Let's inspire our children to dream beyond the stars.

With our unwavering belief in their

potential, they'll gather the courage to reach for the sky and transform their dreams into reality
As parents, we're the first teachers in our children's lives. Let's create a love for learning 🌱✨ by
fostering curiosity and providing them with a world of knowledge to explore. Together, we'll
inspire the future
Every child possesses two remarkable brain systems – the upper and the lower. 🔝🔽

🚀 Upper Brain: This is where their potential truly shines. It's the source of sound decision-
making, empathy, self-awareness, and moral compass. Kids with well-developed upper brains
thrive in problem-solving, creativity, and interpersonal skills, setting them up for success.

🚫 Lower Brain: While essential for survival, an overactive lower brain can lead to impulsivity,
emotional turmoil, and reactive behaviors. Kids who don't get the chance to nurture their upper
brains can find themselves stuck in a cycle of instinctual reactions.

🚧 The Harmful Consequences: Children without the opportunity to develop their upper brains
may struggle in regulating emotions, forming healthy relationships, and making thoughtful
choices.

Empower your child's upper brain to help them reach their full potential and lead a life of
positive, purposeful growth.

Engaging kids in activities to develop upper brain is the key to a succesful almost super-human
kid

Summarized answer would be

- Raising childs curiosity through field trips and exploration
- Cognitive abilities through Problem Solving challenges
- Critical thinking through discussions
- Creativity through arts and crafts
- Strategy skills through puzzles
- Comprehension through readin
And more

Most importantly creating an environment conducive to usage of upper brain with consistency
and care
Picture this: a delightful family evening, until you reach into the freezer and discover there are
no more orange Popsicles. And cue the epic toddler meltdown starring -> our very own Amin!
😳🧊

It's like a comedy of errors, as his 'downstairs' brain leaps into action. 💥🧠

With all the drama unfolding, massive brainpower races to that 'downstairs' brain, leaving the
'upstairs' brain (the one responsible for calm and reason) feeling like an underpaid intern on a
coffee run. ☕💼

You try to reason with Amin, offering the delicious purple Popsicles that he actually preferred
the last time. But, oh dear, it's like talking to a brick wall.

In that moment, Amin might as well be auditioning for a toddler version of 'America's Got Talent,'
starring his dramatic talent of throwing things and yelling at anyone within earshot!

These moments of chaos and love shape our little ones into incredible human beings. So here's
to embracing the messiness and loving every bit of it!
As parents, we're not just raising children; we're nurturing future leaders, thinkers, and kind-
hearted individuals. Let's instill in them the values of honesty, kindness, and perseverance.
Together, we're shaping a brighter tomorrow
Childhood is a collection of enchanting moments. From building forts to starry nights, let's craft
memories that our children will carry with them throughout their lives. These are the treasures
that make their hearts smile
🌠💫 As parents, we hold the keys to the doors of possibility for our children. Each child is like a
unique book with blank pages waiting to be written. 📖✨

Let's be the authors of their stories, filling their chapters with love, guidance, and cherished
memories. In the book of their lives, we inspire them to be courageous, imaginative, and
curious. With every turn of the page, they uncover new adventures and embrace the world's
endless opportunities.

Together, we're writing tales of growth, laughter, and learning. We're nurturing their creativity,
their resilience, and their dreams. And as they look back on their journey, they'll see us as the
ones who helped them write the most inspiring chapters of all. 🌟👪

With each word of encouragement, we empower them to become the authors of their own lives,
creating stories filled with purpose and fulfillment. 📚🌱
🌟🌿 In the grand tapestry of life, our children are the threads that weave our stories together.
Each child is like a sturdy tree in our family forest, weathering storms and growing stronger with
time. 🌳💪
Just as trees sway and bend in the wind, let's teach our children resilience. Life may bring
unexpected storms, but with love as our shelter, we help them stand tall and strong. They take
root in our values and bloom with determination, creating a canopy of hope and strength. 🌈🌱

Parenting is a journey of nurturing, growth, and love. We're their guiding stars in a world full of
possibilities, always there to offer a branch to lean on and a leaf to shelter under.

