Universalhumanvaluesfinalppt 230714141709 Ce8da8d8
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Whatever is said is a Proposal (Do not assume it to be true or false) Verify it on Your
Own Right – on the basis of your Natural Acceptance
It is a process of Dialogue
A dialogue between me and you, to start with
It soon becomes a dialogue within your own self
between what you are and what you really want to be (your natural
acceptance)
The purpose of this session is to initiate this internal dialogue
Workshop/Course Content Process
Proposals Self-exploration, self-verification
(about harmony at various levels
for your self-exploration)
Desired Achievement
- Harmony in Human Being
Individual Transformation
- Harmony in Family – Right Understanding
- Harmony in Society (Understanding Harmony)
- Harmony in Nature/Existence – Happiness & Prosperity
(Living in Harmony)
Societal Transformation
– Humane Society
What We Really Want to Be
Do we want to be happy?
Do we want to be prosperous?
Do we want the continuity of happiness and Is there continuity of our happiness and
prosperity? prosperity?
What are we doing to fill this gap? Is it getting filled up or getting wider?
When a human being has lack of physical facility, he becomes uncomfortable and unhappy
But once he gets the physical facility, he forgets about it and starts thinking about hundred other
things
(Check for yourself if you feel happy every day that you are getting enough to eat?)
Something more is required (over and above physical facility)
Physical facility is necessary for human being
but
something more is also required
Basic Human Aspiration
Basic Human Aspiration
= Happiness and Prosperity Continuous
Happiness
= To be in a state of Harmony
Prosperity
= The feeling of having more than required Physical Facility
Some Prevailing Notions related to Prosperity
Accumulation of Wealth = Prosperity?
The richer you are, the more prosperous you are, i.e. the more you have accumulated, the
more prosperous you are
Some Prevailing Notions of Happiness
Owning / accumulating physical facility
Physical facility is required, but it alone does not suffice for human being
Dependence on physical facility, can’t be continuous
On examining carefully, we find that this is a fundamental difference between animals and
human being
Physical facility is necessary for animals and necessary for human being also
However,
For animals physical facility is necessary as well as largely adequate
For human beings physical facility is necessary but relationship is also necessary
For animals:
necessary & largely
adequate
RELATIONSHIP PHYSICAL FACILITY
with human being With nature
For human beings:
necessary but not
adequate
Although we have Recognised the need for Relationship…
We do get into arguments, opposition and fights… even in the family, with close friends, with
colleagues at work… in the marketplace…
Even though we don’t want to, a fight does take place once again
(we want the other to improve… and the other wants us to improve…)
Is this happening?
Are incidences of reaction… not speaking to the other… arguments… debates… divorce…
increasing or decreasing?
Explore your close relationships – in the family, with friends, in the workplace, in the society
Animal
Consciousness
UNHAPPINESS DEPRIVATION
Making others Unhappy Exploiting and
Depriving others
Animals living with they are in harmony this is fine
animal consciousness
While we want to be –
Are both types of needs important / Do we want fulfillment of both types of needs?
The needs of the Body can not be fulfilled by Right Understanding, Right Feelings alone
The needs of the Self can not be fulfilled by Physio-Chemical Things
Self is consciousness. Its needs are feelings in consciousness (like happiness) and these needs are
fulfilled by activity of consciousness, i.e. Right Understanding and Right Feeling
Body is material. Its needs are material (like food) and these needs are fulfilled by material, i.e. Physio
chemical things
Consciousness Material
Activities of Self
Human
Being
I want to be respected…
Self Imagination need some more…
Have to show them…
take revenge…
Co-existence
Body
Behaviour Work
State of Imagination – Random and Disorganised
If the imagination is random and disorganised
It indicates a state of confusion
If we observe carefully, we realize that we have accumulated a lot of desires, which are resulting
in numerous thoughts and expectations
Harmony in the Self is realised when there are no contradictions in the imagination and all
imagination is in accordance with our natural acceptance
Assignment for Today…
C. The Self
1.Take the same list of your desires. Now find out what is the source of the desire:
preconditioning (PC) or sensation (S) or natural acceptance (NA):
S.No. Desire Purpose Preconditioning Sensation Natural
Example: Acceptance
1 Money a. Physical Facilities to √
take care of Body
b. Status √
c. Merry making √
2 Name, fame Attention from others √
3 Good food Health of Body √
Taste √
4 Car a. To save energy of √
Body in transportation
b. Respect in society √
c. To look good √
5 Peace of mind For the Self √
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Sum Up
Imagination is going on in the Self continuously
Behaviour/Work is an expression/outcome of Imagination
The Self has the faculty of Natural Acceptance – it is innate, invariant and uncorrupted,
but may or may not be presently the motivation for imagination
Imagination guided by Natural Acceptance leads to harmony in the Self. This is the state of self-
organization (स्वतंत्रता). This is the state of happiness. In this state, the behaviour/work is also
mutually fulfilling – the conduct is definite (harmonious)
Imagination motivated by preconditioning or sensation may lead to contradiction in the Self. This
is the state of enslavement. This is the state of unhappiness. In this state, the behaviour/work
may or may not be mutually fulfilling – the conduct is not definite
Every human being has the potential to awaken to his/her Natural Acceptance, and be in
Harmony (This is the full human potential at the level of the Self)
Harmony in the Family
‘Trust’
The Foundational Value in Relationship
Harmony in the Family
1. Relationship is – between one self and another self
2. There are feelings in relationship – in one self for the other self
3. These feelings can be recognized – they are definite
4. Their fulfilment, evaluation leads to mutual happiness
Feelings in relationship:
1 Trust FOUNDATION VALUE 6 Reverence
2 Respect 7 Glory
3 Affection 8 Gratitude —
4 Care 9 Love COMPLETE VALUE
5 Guidance
Self Reflection
If you have unconditional, continuous trust on intention (natural acceptance) of the other and if
the other is lacking competence, what will you do:
a) Try to improve his competence Trust on Intention Response
(and also improve your competence)
b) Get irritated
c) Get angry Doubt on Intention Reaction
d) Have a feeling of opposition
How many persons, in your family and friends, do you have trust on intention (natural
acceptance) – unconditional, continuous?
