Communication Skills: Ntroduction
Communication Skills: Ntroduction
Communication
Skills
INTRODUCTION
Communication skills are those skills which are needed
to speak and write properly. A person who is able to
speak appropriately whilst maintaining eye contact with
the audience, uses varied vocabulary and articulate
speech to suit the need of the audience is generally said
to be an effective speaker. Similarly, an effective writer
should be able to use written words in various styles
and techniques to communicate his/her message and
ideas to the readers. One should have the ability to listen
carefully and write and speak clearly in any situation.
Therefore good reading, writing, speaking and listening
skills are essential for effective communication.
As a student, you may study any language, but it is
important that you are able to read, write, speak and
listen well in order to communicate properly. Speaking
more than one language can help you to communicate
well with people around the world. Learning English can
help you to communicate with people who understand
English besides the language you have been exposed to
speaking the language from easly childhood, for example,
your mother tongue. In the present time, a thorough
knowledge of the language with communication skills is
very important in any occupation or to set up a business.
Importance of communication
Your ability to communicate clearly and share thoughts,
feelings and ideas will help you in all your relationships.
For example, you can inform about something or you
can also influence others through communication.
Communication skills are needed to:
• Inform: You may be required to give facts
or information to someone. For example,
communicating the timetable of an exam to a
friend.
• Influence: You may be required to influence
or change someone in an indirect but usually
important way. For example, negotiating with a
shopkeeper to reduce the price or helping a friend
to overcome stress due to exam or any other reason.
Asking for
Information
Where I am
are you going
going? home.
Giving
Receiving Information
Information
Figure 1.1: Communication Process
• Express feelings: Talking about your feelings
is a healthy way to express them. For example,
sharing your excitement about doing well in your
exams or sharing your feelings with your parents
and friends.
Elements of communication
Communication is a two-way exchange of information,
i.e., giving and receiving (Fig. 1.2). Speaking and
writing to someone are examples of giving information.
Reading and listening to someone are examples of
receiving information.
Perspectives in communication
Perspectives are ideas, views, or fixed ways of thinking.
These sometimes affect our communication. For
example, if you have a fixed idea that your teacher or
father is strict, even when they are being friendly, you
may think they are scolding you even though they are
polite. In the same way, others may also have fixed ideas
about you, which affect whatever you say to them.
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Factors affecting perspectives in communication
Sometimes, we are not able to communicate clearly
because of barriers that stop us from sharing and
understanding messages. Some of these are summarised
in Table 1.1.
Table 1.1: Factors affecting Perspectives in Communication
Factor How the factor can become a barrier
Language In case of use of incorrect words, unfamiliar language and lack
of detail, language can act as a barrier to communicate what one
wishes to convey. For example, language can act as a barrier
when an Indian who only knows Hindi and Chinese who has the
knowledge of Mandarin only want to interact with each other.
Visual Perception Visual perception is the brain’s ability to make sense of what
we see through our eyes. For example, completing partially
drawn pictures with visual perception whereas they may be
something else.
Past Experience Letting our earlier experience stop us from understanding or
communicating clearly. For example, “This shopkeeper cheated me
last time. Let me be careful or “I scored low marks in my Maths
exam, so I am scared to ask and answer questions in class.”
Prejudice Fixed ideas, such as thinking “No one in my class likes me” may
stop a student from communicating openly in the class.
Feelings Our feelings and emotions, such as lack of interest or not trusting
the other person affect communication. For example “I am not
feeling well, therefore, I don’t want to talk.”
Environment Noise or disturbance in the surroundings may make communication
difficult. Example, talking to a friend in a function where there is
loud music being played by the orchestra.
Personal factors Personal factors include your own feelings, habits and ways
of thinking. For example, fear, and low confidence may make
communication difficult.
Culture Signs’ which have a different meaning in different cultures, such
as showing a thumb may mean ‘good job’ done for some people
but may be insulting to others.
Effective communication
Effective communication can happen if we follow the
basic principles of professional communication skills.
These can be abbreviated as 7 Cs, i.e., Clear, Concise,
Concrete, Correct, Coherent, Complete and Courteous.
These are further explained in Figure 1.3.
Figure 1.3: 7Cs of Effective Communication
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Table 1.2: Verbal Communication
Type of Verbal Examples
Communication
Oral or Spoken Face-to-face conversation: When you can
Communication: see the listener.
