Kathleen Cameron - Becoming The One

Endorsements
“Kathleen Cameron’s Becoming THE ONE is a transcen-

dent story of empowerment during an unprecedented
time. Kathleen’s journey of her quantum leap will be sure
to inspire and motivate all.”
—Peggy McColl,
New York Times best-selling author
“This book skips on the fluff and gets right into the
mechanics of co-creating your best life. I couldn’t put it
down.”
—Sabrina Sigalas,
Executive Producer & Creator of COACH the Series
“Kathleen has a powerful, calm presence that is built on

absolute belief. She lives what she teaches every day, and
she is undeniable proof that it works. Becoming THE ONE
offers readers a simple but highly effective road map to get
from where they are to where they want to be, delivered
by an authentic woman who demonstrates by her example
that every one of us has the power to choose what our life
is and then live it with joy and no apology!”
—Cathy Korpi,
Top Producing Realtor, Springwater, Ontario
“Kathleen Cameron is the ‘ultimate coach.’ She has been
an enormous source of strength and insight for thousands
both personally and professionally. Becoming THE ONE is
a compelling read with an important message.
—Raven Riddle,
Real Estate Mogul and Diamond Academy Advisor
“Experiencing Kathleen’s story of waking up to self is one

of the most beautiful stories of unfolding. Her honesty
and sincerity of the feelings she was going through is easy
to understand. This is not a how-to book of strategies to
get you aware, but a natural awareness that moves you to
better understand our connection to the Infinite! Beauti-
fully written, inspirationally told, and in complete service
to the reader for their own journey! A must read!”
—Angie Tumlinson,
Natural Laws Expert
“I highly recommend reading Kathleen’s book over and

over again! It’s a treasure trove of inspiration delivered with
love, wisdom and, candour. A true recipe for success.”
—Sharon Kempton BMus (Hons), MMus (MusPerf)
Success Coach at Forward Thinking Success Coaching
“Kathleen Cameron is brilliant at weaving together the

magic and mystery of manifestation with the realities of
her process and her journey. Her authentic, down-to-
earth style can help anyone create millions from within.”
—Danielle Marggraf,
Master Healer Money, Mindset, and Manifestation
Coach, Quantum Healing for Quantum Success
“I couldn’t stop reading. Kathleen is telling with her story

the whole beauty of the universe: the ease, the magic, and
the infinite potential. And the best? Her story is our story.
We all are THE ONE. A must read!”
—Kathrin from miss-smarthead.com
“Getting an inside view of the thoughts of an amazing

mentor has more value than any strategy on its own.
Kathleen has beautifully expressed how she transformed
her thinking, which in turn shifted the entire trajectory of
her life. Dive deep, study, and implement what Kathleen
says in these pages, and you will manifest your dreams.”
—Kelly Lephart,
Manifestation & Mindset Coach ~Namaste~
“I love what Kathleen Cameron has done with ‘Becoming

The One’, turning her wounds into wisdom and showing
us that anything is possible when you take responsibility,
make a decision, and really go for it, the only limitations
we have are in our own minds and Kathleen shows what
can be achieved when we set goals that stretch us and then
get busy achieving them.”
—Mark Wilkinson,
International Best selling author - Life Remixed - UK
“Kathleen Cameron’s new book Becoming THE ONE is

an absolute treasure for anyone seeking the secret to abun-
dance, abundance from within. After reading Becoming
THE ONE, I am left highly motivated, inspired, and
truly believing in my own potential. The strength of that
belief is fostered by Kathleen herself, who is genuinely
leading by example.This is the one book that I will read
again and again.”
—Dave Falle,
Marketing and IT Manager,
Hasmark Publishing International
“Becoming THE ONE by Kathleen Cameron is a remark-

able story of one woman’s journey to self-enlightenment
and finding the power to change her life within herself. It
will enable you to tap into your hidden potential and find
within yourself everything you need for a successful life.”
—Judy O’Beirn,
President & CEO of Hasmark Publishing International
“In this book, Kathleen walks us through her journey and
experiences as she discovers her power within. Focusing
on keeping her thoughts on ‘what she really wants,’ she
changed her life by improving her self-confidence, using
the law of attraction, and the power of faith. She also shows
how to use visualization, feelings, and faith, to bring her
dreams into the material world. She totally changed her
life, becoming THE ONE taking responsibility to change
her own circumstances—achieving what she wanted and
fulfilling her purpose in life!
—Roberto Delanese,
International Best-selling Author
of The Delanese Method
Like Neo in the Matrix, Kathleen wants to know every-

thing…about herself and the Universe. And it paid off.
Her outstanding results speak for themselves. Highly
inspiring and powerful like her personality. Pick up this
book, take a deep breath, and get ready for “Becoming
The One!”
—Urusla Perl,
International Best-selling Author
of Live The U.P. Way
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Dedication
To my girls, Masyn and Raegan.

Everything I do is for you.
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Table of Contents
Foreword. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . xiii
Introduction. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . xvii
Chapter 1: A Quantum Leap, or Two.... . . . . . . . . . . . . 1
Chapter 2: The Reality Is.... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5
Chapter 3: Falling in Love with Myself . . . . . . . . . . . . 10
Chapter 4: Being "Undetermined". . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16
Chapter 5: Thoughts as Energy. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20
Chapter 6: A Whole New World . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23
Chapter 7: Purity of Mind. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28
Chapter 8: Dual Forces . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31
Chapter 9: The Universe Speaks. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37
Chapter 10: Decisions from the End . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44
Chapter 11: Faith Always Knows. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 48
Chapter 12: My Dominant Feeling . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52
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Chapter 13: Beliefs Into Reality. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 55

Chapter 14: I Am So Grateful for... . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60
Chapter 15: Giving All Around. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63
Chapter 16: Money . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 66
Chapter 17: Personal Power . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 73
Conclusion. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 78
Acknowledgements. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 80
About the Author . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 82
Resources . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 84
Foreword
T he first time I met Kathleen, she came to my

studio to receive an award for exceptional
performance. Without saying a word, I was struck by the
confidence that exuded from her. There was no ego or
conceit; it was just pure, beautiful confidence—one that
comes from knowing. It was so refreshing. I remember it
to this day.
Becoming “The One” is the beautiful and revealing story

of dramatic changes that have taken place in Kathleen
Cameron’s life over the last couple of years. It details how
she made a critical paradigm shift that impacted her own
life and the lives of her whole family. She records what
she learned in this book for others to duplicate. She also
coaches individuals to follow the same path.
No stranger to higher learning, Kathleen holds two BAs

and a Masters, with a strong background in science. And,
as she admits, most who are involved in the realm of sci-
ence are “show me the proof,” and then I’ll believe you
“kind of individuals.” Oddly enough, the changes she
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made caused her to set aside all questioning and doubt

and act on pure faith, which she did and was abundantly
rewarded.
This book is a complete guide to changing your life from

one of default to one of design. It’s an instruction manual
to being your best self. It is based on the premise that you
have infinite potential, and you are endowed with mental
faculties to utilize to turn your dreams into reality.
Regardless of what you have experienced in your life up

until now, you can change, and this book will show you
how. If you’ve struggled with confidence, this book is for
you. If you’ve struggled with finances, this book is for
you. If you’ve struggled with making and sticking with
your decisions, this book is for you. If you’re successful
and have dreams that are not yet fulfilled, this book is
for you!
By anyone’s standard, Kathleen was winning. She’s well

educated with a loving husband, two beautiful children, a
nice home and a great job. But, she wanted more. She was
introduced to a coaching program, Thinking Into Results.
This program caused an explosion of creativity in Kath-
leen’s mind. What she was learning totally shifted her per-
ception of herself. She began to see herself doing things
and having things way beyond what she had experienced
in the past and began to understand that she could live all
her dreams.
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The analytical Kathleen seemed to have been set aside and

a new Kathleen full of faith and inspired by huge desires
seemed to take over. She began to make quantum leaps in
her income. Increases that would normally take a person
five to ten years were happening in Kathleen’s life in a
matter of months.
I have been in the personal development business for

going on sixty years. I have seen changes like this in the
past, but they are rare. I personally have experienced tre-
mendous change in my life; however, I am totally con-
vinced the changes Kathleen has made and any of the
changes I have witnessed in the past have been brought
about through faith.
About fifty years ago, I met a man, Clarence Smithison,

who shared his definition of faith with me. It’s one I have
adopted, and I would recommend you adopt as well. It
fits Kathleen’s situation perfectly. “Faith is the ability to
see the invisible, to believe in the incredible. This will
cause you to believe what the masses view as impossible.”
Kathleen does a beautiful job describing the transitions

she made in her mind in going from a life that was hap-
pening to her to one she oversaw and actively designed.
It’s been written that God will feed every bird, but he will
not put food in their nest. Kathleen has a firm grasp of
that beautiful truth. Her writing is clear and concise as
she questions her innermost beliefs about herself, beliefs
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that she created and that were created by those who loved
her. She explains how she put her ego aside and brought
a halt to listening to other people’s opinions of her. She
delves into how she altered her own self-value and created
a new belief about herself that continually serves her and
her highest good.
Kathleen Cameron is an extraordinary individual and

about as well balanced as anyone I have ever known. I
have watched Kathleen make the difficult look easy while
creating a beautiful life for herself, her family, and her cli-
ents. Kathleen shares the lessons she learned in this book.
Now they are yours, but you must apply them to benefit
from them.
Bob Proctor
Teacher in The Secret
Bestselling Author of You Were Born Rich
Introduction
M y husband had been asking me to watch the

movie The Matrix for years. I had zero inter-
est, but one afternoon a few weeks ago I thought why
not? Many people had told me to check it out, and I was
intrigued as to why they were so interested. I watched the
majority of the movie feeling like there were many syn-
ergies between what I had experienced during the past
year of my life and this movie. Although I was not overly
engaged in the movie itself, I stayed right up until the
final scene, and it was worth the entire watch. Something
clicked in me; an understanding and explanation for how
I became so powerful so fast.
For anyone who has not seen The Matrix, here’s a brief
explanation. Throughout the film, there is an underlying
question of whether or not Keanu Reeves’ character, Neo,
was “the one.” I understood this to mean that Neo was
“the one” to change the world—to come in and save the
day. You can see throughout the film that there is a con-
stant back and forth where the character Neo is skepti-
cal of himself being labelled “the one,” wavering between
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entertaining the idea and dismissing it altogether. In the

final moments of the film, when Neo is fighting for his
life, he comes to the realization and finally believes for
himself that he is “the one.” Along with this realization,
he fully grasps the powers that he never knew he had, but
that were always there, and he defeats his enemies and
saves the day.
This was profound. I, too, have experienced a moment

when I came to understand and accept that I was “the
one,” and that is when all my powers showed up. This
potential has always been within me, but like Neo, I was
skeptical. In order for it to actually happen, I had to accept
it and truly believe it to be true.
Chapter 1
A Quantum Leap,
or Two...
2 020 was a strange year for the world. It was trans-

formative, if you will. It was the same for me,
but it was transformative in ways I never would have
thought possible. I started the year on a great foot. I had
spent three months studying in a course created by Bob
Proctor and Sandy Gallagher, two powerhouses in the
personal growth and development space. When I started
this journey to self-discovery, I hoped for better results
in my business, a better home life, and an overall increase
in my confidence. I had heard the term “quantum leap”
and I thought, I want that quantum leap in my own life.
While the decision was not easy, my desire for more was
greater than my fear of investing in myself. This was the
pivotal moment—the decision which changed my life,
and circumstantially for my entire family and my imme-
diate circle.
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August 2019 was the month I made the pivotal decision

