Unpacking The Self-The Sexual Self
Unpacking The Self-The Sexual Self
THE SELF:
THE SEXUAL SELF
Development of Secondary Sex
Characteristics and the Human Reproductive
System
(http://www.healthofchildren.com/P/Puberty.html
https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/stages-of-
puberty#tanner-stages)
Puberty can be divided into the
following five stages:
FOURTH STAGE
SEX AGE CHARACTERISTICS
Female Approximately ●Areola becomes darker. Breasts
from 10 to 16 take on a fuller shape.
years old ●Pubic hair may start to have a more
adult triangular pattern of growth.
●Menarche should start at this stage
if not in Stage 3.
●Ovulation may start.
SEX AGE CHARACTERISTICS
Male Approximatel ●Penis begins to grow in width.
y from 10 to ●Testicles and scrotum continue to grow.
17 years old ●Underarm and facial hair growth
increases.
●Hair in the anus may start to grow.
●Deeper voice becomes permanent.
●Acne may start to appear.
(http://www.healthofchildren.com/P/Puberty.html
https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/stages-
of-puberty#tanner-stages)
Puberty can be divided into the
following five stages:
FIFTH STAGE
SEX AGE CHARACTERISTICS
Female Approximately from 10 ●Full height is reached.
to 16 years old ●Reproductive organs and
genitals are full developed.
●Regular ovulation
happens.
●Hips, thighs, and buttocks
fill in shape.
SEX AGE CHARACTERISTICS
Male Approximately 11 ●Height growth will
to 17 years old slow down.
●Penis, testicles, and
scrotum will have
reached adult size.
●Some will need to
begin to shave facial
hair.
(http://www.healthofchildren.com/P/Puberty.html
https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/stages-of-
puberty#tanner-stages)
What are the Erogenous Zones
of the Body?
Erogenous zones refer to the parts
of the body that are said to be
pleasurable to touch. These are highly
sensitive and often linked to sexual
excitement.
What are the Erogenous Zones of
the Body?
THE SKIN
A. Nonspecific Type
In this type, the skin is the same as any other part of
the common haired skin. The sensation that is felt in
this area can be described as an excessive kind of tickle.
Example:
● sides and back of the neck
● axilla, also called the armpit
● sides of the thorax, also called the chest
(Winkelmann, 2004)
What are the Erogenous Zones of
the Body?
B. Specific Type
This type is found in the mucocutaneous parts of our
body. Acute sensation is felt in these areas.
Example:
● prepuce
● penis
● female external genitalia, also called vulva
● perianal skin
● lips
● nipples
(Winkelmann, 2004)
What are the Erogenous Zones of
the Body?
The Skin Type: Specific Type
PREPUCE
➢ also called the foreskin, is a fold of skin
that covers the glans or the head of the
penis
➢ or the skin that protects the head of the
clitoris
(https://www.merriam-
webster.com/dictionary/prepuce)
What are the Erogenous Zones of
the Body?
The Skin Type: Specific Type
PENIS
➢ the sex organ of males
➢ composed of several parts:
glans, corpus cavernosum, and
corpus spongiosum
(https://www.webmd.com/men/picture-of-the-penis)
What are the Erogenous Zones of
the Body?
The Skin Type: Specific Type
VULVA
➢ the external female genitalia
➢ it includes mons pubis, birth canal, vagina,
labia majora and labia minora, clitoris, and hymen
LIPS
“Unlike in other animals, human lips are uniquely
everted, meaning they purse outwardly. They are
packed with sensitive nerve endings so even the
slightest brush sends a cascade of information to
our brains, which can feel very good.”
(Kirshenbaum, 2017)
What are the Erogenous Zones of
the Body?
The Skin Type: Specific Type
NIPPLES
➢ the small raised tissue at the
center of the areola
➢where the breast milk flows
and comes out during lactation
(https://www.cancer.gov/publications/dictionarie
s/cancer-terms/def/nipple)
Remember that individuals
differ in sensitivity. Also,
how our brain interprets
messages varies from
person to person.
Sexual Response Cycle
(https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/sexual-health-your-guide-to-sexual-response-
cycle#:~:text=The%20sexual%20response%20cycle%20has,orgasm%20at%20the%20same%20time.)
FOUR PHASES OF THE HUMAN
SEXUAL RESPONSE
PHASE GENERAL CHARACTERISTICS
(https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/sexual-health-your-guide-to-sexual-response-
cycle#:~:text=The%20sexual%20response%20cycle%20has,orgasm%20at%20the%20same%
20time.)
FOUR PHASES OF THE HUMAN
SEXUAL RESPONSE
PHASE GENERAL CHARACTERISTICS
3. Orgasm ●Involuntary muscle contractions begin.
●Blood pressure, heart rate, and breathing are at their
highest rates, with a rapid intake of oxygen.