Communication which For example, group discussion, talking to
involves talking family member at home, conversation with
public through speeches, etc.
Public speaking
Speaking in front of a large group makes most people
nervous. You can use the 3Ps (Prepare, Practice,
Perform) method to get over your fears, and become a
confident and effective speaker. These points are shown
in Table 1.3.
Table 1.3: 3Ps of Public Speaking
3Ps of Public Speaking
Prepare Think about your topic
Think about what your listeners need to know about the topic
Think about the best way to make your listeners understand your topic
Write what you plan to say
Practice Practice by yourself first, talk in front of a mirror
Talk in front of your family and friends and ask them what they think
Speak clearly, loudly and at the right speed (not very fast nor very slow)
Perform Take a few deep breaths if you are feeling nervous
Think about what you have prepared and start speaking confidently
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NOTES Initial thinking activity
After watching the video in the e-learning lesson for this
topic write down why do you think Tina’s directions were not
understood? How would you give directions on the phone?
Activity 1
Role play of a phone conversation
Materials required
Notebook, pen
Procedure
• Form groups comprising at least three students in each
group.
• Write a script on a phone conversation, based on a
scenario given by your teacher. For example, the scenario
could be a conversation between a person from the Call
Centre and customer talking about the product that is to
be delivered at the customer’s residence.
• One student acts as a caller and the other as receiver.
• Speak the conversation aloud.
• The third student gives feedback on the effectiveness
of the communication, keeping in mind the 7Cs of
communication.
Activity 2
Public speaking
Materials required
Notebook, pen
Procedure
• Form groups of three students in each group.
• Within the group, choose a topic for a very short speech.
• Use paragraphs.
• Each person uses the 3Ps (Prepare, Practice and Perform)
method and makes a speech to the others in the group.
• Others give feedback — was the person able to
communicate properly?
• One student volunteers to give a speech in front of the class.
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Importance of non-verbal communication
In our day-to-day communication, it is observed
that most of the communication is done using body
movements (face, arms, movements, etc.) and voice
control (voice, tone, pauses, etc.).
As we can see in Figure 1.5, maximum communication
is non-verbal. We communicate using words, tone of
voice and body language as shown in Table 1.4.
Words
(Verbal)
Expressions,
Movements,
Pictures
(Non-verbal and
Voice Control Visual)
(Non-verbal)
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Touch We communicate a great • Shake hands firmly.
deal through our touch, • Avoid other touch gestures,
such as shaking hands and such as stroking your hair,
patting on the back. For scratching your nose, tugging
example, a firm handshake on your clothes, etc., during
shows confidence. Sports formal communication.
coaches pat on the back of
the players to encourage the
players.
isual communication
Another important method of communication is
visual communication, which involves sending
or understanding messages only through images
or pictures. The main advantage of this type of
communication is that you do not need to know any
particular language for understanding it. It is simple,
easy to understand and remains same across different
places. Table 1.6 shows some common types of visual
communication.
Table 1.6: Examples of Visual Communication
Visual Communication: Exchanging Information through Images
Traffic symbol which Traffic Lights—Red for
communicates not to Stop; Yellow for Wait and
blow horn Green for Go
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SESSION 4: WRITING SKILLS: PARTS OF SPEECH
When we talk or write in English, we use sentences to
express ourselves. Sentences are important because if
you do not clearly write sentences then, the meaning of
the same cannot be understood clearly. A sentence is a
group of words that communicates a complete thought
(Example: Raju goes to school). A group of words, which
does not make complete sense, is known as a phrase
(Example: Raju goes). A sentence always begins with
a capital letter, and it always ends with a question
mark, full stop or exclamation mark. Read out aloud
the examples given below.
• Did you work on your project?
• I completed it yesterday.
• That is good!
Using capitals
We know that all sentences begin with capital letters.
Do you know at what other points in a sentence we
should use capital letters?
It is easy to know what to capitalise if you remember
the word ‘MINTS’. MINTS is a set of simple rules that
help you capitalise words correctly. Each letter in the
word MINTS refers to one capitalisation rule as shown
in Table 1.7.
Example I will go to I play tennis This Tuesday, Dr Shah and The cat ran
college in with him Vidya will be Mr Patel work out of the
June. every day. in Rajasthan. together. house.
