12 Vayechi
12 Vayechi
12 Vayechi
In this portion of the Torah, Jacob knows he is coming to the end of his life, therefore he asked
Joseph to bury him in the Land of Canaan. Before his passing, Jacob pronounced a patriarchal
blessing upon his sons as well as blessing Joseph’s two sons, Ephraim and Manasseh.
Parasha Vayechi seems to deal primarily with endings – the end of Jacob’s life, of Joseph’s life,
and the last words of King David before his death. There is a time for each of us to be born and
a time for us to die, as it is written:
“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time
to be born and a time to die,…” (Ecclesiastes 3:1-2)
The stark reality is that every one of us, no matter how deep our denial, will come to that day
when our earthly life is finished. “Both wise men die and likewise the fool and senseless
person perish, and leave their wealth to others. Their inner thought is that their houses will
last forever.” (Psalm 49:10-11)
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Isn’t that the truth! Especially when we are young, it seems that we will live forever. Death
seems a far-off, distant concept that will never touch us. But as we get older, we come to a
sometimes sudden realization that time is passing us by and we have only so much of it left.
Our hope, however, is in these words, “But God will redeem my soul from the power of the
grave, for He shall receive me.” (Psalm 49:15)
Yeshua has promised that whoever believes in Him will not perish but have eternal life! 1
Halleluyah! For followers of Yeshua, death has lost its sting. 2 He is the bread that comes down
from Heaven, the true bread that gives eternal life. Unlike the manna our fathers ate and died, we
may eat of this ‘lechem chayim’ and not die but live forever! (John 6:50)
It seems to me appropriate that this parashah is usually read some time around the secular ‘New
Year’, which is a time when people often take stock of the past year and set some intentions for
the coming one.
As we contemplate the passage of time, the issues we must face are: ‘How are we living our lives
today so that we may end them on this earth in peace?’ And secondly, ‘Are we living our lives
with eternity in mind?’
One day, we will each be required to stand before God and give an account of our lives (Romans
14:12). Will we live our lives in such a way that we have no fear or dread of standing before the
Great Judge when our lives here on earth are over?
Through the lives of Jacob, Joseph, and David, we can see that even great people of God (and
perhaps especially great people of God) suffer many trials and tribulations in the course of their
lifetime. The question is, “Will we forgive those who have wronged us and go on with God to live
in peace, love and joy? Or will we allow these difficulties and sorrows to harden our hearts to
God, to others, and to life itself?”
When we look back over our life, we all have regrets. I write to several brothers in Yeshua who
are incarcerated for various crimes; some of them will spend the rest of their life in prison. One
has been behind bars since he was a youth and has no hope of ever tasting freedom or enjoying
many of things we take for granted – satisfying work, a picnic in the park, a loving marriage, or
the joys and trials of raising children.
So many express regret, now that they are followers of Yeshua, over the mistakes and wrong
turns they have made that landed them in prison. They wish they could go back and do it all over
again – this time differently - but unfortunately, in this life we don’t get a ‘do over’.
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John 3:16
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1 Corinthians 15:55
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There are some things in life that we can’t change. We have to live with the consequences of our
choices and decisions; but what we can do is to allow these trials of life to transform us into the
people of character and holiness that God created us to be.
“When the time drew near that Israel must die, he called his son Joseph and said to him,
“Now if I have found favor in your sight, please put your hand under my thigh, and deal
kindly and truly with me. Please do not bury me in Egypt, but let me lie with my fathers;
you shall carry me out of Egypt and bury me in their burial place.” (Genesis 47:29-30)
Jacob prepared for the end of his life by asking Joseph to make a vow not to bury his body in
Egypt; but to carry him back to the
Land of his Fathers’ and to bury him
there with his fathers. Although
Jacob lived the last seventeen years of
his life in Egypt, and God had blessed
him there so that he and his children
became prosperous and fruitful, he
never forgot the Land God had
promised him by divine Covenant.
