Week 9 - Promotion of the Common Good (Makakabuti sa nakakarami)

I. Gambits

II. Definition of Terms

1. Common
- Something shared by or applicable to many or all members of a group or community.
- Ordinary, usual, or found often.
Definitions:
- General: Belonging equally to or shared by all in a group or society.
- *Example: Parks and public spaces are common areas for everyone.*

2. Good
Meaning:
- Something positive, beneficial, or desirable.
- A quality or virtue that enhances well-being.
Definitions:
- **Ethical or Moral**: Behavior or actions that are virtuous, kind, or just.
- *Example: Helping those in need is a good deed.*
- **Practical**: Something that provides benefit, advantage, or satisfaction.
- *Example: Regular exercise is good for your health.*

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3. Common Good
Meaning:
- The benefit or well-being of all members of a community or society, not just
individuals.
- Actions, policies, or goals that serve to improve the overall conditions for
everyone.
Definitions:
-Shared Benefit: Conditions or resources that are advantageous to all, contributing
to collective happiness and prosperity.
- Example: Clean air and water are part of the Common Good.*
- Philosophical: A concept in ethics and political philosophy emphasizing the importance
of shared values, cooperation, and mutual respect in creating a thriving community.
- Example: Laws promoting equality aim to advance the Common Good.*

1. Common Good - The common good refers to the overall welfare and well-being
of the entire community or society, rather than the interests of individuals or specific
groups. It involves promoting conditions that benefit everyone, such as justice,
equality, peace, and sustainability. The common good recognizes that individuals are
interconnected and interdependent, and that decisions and actions should be guided
by what is best for the broader community. It encompasses principles of social justice,
solidarity, and the promotion of human dignity for all members of society.

10 Common Good that must be present in the society?

1. Access to Clean Water and Sanitation
- Everyone should have access to clean drinking water and proper sanitation
facilities to promote health and prevent diseases.

2. Quality Education for All

- Providing equitable access to education empowers individuals and supports the
development of an informed and skilled society.

3. Public Health Services

- Access to affordable and comprehensive healthcare ensures the physical and
mental well-being of the community.
 4. Safety and Security
- Protection from crime, violence, and disasters creates a stable and peaceful
environment for everyone.

5. Sustainable Environment
- Protecting natural resources, reducing pollution, and promoting sustainability
ensures a healthy environment for present and future generations.

6. Equal Opportunities
- Ensuring fairness in access to jobs, resources, and services fosters social harmony
and reduces inequality.

7. Effective Transportation Systems

- Affordable and efficient public transportation benefits the community by reducing
traffic congestion and promoting mobility.

8. Access to Justice
- A fair and impartial legal system ensures that everyone's rights are protected and
justice is accessible to all.

9. Public Infrastructure
- Roads, bridges, parks, and other public facilities contribute to the well-being and
productivity of society.

10. Peace and Respect for Human Rights

- Promoting peaceful coexistence and protecting the fundamental rights of all
individuals enhances the dignity and unity of the community.

Would you like this list expanded or related to a specific context, such as for Persons
Deprived of Liberty (PDL)?

Thoughts about Promotion of Common Good

 Edmund Burke said, "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good
men to do nothing."
 We have witnessed wickedness in many forms in every domain of society, and we
have suffered from its consequences.
 We must learn that to dispel darkness, light must shine brighter and brighter,
Therefore, good works guided in righteousness must proliferate, subdue and
swallow wickedness hence, the need to promote common good.

 But how do we promote the common good? Frist, we must be free and be healed
from selfish interest nature constituting wickedness, dark or in our present term
"social ills" to effect the change and transformation. (Contributor to the social ills)
 The realization of the common good can only happen through repentance and the
love of God. We need healing from the illness of our society such as sexual
immorality, impurity, sensuality (total irresponsibility and lack of self-control),
idolatry, sorcery, hostility, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, disputes, dissensions,
factions, envy, drunkenness, riotous behavior, greediness, and others.