to change my life. I didn’t have a bad life. In fact, things
were pretty great, but I was not satisfied. I knew I could
do more with my life, if only I could see it for myself. I
had invested a lot of money in myself before. I had two
bachelor’s degrees and a master’s degree under my belt,
so I wasn’t afraid of paying to learn. I was doing every-
thing: getting promotions, starting a side business, getting
on all the training I could, yet I was making less money
than the prior year. I wanted a great life, I wanted to be
proud of myself, but things just stayed the same. I came
across a training program on “mindset” and immediately
was drawn to the topic. I knew almost instantly that what-
ever it was that this incredible woman was teaching on, I
needed to know more about it. I had her on the phone
within minutes, and she recommended a course with her
and I knew I had to enroll. Then she told me the price
and I thought, well, that’s inconvenient. At first, I thought
it was not possible to spend so much, especially since we
had just downsized after I resigned from my full-time job.
My only income at the time was from my “side hustle.” I
mentioned it to my husband and he said no, and I thought
and thought to myself, maybe next year. I sat with this for
some time and became sad. I had envisioned a life full of
possibility, full of hope, full of confidence and success,
and I truly believed it all was possible for me if I was given
an accurate road map to follow. I was sad that this was not
going to be my story, and I knew I had to revisit it at some
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point later. I spoke with my husband again, this time not

expecting a no, but a yes. I told him why I wanted to
better myself, for me, for him, and for our family. He
changed his mind and agreed, on one condition—that I
would put in the work. I knew I could guarantee that. So,
I jumped all in and paid in full with credit. The next six
months during the course were nothing short of amazing,
and that one decision changed it all.
The next decision at the beginning of January 2020 was

the beginning of what would be a giant quantum leap—
or several leaps back-to-back—who knows! My side busi-
ness was growing fast; the work I was doing on myself
was paying off. I was accelerating, and my confidence was
through the roof. I was so enthralled with everything I was
learning, and I would ask myself, “What would I love?”
The answer came to me as an intuitive hit, and I didn’t
listen the first time. But the more I thought about it, the
more I knew it was my path. I will never forget the day I
had the thought—what if I could live in this material all
day long and help others makes these shifts in their life?
At a leadership summit in November of 2019, I had the

wonderful pleasure of leading a training session on mind-
set together with a top leader and friend on the team. We
both taught for some time, then I led a guided visualiza-
tion. I played beautiful soft music and led the team of
women through the process of visualizing themselves with
their goals achieved and then how it felt to have it all,
along with the pride in their achievement. When I opened

my eyes following the visualization, I felt an instant surge
of energy. Every single person there had been impacted
by the exercise. The tears, the smiles, and the love in
everyone’s eyes were palpable. This was one of the first
moments I realized that this is truly my purpose.
While the world entered into a global pandemic, I was pre-

pared for my purpose and it all aligned perfectly. It all hap-
pened so fast; it seems magical when I look back. I can see
now that it was divine timing. Dreams started coming true
over and over again. I would ask, and answers would show
up. To summarize it most likely won’t give credit to the
significance of what was happening in my life, but I think
it’s important to show how much can happen really damn
fast when you believe. In 2020, I stepped into my purpose
and amplified my life by 2000 times. I improved all aspects
of my life—my income, my own business, my home life,
friendships, and found the best love of all: self-love. I live
a life full of gratitude, joy, spirit, and fun. I am making
the impact on others that I always hoped to. The best part
is watching my clients’ dreams come true right before my
eyes! In one year, I built a multi-seven-figure corporation,
became a world-leading coach in the mindset space, and
built the life for my daughters that I always wanted. This
book will expound upon the growth that happened within
me so that you can see how it’s possible for you to do the
same thing. You can create your life by design.
Chapter 2
The Reality Is...
H ow do I put into words the past year of my life?

To sum it up in one word would be extraordinary.
A little over a year ago, life was happening at
a pretty steady rate. I was comfortable with where I was,
and I had resigned myself to a normal and acceptable life.
I believed life was something that was happening to me; a
ride that I was being taken on. I would often ask myself,
“I wonder what my future holds?” I remember when my
business was not going quite how I hoped it would, and I
concluded that it must mean I am not meant for success. I
lacked any control over my future, so it’s no surprise that
nothing was changing for me. I was creating the same day
over and over, the same income over and over, and the
same level of fulfillment (or lack thereof). The good news
is that I never gave up hope of an extraordinary life—and
thank goodness I didn’t.
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This past year I have studied myself more than ever before
and I made it my mission to understand the power of my
own mind. I have experienced what some would call a
paradigm shift—or a quantum leap—but I would rather
call it a new perception of reality. The more I studied,
the more I started asking questions. Things that had been
truths for me for years were starting to unravel. Beliefs
that were ingrained in me began to shift, and I started
asking, “What if what I have believed all my life isn’t true,
but rather someone else’s version of truth?” I have two
science degrees and worked as a nurse for over ten years.
For me, truth was evidence-based. Things were only true
if you could see its evidence and prove it in a clinical trial.
Evidence was the deciding factor, something you could
see to prove its validity, reliability, etc. I had gone so far
into the “science” of life that spirituality was nowhere to
be found. If I could not see something with my own eyes,
then it could not possibly be true! This was my reality, the
reality I was operating from, so of course, things in life
were only as they appeared to be.
Personal growth and development books have been my

jam for years, and I have enjoyed a good Tony Robbins
event from time to time, but something shifted when I
found my mentor and now friend, Bob Proctor. I had
read all the books, taken all the free trainings, and yet my
life was not showing better results. The conviction behind
Bob’s message was different. It was strong, and I had to
explore it. If what I was doing wasn’t working, then maybe

pivoting was the answer? I had seen the movie The Secret
years ago and fell in love with the idea. I remember the
story about a gentleman carrying around a gratitude rock
in his pocket. Years later, my manager gave me a gratitude
rock as a parting gift when I left the company, and it took
me right back to that movie. Here I was again, in front of
one of the top thinkers in the law of attraction space. This
could not just be a coincidence!
I grew up believing that success was possible, but achiev-

ing it took hard work and discipline. Both of my parents
worked their way up the corporate ladder, and I witnessed
things get better for them; a bigger house, a pool in the
backyard, a trip to Disneyland, etc. But one day it all
ended. My dad, who worked most of his career as CEO
and president for one company, was walked off the job.
He devoted his life to them, and it was gone in an instant.
What I once thought was security didn’t seem so secure.
This was the first time I thought, I’d love to work for myself
one day. I had this thought again when my sister got walked
off the job a few years later. When I would consider work-
ing for myself, thoughts would creep in telling me that
it was risky, that I didn’t have the knowledge, or that it
took a special person to do something like that. I would
continue admiring those doing it from afar. One thing I
know for sure is that my reality was shifting. Something
I once believed was impossible for me was starting to feel
possible. As I began learning and growing, my awareness

of what was possible became clearer and clearer. My belief
in myself and what I wanted to create was being built, one
lesson at a time.
The change in my perception of reality was a big one, and

it is the reason for the sudden and abundant change in
my physical reality. I went from someone who saw her-
self as being created, to actually being a creator. There is
so much power behind the words “choice,” “decision,”
and “creation.” These words were not often found in my
vocabulary. I now believe that every thought, every emo-
tion, and every action is a choice. I make decisions as an
artist painting her canvas, and I now know that I am a
creator. My thoughts of today create my tomorrow, and I
have taken control of the wheel.
Creation is a powerful part of my life now, and I under-

stand that I am in constant creation with the use of my
thinking. I now understand that my thinking is what
creates my physical world. The thinking of today cre-
ates tomorrow. So, my physical world right now, in this
moment, is the product of past thinking. When you really
grasp this concept, it becomes life changing. The control
you have in your future starts right now with the control
of your mind.
The first time I truly felt the weight of this reality was
when I attended a training session in February of 2020 as
a brand-new coach and consultant. I was programming

myself to believe that I was a top coach, that I was top of
the leaderboards, and that I had hundreds of clients, but
my physical world was lagging behind. I remember seeing
all the top coaches being seated at their VIP tables in the
front of the room, thinking that I should really be there.
They had overlooked me! I remember feeling so uncom-
fortable because I knew what was on its way—all the suc-
cess that was manifesting. I couldn’t understand why I
couldn’t just be sitting there among the VIPs! I under-
stand now that all I needed was some patience, but what
this shows you is the conviction in my thinking. I KNEW
without the shadow of a doubt what the future held for
me. How often can one actually say this?
The next time this happened to me was when I mani-

fested my new home. I was living in my imagination all
day long in a bright, spacious home, making coffee in my
white open kitchen, and then all of a sudden, I would
notice that I was actually in my current home, the much
smaller, less open, and less modern one. I say now that
I was “brought back down to earth.” This was just me
becoming aware again of my physical world that I was
ahead of in my thinking. Your reality is what you decide
it to be in your mind. The reality is…you can create any-
thing you want.
Chapter 3
Falling in Love
with Myself
T he funny thing about self-love is that I’m

pretty sure we all had it before someone told
us otherwise. I truly do believe that it is our natural state.
Over the years, we learn to compete and compare, and we
become very aware of how we do not match up with oth-
ers. Growing up as an overweight girl, this message was
one I received on repeat. Friends, family, strangers, and
the media all told me that my body was “too big” and that
I needed to go on a “diet.” When I was eleven years old,
I would throw out my lunch and starve myself, drinking
large amounts of water because someone told me it would
“flush the fat out.” This narrative continued for almost
thirty years. My life has been consumed with aspiring to
be the ideal weight—a constant up and down between
pride and failure, deprivation and over-indulgence.
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In 2018, I made the decision that I was no longer going

to be the big girl. I made a decision to lose the weight and
get “healthy.” Well, I ended up losing 100 pounds and
believed that I was finally worthy, finally accepted, and
would finally be proud of myself. I felt amazing and my
confidence was booming. This feeling of acceptance was
joyful, so much so that it hid the hunger, the pressure to
be moving all the time, the exhaustion. I had a huge wake-
up call when I started dropping to the floor 4-5 times per
week. I had made such a drastic change to my body that
it couldn’t keep up. My heart was telling me that enough
was enough. I was told to increase my food consumption
and to stop exercising. You can imagine what happened
next. The weight started coming back, and so did the feel-
ings of worthlessness, sadness, and fear that those who
judged me for so long would be back judging me again.
Looking back, I can see that I left my self-esteem up to

others. I only chose to love myself when others loved
me. Acceptance was the motive; self-love was the hope.
I wanted to be liked by others, but never once thought
about liking myself. When I started to change my think-
ing and began studying the power of the mind, I spent a
solid thirty days studying and designing myself. I don’t
think I have ever spent this much time focused solely on
myself. There were highs and lows. I became very aware of
how nasty I was to myself, and it took me to a low place.
I recognize now that going to this low place was what
brought order and clarity for me to resolve the issues that

were so deeply ingrained. Having placed so much value
on other people’s opinions of me, you can only imagine
the sudden shift when I put all that focus, all that value
onto myself. This was life changing.
A huge shift happened when I heard the idea that we are