Even while in exile, the people of
Israel sat by the rivers of Babylon and
wept, remembering Zion, and vowing
to never forget her: “If I forget you,
O Jerusalem, let my right hand
forget its skill! If I do not remember you, let my tongue cling to the roof of my mouth—if I
do not exalt Jerusalem above my chief joy.” (Psalm 137:5-6)
We must understand this eternal longing in the Jewish soul in order to comprehend the fierce
determination of the people of Israel, even today, to remain in the Land that God promised us
through our forefathers, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. Many of those who live in exile among the
nations of the world still maintain a strong emotional tie to the Land of Israel.
Ephraim and Manasseh
When Jacob became ill, Joseph brought his two sons from his Egyptian wife, Asenath, daughter
of the priest of On, to his father for the patriarchal blessing. Jacob asked who the two boys were
and Joseph answered, “They are my sons, whom God has given me in this place.” (Genesis
48:9)
Although Jacob led, in many ways, a difficult and trial-filled life, in the end he praised the Lord
for His exceedingly abundant goodness towards him. When he saw Joseph’s sons, he thought
only of the goodness of God. “And Israel said to Joseph, “I had not thought to see your face;
but in fact, God has also shown me your offspring!” (Genesis 48:11)
There are times when God’s goodness not only meets our expectations but even exceeds them!
“Glory belongs to God, whose power is at work in us. By this power he can do infinitely
more than we can ask or imagine.” (Ephesians 3:20)
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Joseph, however was surprised to see that Jacob (Israel) stretched out his right hand to place it on
the head of Ephraim , the younger boy,
and crossed his hands, thereby placing his
left hand on Manasseh’s head, even
though Manasseh was the firstborn (and
therefore the rightful heir of the firstborn
blessing).
There is so much the Word has to say about God’s destiny for specific children, even before they
are born – even before they are formed in the womb! God said to Jeremiah, “Before you were
formed in the womb, I chose you; I set you apart before you were born, I appointed you a
prophet to the nations….” (Jeremiah 1:5) Incredible! Jeremiah was chosen by God as a
prophet to the nations before he was even formed in the womb?
Yes, God may choose our children before they are ever born, and appoint them to do great and
mighty exploits for Him and for the sake of His Kingdom. How tragic to think of those who are
aborted, their mothers not understanding this truth that God knows each and every baby, even
before they begin to grow and develop in our wombs. With God there is forgiveness through the
blood of Yeshua but it is still a terrible loss to the world to lose these precious children through
the shedding of innocent blood which we call abortion.
Now Jacob (Israel), being divinely led, blessed the younger son with his right hand, against all
natural reason. The Word of God tells us to trust in the Lord with all our hearts and lean not on
our own understanding.4 May we be led by the Spirit in all our decisions and be radically
obedient, even when it goes against our natural understanding.
This is not the first or only time that a younger child was chosen over the elder: Moses was the
second born; and David was so young and insignificant in his father’s eyes that he was not even
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Genesis 25:23
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Proverbs 3:5
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considered worthy of election. Jesse, his father, did not even call him from the fields when
Samuel came to check out his sons and to anoint the next king of Israel to succeed King Saul.
Gideon was also the youngest in his family. We tend to judge others by their outward
appearances but God judges the heart. God knows whom He can trust to be faithful to Him.
Joseph thought his father had simply made a mistake, perhaps due to his old age; but no, Jacob
(Israel) purposefully put Ephraim before Manasseh, just as he (Jacob) was placed before Esau,
his elder brother; and even as his father, Isaac, was placed before his elder brother, Ishmael.
God’s blessing is on all of His children, and each one is deeply loved; but certain individuals
have a specific destiny and calling. Jacob, discerning God’s election of Ephraim over Menasseh,
blessed them: "So he blessed them that day, saying, "By you Israel will pronounce blessings,
saying, 'God make you as Ephraim and as Manasseh'"; and thus he put Ephraim before
Manasseh." (Genesis 48:20)
But why would we bless our sons to be like Ephraim and Manasseh? What was so special about
them?