 The result of a changed and transformed life which is a powerful agent to cause a
chain reaction of common good is love (unselfish concern for others), joy, inner
peace, patience (How we act while waiting), kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness, and self-discipline.
 Having possessed all these, we become the light that exposes darkness.
 We must realize that to promote the common good there is more to simple acts of
kindness - that a changed life can also transform another life.
 We can be the avenue for other's healing, better welfare, and further development
  If we are in the legislative branch of the government, legislate laws which will
promote the common good and do away with legislation that do not contribute to
the betterment of the lives of the people. If we are in the executive branch,
faithfully follow and implement the laws so that people will know that the rule of
law is not dead. If we are in the judiciary, truthfully administer the rule of law and
protect justice. If we are private citizens, be selfless and follow the simple rules
and laws, and love your fellow countrymen as you love yourself. These simple
steps can go extra miles in promoting the common good. How about you? What
can you do to promote the common good in you own little way?

"There is no higher religion that human service. To work for the common good is the
greatest creed" -Woodrow Wilson

Common Good in Family

Practicing the common good within a family involves making intentional decisions and
adopting behaviors that prioritize the well-being of all family members and contribute to
the greater good of society. Here are some ways to practice the common good in the
family:

1. Promote Open Communication: Encourage open and honest communication

among family members. Create a safe space where everyone feels comfortable
expressing their thoughts, feelings, and concerns. Listen actively and respectfully to
each other's perspectives, and work together to find solutions that benefit the entire
family. (Show Video: Lucky me - malayong lamesa) (Feedback)

2. Foster Mutual Respect: Cultivate an atmosphere of mutual respect and

understanding within the family. Treat each family member with dignity and kindness,
and value their unique contributions and perspectives. Teach children the importance of
respecting others' boundaries, opinions, and differences.

3. Share Responsibilities Equitably: Distribute household responsibilities fairly

among family members based on age, ability, and availability. Encourage everyone to
contribute to household chores, meal preparation, and other tasks to promote a sense of
shared responsibility and teamwork.

4. Prioritize Quality Time Together: Make time for regular family bonding
activities and shared experiences. Whether it's having meals together, playing games, or
going on outings, prioritize spending quality time as a family to strengthen relationships,
build connections, and create cherished memories.

5. Support Each Other's Goals: Encourage and support each family member in
pursuing their individual goals and aspirations. Celebrate achievements and milestones
together, and offer encouragement and assistance during challenging times. Foster an
environment where everyone feels empowered to pursue their passions and dreams.

6. Practice Empathy and Compassion: Cultivate empathy and compassion

within the family by recognizing and validating each other's emotions and experiences.
Show empathy towards family members who may be going through difficult times, and
offer support and comfort when needed. Teach children the importance of kindness,
empathy, and helping others.

7. Model Ethical Behavior: Lead by example and model ethical behavior and
moral values for your family. Demonstrate honesty, integrity, and fairness in your actions
and decisions, and teach children the importance of acting with integrity and treating
others with respect and kindness.

8. Contribute to the Community: Engage in acts of service and volunteerism as

a family to give back to the community and contribute to the common good. Participate
in local charity events, volunteer at community organizations, or organize donation
drives to support those in need. Instill in children a sense of social responsibility and the
importance of making a positive difference in the world.
By practicing these principles and values within the family, you can promote the
common good, strengthen family bonds, and instill a sense of social responsibility and
civic-mindedness in your children.

V. Eliminate: to Promote common good to self

To promote the common good of the family, a family man may need to eliminate certain
behaviors or attitudes that hinder harmony, growth, and well-being within the family
unit. Here are some things that a family man may consider eliminating:

1. Selfishness: Putting one's own needs and desires above those of the family
can create tension and conflict. By prioritizing the collective welfare of the family
over individual interests, a family man fosters a sense of unity and cooperation.

2. Lack of Communication: Communication breakdowns can lead to

misunderstandings and resentment among family members. Eliminating barriers to
effective communication, such as withholding information or avoiding difficult
conversations, promotes openness, trust, and understanding within the family.

