How To Retire Happy Wild and Free

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How To Retire Happy Wild and Free - Ernie J.

Zelinski

Questions to ask yourself when figuring out what to do:

• What is extremely important to me?


• What makes me happy?
• What made me happy in my childhood and my teens that I would like to do
again?
• What made me happy in my career that I would like to continue doing?
• What would make me a much happier person? Having a lot more money or
becoming famous can't be one of them.
• What talents or skills am I most proud of?
• What fields or endeavor invariably challenges me in new and exciting ways?
• What makes me feel most creative?
• What special talent have I neglected while putting in long and hard hours in
my career?
• What would I like to do that I have always wanted to do, but never got around
to doing?
• How would I like to make the world a better place in my own way?
• What sort of legacy would I like to leave?

"Whistle While You work: Heeding Your Life's Calling" by Richard J. Leider and David
A. Shapiro

1. What gift do I naturally give to others?


2. What gift do I most enjoy giving to others?
3. What gift have I most often given to others?

Finding What To Do:

• Activities that turn you on now


• Activities that have turned you on in the past (but you have stopped doing)
• New activities you have thought of doing (but haven't done yet)

Three important needs


1. Structure
2. Community
3. Purpose

Questions to ask yourself annually:

• Am I in control of my lifestyle?
• Do I make the most of my money to give me the best quality of life?
• What can I achieve in my retirement that would make me proud?
• What can I do that is unique?
• Do I have enough great friend in my life?
• Do I devote sufficient time to see my close friends?
• Do I watch too much TV?
• Does my lifestyle complement my partner's?
• Do I travel as much as I would like?
• Do my time commitments allow me to make a contribution to making this
world a better place?
• Do my time commitments allow me to indulge in creative endeavors?
• Am I developing spiritually as a human being?
• Do I exercise enough, in my own enjoyable way?
• Do I complain too much?
• Am I as grateful as I should be for what I have in my life?
• Am I continually learning something new?
• Do I do something special for myself each and every day?
• Do I take enough time to meditate and keep my mind in tiptop shape?
• Am I living in the right country or in the right part of the country?
• What will make me feel better?
• Do I have everything I need to be happy, but don't realize it?

Experiencing leisure activities to the fullest:

• A feeling of freedom
• Total absorption in the activity at hand
• Lack of focus on self
• Enhanced perceptions of objects and events
• Little awareness of the passage of time
• Increased sensitivity to body sensations
• Increased sensitivity to emotions

Six important suggestions:

• Take the time to find out what you really want to do with your life
• Take more risks
• Lighten up and don't take life so seriously
• Be more patient
• It's best to suffer from the Peter-Pan syndrome. Relive your younger
days. What were your dreams when you were young?
• Live the moment more

Do the simple things that are important for your happiness:

• Spend time with the people and things you like


• Strive for personal freedom
• Don't lose touch with the craziness within yourself
• Freedom entails non-attachment to what others can not do without
• Show gratitude for what you have on a daily basis
• Resist accepting society's ways of living as the right one
• Try to reconnect with your childhood tendencies
• Keep in mind that happiness is a mode of travel and not the destination
• Involve yourself in something that is vital and purposeful
• Get a focused, satisfying, balanced life
• Make small pleasures your biggest priority
• Laugh and have fun regardless of the situation
• Make your stay on earth as close to a heavenly experience as it can be

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