My mother at 66
My mother at 66
My mother at 66
Introduction
Poet: Kamala Das (1934–2009), also known by her pen name Madhavikutty.
Style: Kamala Das is known for her confessional style, characterised by deeply personal and
emotional expressions, honesty, and introspection.
Languages: She wrote in English and Malayalam, contributing extensively to Indian literature in both
languages.
Theme: The poem explores themes of ageing, fear of separation, and the inevitability of death,
woven with the poet's emotions toward her mother.
Poem Summary
1. The poetess is on her way to Cochin airport with her mother, who looks pale, tired, and
weak, like a “corpse.”
2. Seeing her mother’s fragile condition reminds the poet of her ageing and the reality of
death.
3. To distract herself from these sad thoughts, the poet looks out at the lively world outside,
noticing trees running past and children playing happily. This contrasts with her mother’s
weakness and symbolises energy and youth.
4. At the airport, while saying goodbye, the poet feels the pain and fear of losing her mother.
5. She compares her mother’s pale and faded face to the “late winter’s moon,” symbolising old
age and weakness.
6. The poet recalls her childhood fear of separation from her mother, showing her deep love
and attachment.
7. Despite feeling sad, the poet hides her emotions, smiles, and says, “See you soon, Amma,”
trying to reassure herself and her mother.
8. The poem reflects on universal themes like ageing, separation, and the love between a
mother and child.
Themes
o The poem captures the inevitability of ageing and the fear of losing loved ones.
o The poet experiences an emotional conflict between her duty to leave and her desire
to stay with her mother.
o The imagery of sprinting trees and playing children contrasts with the mother’s
fragility, indicating the cycle of life.
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4. Emotional Resilience:
o Despite her fear, the poet controls her emotions, showing strength and hope for
meeting her again.
Literary Devices
1. Simile:
o “Her face ashen like that of a corpse” – compares the mother’s face to a lifeless
body, highlighting her weakness.
o “As a late winter’s moon” – compares the mother’s face to a waning,pale moon,
indicating decay and old age.
2. Imagery:
o Vivid descriptions of the mother’s appearance, the vibrant surroundings, and the
winter’s moon create powerful visual contrasts.
3. Contrast:
o The lively, external world (trees and children) is contrasted with the mother’s
weakness and ageing.
4. Repetition:
o The phrase “smile and smile and smile” stresses the poet’s effort to conceal and hide
her pain.
5. Symbolism:
Message
• The poem underlines the transient nature of life and the deep bond between a parent and
child.It encourages readers to cherish their loved ones and face the realities of life with
courage.
o Symbolizes the mother’s fragile state and reminds the poet of her mortality.
o Highlights the inevitability of ageing and the physical decline that comes with it.