not our bodies, but that we are in our bodies. This was a
brand-new thought for me. I had lived my entire life iden-
tifying myself by my body. How my body looked con-
sumed so much of my thoughts, and I certainly believed
that I was my body and that my body was not beautiful—
that it was displeasing to the eye. I walked around for years
feeling ashamed and embarrassed. When I chose to accept
this new belief, that I am not my body, I suddenly discon-
nected from the judgement, the hate, the power that my
physical appearance had over me and my reactions to my
physical world. I stopped letting my body be the reason
why I was not successful. The old narrative, “I can’t be like
her because I’m too fat. I will never be successful like her
because she is thin and beautiful,” was no longer relevant.
Success does not come from my body, but from me, and
I hold all the power.
I’m not sure if you will have noticed the real shift that
happened here. I started taking responsibility. The love
I have for myself is up to me, and I had been giving that
control over to others. Whether or not I believed my body
was good or bad came from me, not from others. I now
know that I am in control of myself and it is a choice to let

fabricated beauty standards in from the outside. You can
choose to believe that you will never measure up unless
you change your appearance, or you can decide that you
are a beautiful, powerful being the way you are right now
in this moment. I made my choice, and it has been the
most liberating decision I have ever made.
Once I let go of this “worthy” ideal set by others and

began embracing who I was in that moment in the body
I was in, true alignment began to take place. I no longer
believed that I needed to change my body in any way;
no more waiting for the time “when I lose the weight.”
I began behaving like the perfect, beautiful, powerful
being that I am. My life started to change. People started
wanting to work with me, learn from me, and join me
on my journey. People were being inspired not because I
released weight, but because I accepted myself for who I
am, being confident in my plus-size body, showing others
how they could live NOW. Some of the best messages I
have received came after I released the negativity about
my body. One of the most beautiful compliments I ever
got was when I was told by someone that I helped them
realize they’d used their curvy body as an excuse for why
they couldn’t excel in their coaching business, and that I
had completely proved her wrong. You can be plus-size
and successful. You can be curvy and rich. You can be
above average size AND love yourself.
What has been very clear is that I had been so used to

seeing my negatives instead of my positives. Shifting this
perspective was essential. One thing I changed drastically
was my inner dialogue. You might not be aware of it, but
it’s going through your head all day long. Mine sounded
like this: “You are not as good as her, so why even bother?
You need to lose weight… look how disgusting you look.
They can do it because they have what it takes. Life is
hard being me.” When I started paying attention to my
thoughts, I couldn’t believe what I heard. I would never
say these nasty things to someone else, but I so easily said
them to myself. It was appalling, to say the least. If I was
putting myself down like this all day long, then why would
I ever think I was good enough, or worthy of success?
Your inner dialogue needs to be one that empowers you,

raises your vibration, and brings your best quality to light.
YOU need to be your own cheerleader. After taking note
of my current thoughts, I made the decision to change
them. I know this may seem impossible—they come so
fast and naturally—but trust me, you have the power.
I started telling myself what I needed to hear to change
my belief in myself. I started saying things like, “You are
beautiful how you are right now,” “You are worthy and
capable of success,” “You are powerful,” and “You are
inspiring to others.” It did not take long before I started
to believe it. I made a choice to encourage myself like I
would encourage my best friend, my sister, or my mom.
What change can you make today? What is one thing you
can tell yourself to encourage yourself to keep going, to
take the leap, to dare to be different? This isn’t just about
loving myself, but being my absolute best version, well
past who I am in this physical moment. It’s about show-
ing up as the person I want to become.
When I started to achieve success quickly, a friend said

something very powerful to me in the perfect moment.
She said that this is my new standard, and that I should
accept nothing else. This resonated with me deeply. I
needed to accept this belief about myself, that I AM capa-
ble of great things, and that I have been capable all along.
This is not just a fleeting moment, just a lucky couple of
months, but it is my true nature, one that I was finally
stepping into! We have so much potential within us, but
we place limitations on ourselves. I always think of it like
a lid on a jar; we won’t go further than what we see for
ourselves, and yet we never dream as not to get our hopes
up. Well, my hopes are up and I’m going for it. I believe
most of us have no clue what we are really capable of. This
year has proven this to me. Now I know with absolute
certainty that the sky is not the limit—we have the entire
universe at our disposal.
Chapter 4
Being "Undetermined"
T he moment I realized I wasn’t “determined,”

it all changed. I’m not sure about you, but
most of my life I wished I was different. It was one thing to
dislike my body, but disliking my personality was another
thing altogether since personality is not something I could
change. Or so I thought.
I grew up always believing that I was sensitive. I would

get my feelings hurt easily and would end up in tears. This
sensitive side of me was something I wished would van-
ish, but it always stayed. After spending time on myself
and digging deep into the person I perceived myself to be,
things started to unravel. I began to question things. For
years, I believed being sensitive was a bad thing. I vividly
remember the day this past year where I thought to myself,
could being sensitive be a good thing? I had two choices:
start affirming to myself that I was the opposite of sensi-
tive, or simply embrace the fact that I am. I started really
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thinking about this (something I very rarely did before

this past year), and I realized that being sensitive has been
an asset for me. I am able to connect to the “feeling” of
something, a skill I now know is vital in the realization
of goals. Feeling is what takes an idea and puts it into our
programming faster. For example, sadness around failure
programs us to believe that we will fail.
Feeling really is the secret to manifesting, and I was good

at that! Just like that, I had just changed a belief about
myself. I’m not less than because I am sensitive—I am
powerful because I am sensitive. The problem wasn’t that
I was feeling; it was that I was allowing myself to feel the
wrong things. I was affirming the wrong beliefs, ones that
were limiting me instead of helping me grow and expand!
When I started in university, I went into every situation

with the same level of effort that I did in high school. I
believed that I was an average student and expected the
same thing to happen in college. It was a shock when I was
placed on academic probation and a letter was sent home
to my parents letting them know. I had two choices: either
accept this fate as my truth, or change it. I chose to change
the outcome, and this involved seeing myself differently.
I no longer wanted to accept this identity, the identity
of being a failure. I made a decision to change, and just
like that, I started pulling in straight A’s. Since then, I
have been what I call a high achiever. A change to my
identity had taken place. I continued through life doing
well academically, but it would not translate into success

in other areas until I made the decision in 2019 to change
my entire identity and for good.
This began one of the most transformative times of my life.

I did not change, I’m the same Kathleen, but I changed
how I see myself. What if I stopped seeing the worst in
me and saw the best in me instead? The things I believed
were true and didn’t like, I simply replaced with how I
would want to be. The things I wanted to be, I decided
I was. I knew that believing I was confident would help
me achieve more, so I affirmed confidence. I knew that
seeing myself as disciplined would accelerate myself, so
I affirmed discipline. I often ask myself, “When I am my
highest self, how do I see myself? How do I show up?”
This is the real me.
I had heard of the concept of “limiting beliefs” over

my years of reading personal development books, and I
believed it to be true. I could identify the beliefs that were
placing limits on my life, but could not figure out how to
change them. The choosing and replacing of these beliefs
made all the difference. Magical things started happening
when I changed my beliefs about myself. When I started
seeing myself as being good at sales, the sales came. When
I saw myself as a good leader, people started following my
lead. When I started to believe that my mind was pow-
erful, I started changing my physical results around me.
Who knew?
Many ask how I changed my beliefs about myself so

quickly. I did this through suggestion. The power of sug-
gestion cannot be ignored. There were things I knew I did
not believe to be true, but had a feeling that if I believed
them, I would be unstoppable. I started suggesting the
new belief to my subconscious mind with feeling. I would
stand in the mirror and recite affirmations I had written
purposefully. I would record my new identity on a voice
recorder and listen to it over and over throughout the day.
I would take pen to paper and write her out in the pres-
ent tense. The more I focused on the things I loved about
myself, the more things I found to love!
I went from being “determined” to “designed,” and noth-

ing will ever be the same. Loving myself right now, in this
moment, while always seeking to see myself in the best
possible way is the key to continuing to grow myself and
my legacy. I would encourage you to do the same. I still
have room to grow in this area. I have no doubt about
that—but by releasing the idea that I was “born this way,”
it all changed. I was born a very different way, and once I
started to believe in the true greatness within me, every-
thing was different.
I want to share a bit about the powers I believe I have har-

nessed which have helped me accelerate my life and create
my beautiful quantum leap.
Chapter 5
Thoughts as Energy
W hat is a thought? And why can no one hear it

but us? We don’t often question what thoughts
are, since they have been running a mile a minute for as
long as we can remember. I only recently started paying
attention to thoughts and taking an inventory of the types
of thoughts I was having. I would say most of my thoughts
were highly unproductive (similar to my behaviour if I’m
being honest). When I started paying attention, I also
realized that I could control my thoughts. I could let the
nagging thoughts of why I didn’t like myself run amok, or
I could focus on thinking about my future. Huge shocker
here—you have control of your thoughts and can choose
what you think about. I know, I was shocked too.
After the birth of my second daughter was when my

thinking was at its worst. I had a baby at home and a tod-
dler. Nothing bad happened. My life was good, but I was
very sad. The more thoughts of sadness I had, the more
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sad thoughts would continue to come until I was so over-

come with sadness that a positive thought had no chance
of getting in. I remember telling my husband, “I’m so sad,
I can’t stop crying and I don’t know why.” It became a
place of despair, so sad that there was no way out but to
end it all, I thought. I was so deep in the negative, but I
had one thought that changed it all. What if I could get
out from under this cloud? What if someone could help
me? I remember the day I walked myself and my two kids
to the walk-in clinic and told the doctor I was planning
how to end my life. He tried to tell me he couldn’t help
me and that I needed to see my family doctor (which I
did not have). I was a nurse, so I knew he could help.
I mustered up the last bit of strength I had within me
to tell him I needed him to prescribe me something. He
did, and within two weeks the cloud was lifted. I was on
these medications until last year; my happiness had been
dependent on them. As I would try to wean myself off, the
sadness returned, just as I expected.
There is good news here. Since studying the mind and the
power of our thinking, I trained myself to see the good,
to think only of the positive, and to see all my strengths,
and by doing so, I was able to stop taking the medication.
Thoughts are powerful, and you control them. I learned
how to control mine and do the opposite; I fill my mind
with nothing but positive thoughts, so the negative has no
room to get in. I love the analogy of a garden. I see my
mind as the garden: positive thoughts are planted, pruned
and watered, and the garden is maintained by pulling the

weeds (the negative thoughts) before they can take over.
I went even further in understanding my thoughts and began

to consider that thoughts are energy. Thinking this way about
my own thoughts really gave me a better sense of responsibil-
ity and allowed me to control them more. I remember when
I was in psychology class in university, the professor was talk-
ing about the phenomenon of thinking about a friend, and
then your phone rings and it’s that same friend on the line.
Or, staring at someone from behind in class and they sense
it and turn around. This is thought energy! If every thought
sends out energy, if it makes its own impact, then it’s vital
that we are thinking the right things!
When I visualize—when I think of my higher self, when