Together, we're creating a family forest where each member contributes to the beauty and
strength of our bond. Through every season, we remain rooted in love, our branches reaching
out in support, and our leaves offering shade and comfort.
🌱🌈 Parenting is a remarkable journey, akin to tending a vast and diverse garden. Our children
are the delicate, yet resilient, blooms that grace our landscape. Each one is a unique
masterpiece, waiting to flourish with the right care and nourishment. 🌷✨
As gardeners of this beautiful plot, we know that the roots of love run deep, providing a solid
foundation for growth. We are their protectors and guides, shielding them from harsh elements
and encouraging them to reach for the sky. Just as trees sway in the wind but stand tall, we aim
to raise children who are not only strong but kind-hearted, compassionate, and filled with
dreams. 🌳💪

In this ever-evolving adventure, we're not just nurturing plants; we're cultivating character,
values, and dreams. Every day, we witness the beauty of growth, celebrating milestones and
cherishing the laughter that fills our garden.

Parenting teaches us as much as it does our children. It's a journey of self-discovery and
growth, a testament to the boundless love we have for our little ones. Together, we nurture not
just plants but the future, one day at a time.
🌠💫 As parents, we hold the quill to write the stories of our children's lives, the architects of their
dreams, and the guiding stars in their expansive cosmos of possibilities. Each child is an
unwritten book, their pages waiting to be filled with the adventures of life. 📖✨
Our words, our deeds, and our unwavering support are the ink that shapes the narrative of their
journey. We pen chapters of love, encouragement, and cherished memories. We inspire them to
be fearless, imaginative, and curious. With every turn of the page, they step into a world
brimming with opportunities, where the keys to countless doors of possibility rest in their hands.

Together, we craft tales of growth, laughter, and learning. We nurture their creativity, resilience,
and dreams. And as they reflect on the chapters of their lives, they'll see us as the co-authors
who helped them write the most inspiring stories of all. 🌟👪

Through our words of encouragement, we empower them to become the authors of their own
destinies, weaving narratives brimming with purpose, fulfillment, and the pursuit of their dreams.
📚🌱
🌱🌈 Parenthood, the exquisite art of nurturing, is like cultivating a vast, vibrant garden. Our
children are the blossoms, each unique in their colors and fragrance, awaiting the sunlight of
love and the rain of guidance to flourish. 🌷✨
As gardeners of this magnificent terrain, we know that love is the deep-rooted foundation upon
which their growth depends. We stand as guardians, providing shade from the storms and
encouraging them to reach for the heavens. Just as trees bend in the wind but stand firm, our
aim is to raise children who are not only resilient but also compassionate, empathetic, and filled
with dreams. 🌳💪

In this ever-evolving journey, we're not merely cultivating plants; we're nurturing character,
values, and aspirations. Each day, we witness the beauty of growth, marking milestones and
treasuring the laughter that fills our garden.

Parenthood is not just about guiding our children but also about self-discovery and growth. It's a
testament to the boundless love we have for our little ones. Together, we're not merely tending
to plants, but we're nurturing the future, one day at a time.
📚🌟 Parenting is a remarkable journey, much like the adventure of diving into the pages of an
enthralling novel. With every chapter, we uncover new facets of our children's lives – their
unique stories, talents, and dreams that eagerly await their turn to be told. As parents, we play
the role of both authors and readers, co-creating their success stories with every word we write
and every action we take. It's a journey of unwavering love, dedication, and a profound
commitment to nurturing the boundless potential that resides within our children. Together, we
compose a masterpiece, a tapestry of love, growth, and endless possibilities, each page filled
with the vibrant colors of their individuality. 📖💖
🚀🌠 Imagine us, as parents, as the mighty rocket boosters propelling our children toward the
stars. With our unwavering support and encouragement, we ignite their passions, fuel their
ambitions, and empower them to reach for the distant galaxies of their dreams. Together, we
embark on an exhilarating journey of discovery, one where we explore uncharted territories of
knowledge and experience. Our children's dreams are like constellations in the night sky,
waiting for us to help them navigate their course. With love as our fuel and guidance as our
compass, we journey through the cosmos of potential, reaching new heights with each
endeavor. It's a journey filled with stardust, where we, as parents, have the privilege of being
the guiding constellations in our children's lives, helping them find their way in the vast universe
of possibilities. 🌌✨
Kids logic grows day by day, our guidance helps them find their way.
Part 1: The Problem

🧒 Imagine this: Aisha's seven-year-old son couldn't sleep one night, and he was really upset.
He came to the living room and said something that seemed a bit strange. He told his mom, "I'm
mad that you never leave me a note in the middle of the night!" 📝

😳 Aisha was surprised because she didn't understand why he wanted a note at night. Then, her
son started complaining about all sorts of things. He said, "You never do anything nice for me,
my birthday is so far away, and I hate homework!" It all seemed a bit random and didn't make
much sense.

She could try explaining that birthdays come on their own every year and that homework is
mandatory or else he wouldnt progress, but is that the right approach? Aisha as a mother knew
there was more going on deep down within her child.

