Human Sexuality

Human Sexuality: Personal Reflection Research Paper
Introduction
Even though it might not be explicitly expressed, sexuality is very important to

every person. Whether a person is old or young, man or woman or from any
background, sexuality affects every aspects of their lives. The field of sexuality
has always attracted many scholars who try to explain issues that surround
human sexuality; however, this topic is not openly discussed leading many
people to be ignorant of sexuality issues. It is commonly agreed that sexual drive
is one on of the major drives that influence our decisions. In fact, sexual drives
come next to basic drives such as eating and sleep. Due to this, knowledge on
human sexuality is very important. It allows one to understand experiences and
objective decisions on sexual life. To me, the course on human sexuality was
eye-opening; allowing me to understand some of the things that I assumed to be
obvious.
Personal reflection
Before this course, issues on sexuality did seem important. I took the issues as
only worth of being experienced but not to be discussed. I took sexual identity
and feeling as given but not based on rational decision s. My sexual decisions
were not well evaluated; I relied on impulsive emotions to make such decisions. I
did not have a plane of reference to gauge my sexual decisions. Today, as I
reflect on my earlier experience I see the course as liberating for giving me
knowledge to base my sexual decisions on. Gender and sexuality seemed
synonymous and seemed to have just been acquired and which a person had no
influence. Today I can reflect on influence of these forces to my identity and all
other aspects of my life. Love and attraction were just clichés whose meaning
seemed to be obvious. Issues relationship and romance seemed to be obvious
and negative experiences from relationships seemed to be just an element of
bad lack (Nevid, J.S. et al., 2005, 67). Today, due to the principle acquired in the
course, I have understanding of these issues and also on their influence on my
relationship. Today I understand how love intimacy start, develop and how they
can be maintained. Today the forces of sexuality do not just influence me without
knowledge but I understand every element of sexual experience and mould them
to the right direction.
Critical thinking and Value systems in Sexual

Decisions
I have always appreciated the use of value system making ethical decisions.
However, I could not have imagined how critical thinking could be applied in
making sexual decisions. I considered decisions made on sexuality to be based
on emotions and feelings that could not be based to reason. I also saw value
systems and sexuality to be incompatible and in competition. The course has
brought light to this issue. I have come to realize that value systems and critical
thinking are compatible with sexual decisions and in fact, should always be used
in such decisions. Indeed, sex is a need; however expressing one’s sexuality is
based on personal choice (Diamond, J., 1997, p87). The decisions are not just
based by the biological nature of human but rational decisions should be used.
Before, I did not apply a lot of thoughts to my decisions but left them to instinct of
conscience. I did not closely relate ethics with sexuality only basing May
decisions on my conscience.
My value system is very important in my decisions on sexuality. They give me a

base in which to arrive at my decisions and to evaluate sexual drives. I strongly
believe in ethical action. It evaluates the ethical consequence of any actions and
believes that any actions should be based on rational decisions. In sexuality,
ethics are also important. Critical thinking acquired in the course has allowed me
to evaluate the ethical consequences of my sexual drive (Craig, A. H., 2008,
p99).
Every individual has value systems that influence their decisions. From the
course, I have been able to appreciate value systems of other people.
Knowledge of their value system helps me to understand the rationale through
which they make sexual decisions. This however does not make me to be
swayed but have helped me to respect my value systems. Also this knowledge
has allowed me to be tolerant of other people’s sexual decisions. Although I may
strongly believe in sex as reserved for marriage, I have no problem with other
people who hold contrary opinions. I am now able to respect their decisions but
at the same time respect my decision ns even more. In making sexual decisions,
I now have very strong tools: value systems and critical thinking.
Romantic novels, magazines and movies were the main base of my knowledge
on sexuality. Critical thinking has given me a tool to critically analyze the ideas
presented before taking applying them. Critical thinking has given me the skills to
ask questions that would lead to a better conclusion.
Effect of environment and Historical Perspective on

my sexuality
Environment and history has great influence on the perspective that we have on
sexuality. Each person live in a certain environment interacting with other people
in the environment, thus one have to be influenced by the perspectives held by
other people. The value systems, culture and other aspects of life are acquired
from the environment. Historical perspective e in very important in analyzing the
perspective on sexuality held today (Nevid, J.S. et al., 2005, p78). To me,
evaluating historical perspective helps to analyze whether the perspective on
sexuality that I hold today is really mine or acquired other perspectives. Review
of historical perspective help to appreciate the influence of culture and religion to
attitude on sexuality and sexual behavior (Sharon, M. V. & Simon, L., 2006,
p123). As the course progressed, influence of various cultures to my sexuality
was evaluated. This enabled me to identify the cultures that have influenced my
perspective on sexuality in a bigger way.
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As I evaluate the influence of historical perspective and environment on my

sexuality, I have realized that Christianity has great influence on me. My
Christian parent made it clear that sex is sacred and reserved for marriage. My
parents discouraged premarital sex mostly due to their Christian background.
The perspective on sexuality has passed down though sermon, scripture and
other Christian teachings. For example Paul advised those who could to life as
celibate, Augustine also taught that indulgence in carnal pleasure was a great
hindrance to spirituality (Nevid, J.S. et al., 2005, p56). Other sexual practice such
as anal, oral and masturbation is viewed as sinful. Today I can appreciate the
influence of environment and historical perspective but I am able to make my
own stand on my sexuality.
Gender identity
Discussion on historical perspective and environment has made me to appreciate

my sexual identity. Gender identity is very important and it entails the recognition
f a person as either a male or a female. As I reflect on my life, I realize that I
developed my gender identity depending on how I was treated (Craig, A. H.,
2008, p33). The type of cloth worn to me by my parents had great influence to
my gender. The type of games that I was encouraged to participate and the toys
bought to me said very much on my gender. The kind of chore given to me
during my earlier life suggested strongly on my gender. Remark made by my
parent on me suggested the kind of life that I was supposed to live and also to
my gender. As I now realize, the gender identity from my parent and environment
is through the learning theory (Abramson, P. R., & Pinkerton, S. D., 1995, p113).
This theory suggest that children acquire their gender identity by observing their
parent, siblings, duties assigned, and perspective created in the media to gain
their gender identity.
Attraction and love
For a long time now, I have been in relationships. If I compare the relationships
to a game, then love and attraction were the moist important element in the
game. I have fallen in love in various time; engaging in intimacy and various
decisions on relationship. From the course, I can now appreciate the opposite
attraction as postulated by science. Indeed I am attracted to individuals of
opposite sex who share so me qualities with me and that we have common
interest.
Conclusion
Sexuality is a very important element in human lives. Sexuality dictates our

relationships, career and other decision in our lives. It is mostly assumed that our
sexuality has nothing to do with science but the course suggested otherwise. The
skill of critical thinking acquired in the course in very important in making decision
on sexuality. Knowledge on attraction and love, influence of environment and
historical perspectives on our sexuality is important in appreciating our sexuality
and making decisions on the same.
Reference List
Abramson, P. R., & Pinkerton, S. D. (1995). With Pleasure: Thoughts on the

Nature of Human Sexuality. New York: Oxford University Press.
Craig, A. H. (2008). Human sexuality: personality and social psychological

perspectives. Philadelphia: Sage Publication.
Diamond, J. (1997). Why is Sex Fun? The Evolution of Human Sexuality. New
York: BasicBooks.

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Human Sexuality: Personal Reflection Research Paper

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Effect of environment and Historical Perspective on

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