except the
Spirit itself gave utterance. "For we know not what we should pray
for as we ought, but the Spirit itself helpeth our infirmities." But,
Second. It must be a praying with the Spirit, that is, the effectual
praying; because without that, as men are senseless, so hypocritical,
cold, and unseemly in their prayers; and so they, with their prayers,
are both rendered abominable to God (Matt 23:14; Mark 12:40; Luke
18:11, 12; Isa 58:2, 3). It is not the excellency of the voice, nor the
seeming affection, and earnestness of him that prayeth, that is
anything regarded of God without it. For man, as man, is so full of all
manner of wickedness, that as he cannot keep a word, or thought, so
much less a piece of prayer clean, and acceptable to God through
Christ; and for this cause the Pharisees, with their prayers, were
rejected. No question but they were excellently able to express
themselves in words, and also for length of time, too, they were very
notable; but they had not the Spirit of Jesus Christ to help them, and
therefore they did what they did with their infirmities or weaknesses
only, and so fell short of a sincere, sensible, affectionate pouring out
of their souls to God, through the strength of the Spirit. That is the
prayer that goeth to heaven, that is sent thither in the strength of the
Spirit. For,
Third. Nothing but the Spirit can show a man clearly his misery by
nature, and so put a man into a posture of prayer. Talk is but talk, as
we use to say, and so it is but mouth- worship, if there be not a sense
of misery, and that effectually too. O the cursed hypocrisy that is in
most hearts, and that accompanieth many thousands of praying men
that would be so looked upon in this day, and all for want of a sense
of their misery! But now the Spirit, that will sweetly show the soul its
misery, where it is, and what is like to become of it, also the
intolerableness of that condition. For it is the Spirit that doth
effectually convince of sin and misery, without the Lord Jesus, and so
puts the soul into a sweet, sensible, affectionate way of praying to
God according to his word (John 16:7-9).
Fourth. If men did see their sins, yet without the help of the Spirit
they would not pray. For they would run away from God, with Cain
and Judas, and utterly despair of mercy, were it not for the Spirit.
When a man is indeed sensible of his sin, and God's curse, then it is a
hard thing to persuade him to pray; for, saith his heart, "There is no
hope," it is in vain to seek God (Jer 2:25; 18:12). I am so vile, so
wretched, and so cursed a creature, that I shall never be regarded!
Now here comes the Spirit, and stayeth the soul, helpeth it to hold up
its face to God, by letting into the heart some small sense of mercy to
encourage it to go to God, and hence it is called "the Comforter"
(John 14:26).
Fifth. It must be in or with the Spirit; for without that no man can
know how he should come to God the right way. Men may easily say
they come to God in his Son: but it is the hardest thing of a thousand
to come to God aright and in his own way, without the Spirit. It is
"the Spirit" that "searcheth all things, yea, the deep things of God" (I
Cor 2:10). It is the Spirit that must show us the way of coming to
God, and also what there is in God that makes him desirable: "I pray
thee," saith Moses, "show me now thy way, that I may know thee"
(Exo 33:13). And, He shall take of mine, and "show it unto you"
(John 16:14).