Ephraim and Manasseh were raised outside the Land of Israel, in Egypt, a highly secular,
ungodly society that served many false gods and practiced sorcery and witchcraft. However,
these two boys, born to a Hebrew father and an Egyptian mother, held onto their faith in the God
of Israel as the one true God.
We cannot always guarantee that our children will not be exposed to a negative or ungodly
environment. We can’t keep them perfectly sheltered in a bubble; but what we can do is to give
them our blessing to be like Ephraim and Manasseh, or like Sarah, Rachel, Rebecca, and Leah,
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The traditional blessing for daughters is, "May G-d make you like Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel, and Leah."
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who were not tempted by their immoral surrounding; but instead maintained ethical and
righteous behavior.
When we bless our children to be like Ephraim and Manasseh, we are exhorting them to resist
the negative peer pressure and immorality of the society in which they live, and instead hold true
to the values we have taught them from God’s Word.
“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind,
so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and
perfect.” (Romans 12:2)
So what about children who do not receive their father’s blessing? In today’s society where
divorce runs rampant, so many children are growing up without a father. What if we, ourselves,
did not receive the blessing of our father? Maybe he was absent or simply unavailable; perhaps
he was not a godly father who understood the power of blessing. Some children, rather than
receiving a blessing from their fathers receive a curse – through criticism or even neglect.
And yet, we all have a Heavenly Father who dearly loves us and is always for us, helping us,
protecting us, guiding us, and providing for our needs. It is His blessing which we can receive,
and His blessing that overrides any curses placed upon us by our earthly father or any other
mortal being. This is good news!
The Lost Ten Tribes
The name, Ephraim, אפריםcomes from the
word, pri, פריwhich means ‘fruit’. Out of
Ephraim was destined to come what is called in
Hebrew ‘m’loh goyim’ הַ ּגוֹיִ ם- ְמֹלא.6 This
may be translated as ‘a multitude of nations or
Gentiles’.
All those who are of faith in the Messiah Yeshua are now considered the ‘seed of Abraham’.
(Galatians 3:29)
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Genesis 48:19
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Ephesians 2:11-19
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Any time we see the word Ephraim used in Scripture, we can know that this is referring to the
offspring of Joseph, those who eventually came to be known as ‘the lost Ten Tribes’. These
Israelites, of the Northern Kingdom of Israel, were exiled due to their sins, assimilated among
the nations (goyim – Gentiles) and seemingly ‘lost’.
Because their sins were apparently worse than Judah’s, God rejected the ten Northern tribes
(called Ephraim or Joseph) and exiled them into the nations of the earth where they became
assimilated and eventually lost their Israelite identity. They even considered the Torah a ‘strange
thing’.
“The children of Ephraim, being armed and carrying bows, turned back in the day of
battle. They did not keep the covenant of God; they refused to walk in His
Torah….Moreover He rejected the tent of Joseph, and did not choose the tribe of Ephraim,
but chose the tribe of Judah, Mount Zion which He loved…” (Psalm 78:9-19,67-68)
The good news, however, is that our God is gracious, merciful, and provides a way of
redemption. He knows where they are and has promised to bring them back one day into
Covenant (Brit) with Him, restoring them into unity with Judah (the Southern Kingdom ).
He is doing this in our day through bringing Gentiles into Covenant with Him through the blood
of the Jewish Messiah, Yeshua.
God speaks about this issue throughout the book of Hosea through his adulterous wife, Gomer,
and their illegitimate children: Jezreel, Loh Ruhamah (No Compassion), and Loh Ami (Not My
People) : “I will sow her in the land for Myself, and I will have compassion on No
Compassion (Loh Ruhamah), I will say to Not My People (Loh Ami); You are My people
(Ami), and he will say, You are My God.” (Hosea 2:23)
And again this mystery is explained in the book of 1 Peter: “But you are a chosen generation, a
royal priesthood, a holy nation. His own special people, that you may proclaim the praises
of Him who called you out of the darkness into His marvelous light. Who once were not a
people (Loh Ami) but are now the people of God, who had not obtained mercy (Loh
ruhamah) but now have obtained mercy (rachamim).” (1 Peter 2:9-10)
Halleluyah! Those who were far away have been brought near; those who had no compassion or
mercy upon them have found compassion and mercy in the Lord. And those who were not
God’s people have become the people of God – Jew and Gentile – one new man. We can be one
mishpachah (family) in unity under Yeshua Hamashiach (the Messiah) who has broken down the
middle wall of partion (machitzah).