I connect to source—my thought energy is in alignment
with what I want, and never in line with what I don’t
want. If I am thinking about love, joy, gratitude, and
prosperity, that is the energy I am sending out; thus, it is
the energy I will receive back.
One of my favourites quotes goes like this: “Do not try

to correct in the earth what needs to be corrected in the
heavens.” I understand this to mean that your results in
your life can’t be corrected anywhere else but in their ori-
gin—your thinking. We can’t ask for things around us to
be better—we must be better. I have received this message
loud and clear.
Chapter 6
A Whole New World
T he last time I used my imagination was prob-

ably around the time I was nine years old. I
hadn’t given it much thought until I started studying the
mind. I couldn’t even tell you what the purpose of our
imagination was. I never thought I was a creative person,
as I used to believe people were either born with creativity
or not. What I have come to realize is that we are all born
with a creative mechanism and I was simply not using the
powerful tool that I was given. A whole new world was
opened when I began to really understand and use my
imagination.
I first started learning about my imagination when I was

guided through a visualization. I was taken on a beauti-
ful journey, seeing myself with all my goals and desires
achieved and feeling grateful and proud for all I had
accomplished. I was so emotional, tears streamed down my
face. How could just thinking of something so wonderful
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create such a change in me emotionally, and on a molecu-

lar level, leading to physical tears? I was intrigued. It felt
like I was daydreaming, something we were told to stop
doing once we got out of elementary school. I have to
admit, it felt really good—but I needed to understand it
more. What I was hearing was that by going to the place
with my goals achieved using my imagination, I would
bring that life into the now. I needed to understand this
more, so I took a deeper dive. The scientist in me needed
to know.
Here is what I found. Every single thing in our physical

world right now was once a thought in someone’s mind.
These thoughts combine to form a picture. If this pic-
ture is held consistently, it will inevitably manifest into
the physical form. So, if I create a picture of my dream
life and hold it with emotion, then it should manifest in
the physical. I thought it was worth a try, so try I did. I
started with small things and then practiced with bigger
things.
The first thing I tried was coffee. I decided I wanted to

bring a coffee into my physical world. I thought about
a nice coffee from a local shop and how warm it was
in my hands and how comforting it would be to drink.
Well, interestingly enough, my cleaning lady came that
day and she decided, for the first time ever, to bring me
a coffee. Could this have been a coincidence? I was not
fully convinced, so I tried this again with a team prize I
was hoping to win. I created the picture in my mind of

what it would feel like to win this prize. I celebrated in
my imagination and it felt so real. I swore it was going
to happen. I was going to win! Well, wouldn’t you know
it? I won! The signs were building and so was my belief.
Things that I was picturing in my mind started to show
up in my physical world. This was not just a coincidence;
I had power. This was now truth to me, and the evidence
was strong.
I have now started living in my imagination. I live from

the end (the goal) constantly, and even make decisions
from there. I see myself as my highest self, the way I am
with all my goals achieved, making the impact I have
always wanted to make. By using my imagination to go
there, I feel the feeling of the wish being fulfilled, I see
how I think and behave there, and I raise the frequency I
am operating at. And as I leave my imagination, I bring
all this to the physical.
I believe my imagination is the gateway to creation. I

first decide what I want my life to look like. Then I use
my imagination to “live there” in what I call the fourth
dimension (often referred to as the quantum realm or the
vortex). This type of living creates a forward jump in my
physical world towards the fourth dimensional world I
have created. It’s the merging of the two worlds into one
that brings it into this physical world. When I hear myself
say these things, it seems almost crazy—a woman with
two science degrees talking about multi-dimensions—but

it’s what I believe, and it works every single time.
I started working on larger things in my imagination (and

by larger, I only mean a bit harder to believe). I did this
with money, closing sales, my team’s production, new
business ventures, and more.
One of my favourite manifestations was when I wanted

to grow my team. I created an affirmation that I am so
happy and grateful now that one new team member
joins my team per day. I was used to about 4-6 join-
ing per month, so this was a stretch. I focused on the
end result, how it felt when I realized I was having one
person join per day. I also started planning for the suc-
cess—how would I train all the new people coming in
and keep them feeling supported? Well, wouldn’t you
know it, focusing my thought energy on the goal, after
about a week and a half of writing it out and visual-
izing it, it started to happen. I held it for about eleven
days with eleven new team members and then I got dis-
tracted, went on a trip I earned, and released the focus.
This showed me what was possible. I used this exact
same strategy to manifest one new coaching client into
my business per day. What used to be a $300 sale into
my business was now bringing in $7000 per sale—all
because I held the belief. The thinking really is the same
no matter the value we place on things.
I also remember focusing on my team’s performance and

noticing they were not being as productive as I would have
liked. This was my first mistake. I was asking for more of
the same, and I continued to say, “My team is not dupli-
cating.” So I started to be really intentional. How do I
want this to be? What would I love? I immediately shifted
my focus from a team not seeing their success to a team
that was booming and growing and so proud of them-
selves! I began picturing them celebrating themselves, the
joy in their faces, seeing them walk across the stage. Not
even three months later, I got to stand at the base of the
stage and watch multiple members of my team be recog-
nized, just as I had pictured in my mind.
After making such simple manifestations, I asked myself the

question, how do I now bring really big things into my life?
Bob Proctor told me “the process is exactly the same.” Once
I decide the next manifestation is “really big,” I am applying
a value to it, which makes it seem harder to do, when in fact
it is not. So, I replicated the process, this time for the beau-
tiful car I wanted, then a multi-million-dollar home, and
$3,000,000 a year in my first year in business, each million
being done in a faster time. He was right—it worked. Now
I know the formula and know I can create anything I want.
You don’t have to believe me. But what if you did, and
what if it worked? Wouldn’t that be lovely? Wouldn’t that
be worth it?
Chapter 7
Purity of Mind
W hile reading one day, I came across the phrase

“purity of mind” and it hit me like a ton of
bricks. I loved the analogy because it made me think of
something that is pure, something that is in the best pos-
sible state. Pure gold, a pure diamond, or pure water. It
is free from anything negative, anything harsh, and free
from contaminants. I loved this idea so much. How can I
make sure my mind is as pure as possible? I can do this by
making sure I don’t let anything in that is not helping me
to remain in a state of pure mind.
The first step for me in making sure my mind was always

pure was to figure out what I deemed to be unwanted.
What are the things that are not serving me, that are lack-
ing in purity? I knew a few things right away: negative
self-talk, reacting to other people’s opinions, doubting
myself, indecision, thoughts of lack, worry, what ifs, etc.
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There is so much going on in our mind that has been pro-

grammed to be there. We have heard the messages over
and over again, so we think about them more and more
and eventually, we don’t even notice that we are worried,
scared, or stressed. We think these are states of being that
we have no control over. I know I have been there, in this
loop. When I started referring to this as fear-based pro-
gramming, worry-based programming, indecision-based
programming, it reminded me that I can change the pro-
gram. I can change the pattern.
A pure mind goes even further than what’s just in it, but
how I choose to see things. The law of relativity is some-
thing I make sure I am using to my benefit on a regular
basis. We place value on things based on their comparison
to other things. A glass looks large when compared with
a smaller glass. A road trip seems long when compared to
a daily short drive. We can use this law against ourselves
all day long if we’d like, comparing ourselves to someone
doing it better, someone doing it faster, or someone who
looks like they are doing it with greater ease. When we use
this to our advantage, we make ourselves feel stronger and
more powerful, and we make things appear better. It’s all
in our perception of something. I have chosen to find the
good in most situations and really try to make sure I am
the observer of my own thoughts. I know when my vibra-
tion is low, and it usually stems from a single thought that
is festering. Self-awareness is key.
One of the most important things I have done is to man-

age my doubts. When you doubt yourself, you are not
asking for that thing—you are in a state of resisting it.
When you doubt yourself, you attract more things in
life to doubt. When you doubt yourself, you are lower-
ing your vibration and impacting what you attract. When
you doubt yourself, you are asking for the same over and
over again.
I often ask myself, “Could my mind be cleansed a little

more? How pure is my thinking right now? Am I in con-
trol of my thoughts at this moment?” If I’m not choosing
these thoughts, then who is?
Chapter 8
Dual Forces
T here is a misconception that success comes

quickly to people when they work really hard
for it, or they got lucky. I’ve had these comments directed
at me. “You must be exhausted? I don’t want to work as
hard as you do.” Or, “How did you get so lucky?” I used to
believe these things were true also, that success came from
either “hard work” or from simply being in the right place
at the right time. What I didn’t know—and most people
don’t—is that there is a method behind sudden and expo-
nential growth, and it’s not luck or hard work alone. This
method or practice is the effective use of two forces used
in conjunction with one another that allows for extraor-
dinary results in record time. Essentially, I accelerated
myself.
I have always been someone with drive and motiva-

tion, somewhat of a high achiever. Once I really started
to apply myself in university, I started to realize I could
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really make it happen. I started to feel smart and that I

could likely find myself a good career. I had placed a ceil-
ing on my beliefs, however, and over the years it became
evident. I wanted more, but I never really believed I could
achieve more. So, I sat in the same place for years. I was
always working on several things at one time. I had my
first daughter and began a master’s degree while on mater-
nity leave. After having my second daughter and finish-
ing my master’s, I started a side business. I was in action,
but not seeing the results I wanted. Things changed very
quickly when I started applying what I refer to as the “dual
forces.” This duality is the combination of spirituality and
peak performance.
The first force (not to be confused with forcing, but rather

power) was the movement of my body towards my goal.
While I was someone always in activity, I learned quickly
that I was in strictly mechanical action. I had not entered
into the spirit of the tasks I was doing. I was simply going
through the motions of doing the work, but not reaping
the full benefits I would have enjoyed had I been present,
engaged, inspired, and confident in my outcome. When
I started doing these actions from a spiritual place, the
results were doubling, then tripling. I started to get more
sales, more team members joining me, and more money
coming into my bank account consistently.
I also realized another thing: I was not working efficiently.