Sixth. Because without the Spirit, though a man did see his misery,
and also the way to come to God; yet he would never be able to claim
a share in either God, Christ, or mercy, with God's approbation. O
how great a task is it, for a poor soul that becomes sensible of sin and
the wrath of God, to say in faith, but this one word, "Father!" I tell
you, however hypocrites think, yet the Christian that is so indeed
finds all the difficulty in this very thing, it cannot say God is its
Father. O! saith he, I dare not call him Father; and hence it is that
the Spirit must be sent into the hearts of God's people for this very
thing, to cry Father: it being too great a work for any man to do
knowingly and believingly without it (Gal 4:6). When I say
knowingly, I mean, knowing what it is to be a child of God, and to be
born again. And when I say believingly, I mean, for the soul to
believe, and that from good experience, that the work of grace is
wrought in him. This is the right calling of God Father; and not as
many do, to say in a babbling way, the Lord's prayer (so called) by
heart, as it lieth in the words of the book. No, here is the life of
prayer, when in or with the Spirit, a man being made sensible of sin,
and how to come to the Lord for mercy; he comes, I say, in the
strength of the Spirit, and crieth Father. That one word spoken in
faith, is better than a thousand prayers, as men call them, written
and read, in a formal, cold, lukewarm way. O how far short are those
people of being sensible of this, who count it enough to teach
themselves and children to say the Lord's prayer, the creed, with
other sayings; when, as God knows, they are senseless of themselves,
their misery, or what it is to be brought to God through Christ! Ah,
poor soul! Study your misery, and cry to God to show you your
confused blindness and ignorance, before you be so rife in calling
God your Father, or teaching your children either so to say. And
know, that to say God is your Father, in a way of prayer or
conference, without any experiment of the work of grace on your
souls, it is to say you are Jews and are not, and so to lie. You say, Our
Father; God saith, You blaspheme! You say you are Jew, that is, true
Christians; God saith, You lie!
"Behold I will make them of the synagogue of Satan, which say they
are Jews, and are not, but do lie" (Rev 3:9). "And I know the
blasphemy of them that say they are Jews, and are not, but are the
synagogue of Satan" (Rev 2:9). And so much the greater the sin is, by
how much the more the sinner boasts it with a pretended sanctity, as
the Jews did to Christ, in the 8th of John, which made Christ, even in
plain terms, to tell them their doom, for all their hypocritical
pretences (John 8:41-45). And yet forsooth every cursed
whoremaster, thief, and drunkard, swearer, and perjured person;
they that have not only been such in times past, but are even so still:
these I say, by some must be counted the only honest men, and all
because with their blasphemous throats, and hypocritical hearts,
they will come to church, and say, "Our Father!" Nay further, these
men, though every time they say to God, Our Father, do most
abominably blaspheme, yet they must be compelled thus to do. And
because others that are of more sober principles, scruple the truth of
such vain traditions; therefore they must be looked upon to be the
only enemies of God and the nation: when as it is their own cursed
superstition that doth set the great God against them, and cause him
to count them for his enemies (Isa 53:10). And yet just like to
Bonner, that blood-red persecutor, they commend, I say, these
wretches, although never so vile, if they close in with their traditions,
to be good churchmen, the honest subjects; while God's people are,
as it hath always been, looked upon to be a turbulent, seditious, and
factious people (Ezra 4:12-16).
Therefore give me leave a little to reason with thee, thou poor, blind,
ignorant sot.
(1.) It may be thy great prayer is to say, "Our Father which art in
heaven," &c. Dost thou know the meaning of the very first words of
this prayer? Canst thou indeed, with the rest of the saints, cry, Our
Father? Art thou truly born again? Hast thou received the spirit of
adoption? Dost thou see thyself in Christ, and canst thou come to
God as a member of him? Or art thou ignorant of these things, and
yet darest thou say, Our Father? Is not the devil thy father? (John
8:44). And dost thou not do the deeds of the flesh? And yet darest
thou say to God, Our Father? Nay, art thou not a desperate
persecutor of the children of God? Hast thou not cursed them in
thine heart many a time? And yet dost thou out of thy blasphemous
throat suffer these words to come, even our Father? He is their
Father whom thou hatest and persecutest. But as the devil presented
himself amongst the sons of God, (Job 1), when they were to present
themselves before the Father, even our Father, so is it now; because
the saints were commanded to say, Our Father, therefore all the
blind ignorant rabble in the world, they must also use the same
words, Our Father.
(2.) And dost thou indeed say, "Hallowed be thy name" with thy
heart? Dost thou study, by all honest and lawful ways, to advance the
name, holiness, and majesty of God? Doth thy heart and
conversation agree with this passage? Dost thou strive to imitate
Christ in all the works of righteousness, which God doth command of
thee, and prompt thee forward to? It is so, if thou be one that can
truly with God's allowance cry, "Our Father." Or is it not the least of
thy thoughts all the day? And dost thou not clearly make it appear,
that thou art a cursed hypocrite, by condemning that with thy daily
practice, which thou pretendest in thy praying with thy dissembling
tongue?
