Gender Dynamics
Gender Dynamics
Gender Dynamics
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1. Introduction
Patriarchy is deeply entrenched in Pakistani society (Safdar & Yasmin
2022; Shaheed 2010), where gender roles and identities determined by
cultural, social and ideological factors are largely upheld (Grünenfelder,
2013). Drawing variably from the Islamic ideas and ideals (Shaheed,
2010), as well as from the country’s colonial past (Das, 2010), the
society’s clearly defined gender dynamics assign power and control to
men, while women remain disempowered and disadvantaged (Hadi,
2017). Farid (2021) maintains this state of affairs is sufficiently reflected
in misogynistic response from the state’s leadership, official machinery
and religious quarters in the wake of incidents of rape and violence against
2. Literature Review
Masculinity studies are considered inter-disciplinary. Its origin is traced in
anthropology, sociology and psychology, providing multi-dimensional and
multi-perspective frameworks to analyse literary works (Kimmel, et al.,
2004). These included perspectives as varied as cultural differences,
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Pakistan’s political leadership and government representatives often respond to rape
incidents with victim-blaming as evidenced in these reports: Outrage after Pakistan PM
Imran Khan blames rape crisis on women (The Guardian); Lahore CCPO blames
motorway rape victim for choice of route, travelling late at night. (Geo TV)
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3. Methodology
The researchers have utilised various feminist and gender theories
including Connell’s formulations of hegemonic masculinity, multiple
masculinities and emphasised femininity (2005). Other concepts informing
the study include sex-gender difference (Upstone, 2017; Klages, 2006;
Tyson, 2006; Vance, 2011); gender role variations across cultures, over
time, over the course of a person’s life (Kimmel, 2001), and
intersectionality, which refers to ―the multiple social forces, social
identities, and ideological instruments through which power and
disadvantage are expressed and legitimised‖ (Crenshaw, 2017, para 1).
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4. Analysis
Australian sociologist R. W. Connell’s concept of hegemonic masculinity
provides a comprehensive theoretical framework for gender-related
analysis of the selected texts. It allows analysis of multiple types and
levels of masculinities, as well as the dynamics of power between men and
men, men and women, and between masculinities and femininities.
Furthermore, Connell’s assertions about emphasised femininity provide an
opportunity to study the role of women in accommodating desires of their
male counterparts. For the purpose of textual analysis, the researchers
have combed the two selected stories to develop a kind of ―semiosphere‖,
identifying thematically relevant portions for analysis in accordance with
the research question(s).
among men when their power and privilege are undermined by the
awakening of consciousness among women and deviant masculinities.
Jaglani himself betrays this crisis through self-censuring castigation:
―Secretly, and most bitterly, he blamed himself for having been so weak as
to love a woman who had never loved him‖, and for having thrown away
―his manliness and strength, for a pair of legs that clasped his waist and a
pair of eyes that pierced him and that yet had at bottom the deadness of
foil‖ (Mueenuddin, 2009, p. 49).
Consequently, the two wives stand in striking contrast with each other.
Zainab, being ambitious, resists complete domination by Jaglani; she
employs her sexuality as a tool. The senior wife, on the contrary, remains
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The problem this study set out to examine was what happened when the
boundaries of prescribed gender roles are pushed. From the two above
examples, it is evident that in a strictly patriarchal setting, a woman
venturing beyond her mandated heteronormative role is up for a rough
ride. Such women shake the confidence of men who might be seen
flaunting their hegemonic masculinity in other situations and settings. In
the end, though, patriarchalism carries the day and the hegemonic culture
is perpetuated rather than subverted.
In the second story ―In Other Rooms, Other Wonders‖ gender dynamics
can be navigated by focusing on two characters, that is, the retired
bureaucrat and landlord K. K. Harouni, and his poor but young relation
Husna, who lives with K. K’s estranged wife. Needing a job, she visits
―Uncle‖ Harouni with a letter of introduction from the Begum. Harouni
tells her to start taking typing lessons from his secretary Shah Sahib.
When Begum Harouni proceeds for Umrah, Harouni asks Husna to move
in and settle in the annex. It takes them only a week to start sleeping
together. Harouni’s health, however, is precarious, and after his death,
Husna is made to leave and go back to the Old City from where she came.
Both the central characters of the story fall short of exhibiting the traits
typically assigned to and idealised in their respective genders. From the
perspective of patriarchal gender roles (Tyson, 86; Greig, 11) as well as
Connell’s concept of emphasised femininity, (Connell, 2013) Husna is
anything but a typical, compliant woman. Her aggressive pursuit of
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Not ready to marry a clerk, not hoping to attract someone from the rich
established families, she offers herself to Harouni, knowing this was her
chance, and that a salary man was always accessible. Juxtaposed to
Husna’s clear sense of purpose is the doting Harouni, whose expression of
gender is conditioned by his inherent benignity, his loneliness, and his age.
Harouni, on the masculine hierarchy, is marginalised which is determined
by multiple factors including the age of a person (Connell &
Messerschimdt, 2005). He exemplifies ageing masculinity (Calasanti,
2005), which is about making sense of ―identity in later life, particularly
against the backdrop of hierarchy of dominance, subordination and
marginalisation‖ (Tarrant, 2016, p. 193 ). K. K. Harouni, who has to
contend with his age-related marginalisation, forges a relationship with
Husna to make sense of his identity in old age: In K. K.’s own words:
―She keeps me company. […] At my age, what I need is companionship,
and Husna can give that to me‖ (Mueenuddin, 2009, p. 72).
In laying bare the dynamics of his ageing masculinity, the writer clearly
establishes that Harouni’s marginalised masculinity is not susceptible to
class-related shocks and effects. Tarrant (2016) maintains accumulation of
wealth and consolidation of financial power across the life-course can
prove instrumental in offsetting old age, and this is clearly the case with
Harouni whose class, position and accumulation of resources is linked to
his ability to resist ageism. Harouni’s affluence thus remains a source of
strength and stability in his life, with his old friends, girlfriends and
daughters still in touch, his old age notwithstanding.
5. Discussion
In both the stories, the masculinity of the central male figure is
undermined, as their female counterparts venture out of their socially
prescribed roles. However, women are forced to retrace their steps, and
embrace the system-prescribed (patriarchal and heteronormative) gender
identity. Mueenuddin also underlines gender hierarchies by presenting
different types of masculinities and femininities. Factors such as wealth,
social class, ethnicity, and age play a role in situating a person’s gender.
Deliberating on the key elements of class, Morgan (2005) finds property,
occupation, and masculinities strongly interconnected. This emerges as a
theme in both the stories in that wealth and property figure as an important
aspect as socially and politically strong and powerful characters, are seen
unleashing their masculinity on subordinated and marginalised men. By
presenting different versions, varieties and classes of men and
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6. Conclusion
This study was aimed at understanding gender dynamics in Mueenuddin’s
In Other Rooms, Other Wonders (2009), with a goal of highlighting the
instances where male or female characters push the boundaries of
prescribed gender identities. For this, representations of masculinities and
femininities were examined in two titles, ―Provide, Provide‖ and ―In Other
Rooms, Other Wonders‖. The study demonstrates that Mueenuddin stops
short of validating any specific version of masculinity or femininity as the
one to be emulated. However, gender identities in both the stories appear
to have been destablised, thanks primarily to the female characters who
shun their socially sanctioned gender roles and identities. Such women
trigger a crisis of sorts in the likes of Jaglani, while elderly and
marginalised persons like K. K. Harouni take it as an opportunity to forge
companionship. In the process, the stories also bring forth instances of
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