I would spend almost all day working, constantly on my
phone, doing this while doing something else at the same

time. I was very good at multi-tasking. When I really
started to look at how I was spending my time, what I was
spending time on, and how engaged I was on each task,
I realized there was a more focused and intentional way I
could be spending my time. I started working in blocks of
four hours per day, and started seeing more results from
that four hours. Before long, I was seeing the results of an
eight-hour workday from my block of only four hours!
I removed non-productive activities, I made sure every-
thing I did was high impact, and I stopped procrastinat-
ing. Focused attention is the key here. Spending one hour
working on one thing, and one thing alone, was worth
hours of time I would have spent prior. I began to realize
tasks that used to take me four hours were being done
in twenty minutes. I was able to spend more time with
my daughters, more time with me, and more time just
“being.”
The second force I refer to is the magnetic power of bring-

ing my goals closer to me (into the physical). One of my
favourite laws of the universe is the law of vibration. I
understood this law from science class but now see it from
a very different standpoint. Yes, we are all made up of
energy and we are all in motion at all times, vibrating
and oscillating. What I did not apply into my life, likely
because I was not taught to do so, was how this oscillation
could help me in attracting what I want in life.
I had a breakthrough when I realized that I am in com-

plete control of the state of vibration I am in. That was a
wow moment for me. I know my vibe is not dependent on
others, but on me alone.
This is why it is so important for you to train yourself

to be happy and to program happiness as your dominant
feeling, which we will discuss more in detail later.
My understanding now is quite simple. I control my

vibration through my thoughts, feelings, and emotions.
How I think, believe, and feel are all ways of either lower-
ing my vibration or raising it. If I am in a sad vibration, or
bad mood, I am vibrating at a lower rate, which is caused
by my thoughts and beliefs. If I am “vibing high,” it’s
because I am thinking of good things, things I love, and
likely how I want things to be. I notice my lower emotions
are usually caused when I am thinking about the things I
don’t want in life, and when I’m feeling good, I am think-
ing about what I do want in life. But how does this state
of vibration attract things into our lives?
I started to question the relevance of my state with bring-

ing things into my life. I had heard about being a vibra-
tional match to all that you desire and thought this was
intriguing. Since our feelings or emotions impact the state
of our vibration (high or low) and our future desired state
has a feeling, it makes sense that we would need to be that
feeling now to bring forth the future feeling of the desired
state. The term “act as if” has never resonated with me as

it feels like pretending, but I see it as being that person,
in that vibration NOW. If you feel that it is on its way, if
you believe it, you are closer to becoming a match. If you
stay on this vibration, if you remain a vibrational match,
you will become it, by law. Many of us never believe so
we stop thinking of it, and start thinking about what we
don’t want. Then we are right back at a lower vibrational
state, and no longer a match to what we desire.
The icing on the cake, and where true power is put into
place, is that your attraction is based on this vibrational
state. So, if you are happy, you attract more things to be
happy about. If you are grateful, you attract more things
to be grateful for. However, if you are critical of others,
you are likely critical of yourself and attracting others
to criticize you. If you are judging others, you are likely
more impacted by other people’s judgements of you. If
you want to live a life of love and confidence, think of
nothing but love and confidence. When you think self-
doubt, you are not in alignment with this. You are not a
match. The more you give, the more you receive. I have
learned this huge lesson, and there is a whole section on
it coming up!
Become an observer of your thoughts, as I did, and you

will see what your point of attraction is. Your vibrational
state will become clear, and you will see how YOU can
change what you bring towards you.
This is another state that has been brand new for me over
the past eighteen months, just being with myself. If any-
one who knew me only a few years ago is reading this,
they will likely notice a drastic shift in my speaking with
regards to this topic. As a registered nurse with two science
degrees, I was not spiritual in the least. I could not sit still
for more than five minutes to do mindfulness activities,
let alone half-hour meditations. I always felt like I needed
to do and be doing at all times. I started to connect with
myself more, and when I did, I began to realize that there
is more in this universe than just me in a body. I started
to examine my beliefs around how we got here, how we as
humans were created, and where we are in relation to this
infinite universe. I realized I am infinite. I am connected
to this source and supply and I give and receive through
this. Many of my beliefs around existence have changed,
and thus so have my interactions in this world.
I have connected to spirituality, and I have connected to

our source and now receive what I ask for from it. Things
don’t always need to be explained, and things don’t always
need to be seen. I am okay with just believing. My faith
is great, something I did not have before this past year of
growth.
Chapter 9
The Universe Speaks
O ne thing I am getting really good at embracing

is my relationship with the source. This is not
something I had thought about once just over a year ago.
I would have been completely lost if you had asked me
what that was. Source, universe, and spirit are all words
that were never in my vocabulary before. I truly had no
explanation for how I got here, how I interacted within
the “universe,” or what that even meant.
I remember hearing for the first time, “The universe is

transpiring to give you everything you ask for,” and think-
ing, “Are you nuts? What does that even mean?” The
more I asked questions, the more I learned, and the more
intrigued I became. At first, it started with more tangible
explanations like “energy flows through you and into a
form to create what you want in life.” Then it became
things like “asking the universe for guidance.” My aware-
ness of this has expanded so much and will likely continue
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to expand even past when I am writing this. The impor-

tant thing to note here is my open mind.
The “universe,” to me, is our connection to our source.

It is what my mind, body, and soul connect into. It is
what guides me and what I collaborate with to create my
life. I have been given a purpose, and I am simply a vessel
through which the universe can work. We are not meant
to live in fear, worry, and doubt, and I am here to wake
people up to what is really possible in a deep and satisfying
sort of way.
I was reading a book by Gabrielle Bernstein called The

Universe Has Your Back, and I absolutely loved it. She
told a story about choosing a sign, something that you
see as a message from the universe that you are on the
right path. She had chosen an owl and I chose a butter-
fly. It just came to me, and it was the middle of winter,
so the likelihood of seeing one was slim. However, but-
terflies started showing up in very interesting places. As I
was trying to decide if I should transition away from my
network marketing business and move over to full-time
coaching, my upline gave me a card congratulating me
on my coaching success, and on the front was a butterfly.
I was worried about disappointing her, so the butterfly
was a message from the universe that I was going on the
right path, that she would be okay, that no one would
be let down.
I started seeing butterflies all over the place: in movies, in

emojis that people would send me, in art on the walls, or
books on coffee tables. It was obvious in a major way that I
was heading towards something truly great and every time
I would see one, I would smile, feeling the little nudge to
keep going. The day I received two pins from my mentor
for achieving levels of excellence in my business, as I left
his home, on the patio sliding doors were little butterfly
stickers. I knew I was in the right place and that I was
meant to be on this journey with him. I saw the butter-
flies and my heart skipped a beat. A calm rushed over me,
knowing that all is going to work out just fine.
There is no need for explanation. There is no need to see

everything with our eyes in order for it to exist. This real-
ization was a huge shift for me. I chose to believe this and
now everything is different. There are no coincidences. I
truly believe the universe is guiding me.
The universe is also speaking to me regularly with num-

bers. Some refer to them as angel numbers, but to me it’s
simply a sign. I started seeing 111 as I ventured into my
coaching business full time. As I really started to live in
what I now truly believe is my purpose, the numbers were
everywhere. May 2020 was an incredible training. Every-
one was so engaged and inspired and at one point, there
were 111 people watching on the live training stream.
One person noticed and put 111 in the comments. Then
all of a sudden, the chat was flooded with 111. I was so
overcome with the signs that I became emotional. THIS

IS IT. This is what I am here for. That realization in that
moment changed it all.
The morning I reached a goal that I had been working

towards for the year, it was a normal Tuesday morning
where I teach my clients on Zoom. That morning seemed
different, though—people were excited and the energy
was stronger. Normally, we have about ninety people
online for this early morning session, and about fifteen
minutes in, I noticed the participant number was at 111.
Of course, I was not the only one to see it, and the chat
started filling again with 111. I knew that was the day it
was to present itself into my physical world. The universe
speaks and I am always listening.
Messages from the universe sometimes come in not-so-

nice ways as well. I find that if I am questioning someone
or something, the universe will bring it forward for me in
order to work through it. We are not meant to hang onto
negativity, overwhelm, unorganized thoughts, or indeci-
sion. The faster we can sort these things out, the better,
and the more purity of mind you will find.
When I look back on times of indecision in my life, I

can see how the universe was sending me little nudges or
messages to guide me. One of the hardest decisions for
me came exactly one year ago. I had decided to become
a coach and teach on the topic of mindset. I knew it was
what I was supposed to do, that it was my calling. I had

been teaching it to my team in network marketing for
months and everyone was absolutely loving it. People
were changing around me because of my change in beliefs
and expanding my knowledge to them. Everyone around
me was telling me I needed to be coaching on the topic.
I knew it too, but there was this other business and team
that I had that I was struggling to let go of. I had built this
team over the course of two years, spent so much time and
gave so much of myself to it, that I just could not let it go.
I had so many friendships, so many team members that
relied on me that I really did not want to let anyone down.
I kept coming up with ways I could do both at the same
time, and grow both businesses. It seemed like there could
be a way. But something had shifted inside of me, and I
could not connect with the end goal anymore. When I
would use my imagination to see myself at a higher level
in the network marketing business, I could no longer
emotionally connect to it, nor could I hold the picture
for very long. I would keep trying, but nothing happened.
But when I would picture my coaching business—myself
on stage teaching thousands of people, imagining the wins
from people I was guiding—my heart sang loudly. There
was no doubt about which was my path, so why was I still
struggling?
I recognize now that this was my old program that I was

not letting go of. The fear of saying goodbye, the worry
of what others would think, the indecision around which

path is the right one. I remember so clearly the very first
sign from the universe about which path I should take. I
was in California for our company conference in January.
We were enjoying ourselves, but things were different. I
recognize now that I had grown so much, I had changed
the way I saw things, but others around me had not.
Things that I normally would have been fine with were
no longer in alignment with this new, higher version of
myself (no better than anyone, but my past self). I could
feel that I was not as engaged as I used to be, but I felt
this overwhelming feeling of not wanting to let anyone
down, especially those who meant the most to me. One of
my dearest friends and leaders gave out gifts and cards to
the team members while we were at our leadership lunch,
which was a beautiful gesture. When I opened my card, I
was immediately taken aback. The front of the card was a
butterfly. I knew this was the universe sending me a mes-
sage that all was going to be fine and that when I decide
to change the course of my life and jump all in with my
own business, that she would not be let down, but would
be supportive.
You would think that would have been enough to get me

moving forward, but it was not. I continued on past the
conference, through February. Another sign came when
the company conference was announced in Toronto, and
it was the exact same weekend as the conference I was
hoping to attend for my coaching business. I could not

do both and was forced to choose. The choice was an easy
one. However, I stayed on longer.
Finally, after a lot of indecision and back and forth, the

universe made the decision for me. One of my clients
asked me to do a training session for her team. I agreed,
and an avalanche of misunderstandings brought forward
circumstances that had me finally make the decision to
leave. Accusations were made against me, friends and lead-
ers who I was so worried about disappointing turned their
back on me, and I knew this was happening for a reason.
I was not making the decision I was being guided to, so
conflict ensued to create the order that was needed. I was
given fourteen days to speak to the allegations against me
and while I was drafting up my response, I asked myself for
whom I was doing this? I knew my path. I knew my passion
and I knew my integrity was intact, so I made the decision
to not even respond and to resign my position with the
company. So much worry, fear, and indecision, suddenly
gone in a moment of pure freedom and pure release.
I am meant to be here, doing this. My other business was

a stepping-stone to this, a beautiful gift that served its pur-
pose and I will forever be grateful. I am grateful to the
universe for showing me the way, even if it felt harsh at
times. I am proud of myself for moving on with grace,
for responding and not reacting, and for maintaining my
integrity throughout.
Chapter 10
Decisions from the End
I learned early on that decision-making alone is a

powerful mechanism for success. I have learned
to make decisions much quicker and from within much
more than I used to. I shifted this by making decisions a
certain way, and doing so altered things quickly for me.
If I am using my imagination to go to the end result, where

my dreams and desire are fulfilled, then it means that I can
tap into that energy, that place where I am confident in
my decisions. It would stand to reason then that the deci-
sions I make in that place should be the same decisions I
make now in my physical world. If I want the result of a
decision to take me to the end, then they should be made
from the end.
I remember the first time I tried this. I had just launched

my business and I was in LA for an event. I had picked up
a few clients and was feeling pretty good. I had not quite
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paid off my initial investment yet, but my faith that this