3. Dishonesty: Being dishonest or deceitful undermines trust and undermines the

foundation of a healthy family dynamic. Eliminating dishonesty and practicing
honesty, transparency, and integrity fosters a culture of trust and authenticity
within the family.

4. Neglect: Neglecting the emotional, physical, or spiritual needs of family

members can cause feelings of isolation and abandonment. Eliminating neglect
involves actively engaging with and supporting each family member, nurturing
strong bonds and a sense of belonging.

5. Conflict Avoidance: Avoiding conflict may seem like a way to maintain peace,
but unresolved conflicts can fester and cause long-term damage to family
relationships. Eliminating the tendency to avoid conflict and instead addressing
issues openly and constructively promotes resolution, growth, and reconciliation
within the family.

6. Authoritarianism: Ruling with an iron fist and demanding unquestioning

obedience can create a culture of fear and resentment in the family. Eliminating
authoritarian parenting styles and instead adopting a more democratic and
participatory approach empowers family members to express themselves and
contribute to decision-making processes.

7. Materialism: Excessive focus on material possessions and financial success

can lead to prioritizing wealth over relationships and personal fulfillment.
Eliminating materialism and emphasizing non-material values such as love,
compassion, and quality time strengthens family bonds and promotes emotional
well-being.

8. Negative Parenting Patterns: Replicating negative parenting patterns from

one's own upbringing can perpetuate cycles of dysfunction and trauma within the
family. Eliminating harmful parenting behaviors and seeking support to develop
healthier, more nurturing parenting practices can break these cycles and create a
more positive family environment.

9. Unhealthy Habits: Engaging in unhealthy habits such as substance abuse,

excessive screen time, or poor eating habits can negatively impact family dynamics
and overall well-being. Eliminating these habits and adopting healthier lifestyle
choices sets a positive example for family members and promotes physical and
emotional health.
 10. Resistance to Change: Stubbornly clinging to outdated traditions or resisting
necessary changes can hinder family growth and adaptation. Eliminating resistance
to change and embracing flexibility, innovation, and growth promotes resilience and
adaptability within the family unit.

Promoting Common Good in Jail Setting

Promoting the common good inside a jail cell with a population of around 100 Persons
Deprived of Liberty (PDL) involves creating a supportive and respectful environment
where individuals can live with dignity, safety, and a sense of community. Here are some
strategies to promote the common good in such a setting:

1. Establish Clear Rules and Expectations: (Rules of BJMP, Rules for PDL,
Rules for Jail Volunteers, Rules for Visitors) Develop and communicate clear rules
and expectations for behavior within the jail cell, focusing on mutual respect,
cooperation, and adherence to safety protocols. Encourage PDL to take ownership of
their environment and contribute to its upkeep and orderliness.

2. Foster a Sense of Community: Create opportunities for PDL to come together

as a community, fostering relationships (Makipagkaibigan), solidarity (Magkaisa), and
mutual support (Magtulungan). Encourage group activities such as discussions,
recreational games, or shared meals to promote social connections and a sense of
belonging.

3. Conflict Resolution: Implement effective conflict resolution mechanisms to

address disputes and tensions within the jail cell promptly and peacefully. Train PDL in
conflict resolution skills and provide access to mediators or counselors who can facilitate
dialogue and reconciliation.

4. Promote Health and Hygiene: Emphasize the importance of personal

hygiene, cleanliness, and health practices to prevent the spread of illness and maintain
overall well-being. Provide access to hygiene products, sanitation facilities, and regular
health screenings to support PDL in maintaining their health.

5. Encourage Educational and Skill-Building Activities: Offer educational

programs, skill-building workshops, and vocational training opportunities within the jail
cell to promote personal growth, development, and empowerment. Provide access to
books, educational materials, and resources to support learning and self-improvement.

6. Respect for Diversity and Inclusion: Foster a culture of respect for diversity
and inclusion, recognizing and valuing the unique backgrounds, experiences, and
perspectives of all individuals within the jail cell. Promote tolerance (pagpapahalaga sa
pagkakaiba-iba), empathy (pagdamay), and understanding among PDL to create a more
harmonious and cohesive community.