Punctuation
It is a set of marks, such as the full stop and the comma,
which help us separate parts of a sentence and explain
its meaning. Like uppercase letters, punctuation is also
a very important part of sentences and has some rules.
Some common punctuation marks and their use have
been given in Table 1.8.
Table 1.8: Punctuation Marks
Punctuation Sign Use Examples
name
Full stop . Shows the end of a sentence. Also This is a sentence. This is
used to show short form of long another sentence.
words. For example, ‘doctor’ can Sanjay is a doctor. His
be shortened to ‘Dr’ when we use patients call him Dr Sanjay.
it as a title before a name.
Comma , Sometimes, we use a comma to After the waiter gave me a
indicate a pause in the sentence. menu, I ordered food.
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Figure 1.6: Parts of Speech
Let us now see how these words are used. Read aloud
the sentence given below.
Wow! Reema went to the studio and met a famous
actor.
We already know that Reema, studio and actor are
nouns. Famous is an adjective here because it describes
the noun actor and the words went and met are verbs
because they describe an action.
What about the remaining words in this sentence
wow, to, the, and? What are these words called? We use
such supporting words to join the main parts of speech
together and to add information to the sentences we
make. Let us now look at these supporting words.
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Supporting parts of speech types
Supporting Parts
Use Examples
of Speech
Articles The words ‘a’, ‘an’ and ‘the’ are The car stopped suddenly because
known as articles. Articles are a cat ran in front of it.
generally used before nouns. A book
An is used before words with a An apple
vowel (a,e,i,o,u) sound An umbrella
A is used before nouns with a The sun
consonant (all other alphabets)
sound
The is used to refer to specific or
particular words
Conjunctions Conjunctions are words that join Instead of, Sheela went to the
two nouns, phrases or sentences. market. I also went to the market.
Some common conjunctions are Sheela and I went to the market.
‘and’, ‘or’ and ‘but’. Instead of, “Do you want oranges?
Do you want apples?”
“Do you want oranges or apples?”
Prepositions Prepositions connect one word Some common prepositions are ‘on’,
with another to show the relation ‘at’, ‘under’ and ‘in’.
between them. They usually The cat is on the roof.
answer the questions ‘where’, The shop is at the end of the road.
‘when’ and ‘how’. Rahul is standing under the tree.
I live in Delhi.
Interjections These words express strong Wow!
emotions, such as happiness, Oh!
surprise, anger or pain. They have Oh no!
an exclamation mark at the end. Thanks!
Help!
Activity 1
Identifying parts of speech
Materials required
Notebook, pen
Procedure
Read aloud the paragraph given below.
“on sunday, i have an appointment to meet Dr. Patel in delhi.
my house is near Mr. Patels shop i went to his shop on friday to
buy vegetables I bought potatoes onions carrots and a cabbage
Mr. Patel is a friendly man have you met him”
• This paragraph contains examples of the parts of speech
you learnt about in this lesson.
• Identify as many of these parts of speech as you can and
mark them.
• Write the paragraph with proper punctuation and
capitalisation.
Activity 2
Constructing sentences
Materials required
Notebook, pen
Procedure
• Form pairs of students.
• List out five parts of speech that you learnt in the lesson.
• Select one of them and create two simple sentences which
use these parts of speech.
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NOTES
b. The is
.
c. The is
.
d. The are
.
e. Raju is
.
f. The is
.
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What Have You Learnt?
Types of sentences
Active and passive sentences
Read a loud the sentence shown in Figure 1.9. What is
the difference between the two sentences?
1. Sanjay broke the glass.
2. The glass was broken by Sanjay.
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The action (verb) in both
the sentences is breaking of
the glass. But the ‘subject’ of
both sentences is different. In
the first sentence, the subject
(Sanjay) does the action. In
the second sentence, the
Figure 1.9: Types of Sentences
subject (the glass) receives
the action.
Read the sentences in
Figure 1.10 again.
Sentences where the subject
does an action are known to
Figure 1.10: Active and Passive Sentences be in the Active voice.
Sentences in which the
subject receives an action are known to be in the Passive
voice.
Read aloud some more examples given in Table 1.13.
Table 1.13: Active and Passive Sentences
Active Voice Passive Voice
She wrote a letter. A letter was written by her.
He opened the door. The door was opened by him.
Mohan played the flute. The flute was played by Mohan.