would be done soon was high. I had a thought: “How
cool would it be to go buy my first Louis Vuitton bag on
Rodeo Drive?” I really had no idea how much they cost,
but I had always wanted one. I had even put the one I
wanted on my vision board. The purpose of the vision
board is to get clear on the goals, the lifestyle I would
be living when all my goals were achieved, and buying a
Louis Vuitton purse in LA would certainly be something
I would be doing. I knew at that moment I needed to go
do it. If I chose not to, then I was sending a message out
that I was not sure more clients were coming, that I was
not confident in my ability to bring in more money. At
the end, when abundance is here, I have several of these
bags. So, I took myself in an Uber to Rodeo Drive, spent
hours in the store, and bought my very first $4,000 purse.
My husband was a little surprised, but he understood that
I was working on something big, and this was only the
beginning.
You would think I would have stopped there. Nope. I
decided to take things one step further and fly home first
class. The cost was only $500, but after spending so much
on a purse I felt a little tense booking it. I knew I needed
to behave NOW like I had what I wanted. I got on that
plane, in pod seats as I’d hoped, and there were two very
successful coaches who were at the top of their game in
first class with me. Nothing happens by accident; it all
aligns when we allow it to. It was so empowering. I felt
so proud, so calm, prosperous, and so boujee. These emo-

tions were exactly the ones I have now, at the end. (It’s not
the end anymore, but was at the time.) By experiencing
them then, I brought forth all I needed into the physical.
If I had been focused on my physical world, my current
results, I would not have made either of these decisions
and I do not believe I would have the results in life I have
in this moment.
I used this method a third time and it started becoming

a habit. I had come to a point where I wanted to have
someone help me with my marketing, email campaigns,
course creation, etc. I connected with Sheena online and
her work was exactly what I was looking for. She sent me
a proposal with three packages, each a different level of
affordability. I was physically in a place where my business
was going well. I’d paid off the investment I put in and
had hired someone to help me with admin tasks. I had
clients coming in and I felt confident in the future of the
business and its growth. When I opened the packages and
their pricing, I have to admit my first reaction was shock:
“This costs how much?” Even the lowest package was way
beyond what I expected. I knew right away that even the
lowest package was a stretch. I decided I would choose the
lowest package and as more business success came in, I
would upgrade. Before I told Sheena my choice, I started
feeling like this was not the right decision. If I was in a
state of faith that my business was going to reach what I
was creating in my vision, then why would I be choosing
the lower package? I realized I was making this decision

based on my physical results, my current state of being. I
felt this urge to go into a visualization. I went even further
than I had before. I did not just picture a million-dollar
business, but multi-millions. I felt the joy, the excitement,
the pride in achieving this, and I knew my answer imme-
diately. When I have the business I want, I decide to take
the VIP package, and so I did. I believe this decision was
a pivotal moment in my growth. It was a moment where
I made my first decision from a true place of faith and
knowing—knowing that my multi-million-dollar busi-
ness was on its way to the physical.
As you can imagine now, I think from a different end

result. I am avoiding the use of terms that make the end
bigger or farther away, because doing so places a limit on
what I am capable of. If I think something is too big, or
that it will take too long, then it changes how I view it,
and how I view it means everything. I want to see things
as just around the corner—as easy, as fun and joyous, as
something natural—because in this natural state is where
the magic happens. When we expect success, it shows up.
When we assume we have what we want, it’s there. When
we believe, we see.
Chapter 11
Faith Always Knows
F aith has to be one of my absolute favourite top-

ics. I lived thirty-seven years not really feeling
like I had faith in anything, to now living in a place of
absolute faith. I would not want it any other way.
A few months into the journey of studying myself, I began
to think more deeply about beliefs and what they really
meant. As I studied beliefs, I started to ask about faith as
well. I started to wonder how faith differs from beliefs,
and it led me to read a few books on the topic. What I
really started to understand was that my beliefs are sim-
ply ideas that I see as truth. I was raised to believe that I
should go to university after high school and get a degree,
find a job that was needed (so I would always be in a job),
and to work my way up the ladder through promotions.
So, this is what I did.
Faith, on the other hand, is something completely differ-
ent. There is power in faith. The more I study faith, the
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more I fall in love with the idea. My awareness around

this topic has changed even in the last six months. I was
teaching about facing your fears less than six months
ago, helping others to understand fear in order to better
manage it, and I had this thought: “I just don’t want to
talk about fear anymore.” By even talking about it, I was
giving it power, and I’d had enough. I had a realization
that to rid yourself of fear, you need to live in faith. As
you move closer to faith, the feeling of fear simply dis-
sipates. So, I decided to place my focus solely on that, as
I do with many things I want more of in my life. What
we give focus to grows, and what we lose sight of floats
away. The problem with most of us is that we let our
dreams float away.
The first step towards living in faith was to identify the

feeling of faith. Have I experienced this before? Could I
draw upon it to be able to use that feeling in another con-
text? I used to believe faith was related to religion, but as
I started to study it more, it became very clear that I did
have faith, and in a lot of things (even in myself). When
I applied to university, I had faith in myself that I would
finish it and find a good job. When I accepted a new job,
I did so with faith that I would bring a good contribution
to the organization. I call an Uber with faith that I will
get dropped off at the airport. I put a pot of water on the
burner, knowing when I come back it will be boiling. We
start families with faith that we will be able to care for our
children and give them a good life. When we step outside
of our homes and plant our feet on the ground, we do so

with faith that gravity will keep us from flying up into
the sky. We have faith in this, even though we cannot see
it! We have faith that the sun comes up and will go back
down at night.
There was so much polarity in the realization that I have

been living in faith on an unconscious level. I never even
realized it. So why, then, was I having faith in some things,
yet no faith in others? There were things that I would not
have faith in unless I was able to see it with my own eyes.
I would doubt my ability to do anything extraordinary, I
would doubt the miraculous healing of disease, and I would
consider fast success only for “certain people.” I would see
other people succeed and think, “I will never do that.”
One of my favourite comments on faith from Dr. Rob-

ert Russell is when he paraphrases a well-known quote
about faith being the actuality of things that we hope for,
and the confirmation of things that we cannot see. Some-
thing exists in our faith of it. Having faith is having cour-
age—the courage to believe in more than what the masses
believe. Faith that you are not just like everyone else, but
that you have unique greatness within you. Why fit in
when you can stand out and show others how to stand
out too?
Much like I think of thought being energy, I also believe

faith brings power. The more faith you have, the more
powerful you are. It is not enough to simply be in a state

of faith; you must be in action with that faith. When in
true faith, you act in no other way than that your desires
are already here, even if you cannot see them. I entered
into this state and the entire world around me changed.
Fear now seems small; it feels more like excitement for the
growth to come. It no longer becomes a barrier, but rather
a sign that I am growing. Faith is what connects the physi-
cal and spiritual—a connection I am very grateful for.
Some of the questions I have asked myself over this past

year have brought me great strength, as they have me
focus on a state of being I want to be in, and not on one
I want to avoid. I would ask myself these things: “What
would you do if you were in a state of complete and utter
faith? How would it feel to believe so deeply in something
that taking action towards it is free and limitless, easy and
rewarding?” Now I strive every day to be in a state of abso-
lute faith and knowing. How do I know what this feels
like? It feels like no one can tell me otherwise, and even
my own doubts about it are gone. I am convinced.
Chapter 12
My Dominant Feeling
I remember telling my parents when I was

growing up that I “can’t help how I feel.”
This is what I truly believed, right up until I was thirty-
seven years old. Emotions were something that just
happened, and I had to just deal with them. And were
they ever powerful around my monthly cycle…watch
out! I felt like I had zero control of anything. I was an
emotional person and felt sadness on a regular basis. I
don’t remember much of my childhood or high school
years because I was not a very happy person. I didn’t
have a bad childhood. I was blessed in so many ways,
but I always felt less than. I had this desire to fit in,
but never felt like I did. I did some things that I’m not
proud of because I thought people would like me if I
did (as many young people do, I’m sure). One thing I
wish I knew back then was that these emotions were
modifiable.
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Emotion is a choice. Sadness is a choice. Happiness is a

choice. I used to say, “I just want to be happy,” and then
focus on how sad I was.
What is the dominant feeling you are in? That is your

success mechanism and point of attraction. It’s not about
each individual thought; it’s the culmination of thoughts
that create the result. It’s the ideas that are impressed
upon the unconscious mind. I used to get so stressed that
I developed very real pain in my shoulder. It was like a
muscle cramp. I wouldn’t be consciously aware of why I
was stressed—sometimes I honestly couldn’t understand
why—but I knew that’s what was happening. This domi-
nant feeling that would live in my heart (my unconscious
mind) was literally creating pain in my body, and was
entirely unconscious on my part. My mind was not filled
with worry or doubt, but there was a feeling there.
Ups and downs are normal, but it’s when the dominant
feeling changes entirely that you want to watch for. I
loved this idea. This gave me hope. I don’t need to be per-
fect. I can have some thoughts come in that aren’t perfect
(because, hey, I’m human!) and everything will still work
out how I want it to.
I can now tell immediately when my dominant feeling

changes, and it’s usually related to something external to
myself. I always ask myself, “Am I perceiving this in the
most positive way, or could I?” For example, there will

always be other people who do or say things that are not
very kind, but I know that other people’s self-image is
what causes them to be harsh towards others. When you
are in a loving, calm, and confident space and are truly
happy with who you are, you do not make others feel
small or less than. You simply accept others no matter
what. I choose compassion in these situations and send
love their way. This is how I perceive these situations.
Chapter 13
Beliefs Into Reality
I have an undergraduate degree in sociology and

psychology, so I studied communities, indi-
viduals, beliefs, and paradigms; but I never studied them
from this perspective before, prior to this recent time in
my life. Years of life and work experience definitely helped
me in understanding truths a bit better. What I believed
while I was in university is very different from what I
believe today. My reality is a culmination of my beliefs,
so what I believe to be true will be my truth. This past
year has been a time where I have been very intentional
about my beliefs. Have you ever questioned your beliefs?
No? Me neither. What I can tell you for sure is that the
me before this past year would have never believed what
could be possible for me in one year. The key here is for
me. I could have believed it for someone else, but certainly
not for me.
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I had a belief that was formed when I was a young girl,

and it steered my life in so many ways. As a heavier girl
and then adult, I had a belief that because I was over-
weight, I was inferior. This message was ingrained in me
deeply. Every birthday when I would blow out the candle,
I would wish to be “skinny.” My belief was that being
skinny was better, and I aspired to be that. When I dug
even deeper, I realized that I not only wanted to be skinny,
but I also believed I needed to be skinny to be accepted,
to be loved, to achieve success. My physical world was
telling me this was true over and over again. I would lose
a chunk of weight and receive praise and feel accepted. I
met my husband at my lowest weight. And I grew a suc-
cessful network marketing business after losing 100 lbs.
All these things proved my belief to be true.
The sad thing in having this belief is that every single

time I gained the weight back, my inferiority came back
with it. At one of the heaviest points in my life, when I
started really studying myself, I began asking myself the
truth behind this belief. As I examined this belief, I started
attracting people into my life, confident and successful
women who were curvy and loved their bodies. At first it
made no sense, because who wouldn’t want to be skinny?
As I started to change my awareness, it all started to make
sense. By continuing to believe this narrative, this story I
had rooted inside my heart, I was in a self-made prison,
unable to escape unless I met this standard. I made the
decision (yes, this is a choice) to change this belief. What