7. Support Mental Health and Well-Being: Prioritize mental health and well-
being by offering counseling services, support groups, and mental health resources to
PDL who may be experiencing stress, anxiety, or emotional challenges. Provide
opportunities for relaxation, meditation, or mindfulness practices to promote emotional
resilience and coping skills.

10 Common Good practices for parents

1. Love and Emotional Support

- **Reflection:** As a parent, your love is the foundation of your family’s strength.
By showing unconditional love, you create a safe space where everyone feels
valued and supported.
- **Inspirational Note:** *“Love is the bridge that connects hearts in times of joy
and challenges.”*
 2. Provision of Basic Needs
- **Reflection:** Meeting the family’s basic needs is a parent’s fundamental
responsibility. A secure home and access to necessities provide stability and
trust.
- **Inspirational Note:** *“A parent’s hands work tirelessly today so their family
can thrive tomorrow.”*
3. Guidance and Discipline
- **Reflection:** Discipline, when paired with love, builds character. Teach your
children to differentiate right from wrong and take responsibility for their actions.
- **Inspirational Note:** *“Discipline is not about punishment; it’s about teaching
wisdom through love.”*
4. Quality Time Together
- **Reflection:** In the hustle of life, the moments spent with family are priceless.
Prioritize meaningful interactions that strengthen bonds.
- **Inspirational Note:** *“The best gift you can give your family is your
presence.”*
5. Education and Lifelong Learning
- **Reflection:** Education equips your children for the future, but your example
of continuous learning teaches them adaptability and resilience.
- **Inspirational Note:** *“When parents learn, they inspire their children to reach
greater heights.”*
6. Open Communication
- **Reflection:** An open line of communication builds trust and understanding.
Listen without judgment and encourage your family to share their thoughts freely.
- **Inspirational Note:** *“A family that listens together grows together.”*
7. Promoting Respect and Equality
- **Reflection:** Treating each family member with fairness and dignity fosters an
environment where respect becomes a way of life.
- **Inspirational Note:** *“Respect is the cornerstone of every harmonious
relationship.”*
8. Spiritual and Moral Guidance
- **Reflection:** Instilling spiritual values helps your family navigate life with
integrity and faith. Be a role model in living by principles you wish to teach.
- **Inspirational Note:** *“A family grounded in faith stands firm in the face of
life’s storms.”*
9. Healthy Lifestyle Practices
- **Reflection:** Encouraging good health habits ensures that your family has the
energy and strength to face daily challenges. Prioritize wellness together.
- **Inspirational Note:** *“A healthy family is a happy family.”*
10. Planning for the Future
- **Reflection:** Saving and preparing for future needs demonstrates
responsibility and care for your family’s long-term well-being.
- **Inspirational Note:** *“A parent’s foresight lights the path for the next
generation.”*

VI. Acronym for the word GOOD

G - Generosity: Practice generosity by giving your time, resources, and support

to those in need. Acts of kindness and charity can significantly impact the lives of
others and contribute to a more compassionate society.

O - Openness: Embrace openness by being receptive to new ideas, diverse

perspectives, and different cultures. Openness fosters inclusivity and
understanding, which are essential for a harmonious community.

O - Optimism: Cultivate optimism by maintaining a positive outlook and

believing in the potential for positive change. Optimism can inspire others and
drive collective efforts to address challenges and improve societal well-being.
 D - Dedication: Show dedication in your commitment to making a positive
difference. Whether through persistent efforts in volunteering, supporting social
causes, or advocating for justice, dedication ensures that your actions have a
sustained and meaningful impact.

VII.
Declaration:
1. Mag tinarong ko aron mahapsay akong kinabuhi.
2. Maningkamot ko aron maplastar akong pamilya.
3. Mag malampuson ko sa mga pagsulay kauban ang Ginoo

VI. Sayings about common good

"Many hands make light work." (Madami ang nagtutulungan, kaya madali ang trabaho.)
"Unity is strength." (Ang pagkakaisa ay lakas.)
"Together we stand, divided we fall." (Kapit-bisig tayo, hindi tayo mabubuwal.)

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