(3.) Wouldst thou have the kingdom of God come indeed, and also
his will to be done in earth as it is in heaven? Nay, notwithstanding,
thou according to the form, sayest, Thy kingdom come, yet would it
not make thee ready to run mad, to hear the trumpet sound, to see
the dead arise, and thyself just now to go and appear before God, to
reckon for all the deeds thou hast done in the body? Nay, are not the
very thoughts of it altogether displeasing to thee? And if God's will
should be done on earth as it is in heaven, must it not be thy ruin?
There is never a rebel in heaven against God, and if he should so deal
on earth, must it not whirl thee down to hell? And so of the rest of
the petitions. Ah! How sadly would even those men look, and with
what terror would they walk up and down the world, if they did but
know the lying and blaspheming that proceedeth out of their mouth,
even in their most pretended sanctity? The Lord awaken you, and
teach you, poor souls, in all humility, to take heed that you be not
rash and unadvised with your heart, and much more with your
mouth! When you appear before God, as the wise man saith, "Be not
rash with thy mouth, and let not thine heart be hasty to utter any
thing, (Eccl 5:2); especially to call God Father, without some blessed
experience when thou comest before God. But I pass this.
They are mighty words of David, where he saith, that he lifteth his
heart and his soul to God (Psa 25:1). It is a great work for any man
without the strength of the Spirit, and therefore I conceive that this is
one of the great reasons why the Spirit of God is called a Spirit of
supplications, (Zech 12:10), because it is that which helpeth the heart
when it supplicates indeed to do it; and therefore saith Paul, "Praying
with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit" (Eph 6:18). And so in
my text, "I will pray with the Spirit." Prayer, without the heart be in
it, is like a sound without life; and a heart, without it be lifted up of
the Spirit, will never pray to God.
The want of this is that which God complains of; that they draw nigh
to him with their mouth, and honour him with their lips, but their
hearts were far from him (Isa 29:13; Eze 33), but chiefly that they
walk after the commandments and traditions of men, as the scope of
Matthew 15:8, 9 doth testify. And verily, may I but speak my own
experience, and from that tell you the difficulty of praying to God as I
ought, it is enough to make your poor, blind, carnal men to entertain
strange thoughts of me. For, as for my heart, when I go to pray, I find
it so loth to go to God, and when it is with him, so loth to stay with
him, that many times I am forced in my prayers, first to beg of God
that he would take mine heart, and set it on himself in Christ, and
when it is there, that he would keep it there. Nay, many times I know
not what to pray for, I am so blind, nor how to pray, I am so
ignorant; only, blessed be grace, the Spirit helps our infirmities (Psa
86:11).
O! the starting-holes that the heart hath in the time of prayer; none
knows how many bye-ways the heart hath, and back- lanes, to slip
away from the presence of God. How much pride also, if enabled
with expressions. How much hypocrisy, if before others. And how
little conscience is there made of prayer between God and the soul in
secret, unless the Spirit of supplication be there to help? When the
Spirit gets into the heart, then there is prayer indeed, and not till
then.
Ninth. The soul that doth rightly pray, it must be in and with the help
and strength of the Spirit; because it is impossible that a man should
express himself in prayer without it. When I say, it is impossible for a
man to express himself in prayer without it, I mean, that it is
impossible that the heart, in a sincere and sensible affectionate way,
should pour out itself before God, with those groans and sighs that
come from a truly praying heart, without the assistance of the Spirit.
It is not the mouth that is the main thing to be looked at in prayer,
but whether the heart is so full of affection and earnestness in prayer
with God, that it is impossible to express their sense and desire; for
then a man desires indeed, when his desires are so strong, many, and
mighty, that all the words, tears, and groans that can come from the
heart, cannot utter them: "The Spirit — helpeth our infirmities, - and
maketh intercession for us with [sighs and] groanings which cannot
be uttered" (Rom 8:26).
