Hiya straw Jefferson welcome once again to getting up to speed with speed seduction

you're multi modular course for newbies people are curious and even old time
students who just want to review this is module two on the tools of speed seduction
the first module was on the concepts and the ideas and the cognitions of speed
seduction I remind you that you should feel perfectly for you to share this module
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tell you at the end of this presentation I'm going to be sharing a completely free
resource so you can get a lot more language patterns word-for-word you can read
them I'm going to give you some download links we

Can download the actual pattern archives and see them so let's get started I here
to really enjoy this today I want to talk about language patterns this is what
makes speed seduction famous these language constructs that capturing lead woman's
imagination and emotion so let's define it what is a pattern people heard the
pattern the incredible connection pattern you may have heard of these discovery
channel pattern there's all sorts of over the years memorized

Language patterns of both myself and my students have come up with so what do we
mean by language patterns well a language pattern is any kind of construct any
combination of words and phrases that is calculated and actually does capture and
lead woman's imagination and emotions to generate the emotional states and
responses that you want remember the speed seducers were not over focus or mostly
focused or even first focused on the behaviors we want

From women our theory is that instead we have to focus on the emotional states
because it's from these emotional states that her behavior that we want is going to
naturally flow these patterns are something that women enjoy you are not doing
something wrong when you do patterns with women because this is how women think
this is what they enjoy it's part of how they process their internal emotional
world women love this stuff if you don't think

Women respond to language differently then ask yourself do some research what do
you think is the most popular form the best-selling form of fiction out there in
fact it out sells all non fiction and fiction combined you probably already know
it's the romance novel now if you picked up a romance novel you'd be bored out of
your mind but women love this stuff and the patterns and this is really important
to you for you to

Understand the patterns reflect how women think anyway they're not some stuff that
was beamed down from Mars stuff I made up on my head it was based on my observation
of how women speak and think and process their emotions in any case remember this
key point I repeat that repetition can be the mother of skill if you act on these
ideas whatever you can get a woman to imagine for herself is going to be perceived
by her his being her own thought and therefore

She will not resist it you could sort of think of it as being like a emotional
ventriloquist you're not throwing your voice you're sort of throwing your thoughts
into her head whatever you have to argue a woman into will be perceived as coming
from outside of herself even if it's in her own best interest so it will often be
resistant so let's talk about memorized language patterns what are the elements of
a really good memorized language pattern

Whether it's the pattern the Discovery Channel pattern which we'll go through in
detail here in this module the incredible connection pattern there's so many of
them I've lost count of them well first of all they reflect themes or topics that
women love but what I mean by that I mean they're about five or six themes which if
you can get a woman talking about it you can talk to her about preferably both are
more likely to activate the fantasy

Circuits in her mind the circuits and her mind and body that are responsible for
those states of lust fascination aroused wanting to get it on right now some of
those themes would include connection how we connect with ourselves how we connect
with our desires connections indulgences and escape really good one there's
actually four five six of them I'm only gonna give you those two or three four now
the patterns include

Sensory rich language what I mean by sensory rich language well good language
pattern will describe how something looked it will describe how something felt it
will describe how something sounds how it sounded so they're very sensory rich they
often include sexual metaphor now in a subsequent module I'll get into sexual
metaphor but you'll understand it when I get into that module but basically just a
very quick overview sexual metaphor is when you

Talk about things so it sounds like you're talking about something innocent that
in fact you're talking about something sexual they use one or more of the four
doorways into a woman's mind they light up her neurology in other words when the
woman is visualizing the way she visualizes when she wants a guy when she's talking
to herself on the inside the way she talked to herself but she really wants to die
when she's feeling the flow of feelings that she

Feels what she really wants a guy when she's lit up like that then she's going to
take the action she takes but you lit up like that now finally they're delivered
vehicles for embedded commands and suggestions we're going to get into embedded
commands and suggestions in detail in a subsequent module so let's talk about a
little bit about what I mean by a deliberately delivery vehicle just think of for
now think of embedded commands as

Little small pieces that do the actual heavy lifting of leading her imagination
and emotions if you think of the Trojan horse think of language patterns is that
Trojan horse and inside of it are the little soldiers the little embedded commands
and suggestions they're going to hop out and open up the walls if you don't know
the story of the Trojan horse wit so let's look at the Discovery Channel pattern
what is the Discovery Channel having so many of my students

Have used this pattern either to seduce women on its own or as part of overall
very successful seduction I was on a conference call today with my coaching club
and one of my students talked about how he used this on a girl and she was all over
him she wound up saying to him they made out she said do you live there but can we
see your place on let's see what it looks like and of course he then closed the
deal

So the Discovery Channel pattern deals with the following themes it deals with
themes of adventure fascination excitement anticipation and it uses the metaphor of
the roller coaster and the ambiguity of attraction we will go through the pattern
word-for-word and you will see it talks about attraction well does Attraction mean
a ride in amusement park or does it mean the attraction between men and women in
fact when this guy I told you about did the