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Jacob (Israel) then called his sons together to give his last words before his death.
“Jacob called his sons, and he said: "Come together that I may tell you what is to befall you
in the end of days. Assemble and listen, O sons of Jacob, and listen to Israel, your father."
(Genesis 49:1-2)
This shows us that moral character is a more important factor than hereditary right. We may
possess great gifts and potential, but we must work to strengthen our character as well, so that we
may be stable enough to inherit the blessings that come along with excellence and power.
Jacob also cursed Simeon and Levi’s uncontrolled anger, which caused them to massacre many
innocent men in the matter of Shechem’s rape of their sister. We may note that it was their sin
he cursed, not their person. And yet the Simeonites were eventually intermingled with the tribe
of Judah8 and the Levites were eventually dispersed among the other tribes of Israel.
This demonstrates the power of blessing or cursing, life or death that is in our tongue.9
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Joshua 19:1
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Proverbs 18:21
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Is it possible that even this great man of God held unforgiveness in his heart? David also, in this
week’s haftorah, brings up an unhealed, undealt with offense; and on his deathbed, asks his son
to deal with it in justice. (1 Kings 2:5-9) Isn’t it somehow tragic that such a great man of God,
mighty King David of Israel, a man after God’s own heart, passes into eternity with vengeance in
his heart and on his lips?
This is such a huge issue! The Torah forbids us to hold a grudge against anyone, “You shall not
take vengeance nor bear any grudge.” 10 and again, “Do not say, “I will recompense evil”;
but wait for the Lord, and He will save you.” (Proverbs 20:22)
And yet so many people hold onto offenses and grudges against people even unto the very end.
We need to work through the process of forgiveness – of others and also ourselves.
The Jewish people who have descended from the tribe of Judah have been ‘set apart’ to be a
‘holy nation’. Now, those not of Jewish descent who have joined the commonwealth of Israel
through Yeshua the Messiah are also called to holiness.
The Hebrew word for Jew comes from Judah (Yehudah) יהודה, from the root ‘ydh’ ידהwhich
means ‘to thank’. Leah, Jacob’s wife, used a play on words in calling her son Judah, saying that
now she would praise (thank) the Lord (Genesis 29:35). The apostle Paul said that a true Jew,
inwardly, is one who praises (thanks) the Lord, whether Jewish or Gentile by bloodline. 11
From the tribe of Judah would come leaders, legislators and kings. Many leaders in every field
of humanity – science, medicine, literature, technology, and the arts - have come through the
Jewish people who have descended from the tribe of Judah.
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Lev. 19:18
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Romans 2:28-29
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Judah is a lion’s whelp; from the prey, my son, you have gone up. He bows down, he lies
down as a lion; And as a lion, who shall rouse him?” (Genesis 49:9)
Jacob also likens Judah to a lion cub; therefore the tribe of Judah is known as ‘Gur Ariyeh’.
Judah (Yehudah) is called a ‘lion’s whelp’ and the emblem of kingship is given to the tribe of
Judah (the ruler’s staff). Where I am now living in the Land of Israel, the territory is called
Mateh Yehudah, which means the Tribe of Judah. It is supposed to be the original territory of
Judah, and its symbol is the lion.
Yeshua is also called the ‘Lion from the Tribe of Judah’. He is the eternal ruler and His
kingdom shall never end. (Isaiah 9:6-7). Indeed, from the royal tribe of Judah came forth the
promised Redeemer, Messiah, and anointed King of Israel – Yeshua Hamashiach! As
prophesied, one day the dominion of His authority will extend to the entire world.