You can get an idea of the state of your understanding about relationship from this exploration…
Trust: To have the clarity that the other intends to make me happy
About your Natural Acceptance About your Competence
1a. I want to make myself happy √ 1b. I am able to make myself always happy ?
2a. I want to make the other happy √ 2b. I am able to make the other always happy?
3a. The other wants to make herself/himself √ 3b. The other is able to make herself/himself ?
happy always happy
4a. The other wants to make me happy √ 4b. The other is able to make me always ??
happy
If the other makes a mistake even once… Even if I make the same mistake 100 times…
– I doubt his/her intention – I never doubt my intention
– S(he) makes mistakes intentionally – I make mistakes by accident
– I have a feeling of opposition, get irritated, – I have a feeling “I am special”
angry… – I reinforce “I am good”. I do not make effort to
– I reinforce “The other is bad”, can not improve improve my own competence
Trust on intention is founded on understanding The last 5 times I lent her money, she returned
(not based on events) it on time… so I can trust her
It does not keep changing with time or person. He said he will reach at 11, but look it is after
So it can be unconditional and continuous 12 now… he always comes late… so how can
I trust him to be on time?
Of course, the competence may or may not be Here we are not looking at the natural
there – in me or in the other acceptance (intention). We are only seeing the
competence
Trust is to have the clarity that the other wants to make me happy & prosperous.
Trust is the foundation of relationship
Disrespect
Under evaluation – to evaluate for less than what it is
Check for yourself in every interaction with others whether it is respect or disrespect. i.e.
It is right evaluation or
It is over / under / otherwise evaluation
Other Feelings in Relationship
Justice
One has the responsibility and commitment for mutual fulfilment in the relationship
The responsibility & commitment for nurturing The responsibility & commitment
and protection of the Body of my relative for ensuring Right
Understanding and Right
Feeling in the self of my relative
E.g. while taking care of the body, like while feeding the child, are we
concerned about both the body as well as the self?
Reverence
The feeling of acceptance for excellence
Working for Excellence and competing with each other is not the same thing.
In excellence, one helps to bring the other to his level
In competition, he hinders the other from reaching to his level
Effort for Excellence Effort for Competition
The other is like me Not other – only me
We are complementary I am different/more than the other
Feelings are based on right Feelings are based on preconditioning
understanding (definite, (indefinite, keeps changing)
unchanging)
Unconditional relationship Conditional relationship
Nurtures others May nurture or exploit others
Helps the other to come to his level Stops the other to come to his level -
effort to accentuate the difference,
to dominate, manipulate, exploit
I can see that the other has a feeling of care, affection, trust.. in behaviour with me. I can also
see that the other
a) has helped me in developing right understanding & right feeling in me
b) Has provided me with the necessary physical facility
1. Are you able to appreciate both –”what has been done” as well
as ”what has not been done” (the complete picture)?
or
are you mostly focused on “what has not been done”?
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Preconditioning Related to Love – Common misunderstandings
Excitement (from sensation, preconditioning) is confused for feeling
Natural
Sensation – Imagination
Acceptance
Lust, getting from the other (in the Self) Love
Continuity not possible
Preconditioning
Preconditioning –
Infatuation
Sensation
Infatuation, Lust
1. Love at First Sight?
2. By this age, I must have GF/BF?
3. The other has 4 GF/BF; I have only one?
Continuity not possible
Once trust, respect, affection, care, guidance… are ensured within, then
the feeling of being related to all follows naturally
Preconditioning Related to Love
It all starts with identifying that one is related to other human being (Affection) and it slowly
expands to the feeling of being related to all human beings and then to all, each & every unit in
nature (human being as well as other units) (Love)
Feeling of Love is expressed in the form of kindness, beneficence and compassion. The feeling
is for all, and it is expressed to those who come in contact
Society is composed of many families living together making collective effort for a common goal We will
explore:
1. Goal of human being living in society (human goal)
2. The dimensions or systems required to achieve the human goal
3. Scope of the systems
What is Desirable and Where are we today?