🧠 So, what was going on here? Well, sometimes kids say and feel things that don't seem
logical. Aisha's son was feeling lots of strong emotions, but his logical thinking wasn't helping
him make sense of it all. Handled insensitively can alienate the child, The key is connectedness.
How connected are we to our child?

The true legacy we leave our children isn't in bricks and land, but in the emotional intelligence
we instill, hand in hand. Knowing how to nurture their hearts and minds today is the key to their
triumphant journey, come what may
n our society, we're taught to solve problems with words and reason.

But when your four-year-old is upset because he can't be Spider-Man on the ceiling, or your
eleven-year-old feels neglected by his sister, it's not about logic.

These moments call for understanding that logic isn't the key, and even though their feelings
might seem strange, they matter. We must respect and validate their emotions in our
responses." 🤝🧒💬
Think about it: When it comes to cooking, we're quick to follow recipes from the pros, right?

But when we became parents, we didn't exactly take a 'Parenting 101' course. So, who's our
role model in this adventure?

Are we unintentionally putting our kids at a disadvantage? 🤔

Let's stir up some food for thought!
If I am not for myself, who is for me?
If I am only for myself, what am I?
If not now, when?
In a world of feelings, we sail and we roam,
With family by our side, we find our way home

A young boy named Zayd. He was about to start a journey, guided by those who loved him
most.

One day, Zayd had a big argument with a close friend. He said, "I don't care if we never talk
again," but his face showed that he was upset. His lip quivered, and his eyes darted around.

🔄 Zayd's parents did something special. They didn't give him a lecture. Instead, they listened
and understood. Together, they explored Zayd's feelings.

🌱 This marked the beginning of an adventure—a journey of growth and togetherness, where
they learned to understand and accept emotions. 🌱💕

As time went by, they realized how important it was to stay close. If they didn't, Zayd might turn
to others for comfort, and not all of them would be good for developing right feelings with
understanding. 🚧
I talk and share while I play and explore, in moments of joy, my feelings I'll implore

Experienced parents and child therapists know that kids often open up best when they're busy
doing something else, like building, playing games, or on a car ride. They may find it easier to
talk while they're occupied, rather than in a formal face-to-face conversation
One afternoon, Aisha heard yelling and commotion in the bedroom of her six-year-old son,
Adam. Four-year-old Layla had discovered her brother's treasure box and accidentally lost his
"most precious crystal." Aisha arrived just in time to hear Layla say, in her most spiteful tone,
"It's just a silly stone, and I'm happy it's gone!"

Aisha looked at her young son, his fists clenched and his face turning red. You've probably
experienced a similar moment, where a delicate situation with your child hangs in the balance,
teetering between a peaceful resolution and potential chaos. In situations like these, one's
actions can either foster lifelong understanding between siblings or exacerbate rivalry.

Handling such situations with sensitivity and care can lead to a lasting bond between siblings,
where they learn to resolve conflicts, share, and empathize with each other. Conversely,
neglecting these moments can result in prolonged tension, resentment, and a fractured sibling
relationship
I can not be present with my kids every second.
How can I instill in my children the ability to make responsible choices and exercise self-
discipline, even in moments when I'm not present with them every step of the way?

One of the valuable skills to impart to our children is the capability to make wise decisions,
particularly in situations with strong emotions involved
Middle childhood that is 7 to 11 years. Don't miss the opportunity to ensure your child is
engaged at this crucial age
Developed well they can easily start mastering programming logic development and spoken
different languages easily from age 11 onwards.
Children's brains are highly plastic, and their cognitive abilities continue to develop throughout
their early years.
Power of Balance: TV and smartphones provide a world of opportunities for our children, yet it's
the balance that makes all the difference in their development.

🚀 The Hidden Potential: A balanced media diet allows kids to explore, learn, and create with
their upper brains, fostering empathy, critical thinking, and meaningful connections.

💡 Alarming Stats: Research shows that children who spend excessive hours in front of screens
struggle with delayed cognitive development, attention issues, and emotional well-being.
5% decrease in cognitive development with every month of delay
10% increase in attention issues with every 3 months of postponement
15% more emotional well-being challenges for every six months of inaction

💬 In Their Own Words: When asked about screen time, children shared their insights:
'Sometimes I wish I could talk to my friends more,' 'I want to play outside,' 'I feel lonely when
even at home everyone is on phone.'

⏳ Every moment counts, and the time to find that balance is now. Empower your child to thrive with the
right media mix.

