Basic Relationship Building

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Rapport-building with new subs

📌 Most fans sub with other models in OF not only on us, so when they text, we need to make our
intro or rapport more interesting to them, like being playful and energetic.
Our main goal in rapport building is to get their INTEREST and ATTENTION.
How?
We need to think of some ways that we will not bore them with the conversation by making it a lil
bit more tricky and fun, unlike just asking about his information, which will look like an interview
or doubtful to them.

📌 Also, I noticed chatters who encountered NEW SUB who is horny and asked if they can see
more, it's not the reason to sell right away! take note "We sell on Curiosity and Mystery." So if we
tell them who the models are right from the beginning and sell nudes too early they won’t be as
interested in seeing anything else.
Why?
If we bore them or sell something right away, there are two things they will think or do: first, they
will think that we are a bot, second, they will lose interest and stop replying to us and lastly, they
will talk to another model.

📌 Energy can be transmitted via text. Just like some haters will leave a bad comment about you
and it will make you feel bad, this means he gave you bad energy. The same goes for having good
energy always. If you say "you are the pillar of my life" to someone in text format, they will
genuinely feel loved.

Example:
Fan: I'm from Canada
Chatter: Canada is a nice place, I sometimes visit my aunt there, how is it these days?
Fan: getting cold here
Chatter: seems like you need someone to warm you up because of the weather, dont you? well here
in Chicago, it changes a lot but I love colder weather actually… wanna know why?
Fan: yes why?
Chatter: it kinda gets me going when it's really cold do u think that's weird?

WHEN YOU ASK AGE:

oooh thats my perfect daddy age-range I’m 20 do you like 20 year olds or thats too much
for you?
about the same as me! I’m 20 Do you like girls your age or older? oooh thats my perfect
age-range I’m 20 do you like 20 year olds?

📌 WHEN YOU ASK ABOUT HIS STATUS :

Single huh.. me too. am I your type? Is that why u subbed? Sooo u have a wife huh? taken
men are a little quirk of mine unattainble but yet obtainable
Ex gf I see.. sooo single! me too, looking for partner in crime Complicated = sooo single
Me too, looking for the right man

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✨ Slow Seduction for old subs

📌I noticed some chatters after they sent the Mass Messages or when the fan texted the model
first and asked how the model's doing after 2-3 exchange messages they will sell content right
away! in which the fan feels that we just care about his money. Don't say “What are you doing
right now?” out of the blue because the sub-context to that is “So I can sell on something”. Every
Model does that and we want to differentiate ourselves from different models by being Natural.
We should avoid “Trying” to Sell him something Forcefully. Instead, get him to be suggestive if
you intend to sell him.

📌 I think chatters should try their best to practice themselves to do slow seduction and not be SO
PRESSURE about the sales, because sales will come if we do great and have quality chats.

Good Example:
 🍒Scripts

📌For me, scripts are good, especially for Aleks. We know Aleks is the best of all the models that we
have since she can almost do everything and she has a lot of Scripts in her vault. And we hope
that our other models do the same.

📌The Script 0 that was released recently is good for me, I think it all depends on the chatter on
how he or she going to sell it.
📌One of the effective ways to sell the script is to make some stories before selling the script to
make the fan think that it's live. For example, the model gets tired from studying and needs help
from studying (same with the model from work), or the model from the gym and needs to shower
or relax.

📌Another one is, SEXT MORE.. in sexting pace chatter should say things that are related to the
next PPV that he\she is planning to send, example BLOWJOB is the next PPV:

Example:

📌 And before sending PPV he\she needs to say something like a teaser of what she is going to do
on the next PPV. It's more effective than saying hold on or give me a second.

Example:
 Nicknames
❗️You need to give every fan the same nickname. And do not use BABE for fans with nickname.

Step 1: A Fan has purchased the first script (or parts of it)
Step 2: You text him the next day or in the aftercare
Step 3: You ask the fan if he has a preferred nickname

do you have a nickname i can could call youuu?

Daddy, Babe,...

Step 4: You create an insider. Insert the nickname the fan mentioned in the previous message into
{nicknames}.

Dont you think {nickname} is nothing special since everyone uses, i will call you honey
boo 🍯🥰 what made you sub to my onlyfans?

Step 5: You add him to the nickname list (!!)

Step 6: Refer to them with their real name (serious convo) and nicknames (relationship chatting +
sexting)

❗️Every model (that has a discord channel) has their unique nickname for their fans written in her
model information thread.

Mass Messages
You will send individual mass messages to these fans.
🧠 They think the mass message is just for them, but in reality it goes to hundreds of fans.
❗️You need to select the list that contains all the fans with the nickname

Example: "Does Mr. Amazing prefer me to be naked or in lingerie?"

➝ Mr. Amazing is the nickname
or
"honeymoon, you wont believe what happened to me on work today... do you have a minute? "
➝ Honeymoon is the nickname

For those who don't have a nickname yet, you send a normal mass message, but exclude Big
Spenders and the fans with nicknames.
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Refer to Feed content

⚙️Once a model has its own discord channel, we will create a special feed content structure.
This structure is based on personality and lets the fan participate in the model's everyday life.