The best prayers have often more groans than words: and those
words that it hath are but a lean and shallow representation of the
heart, life, and spirit of that prayer. You do not find any words of
prayer, that we read of, come out of the mouth of Moses, when he
was going out of Egypt, and was followed by Pharaoh, and yet he
made heaven ring again with his cry (Exo 14:15). But it was
inexpressible and unsearchable groans and cryings of his soul in and
with the Spirit. God is the God of spirits, and his eyes look further
than at the outside of any duty whatsoever (Num 16:22). I doubt this
is but little thought on by the most of them that would be looked
upon as a praying people (I Sam 16:7).
The nearer a man comes in any work that God commands him to the
doing of it according to his will, so much the more hard and difficult
it is; and the reason is, because man, as man, is not able to do it. But
prayer, as aforesaid, is not only a duty, but one of the most eminent
duties, and therefore so much the more difficult: therefore Paul knew
what he said, when he said, "I will pray with the Spirit." He knew
well it was not what others writ or said that could make him a
praying person; nothing less than the Spirit could do it.
Christ tells us, that men ought always to pray, and not to faint (Luke
18:1). And again tells us, that this is one definition of a hypocrite,
that either he will not continue in prayer, or else if he do it, it will not
be in the power, that is, in the spirit of prayer, but in the form, for a
pretence only (Job 27:10; Matt 23:14). It is the easiest thing of a
hundred to fall from the power to the form, but it is the hardest thing
of many to keep in the life, spirit, and power of any one duty,
especially prayer; that is such a work, that a man without the help of
the Spirit cannot so much as pray once, much less continue, without
it, in a sweet praying frame, and in praying, so to pray as to have his
prayers ascend into the ears of the Lord God of Sabaoth.
Jacob did not only begin, but held it: "I will not let thee go, unless
thou bless me" (Gen 32). So did the rest of the godly (Hosea 12:4).
But this could not be without the spirit of prayer. It is through the
Spirit that we have access to the Father (Eph 2:18).
Fifth. The understanding being enlightened, way is made for the soul
to come to God with suitable arguments, sometimes in a way of
expostulation, as Jacob (Gen 32:9). Sometimes in way of
supplication, yet not in a verbal way only, but even from the heart
there is forced by the Spirit, through the understanding, such
effectual arguments as moveth the heart of God. When Ephraim gets
a right understanding of his own unseemly carriages towards the
Lord, then he begins to bemoan himself (Jer 31:18-20). And in
bemoaning of himself, he used such arguments with the Lord, that it
affects his heart, draws out forgiveness, and makes Ephraim pleasant
in his eyes through Jesus Christ our Lord: "I have surely heard
Ephraim bemoaning himself thus," saith God, "Thou hast chastised
me, and I was chastised; as a bullock unaccustomed to the yoke; turn
thou me, and I shall be turned; for thou art the Lord my God. Surely
after that I was turned, I repented, and after that I was instructed,"
or had a right understanding of myself, "I smote upon my thigh, I
was ashamed; yea, even confounded; because I did bear the reproach
of my youth." These be Ephraim's complaints and bemoanings of
himself; at which the Lord breaks forth into these heart-melting
expressions, saying, "Is Ephraim my dear son? Is he a pleasant child?
For since I spake against him, I do earnestly remember him still;
therefore my bowels are troubled for him; I will surely have mercy
upon him, saith the Lord." Thus, you see, that as it is required to pray
with the Spirit, so it is to pray with the understanding also. And to
illustrate what hath been spoken by a similitude:–set the case, there
should come two a-begging to your door; the one is a poor, lame,
wounded, and almost starved creature, the other is a healthful lusty
person; these two use the same words in their begging; the one saith
he is almost starved, so doth the other: but yet the man that is indeed
the poor, lame, or maimed person, he speaks with more sense,
feeling, and understanding of the misery that is mentioned in their
begging, than the other can do; and it is discovered more by his
affectionate speaking, his bemoaning himself. His pain and poverty
make him speak more in a spirit of lamentation than the other, and
he shall be pitied sooner than the other, by all those that have the
least dram of natural affection or pity. Just thus it is with God: there
are some who out of custom and formality go and pray; there are
others who go in the bitterness of their spirits: the one he prays out
of bare notion and naked knowledge; the other hath his words forced
from him by the anguish of his soul. Surely that is the man that God
will look at, "even to him that is poor," of an humble "and of a
contrite spirit, and trembleth at my word" (Isa 66:2).