🔗 We all know Bill Gates, Elon Musk are very careful about phones and TV interaction with their
kids, So too we must empower our children so they can arrive at their future with empathy,
creativity, and confidence. 🚀🔝
LOWER BRAIN TANTRUMS

Recognize first, Resolve Later

Many times that we have quickly rushed into applying a band aid have caused more harm than
heal.

We've all been there—your little one gets so upset that their "upstairs brain" takes a little
vacation, leaving their emotions in charge. 💥 Imagine this: You pour water on your toddler's
head to wash their hair, and suddenly, they're screaming, throwing toys, and swinging their little
fists like a tiny tornado. It's like their "upstairs brain" went on a coffee break. ☕

In this wild moment, it's the lower parts of their brain, especially the amygdala, that seize control
and hijack their rational thinking. They can't even consider consequences, solve problems, or
think about anyone else's feelings. It's like they've "flipped their lid." 🧢🙈

When your child has a full-blown "downstairs tantrum," they've essentially blocked the stairs to
the "upstairs" brain, and they can't use their full brain power. (Ever said your child "totally lost
their mind"? Well, you're more neurologically accurate than you thought! 😉)

So, what's a parent to do in these dis-integrated moments? When your little one is in the midst
of a full-blown "downstairs tantrum," let's be real—conversations about consequences and
appropriate behavior won't get you anywhere. Why? Because these talks require a fully
functioning "upstairs brain" that can listen and process information. And in a tantrum, that
upstairs brain is on vacation. ✈️

So, what's your first task when your child's "upstairs brain" has taken a leave of absence, and
their "downstairs brain" is calling the shots?
It's all about soothing the amygdala, the emotional center of their brain. 🌈🤗

When the "upstairs brain" reenters the scene, that's your cue to bring in the logic and reason. 🌟
(“Did you not like it when Daddy washed your hair like that? Do you have any ideas on how we
should do it next time?”) It's the moment to engage in a thoughtful conversation and explore
solutions.

Once your little one is in a more receptive space, you can also talk about appropriate and
inappropriate behavior and potential consequences. ("I understand you were really upset about
the water splashing in your face. But it's not okay to react with hitting. You can use words and
tell Daddy, 'I don't like that. Please stop.'")

Your discipline remains authoritative, and that's crucial. But now, it comes from a place of
understanding and compassion. Your child is more likely to internalize the lesson because
you're teaching it when their brain is ready to learn. 🤗🧡
Gift your children the executive power: the function of making decisions:
Empower Your Children with Decision-Making: Resist the urge to make every choice for your
kids. Encourage them to practice decision-making, nurturing their executive functioning skills.
And that doesnt mean the kid can just have what they want.

Rather it would be engaing them in contemplating various options and weighing potential
outcomes strengthens their upstairs brain, fostering better decision-making. 🌟🧠🤝
Open up your child to the world of thought provoking questions:
"Would it be OK to run a red light if there was an emergency?"
"If a bully was picking on someone at school and there were no adults around, what would you
do?"
"If you found a wallet on the street with money in it, what would you do?"
"What should you do if you accidentally break something that belongs to someone else?"
"If a friend is feeling sad, how would you try to make them feel better?"
"Why is it important to tell the truth, even if you might get in trouble?"
"If you see someone being excluded or left out, how would you include them?"
"How do you decide what's the right amount of screen time for you?"
"What would you do if you saw someone littering in a park?"
"If you witness someone cheating during a game, how would you handle it?"
"Why is it important to be kind to animals and take care of them?"
"If you borrow something from a friend and accidentally damage it, what's the right thing to do?"
The true prize is not just the material gains but also the peace we find within ourselves.

Learn to still the storm in your heart, and you'll win a prize greater than any trophy
helping strengthen the bond and getting the real understanding of the child. Sharing just a small
snippet to have the ball rolling.

How do you feel when your brother or sister shares their toys or snacks with you?
a) Happy and grateful
b) Indifferent
c) Annoyed and jealous
d) Sad and left out

When you're upset, what's the best thing to do to feel better?

a) Talk to your parents or a trusted adult
b) Keep it to yourself
c) Blame your brother or sister
d) Yell and get even

What's an important way to show love and respect to your brother or sister?
a) Listening to their feelings and ideas
b) Ignoring them
c) Making fun of them
d) Hiding their stuff

When your parents are busy, what's a good way to connect with them?
a) Ask them about their day and share your stories
b) Stay in your room and play alone
c) Complain that they never spend time with you
d) Demand their attention

Your brother or sister made a mistake, and they feel bad about it. What can you do to support
them?
a) Offer comfort and let them know it's okay to make mistakes
b) Laugh at them and tell everyone about it
c) Ignore them and pretend it didn't happen
d) Get mad and scold them
The most wonderful magic is the love and time that parents share with their children.

