Conflict
Conflict
“Bossy” ! Me..
You must be
kidding. Dude
you are my
colleague.
WHAT IS CONFLICT?
• INTRAPERSONAL
– tension or stress within…
– often over competing roles
• INTERPERSONAL
– between 2 or more people, e.g. nurses
– disagreement, values or styles don’t match
– Miscommunication
• INTERGROUP
– arises between groups over issues/goals/solutions
INTENTIONS OF CONFLICTING PARTIES
•Competition
• Collaboration
• Avoidance
• Compromise
• Accommodation
INTENTIONS OF CONFLICTING PARTIES
Competition
• Win – Lose
• Maximum of assertiveness
• Minimum of cooperativeness
• Behavior intended to meet the concerns of others
INTENTIONS OF CONFLICTING PARTIES
Collaboration
• Searching for common ground and a creative
solution
Avoidance
Compromise
• Each giving up a part
• Is a position in which each party to the
conflict both gains and loses.
• It is characterized by moderate cooperation
and moderate assertiveness.
INTENTIONS OF CONFLICTING PARTIES
Accommodation
• Going along
POSITIVE EFFECTS
• Diffuses more serious conflicts
• Stimulates a search for new facts or
resolutions.
• Increases group cohesion and performance
• Demonstrates measure of power or ability
EFFECTS OF CONFLICTS
NEGATIVE EFFECTS
• Hinders smooth working
• Hampers the decision making process
• Causes the formation of competing
coalitions.
• Reduces productivity
TOOLS FOR RESOLVING CONFLICTS
• Win-Win principles
– Separate the people from the problem
– Focus on interests, not positions
– Invent options for mutual gains
– Insist on using objective criteria
• Interpersonal communications
• Active listening skills
• Ask for constructive criticism
• Build trust
• Deal with anger
Separate the people from the
problem
• Deal with a problem AND maintain a good working relationship
• Put yourself in their shoes
• Don’t deduce their intentions from your fears
• Don’t blame them for your problem
• Discuss each other’s perceptions
• Give them a stake in the outcome by making sure they participate
in the process
• Face-saving: make your proposals consistent with their values
• Allow the other side to let off steam
• Don’t react to emotional outbursts
• Speak about yourself, not about them
• Build a working relationship
• Face the problem, not the people
Situation : Positions and Interests
POSITIONS
Brother #1: “I can play it Brother #2: “Stop the
anytime.” music.”
- reducing vagueness,
- minimizing authority- and domain-related disputes,
- improving policies, procedures and rules,
- re-apportioning existing resources or adding new,
- altering communications,
- movement of personnel, and
- changing reward systems.
STRATEGIES FOR MANAGING CONFLICTS
Confrontation techniques
- finding a mutually acceptable and enduring solution
through collaboration and compromise.