would life be like if I did not believe this, if I could be suc-
cessful in the body I am in right now? I loved the thought
of this and decided to nurture this belief instead of my
previous one. I replaced the narrative on a conscious level.
I told myself the exact opposite of the old belief until it
became my truth. Here I am today, plus-size and a mil-
lionaire. One belief, changed on purpose, made all the
difference. Something that hindered me my entire life was
gone, and I was free to express myself fully. This is free-
dom. Every single thing I have been through has a pur-
pose. The number of women who have reached out to me
and told me that they have let their body image impact
their success, telling me I threw their paradigm out the
window, has shown me that I went through it all for that.
I know this. I’m so grateful for the chance to help others
see their potential.
There is so much power in taking your beliefs back. We

are led to believe that certain things are truth, and likely
taught by someone who was taught by someone else who
has no idea where it originally came from. Using our rea-
son allows us to actually think and reflect, and to under-
stand why we believe these things. We often have a desire
to be like the masses, but if we think like the masses, we
will live the same life. I don’t know about you, but I want
something a bit more extraordinary. So, let’s stop accept-
ing so many things as truth just because. When I have
a belief that is not serving my interests, I intentionally

change it to a new one. I love the idea of nurturing beliefs,
like I’m taking care of them. What I’m really doing is sug-
gesting a new belief to my subconscious mind until it just
becomes my reality.
I am always asking myself this question (and often will ask

others): “Do you want to believe that? Does that belief
serve you? What belief would serve you more?”
One of the biggest changes in my beliefs is that my reality

is what I choose it to be. If the outside world has done me
wrong, if I give the responsibility of managing my feelings
to others, then my reality will always be at the mercy of
others. My happiness will be determined by others; my
success, determined by others; my value, determined by
others. The most freeing belief to accept is that YOU are
in control of your entire world and you can choose happi-
ness, you can choose love, you can choose success. I feel so
much compassion for those who continue to be moulded
by their outside world. If only they knew how easy it was
to release! One step in the right direction to freedom.
The first step in changing your beliefs is to really under-

stand what you believe. Pay attention to some of the expla-
nations you use for your state of emotion: My business is
not growing because the economy is not the best right now. I
am sad because he said hurtful things to me. I am frustrated
because my friend never calls me. All of these things are
outside of you. All you need to do is go within yourself.

You are your beliefs.
When I started to tell myself that I was good at certain

things, those things started to show up in my life. When
I started to tell myself that I was good at sales, the sales
showed up. When I told myself that I was good at making
money, more money came in. When I told myself that I
was happy in the body I am in now, I started being hap-
pier. I’m trying to be better, I’m hoping to be good at this,
and I’m working on showing up more are all ways of saying
that you currently do not believe you are those things.
Believe you are NOW and you will be.
Chapter 14
I Am So Grateful for...
G ratitude has helped me in so many ways this past

year. When I began in network marketing, I was
told to write down three things I am grateful for
every morning. I did this for a couple of months and didn’t
notice too much of a difference. It felt like I was doing it
just because I was told to, and I never really engaged much
in the actual practice of it except for the five minutes it
took to write the three things down. I began to really
engage in the practice of gratitude about eighteen months
ago, and this time I took a very different approach. This
time I spent time not only writing down the thing I was
grateful for, but actually picturing it and feeling the emo-
tion of having it. This really started to change things for
me. This was not about just finding the good in my life,
but changing my entire attitude about my life. The big-
gest difference for me is in actually living in an attitude
of gratitude all day long. This is very different than just
writing a few things down.
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Imagination is a tool for manifesting my dream life, and

gratitude is also something I use while in my imagination.
Feeling the feeling of the wish being fulfilled is key in the
manifestation process and using gratitude during a visu-
alization is very profound. It is a beautiful way of bring-
ing emotion into the visual, but it also helps to feel as
though YOU actually have what it is you want. We often
“dream” about something and never truly believe we will
ever obtain it, but when you visualize it and feel it, your
mind thinks it’s real. When you think it’s real, it happens.
When I am in my imagination with all my goals achieved,
I take a look around in that moment and see all the amaz-
ing things to be grateful for: my success, my relationships,
my support, my environment, my experiences, my time
and financial freedom, etc. I am almost always grateful for
myself for never giving up.
Fourth-dimensional gratitude is a practice I do every

morning. I write down five things I am grateful I have in
my physical world (the visible) and five things I am grate-
ful for that are on their way.
Gratitude is also helpful in being able to find the good

in every situation. When negative things show up in my
life, I am able to reflect back and ask myself, “What am
I grateful for in this?” Usually, I find clarity or order in
tough situations, and in those situations, I find the growth
I needed to reach that next level. Growth is required, and
once I realize this, then I recognize how grateful I am for
the challenge, for the perceived setback, and for the lesson
that is showing up for me.
Vishen Lakhiani talks about living in a blissful state now in

order to manifest your dream life. You can’t be unhappy
with what you have and manifest what you want. The law
of vibration proves this. I love this idea and I make sure I
am in this peak state of joy and bliss.
Chapter 15
Giving All Around
G enerosity has been a huge component of why I

believe I was able to receive so much abundance
this year. I have always been someone who is car-
ing and always wanted to help others, so nursing was the
obvious career path when I couldn’t figure out what else I
wanted to do. As I started to study myself, things started
clicking for me, and other people could see it too. They
saw the alignment, the flow opening, and the change in
me. I was showing up more confidently, expressing my
expertise in the material I was studying, and achieving
success. This is when people started reaching out to me
for help—potential clients, current clients, other coaches,
the general public. The reaction became overwhelming at
times, but the more people I helped, the more questions
I answered, the more other people started seeing success.
And with their success came more for me.
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A few months back, I introduced a strategy into my

business that worked very well. We found it online and
gave it a try. We adopted our own way of doing it and
because I was in a state of flow and alignment, and had the
right thinking behind it, it worked like a charm. Other
coaches started asking me for tips and tricks and to share
my strategy. In an industry of coaching, especially where
we all work within the same context, some would have
kept their strategies to themselves. I decided to be open
and honest and help anyone who wanted to know more.
I taught people individually, then as a group, and others
started to really succeed at it!
This raised my vibration and had me feeling empowered

and satisfied that I was able to make an impact on people.
I felt blessed to be able to do this for others. I understand
that I was simply the vehicle for them to receive what they
needed, but being that vehicle is truly an honour. I built
a massively successful business for myself, have been part
of facilitating others to do the same, and now even my
mentor uses my strategy after I brought it to his company.
This is the kind of impact I wanted to make, and here I
am, receiving abundantly.
This proves that I have truly been in the collaborative and

creative plane, which is never competing with us. Compe-
tition can bring about feelings of lack or unworthiness. I
choose to compete only with my past best. While the urge
to compete is there, I replace this with a giving heart.
Another thing I am very generous with is my time. I found

that by doing above and beyond what was expected of me
allowed me to receive more. As I express my energy, the
more impact I am able to make. The further my energy
reaches, the more I can help others. It is my desire to help
others reach what I have that drives me. My biggest weak-
ness right now is that I want to give everyone my time, but
cannot. I choose to leverage it and speak to more people
at one time.
Chapter 16
Money
T he topic of money is something I could likely

speak for days on. The way in which I view
the concept of money has shifted tremendously. I no lon-
ger look at others and want the same with this longing
that I will never have it. I never feel like money is lack-
ing—if anything, I now believe there is more than enough
to go around. The important thing to note here is that this
feeling changed before the money came, not the other way
around.
Money was something I never felt like I had much of.

Anytime we had money, it would be spent and then would
take a long time to build back up again. It always felt like
we just never had enough. I enjoyed spending money,
but felt like I could never spend large amounts on things.
I remember going shopping and trying on a bunch of
clothes, and once I got the total at the checkout, I would
take two items out to make the price lower. I did this every
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time. It was as if spending under $200 was acceptable, but

nothing more. I would see people with designer bags who
weren’t making as much money as me and think, “How
can they afford that?” It never made sense to me. I did
not grow up struggling for things. My parents were able
to provide well for me, especially as I got into my teenage
years, but I realize that I did believe money was hard to
make. I had worked some jobs for not a lot of money that
I disliked very much. I began to be driven by more than
dollars; I was driven by the internal satisfaction that came
with it. I pursued a nursing career that would earn good
money—or so I thought. I remember working sixteen-
hour overnight shifts, exhausted when I got home. I’d see
the paycheck and think, this is it?
I believed that in order to make more money, I needed a

higher-level degree, a promotion, to work overtime, or to
start a second business. So, I did all of the above. I never
saw myself making more than $140K per year. I would
look at the pay scale as a nurse and think to myself, I guess
if I want to make more money, I need to be the CEO, and
that was a job I certainly did not want. They had so much
pressure on them, were overworked, and never smiled! I
felt stuck. I could not see any way of making money other
than the way I was doing it in that moment. My vision
was limited and so were my options. What I failed to
recognize is that my job was only the mechanism for the
money to flow to me, and that by seeing the thousands of
other ways to do it, I would open a whole new world. This

started my journey to entrepreneurship.
Things had an okay start. I saw some initial successes and

then things remained stagnant. Even as my own busi-
ness grew, I never seemed to make more money than
my biggest month of $10k. What I know now is that I
was set to make no more than that ever, because I did
not allow myself to visualize it. My belief started to shift
pretty quickly once I started to learn about the power of
the mind and thoughts on money. I changed how I saw
money. Instead of focusing on the lack of it and barely
watching it grow, I shifted my focus to thinking of more
of it. I will never forget my first experience really playing
around with this idea, when I manifested money to the
extra dollar.
After one month into studying the power of the mind, I

decided to make a goal of bringing in $20k per month.
I had never made more than about $8k per month, and
that was with a full-time job and a side business. I was
down to just the side business, so this goal seemed impos-
sible. I was told not to try to figure out “how” it would
happen, but just to ask for what I wanted. I started writ-
ing this out: “I’m so happy and grateful now that I am
making over $20k per month easily and continuously.”
I started using my imagination to picture myself seeing
the money in the bank account. As I did this, I realized
that the bank account would likely have some money in
it, so after the $20k goes in, it will have more. I chose the
amount of $21,795. I wrote this number out over and
over. I thought about what I would spend it on and pic-
tured that amount in the bank, and focused on how it
would feel to have it. About a month later, as I continued
thinking the money was on its way, my husband called
and told me he had a few stock options that we could
exercise if we wanted. I said sure, and never thought much
more of it. He called me a week later while I was away
at an event in Florida and told me to check the bank as
the money should have been deposited. I logged into my
online banking and my heart started racing immediately.
There was $21,795.85 in my bank account. It worked!
Holy shit, this works! I believed before, but now I really
believed. I called my coach Danielle and she told me to
add a zero. So I did…and here I am with income well past
that amount each month!
The ironic part of this story is that I am now a CEO (the
role I had previously dreaded) of my own company, work-
ing from home, making more money in some weeks than
I made in six months. And I am not stressed, not over-
whelmed, and I feel so blessed for the work I do. I do
some things now that would not have made sense to me
before. When I have a desire to bring more money in,
maybe a business goal or for a purchase, I express energy
through the exchange of money. I usually make a pur-
chase—a large one. This makes it known that I expect
more money to be coming. This works every single time. I
spend money on things to bring more money towards me.

I have fun with this. I remember thinking that I had a big
goal in the month of September and hadn’t spent much
money lately. I felt the urge to do something, so I ordered
a Gucci purse. It arrived during my conversion event, and
I ended up enrolling more clients in that month than in
any previous month. Coincidence? Nope.
One of the things I am most proud of is my new home.

