Lecture 5 6 7 8
Lecture 5 6 7 8
Creative Planning
• When children are engaged in interesting and meaningful activities, they are less likely
to misbehave.
• It is important for educators to follow a well-planned developmentally appropriate
curriculum and lesson plan.
Preventions
• Prevention activities are strategies that are used with children before the behaviour
becomes a major issue.
– For Example: Having Rules:
• Review the behavioural expectations.
• Explain the reason for the expectations.
• Have children role-play expected behaviours.
Anger Management
What is RID?
• RID is a three-part process for a skill that you can use to help manage anger.
• You can also apply the RID process in situations involving such emotions as frustration
and disappointment.
• Look for ways to apply this process to a whole range of anger-provoking or stressful
situations.
• Writing a letter to the person explaining how angry you are and then destroying the
letter.
• Helping someone else.
• Watching a funny movie.
• Spending time on your favorite hobby.
• Doing something creative.
1) Attention
2) Power
3) Revenge
4) Avoid failure
All of these strategies that we have studied are positive in nature and will help you connect
with your child in a way that will increase their confidence, self-respect, and respect for you.
• 1- When children are upset, they may not be able to think rationally
• 2-Children may need some time to cool off.
• 3-Young children have not developed to the point that they can think like adults think.
strategies for children who do not apologize.
• 1-Use ¨what ¨ and ¨how ¨ questions. They are open ended and may encourage a child to
explore what has happened.
• 2- Try to get the child to identify the other persons feelings.
• 3-Forcing an apology does not equal sincerity.
Punishment
1. It emphasizes what a child should not do instead of what a child should do!
2. Focuses on obedience rather than on development of self-control.
3. It undermines self-esteem.
4. It makes a decision for the child rather than allowing the child to think through a
solution.
5. Physical punishment tends to increase undesirable behaviors such as aggression.
6. Children learn to avoid and dislike those who punish them.
7. Educational theorists discourage punishment because of its long-term ineffectiveness in
changing the undesired behavior.
• Punishment and reward are not effective in making long-term positive changes in a
child’s behavior.
3. Revenge-- You have hurt me, and I’ll hurt you back.
4. After the Child has calmed Down, He/She Might be Guided to Apologize/Solve Conflicts
Remember they will apologize/ solve conflicts only if it is their idea. This sometimes
happens by asking, “ What would make you feel better?”. Helping a child to decide to do
something for someone else is much different than demanding that they do.
5. If the Child Still doesn’t Feel Like Doing Anything for Other Person.
Express your faith that he or she will soon learn to care about and help others.
Lecture 8
Effectively Observing Recording & Communicating
Misbehaviors
Anecdotal Records
• An anecdotal records is a story about a child’s behaviour. It is told in the past tense and
like any story has a beginning and a conclusion. Anecdotal observations can be
recorded quickly and on the spot.
Objective Language
• objective language focuses on the plain facts about a person or object—what is true and
what can be proven.
Labels Alternatives
• Skinny Slender
• Bossy Assertive
• Noisy Boisterous
Documentation of Misbehavior
When confronting stinging remarks try not to be defensive unless the need arises. If you
must defend yourself do so briefly and professionally.