The woman of Canaan would not take seeming denials for real ones;
she knew the Lord was gracious, and the Lord will avenge his people,
though he bear long with them (Luke 18:1- 6). The Lord hath waited
longer upon me than I have waited upon him; and thus it was with
David, "I waited patiently," saith he; that is, it was long before the
Lord answered me, though at the last "he inclined" his ear "unto me,
and heard my cry" (Psa 40:1). And the most excellent remedy for this
is, an understanding well informed and enlightened. Alas, how many
poor souls are there in the world, that truly fear the Lord, who,
because they are not well informed in their understanding, are oft
ready to give up all for lost, upon almost every trick and temptation
of Satan! The Lord pity them, and help them to "pray with the Spirit,
and with the understanding also." Much of mine own experience
could I here discover; when I have been in my fits of agony of spirit, I
have been strongly persuaded to leave off, and to seek the Lord no
longer;[10] but being made to understand what great sinners the
Lord hath had mercy upon, and how large his promises were still to
sinners; and that it was not the whole, but the sick, not the righteous,
but the sinner, not the full, but the empty, that he extended his grace
and mercy unto. This made me, through the assistance of his Holy
Spirit, to cleave to him, to hang upon him, and yet to cry, though for
the present he made no answer; and the Lord help all his poor,
tempted, and afflicted people to do the like, and to continue, though
it be long, according to the saying of the prophet (Hab 2:3). And to
help them (to that end) to pray, not by the inventions of men, and
their stinted forms, but "with the Spirit, and with the understanding
also."
Query First. But what would you have us poor creatures to do that
cannot tell how to pray? The Lord knows I know not either how to
pray, or what to pray for.
Answ. Poor heart! thou canst not, thou complainest, pray. Canst thou
see thy misery? Hath God showed thee that thou art by nature under
the curse of his law? If so, do not mistake, I know thou dost groan
and that most bitterly. I am persuaded thou canst scarcely be found
doing any thing in thy calling, but prayer breaketh from thy heart.
Have not thy groans gone up to heaven from every corner of thy
house? (Rom 8:26). I know it is thus; and so also doth thine own
sorrowful heart witness thy tears, thy forgetfulness of thy calling, &c.
Is not thy heart so full of desires after the things of another world,
that many times thou dost even forget the things of this world?
Prithee read this scripture, Job 23:12.
Query Second. Yea, but when I go into secret, and intend to pour out
my soul before God, I can scarce say anything at all.
Answ. 1. Ah! Sweet soul! It is not thy words that God so much
regards, as that he will not mind thee, except thou comest before him
with some eloquent oration. His eye is on the brokenness of thine
heart; and that it is that makes the very bowels of the Lord to run
over. "A broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise"
(Psa 51:17).
2. The stopping of thy words may arise from overmuch trouble in thy
heart. David was so troubled sometimes, that he could not speak (Psa
77:3, 4). But this may comfort all such sorrowful hearts as thou art,
that though thou canst not through the anguish of thy spirit speak
much, yet the Holy Spirit stirs up in thine heart groans and sighs, so
much the more vehement: when the mouth is hindered, yet the spirit
is not. Moses, as aforesaid, made heaven ring again with his prayers,
when (that we read of) not one word came out of his mouth (Exo
14:15). But,
3. If thou wouldst more fully express thyself before the Lord, study,
first, Thy filthy estate; secondly, God's promises; thirdly, The heart of
Christ. Which thou mayest know or discern, (1.) By his
condescension and bloodshed. (2.) By the mercy he hath extended to
great sinners formerly, and plead thine own vileness, by way of
bemoaning; Christ's blood by way of expostulation; and in thy
prayers, let the mercy that he hath extended to other great sinners,
together with his rich promises of grace, be much upon thy heart. Yet
let me counsel thee, (a.) Take heed that thou content not thyself with
words. (b.) That thou do not think that God looks only at them
neither. But, (c.) However, whether thy words be few or many, let
thine heart go with them; and then shalt thou seek him, and find
him, when thou shalt seek him with thy whole heart (Jer 29:13).