For example:
Today is Friday, and last Monday we made a video post where the model said: ”Janine told me that
I have an ugly nose at work.”
Now we refer to this event in the chats.
“You won’t believe what happened today at work... Janine again told me I have a ugly nose 🥲🥲 should I
steal her favourite coffee cup or what should I do? Am I that ugly????”

🏆 This allows you to generate an insane text-to-sub ratio over the long term. The fans get an
experience they've never had before and creating very loyal fans is inevitable.

Lists on OnlyFans
Use the list feature on OnlyFans. Once a fan matches one of the things below you will add him to
the list.

• Ass (If the fan is into the models ass)

• Boobs (If the fan is into the models boobs)

• Feet (If the fan is into the models feet)

• Personality (If the fan is into the models personality)

➝ Allows us to send more personalized content and MM, since very MM refers to the fans
preferences.
➝ The fan can also be in one list (the list with what he loves the most about the Model
• Got nickname

(Fan got his nickname ➝ For extra MM and personalized sexting)

• Exclude MM

(Fan doesnt want to receive MM ➝ Exclude in MM)

 • Script

(Fan bought or got send a content piece from a Script ➝ prevents double selling)
• Script 1 - V0

• Script 1 - V1

• Script 2 - V1

• Script 1 - V4

Mistakes to avoid:
• Closed-ended responses and one-word answers

• Dry and boring messages

• Fan messages get ignored or past chat history doesn't get read

• It appeared too formal

• There is no flirting, relationship building, or empathy

• Bad and boring follow-up Messages

Simple Solution
• Understand the Fan and their psychology

• Ask open-ended question

• Pay attention to the past chat history and what the fan has written

• Imagine how you would talk with a friend but in a flirty way

• Use adapted real-life stories

• LEARN EMPATHIE

Relationship Building ⬇️
Think, think, think. Talk to the subs as if you would talk to a guy you are getting to know and have
feelings for. Please find out about their life and write it down in the notes section. Find out their
favourite sports team, their favourite food, if they go to the gym, interesting facts about their life.
Your goal should be to establish long-term regulars through virtual companionship. If you curate
the relationship and make them feel special, subscribers will come back and spend a lot more
money every month. Don't focus on just the $300 you can make from the subscriber today but
think about the thousands you can make over the next 1-2 months from this ONE subscriber.
Much of the relationship building can and is allowed to happen without much or any content, or
any tipping or PPV. The one nuance to this is that the subscriber must have already shown
previous times that they are (big) spenders. Much of the relationship building can be done when
the subscriber is not horny or not in a masturbating mood.

Attention = Money
🏆 Goal:
You and the fan need to understand that attention means spending money.

✴️The problem:
If the fan gets 24/7 the full attention of the model, he will think that he doesn't need to spend
money.

🎬 If the fan doesn’t has money to spend right now, we will lower our attention and take care of the
fans that have money.
❌ Do not ignore the fans
❌ Do not leave them on read

✅ Keep them in the loop, and take some more time to reply to them.
✅ Focus on the fans that can spend money.

🏆 Find out their payday, write it in the notes and increase the attention a few days before and
after.

💡 The fan needs to understand:

That it is still a business for the model, but you are super pleased that you found through this job
such a lovely person like him. But he needs to respect that he unfortunately can’t get attention all
the time, if he doesnt has any money to spend.

🤔 The tricky part:

The fan could get the impression that the model is after his money.

🍾 The solution:
Create a deep relationship, tell him respectfully the frame above and make sure he understands
that you care a lot for him.

⏱️Timing:
When the fan brings the objection, that you are just after his money.
Or and ideally
After you sold the first script to him in the After Care.

Learn empathy
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Open
1. Active listening: Practice actively listening to others without interrupting or rushing to
respond. Pay attention to their words and how to react properly.
2. Put yourself in their shoes: Imagine yourself in the other person's position and try to
understand their perspective. Consider their responses, past chat flow / messages,
and current emotions.
3. Ask open-ended questions: Encourage others to share their thoughts and feelings by
asking open-ended questions that invite deeper conversation.
4. Validate emotions: Acknowledge and validate the emotions of others. Show empathy
by expressing understanding and empathy for what they are experiencing.
5. Practice empathy daily: Look for opportunities in your daily life to practice empathy. It
could be through engaging in meaningful conversations, or simply being attentive to
the needs of those around you.
6. Read diverse perspectives: Expand your knowledge and understanding of different
cultures, backgrounds, and experiences by reading books, articles, or watching
documentaries that provide diverse perspectives. (off duty 😉 )
7. Reflect on personal biases: Regularly reflect on your own biases and assumptions. By
recognizing and challenging them, you can develop a more empathetic mindset and
approach.
Show genuine interest in others and ask follow-up questions to learn more about their
perspectives, experiences, and emotions. Being em pathetic and attentive to others will
make conversations more meaningful and engaging.

Bad Examples
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