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The scepter shall not depart from Judah, nor a lawgiver from between his feet, until
Shiloh comes; and to Him shall be the obedience of the people.” (Genesis 49:10)
Yeshua is the Son of God to whom every knee shall bow and every tongue confess He is King of
Kings and Lord of Lords. (Philippians 2:10)
What is the meaning of the word, Shiloh? 12 This is a word whose meaning has been the subject
of much debate among Bible scholars in the context of this passage. Literally, it means ‘that is
his’; but is also used as a synonym for the Messiah (called ‘Christ’ by Gentile Christendom).
The Messiah did come before the ‘scepter departed from Judah’; but he was not recognized by
His own people, since he came at that time to fulfill the mission of the Suffering Servant
(Mashiach ben Yoseph).
The second part of this Messianic prophecy (to Him shall be the obedience of the people) is yet
to be fulfilled at Yeshua’s second coming.
It is interesting to note that Jacob’s prophecy (that the scepter shall not depart from Judah)
contains every letter of the Hebrew alphabet except one – the letter zayin – זwhich represents the
Hebrew word for weapon.
This indicated to the Torah sages that when the Messiah would come, it would not be through
military force, but rather through the Holy Spirit. And even so, the Jewish leadership of
Yeshua’s day did not recognize him as the Messiah because they were looking for a military
leader who would conquer the Roman oppressors with weapons and force. 13
The name Judah also uses all the four letters of the proper name of God, YHVH יהוהwith the
addition of one Hebrew letter – dalet ( )ד- which stands for delet (door). Yeshua, who was
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crucified in the Land of Judah, became the ‘door’ to salvation. He is the One whom His brothers
will praise.
“I am the door. If anyone enters by Me, he will be saved, and will go in and out and find
pasture.” (John 10:9)
But this was not the case – Joseph showed himself to be a true man of God, a foreshadow of
Yeshua, who once again reassures his brothers, “Don’t be afraid. Am I in the place of God?
You planned evil against me; God planned it for good to bring about the present result –
the survival of many people. (Genesis 50:19-21)
Not only does Joseph promise not to harm then, but he also promises to do good to them – to
care for them and their little ones. He comforted them and spoke kindly to them. Oh, how
marvelous is forgiveness. It not only sets free the person who wronged us, but also sets us free
from a root of bitterness which can defile many.
We are exhorted in the word not to return evil for evil but to overcome it with good. (Romans
12:21) Yeshua our Messiah also taught us to love and bless even our enemies. “But I say unto
you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray
for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;” (Matthew 5:44).
We can trust our wonderful God, that whatever any person may do against us, He has the power
to transform it all for good – and not only our own good, but the good of many people. This is
the wondrous goodness of our God – that even when we sin, He speaks comfort and kindness to
us. His lovingkindness is better than life.
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As we journey through life, may we be quick forgivers – both of others and of ourselves. For if
we can’t forgive someone, not only will our Father not forgive us, but we also close our lives to
the abundant life He has in store for us.
“If you are holding on to revenge, love can’t walk in. If you are hanging on to resentment, you
are hanging on to being a victim, and if you are holding on to being a victim, there’s no space in
your mind to be a victor.” (Randy Gage, Transforming Thoughts)
And the first person we usually have to forgive is our self. No matter how bad we think we are,
we have a God who has already forgiven us through the blood of His son, Yeshua Hamashiach
(the Messiah). We must forgive ourselves and move on or we will continue to repeat our
dysfunctional and destructive patterns (or as it is sometimes called, ‘taking another spin around
the same mountain’).
If we are feeling blocked or stuck in our lives, it may be helpful to: 1) mentally forgive anyone
with whom we are holding onto an offense or grudge. 2) Mentally or verbally ask forgiveness of
all those we have wronged in the past (gossiped about, sinned against, etc.) And 3) mentally
forgive oneself for any failures or mistakes.
Once we complete the process of forgiveness, the wells of living water that may have been
stopped up may be re-opened and flow freely through us once more. And as we go through trials
and tribulations, may we take comfort and inspiration from this Biblical account of Joseph, who
went from pit to prison, to a position of servant-leader.