●Muscles in the feet spasm.
●There is a sudden, forceful release of sexual tension.
●In women, the muscles of the vagina contract. The
uterus also undergoes rhythmic contractions.
●In men, rhythmic contractions of the muscles at the
base of the penis result in the ejaculation of semen.
●A rash, or "sex flush" may appear over the entire body.
\(https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/sexual-health-your-guide-to-sexual-response-
cycle#:~:text=The%20sexual%20response%20cycle%20has,orgasm%20at%20the%20same%20time.)
FOUR PHASES OF THE HUMAN
SEXUAL RESPONSE
PHASE GENERAL CHARACTERISTICS
4. Resolution ●the body slowly returns to its normal level of functioning
●swelled and erect body parts return to their previous
size and color
●fatigue.
●some women are capable of a rapid return to the
orgasm phase with further sexual stimulation and may
experience multiple orgasms
●men need recovery time after orgasm, called a
refractory period, during which they cannot reach orgasm
again
(https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/sexual-health-your-guide-to-sexual-response-
cycle#:~:text=The%20sexual%20response%20cycle%20has,orgasm%20at%20the%20same%20tim
SEX AND THE BRAIN:
WHAT ARE THE PARTS
INVOLVED?
DEFINITION
Sex, according to Merriam-Webster
dictionary, is heterosexual intercourse
involving penetration of the vagina by the
penis.
OXYTOCIN
➢also called the ‘love hormone’
➢known to be involved in our desire
to maintain close relationships
➢released during sexual intercourse
when orgasm is achieved
(lumenlearning.com)
Roles of Hormones in Sexual Activity
FOLLICLE-STIMULATING HORMONE
(FSH)
➢responsible for ovulation in females
(lumenlearning.com)
Roles of Hormones in Sexual
Activity
VASOPRESSIN
➢involved in the male arousal
phase
https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-attraction-
companionship/#:~:text=According%20to%20a%20team%20of,the%20brain%20(Table%201)
THREE CATEGORIES OF ROMANTIC LOVE
LUST
➢ driven by the desire for sexual
satisfaction
➢ testosterone increases libido
➢ estrogen is linked to sexual
motivation
(https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-
attraction-
THREE CATEGORIES OF ROMANTIC LOVE
ATTRACTION
➢ involves the brain pathways that
control “reward” behavior
➢ sort of explains the honeymoon
stage of a relationship
(https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-
science-behind-lust-attraction-
THREE CATEGORIES OF ROMANTIC
LOVE:
ATTRACTION
1. DOPAMINE
➢ produced by the hypothalamus
➢ released when we do things that feel
good, such as spending time with
someone and having sex
(https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-
THREE CATEGORIES OF ROMANTIC LOVE:
ATTRACTION
2. NOREPINEPHRINE
➢ make us giddy, energetic, and euphoric
➢ keep us alert
➢ implies the phenomenon that you can be so
‘in love’ that you cannot eat or sleep
(Love, Actually: The science behind lust, attraction, and
companionship.)
THREE CATEGORIES OF ROMANTIC LOVE:
ATTRACTION
3. SEROTONIN
➢ it is believed that people who are in love and people
with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) have low
levels of these chemicals
➢ this caused to speculate that this is the reason for
the overpowering infatuation during the beginning
stage of a relationship
(https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-
attraction-
companionship/#:~:text=According%20to%20a%20team%20of,the%20brain%
THREE CATEGORIES OF ROMANTIC LOVE
ATTACHMENT
➢ primary factor in long-term relationships
➢ two primary hormones involved are
oxytocin and vasopressin
➢ Oxytocin is often called ‘cuddle hormone’
(https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-
attraction-
companionship/#:~:text=According%20to%20a%20team%20of,the%20brain%20
PSYCHOLOGICAL
ASPECT OF SEXUAL
DESIRE
➔Sexual desire is the subjective
feeling of craving to have
sexual intercourse. It can be
triggered by a wide variety of
cues and situations.
➔ Sexual desire is often confused
with sex drive, but they are two
different constructs. Sex drive or
libido is the biological need to
engage in sexual activity.
(https://leighnoren.com/human-sexuality-blog/sexual-
desire-vs-sexual-arousal-whats-the-difference/)
GENDER DIFFERENCES ON SEXUAL
DESIRE
Factors that influence gender difference
on sexual desire:
● culture;
● social environment; and
● political situations.
GENDER DIFFERENCES ON SEXUAL
DESIRE
NUCLEUS ACCUMBENS –
plays a role in motivation
and cognitive processing
of aversion.
THE DIVERSITY OF SEXUAL
BEHAVIOR
SEXUAL ORIENTATION is defined as an individual’s general
sexual disposition toward partners of the same sex, the
opposite sex, or both sexes.
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