Objection. But though you have seemed to speak against any other
way of praying but by the Spirit, yet here you yourself can give
direction how to pray.
Object. But if we do not use forms of prayer, how shall we teach our
children to pray?
Answ. My judgment is, that men go the wrong way to teach their
children to pray, in going about so soon to teach them any set
company of words, as is the common use of poor creatures to do.
Object. But we find that the disciples desired that Christ would teach
them to pray, as John also taught his disciples; and that thereupon
he taught them that form called the LORD'S PRAYER.
[3.] But, in a word, Christ by those words, "Our Father," &c., doth
instruct his people what rules they should observe in their prayers to
God. (1.) That they should pray in faith. (2.) To God in the heavens.
(3.) For such things as are according to his will, &c. Pray thus, or
after this manner.
Object. But Christ bids pray for the Spirit; this implieth that men
without the Spirit may notwithstanding pray and be heard. (See Luke
11:9-13).
Answ. The speech of Christ there is directed to his own (verse 1).
Christ's telling of them that God would give his Holy Spirit to them
that ask him, is to be understood of giving more of the Holy Spirit;
for still they are the disciples spoken to, which had a measure of the
Spirit already; for he saith, "when ye pray, say, Our Father," (verse 2)
I say unto you (verse 8). And I say unto you, (verse 9) "If ye then,
being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children, how much
more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask
him," (verse 13). Christians ought to pray for the Spirit, that is, for
more of it, though God hath endued them with it already.
Quest. Then would you have none pray but those that know they are
the disciples of Christ?
Answ. Yes.
1. Let every soul that would be saved pour out itself to God, though it
cannot through temptation conclude itself a child of God. And,
Thus have I briefly showed you, FIRST, What prayer is; SECOND,
What it is to pray with the Spirit; THIRD, What it is to pray with the
Spirit, and with the understanding also.
For the first to inform you; as prayer is the duty of every one of the
children of God, and carried on by the Spirit of Christ in the soul; so
every one that doth but offer to take upon him to pray to the Lord,
had need be very wary, and go about that work especially with the
dread of God, as well as with hopes of the mercy of God through
Jesus Christ.
(1.) Your trencher chaplains, that thrust themselves into great men's
families, pretending the worship of God, when in truth the great
business is their own bellies; and were notably painted out by Ahab's
prophets, and also Nebuchadnezzar's wise men, who, though they
pretended great devotion, yet their lusts and their bellies were the
great things aimed at by them in all their pieces of devotion.
(2.) Them also that seek repute and applause for their eloquent
terms, and seek more to tickle the ears and heads of their hearers
than anything else. These be they that pray to be heard of men, and
have all their reward already (Matt 6:5). These persons are
discovered thus, (a.) They eye only their auditory in their
expressions. (b.) They look for commendation when they have done.
(c.) Their hearts either rise or fall according to their praise or
enlargement. (d.) The length of their prayer pleaseth them; and that
it might be long, they will vainly repeat things over and over (Matt
6:7). They study for enlargements, but look not from what heart they
come; they look for returns, but it is the windy applause of men. And
therefore they love not to be in their chamber, but among company:
and if at any time conscience thrusts them into their closet, yet
hypocrisy will cause them to be heard in the streets; and when their
mouths have done going their prayers are ended; for they wait not to
hearken what the Lord will say (Psa 85:8).
3. A third sort of prayer that will not be accepted of God, it is, when
either they pray for wrong things, or if for right things, yet that the
thing prayed for might be spent upon their lusts, and laid out to
wrong ends. Some have not, because they ask not, saith James, and
others ask and have not, because they ask amiss, that they may
consume it on their lusts (James 4: 2-4). Ends contrary to God's will
is a great argument with God to frustrate the petitions presented
before him. Hence it is that so many pray for this and that, and yet
receive it not. God answers them only with silence; they have their
words for their labour; and that is all. Object. But God hears some
persons, though their hearts be not right with him, as he did Israel,
in giving quails, though they spent them upon their lusts (Psa
106:14). Answ. If he doth, it is in judgment, not in mercy. He gave
them their desire indeed, but they had better have been without it,
for he "sent leanness into their soul" (Psa 106:15). Woe be to that
man that God answereth thus.