He did not allow his trials to harden him; but rather humbled himself, surrendering to God in
trust and faith, forgiving all who had wronged him, and God eventually – in due time - exalted
Joseph over all of Egypt.14
Joseph, like his father before him, approached the end of his life, asking for a solemn vow not to
bury him in Egypt, in exile, but to carry his bones back to the Land of his fathers. This has been
the refrain of Jewish people in exile everywhere,
“How can we sing the Lord’s song on foreign soil? If I forget you, Jerusalem, may my right
hand forget its skill. May my tongue stick to the roof of my mouth if I do not remember
you, If I do not exalt Jerusalem as my greatest joy!” (Psalm 137:4-6)
God is re-gathering the exiles of Judah; rebuilding the ruined cities and returning us to a fertile,
beautiful Land, for which I am eternally thankful. He has done for us even more than we could
have asked or thought or imagined. I know that many from Ephraim, the descendants of Joseph,
would also dearly love to come home; and yet as of this day, the door has not been freely
opened.
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One day we will all live together in the Land of Israel as one flock – one mishpacha (family)
under Yeshua, son of David. May we live free, in the peace and joy that comes only through
release of all offenses and grudges, entrusting them to the One who judges righteously. May we
allow each and every trial that comes into our lives to refine us and transform us into the image
of His Son.
“Be strong (chazak), therefore, and show yourself a man, and keep the ways and
commandments of God as written in the Torah, that you may prosper in all you do and
wherever you go.” (1 Kings 2:2-3)
The Lord spoke these very words to Joshua when the charge of the Israelites was passed to him
after Moses’ death, “Only be strong and very courageous, that you may observe to do
according to all the Torah which Moses My servant
commanded you, do not turn from it to the right
hand or to the left, that you may prosper wherever
you go.” (Joshua 1:7-8)
Bar Mitzvah
boy holding the Torah Scroll in Jerusalem
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Bar Mitzvah – Jewish coming of age ceremony.
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There are so many influences competing for the hearts, minds, and souls of our children; may
God give us wisdom, grace and strength, to pass on our faith to our children, that they may set
their hope in God, and not forget Him, but keep His commandments and walk in His ways of
righteousness, kindness, and justice.
So ends our study of the first of the Five Books of Moses (Chamishah Chumshei Torah).
According to Jewish custom, we conclude each of the Five Books of the Torah by proclaiming
the words, “Chazak, Chazak, v’nitchazek” (Be strong, be strong, and let us strengthen one
another).
This is the ancient cry of the Israelite warrior, “Be strong and of good courage, and let us
prove ourselves strong for our people, and for the cities of our God. (2 Samuel 10:12)
So let us proclaim this together – Chazak, Chazak, v’nitchazek! May we be strong and may
we strengthen one another more and more as we approach the day of His coming.16
B’shem Yeshua Hamashiach (in the name of Yeshua the Messiah) who strengthens us. Amen.
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Vayechi Study Questions
1. When you consider your life, are there things that you would deeply desire to accomplish
before it comes to an end here on earth? How do you want your life to have made a
difference? Are you moving towards the fulfillment of these desires?
2. Do you have any regrets that you need to let go of now? Anyone you need to forgive
(including yourself)?
3. Can you describe a time when God not only met your expectations but even exceeded
them with His goodness?
4. If you have children, do you see a specific calling on each one? How can you
purposefully bless your children & encourage them to grow into righteous men and
women of God even in the midst of an immoral or ungodly environment?
5. Did you receive your father’s blessing? What kind of impact (negative or positive) did
his blessing (or lack of) have on you?
6. What does it mean to be a true ‘Jew’ (whether of Jewish or Gentile lineage) according to
the Hebrew meaning of the word?
7. From which tribe did Yeshua come forth?
8. What symbol is on the emblem of Jerusalem and why?
9. Where was Jacob buried?
10. What was Joseph’s response to his brothers after the death of his father? What does this
show us?
11. What were King David’s last words to his son, Solomon, before his death?
12. With what exhortation do we end each of the books of the Torah?
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