It's not just about the flowers that bloom in a garden, but the love that blooms in the hearts of
those who nurture it.

In the end, the most precious seeds we can plant are the ones of love and togetherness, and
they, too, will grow into something truly magical.
Corruption affects our world in many ways, and it's crucial for our children to grasp its impact.
Instead of leaving it to chance, let's invest time in educating them about this vital topic. By
starting a conversation early, we can empower the next generation to be part of a brighter,
corruption-free future. 🌟

Think of a game you play with your friends. What if one of your friends changes the rules when
they are losing to make sure they win, even if it's not fair?

In a scenario, there's a box of chocolates that are meant to be shared equally among siblings.
However, one sibling takes more chocolates than the others without telling anyone
Empowering children to face adversity and stand strong in the face of shaming or ridicule is
crucial for their emotional well-being and self-confidence. Teach them resilience through Real
life examples, Open communication and Power of kindness
Media can shape our beliefs and perceptions, often emphasizing imagination over factual
accuracy. Thats called narrative. Media outlets may prioritize sensational stories, impacting the
way we view the world.
Parenting is an incredible journey, filled with moments of joy, challenges, and opportunities to
shape a bright future for our children.

It's like nurturing a garden, where we plant seeds of potential, and with care and dedication, we
watch them grow. We all want the best for our kids, and that's a beautiful aspiration.

There are times when the path may seem daunting, and we face tough challenges. But it's in
those moments that we discover our own strength and resilience. These are the opportunities to
make a real difference.

As parents, we focus on what needs our attention most, the areas that need nurturing and
growth. We work together as a team to tackle problems and find solutions, because we're
committed to giving our children nothing less than greatness.

While there are moments of hard work, there's also an abundance of love and joy. Every
milestone, every small success, is a celebration of the wonderful journey we're on.

So, let's embrace the responsibility, the challenges, and the joys of parenting with open hearts
and a clear vision. Our children are our legacy, and it's up to us to help them shine as the
amazing individuals they are destined to become."
Repeating tasks like changing a diaper is like second nature; you do it instinctively, your brain
orchestrating a dance of neurons that guide your hands and actions without conscious thought.
It's the kind of memory formed through experience, where past instances of changing diapers
influence your current performance without you even realizing it's happening.

But then there's another kind of memory, the one you consciously recall. For instance, that first
time you changed a diaper – it might make you pause, summon a mental image of a nervous
grip on a baby's ankle, and a cringe at the diaper's contents. When you actively ponder these
images and emotions, you know you're retrieving a memory from the past. This is explicit
memory, different from the autopilot memory that lets you change a diaper now without a
second thought.

These two memory types intertwine, influencing your daily life. Implicit memory is the unspoken
memory that enables routine tasks, while explicit memory is the conscious recollection of
experiences. Understanding both is crucial for ourselves and our children. By grasping these
two memory types, we can better support our kids as they navigate life's challenges.

Starting with implicit memories, these take root even before birth. An anecdote from Dan's
family illustrates this. While his wife was pregnant, he sang a cherished Russian lullaby to their
unborn children, creating an implicit memory of the melody. After birth, when Dan sang different
songs, the babies immediately recognized the familiar lullaby and responded, demonstrating the
presence of an unspoken, perceptual memory.

Implicit memory forms continually in our lives, and during the first eighteen months, we primarily
encode these unspoken memories. Infants encode the world through their senses: the scents,
sounds, tastes, and sensations of home and family. Implicit memory captures the essence of
these perceptions, emotions, and eventually, practical skills like walking, riding a bike, and even
changing diapers. Implicit memory is critical in understanding our children's experiences and
emotions, particularly when it comes to their fears and frustrations.
Implicit memories are like our brain's way of learning from past experiences. They
create expectations about how things will happen based on what we've seen before. For
instance, if you always hug your child when you come home, they expect a hug. This is
because their brain gets ready for it, even before you do it. As they grow, these
memories can affect how they react to different situations. If someone often criticizes
them, they might start thinking they're not good at something, like playing the piano.

Sometimes, these memories can be linked to really scary experiences. Hearing a certain
sound or seeing something specific can make a person feel really upset because it
brings back a bad memory, even if they don't realize it.

For parents, it's important to understand this. When your child acts in a way that seems
strange, it might be because of these memories. Talking to them about how they feel
can help them understand and deal with their emotions better