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NOTES Paragraphs
You have learnt about sentences. A group of sentences
forms a paragraph. While writing a paragraph, make
sure the sentences have a common idea. When you
want to write about a different idea, make a new
paragraph. For example, if you are writing about your
school, the first paragraph can be of sentences about
the name, location, size and other such details. In the
next paragraph you can use sentences to describe what
you like about your school.
NOTES
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What Have You Learnt?
Speaking correctly
Say the following words aloud. Ask your teacher and
friends if you pronounced them correctly.
Your World Chair Wear
Also try saying these words aloud
Sun Son Sail Sale Tail Tale
What did you notice? Sometimes words, which
have similar spellings are pronounced differently.
Sometimes words, which have different spellings may
be pronounced in the same way. The best way to learn
correct pronunciation of words is to listen carefully.
Phonetics
How do we pronounce words? We use sounds to speak.
Every word is made up of one or more sounds. We put
these sounds together to pronounce words. Phonetics is
the study of the sounds that we make when we speak.
For example, the word dog is made of three sounds
put together: d-o-g. Speak the word aloud as shown in
Hindi to help you pronounce it correctly
The word cat is made of three other sounds: c-a-t.
Speak the word aloud as shown in Hindi to help you
pronounce it correctly . The English
alphabet has 26 letters, from A to Z. But each of these
letters can be pronounced in different ways in different
words. We use 26 letters to write in English. But, we
use more than 26 sounds when we speak English.
This is why a word’s spelling does not always match its
pronunciation.
Let us take the letter ‘a’ for example. Read the words
below aloud. The alphabet ‘a’ is pronounced differently
in different words as shown in Table 1.15.
Table 1.15: Different sounds of letter ‘a’
Words Pronunciation Pronunciation in
of the letter ‘a’ Hindi
cat, apple and back ऐ , ,
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car, fast and park आ , ,
Types of sounds
We have now seen how the letters of the alphabet are
not enough to exactly match the many different sounds
we make when we speak. Let us take a closer look at
the sounds we use. All English words are made of three
basic types of sounds as shown in Table 1.16.
Say the word ‘bit’ aloud and Say the word ‘house’ aloud and Say the word ‘pot’ aloud
listen to how you are saying listen to how you are saying the and listen to how you
the vowel sound. diphthong. are saying the consonant
sounds.
Vowel Sounds
long ‘ee’ sound short ‘i’ sound short ‘u’ sound long ‘oo’ sound
Sleep Slip Book Boot
Keep Dip Put Group
Feel Fill Foot Two
Combination vowel (diphthong’) sounds
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NOTES
Types of greetings
Figure 1.14: Greetings and
There are two ways of greeting as shown in Figure 1.15. Introductions
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Informal greetings are used when you talk to
friends, family or a known person.
Say out loud the informal greetings/replies given in
Table 1.19.
Table 1.19: Informal Greetings
Greeting Reply
The teacher will facilitate these activities by showing you the Figure 1.17: Introducing
e-learning module for this lesson via http://www.psscive.ac.in/ Others
Employability_Skills.html. The module will include videos and
e-content for the above topics as well as detailed instructions for
some activities below.
Initial thinking activity
Have you come across such a situation? Based on the initial
videos in the e-learning lesson for this topic, write down how do
you think we start talking to friends and neighbours? How can
we start a conversation politely?
Activity 1
Formal and informal greetings
Materials required
Notebook, pen
Procedure
• Form pairs of students.
• Each pair should write about two conversations—one
with formal greetings and one with informal greetings and
act it out.
• One volunteer pair acts this out in front of the class.
• The class says if the formal and informal greetings have
been used correctly.
Activity 2
Introducing someone
Materials required
Notebook, pen
Procedure
• Use same pairs of students as above.
• Each pair should write a conversation to introduce
someone to their friends and family and act it out.
• One volunteer pair demonstrates it for the class.
• The class says if the introductions have been made
correctly.
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Table 1.21: Talking About Yourself
Name Here you enter your name. Sometimes you may need to
write the first, middle (if any) and surname.
Date of birth This is the date on which you were born. It is usually
written as the day, followed by the month, followed by
the year in numerals.
Address This is the postal address which includes your house
number and the details of the street, area and the city.
PIN code This is a group of numbers used by the post office to
identify a region. It is an important part of an address.
Signature (or Sign) This is your name or initials written by hand, in a
specific way (which is difficult for anyone else to copy).