Pattern when this girl she said wow it sounds like great sex it uses a lot of
sensory rich description you'll see this in the pattern that we're talking about
the way things feel the way they sound it uses quotes one of my favorite David
Speed seduction tools which we'll get into later quotes talks about a subject that
you saw or that you read or that you heard about and it uses sexual metaphor get
off going down take this ride climb back on you'll see
 This when we go through the pattern so let's get to it so here's the language goes
like this do you like roller coasters I was watching the most interesting program
the other day on the Discovery Channel and they were talking about rides
attractions of amusement parks and they were asking what makes for the ideal
attraction now let's stop a minute and what's going on with the first paragraph of
this

Pattern I want to go through it piece by piece so you can see what's going on
whenever you're understanding what a tool is designed to do then you're really
understanding the tool as opposed to just memorizing reciting so first of all by
talking about a program we saw on TV we're using the tool called quotes quotes
allows us to make reference to something we saw on TV or that we read in a magazine
or heard a friend say and that makes it safer because it's not

Like we're saying it directly to the woman we're just quoting something that we
saw or read or heard about and because it isn't really us saying it we're able to
step back from it if we get a bad response we go wow you know that's something not
that I would never myself say quotes allows us to test the other person's readiness
to test her responsiveness to the subject if we see that she's confused or that
she's having

A negative response again we step back from it we said well I would never say
anything like that or I think that silly or stupid and quotes can be used as a
sexual accelerator I've done this before my students have done it at the right time
you say you know I was the bar the other night and this guy looked at this girl he
said can you imagine me eating your all night long just the way you like it did you
really expect her to think about

That Debbie and really want it now now I know it sounds improbable but I'm telling
you you can deliver that message by putting it in quotes it's not like you're
saying to her directly I want to eat your Debbie now also in this first paragraph
we're using an ambiguity as I said this attraction being the attraction between a
man or a look and a woman or does it mean a ride at an amusement park we're also
you see a self point a self

Point as a subtle gesture that associates you with whatever you're talking about
as self point is subtle it's not like you're not calling in an air strike you're
just subtly doing this that's I do a self point here's a gold key tip using two or
more tools at the same time is very powerful so you'll see that we're using many
things in combination we're using ambiguity we're using quotes we're using sensory
rich language you're

Using sexual metaphor we're using all of these things working together in just a
few sentences so let's go on with some some more this language he said there are
three elements to a fantastic attraction first there's that feeling of anticipation
you know that first long vertical climb up the track you can feel the anticipation
growing you feel your heart beat faster the excitement building you feel the blood
rushing to your muscles your breathing starts to

Come faster and faster you feel it building and then you feel that rush of
excitement going down so what are we using here we're using the doorway of body
feelings there are four doorways into a woman's mind and emotion so let's make a
little sidetrack here first your strong body feelings feelings of emotional
connection so body feelings could be a rush of warmth in your chest attain lean in
her vagina feelings of emotional connection are similar but the

More like well I just feel so connected if you ask a woman who's really loved what
did it feel like when you first met your boyfriend she'll say I just felt this this
click and will tend to point towards their heart center so it's doing that it's
also getting her to visualize she's visualizing going up the track right it's
getting her to talk to herself and it's eliciting up theirs getting her to
visualize theirs getting her to talk to herself which is one of

The doorways you know think she says to herself to get herself turned on and then
there's a listening her values we'll get to that later but you can see that with
the Discovery Channel pattern we're getting here to visualize and we're mostly
getting strong body feelings so we're using those two doorways but moe sleeeeep the
doorway of strong body feelings and we're doing this too we're using embedded
commands you see the

Embedded commands feel the anticipation growing feel your heart beating faster
feel that rush going down and of course the sexual metaphor going down does that
mean going down as in oral sex or going down the top and then coming faster and
faster does that mean coming see you mmm ing or coming your breath is arriving
faster and faster so here's more of the dialogue he said the next element is safety
you have to feel so safe with this ride

Because you know nothing bad is going to really happen so you can feel even more
safe to feel those exciting feelings growing finally he said this ride has to be
fascinating there has to be so many different twists and turns so much is
unpredictable here that as soon as you get off you want to climb right back on you
want to take this ride multiple times now where's the sexual metaphor here get off
climb right back on take this ride

Right now we also have some embedded suggestions we have the invented suggestion
there's so much unpredictable here and a later module we'll get into embedded
commands and suggestions in detail but just to point out here unlike a command it's
not really telling her to feel or to do or to think anything particular it rather
it's suggesting a quality to the experience or a meaning to the experience now I
told this to a friend and she said

It's like the perfect attraction you want to find in a guy that's a little last
bit of language and you can include you can say you know I said this to a friend
and she said it's like the perfect attraction you want to find in a guy that's
another little quote thrown in for good measure now one of the things I'll do is
I'll do a little chin tap I'll go you know I told this to a friend that you said
it's like the perfect attraction you want to find in a

Guy now when I do this when I tap my chin and I filled my head it's an anchor so
whenever I repeat this it fires off the whole chain of thinking again and the next
module we're going to cover the smaller chunk tools of speed seduction we're going
to cover things like in Bettie commands and suggestions weasel phrases which I
absolutely love transferred transition phrases anchoring rapport sexual
accelerators finality pacing and leading these are some of the

Smaller chunk tools that we're going to be covering I want to recommend that you
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