I had developed a really clear idea of the type of home I
wanted to move into, and I knew exactly where I wanted
to live. The house we were in was too small and my energy
had grown out of it. We had downsized when my business
was not going well, so it was something that I was disap-
pointed in myself for. It took eight months to manifest
my dream home. When we found the home, it first felt far
out of reach. It had more than we wanted. It is a bungalow
and has a theatre, a gym, six-car garage, and a glassed-in
office. It had all the bells and whistles and was for sale
for much more money than we had. I knew that what I
needed to do was show the universe I was open to receiving
and place an offer on the home. I did not have the down
payment—not even close. But, as I now know, if I ask, I
will receive. Could offering on the home help me bring
in more money and make my business grow at the same
time? Yes, I believe this is true. So, we did it. We made
an offer on the home and had forty-five days to manifest
a large sum of money (let’s just say it was in the hundreds
of thousands of dollars). There were very brief moments

of “what are we thinking,” but for the most part, I kept
my focus strictly on us living in the home. I spent most of
my days there, in the fourth dimension. I was physically
in the old house, but psychologically I was living in the
new one. There was no doubt that this was our home and
that we would be moving in soon. We stayed the course,
packed up, made arrangements with movers, and planned
for it all. This was a beautiful experience, showing myself
what I was truly capable of. We ended up making more
money than we needed, and moved into our dream home
at the end of October 2020.
Moving into the new home became a new paradigm, a

new level of wealth, to grow myself more into the person
I want to become. When we wait until things feel secure,
until we have it all figured out, or until it feels “safe,” it
comes from a place of lack and a place of fear. I choose
faith over fear every single day. I know my current world
is my past thinking, and what I am thinking right now
(which is my future) is really, really big.
The funny thing about my year and the manifestation

of money is how fun and lively the whole thing was. I
remember being asked to speak at an online event in the
middle of July with Bob Proctor and he interviewed me
on my success. He was shocked to hear that I had brought
one million dollars of income into my household through
my business in just seven months. I really started to real-

ize that most people don’t do this…although I expected
to for some reason? Why don’t we expect or think this
will happen to us? He asked me what is next, and my first
thought was, Well, I just did one million dollars in seven
months, so I think I can finish the year off at two million.
As I started to say it to him, I realized right away that this
involved no growth. There was no stretch. So I immedi-
ately said three million dollars by the end of the year. I
had no clue how I was going to do this, but I believed I
could, and that I wanted to. He pushed me to think big-
ger, and this is why it happened. I know for a fact that we
limit ourselves in so many ways.
What I know for certain is that I changed my relationship

with money, and more money came. Makes total sense.
Chapter 17
Personal Power
I n the introduction of this book, I talked about

how my powers showed up when I started to
really believe in myself. A year ago, I would have never
even used the term “power,” and if I did, I would have
meant it in a negative way, as in people wanting more
“power” over others. That is a pretty good indication of
where my thinking was. I saw the concept of power as
something someone has over another person. Wow…I
see things so differently now. Power is something we have
within, something we can choose to utilize or not.
Over the course of the past year, my personal power has

grown so much that I have no doubt about what I am
capable of. The word “power” alone evokes a positive
emotion in me now, because I know I am full of power; I
am powerful. That was one of the first affirmations I cre-
ated for myself not too many months ago. What could
be better than believing you are powerful? I can’t think
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of anything, if I’m being totally honest. To be powerful

means to let go, to release force, and use the strength that
is within.
I first acknowledged my power when I realized that I have

been building (and will continue to build) my physical
reality around me. I also have the power to choose how I
perceive my physical surroundings. I began asking myself
really good questions, like, “What would I love? How
would I like this to go?”
I practiced this power for the first time when I used my

mind to win a contest, intentionally. I had been studying
the mind for only a short time and thought I would have
some fun with it. I entered into a contest with my company
to win a chance to interview a top leader. There was a quali-
fication amount of sales needed, and those who qualified
would be entered into a draw. I figured I would give it a go.
I took pen to paper and wrote down what I would love to
happen. I wrote about the moment I found out that I won
the contest, how fun the interview was, and how grateful I
was for winning it. This formed a picture in my mind right
away: I could see myself winning, and the feeling of joy
rushed over me. That’s what I did before the contest even
began. Well, a week later, I qualified for the contest—and
of course, my name was pulled from the draw!
I kept doing this, testing out my power. I began getting

increasingly more specific with what I wanted to happen.
What would I love to see in my future? I thought to

myself, it would be really nice to be a best-selling author. I
never thought about writing a book before, but now the
thought of it sounded nice. It was one of about fifty things
I would love to see in my future. Wouldn’t you know
it, the very next day I was asked to co-author a chapter
in a book on self-love. Eight months later it hit the top
seller list. The more I started asking for things, the more
they started to happen. I began to think more about the
business of my dreams, and I decided I wanted to have
one person join my team per day. Can you guess what
happened? After thinking about it for a couple of weeks
and believing it was possible, I began recruiting at a rate
of one person per day. I later used this exact same method
to bring in one high-ticket client per day. It really does
not matter if what you want is considered too big or too
small—it all manifests in the exact same way.
My belief in the power of the mind grew even stronger

as my clients started to see their own success. One of
my very first clients did something in a period of three
months that would take others years to do. She completed
quantum leaps in her results in her business and in her
finances, and it all happened so quickly that before she
knew it, she needed a new goal. Another client manifested
the cost of the program to work with me the day after
she enrolled, to the dollar amount. This has happened
about six times now, and it is not a coincidence. Seeing
people step into their power like this is the new norm in
my world, and these events have all begun to happen with
regularity since I stepped into my personal power. Those
who believe, those who do as suggested, and those who
remain in a state of fun get what they ask for. And those
who do this always have an impact on others. Wins in my
community come regularly. They often seem magical, but
I know they are actually happening because that person
believed in their power, just as I believe in my own.
I continue to use this power inside me. Just last week I

did a manifestation that was quite simple. I was getting
used to having 1200 people register for my training ses-
sions. It was comfortable, and I knew I could continue to
fill a training of this size. But as I went into this month’s
training, I again thought to myself, what would I love? I
thought to myself that I would love 3500 people regis-
tered this time. I wrote that number down, expressed it
to a couple of people on my team, and the process had
begun. Everything I needed for that to transpire in the
physical world began to happen. The universe aligned,
and we ended up reaching 3500 registrants the day of the
training. The most important thing I’ve learned from each
of these situations is to think bigger and ask for more.
Why stop at the 3500 mark?
The key to our personal power is that we must see it and

acknowledge it. I can’t help you if you are blind to it—
just like Neo in The Matrix. He believed, and he did. I
have gotten very good at asking and receiving. The tim-

ing is not relevant for me anymore because I know it is
happening. Sometimes it comes quick and other times
it takes more time, but it always comes. In the grand
scheme of things, does time really matter? When we lose
patience, when we lose hope and become impatient, we
have moved into resistance and are no longer receiving. If
you knew without the shadow of a doubt that everything
you wanted was on its way, you would patiently sit and
wait while enjoying the life you have at this moment. It’s
that simple.
Conclusion
W hat does becoming “the one” mean to me?
Becoming “the one” means so many things.

It’s being the one and only me. When I started to see
uniqueness as my power is when I began to truly love
myself for me, instead of trying to be like everyone else
and trying to fit in. A fellow powerful woman and friend,
Kathrin, recently said to me, “It’s never about fitting in;
it’s always about what fits us.” I could not agree more. We
all need to be reminded of this over and over again.
Becoming “the one” means taking responsibility. I am the

only one who can change my circumstances. Instead of
looking for things outside myself, I go inside and work on
growth, on my thinking, and get back to asking for what I
would love. I am the one who now accepts her power and
grows it along my journey.
Being “the one” also means believing that I have a pur-

pose, a reason for being here on earth, in this body, to
awaken and enlighten others to different beliefs, different
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views on reality, different ways of living—ones without

struggle.
Someone asked me this question last week and I think it’s

such a perfect one: If you could suggest one thing to do
every single day to achieve success, what would that be?
My answer was simple. Trust. Trust in you, and trust in
the universe.
Acknowledgements
T his book would not have been done, and cer-

tain not as quickly as it was, without Peggy
McColl. An intuitive hit to send her a text message only a
few months ago, led to one of the most inspired times of
my life, putting pen to paper to tell my story.
There would be no book, no story to tell without the lov-

ing support of my husband. You were open to my crazy
ideas, supported our household while I went “inside,”
and continue to be by my side as we build our dream life
together and our legacy for our daughters.
The woman I am today, the one who believes in herself,

the one who believes in her purpose, is a combination of
two incredible people, my parents. Their quest for more
became mine, and I am forever grateful for the example I
have been so honoured to expand upon.
Every step of my journey was paved with those who

trusted in me, those who followed my lead, and those who
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had faith in me. My clients and my Diamond Academy

team are in every page of this book.
Lastly, my awakening was only possible because of one

man who committed his life to the potential hidden
within all of us, Mr. Bob Proctor. You paved the way for
me to follow in your footsteps, and I am eternally grateful.
About the Author
K athleen Cameron is a
Manifestation Queen,
Success Coach, 7 figure entrepre-
neur, and record breaking author.
In just 18 months, she has built a
6 million dollar business and con-
tinues to share her knowledge and
expertise with all of whom she con-
nects with.
With her determination, unwav-

ering faith, and powers of manifestation, she has helped
over 100,000 people attract more love, money, and suc-
cess into their lives. Her innovative approaches to Mani-
festation and utilizing the Laws of Attraction have led to
the creation of one of the top global success networks.
Through Diamond Academy Coaching, thousands of

students have been able to experience quantum growth.
The force behind her magnetic field has catapulted many
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students into a life beyond their wildest dreams and she is

just getting started.
Kathleen is a mother of two wonderful daughters,

graduated with two undergraduate degrees and a Mas-
ter’s degree, has held a high level executive position in
healthcare, and transferred her knowledge to so many
others in a way that brings everyone’s vibrations up
alongside hers.
Resources
For more information about Kathleen's programs

and courses, as well as free resources you can visit:
KathleenCameronOfficial.com
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Kathleen does a beautiful job describing the transitions

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M y husband had been asking me to watch the

entertaining the idea and dismissing it altogether. In the

This was profound. I, too, have experienced a moment

2 020 was a strange year for the world. It was trans-

August 2019 was the month I made the pivotal decision

point later. I spoke with my husband again, this time not

The next decision at the beginning of January 2020 was

At a leadership summit in November of 2019, I had the

along with the pride in their achievement. When I opened

While the world entered into a global pandemic, I was pre-

The Reality Is...

H ow do I put into words the past year of my life?

Personal growth and development books have been my

explore it. If what I was doing wasn’t working, then maybe

I grew up believing that success was possible, but achiev-

possible. As I began learning and growing, my awareness

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Creation is a powerful part of my life now, and I under-

a brand-new coach and consultant. I was programming

The next time this happened to me was when I mani-

T he funny thing about self-love is that I’m

In 2018, I made the decision that I was no longer going

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brought order and clarity for me to resolve the issues that

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know that I am in control of myself and it is a choice to let

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What has been very clear is that I had been so used to

Your inner dialogue needs to be one that empowers you,

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T he moment I realized I wasn’t “determined,”

I grew up always believing that I was sensitive. I would