Families living together, in a relationship of mutual fulfillment
(common goal)
Society
We will explore harmony in society – The base of harmony in society is harmony in family for which the
base is harmony in human being
Harmony in the Society
Human Goal
Right Understanding & Prosperity Fearlessness Co-Existence
Right Feeling (Trust) (mutual fulfilment)
Happiness
In Every Individual In Every Family In Society In Nature/
Existence
1 2 3 4
do we start from?
Current State – Have we understood our Goal?
Human Goal
Right Understanding & Prosperity Fearlessness Co-Existence
Right Feeling (Trust) (mutual fulfilment)
Happiness
In Every Individual In Every Family In Society In Nature/
Existence
Gross Misunderstanding (
Assumptions (eg. Accumulation Domination , Mastery &
Money is everything) By Any Means Exploitation, Fear Exploitation
Natural
3 Acceptance
Preconditioning 1 INTENTION
COMPETENCE
What You Are
2 Sensation
Harmony in the Society
Human Goal
Right Understanding & Prosperity Fearlessness Co-Existence
Right Feeling (Trust) (mutual fulfilment)
1 Happiness 2 3 4
In Every Individual In Every Family In Society In Nature/
Existence
1 2 3 4
Human Order
Systems / Dimensions
1. Education – Sanskar 1 Foundational System
2. Health – Self-regulation
2 4
3. Production – Work
4. Justice 3 – Preservation 4
5. Exchange – Storage 2 3
Education-Sanskar
Education = Developing Right Understanding
Sanskar = Commitment/ Preparation/ Practice for Right Living Preparation
includes Learning Right Skills & Technology
1. Right understanding, i.e. wisdom or clarity about what to do as a human being – in oneself, family, society,
nature…
2. Right feeling – the capacity to live in relationship with the other human beings – in family, society…
3. Right skills for prosperity, i.e.
The capacity to identify the need of physical facility
The skills & practice for sustainable production of more than what is required (by way of labour, using cyclic, mutually
enriching process)
The feeling of prosperity
Sum Up
A society is composed of families living together, in a relationship of mutual fulfillment. They have a common
goal, which is:
1. Right understanding & right feeling (happiness) in every individual
2. Prosperity in every family
3. Fearlessness (Trust) in society
4. Co-existence in nature/existence
The family is the basic unit in society, i.e. society is composed of family, group of families, village family, group of
village families, town family… and so on, where every individual is responsible or self- disciplined and self
motivated by common values, participating in the larger order toward a common human goal
Through the participation of every family in the society, in the 5 dimensions or social systems, the common
1. Education – Sanskar
human goal is fulfilled for all 2. Health – Self-regulation
– from family order to world family order 3. Production – Work
– generation after generation 4. Justice – Preservation
5. Exchange – Storage
[the current civilization is largely based on the assumption that human being = body, happiness is derived primarily from
sensual pleasure & feeling from other; and hence accumulation of physical facility, domination and exploitation is at
the core of the socio-economic systems]
Harmony in Nature
Is there provision in Nature/Existence for living in accordance with our Natural Acceptance? Is it possible
to live in harmony as an Individual, as a Family, as a Society…?
Soil
Animal body
Human Beings
Earth Sun
Moon Metals
Nature = Collection of Units = 4 Orders
All units can be categorised into 4 orders
Bio Order
Plants, Trees
Human Order
Human Being
Relationship of Mutual Fulfillment
Physical Order, Bio Order and Animal Order are enriching for Human Order, but Human Order (without right
understanding) is not fulfilling for any of the 4 orders
Human beings have
natural acceptance Bio Order
to be mutually fulfilling Plants, Trees
? ?
Human Order
Human Being
Bio Order
Physical Order
Harmony in Nature
All orders have definite conduct – except human order without right understanding
There is a relationship of mutual fulfilment (harmony) amongst these 4 orders. The first 3 orders are mutually
fulfilling for each other. They are fulfilling for human being also. It is naturally acceptable to human beings to be
fulfilling for all the orders
The role of human being is to realize this mutual fulfilment – For this, all that human beings need to do is:
1. To understand that mutual fulfilment (harmony) is inherent in nature – we do not have to create it
2. To live accordingly – then the mutual fulfilment amongst the 4 orders will be realised
and there is provision in nature for living with mutual fulfilment (harmony)
Realizing Existence as Co-
existence at All Levels
The Holistic Perception of Harmony in Existence
Level. Name Relationship / Potential Details
4b. Existence Co-existence Co-existence in Existence
Potential for human being to Realize Co-existence
4a. Nature Mutual Fulfillment Harmony among four orders of Nature Potential for
human being to Understand Harmony
3. Society Right Understanding and Human-Nature relationship
Right Feeling, Prosperity, Potential, through participation in various societal systems, to ensure
Fearlessness (Trust), Undivided Society and Universal Human Order
Co-existence
Every unit in existence is related with every other unit in existence in a mutually fulfilling manner
Synergy is intrinsic to existence, harmony is inherent in existence – we do not have to create it, we do not
have to construct it
The role of Human Being is to realize this co-existence, this harmony, this order in existence. For this, all
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