4. Another sort of prayers there are that are not answered; and those
are such as are made by men, and presented to God in their own
persons only, without their appearing in the Lord Jesus. For though
God hath appointed prayer, and promised to hear the prayer of the
creature, yet not the prayer of any creature that comes not in Christ.
"If ye shall ask anything in my name." And whether ye eat or drink,
or whatsoever ye do, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ (Col
3:17). "If ye shall ask anything in my name," &c., (John 14:13, 14),
though you be never so devout, zealous, earnest and constant in
prayer, yet it is in Christ only that you must be heard and accepted.
But, alas! the most of men know not what it is to come to him in the
name of the Lord Jesus, which is the reason they either live wicked,
pray wicked, and also die wicked. Or else, that they attain to nothing
else but what a mere natural man may attain unto, as to be exact in
word and deed betwixt man and man, and only with the
righteousness of the law to appear before God.
5. The last thing that hindereth prayer is, the form of it without the
power. It is an easy thing for men to be very hot for such things as
forms of prayer, as they are written in a book; but yet they are
altogether forgetful to inquire with themselves, whether they have
the spirit and power of prayer. These men are like a painted man,
and their prayers like a false voice. They in person appear as
hypocrites, and their prayers are an abomination (Prov 28:9). When
they say they have been pouring out their souls to God he saith they
have been howling like dogs (Hosea 7:14).
Answ. 2. Take heed that thy heart go to God as well as thy mouth. Let
not thy mouth go any further than thou strivest to draw thine heart
along with it. David would lift his heart and soul to the Lord; and
good reason; for so far as a man's mouth goeth along without his
heart, so far it is but lip-labour only; and though God calls for, and
accepteth the calves of the lips, yet the lips without the heart argueth,
not only senselessness, but our being without sense of our
senselessness; and therefore if thou hast a mind to enlarge in prayer
before God, see that it be with thy heart.
Besides, Jesus is there, not only to sprinkle the mercy-seat with his
blood, but he speaks, and his blood speaks; he hath audience, and his
blood hath audience; insomuch that God saith, when he doth but see
the blood, he "will pass over you, and the plague shall not be upon
you," &c., (Exo 12:13).
I shall not detain you any longer. Be sober and humble; go to the
Father in the name of the Son, and tell him your case, in the
assistance of the Spirit, and you will then feel the benefit of praying
with the Spirit and with the understanding also.
1. This speaks sadly to you who never pray at all. "I will pray," saith
the apostle, and so saith the heart of them that are Christians. Thou
then art not a Christian that art not a praying person. The promise is
that every one that is righteous shall pray (Psa 32:6). Thou then art a
wicked wretch that prayest not. Jacob got the name of Israel by
wrestling with God (Gen 32). And all his children bare that name
with him (Gal 6:16). But the people that forget prayer, that call not
on the name of the Lord, they have prayer made for them, but it is
such as this, "Pour out thy fury upon the heathen," O Lord, "and
upon the families that call not on thy name" (Jer 10:25). How likest
thou this, O thou that art so far off from pouring out thine heart
before God, that thou goest to bed like a dog, and risest like a hog, or
a sot, and forgettest to call upon God? What wilt thou do when thou
shalt be damned in hell, because thou couldst not find in thine heart
to ask for heaven? Who will grieve for thy sorrow, that didst not
count mercy worth asking for? I tell thee, the ravens, the dogs, &c.,
shall rise up in judgment against thee, for they will, according to
their kind, make signs, and a noise for something to refresh them
when they want it; but thou hast not the heart to ask for heaven,
though thou must eternally perish in hell, if thou hast it not.
