Effective Listening
Effective Listening
Effective Listening
SRI SUNDARI
WHAT IS LISTENING?
ELEMENTS OF EFFECTIVE
Content
Feelings
Process
Clarification
Explanation:
Reflecting feelings
that have been
heard or perceived
through cues.
Examples:
Youre feeling ___.
It makes you
(feeling) that . . .
Examples:
What happened
after that?
Explanation:
Questioning in a
supportive way.
Ask for more info or
clarification
Open-ended
Examples:
I had a similar
experience . . .
Explanation:
Sharing relevant
personal
information
Explanation:
Finding out if
interpretations are
accurate.
Examples:
It seems to me like
youre pretty ____.
So, you were taking
some risks when
you . . .
Examples:
Count to yourself.
Explanation:
Giving the other
time to think as well
as to talk
Explanation:
Bringing together in
some way
experiences and
feelings.
Examples:
You told off the
teacher and now
youre scared . . .
Youre feeling on
top of the world
because you got an
A!
Work at listening.
Resist distractions.