Example NOTES
Harish Sethi was born on 5 December 1999. He lives in
Agra, in a house named Sukh Nivas. His house number
is 13 in Raja Nagar. His postal code is 282001. Harish
filled a form asking for personal information like this.
First Name Harish
Last Name Sethi
Date of Birth 5 December 1999 (or 05-12-1999)
Address Sukh Nivas, No. 13, Raja Nagar, Agra
Pin Code 282001
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Asking questions helps us to
• gain new knowledge, get information,
• make sure that what we know is correct,
• avoid doubts, confusion, misunderstanding, and
• start talking to people by asking about them and
their ideas.
How to make sure we have complete information?
If you do not have information about how to reach a
place, you will not be able to reach it. If you do not know
how to do some work, you will not be able to complete it,
unless you ask questions and get information. Asking all
the correct questions at the right time is also important.
You can follow the simple method of ‘5W+1H’
shown in Table 1.23 to make sure that you have all the
information you will need for a particular work. Read
out the examples aloud.
Activity 3
Let us guess!
Procedure
• Divide the class into five groups.
• Each group discusses and decides on one famous
personality.
• All groups will take turns to ask other group questions
and guess the person.
• Every group gets to ask one question each to other groups.
In total, each group can ask three questions. If they are
not able to guess within the first three questions, extend
the number of questions to five per group.
• If you run out of questions, tell each team to give the
teams a CLUE.
• For example, for Mahatma Gandhi, the clue can be:
• He is called the Father of the Nation
• He was a lawyer from Gujarat
• His picture is on Indian rupee notes
• After spending about five minutes preparing in their
groups, give the teacher examples of the kind of questions
prepared.
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NOTES
c) play/like/football?/Do/ d) fighting?/they/are/Why
you/to
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Questions that can be answered with a “yes” or a
“no” are called close-ended question. That is because
the answer options are limited or closed. For example,
when we ask “Do you have a TV at home?”, the answer
could be either “Yes” or “No” (see Figure 1.22).
Sometimes, when we ask a question, we expect an
answer with more details. For example in Figure 1.23
Figure 1.22: Open-ended
when we ask “What do you like to watch on TV?”, the
Question answer could be “I like to watch movies on TV.” These
are called open-ended questions because their answer
options are not limited or closed. In this case, the person
could have also said sports, news, or anything else.
They talk on the phone every day. Do they talk on the phone every day?
You share your lunch with your Could you share your lunch with your friends?
friends.
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GLOSSARY
Auxiliary verbs: verbs used along with a main verb to convey
additional information, such as time and mood. There are three main
auxiliary verbs ‘Be, Do and Have’
Coherent: making sense, related to the main topic
Communication: sharing of information between two or more
people to reach a common understanding
Concise: using simple words and saying only what is needed, not
extra
Concrete: using exact words and facts
Courteous: showing respect, polite, friendly
Exclamation: a sudden cry or remark expressing surprise, emotion,
or pain
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NOTES Instead: as an alternative, another option
Modal Verbs: these are other auxiliary verbs, such as ‘Can, May
and Should’
Modify: make partial or minor changes to something
Paralanguage: the other parts of spoken language (besides words)
tone, rate, loudness, etc.
Posture: the position of the body when standing, sitting or working
Precise words: exact, most suitable words
Similar: looking same in appearance, character, or quantity, but
not identical
Specific words: special, correct name
Studio: a place where films are made or produced
Title: a name that describes someone’s position or job
FURTHER READINGS
Session 1: Introduction to Communication
• https://bit.ly/2yrCswn
• https://bit.ly/2GPRn8A
Session 4: Writing Skills 1 – Parts Of Speech
• http://www.thepunctuationguide.com/top-ten.html
• https://bit.ly/2ImnVUS
Session 5: Writing Skills2 – Sentences
• https://bit.ly/2EepS38
Session 6: Pronunciation Basics
• https://bit.ly/1HkctUu
Session 7: Greetings and Introductions
• h t t p s : / / w w w . t h o u g h t c o . c o m / g r e e t i n g - p e o p l e - in-
english-1212039
• https://reallifeglobal.com/23 -different-ways-greet-
someone-english/
Session 8: Talking About Self
• https://bit.ly/2H3UjML
Session 9: Asking QuestionsI
• http://www.englishlearnsite.com/grammar/wh-questions/
• https://bit.ly/2IklgeA