2. This rebukes you that make it your business to slight, mock at, and
undervalue the Spirit, and praying by that. What will you do, when
God shall come to reckon for these things? You count it high treason
to speak but a word against the king, nay, you tremble at the thought
of it; and yet in the meantime you will blaspheme the Spirit of the
Lord. Is God indeed to be dallied with, and will the end be pleasant
unto you? Did God send his Holy Spirit into the hearts of his people,
to that end that you should taunt at it? Is this to serve God? And doth
this demonstrate the reformation of your church? Nay, is it not the
mark of implacable reprobates? O fearful! Can you not be content to
be damned for your sins against the law, but you must sin against the
Holy Ghost?
Must the holy, harmless, and undefiled Spirit of grace, the nature of
God, the promise of Christ, the Comforter of his children, that
without which no man can do any service acceptable to the Father–
must this, I say, be the burthen of your song, to taunt, deride, and
mock at? If God sent Korah and his company headlong to hell for
speaking against Moses and Aaron, do you that mock at the Spirit of
Christ think to escape unpunished? (Num 16; Heb 10:29). Did you
never read what God did to Ananias and Sapphira for telling but one
lie against it? (Acts 5:1-8). Also to Simon Magus for but undervaluing
of it? (Acts 8:18-22). And will thy sin be a virtue, or go unrewarded
with vengeance, that makest it thy business to rage against, and
oppose its office, service, and help, that it giveth unto the children of
God? It is a fearful thing to do despite unto the Spirit of grace
(Compare Matt 12:31, with Mark 3:28-30).
If you desire the clearing of the minor, look into the jails in England,
and into the alehouses of the same; and I trow you will find those
that plead for the Spirit of prayer in the jail, and them that look after
the form of men's inventions only in the alehouse. It is evident also
by the silencing of God's dear ministers, though never so powerfully
enabled by the Spirit of prayer, if they in conscience cannot admit of
that form of Common Prayer. If this be not an exalting the Common
Prayer Book above either praying by the Spirit, or preaching the
Word, I have taken my mark amiss. It is not pleasant for me to dwell
on this. The Lord in mercy turn the hearts of the people to seek more
after the Spirit of prayer; and in the strength of that, to pour out their
souls before the Lord. Only let me say it is a sad sign, that that which
is one of the most eminent parts of the pretended worship of God is
Antichristian, when it hath nothing but the tradition of men, and the
strength of persecution, to uphold or plead for it.
The Conclusion
I shall conclude this discourse with this word of advice to all God's
people. 1. Believe that as sure as you are in the way of God you must
meet with temptations. 2. The first day therefore that thou dost enter
into Christ's congregation, look for them. 3. When they do come, beg
of God to carry thee through them. 4. Be jealous of thine own heart,
that it deceive thee not in thy evidences for heaven, nor in thy
walking with God in this world. 5. Take heed of the flatteries of false
brethren. 6. Keep in the life and power of truth. 7. Look most at the
things which are not seen. 8. Take heed of little sins. 9. Keep the
promise warm upon thy heart. 10. Renew thy acts of faith in the
blood of Christ. 11. Consider the work of thy generation. 12. Count to
run with the foremost therein.
FOOTNOTES:
[6] How easy to forget all God's benefits, and how impossible it is to
remember them all!–ED.
[7] See Mr. Fox's citation of the mass, in the last volume of the Book
of Martyrs.
[8] Jesus Christ has opened the way to God the Father, by the
sacrifice He made for us upon the cross. The holiness and justice of
God need not frighten sinners and keep them back. Only let them cry
to God in the name of Jesus, only let them plead the atoning blood of
Jesus, and they shall find God upon a throne of grace, willing and
ready to hear. The name of Jesus is a never-failing passport to our
prayers. In that name a man may draw near to God with boldness,
and ask with confidence. God has engaged to hear him. Reader, think
of this; is not this encouragement?–J. C. Ryle–ED.
[10] "In these days, I should find my heart to shut itself up against
the Lord, and against his holy Word: I have found my unbelief to set,
as it were, the shoulder to the door to keep him out."– Grace
Abounding, No. 81.–ED.
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